Mmmm I’ve always felt weird when people say “forgive the other” Forgiving myself for being a ‘slow’ learner is something that resonates DEEPLY with me. Thank you Sonia & friends 💕
@@ace464 Quite. It takes two people to be in a karmic relationship. The literal meaning of "karma" is "action and reaction", so both people are playing a part in the karmic dance. Wanting closure? Then just quietly and gently close the door. Without drama!
Did she just list every single thing that I''ve had to learn from my past karmic relationships? And, to think this was in my recommended right after I just got done looking at photos of him on YT. My angels are looking out for me.
What a poignant thing to say, @soulchantress7286. I once lived with a violent psychopathic man and even now sometimes I think I hope he's dead because then other women will have been saved from him. He was very good-looking and 'charming' until you moved in with him ...
I have been struggling so much this video was surely divinely timed. In the beginning stages of divorce. I’ve been with my husband since I was 20. We met in college. I’ll be 40 in a few short weeks. Feb 14. Yes Valentine’s Day. The most difficult holidays / Christmas I’ve ever experienced. Forgiving myself for not learning sooner. For taking so long. For not being able to make it work. All of it. Despite knowing this was inevitable. I saw this timeline when I made the decision to start living for me. I knew deep down this was a karmic cycle being fulfilled snd ending. But still all the knowledge in the world doesn’t seem to make it any less painful with the way he’s gone about it. With the legal process. Yes. I’m needing to disconnect and put an end to the endless reels replaying in my mind that keep me stuck in low vibration.
my higher self asked me if I can wish the karmic partner happiness in the decisions he made that did not honour me? The answer was yes, I shifted into forgiveness after that. Also I realised I had confused a karmic partner for a soul mate and I simply had a... doh *face palm*... moment and flew off into a more aligned future.
I still feel a strong need of telling him what I see is not healthy in his behavior. I’m not sure if that’s my ( hopefully) last thread of co-dependency or if it’s my “karmic duty”. I’m doing grey rock and it helped but the endless conversations in my head still happen. I should do a script and make it into a series 🙂🙏
I am a powerful soul. They are also a powerful soul. We come together to love and learn from each other. We part in love for our highest good. Nothing is lost. All is done in love. I wish them peace and joy as I wish for myself.❤
Thank you for this! It FINALLY made sense when you said to first forgive yourself before you think of forgiving the other. I’ve often thought of kicking myself for allowing him to abuse and disrespect me. I should have defended myself. I was too innocent I suppose.
I’ve always been mad at myself for wasting so much time, but you’re saying , forgive yourself for being a slow learner, uh, what a change in feeling that brings. Thank you so much!
my karmic relationship led me to anxiety and panic attacks. I was in a very dark place. I’m still trying to heal from it. But it seems like some things that trigger those feelings will never go away. The karmic partner that i have brought a lot of good and bad things at the same time.. He got me involved with drugs which i refused to do with him, he got in jail. I was waiting for him from jail for 2 years hoping when we reunite we will be happy and he changes. Which wasn’t true obviously and his disrespectful behavior came back. One day he was good to me another it’s disrespect. I am trying to leave now . But the world seems like it will never be bright like it used to be for me anymore. I don’t believe that i will meet someone who i can trust, who will bring light to my life and protection. I’ve lost hope. But i will at least better alone, without toxic karmic relationship.
Every bit of this resonates with me. The need for loving myself, the slow learning, the putting off of my purpose, the codependency on my end. 19 years of a karmic relationship with someone who never met me where I wanted and hoping for it to change. I'm about to be 41 and just the other day I attempted to create a break so I can move in the direction of vibration raising and opening up to receive the love that is already here!❤
@ChaibanStudios Here's sending you my love-and-courage vibes, sister. I've just left a karmically dramatic 4-year relationship with a dismissively avoidant man and I, too, became codependent after a while. It's an addiction and a toxic one, so getting closure was the most difficult thing I've ever had to experience as an adult. Oh, the things I've learned from it, though! You're only 41 and sound as though you're moving in the right spiritually vibrational direction. Well done you, girl. xx
With the cold shoulder from one of my daughters with no reason as to her silence, I struggle with this karmic lesson. If I understood why, then I could move forward. I meditated on it but it still hurts and I barely got clarity. Thanks for sharing Sonia ♥️
This video is just what I need right now. I am trying to end a 14 year karmic relationship and I just want to let it go. Thank you for making these videos ❤️
I ended my 15 year marriage and have never been happier. It was so hard. I have since found the deepest love for myself and with other - I never knew it was possible. Stay strong. You got this 💪🏽
I was in a karmic relationship with my mother and it was hell untill i was old enough to move out and went no-contact. I got the most relief when she finally died cause that ended the stonewalling between us. I'm finally able to forgive her and even ask her for forgiveness but it took her dying for me to get there
🙃 totally resonated with this thank you Sonia🙏 In my case it is hard to let go due to the fact that we have children together. I don't want to hurt them😭
A wise friend of mine once told me (when I was struggling with leaving my then husband) 'what you choose for yourself you choose for your children'. They learn from you how an adult love relationship is supposed to be. Would you wish the relationship that you have on your children? Offered with love...
Thank you. I was involved in a 3rd party relationship that drained me emotionally. I’ve slowly been recovering & this year I want to completely release the emotional, energetic ties. You’re information is very helpful to me on my healing path. ❤️
It hurts but I needed this. Got back with an ex thinking it would be better this time... I was wrong. But I forgive myself for not learning the first time. Thank you Sonia.
I was in a karmic situation on and off for 5 years. It started when I met a Philippine lady in the states. She told me of a warlock who put a spell on her. The next person I was intimate with, was that warlock for me. I've lost a lot because of it.
I definitely needed this because I won’t be karmic relationship to end to not only be cut. I wanted it to be dug up and And that is why I am in life I don’t want this person northern energy in my frequency so if forgiving is what I need to do, that’s what I’m going to do whatever it takes I’m willing to do
I took a very very long time to stop allowing abuse from npd sister.....feels so great....ty Sonia💗💗💗.....I am seeing the gifts...strong boundaries, healthy relationships & living authentically
Thank you Sonia for your wisdom and clarity around a draining and difficult topic. This is the information I have been seeking and will apply it to my own situation to move into 2022 with more personal freedom.
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this. I've been post karmic suffering for 5 months now. Looking forward to using some of your tips to help learn and close this chapter. Thank you again.
I am grateful for your teaching on this! I tried many therapists for toxic relationships, with no tools or guidance at all. I'm ready to start applying this!
Thank You Sonia! Self love and forgiving self is important! Thank You for confirmation of self love and forgiveness! It took me many years to learn this. Much Love and Peace to all
Love ❤️ you Sonia - and your messages. They help me so much - I have a number of karmic relationships I’ve been struggling with - so helpful to see it from this angle
Such a lovely soothing comforting and convincing voice of the this lady the content is explained in such a lovely way that it gets directly into the soul of the listener OUT OF MY ADMIRATION I HAVE SUBSCRIBED TO THIS CHANNEL
Sonia, thank you!! This came at the perfect time for me! It’s such a relief to hear your wise, kind, words from our beautiful Earth angel today!! You are simply wonderful in our lives!💜
Sonia thank you, I needed to hear this again to feel how I felt about my karmic relationships. It felt like a spiritual tune-up for my heart & soul to hear your words of wisdom.
Wonderful, thank you! Been struggling with this. I used to call myself a "slow learner "but I don't care for that term anymore as it feels negative for me...I mean, it takes what it takes! Even if it WAS "slow", well, here I am, NOW! No need to look back. Ta Da! :) And I just trust that everything had to happen the way it did to get me here. I give people lots and lots of chances, and that's ok, I like that about me. And anyway, lol, "Slow" compared to what? My expectations? Some ones opinion? How fast someone else is? etc. Well, that's what is "working" for me right now, and thank you again for all of this wonderful content. You are truly lovely. Happy New Year everyone!
Oh wow! You helped answer my questions and affirm my decisions regarding a relationship i ended back in August. To me it felt like a very old, karmic relationship, and that IT was DONE-hopefully the finale. As always thank you for sharing your wisdom & sense of everything is ok! 💖
I am going to watch this again because I feel like I missed some important things...I need to pause it and maybe take notes...Yep, LOLOL, "def a slow learner in that regard!"
Thank you for your guiding light Sonia! I just received one of your beautiful books in the mail today. I opened to a page and began to read about the angel in the metaphysical store and the posters! 💪🙌✨
Thank you Sonia 🙏🏻 You are such a sweet, beautiful energy. I love the way you de-escalate these BIG and often challenging topics. It took me years to learn what you just said in 9 minutes 🤣. Self forgiveness first is so key! You’re saving people from a lot of self torture and back and forth thinking by teaching this concept. ❤️
You're great Sonia and so helpful, you put things into sensible and accessible language that really captures what one feels in a karmic relationship. Not easy situations to get through but you break it down into little understandable chunks so a bit of light comes through. Thank YOU.
I love you SO much woman. Thank you for your beautiful, grounded, no-nonsense, authentic teaching over the years, of which this video is a shining example. I resonate with every word.
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This is golden. So much wisdom. Forgiving yourself first for having "wasted time" or taking too long to learn.
I agree. Golden.
U forgive yourself for what u accepted or allowed from this/these person/people/relatives.
I will forgive myself for being a slow learner, for being an over givier and for not saving myself sooner.
Me toooo
Ditto
Briefly, "1) Write down what lessons you learned. 2) Write down what achievements you have 3) forgive yourself. "
Hardest thing in my life is letting go of this relationship
Same😢
Mmmm I’ve always felt weird when people say “forgive the other”
Forgiving myself for being a ‘slow’ learner is something that resonates DEEPLY with me. Thank you Sonia & friends 💕
I feel exactly same x
Yes....gems
I really like the statement, "relationship is not person..."
Thank you so much. I learnt many lessons in my karmic Relationship. The highest of which was: I deserve better than this.
that’s more of pep talk. a lesson is more specific. ok you deserve better, we all do. so better than what exactly, would be the actual question.
@@ace464 Quite. It takes two people to be in a karmic relationship. The literal meaning of "karma" is "action and reaction", so both people are playing a part in the karmic dance.
Wanting closure? Then just quietly and gently close the door. Without drama!
Did she just list every single thing that I''ve had to learn from my past karmic relationships? And, to think this was in my recommended right after I just got done looking at photos of him on YT. My angels are looking out for me.
Love this. It's not the person, it's the exchange of energy, in this vibrational Universe.
What also feels great is forgiving myself for not being ready to forgive my abuser. ❤️
What a poignant thing to say, @soulchantress7286. I once lived with a violent psychopathic man and even now sometimes I think I hope he's dead because then other women will have been saved from him. He was very good-looking and 'charming' until you moved in with him ...
I have been struggling so much this video was surely divinely timed. In the beginning stages of divorce. I’ve been with my husband since I was 20. We met in college. I’ll be 40 in a few short weeks. Feb 14. Yes Valentine’s Day. The most difficult holidays / Christmas I’ve ever experienced. Forgiving myself for not learning sooner. For taking so long. For not being able to make it work. All of it. Despite knowing this was inevitable. I saw this timeline when I made the decision to start living for me. I knew deep down this was a karmic cycle being fulfilled snd ending. But still all the knowledge in the world doesn’t seem to make it any less painful with the way he’s gone about it. With the legal process. Yes. I’m needing to disconnect and put an end to the endless reels replaying in my mind that keep me stuck in low vibration.
my higher self asked me if I can wish the karmic partner happiness in the decisions he made that did not honour me? The answer was yes, I shifted into forgiveness after that. Also I realised I had confused a karmic partner for a soul mate and I simply had a... doh *face palm*... moment and flew off into a more aligned future.
“Self love in action and not in philosophy…” Thanks for sharing this.
I still feel a strong need of telling him what I see is not healthy in his behavior. I’m not sure if that’s my ( hopefully) last thread of co-dependency or if it’s my “karmic duty”. I’m doing grey rock and it helped but the endless conversations in my head still happen. I should do a script and make it into a series 🙂🙏
I am a powerful soul. They are also a powerful soul. We come together to love and learn from each other. We part in love for our highest good. Nothing is lost. All is done in love. I wish them peace and joy as I wish for myself.❤
I learned to be patient with myself, and be confidence in myself
Thank you for this! It FINALLY made sense when you said to first forgive yourself before you think of forgiving the other. I’ve often thought of kicking myself for allowing him to abuse and disrespect me. I should have defended myself. I was too innocent I suppose.
I’ve always been mad at myself for wasting so much time, but you’re saying , forgive yourself for being a slow learner, uh, what a change in feeling that brings. Thank you so much!
my karmic relationship led me to anxiety and panic attacks. I was in a very dark place. I’m
still trying to heal from it. But it seems like some things that trigger those feelings will never go away. The karmic partner that i have brought a lot of good and bad things at the same time..
He got me involved with drugs which i refused to do with him, he got in jail. I was waiting for him from jail for 2 years hoping when we reunite we will be happy and he changes. Which wasn’t true obviously and his disrespectful behavior came back. One day he was good to me another it’s disrespect. I am trying to leave now . But the world seems like it will never be bright like it used to be for me anymore. I don’t believe that i will meet someone who i can trust, who will bring light to my life and protection. I’ve lost hope. But i will at least better alone, without toxic karmic relationship.
Every bit of this resonates with me. The need for loving myself, the slow learning, the putting off of my purpose, the codependency on my end. 19 years of a karmic relationship with someone who never met me where I wanted and hoping for it to change. I'm about to be 41 and just the other day I attempted to create a break so I can move in the direction of vibration raising and opening up to receive the love that is already here!❤
@ChaibanStudios Here's sending you my love-and-courage vibes, sister. I've just left a karmically dramatic 4-year relationship with a dismissively avoidant man and I, too, became codependent after a while. It's an addiction and a toxic one, so getting closure was the most difficult thing I've ever had to experience as an adult. Oh, the things I've learned from it, though!
You're only 41 and sound as though you're moving in the right spiritually vibrational direction. Well done you, girl. xx
With the cold shoulder from one of my daughters with no reason as to her silence, I struggle with this karmic lesson. If I understood why, then I could move forward. I meditated on it but it still hurts and I barely got clarity. Thanks for sharing Sonia ♥️
Did you find out why? Maybe it has something to do with her childhood trauma in which you played a role?
@@activemindset Oh I do hope and trust that MrMMcG and her daughter did find some spiritual clarity; I was thinking just the same.
This video is just what I need right now. I am trying to end a 14 year karmic relationship and I just want to let it go. Thank you for making these videos ❤️
I ended my 15 year marriage and have never been happier. It was so hard. I have since found the deepest love for myself and with other - I never knew it was possible.
Stay strong. You got this 💪🏽
This came exactly at the right time
❤🙏💐 thank you God and thank you
I was in a karmic relationship with my mother and it was hell untill i was old enough to move out and went no-contact. I got the most relief when she finally died cause that ended the stonewalling between us. I'm finally able to forgive her and even ask her for forgiveness but it took her dying for me to get there
Love how you always break things down into the clear essential while keeping it light and matter of fact. Thank you! Love your books
🙃 totally resonated with this thank you Sonia🙏 In my case it is hard to let go due to the fact that we have children together. I don't want to hurt them😭
A wise friend of mine once told me (when I was struggling with leaving my then husband) 'what you choose for yourself you choose for your children'. They learn from you how an adult love relationship is supposed to be. Would you wish the relationship that you have on your children? Offered with love...
@@samanthasfavourites5972 this is so well said
Thank you. I was involved in a 3rd party relationship that drained me emotionally. I’ve slowly been recovering & this year I want to completely release the emotional, energetic ties. You’re information is very helpful to me on my healing path. ❤️
Amazing Wonderfully, Thankyou❤🎉
It hurts but I needed this. Got back with an ex thinking it would be better this time... I was wrong. But I forgive myself for not learning the first time.
Thank you Sonia.
My mother is a big karmic relationship for sure. We have pretty much let each other go.
I was in a karmic situation on and off for 5 years. It started when I met a Philippine lady in the states. She told me of a warlock who put a spell on her. The next person I was intimate with, was that warlock for me. I've lost a lot because of it.
I definitely needed this because I won’t be karmic relationship to end to not only be cut. I wanted it to be dug up and
And that is why I am in life I don’t want this person northern energy in my frequency so if forgiving is what I need to do, that’s what I’m going to do whatever it takes I’m willing to do
woah, I’m in awe how well you put this into words, how did you learn all of this 😭
I took a very very long time to stop allowing abuse from npd sister.....feels so great....ty Sonia💗💗💗.....I am seeing the gifts...strong boundaries, healthy relationships & living authentically
Exactly how I feel , I'm done, I can't go on doubting WHO I AM! Time to LOVE myself!!! Thank you Sonia ❤️
Happy New Year, Sonia! It will be a glorious year for us all!🕉🙏💜
Thank you Sonia for your wisdom and clarity around a draining and difficult topic. This is the information I have been seeking and will apply it to my own situation to move into 2022 with more personal freedom.
What a beautiful spirit you are!
Forgive yourself 🧠💗 very wise
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this. I've been post karmic suffering for 5 months now. Looking forward to using some of your tips to help learn and close this chapter. Thank you again.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you 🙏💗
Much love and appreciation for you, Sonia 💗
Sonia, I loved how "real" you were about this subject, thank you. This was incredibly thought-provoking and helpful.
I am grateful for your teaching on this! I tried many therapists for toxic relationships, with no tools or guidance at all. I'm ready to start applying this!
Thank you precious soul sister. Love you 💖 All the best to you 💚💖💚
Thank You Sonia! Self love and forgiving self is important! Thank You for confirmation of self love and forgiveness! It took me many years to learn this. Much Love and Peace to all
I did not expect the number 27!! I actually gagged, but this is exactly what transmutting is. Alchemy!
Love ❤️ you Sonia - and your messages. They help me so much - I have a number of karmic relationships I’ve been struggling with - so helpful to see it from this angle
Wow there is a lot to unpack here. I wasn’t expecting this 🤯🤯🙏🏽💗
I’m so grateful to see this video at this perfect time as I was so drained to leave a third party relationship. Thank you for showing me the light🙏
Thank you ❤
Such a lovely soothing comforting and convincing voice of the this lady the content is explained in such a lovely way that it gets directly into the soul of the listener OUT OF MY ADMIRATION I HAVE SUBSCRIBED TO THIS CHANNEL
Sonia, thank you!! This came at the perfect time for me! It’s such a relief to hear your wise, kind, words from our beautiful Earth angel today!! You are simply wonderful in our lives!💜
Thank you so much for your soul lessons 🙏
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Great words of wisdom ❣️ I needed to here this right now .
Sonia thank you, I needed to hear this again to feel how I felt about my karmic relationships. It felt like a spiritual tune-up for my heart & soul to hear your words of wisdom.
Thank you Sonia, your precious lessons are so interesting and deserve great attention. ❤️🙏❤️
It is wonderfully helpfull, thank you.
Wonderful, thank you! Been struggling with this. I used to call myself a "slow learner "but I don't care for that term anymore as it feels negative for me...I mean, it takes what it takes! Even if it WAS "slow", well, here I am, NOW! No need to look back. Ta Da! :) And I just trust that everything had to happen the way it did to get me here. I give people lots and lots of chances, and that's ok, I like that about me. And anyway, lol, "Slow" compared to what? My expectations? Some ones opinion? How fast someone else is? etc. Well, that's what is "working" for me right now, and thank you again for all of this wonderful content. You are truly lovely. Happy New Year everyone!
I adore you, Sonia!! I love how you articulate these things in a very real, relatable and grounded way. Keep shining your light 🌈🙏🏼
Thank you.
Life-giving information. Thank you 🙏🏽💛✨✨✨
Oh wow! You helped answer my questions and affirm my decisions regarding a relationship i ended back in August. To me it felt like a very old, karmic relationship, and that IT was DONE-hopefully the finale. As always thank you for sharing your wisdom & sense of everything is ok! 💖
Thank you!! I needed this message!
Thanks for this video, Sonia!
I am going to watch this again because I feel like I missed some important things...I need to pause it and maybe take notes...Yep, LOLOL, "def a slow learner in that regard!"
So needed today - thank you! A big thank you for the forgive yourself part.
Golden words thank you
Such balanced and wise advise!
This also makes me ask how many love stories that we watch were actually karmic.
Thank you for your guiding light Sonia! I just received one of your beautiful books in the mail today. I opened to a page and began to read about the angel in the metaphysical store and the posters!
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I was guided to watch this video. Will be doing this tonight. Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank you lovely lady🙏 I thought for too long that I was in a twin flame relationship.. I think perhaps it was karmic…time to release and let go!
Thank you Sonia 🙏🏻 You are such a sweet, beautiful energy. I love the way you de-escalate these BIG and often challenging topics. It took me years to learn what you just said in 9 minutes 🤣. Self forgiveness first is so key! You’re saving people from a lot of self torture and back and forth thinking by teaching this concept. ❤️
Sonia the Wonderful✨
Very clear message, thank you.
You're great Sonia and so helpful, you put things into sensible and accessible language that really captures what one feels in a karmic relationship. Not easy situations to get through but you break it down into little understandable chunks so a bit of light comes through. Thank YOU.
Thanks for explaining this 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you Sonia, this is masterclass!
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this.
LOVE your book Walking Home. Thank you Sonia!
I love you SO much woman. Thank you for your beautiful, grounded, no-nonsense, authentic teaching over the years, of which this video is a shining example. I resonate with every word.
Thank you for sharing this. I am to open my heart and be more receptive when the Karma relationship is over.
Yay love this channel. Thanks for the lesson.
Thank you, deeply. I now have your guidance to break free. Everything you brought was needed, today is the beginning of my work. Bless you ♡, Marianne
Wow this was right on time ! 🥺💯
Thank you so much ❤️
Absolutely wonderful words again ❤️ I truly look forward to listening to you every week. Thank you x
Thank you so very much for this!
This is a wonderful video one of your best thank you so much ❤😊
Life isnt just lived in your head. You need your own money to end a relationship, and a lot of it. Money so you dont end up on the street with nothing. Spirituality with common sense and an awareness of the physical world around you is helpful.
Beautiful! Thankyou 🙏
Thank you so much for creating these for the world. Your videos popped up on my feed and it’s exactly what I needed at this time.✨
thank you
Thank you, Sonia another timely lesson.
It really helped me !! Thank you so much 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is so helpful 💛 thank you!
Thank you so very much!
Sonia, I love your passion. You give me hope.
You are such a beautiful teacher and this is a video which I needed this morning!!!