If you are the boyfriend of this woman, you should run. Look up about pair bonding, hers was destroyed long ago when she slept around in college. Also based on how she talk about her ex crying and how she unblocked him, she is still not over him. One call from her ex and she will jump back into her old toxic relationship. She aint it bro. You can do better.
We're sold so many toxic things. I'm glad you made it to the next phase in your life. Many of us have similar scars because life is easier said than done. All the best.
If you do get married, don't talk about your personal matters on a website. I still think you are in love with the thought of being married; not in love with the person. Based on your 50 minute info binge, I think you are a sweet young (sorta) lady. However I define you as a high risk wife. I wish you well and hope that you find true happiness that comes from within, and not through someone else or an institution. Husbands are just an accoutrement to your own happiness. Oh.....and don't use your future husband as an excuse for your unhappiness. I can imagine you will be back on here 10 years from now discussing why you divorced him and it was all his fault. Good luck!
I broke up after 7 years and immediately started dating a professional cellist and 2 med students. Whoa immediate proposal. Be careful what you wish for....
Women will leave if you dont marry them....but they will also leave you if you marry them...if she gives you an ultimatum before you are married she will continue these after you get married....If she asks where is this relationship going ?, she has never considered your relationship a relationship.....my dog has never asked this question, nor has it ever asked for marriage ... and yet I will love this dog until death do us part...in truth a dog will always love you unconditionally,...love for women always comes with terms and conditions....or as she says expectations ,,,
This is why you shouldn't have sex before marriage. Its tragic she wasted her 20's her most fertile years. I hope she finds a good husband and are able to have children
I think you need to reevaluate. Pro/Con list, journal or something because this is quite possibly the saddest "I'm getting married" video I have ever seen. Maybe I am reading your mannerisms and tone wrong. I truly hope I am. I do wish you all the best.
we men refuse to do it . There's no reason to sign a contract that benefits just one party . and the 50% divorce statistic ain't pretty either . You ain't convincing no man to marry you
@@LeonMortgagei agree with him. Why would you marry someone and put yourself in a horrible situation. A woman can take everything you have worked for just because she can. And there will be nothing you can do about it. Does not make any sense for the man.
BS,...marriage is a societal institute and church and religious push,..got nothing to do, or shouldn’t a couple's legal and societal acceptance and legal status...
Sorry every society, race and ethnicity from the beginning of recorded history is wrong and you are right? You must be a Berkley grad. Get your money back. They failed you.
If you are the boyfriend of this woman, you should run. Look up about pair bonding, hers was destroyed long ago when she slept around in college. Also based on how she talk about her ex crying and how she unblocked him, she is still not over him. One call from her ex and she will jump back into her old toxic relationship. She aint it bro. You can do better.
We're sold so many toxic things. I'm glad you made it to the next phase in your life. Many of us have similar scars because life is easier said than done. All the best.
Your story is important. Thanks for sharing. ❤
What’s the benefits for men to get marry? High risk and low reward. Get some facts about marriage and divorce then you will understand.
So, what's more important, being married or just being with someone you love?
If you do get married, don't talk about your personal matters on a website. I still think you are in love with the thought of being married; not in love with the person. Based on your 50 minute info binge, I think you are a sweet young (sorta) lady. However I define you as a high risk wife. I wish you well and hope that you find true happiness that comes from within, and not through someone else or an institution. Husbands are just an accoutrement to your own happiness. Oh.....and don't use your future husband as an excuse for your unhappiness. I can imagine you will be back on here 10 years from now discussing why you divorced him and it was all his fault. Good luck!
Linda, I second this. Sometimes saying less is more.
Exactly. She's likely an Alpha Widow looking for a Ken doll to fulfill a role. Body language is clear. Nice lady but she's not in love, I'm guessing.
I know you say this one’s for the girls at the beginning. But as a man this is actually pretty insightful for the boys as well. Thanks egg.
I broke up after 7 years and immediately started dating a professional cellist and 2 med students. Whoa immediate proposal. Be careful what you wish for....
Oh crap I missed the last few min of this video.. congrats on the engagement!
Thank you for sharing your very honest story. I truly wish you all the best!
this video randomly shows up to my RUclips, girl you are beautiful and I know you have a beautiful soul too! I hope you find someone that loves you ❤️
Want to get married but being married is a whole other story.
Women will leave if you dont marry them....but they will also leave you if you marry them...if she gives you an ultimatum before you are married she will continue these after you get married....If she asks where is this relationship going ?, she has never considered your relationship a relationship.....my dog has never asked this question, nor has it ever asked for marriage ... and yet I will love this dog until death do us part...in truth a dog will always love you unconditionally,...love for women always comes with terms and conditions....or as she says expectations ,,,
This is why you shouldn't have sex before marriage. Its tragic she wasted her 20's her most fertile years. I hope she finds a good husband and are able to have children
What if he wants you to sign a prenup first?
Yes because he could have a whole side relationship being the reason why he ain’t communicating. Happened to me.
Do it. As a man, I agree. Stop wasting your time and passing over noble men.
When's the wedding?
There is no reason for a man to get married ! Why would a man enter a contract where the other party is rewarded for breaking it.
correct - I lost 80% of what I worked for to an alcoholic. I hung in there for many years and it cost me dearly.
Would love to see wedding planning videos lol
Tell us all the juicy details
Don't feel bad blocking your ex I had my brother blocked my ex from my msn account and i felt good
ive been with this situation.
I think you need to reevaluate. Pro/Con list, journal or something because this is quite possibly the saddest "I'm getting married" video I have ever seen. Maybe I am reading your mannerisms and tone wrong. I truly hope I am. I do wish you all the best.
we men refuse to do it . There's no reason to sign a contract that benefits just one party . and the 50% divorce statistic ain't pretty either . You ain't convincing no man to marry you
Speak for yourself.
@@LeonMortgagei agree with him. Why would you marry someone and put yourself in a horrible situation. A woman can take everything you have worked for just because she can. And there will be nothing you can do about it. Does not make any sense for the man.
BS,...marriage is a societal institute and church and religious push,..got nothing to do, or shouldn’t a couple's legal and societal acceptance and legal status...
Sorry every society, race and ethnicity from the beginning of recorded history is wrong and you are right? You must be a Berkley grad. Get your money back. They failed you.
#Redpill #Mgtow