Can we talk about how pretty Sejeong is in this ep and how Song Jae Rim didn't seem like a celebrity (i mean this in a good way), but a real counselor? He's so well-spoken and really spits out wisdom to those concerned people ❤️
Kim Sejeong has released her second album "i'm", she wrote the lyrics and composed the song herself. Please give lots of love to the Warning song and please give support to Kim Sejeong :) sesang love u !!!!!
What I like about Sejeong the most aside from her singing is her smile. She always smile making me smile too. I luv her!! YooA is so cute! Sunghee is really great on variety show. They are really beautiful!!
1st concern, that lady did not want kids. Her and the husband should have spoken about having children in advance and taken protection till they were both ready because she is being beyond irresponsible and unloving towards those innocent children
@@EroiKuma her behaviour indicates that she didn't plan having them straight away. Her job is more important than her child, shes more concerned about working that she didn't even think twice before leaving her child alone.
If that woman was in France, for sure, social service will take the children far from her !!! You can't let a child alone in a home if it's not 15 years old minimum !!!! I think that she didn't want child this early in their marriage.
Himeyuki Matsumoto Himeyuki Matsumoto She just left her children (a new born and an one year baby) by their owns in the house... When the her husband rushed at home, he finds the baby fallen from his chair... If that isn't an extreme danger, what is an extreme danger so ?
@wissem soshi De plus ça ne m'étonnerait pas que l'âge s'allongent avec les années :/ Il suffit de voir les nombreux cas présenté dans cette émission à elle seule. Bien évidemment, il y'a des exceptions, certains contextes et certaines situation à prendre en compte ^^. Mais cela n'excuse en rien l'irresponsabilité de cette femme envers ses enfants.
this is my first time seeing a absolute solved problem, like the mother felt terrible and actually admitting her wrong doings and saying she'll work hard to work as a mother is just... wonderful edit: its also my first time seeing the one (who was the reason for the concern) saying she felt terrible and actually crying for her wrong doings... and saying i love you genuinely, like for the pass videos i watch in hello councilor the people who says sorry and i love you doesn't sound real
19:39....its not about remembering....children can feel if they are loved or not...It can really effect thier lives...it is really sad if a child does not receive affection. As a middle child Iwas quite ignored myself, as a result I can not really show affection to others and keep people away from me, even if someone tries to come close, I take a step back....Parental neglect scars you for life
The woman on the first concern can be easily solved if the couple just simply discussed things. They could just arrange whatever kind of chores or roles they want to do in the house and taking care of the kids. The woman wanting to work and have a career is fine- her only problem is that she lacks love for her children. Perhaps they had children way too early, they should've discussed whether they were ready for the responsibility or not.
The woman from the first concern, I think she doesn't wanna be a mom and that totally ok. we aren't supposed to be the same, and not all of us have to become parents. 'cause we are all diffrend!. It's just too sad that people don't listen to what they want and their character, and do what society say.
if she didnt wanna be a mom, why did they made it in the first place? a child becomes a parent's responsibility when they're born and she clearly neglected it
There's a lot of bad comments about the mom here but I just wanna say that when she said "I think my children are perfect", I believe that's partly true
If this mother was a father, I do not think they would make such a big deal out of it... It is sad, that a woman has to fit a standard and only one type of mother is considered "normal". I do think she is slightly careless, there is however a certain amount of double-standard situation, that a father would not receive if he was the same. And in fact, many are, it was pointed out by the presenters.
Actually they pointed that she acts like many fathers ,who were at the show ,do ^^, + u can understand her desire for working ect , but she's neglecting her children just after giving birth , she has even done a surgery to give birth to the 1st child before her due date so it's normal to complain, to nag at her, and to scold her, she hasnt breastfeed her children and she s neglecting her health, so here there is no point to compare women with men ,she deserve to be scolded that's it , if a dad di the same he deserves to be scolded as well
@@ahmed-tariqouidadi3065 as you said, fathers should be scolded for this kind of behavior and I think this is a key point here. You said as well thy presenters pointed out there are many father like this and the question that arises is whether men get the same kind of response if they are behaving this way? I do not think so. Women are often minimized to the role of that of a mother, or a wife. If a woman wants to be more than that, for example in this case, she wants to focus on her career, she is presented as a bad woman. Men that would behave the same way would never be in the category of a bad men. They would be understood, because they work for their family. She is also working for her family. Yes, she is a bit careless, but the scrutiny would not be the same if she was a father and a man. Just because woman are preconditioned biologically to give a birth does not mean that they are feeling or in fact can fullfil the role that the society gives to mothers and how society has demanded a mother should behave. There are plenty of mothers that are not able to breastfeed they children for example. Does that make them bad mothers? Well, according to some, yes.
They didn't say that fathers who act like her are good, they use her as an example of those fathers who didn't care about their family and focus only on their work or something else. Yes, women should have the same opportunity as man to work even after she have a family but there is always a limit to everything. The problem here is not about her working but the fact that she still keep on working even after coming home. Each parent have their own individual role in bringing up a child. A mother cannot fill the role of a father and a father can fill the role of a mother.
My mom also feels sorry for not taking care of me. But my mom had valid reason .. My sister was always sick and got admitted to the hospital most of the time..At that time I was the healthier child so I had to take care of myself... But as kind as my mother she feels sorry for me..
일을 즐겁게. 성취감 있게 하는 자체는 매우 흥분되고 즐거운 일인듯…. 하지만. 자녀 입장에선. 엄마가 필요할 때 함 께 시간을 가져 주는 것인데…. 모성애를 느끼게. 애정을 듬뿍 주어야 할 시간인데…. 저 엄마 결혼하면 안되는 엄마 였네. 나중에 죽어서 이렇게 묘비에 남길 듯…” 일이 즐거워서 평생 일만 하다가 일 속에 파묻혀 살다가 죽은 일 중독자 ㅇㅇㅇ “ 이렇게 써라.
It can't be just me who thinks that they r giving too much importance on the 2nd one than the 1st concern??? I feel lyk the 1st concern & 2nd concern is incomparable cuz the 1st one is too serious but they r saying both r such big concerns...Is it just me who can't relate to them???
@@luisenriquefigueroa4439 yes ! It would be way easier to me (and probably some others). Also maybe for those who don't hear well. However I know it takes time to do that, so I understand it might seem useless or a waste of time.
16:00, If I was her husband, I'd be filling for divorce....she is so irresponsible, slefish and horrible.....Ignoring young children is also a form of child abuse...this is horrible really 😠
The mum is very selfish for prioritising her family over work. I don’t think she should have had her kids now bc it seems like she has a life plan which they seem not to be fitting into. Plus the husband is also at fault (because he did the devils tango with her) and should’ve discussed with his wife what her plans are like bc it seems children aren’t the main focus for her now (which is understandable I guess). Tbh I can’t really speak on this seeing as I don’t know them etc. But I felt it was right to make an observation
Observe carefully, he clearly said she always done thing without his consent. She said because he is her husband, he should understand her workaholic attitude and not disscussing anything with him. She even said her husband is not important compared to the work. She try to avoid having to stay at hospital for too long so she go to a smaller hospital, she would like try to avoid anything that prevent her going too work for a period of time. Also are you saying the husband at fault for her giving birth a child ? So you are saying they did the devil tango thing because a child not just simply they wanted to do it ? It's not like he could predict the his wife would give birth to a child if they did the devil tango thing. It is not his fault that both of them had a high fertility. He also said that the main reason he sent the concern was because she also deterioriating her own health. If she is a man, everyone would lash out at her, but i gues it is not 100% her fault because as a woman it is her right to be independence from being a parent though if a husband had this kind of mindset everyone will still lash out "oh, how irresponsible". Her husband had to do everything from take care the baby, cleaning to laundry for 3 year and they both a working parent, a co-worker at best. Despite that her husband only ask to spend a bit more time with the children as she overwork everyday which her worker was uncomfortable and also take care of herself, that all.
Whatever the case may be none of them had any right policing whether or not she chose to breastfeed her kids. The editing on this show is so irresponsible. You can be a mother and not be maternal or want to be in the conventional sense. The sooner Asians and archaic societal values accept that the better.
when they asked seunghee about what yooaa brother told she was ugly and then seunghee told she agree with that..dont seunghee think that she is the ugliest member in oh my girl??yooaa is the prettiest..she even look alike sulli ..first time i lokk at seunghee..what in my mind is"how come she become an idol?her face is ugly,no attraction ..she jus t being vocalist becoz her voice..her face just ordinary
Mai chhote ko bahut khayalrakhata hoo mereteenjosabka poti mai saf kiya karta tha kabhi raste me huaa to poketme kapda rakhta tha mujhe khusi milti ginksbhi nahi karta kisi ka bachcha ho meleme god melekegumatatha wo tokhali aapka hai samlo per bachcho ko gayandene meusika hath mai to dular mewo bolti thi ki dular me bagad doge wahi clas chhodna humto kam me per wo tuisanse dasn kalas tak wahi jati thi per jab mai ghar pe to maijata tha milker kiya ok
Can we talk about how pretty Sejeong is in this ep and how Song Jae Rim didn't seem like a celebrity (i mean this in a good way), but a real counselor? He's so well-spoken and really spits out wisdom to those concerned people ❤️
Kim Sejeong has released her second album "i'm", she wrote the lyrics and composed the song herself. Please give lots of love to the Warning song and please give support to Kim Sejeong :) sesang love u !!!!!
What I like about Sejeong the most aside from her singing is her smile. She always smile making me smile too. I luv her!! YooA is so cute! Sunghee is really great on variety show. They are really beautiful!!
Sejeong is so pretty ... a good talker too 😍 i want her to be my counsultant too 🥺
yes she really is. watch all her hello counselor episodes :)
1st concern, that lady did not want kids. Her and the husband should have spoken about having children in advance and taken protection till they were both ready because she is being beyond irresponsible and unloving towards those innocent children
Exactly!!
when did she say that she didn't want any children?
@@EroiKuma her behaviour indicates that she didn't plan having them straight away. Her job is more important than her child, shes more concerned about working that she didn't even think twice before leaving her child alone.
If that woman was in France, for sure, social service will take the children far from her !!! You can't let a child alone in a home if it's not 15 years old minimum !!!! I think that she didn't want child this early in their marriage.
Elodie V social services would only do it if the child is in extreme danger been there 🤷♂️
Himeyuki Matsumoto Himeyuki Matsumoto She just left her children (a new born and an one year baby) by their owns in the house... When the her husband rushed at home, he finds the baby fallen from his chair... If that isn't an extreme danger, what is an extreme danger so ?
Not only France the uk and the rest of the world 🌍 would do the same thing as well
@wissem soshi Sache que cela est relatif aux familles !!! Mais la moyenne reste bien 15 ans !!!
@wissem soshi De plus ça ne m'étonnerait pas que l'âge s'allongent avec les années :/ Il suffit de voir les nombreux cas présenté dans cette émission à elle seule. Bien évidemment, il y'a des exceptions, certains contextes et certaines situation à prendre en compte ^^. Mais cela n'excuse en rien l'irresponsabilité de cette femme envers ses enfants.
Sejeeeoooonngg ❤❤❤❤❤
My girls Yooa and Seunghee 😍
Sejeong really pretty 🌼💞😍😍
38:21....why do they do it...Yongja-she is pretty.....She is chubby yet adorable...
Lord!! The way I love Jae Rim's boyish looks💓. He is so handsome.
Jae rim ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸 I really love the way he talk 🤗🤗
OMG SONG JAE RIM!!! And omg guys pls check out their drama cos it's a bop!
Nati .G what is it called?
@@dzudzu4853 i wanna hear your song
That mom is such an irresponsible lady. How can you be so carefree about your family life?
23:02...He is so considerate , I really like his personality
I am here to support my babies yoaa and seunghee ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sejeong yeppo 😍😍
this is my first time seeing a absolute solved problem, like the mother felt terrible and actually admitting her wrong doings and saying she'll work hard to work as a mother is just... wonderful
edit: its also my first time seeing the one (who was the reason for the concern) saying she felt terrible and actually crying for her wrong doings... and saying i love you genuinely, like for the pass videos i watch in hello councilor the people who says sorry and i love you doesn't sound real
6:45, she is so adorable and bubbly...😁
Seunghee should be a permanent member of a variety show, she's like woman version of Heechul
I just wanted to say i was here before 100 views and I'm proud cause I'm early :-)
1:33 you look cute oppa❤
and now i watch all your shows.
RIP song jae rim 🥹😭
Song jae-rim😍❤
Who the hell leaves such small kids home alone!? oh my god
19:39....its not about remembering....children can feel if they are loved or not...It can really effect thier lives...it is really sad if a child does not receive affection. As a middle child Iwas quite ignored myself, as a result I can not really show affection to others and keep people away from me, even if someone tries to come close, I take a step back....Parental neglect scars you for life
TRUE :( I'm like that too
The woman on the first concern can be easily solved if the couple just simply discussed things. They could just arrange whatever kind of chores or roles they want to do in the house and taking care of the kids. The woman wanting to work and have a career is fine- her only problem is that she lacks love for her children. Perhaps they had children way too early, they should've discussed whether they were ready for the responsibility or not.
The woman from the first concern, I think she doesn't wanna be a mom and that totally ok. we aren't supposed to be the same, and not all of us have to become parents. 'cause we are all diffrend!. It's just too sad that people don't listen to what they want and their character, and do what society say.
@@reemallicious
totally agree with you
if she didnt wanna be a mom, why did they made it in the first place? a child becomes a parent's responsibility when they're born and she clearly neglected it
@@aktivmusic5517
Right? Even if she wanted the kids, she should’ve at least take one day off of work each week to spend time.
@@sebaekons1534 yea definitely, we've normalised neglecting our own responsibilities a bit too much
I m happy to see favorite taehun and oh my girl lead vocal girl togetger😍She is so much fun Everytime to watch
There's a lot of bad comments about the mom here but I just wanna say that when she said "I think my children are perfect", I believe that's partly true
That guy is wrong about that question at 38:00 he should've remove the "think" 😂😂
Song jae rim😍😍
Pretty Sejeongahh
If this mother was a father, I do not think they would make such a big deal out of it... It is sad, that a woman has to fit a standard and only one type of mother is considered "normal". I do think she is slightly careless, there is however a certain amount of double-standard situation, that a father would not receive if he was the same. And in fact, many are, it was pointed out by the presenters.
I agree😔
THANK YOU FOR THIS COMMENT
Actually they pointed that she acts like many fathers ,who were at the show ,do ^^, + u can understand her desire for working ect , but she's neglecting her children just after giving birth , she has even done a surgery to give birth to the 1st child before her due date so it's normal to complain, to nag at her, and to scold her, she hasnt breastfeed her children and she s neglecting her health, so here there is no point to compare women with men ,she deserve to be scolded that's it , if a dad di the same he deserves to be scolded as well
@@ahmed-tariqouidadi3065 as you said, fathers should be scolded for this kind of behavior and I think this is a key point here. You said as well thy presenters pointed out there are many father like this and the question that arises is whether men get the same kind of response if they are behaving this way? I do not think so. Women are often minimized to the role of that of a mother, or a wife. If a woman wants to be more than that, for example in this case, she wants to focus on her career, she is presented as a bad woman. Men that would behave the same way would never be in the category of a bad men. They would be understood, because they work for their family. She is also working for her family. Yes, she is a bit careless, but the scrutiny would not be the same if she was a father and a man. Just because woman are preconditioned biologically to give a birth does not mean that they are feeling or in fact can fullfil the role that the society gives to mothers and how society has demanded a mother should behave. There are plenty of mothers that are not able to breastfeed they children for example. Does that make them bad mothers? Well, according to some, yes.
They didn't say that fathers who act like her are good, they use her as an example of those fathers who didn't care about their family and focus only on their work or something else. Yes, women should have the same opportunity as man to work even after she have a family but there is always a limit to everything. The problem here is not about her working but the fact that she still keep on working even after coming home. Each parent have their own individual role in bringing up a child. A mother cannot fill the role of a father and a father can fill the role of a mother.
Song Jae Rim, i love you.
My mom also feels sorry for not taking care of me. But my mom had valid reason .. My sister was always sick and got admitted to the hospital most of the time..At that time I was the healthier child so I had to take care of myself... But as kind as my mother she feels sorry for me..
Sejeongiee
일을 즐겁게. 성취감 있게 하는 자체는 매우 흥분되고 즐거운 일인듯…. 하지만. 자녀 입장에선. 엄마가 필요할 때 함 께 시간을 가져 주는 것인데…. 모성애를 느끼게. 애정을 듬뿍 주어야 할 시간인데…. 저 엄마 결혼하면 안되는 엄마 였네. 나중에 죽어서 이렇게 묘비에 남길 듯…” 일이 즐거워서 평생 일만 하다가 일 속에 파묻혀 살다가 죽은 일 중독자 ㅇㅇㅇ “ 이렇게 써라.
Sejeong ❤️
What a coincidence the wife birthday is same like me 😅😅
2:46 She's looks like Lee Sung Kyung
It can't be just me who thinks that they r giving too much importance on the 2nd one than the 1st concern??? I feel lyk the 1st concern & 2nd concern is incomparable cuz the 1st one is too serious but they r saying both r such big concerns...Is it just me who can't relate to them???
시간이 지나면 아이도 당신을 찾지 않아요...
So it’s also a problem if u get compliments wow how crazy is that
imagine thinking yooa is ugly??
CANT RELATE -.- poor girl is the freakin visual of this group qvq ♥
I'm still waiting for the day when they add Korean subtitles ;-;
To learn?
@@luisenriquefigueroa4439 yes ! It would be way easier to me (and probably some others). Also maybe for those who don't hear well.
However I know it takes time to do that, so I understand it might seem useless or a waste of time.
They have some across the screen but yeah, they're not the best 🙃 Maybe you should keep requesting?
@@DefineMorena I guess... Well, I'll try at least
Thanks 💜
@@tiramisunsun This may not be the same but some webdrama RUclips channels like 콬tv have Korean and English subs.
Do they not have child protective servies there ??? Wont this get her in trouble ??
FINALLY❤️❤️❤️❤️
Song Jae rim😭😭😭rip
저런 사장 이면 돈을 아무리많이줘도 안해요.사장님들은 그냥 주방장한테 맡기고 주방에 들어오지 마세요.현재중국집 주방장입니다
16:00, If I was her husband, I'd be filling for divorce....she is so irresponsible, slefish and horrible.....Ignoring young children is also a form of child abuse...this is horrible really 😠
The mum is very selfish for prioritising her family over work. I don’t think she should have had her kids now bc it seems like she has a life plan which they seem not to be fitting into. Plus the husband is also at fault (because he did the devils tango with her) and should’ve discussed with his wife what her plans are like bc it seems children aren’t the main focus for her now (which is understandable I guess). Tbh I can’t really speak on this seeing as I don’t know them etc. But I felt it was right to make an observation
You mean work over family?
There is no time for them to discuss
Observe carefully, he clearly said she always done thing without his consent. She said because he is her husband, he should understand her workaholic attitude and not disscussing anything with him. She even said her husband is not important compared to the work. She try to avoid having to stay at hospital for too long so she go to a smaller hospital, she would like try to avoid anything that prevent her going too work for a period of time. Also are you saying the husband at fault for her giving birth a child ? So you are saying they did the devil tango thing because a child not just simply they wanted to do it ? It's not like he could predict the his wife would give birth to a child if they did the devil tango thing. It is not his fault that both of them had a high fertility. He also said that the main reason he sent the concern was because she also deterioriating her own health.
If she is a man, everyone would lash out at her, but i gues it is not 100% her fault because as a woman it is her right to be independence from being a parent though if a husband had this kind of mindset everyone will still lash out "oh, how irresponsible". Her husband had to do everything from take care the baby, cleaning to laundry for 3 year and they both a working parent, a co-worker at best. Despite that her husband only ask to spend a bit more time with the children as she overwork everyday which her worker was uncomfortable and also take care of herself, that all.
When the kids grow up and are rebellious and etc, we'll know why
I wanted Yeon woo jin to come !!☹ he s never on variety shows SO SHY guy
Aajke super satrmere chhotehai eskeliye ganatha khash merepunji hai sawadanise rakhanaok
wow that first case was child abuse- neglect. her reasons just don't make sense
Oh my girl!!!!
24:48 كيوت فكل مره يبدأ يتكلم فيها
36:57 💯
Sabmere horahe hai sochlena wapas hona muskil hai ok
2:38 nE~
일만 중요시 하지 말고 아이들 생각 하세요
I can't believe that kind of mother so irresponsible.. kids comes first before anything ..
Yoo, that mother is selfish
Whatever the case may be none of them had any right policing whether or not she chose to breastfeed her kids. The editing on this show is so irresponsible. You can be a mother and not be maternal or want to be in the conventional sense. The sooner Asians and archaic societal values accept that the better.
its not the choice, its the cause. she stopped producing them bcs of work, i mean imagine going to work a week after u gave birth
Ak desh banaunga jisme humye srebachcheak bhi aapke pas nahi hoga sab ka humok
Someone has to slap some sense into that mother damn
She is not mother. The woman never knows it's very rude to her kids. Why the man marry her?
when they asked seunghee about what yooaa brother told she was ugly and then seunghee told she agree with that..dont seunghee think that she is the ugliest member in oh my girl??yooaa is the prettiest..she even look alike sulli ..first time i lokk at seunghee..what in my mind is"how come she become an idol?her face is ugly,no attraction ..she jus t being vocalist becoz her voice..her face just ordinary
Mai chhote ko bahut khayalrakhata hoo mereteenjosabka poti mai saf kiya karta tha kabhi raste me huaa to poketme kapda rakhta tha mujhe khusi milti ginksbhi nahi karta kisi ka bachcha ho meleme god melekegumatatha wo tokhali aapka hai samlo per bachcho ko gayandene meusika hath mai to dular mewo bolti thi ki dular me bagad doge wahi clas chhodna humto kam me per wo tuisanse dasn kalas tak wahi jati thi per jab mai ghar pe to maijata tha milker kiya ok
She doesn't deserve to be a mother😡😡😡😡😡