hell no, it's disgusting. for me: i don't have kids, i don't bc i value my own space & time too much, but also bc reasons. but i've been called daddy by my ex's kids, looked after them & been in that role. i didn't ever mean to be, but it's fucking precious even if they're exhausting. when that relationship ended i missed them a hell of a lot more than her, which was...
RIght?! Like lady you and your husband decided to have children, I know expecting one and getting must be a bit overwhelming but that was the chance you both took. YOU took not your fucking brother. Imagine hearing about all this shit when you get older that your mum would rather stalk and harass and try to force someone to look after you instead of spending family vacation time with you. I cant imagine them having a good relationship with her unless she massively changes her ways. Which is doubtful with the evidence presented
The only thing though is the fact they are triplets. I know with twins it's extremely difficult, but three is crazy. Add that and they are 1st time parents. Don't get me wrong, what she did was criminalto her brother, but yeah I can see a 1st time mom finding triplets extremely overwhelming not burdensome.
I am absolutely disgusted you made them so take care of them. No one asked you to reproduce lady including those kids. And those babies probably know how their mom views them and that breaks my heart
I’m going to take a shot here at the logic the mom and sister attempt to have and say it’s OP’s fault that they were born and that OP should make it up to them by taking care of the sisters kids without pay
It took me 14 years to learn the anti-narcissistic tactics that this guy has mastered. I almost got sucked into that pathetic sympathy “you’re right” trap with my ex-wife yesterday. Damn sneaky.
I am so happy for you that you managed to figure it out and that you avoided falling into that trap. Old patterns are difficult to break, but it sounds like you are well on your way, and then some, to moving on to healthier people and relationships. Your work is paying off - good for you!
I have a coworker who not only was claiming to be a supervisor (the owner and 2 managers said she's not), but would follow me around and not do her own work just to undo my work and stop other housekeepers from helping me. She'd find something a little dirty anywhere assume "this must have been Chip", hunt me down lecture me through Google Translate (she speaks very little English) and make me follow her and watch me as I cleaned whatever it was. She was only doing that stuff to me and had ramped it up to mimicking the way I hold myself and other mannerisms of mine. Even if everything was perfect she'd belittle me no matter how many people were around. Her behavior became more and more like my abusive ex's and the way my step mom treated me as a teen that I started dreading working and was in a constant state of feeling like I was gonna puke and my heart pounding. At one point I snapped and yelled at her, she told one of the teens that speaks Spanish to tell me she "doesn't fucking care". I went to the main office threw down my headphones and said "call {owner's name}, I'm done with {coworker's} bullshit" and sat in the office raging and sobbing until the owner got there. I bared my soul and the manager filled him in on things that I wasn't willing to say for fear of being put on leave or something (that I was feeling that death would be better than working with her and other stuff like that). Since my hours can't be changed because I carpool in and am working on getting my license the owner agreed to tell that coworker that she wasn't allowed to interact with me unless absolutely necessary. She picked up pretty quickly the change in my demeanor and realized I now knew she had no power over me and after a week of me not doing her demands she finally realized that saying please goes a long way. And that now the others around my age and younger (everyone except 3 house keepers are 15-24 years old, this coworker specifically is 50 and bullying a 22 year old and from what I was told the year before was 49 and bullying a 14 year old) have started staying in my general vicinity when they aren't told to do something else by the owner because they know she won't come near me and will have no choice but to use her manners less get what some of them call the "teacher look" from me (during the school year I'm a preschool teacher). On a lighter note, the younger boys have realized that in situations where I can't tease them by calling then swear word names (areas and times where a guest could hear) I use other words that are much more harmless. One tracked mud across a floor I'd just mopped. When I saw it I followed the footprints and went "you fiend" instead of "you fucker". So now they're trying to figure out where words I'm actually wanted to say and which are just the way that I talk. If we're in a employees only section they know that it's just the way I talk, but it's more complicated outside of those areas.
Always remember that public shame, even if your identity is anonymous on Reddit, is always an excellent weapon against the narcissistic, the entitled, and the Karens. I have heard stories of so many of them getting wrecked by publicly shaming them, it’s so satisfying at it really hits them where it hurts: their image.
Even more, they recognize that is it them what the person is talking which says a lot considering no name of any kind. Meaning they know what they did lol
@@nicolelawrence7722Exactly the same as the abusive partner isolates the victim from family to deprive them of support, the abuser can't stand that their victim is getting support from social media users. The first step to losing control over your victim is for them to realize they're a victim.
Well said. It is so true, this type of person is so completely invested in their image that even anonymous postings infuriate them. If only they would spend more time on how they ARE as people instead of how they look as people...
So glad someone else picked up on that. Clearly, OP's mom does more than just enable her daughter. She's led by example. Maybe her methods are a little softer, but clearly they're still there. Disgusting. Some people don't deserve to be parents.
It's so funny that the sister complained that her vacation was just like every other day because she still had to wrangle her kids. Does she normally have hours to stalk every hotel floor to hunt for her brother?
Karen! One major thing to remember with them is when you discover "they have ALL the time in the world!" yet they go insane and have a meltdown when their made to wait for 0.1 seconds, and usually (if not ALWAYS) they had nothing better to do at all! They just bitch, moan, start drama and complain BECAUSE of not having anything to do! Their Bored so "Dance for me MONKEY!" Always funny when their antics "give them something to do!" (Usually a BRAND NEW INJURY and CHIPPED/BROKEN Tooth/TEETH to deal with, or jail time and getting sued) that they start "begging for the BOREDOM again!"
Story 1: Imagine complaining that you have to look after your own kids. Like b*tch, they are your KIDS. If anything, she was the one TRYING to ruin the vacation.
I feel quite often for some reason people just make kids for the sake of it despite not being ready or willing to take care of them. No one made her have 3 kids if she can't handle it yet she did it anyway.
This is my brother in the nutshell. Have three kids and most of time the oldest is down at my house because he said he wants his peace. Keep in mind he is 8! His siblings are a terror at times. His sister acts like a diva at times and his brother is basically the golden child, can’t be punished for his actions and the mother and father (brother) lets him do whatever he wants (I forgot the name of this meaning). My ONLY saving grace is that I leave for the weekend or that the kids get bored and go home because mom(my mother lives with me) doesn’t say no to them
Society pressures people to procreate then has zero assistance for them. 50-60 years ago parents had more, cheaper options. Now everyone lives alone, the streets aren't safe and daycare is super expensive. Sucks, but no one forced them to birth their hellspawn.
a friend of mine has quintuplets. well, he says it's exhausting - as any parent does - but notes that having that many means some economy of scale & every parent i know has looked absolutely shattered-tired for YEARS after they were born, but him & his wife? well, they only went through the hellscape of having babies *once*, those families with a few born a couple of years apart go through it for a fekkin decade. i think everyone has a right to bitch & whine about *whatever*, - just don't try to force anyone else to carry your load & you're fine, imo.
I think this is only the second time that I’ve seen r/Slash post an episode in which the update to a story takes up the entire video. The first one I remember was the story where OP’s younger brother and sister in law try to take his hard earned house.
@@charlessugg6102definitely third. You're forgetting the mom whose suing her daughter in law and son for grandparents rights because thry cut her off from her grandson for being a huge pain in the butt
IMO, doing "Mum, Sis wants you to watch the kids; she says she'll be back in a mo" a few times would quickly teach mum not to give a stink eye to her son when he refuses.
This! I kept thinking that if OP's mother thinks it's sooooo important for sister to get a break then let OP's mother take over the babysitting duties.
Mom: "Hell no! Son, don't you realize? She ain't never planning to come back!" OP: Just kinda looks at her like he's on the office. Mom: "Oh... it hits so different when it happens to you..."
Yeah, the parents are only turning on the sister now because they know she's gonna force the constant unpaid babysitting duties on them next. I doubt they're really that sorry about how OP gets treated. They were still hoping to guilt OP into doing it just to shut the sister up even after he clearly stated and enforced his boundaries, but he still didn't fold. I feel sorry for those kids with a mom like that. And I don't see her husband staying with her much longer since she still acts like this. I hope he gets out and takes the kids. I don't understand why it's so damn hard to just hire a babysitter when you need a break, that's what the rest of the world does!!
Note: There was one more update where sis and mom tried to get OP to delete the Reddit posts...and he talks directly to the family this time to STOP PUSHING THIS. Then he appends it by saying she's getting counseling and that one of the reasons why she's a b-- to him is that she liked being an only child (they're 10 years apart in age). She agreed to get counseling, he agreed to keep his distance until Thanksgiving, and she got a babysitter. And...OP even got a girlfriend out of the deal.
Wait... how does one get a girlfriend out of this deal? Confused... but also happy for OP! He done good, and here's hoping it only gets better for him!
yeah, I am really interested in how do you get a GF out of your narcissist manipulative sister finally getting counseling? I am asking for, uhm, a friend, yeah.
Well... If OP did marry the babysitter, his sister would still gonna pay her UPFRONT for the babysitting if sister still wants the babysitting services. Just like OP, his services AREN'T FREE either.
fully this. place i worked at had a daycare service, the nanny would come along at breakfast time & look after the kids while the parents went out for the day. well, one week we had an absolute shitshow of a kid in, tiny little dictator, flew into tears at the slightest opposition to his petty demands, all that good stuff. the mother just gave him whatever he demanded, the father just looked the other way... well shit what a surprise, parents who refuse to *parent* have a shitty kid. well, first day with the nanny that kid goes upto the nanny & demands cake as a snack. nanny says 'no' kid flies into a tantrum of tears. nanny just flat-out says 'that won't work on me'... kid instantly drops the tantrum & plays nicely with the other kids for the rest of his time with nanny. when mom gets home? instant tantrum demanding cake. gets it.
@@sjs9698 These are the parents creating the entitled shits that end up on reddit, refusing to do the work so society has to smack them back into acting right. Try crying hysterically and demanding to get out of shit at work all the time and your ass is fired,
@@sjs9698 My mother used to watch my nephews when they were younger and the same thing would happen. They'd try to act up around my mom, she'd check them and they'd be perfectly behaved, then as soon as their mom came home they'd be right back to acting like fools. Some parents just enable that kind of behavior.
No, I bet they're not out of control. They're probably sweet kids. Someone is just hissy that she's now forced to grow up and be a proper mother to her children.
@@kurisueruAnd then they wonder why their children are in so much trouble later on. Lazy parents or enabling parents who refuse to parent their children are setting them up for failure. Seriously why would you have children when you know you can't handle it? ಠ︵ಠ
He's suspiciously absent in this whole story other than berating his wife... but I guess SOMEONE has to watch the kids while she spent hours stalking her brother to find his room, so if that's how she chose to spend her childfree time, that's on her.
@@suitovhe's not really absent. He was working hard and thought the brother was being payed to watch the kids. He had no idea what his wife was doing. Now that he knows he's been checking her, when he's been made aware of it happening.
Something tells me that if her behavior continues......he won't be for long. I feel bad for him and the kids. The kids for being labeled as a burden and the husband for dealing with such a narcissistic and terrible woman.
Honestly this is why I don't understand people having kids if they're going to behave like this. You set out plans to do things, and if the kids get bored, you provide them entertainment like a colouring book. Hell, when I was a kid we'd have holidays with family friends or my godparents, who also had kids, and nine times out of ten they didn't care if I toddled off to see the family friends or my godparents. I found my own things to do. If you want a vacation without your kids, get a babysitter, christ.
Because kids gives you social credibility, now she isn’t just an entitled person, she’s a mom! Therefore on her head she has both access to special parent privileges and kids she can control and brag about, or like in that case, let lose while she enjoys the concept of motherhood while someone else does the job
@@crizmeow8394 I think in some cases, it's also a control thing. When you have a kid, you have this little person you can (theoretically) control and force to do your bidding. Of course, the reality is that you CAN'T control kids, not completely. Yes, when they're very young, there's a little bit more control, but once they hit pre-teen and teen years, they're no longer completely helpless, they can think and act for themselves. I mean, I'm probably preaching to the choir here. Point is, I think OP's sister just like the idea of having control.
@@giggle_snort That explains why she fell to pieces. It was due to all that power and control she's apparently so addicted to being taken away from her.
That's what bullies do dude. They're obsessed with their victims. In this case, OP's sister is obsessed with getting her brother to do things she doesn't want to do, which is watch the kids and be a parent. And she's angry her victim isn't playing her song and dance anymore, so she's going to "force" him to be the puppet she had been playing with for years. And it's not working.
@@sxatcychan1988 Not the sister's room. The police, since out in the hallway is a public space and you have no clue who else is in the hallway. Might be child abandonment.
When the sister says " I don't trust anyone else to babysit " what she really meant is "everyone else would want to get paid upfront only op was a sucker enough to take my BS for a while "..
Exactly, what does she think removing it is going to do? Does she think Chris Chan can decide "I'm tired of being made fun of on the internet for now." and just delete the original comics? Are they even still up? I don't think anyone knows or particularly cares.
Exactly. There is no removing something once it's gone viral. That shit is EVERYWHERE. And in this case, it's a wonderful thing, because it's exposing a narcissist. 😆
I'm a parent. I hang out and play with my kids because I LIKE them and I ENJOY being with them. I work from home and spend a ton of time with them. Those poor kids with a mom who wants nothing more than to get rid of them...
imagine learning of all this when you're older, I can't imagine they'll have a great relationship to mum and shes gonna be pissed but its her own damn fault
Yeah, like no-one held her at gunpoint and told her to have kids. She could’ve been child free if that’s what she wanted. I don’t get what her deal is.
Totally agree! I would give/do anything to have kids to hang out with and play with but unfortunately life circumstances had other ideas (I have disabilities that make it impossible to get and/or keep a job and I’m on permanent disability and I don’t have kids because I put off having them thinking that it was not right to bring children into the world until I had stable income source to provide for them and now it’s too late both because I’m 45 and still not in a position (financial, and otherwise) to have kids - and even if I could find a way to me in that position by the time it would happen I would be too old since I already feel too old already. This woman does not know how lucky she is to have kids (and triplets to boot!) to hang out with and play with. I would give my right arm to be in her position - some thing which she just so casually throws away every chance she gets! It’s just not fair that so many people who don’t want, or deserve to be parents get to have kids they ignore, abuse and neglect and I would give anything to have kids but because of my disabilities, I have not been able to have them and will never be able to have them!
RSlash: 'Then OP posted an update...' Me: *rubs hands in glee* Sounds like OP's sister had got away with her BS for a long time, but now that's all falling down and she can't stand it. She sounds like a true narcissist, but it seems unlikely her behaviour's going to change at all.
My sister in law has been going through something similar for years. She's the middle of three girls. The older sister used to force the youngest to babysit her kids all the time until the youngest got married and moved out of state to get away from it. Once that free babysitter was gone she started demanding the middle sister (my sister in law) do the babysitting, despite her living 20 minutes away and having a family of her own. She doesn't pay her anything for doing it, doesn't give her gas money for traveling, and throws a huge fit whenever she can't babysit for her.
Oh geez, that fake , "you're right!" apology from the mother reminds of my own making the most fake apology I've ever heard a couple weeks ago. Like sure, you haven't cared and just acted like nothing wrong happened for my ENTIRE life and every other time things got brought up, as recently as two months ago, and all of a sudden you're just soooo sorry, the most extreme over the top form of sorry, even after trying to act that way again a minute earlier.... suuurreee
Op need to ignore his mom and sister until they ACTUALLY CHANGE. The repeated guilt tripping, pushing and passing boundaries even when they know how he feels she's a terrible mom to op and his sister sucks as a sibling and a adult. Seem like the apple didn't fall to far from the tree when it comes to the mom and sister at least the dad is somewhat doing better then the rest and the brother in law was oblivious to everything happening!
@@dimsufferer9951 idk where this story takes place but isn't that a pretty common thing, for the grandparents to play with the kids to give the parents a break, it's such a win-win that my own parents kept hassling me to have kids just so they could do it - eventually they found a nice young couple with kids to be friends with & got to babysit *their* kids... they seemed pretty happy abouyt it.
It's hard being a mom, period. A mom of triplets is something I can't even imagine. She DOES deserve a break. But using a sibling for free babysitting isn't the way.
she did get breaks by using her brother as free labour every vacation (maybe more in other situations) but op got tired of the abuse of babysitting she doing to him so maybe she should use her money to buy a babysitter. Being a tired mom doesn't excuse her behavior tbh :/
My sister has triplets, and they're neither the oldest nor the youngest of her kids. She has 8 total. But she has NEVER tried to pull shit like this. Not once.
I want to know where her husband and parents were during all this. You would think that with 5 adults on the vacation they could give her the occasional hand or even complete break from childcare without it being too much of a hardship on any one person. Isn't that what family does?
Story 1: That's shameful that the parents was so embarrassed that they didn't care about their son feelings or his free time. Someone needs to remind op sister that if you have kids you are expected to take care of your kids not dump them onto others if you have kids handle the responsibility of having kids that you wanted!! Also if she really doesn't trust strangers that's understandable but do not force someone to take care of YOUR KIDS. Op sister is ashamed because she's getting criticized correctly by probably children and other adults. STOP BABYING YOUR GROWN ASS KIDS.
I try to figure out the why in these stories so why did the parents support the sister for so long. 1 She was a bit of the "Golden Child" spoiled so what she wanted must be done. Spoiled such that despite her husband giving her money for OP to babysit she felt it acceptable to keep it for herself. I think the parents also never quite saw OP as a grown ass man, he was still the little boy who was too young to go off on his own during vacations.
I remember this whole story with all the updates. I still laugh at how horrible, selfish this sister and parents are and were.. Tell the sister to stop reading them then! She's the one that keeps coming back to read them so she's punishing herself. Nobody knows who they are, grow up... The sister is pitiful and entitled.. This entire family is just so ridiculous.. The women in this family are just insane!
Ask the Sister how she knows it's about her, what's wrong about it if she doesn't agree with the verdict, and maybe even ask her to make a counter-AITA to see if anyone can be persuaded to take her side.
@@RRW359 She and the parents already validated BUT, more important, her HUSBAND who didn't get involved, got involved finally.. He was on OP side, angry etc..
Any chance you know which video had this original story in it? Or even roughly how long ago it was posted? Our man, rSlash, forgot to put it in the description lol 😅
now we can see why the sister acts the way she does. the mother basically groomed that behavior into her. yeah the sister is an awful sister and mother but it looks like ops mother is just as bad and it makes me curious if she tried doing the same things to others that the sister was doing to op since this story basically shows the sister was taught to be this way
Its always wild to me when narcissistic people "ruin" something via their own actions and then cry and blame the person they hurt for "ruining" something. Like my sister blamed me for "ruining Christmas" after she caused me to have a panic attack where I responded by removing myself from the situation to calm down. She decided to follow me to continue yelling at me and berating me then had the audacity to blame me for it. Thankfully my parents understand that shes a garbage person who actually ruins things for everyone but I had to go very low/ no contact with her because a) she's exhausting to be around and b) I hate the fact that I'd have to have like a "debrief" with my parents on the ride home discussing how cruel she is and how her actions aren't ok. I don't like talking negatively about someone behind their back unless its necessary (like for emotional support and stuff) so, while it was hard to do because I want to believe that she can be better, I really can't keep her in my life. Tbh if it were me in this story I'd go low/ no contact with the sister and mother unless they showed that they were actively taking steps to correct their behaviour, which it doesn't necessarily seem like they're doing. They shouldn't need to be constantly reminded of your boundaries, reminded not to cross them and you shouldn't need to go to such excessive (imo) lengths to ensure they don't/ can't cross them. Putting your own happiness and mental wellbeing first and setting boundaries isn't an inherently selfish thing to do and doesn't make you a bad person. While there can be exceptions, people who reinforce the idea that having boundaries is selfish are usually benefitting from you not having them. (Also sorry for the rant, my best friend also messaged me for support this morning as she's going through a similar situation with a really shit, pathetic excuse of a father and I'm still really mad and upset about how he treats her because she's an awesome person that doesn't deserve to be treated like she has been)
Jesus the sister AND the mom constantly throwing tantrums and pity parties bc they cant dump all their problems on their youngest family member anymore is insane, anyone else woulda cut them out years ago Props to OP for not only holding out for so long just talking to them but also for being able to vacation with them without going absolutley insane from the constant manipulation tactics. Also those two poor poor husbands who have to deal with them
If it makes your sister feel better it doesn't matter if you take down the post now. This is like the 3rd channel that I heard read this story, she should be happy no one knows who she is. Now she can start getting over it. As for all the updates the fact you had to do all of that and your sister and mom still tried to force you to be a babysitter isn't great but it sounds like you had fun, and more importantly you should all of them that you weren't taking taking anyone's shit.
I can't express enough how much I hate manipulators and their enablers. Crying because you can't exploit someone for free labor, who you basically stole from by denying them the money that was offered as payment for their work by your partner, so that you can guilt trip them into working for you is evil. Feeling bad for that kind of manipulative person, then crying yourself to guilt trip your son into doing free labor for them, rather than DOING IT YOURSELF, is almost worse. I'm not going to lie, I'd be pretty close to going no-contact with this family if I was OP.
ONE MORE UPDATE (well actually 2): OP's mom and sister saw the last update and blew up. Sis called and yelled at him to take it down - cuz the comments state she's a bad mother. OP said no and told her to grow up, get therapy, and that she was a bad mother. THEN, OP's mom came to his house demanding he take the posts down, he yelled at her too and pretty much stated the same points (enabling sis, all true, and things ain't gonna be the same as before). Mother ran crying and parents called sister to stop blaming OP and leave him alone. Sis pulled a "whoa is me" and "no one love me" which they shut down. OP and parents had a long talk and he's keeping his distance until Thanksgiving (I wanna know how THAT went 😅). Then OP and BIL had a talk where he told OP that gave his Sis an ultimatum. Couselling or divorce/separation. She chose counseling. BIL said that he didn't like OP, but took some of the blame for not stopping his sis before things escalated. Lastly, OP got a girlfriend due to his posts. 😊
I have young nieces and nephews. So young they can't be left unsupervised for five minutes. Whenever the family gets together all adults (their parents, my parents and I) plus my tween keep an eye on the kiddos - but if the parents need to step away (like getting the youngest to sleep) they always ASK if the rest of us are OK with looking after the others. I have no problem supervising bathtime or whatever else is needed when it's not taken for granted.
First Story: That update to the story is so safisfying. Its crazy how it took Reddit for the parents to see the error of their ways and decided to take OP's side. Update1: OP's BIL is great for making things right to OP by making his wife pay OP for all the free babysitting and forced her to apologize. OP's sister honestly can’t be reasoned with or redeemed, especially after she double downed on her entitlement Update 2: OP's sister shouldn’t have kids if she intended to pawn them off at any chance she gets. OP's mother is still being a terrible mother by continuously enabling OP's sister's behavior
@@supervegito2277 I don't think that matters too much since given her behavior she would've still done it if it was an only child. When you have kids you take responsibility for everything that happens, including unexpected multiples.
I really don't think they truly saw the error of their ways as much as they realized sister was going to force them to be her babysitters next since OP wouldn't do it!
OP, on the next vacation, if your sister tries pulling her shtick, get yourself a bag of garlic and tell her it will protect you from bloodsucking parasites. She'll get the point.
The sister asking the brother to babysit wasn't about money, not trusting anyone, or being tired of her family. It was all about control and the inability to drop it, and obsession about it proves it to me.
I said this countless times to people: Not everyone is fit to be a parent. Like jeesus christ, there are so many options and ways of birth control, and then when they do have kids, they do not raise them, nor care properly for them. Coming down from the trees was a mistake. Even getting outta the ocean was one big mistake, too. Pathetic
To the OP whose sister keeps wanting a free sitter for her 3 kids and keeps complaining that she "needs a break". Hey sister, YOU are the kids mother and you'll be responsible for them for 18+ years. If you weren't ready for that you shouldn't have had kids. Bottom line, period, end of story.
"Scour the entire internet clean of this story!!!" Yeah, that's easier than just not looking at OP's reddit account. I'm surprised she hasn't been on it to yell at every single commenter.
Good on OP for standing up. i say this as an old guy who was the parent at home for my boys. Can it be hard? Yes. Did their mum see them as an inconvenience? Yes. But I was young and full of energy, so did the summer trips to visit my parents with the three kids (about 8 hours counting BC Ferries and stops including letting the kids swim at Bromley Rock) while their mum "had a break" from me being the primary care giver. No regrets ever and I never felt stuck. But one nice thing her three siblings did was each took a child for a weekend and the two of us got a hotel room and had a child free two days relaxing and doing couple stuff. Wasn't our idea but it was an appreciated one-time gift. Having a child or more is an incredible gift and an equally incredible responsibility and I can't imagine just fobbing them off to someone else for convenience. Kids ARE inconvenient and if you deal with that reality you may raise fine adults.
Next time she asks OP to babysit, he should agree, only if the BIL pays him upfront first. Then teach the kids all kinds of new things he knows will annoy her. Buy them all super soakers and have them open fire on mommy as soon as she walks in the door. Buy them cheap, noisy toys. If she thought she was tired before, wait until they come back from OP's.
My sister in law stole my pets and when I wanted them back, she threw a fit and threatened my animals' safety. She also called up her brother (my husband) to whine about me. Very entitled. Very cruel. One of my pets did not make it, but I got the rest back. I posted about this online, and named her by her first name only (as it was a post where I was warning the local community about her and to message me if they had any information about my pet), and she threatened me again with legal action which was just a bluff. She also accused me of just wanting her brother for money, and that "eventually my brother will see just how horrible you really are". During the whole thing, I had also called every animal shelter in the state that I could find to report her and what she'd done, and for the shelters to be aware of it in case she tried bringing my animals there to dump them (another thing she had threatened to do). My husband had to threaten to cut off all contact with her if she didn't give back our animals after the one died. She did, after months. Anyway, her brother and I have been married nearly 10 years and we're very happy. She must have gotten over herself because she at least tolerates me now at family functions, barely making eye contact. We pretend we don't exist, and I'm fine not speaking to her... I mean she only led to one of the more serious depressive episodes I've had in my life, plus a suicide attempt... I love my animals, and it was torture not knowing what was happening to them, especially the one that didn't make it. I really wish I'd gotten justice for my animals but, hey, I know one day the subject will come up in eternity. Oh, and, well... she did kind of lose any future privileges of being allowed anywhere near our pets, and she will be heavily supervised around our future kids.
Omg I'm so sorry you went through that and sadly lost one of your pets as a result of it 😢 I'd have got the police involved and got her arrested after all she stole them in the first place !!
The sister is the type of woman any man dreads marrying. She's a stay at home mom, doesn't have to work and complains about her own kids. Parents that don't take care of their own kids and just push them on others are the worst
A while back, I saw one of the newer updates where OP was talking about how his sister was melting down because she kept looking for OP's posts and reading the comments. I made a comment directed at her saying she needs to get off Reddit and seek help for herself, and that before she turns her nose up saying "Why should I listen to you?" to keep in mind that if she's invested enough in the posts and comments to get mad, then she can care enough to listen to anyone telling her to seek help. Which... Yeah, I still hope she does. Like, I LOATHE her behavior, and absolutely nothing excuses it. It must be so exhausting, obsessing over getting your brother to watch your kids. But she needs to get help, and the sooner she does, the sooner everyone will be a lot happier.
"How DARE you make me look after the kids I chose to have!? I need a break!!1" Welcome to the reality of being a parent. And, damn! I was hoping that once they saw people's reactions on the web, the parents would've stayed on OP's side. But nope, complete system reboot and it's the same crying and guilt-tripping again. You're grown ups! Act like it!
I absolutely feel sorry for those kids. The mother is trying to pawn them off to someone to parent so she can rest, or she complains how tired she is. If you can’t parent your kids ever, why did you have them in the first place? You’re the one responsible for the intimacy that lead to them coming into existence, they do not deserve a mother who is so willingly pawn them off onto others and complain about having to parent… it’s really sad. Those kids deserve better
I’m a bit concerned. I feel for a mom of triplets, that’s not easy. I’m worried about why she needs to ask her sibling to watch them on a vacation when she’s also traveling with her husband, aka the father of said triplets. Why can’t he watch them? If he leaves all the parenting to her, I would totally understand the mental anguish of caring for triplets 24/7 without a moment to yourself.
Having the free time to hunt down OP, but whine that it's like being at home still, LMFAO The lying to the husband about paying OP... Yeah... I would be on the verge of divorce due to the breach of trust alone.
Op- if i dont update you guys after this it means everything is fine Me- 5:17 / 16:20 minutes into the video Also me: *sooo… it is not, in fact, fine* 💁♀️💥
Doubt that it'll be enough to warrant another rslash video, but I found out recently there was one final update after this story: The sister saw that OP had posted about the vacation and had a meltdown that it made her look bad. OP asked her to highlight one thing about the story that was untrue. She couldn't. The mother and the sister turned up at OP's door ordering him to take down the posts. OP didn't. The parents eventually told sister to grow up and stop blaming OP before suggesting she get counseling. The parents later had a talk with OP and apologized, and OP said he'd be keeping his distance until Thanksgiving. The brother-in-law admitted he was a little annoyed with OP, but he was pushing for his wife to go to counseling or he would separate from her, so she reluctantly agreed.
You decided to have kids you can take care of them, you could have got a babysitter but you wanted to spend the money on yourself. Seems more like her kids are a burden than anything else.
As a responce to your last quip on this story; The sister cant enjoy her vacation with her family, because she clearly doesnt enjoy her family in the first place.
Call the brother in law. "Hey, your wife just dumped your kids on my door to try and make me babysit." She'll get in trouble, again, by the sounds of it.
This is just a saga of how too many entitled parents expect it to be everyone else's problem that they popped out crotch goblins. That "it takes a village to raise a child", they suddenly think that it means everyone in close vicinity magically becomes that village despite the parents not doing anything to build up that village Sister is a prime example of someone who regrets having kids and pawns them off to others at every opportunity imagineable
Am I the only 1 that would start to look for a divorce lawyer?? Like she OBVIOUSLY doesn't wanna watch her OWN children. So what kind of mother is that? I would file for full custody and move away immediately
I find it odd that the sister never bothered to find a babysitter or learned or bothered to parent, she sounds like my friends former SiL who dumped her 2 year old and new born on others so she can go party like she was in high school and slept around, then basically drained the accounts of her husbands family and skipped town with her new boy toy in her husbands new car, when they tried to sell it to a used lot in pensacola it was flagged “ stolen “ When police arrested them near the Florida boarder she ran but was caught and taken back She lied n blamed everything on the boyfriend who was singing like a canary to the cops about her plans
Dude, just stop going on these family vacations. This does not sound fun at all. Let them go without you, tell them you'll see them at Christmas or whatever and go do your own thing.
I already enjoy waiting for Rslash in the morning but I'm going to get a hysterectomy next Friday so your videos will help me feel better even more thank you
I can say from prior experiences that listening to your favorite RUclipsrs in the hospital makes the day go by faster! Don’t forget to take earplugs, an eye mask and baby wipes (some hospitals provide these). Hope your surgery goes well and your recovery is swift!
@@lilydr9364 just to use earbuds or headphones when watching your videos. That’ll help whether your roommate likes to watch TV loudly or whether they’re the type to complain about every little noise! Otherwise, you got this! Good luck!
My aunt is a stay at home mom with three kids all 1 year apart. She’s never asked someone else to take responsibility of her kids. Why? Because they’re her fucking kids. And because of that, our family gets along and we all help when we can. Amazing how far you get when you aren’t selfish
Oh fuck yes. This is the sort of karma delivery I needed this morning. Also disgusting behaviour from the mother clearly shows where the sister got her attitude from. Also, if strangers are so scary, she should interview for and hire a nanny. A live in one if she really needs.
The thing I don't get about parents like these is... Why did you even have kids in the first place? If you need a break/vacation from your kids, that's all well and good. You hire a babysitter and you leave. If you take your kids on a family vacation then you need to *be with your kids*. A family vacation is NOT a time for you, it's a time FOR THE KIDS and to be pawned off first chance effects kids, let me tell you. They know. They fucking know they're being pawned off every available chance. If children are involved in a family vacation, your job as a parent is to be the one watching your kids. YES,someone else can keep an eye on them while you go grab something (a snack, beer, souvenir, tickets, whatever) *but then you come right back*. They are YOUR kids. YOU chose to have them, no one else made that choice for you. Either PAY someone to watch them or suck it the fuck up, that's what parenting IS. If you aren't ready to literally give up your life and dedicate nearly every waking moment to your kids care and fun, then you flat out aren't ready for kids.
Only thing I would have done different than OP would have been to watch the kids for ONE afternoon so Sis and BIL could chill. Other than that, totally justified. When I heard that Sis had been pocketing OP's babysitting money, I was floored. Who even does that to family? EDIT: I had kind of the opposite thing happen. My aunt (Mom's baby sister, a late surprise for my grandfolks) used to babysit me when I was little. She was like a big sister to me. It wasn't until I was an adult that I found out she'd been charging Mom for babysitting. Mom and I were barely scraping by.
You can’t pour from an empty well. This mother is clearly at a breaking point. Dangerous shit can happen if you push someone beyond their limit. She obviously needs a break. Maybe the husband can watch the kids. They are his after all. Or maybe the grandparents. Or maybe they pay for a babysitter. Because if she’s this desperate, there might be a terrible consequence if she DOESN’T get a break.
No one is pushing her, but herself! Her husband is working full time, to let het be a stay at home mom, and even literally gives her money to pay OP for Babysitting! But that deadbeat asshole is just pocketing the babysitter money for herself, and is then trying to manipulate OP into doing it for free! The mother is the deadbeat in this story! The Father is a great men, and is doing enough!
Story : time for op to go NC with his piece of garbage of a sister... no sympathy towards the "parents " either specially op "mom".. Updates : obvious that the sister got her entitlement from the "mom".. what a bunch of grunts.. Update : The "mother" and "sister" are such losers ..op needs to reduce contact with them as much as possible or they will continue to try to dump the kids on op.. hey op "sister" you made the kids theyre your responsibility not op responsibility you "dont get a break " from parenting ..
Good on OP for finally standing up for himself!! His family sounds exhausting af and the sister sounds like she should've stayed childless but did it out of societal force or sth.
@@thetruth1816 I have my doubts, he doesn’t even hold his wife accountable for any and all actions. I’m sure he’s sick of the drama that she adds to the family constantly.
If you don't want to look after your kids then don't have kids. I can't understand her obsession over op watching her kids. Her parents were watching her kids and she got free time but she wasted that free time searching for OP's room instead of doing something fun with her husband. My god get a life lady.
@@ShadowReignhart I mean a subreddit dedicated to stuff that makes you feel good (if your normal), no revenge, no nothing. Think r/mademesmile or r/humansbeingbros. Something like that
1st story: Tell me a family have a favorite,without telling me the family have a favorite. I am glad OP is doing better now, because man, they sound like a toxic wasteland. Poor BIL, lad married a neglectful snake, a MIL that is also a snake, and a FIL that have less balls than a cube.
Am I the only one who's upset at how much this woman views her children as a burden?
hell no, it's disgusting.
for me: i don't have kids, i don't bc i value my own space & time too much, but also bc reasons. but i've been called daddy by my ex's kids, looked after them & been in that role. i didn't ever mean to be, but it's fucking precious even if they're exhausting. when that relationship ended i missed them a hell of a lot more than her, which was...
I'm with you - this one hurt my deepest spirit.
I feel so badly for those kids.
RIght?! Like lady you and your husband decided to have children, I know expecting one and getting must be a bit overwhelming but that was the chance you both took. YOU took not your fucking brother. Imagine hearing about all this shit when you get older that your mum would rather stalk and harass and try to force someone to look after you instead of spending family vacation time with you. I cant imagine them having a good relationship with her unless she massively changes her ways. Which is doubtful with the evidence presented
The only thing though is the fact they are triplets. I know with twins it's extremely difficult, but three is crazy. Add that and they are 1st time parents. Don't get me wrong, what she did was criminalto her brother, but yeah I can see a 1st time mom finding triplets extremely overwhelming not burdensome.
I am absolutely disgusted you made them so take care of them. No one asked you to reproduce lady including those kids. And those babies probably know how their mom views them and that breaks my heart
So, she was "tired", yet she had the time to spend hours stalking the hotel to find her brother's room. Nuts.
Entitlement is very strong with this one. 🙄
I’m sure when she said that she was tired of her husband and kids
How is it OP's fault that the sister decided to have kids? I'll never understand this mindset.
Because 'FFAAAaammmiilllLLLY' and 'OP SHOULD HELP: blah blah
*smacks OP's sister upside the head* This bitch can fit so much mental gymnastics in her argument!
I’m going to take a shot here at the logic the mom and sister attempt to have and say it’s OP’s fault that they were born and that OP should make it up to them by taking care of the sisters kids without pay
And why does she see her own children as such a burden, particularly when she has such a privileged life.
I'd rather not have a life than be a parasite like OP's sister.
It took me 14 years to learn the anti-narcissistic tactics that this guy has mastered. I almost got sucked into that pathetic sympathy “you’re right” trap with my ex-wife yesterday. Damn sneaky.
I am so happy for you that you managed to figure it out and that you avoided falling into that trap.
Old patterns are difficult to break, but it sounds like you are well on your way, and then some, to moving on to healthier people and relationships. Your work is paying off - good for you!
I have a coworker who not only was claiming to be a supervisor (the owner and 2 managers said she's not), but would follow me around and not do her own work just to undo my work and stop other housekeepers from helping me. She'd find something a little dirty anywhere assume "this must have been Chip", hunt me down lecture me through Google Translate (she speaks very little English) and make me follow her and watch me as I cleaned whatever it was. She was only doing that stuff to me and had ramped it up to mimicking the way I hold myself and other mannerisms of mine. Even if everything was perfect she'd belittle me no matter how many people were around. Her behavior became more and more like my abusive ex's and the way my step mom treated me as a teen that I started dreading working and was in a constant state of feeling like I was gonna puke and my heart pounding. At one point I snapped and yelled at her, she told one of the teens that speaks Spanish to tell me she "doesn't fucking care". I went to the main office threw down my headphones and said "call {owner's name}, I'm done with {coworker's} bullshit" and sat in the office raging and sobbing until the owner got there. I bared my soul and the manager filled him in on things that I wasn't willing to say for fear of being put on leave or something (that I was feeling that death would be better than working with her and other stuff like that). Since my hours can't be changed because I carpool in and am working on getting my license the owner agreed to tell that coworker that she wasn't allowed to interact with me unless absolutely necessary.
She picked up pretty quickly the change in my demeanor and realized I now knew she had no power over me and after a week of me not doing her demands she finally realized that saying please goes a long way. And that now the others around my age and younger (everyone except 3 house keepers are 15-24 years old, this coworker specifically is 50 and bullying a 22 year old and from what I was told the year before was 49 and bullying a 14 year old) have started staying in my general vicinity when they aren't told to do something else by the owner because they know she won't come near me and will have no choice but to use her manners less get what some of them call the "teacher look" from me (during the school year I'm a preschool teacher).
On a lighter note, the younger boys have realized that in situations where I can't tease them by calling then swear word names (areas and times where a guest could hear) I use other words that are much more harmless. One tracked mud across a floor I'd just mopped. When I saw it I followed the footprints and went "you fiend" instead of "you fucker". So now they're trying to figure out where words I'm actually wanted to say and which are just the way that I talk. If we're in a employees only section they know that it's just the way I talk, but it's more complicated outside of those areas.
when your an adult and have your own life, those will act as shields against their narcissistic behavior.
Always remember that public shame, even if your identity is anonymous on Reddit, is always an excellent weapon against the narcissistic, the entitled, and the Karens. I have heard stories of so many of them getting wrecked by publicly shaming them, it’s so satisfying at it really hits them where it hurts: their image.
I'm still amazed and throughly entertained that even when no one knows where they are or who they are the freak out is just as big.
Even more, they recognize that is it them what the person is talking which says a lot considering no name of any kind. Meaning they know what they did lol
Never been a greater drvg for me than entitled people getting their egos checked and destroyed by the mob.
@@nicolelawrence7722Exactly the same as the abusive partner isolates the victim from family to deprive them of support, the abuser can't stand that their victim is getting support from social media users. The first step to losing control over your victim is for them to realize they're a victim.
Well said. It is so true, this type of person is so completely invested in their image that even anonymous postings infuriate them.
If only they would spend more time on how they ARE as people instead of how they look as people...
Dear Lord, this woman is relentless! And she learned all her manipulation tactics from the mother. SMH
Yeah, that was one of the first things I caught....it was completely learned from the mom. Fucking disgusting.
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Just imagine how she is going to treat her kids as they get older... poor things.
So glad someone else picked up on that. Clearly, OP's mom does more than just enable her daughter. She's led by example. Maybe her methods are a little softer, but clearly they're still there. Disgusting. Some people don't deserve to be parents.
It's so funny that the sister complained that her vacation was just like every other day because she still had to wrangle her kids. Does she normally have hours to stalk every hotel floor to hunt for her brother?
I bet, when the kids are in daycare or school.
all that time stalking couldve been spent taking a break from her kids. blinded by rage and wasted her own vacation
@@F3ARtheGERBIL yep, that's what I thought there
Probably
Karen! One major thing to remember with them is when you discover "they have ALL the time in the world!" yet they go insane and have a meltdown when their made to wait for 0.1 seconds, and usually (if not ALWAYS) they had nothing better to do at all! They just bitch, moan, start drama and complain BECAUSE of not having anything to do!
Their Bored so "Dance for me MONKEY!" Always funny when their antics "give them something to do!" (Usually a BRAND NEW INJURY and CHIPPED/BROKEN Tooth/TEETH to deal with, or jail time and getting sued) that they start "begging for the BOREDOM again!"
Story 1: Imagine complaining that you have to look after your own kids. Like b*tch, they are your KIDS. If anything, she was the one TRYING to ruin the vacation.
I feel quite often for some reason people just make kids for the sake of it despite not being ready or willing to take care of them. No one made her have 3 kids if she can't handle it yet she did it anyway.
This is my brother in the nutshell. Have three kids and most of time the oldest is down at my house because he said he wants his peace. Keep in mind he is 8! His siblings are a terror at times. His sister acts like a diva at times and his brother is basically the golden child, can’t be punished for his actions and the mother and father (brother) lets him do whatever he wants (I forgot the name of this meaning). My ONLY saving grace is that I leave for the weekend or that the kids get bored and go home because mom(my mother lives with me) doesn’t say no to them
Society pressures people to procreate then has zero assistance for them. 50-60 years ago parents had more, cheaper options. Now everyone lives alone, the streets aren't safe and daycare is super expensive. Sucks, but no one forced them to birth their hellspawn.
a friend of mine has quintuplets.
well, he says it's exhausting - as any parent does - but notes that having that many means some economy of scale & every parent i know has looked absolutely shattered-tired for YEARS after they were born, but him & his wife? well, they only went through the hellscape of having babies *once*, those families with a few born a couple of years apart go through it for a fekkin decade.
i think everyone has a right to bitch & whine about *whatever*, - just don't try to force anyone else to carry your load & you're fine, imo.
To quote from another story that rslash has read, "It's not MY FAULT that you let someone jizz in you."
You know it’s gonna be a good rSlash episode when one story takes up the ENTIRE video 😂
Technically half a story!
@@darkmask5933
Not if you've heard it 3 different channels already
I think this is only the second time that I’ve seen r/Slash post an episode in which the update to a story takes up the entire video. The first one I remember was the story where OP’s younger brother and sister in law try to take his hard earned house.
@@charlessugg6102is it 2nd or 3rd?
@@charlessugg6102definitely third. You're forgetting the mom whose suing her daughter in law and son for grandparents rights because thry cut her off from her grandson for being a huge pain in the butt
IMO, doing "Mum, Sis wants you to watch the kids; she says she'll be back in a mo" a few times would quickly teach mum not to give a stink eye to her son when he refuses.
This!
I kept thinking that if OP's mother thinks it's sooooo important for sister to get a break then let OP's mother take over the babysitting duties.
Mom: "Hell no! Son, don't you realize? She ain't never planning to come back!"
OP: Just kinda looks at her like he's on the office.
Mom: "Oh... it hits so different when it happens to you..."
Yeah, the parents are only turning on the sister now because they know she's gonna force the constant unpaid babysitting duties on them next. I doubt they're really that sorry about how OP gets treated. They were still hoping to guilt OP into doing it just to shut the sister up even after he clearly stated and enforced his boundaries, but he still didn't fold. I feel sorry for those kids with a mom like that. And I don't see her husband staying with her much longer since she still acts like this. I hope he gets out and takes the kids. I don't understand why it's so damn hard to just hire a babysitter when you need a break, that's what the rest of the world does!!
Note: There was one more update where sis and mom tried to get OP to delete the Reddit posts...and he talks directly to the family this time to STOP PUSHING THIS. Then he appends it by saying she's getting counseling and that one of the reasons why she's a b-- to him is that she liked being an only child (they're 10 years apart in age). She agreed to get counseling, he agreed to keep his distance until Thanksgiving, and she got a babysitter. And...OP even got a girlfriend out of the deal.
What? Did his BIL hook him up?
Wait is he dating the babysitter?
Wait... how does one get a girlfriend out of this deal? Confused... but also happy for OP! He done good, and here's hoping it only gets better for him!
yeah, I am really interested in how do you get a GF out of your narcissist manipulative sister finally getting counseling? I am asking for, uhm, a friend, yeah.
Well... If OP did marry the babysitter, his sister would still gonna pay her UPFRONT for the babysitting if sister still wants the babysitting services.
Just like OP, his services AREN'T FREE either.
If you can't stand to be around your kids bc they're out of control, that's on you.
fully this.
place i worked at had a daycare service, the nanny would come along at breakfast time & look after the kids while the parents went out for the day. well, one week we had an absolute shitshow of a kid in, tiny little dictator, flew into tears at the slightest opposition to his petty demands, all that good stuff. the mother just gave him whatever he demanded, the father just looked the other way... well shit what a surprise, parents who refuse to *parent* have a shitty kid. well, first day with the nanny that kid goes upto the nanny & demands cake as a snack. nanny says 'no' kid flies into a tantrum of tears. nanny just flat-out says 'that won't work on me'... kid instantly drops the tantrum & plays nicely with the other kids for the rest of his time with nanny. when mom gets home? instant tantrum demanding cake. gets it.
@@sjs9698 These are the parents creating the entitled shits that end up on reddit, refusing to do the work so society has to smack them back into acting right. Try crying hysterically and demanding to get out of shit at work all the time and your ass is fired,
@@sjs9698 My mother used to watch my nephews when they were younger and the same thing would happen. They'd try to act up around my mom, she'd check them and they'd be perfectly behaved, then as soon as their mom came home they'd be right back to acting like fools. Some parents just enable that kind of behavior.
No, I bet they're not out of control. They're probably sweet kids. Someone is just hissy that she's now forced to grow up and be a proper mother to her children.
@@kurisueruAnd then they wonder why their children are in so much trouble later on. Lazy parents or enabling parents who refuse to parent their children are setting them up for failure. Seriously why would you have children when you know you can't handle it? ಠ︵ಠ
Both the sister and BIL is there and she STILL wants OP to watch the kids?? The father is right THERE
Tried to wear her victim down.. it didn't work ..
He's suspiciously absent in this whole story other than berating his wife... but I guess SOMEONE has to watch the kids while she spent hours stalking her brother to find his room, so if that's how she chose to spend her childfree time, that's on her.
@@suitovhe's not really absent. He was working hard and thought the brother was being payed to watch the kids. He had no idea what his wife was doing. Now that he knows he's been checking her, when he's been made aware of it happening.
Something tells me that if her behavior continues......he won't be for long. I feel bad for him and the kids. The kids for being labeled as a burden and the husband for dealing with such a narcissistic and terrible woman.
@@Xolivas1For real, I'm kind of rooting for him to figure out how toxic she is and save himself, and his kids.
Honestly this is why I don't understand people having kids if they're going to behave like this. You set out plans to do things, and if the kids get bored, you provide them entertainment like a colouring book. Hell, when I was a kid we'd have holidays with family friends or my godparents, who also had kids, and nine times out of ten they didn't care if I toddled off to see the family friends or my godparents. I found my own things to do. If you want a vacation without your kids, get a babysitter, christ.
Because kids gives you social credibility, now she isn’t just an entitled person, she’s a mom! Therefore on her head she has both access to special parent privileges and kids she can control and brag about, or like in that case, let lose while she enjoys the concept of motherhood while someone else does the job
I think you may have overlooked the fact that some people have half a brain
@@crizmeow8394 I think in some cases, it's also a control thing. When you have a kid, you have this little person you can (theoretically) control and force to do your bidding. Of course, the reality is that you CAN'T control kids, not completely. Yes, when they're very young, there's a little bit more control, but once they hit pre-teen and teen years, they're no longer completely helpless, they can think and act for themselves. I mean, I'm probably preaching to the choir here. Point is, I think OP's sister just like the idea of having control.
@@giggle_snort That explains why she fell to pieces. It was due to all that power and control she's apparently so addicted to being taken away from her.
Imagine going on vacation, spending untold amounts of time stalking and hovering, and then trying to blame the crappy vacation on anyone but yourself.
That's what bullies do dude. They're obsessed with their victims. In this case, OP's sister is obsessed with getting her brother to do things she doesn't want to do, which is watch the kids and be a parent. And she's angry her victim isn't playing her song and dance anymore, so she's going to "force" him to be the puppet she had been playing with for years. And it's not working.
I honestly thought when OP's sister found out where he was staying he would wake up to a knock at the door and his 3 nephews standing in the hall.
Me too, and I was legitimately shocked that she never tried that.
(Then again, she probably knew her husband would rip her a new one for that)
@@itbesid1566I don’t think the sister had the brain cells to think of it either
OP could take them to the lobby and have the receptionist call the sister's room.
@@sxatcychan1988 Not the sister's room. The police, since out in the hallway is a public space and you have no clue who else is in the hallway. Might be child abandonment.
When the sister says " I don't trust anyone else to babysit " what she really meant is "everyone else would want to get paid upfront only op was a sucker enough to take my BS for a while "..
"I can't manipulate strangers into doing unpaid or underpaid labor. But my brother will do it because FAAAAMMMILLYYYYY!!!" No, bitch, he won't. 😂
@@giggle_snort 1000% facts. She's such a grunt.
It’s too late sister dearest; the post has breached containment! It’s gone critical! There’s no stopping it now.
Exactly, what does she think removing it is going to do? Does she think Chris Chan can decide "I'm tired of being made fun of on the internet for now." and just delete the original comics? Are they even still up? I don't think anyone knows or particularly cares.
It's alive! _ALIVE!_
Exactly. There is no removing something once it's gone viral. That shit is EVERYWHERE. And in this case, it's a wonderful thing, because it's exposing a narcissist. 😆
I'm a parent. I hang out and play with my kids because I LIKE them and I ENJOY being with them. I work from home and spend a ton of time with them. Those poor kids with a mom who wants nothing more than to get rid of them...
imagine learning of all this when you're older, I can't imagine they'll have a great relationship to mum and shes gonna be pissed but its her own damn fault
Yeah, like no-one held her at gunpoint and told her to have kids. She could’ve been child free if that’s what she wanted. I don’t get what her deal is.
Totally agree! I would give/do anything to have kids to hang out with and play with but unfortunately life circumstances had other ideas (I have disabilities that make it impossible to get and/or keep a job and I’m on permanent disability and I don’t have kids because I put off having them thinking that it was not right to bring children into the world until I had stable income source to provide for them and now it’s too late both because I’m 45 and still not in a position (financial, and otherwise) to have kids - and even if I could find a way to me in that position by the time it would happen I would be too old since I already feel too old already.
This woman does not know how lucky she is to have kids (and triplets to boot!) to hang out with and play with.
I would give my right arm to be in her position - some thing which she just so casually throws away every chance she gets!
It’s just not fair that so many people who don’t want, or deserve to be parents get to have kids they ignore, abuse and neglect and I would give anything to have kids but because of my disabilities, I have not been able to have them and will never be able to have them!
RSlash: 'Then OP posted an update...'
Me: *rubs hands in glee*
Sounds like OP's sister had got away with her BS for a long time, but now that's all falling down and she can't stand it. She sounds like a true narcissist, but it seems unlikely her behaviour's going to change at all.
Yup. Textbook narcissist. Gonna take a LOT to get through that thick skull of hers.
I feel bad for the sister’s kids who are seen as a burden to her and her husband, a pretty decent guy from the looks of it.
One day he'll separate from her
@@girl1213I hope he does. He and the kids deserve better.
My sister in law has been going through something similar for years. She's the middle of three girls. The older sister used to force the youngest to babysit her kids all the time until the youngest got married and moved out of state to get away from it. Once that free babysitter was gone she started demanding the middle sister (my sister in law) do the babysitting, despite her living 20 minutes away and having a family of her own. She doesn't pay her anything for doing it, doesn't give her gas money for traveling, and throws a huge fit whenever she can't babysit for her.
Man, she really needs to learn to stop trying to shove the responsibilities on other people. Let OP have his free time on vacations
Bullies don't want their victims to have a good time.
That’s if she can get her own head out of her butt for more then a millisecond
Oh geez, that fake , "you're right!" apology from the mother reminds of my own making the most fake apology I've ever heard a couple weeks ago. Like sure, you haven't cared and just acted like nothing wrong happened for my ENTIRE life and every other time things got brought up, as recently as two months ago, and all of a sudden you're just soooo sorry, the most extreme over the top form of sorry, even after trying to act that way again a minute earlier.... suuurreee
Op need to ignore his mom and sister until they ACTUALLY CHANGE. The repeated guilt tripping, pushing and passing boundaries even when they know how he feels she's a terrible mom to op and his sister sucks as a sibling and a adult. Seem like the apple didn't fall to far from the tree when it comes to the mom and sister at least the dad is somewhat doing better then the rest and the brother in law was oblivious to everything happening!
If mom is so insistent on Sister getting free childcare, *she* can watch the kids
@@dimsufferer9951 idk where this story takes place but isn't that a pretty common thing, for the grandparents to play with the kids to give the parents a break, it's such a win-win that my own parents kept hassling me to have kids just so they could do it - eventually they found a nice young couple with kids to be friends with & got to babysit *their* kids... they seemed pretty happy abouyt it.
@@sjs9698 I agree, and if she doesn't want to watch the kids, then she should understand why OP doesn't want to either
Wow. Dude, imagine a person having their own life and setting boundaries. That's crazy!
My life in the nutshell with my brother
"Boundaries"? What kind of chicanery is that? 😂
It's hard being a mom, period. A mom of triplets is something I can't even imagine. She DOES deserve a break. But using a sibling for free babysitting isn't the way.
she did get breaks by using her brother as free labour every vacation (maybe more in other situations) but op got tired of the abuse of babysitting she doing to him so maybe she should use her money to buy a babysitter. Being a tired mom doesn't excuse her behavior tbh :/
My sister has triplets, and they're neither the oldest nor the youngest of her kids. She has 8 total. But she has NEVER tried to pull shit like this. Not once.
I want to know where her husband and parents were during all this. You would think that with 5 adults on the vacation they could give her the occasional hand or even complete break from childcare without it being too much of a hardship on any one person. Isn't that what family does?
You opened your legs! Your baby ❤
Story 1: That's shameful that the parents was so embarrassed that they didn't care about their son feelings or his free time. Someone needs to remind op sister that if you have kids you are expected to take care of your kids not dump them onto others if you have kids handle the responsibility of having kids that you wanted!! Also if she really doesn't trust strangers that's understandable but do not force someone to take care of YOUR KIDS. Op sister is ashamed because she's getting criticized correctly by probably children and other adults. STOP BABYING YOUR GROWN ASS KIDS.
I try to figure out the why in these stories so why did the parents support the sister for so long. 1 She was a bit of the "Golden Child" spoiled so what she wanted must be done. Spoiled such that despite her husband giving her money for OP to babysit she felt it acceptable to keep it for herself. I think the parents also never quite saw OP as a grown ass man, he was still the little boy who was too young to go off on his own during vacations.
what's your take on story 2?
Well the sister needs to understand that when you play stupid games you win stupid prizes
@@kipzit's funny seeing ppl say story:1 like there's any other stories in this one 😂
@@kipzI'd rephrase that to Update 1, as it's all parts of the same story, from the same OP
The fact she had hours to stalk the brother by herself shown she had hours to spend time to herself that she chose not to
What else was she going to do actually relax or be a good mom I’m 99% sure those are foreign concepts to her
I remember this whole story with all the updates. I still laugh at how horrible, selfish this sister and parents are and were.. Tell the sister to stop reading them then! She's the one that keeps coming back to read them so she's punishing herself. Nobody knows who they are, grow up... The sister is pitiful and entitled.. This entire family is just so ridiculous.. The women in this family are just insane!
Ask the Sister how she knows it's about her, what's wrong about it if she doesn't agree with the verdict, and maybe even ask her to make a counter-AITA to see if anyone can be persuaded to take her side.
@@RRW359 She and the parents already validated BUT, more important, her HUSBAND who didn't get involved, got involved finally.. He was on OP side, angry etc..
Any chance you know which video had this original story in it? Or even roughly how long ago it was posted? Our man, rSlash, forgot to put it in the description lol 😅
now we can see why the sister acts the way she does. the mother basically groomed that behavior into her. yeah the sister is an awful sister and mother but it looks like ops mother is just as bad and it makes me curious if she tried doing the same things to others that the sister was doing to op since this story basically shows the sister was taught to be this way
Seriously, why bother becoming a parent if your going to constantly complain about not getting a break? Committment people!
Its always wild to me when narcissistic people "ruin" something via their own actions and then cry and blame the person they hurt for "ruining" something. Like my sister blamed me for "ruining Christmas" after she caused me to have a panic attack where I responded by removing myself from the situation to calm down. She decided to follow me to continue yelling at me and berating me then had the audacity to blame me for it. Thankfully my parents understand that shes a garbage person who actually ruins things for everyone but I had to go very low/ no contact with her because a) she's exhausting to be around and b) I hate the fact that I'd have to have like a "debrief" with my parents on the ride home discussing how cruel she is and how her actions aren't ok. I don't like talking negatively about someone behind their back unless its necessary (like for emotional support and stuff) so, while it was hard to do because I want to believe that she can be better, I really can't keep her in my life. Tbh if it were me in this story I'd go low/ no contact with the sister and mother unless they showed that they were actively taking steps to correct their behaviour, which it doesn't necessarily seem like they're doing. They shouldn't need to be constantly reminded of your boundaries, reminded not to cross them and you shouldn't need to go to such excessive (imo) lengths to ensure they don't/ can't cross them. Putting your own happiness and mental wellbeing first and setting boundaries isn't an inherently selfish thing to do and doesn't make you a bad person. While there can be exceptions, people who reinforce the idea that having boundaries is selfish are usually benefitting from you not having them.
(Also sorry for the rant, my best friend also messaged me for support this morning as she's going through a similar situation with a really shit, pathetic excuse of a father and I'm still really mad and upset about how he treats her because she's an awesome person that doesn't deserve to be treated like she has been)
Jesus the sister AND the mom constantly throwing tantrums and pity parties bc they cant dump all their problems on their youngest family member anymore is insane, anyone else woulda cut them out years ago
Props to OP for not only holding out for so long just talking to them but also for being able to vacation with them without going absolutley insane from the constant manipulation tactics.
Also those two poor poor husbands who have to deal with them
If it makes your sister feel better it doesn't matter if you take down the post now. This is like the 3rd channel that I heard read this story, she should be happy no one knows who she is. Now she can start getting over it. As for all the updates the fact you had to do all of that and your sister and mom still tried to force you to be a babysitter isn't great but it sounds like you had fun, and more importantly you should all of them that you weren't taking taking anyone's shit.
As a mother of almost-4-month-old twins, YES. IT'S HARD. But it's *MY* responsibility! This lady needs to deal with her own kids
I can't express enough how much I hate manipulators and their enablers. Crying because you can't exploit someone for free labor, who you basically stole from by denying them the money that was offered as payment for their work by your partner, so that you can guilt trip them into working for you is evil. Feeling bad for that kind of manipulative person, then crying yourself to guilt trip your son into doing free labor for them, rather than DOING IT YOURSELF, is almost worse. I'm not going to lie, I'd be pretty close to going no-contact with this family if I was OP.
ONE MORE UPDATE (well actually 2): OP's mom and sister saw the last update and blew up. Sis called and yelled at him to take it down - cuz the comments state she's a bad mother. OP said no and told her to grow up, get therapy, and that she was a bad mother. THEN, OP's mom came to his house demanding he take the posts down, he yelled at her too and pretty much stated the same points (enabling sis, all true, and things ain't gonna be the same as before). Mother ran crying and parents called sister to stop blaming OP and leave him alone. Sis pulled a "whoa is me" and "no one love me" which they shut down.
OP and parents had a long talk and he's keeping his distance until Thanksgiving (I wanna know how THAT went 😅). Then OP and BIL had a talk where he told OP that gave his Sis an ultimatum. Couselling or divorce/separation. She chose counseling. BIL said that he didn't like OP, but took some of the blame for not stopping his sis before things escalated.
Lastly, OP got a girlfriend due to his posts. 😊
I have young nieces and nephews. So young they can't be left unsupervised for five minutes. Whenever the family gets together all adults (their parents, my parents and I) plus my tween keep an eye on the kiddos - but if the parents need to step away (like getting the youngest to sleep) they always ASK if the rest of us are OK with looking after the others. I have no problem supervising bathtime or whatever else is needed when it's not taken for granted.
"I need a break" proceeds to spend whatever free time she has stalking OP instead of relaxing
First Story: That update to the story is so safisfying. Its crazy how it took Reddit for the parents to see the error of their ways and decided to take OP's side.
Update1: OP's BIL is great for making things right to OP by making his wife pay OP for all the free babysitting and forced her to apologize. OP's sister honestly can’t be reasoned with or redeemed, especially after she double downed on her entitlement
Update 2: OP's sister shouldn’t have kids if she intended to pawn them off at any chance she gets. OP's mother is still being a terrible mother by continuously enabling OP's sister's behavior
@@supervegito2277 I don't think that matters too much since given her behavior she would've still done it if it was an only child. When you have kids you take responsibility for everything that happens, including unexpected multiples.
I really don't think they truly saw the error of their ways as much as they realized sister was going to force them to be her babysitters next since OP wouldn't do it!
Imagine seeing your brother lose trust and respect for you like this post and choosing to stalk him and pressure him
OP, on the next vacation, if your sister tries pulling her shtick, get yourself a bag of garlic and tell her it will protect you from bloodsucking parasites. She'll get the point.
The sister asking the brother to babysit wasn't about money, not trusting anyone, or being tired of her family. It was all about control and the inability to drop it, and obsession about it proves it to me.
I said this countless times to people: Not everyone is fit to be a parent. Like jeesus christ, there are so many options and ways of birth control, and then when they do have kids, they do not raise them, nor care properly for them.
Coming down from the trees was a mistake. Even getting outta the ocean was one big mistake, too.
Pathetic
Sister: I need a breeeeeaaaaaak.
Me: Put the kids up for adoptiooooooon.
To the OP whose sister keeps wanting a free sitter for her 3 kids and keeps complaining that she "needs a break". Hey sister, YOU are the kids mother and you'll be responsible for them for 18+ years. If you weren't ready for that you shouldn't have had kids. Bottom line, period, end of story.
She isn't a true Karen without an entire video dedicated to her.
"Scour the entire internet clean of this story!!!"
Yeah, that's easier than just not looking at OP's reddit account. I'm surprised she hasn't been on it to yell at every single commenter.
Man this guy is the embodiment of what you should have said but only thought of 2 weeks later in the shower
Good on OP for standing up. i say this as an old guy who was the parent at home for my boys. Can it be hard? Yes. Did their mum see them as an inconvenience? Yes. But I was young and full of energy, so did the summer trips to visit my parents with the three kids (about 8 hours counting BC Ferries and stops including letting the kids swim at Bromley Rock) while their mum "had a break" from me being the primary care giver. No regrets ever and I never felt stuck. But one nice thing her three siblings did was each took a child for a weekend and the two of us got a hotel room and had a child free two days relaxing and doing couple stuff. Wasn't our idea but it was an appreciated one-time gift. Having a child or more is an incredible gift and an equally incredible responsibility and I can't imagine just fobbing them off to someone else for convenience. Kids ARE inconvenient and if you deal with that reality you may raise fine adults.
Parenting is 24/7. Family vacations does not excuse you from being a parent.
Next time she asks OP to babysit, he should agree, only if the BIL pays him upfront first.
Then teach the kids all kinds of new things he knows will annoy her. Buy them all super soakers and have them open fire on mommy as soon as she walks in the door. Buy them cheap, noisy toys. If she thought she was tired before, wait until they come back from OP's.
3:42 No gas money, just gas lit
My sister in law stole my pets and when I wanted them back, she threw a fit and threatened my animals' safety. She also called up her brother (my husband) to whine about me. Very entitled. Very cruel. One of my pets did not make it, but I got the rest back. I posted about this online, and named her by her first name only (as it was a post where I was warning the local community about her and to message me if they had any information about my pet), and she threatened me again with legal action which was just a bluff. She also accused me of just wanting her brother for money, and that "eventually my brother will see just how horrible you really are". During the whole thing, I had also called every animal shelter in the state that I could find to report her and what she'd done, and for the shelters to be aware of it in case she tried bringing my animals there to dump them (another thing she had threatened to do). My husband had to threaten to cut off all contact with her if she didn't give back our animals after the one died. She did, after months. Anyway, her brother and I have been married nearly 10 years and we're very happy. She must have gotten over herself because she at least tolerates me now at family functions, barely making eye contact. We pretend we don't exist, and I'm fine not speaking to her... I mean she only led to one of the more serious depressive episodes I've had in my life, plus a suicide attempt... I love my animals, and it was torture not knowing what was happening to them, especially the one that didn't make it. I really wish I'd gotten justice for my animals but, hey, I know one day the subject will come up in eternity. Oh, and, well... she did kind of lose any future privileges of being allowed anywhere near our pets, and she will be heavily supervised around our future kids.
Omg I'm so sorry you went through that and sadly lost one of your pets as a result of it 😢 I'd have got the police involved and got her arrested after all she stole them in the first place !!
Damn that brother in law was by far a better brother in any sense of the word than OPs sister ever was. Legend.
Bro, if you needed proof OP is a cool uncle, he bought his triplet niblings *the coolest souvenir*. **The Rock bags**. Man of good taste.
The sister is the type of woman any man dreads marrying. She's a stay at home mom, doesn't have to work and complains about her own kids. Parents that don't take care of their own kids and just push them on others are the worst
A while back, I saw one of the newer updates where OP was talking about how his sister was melting down because she kept looking for OP's posts and reading the comments. I made a comment directed at her saying she needs to get off Reddit and seek help for herself, and that before she turns her nose up saying "Why should I listen to you?" to keep in mind that if she's invested enough in the posts and comments to get mad, then she can care enough to listen to anyone telling her to seek help.
Which... Yeah, I still hope she does. Like, I LOATHE her behavior, and absolutely nothing excuses it. It must be so exhausting, obsessing over getting your brother to watch your kids. But she needs to get help, and the sooner she does, the sooner everyone will be a lot happier.
"How DARE you make me look after the kids I chose to have!? I need a break!!1" Welcome to the reality of being a parent.
And, damn! I was hoping that once they saw people's reactions on the web, the parents would've stayed on OP's side. But nope, complete system reboot and it's the same crying and guilt-tripping again. You're grown ups! Act like it!
It wasn't just victory over an entitled parent, but also victory over an entitled grandparent.
I absolutely feel sorry for those kids. The mother is trying to pawn them off to someone to parent so she can rest, or she complains how tired she is. If you can’t parent your kids ever, why did you have them in the first place? You’re the one responsible for the intimacy that lead to them coming into existence, they do not deserve a mother who is so willingly pawn them off onto others and complain about having to parent… it’s really sad. Those kids deserve better
I’m a bit concerned. I feel for a mom of triplets, that’s not easy. I’m worried about why she needs to ask her sibling to watch them on a vacation when she’s also traveling with her husband, aka the father of said triplets. Why can’t he watch them? If he leaves all the parenting to her, I would totally understand the mental anguish of caring for triplets 24/7 without a moment to yourself.
Having the free time to hunt down OP, but whine that it's like being at home still, LMFAO
The lying to the husband about paying OP... Yeah... I would be on the verge of divorce due to the breach of trust alone.
"You're ruining my vacation by not taking care of my kids"
She does realize that OP is on a vacation too right? RIGHT?
I spent 4 years in theatre school and even I haven't mastered the art of crying on command this many times
Well you're not a sociopath...
Op- if i dont update you guys after this it means everything is fine
Me- 5:17 / 16:20 minutes into the video
Also me: *sooo… it is not, in fact, fine* 💁♀️💥
I am a parent and I could never imagine forcing somebody to watch my kid. What terrible behavior.
Doubt that it'll be enough to warrant another rslash video, but I found out recently there was one final update after this story:
The sister saw that OP had posted about the vacation and had a meltdown that it made her look bad. OP asked her to highlight one thing about the story that was untrue. She couldn't. The mother and the sister turned up at OP's door ordering him to take down the posts. OP didn't. The parents eventually told sister to grow up and stop blaming OP before suggesting she get counseling.
The parents later had a talk with OP and apologized, and OP said he'd be keeping his distance until Thanksgiving. The brother-in-law admitted he was a little annoyed with OP, but he was pushing for his wife to go to counseling or he would separate from her, so she reluctantly agreed.
It is one of my favorite stories of all time.
It was lucky they were on holiday, otherwise they would have been arguing at home.
You decided to have kids you can take care of them, you could have got a babysitter but you wanted to spend the money on yourself. Seems more like her kids are a burden than anything else.
Shout out to the brother in law for sticking up for up and treating him better than his "family" by blood
As a responce to your last quip on this story; The sister cant enjoy her vacation with her family, because she clearly doesnt enjoy her family in the first place.
I can kind of see the sister just dumping her children at OP's door and running before he can call her out on it.
Call the brother in law. "Hey, your wife just dumped your kids on my door to try and make me babysit." She'll get in trouble, again, by the sounds of it.
when u have 3 kids you don’t get the privilege of going out on the weekends lmao.
This is just a saga of how too many entitled parents expect it to be everyone else's problem that they popped out crotch goblins. That "it takes a village to raise a child", they suddenly think that it means everyone in close vicinity magically becomes that village despite the parents not doing anything to build up that village
Sister is a prime example of someone who regrets having kids and pawns them off to others at every opportunity imagineable
The sister telling OP that he ruined her vacation is hilarious because she's now in the situation that OP was in previously. It's like.. exactly!
Yikes can’t imagine being that family glad op is putting his foot down and shutting the sister and mom down
Am I the only 1 that would start to look for a divorce lawyer?? Like she OBVIOUSLY doesn't wanna watch her OWN children. So what kind of mother is that? I would file for full custody and move away immediately
"there were some videos who read the post as well."
surely one of them isn't a big red letter R 🤔
I find it odd that the sister never bothered to find a babysitter or learned or bothered to parent, she sounds like my friends former SiL who dumped her 2 year old and new born on others so she can go party like she was in high school and slept around, then basically drained the accounts of her husbands family and skipped town with her new boy toy in her husbands new car, when they tried to sell it to a used lot in pensacola it was flagged “ stolen “
When police arrested them near the Florida boarder she ran but was caught and taken back
She lied n blamed everything on the boyfriend who was singing like a canary to the cops about her plans
Dude, just stop going on these family vacations. This does not sound fun at all. Let them go without you, tell them you'll see them at Christmas or whatever and go do your own thing.
that sister probably thinks that op was born to be her personal nanny or something
I already enjoy waiting for Rslash in the morning but I'm going to get a hysterectomy next Friday so your videos will help me feel better even more thank you
I can say from prior experiences that listening to your favorite RUclipsrs in the hospital makes the day go by faster! Don’t forget to take earplugs, an eye mask and baby wipes (some hospitals provide these). Hope your surgery goes well and your recovery is swift!
@JosieJOK thank you so much anything else I may need to know?
Hope it goes well! I love listening to rSlash when Im sick :D
@wcor33 thank you
@@lilydr9364 just to use earbuds or headphones when watching your videos. That’ll help whether your roommate likes to watch TV loudly or whether they’re the type to complain about every little noise!
Otherwise, you got this! Good luck!
My aunt is a stay at home mom with three kids all 1 year apart. She’s never asked someone else to take responsibility of her kids. Why? Because they’re her fucking kids. And because of that, our family gets along and we all help when we can. Amazing how far you get when you aren’t selfish
Oh fuck yes. This is the sort of karma delivery I needed this morning.
Also disgusting behaviour from the mother clearly shows where the sister got her attitude from.
Also, if strangers are so scary, she should interview for and hire a nanny. A live in one if she really needs.
The thing I don't get about parents like these is... Why did you even have kids in the first place? If you need a break/vacation from your kids, that's all well and good. You hire a babysitter and you leave. If you take your kids on a family vacation then you need to *be with your kids*. A family vacation is NOT a time for you, it's a time FOR THE KIDS and to be pawned off first chance effects kids, let me tell you. They know. They fucking know they're being pawned off every available chance. If children are involved in a family vacation, your job as a parent is to be the one watching your kids. YES,someone else can keep an eye on them while you go grab something (a snack, beer, souvenir, tickets, whatever) *but then you come right back*. They are YOUR kids. YOU chose to have them, no one else made that choice for you. Either PAY someone to watch them or suck it the fuck up, that's what parenting IS. If you aren't ready to literally give up your life and dedicate nearly every waking moment to your kids care and fun, then you flat out aren't ready for kids.
Absolutely proud of you OP! 🎉❤ Glad to hear you standing your ground finally got some results!
This was never about money, or "getting a break". This was always a power struggle. "Bow to my whims, peasant!"
Only thing I would have done different than OP would have been to watch the kids for ONE afternoon so Sis and BIL could chill. Other than that, totally justified. When I heard that Sis had been pocketing OP's babysitting money, I was floored. Who even does that to family?
EDIT: I had kind of the opposite thing happen. My aunt (Mom's baby sister, a late surprise for my grandfolks) used to babysit me when I was little. She was like a big sister to me. It wasn't until I was an adult that I found out she'd been charging Mom for babysitting. Mom and I were barely scraping by.
You can’t pour from an empty well. This mother is clearly at a breaking point. Dangerous shit can happen if you push someone beyond their limit. She obviously needs a break. Maybe the husband can watch the kids. They are his after all. Or maybe the grandparents. Or maybe they pay for a babysitter. Because if she’s this desperate, there might be a terrible consequence if she DOESN’T get a break.
No one is pushing her, but herself!
Her husband is working full time, to let het be a stay at home mom, and even literally gives her money to pay OP for Babysitting!
But that deadbeat asshole is just pocketing the babysitter money for herself, and is then trying to manipulate OP into doing it for free!
The mother is the deadbeat in this story! The Father is a great men, and is doing enough!
Story : time for op to go NC with his piece of garbage of a sister... no sympathy towards the "parents " either specially op "mom"..
Updates : obvious that the sister got her entitlement from the "mom".. what a bunch of grunts..
Update : The "mother" and "sister" are such losers ..op needs to reduce contact with them as much as possible or they will continue to try to dump the kids on op.. hey op "sister" you made the kids theyre your responsibility not op responsibility you "dont get a break " from parenting ..
Good on OP for finally standing up for himself!!
His family sounds exhausting af and the sister sounds like she should've stayed childless but did it out of societal force or sth.
Always the perfect thing to hear before heading to work :3 Thanks for making my morning great rSlash :3
If she doesn't want him making posts about her, all she has to do is stop giving him content to post.
I’m surprised the husband sticks around after watching the sister use everyone around her.
Men like bad women
Or maybe he's sticking around because he's trying to teach the kids to be better people and not like they're mom..
@@thetruth1816 teaching the kids that’s it Ok to act like the mom someday.
@@CP-ho2wj or teaching them how not to act..
@@thetruth1816 I have my doubts, he doesn’t even hold his wife accountable for any and all actions. I’m sure he’s sick of the drama that she adds to the family constantly.
If you don't want to look after your kids then don't have kids. I can't understand her obsession over op watching her kids. Her parents were watching her kids and she got free time but she wasted that free time searching for OP's room instead of doing something fun with her husband. My god get a life lady.
@rslash_1 what?
Day 4 of asking Rslash to do some feelgood content because he deserves it.
This technically counts as feel-good. Because the OP got a sort of unintentional revenge on his Entitled Sister and Parents.
@@ShadowReignhart I mean a subreddit dedicated to stuff that makes you feel good (if your normal), no revenge, no nothing. Think r/mademesmile or r/humansbeingbros. Something like that
1st story: Tell me a family have a favorite,without telling me the family have a favorite.
I am glad OP is doing better now, because man, they sound like a toxic wasteland.
Poor BIL, lad married a neglectful snake, a MIL that is also a snake, and a FIL that have less balls than a cube.
If the sister doesn't like the comments, she can stop reading them.
Or she can try and stop being a witch...
@@thetruth1816 or both...