Cheater's Remorse: Going Beyond "I'm Sorry"

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  • @courtneymurphy6335
    @courtneymurphy6335 2 года назад +20

    Like this video and very much agree. But I would add that real remorse should include reparations…work on fixing what they broke. My man had an affair with a woman who was younger than half my age. My self confidence took a huge blow. I wanted him to help restore the confidence he broke (reparations). I wanted to feel desirable in his eyes again. My love language is words of affirmation. I told him several times he could help rebuild my confidence with him if he would compliment my appearance, especially when I put extra effort in when we went out. Unfortunately we are at 1.5 years after he finally left her and he still has not once told me I’m beautiful or sexy or anything to let me know I’m attractive to him. (Besides telling me “you know I think you’re beautiful” when I actually tell him I need those compliments). So many times we would go on dates and I would throw on a sexy dress and nothing. I don’t even feel like he gave me a second glance. It broke my heart because he probably told her how beautiful he thought she was. I believe that true remorse includes working extra hard to make sure your partner feels loved and desirable. Wish he would have done that.

  • @ginaramaci1929
    @ginaramaci1929 5 месяцев назад +6

    Thats a load of rubbish, the betrayer remembers what they want to but pretend they don't want to, they have learnt to lie to well over the decades they have had the affair

    • @mobfitness3370
      @mobfitness3370 2 месяца назад

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    • @mobfitness3370
      @mobfitness3370 2 месяца назад

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    • @mobfitness3370
      @mobfitness3370 2 месяца назад

      😊

  • @jongrayson9757
    @jongrayson9757 Год назад +10

    I’m the one that continuously cheated on my fiancé even though she warned me one more time will be my last. I have many times said I’m gonna change and never honestly worked though my problems with myself to give myself a chance to be totally faithful to her. Now I’m at the part where I’m giving her space but I don’t want to lose her she is the best thing that ever happened in my life the shame and guilt of my actions are the hardest things to deal with but I’m willing to go through anything to rebuild my relationship with her but I need help.

    • @Emptytopfloor
      @Emptytopfloor 9 месяцев назад +1

      Why do you guys do it in the first place? Genuinely curious. How did it become so bad that even men themselves say “all men cheat”. If you don’t mind telling…

    • @johndoe-xy2cr
      @johndoe-xy2cr 4 месяца назад +5

      First off stop lying to yourself ...everything in your message contradicts itself if you were willing to do anything then you would have done it already .... and either never cheated in the first place or atleast never repeated it after the first time. I am no better i cheated on the love of my life and i never repeated it and will never repeat it and still years later working every min i can spare on making sure im a better man and husband everyday and making sure i never end up in a place or as a person that would ever hurt the one i love .

    • @jadewilliams432
      @jadewilliams432 4 месяца назад

      Now you sound a remorseful for what happened

  • @passdahotsauce
    @passdahotsauce 2 года назад +4

    Just said I want a divorce and packing through out this week. A waste of my time.

  • @djphoenix1074
    @djphoenix1074 Год назад +1

    After the Apology 5:35

  • @DWM0781
    @DWM0781 Год назад

    What about people like me where they have severe MS with so many holes in my brain they can't even count them I have real hard time remembering everything but I'm suppose to remember everything I just can't not because I don't want to buy because I really can't remember what about us?

  • @lorrainem1870
    @lorrainem1870 2 года назад +5

    super powerful, i will watch this with my unfaithful husband, I can honestly say he is doing all the right things, and is very transparent, but i feel its me who is hanging on the the pain and hurt, and it's going to be 2 years in April, for D day, I did everything you spoke about me taking the initiative to book appointments, and bring him a book to read, and even bring up the subject, he will never do anything of the sort, and he also says he was very good compartmentilzing the whole affair when he came home, and says he doesnt remember anything, I am so glad you said he does remember it, his affair was from 2012-2017, called it friends with benefits, he did not love her, says it was just sex, so yes he minimizes it, I am still hurting to my core, my adult kids have no idea what has transpired, I fake it when they are around, how sad is that, Once again thank you for this video

    • @MultiBrideofchrist
      @MultiBrideofchrist 2 года назад +1

      Going through my journey now and I'm taken back by the the fact that it's almost 2 years and you're still going through the same emotions I'm feeling. It's been 8 months since D -day and this has been one of the toughest times we've both experienced. He's doing all the right things and I do feel he's repented and genuine but moving on from this is beyond difficult!
      Hoping and praying things improve for you and your husband. It really sucks to fake it in front of your children but I agree it's a must. Nothing but healing thoughts and peace to you in 2022.

    • @lorrainem1870
      @lorrainem1870 2 года назад +1

      Thank you for your support, I live in such a small city, 6000 people and there is no help here for me, every time I call a psychiatrist they either are taking new clients or are retiring soon, it’s very frustrating, I feel I’m on my own trying to heal myself, that’s why it’s taking me so long to recover, if you can get help do it! If you can go to one of these weekends with Hasani, do it, I wish that I could go but it’s a long expensive trip for us as we live in Canada, 8 months isn’t very long morning his affair , and I guess it depends how long his affair was, I still can’t fathom how long my husband cheated on me that is what’s bothering me most, this fall will be 38 yrs married, how do single women screw around with a married man for so long when she knows there is no future with him, I actually feel sorry for her, my husband used her for sex only
      Thank you again for your prayers and healing, prayers for you too, remember 8 months is not that long ago, keep getting help

    • @Emptytopfloor
      @Emptytopfloor 9 месяцев назад

      Can you ever get intimate after finding out. It feels impossible.

  • @maureennasirumbi1262
    @maureennasirumbi1262 6 месяцев назад

    Hi, how can I personally get in touch with couples academy

  • @natdehart4486
    @natdehart4486 6 месяцев назад

    22:50 Minimization 🤨