The way he has his seatbelt on and kept changing locations, door light still on, etc. is 100% giving D0ordash driver filming between his pickups in the off-peak hours💀
‘claiming’ to have left the kink community because it was part of the occult and not a safe place to learn - really sounds like he was dangerous and ended up getting kicked out of his local community and is now a sad boy in his feelings… 😢😂
Exactly! Especially the way he talks about kink, all of the action but none of the levels of communication needed to make those relationships/sessions safe.
@@tobereplaced Agreed. Have actually already sent this off to a few local people myself, we were all icked out by the behavior - no matter the gender on my side!
Yeah, I'm into dating. Carbon dating. I can show you how your relationship with a woman (or man) won't decay like a radioactive isotope. After taking my course your love life won't be a half-life but a life full of excitement and wonder...
It's giving Angry Rejected "Doms" Crying in the Walmart Parking Lot vibes to me. This guy 100% did not "leave" kink, he was KICKED OUT for being unsafe, creepy, and abusive to women!
I'll bet literally anything this man got blacklisted from his local community for being creepy and not respecting boundaries, that or he's all talk and he's never done anything in the community.
he has verizon store assistant manager in western massachusetts vibes. got fired from geek squad in 2011 for making female clients uncomfortable energy. the worst townie you remember from your college years (y'know, the guy who'd buy a bunch of handles of admiral nelson and like, one 2 liter bottle of coke and invited 19 year olds to trash his horrible home that had more mattresses on the floor than chairs) has an exciting new career.
Oh god, he's That Kind of Dom. He definitely got pushed out of the kink community after word got around about how he treats his subs. Somehow I don't think he's great at boundaries.
Exactly! Especially the way he talks about kink, all of the action but none of the levels of communication needed to make those relationships/sessions safe.
He 100% has never had an actual sub, he's just done horrific things to women who had no experience in kink/BDSM and the moment he encountered an actual sub, his ass got blasted and rightfully so
WHAT? A guy who became Internet-infamous because of a video describing how you don't take no for an answer is BAD AT BOUNDARIES? 😂 Yeah, dude, if you can't leave a stranger alone who told you "no," what self-respecting kinkster is going to trust you to STOP A DANGEROUS ACTIVITY when they safeword?
Very much gives off the vibes of an abusive asshole who sees "kink" as little more than cover...and thinks subs like me are nothing more than a convenient breed of females™ who get turned on by abuse. > "Oh wow, I can treat my partner however I want and no one can complain? Sign me up!" This is why I'm scared of finding a man who is already into being a dom. Every good dom I've had started out as a vanilla relationship and was later convinced by me to give it a chance. _(It sucks...but I am technically looking for a man who is cool with hurting me, and the men who would be most attracted to that dynamic are abusive assholes. The man who deserves to be my Dom should be _*_more_*_ hesitant and actually _*_less_*_ eager about hurting me than a straight up abuser.)_
Quoting the bible and calling the kink community occult is giving weird conservative christian who’s trying to rationalize being kinky. Also he probably kept getting kicked out of clubs for being a creep
Also, calling the kink community occult would be dark magic. Which would mean that he's saying that if you join the kink community, you gain magical powers lol
no but the $3000 personal coaching is so funny to me because, like... growing up amab, I could barely go to any family gathering without a middle-aged drunk uncle pushing the same shit on me for free lol Like, where's the demand?? If you're presenting as a boy and you want shitty advice from a guy who claims to be drowning in girls, you can get that from your local frat boy for the price of, like... two Fireball shots aksjfkdjksjksjkswj
also, love how he's halfheartedly trying to distance himself from the redpill movement when his website bio apparently ends WITH A STRAIGHT UP RIPOFF OF THE PILL SCENE FROM THE MATRIX 😭😭😭 "the choice is yours; do you allow yourself to reach your potential, or do you let him help the next person? So, what will it be?" maybe he's trying to disavow the redpill movement so nobody figures out where he gets his writing from lmao
the target audience (which these guys will never explicitly acknowledge) is people who cannot leave their houses or talk to other people and would better be served by psychiatry or literal children
Unfortunately many people feel they have a right to possess who and what they want. Hearing someone say 'no' is part of the game to them, the first step in ultimately getting their way. They cannot fully comprehend that people do not want them due to their awful personalities so they justify it by saying 'that person I want is playing coy and wants to be chased'.
A lot of these guys are either delusional enough to think that she'll come around once she sleeps with him, or they only wanted sex anyways. Pity sex, half-hearted sex or drunk sex, it doesnt matter because its all just sex to these guys.
@Expunge6667 I've literally only ever heard men comment about how women like tall guys. At this point it feels like something men tell themselves to explain away why women don't want to talk to them, because they can't fathom that it might be their personality.
@Expunge6667 lol no. It's not a bad argument. Everybody's got something that turns them off about the gender they're attracted to. For some people, sure, it's height. But it isn't as common as guys seems to think it is. They get in their own heads about it and psych themselves out and then blame their height when they get rejected. If you think women don't have the exact same experience sometimes (of being on a first date they thought went well and then being rejected for seemingly no reason later), you're dreaming.
@@tlowery2074 I think his car would be more full if he lived in it but I'm definitely getting gig-app/doordash driver who works 12+ hours and films these between deliveries in the off-peak hours :T (and seems to cope by spending so much of his driving time fantasizing about his alter-ego who has a lot of dub-con sex that now he's trying to pretend that fantasy version of himself is a real person x_x;)
Yeah, but not every guy will resort to creating cringey, no-effort PUA content that features a clearly misogynistic perspective, that is fraught with endless obvious inconsistencies and lies, as a response to being broke... much like not every woman will create an OnlyFans to make money. This economy and the struggles it is causing is sad, of course, but grifting is clearly not an ethical solution. Sorry, but I do not feel all that sorry for him.
This kind of thing is so genuinely depressing to me. Sitting in your car, rambling about your (made-up) romantic and sexual success, deliberately presenting yourself in a way that pisses people off and inspires them to attack you. Just seems like an incredibly sad life.
Omg, as soon as you said dating coach, I was hoping it was this dude. He's so damn creepy, obvious lie about talking to a woman, and the awful boundary pushing. The only reason that he has gained any followers is to watch is downfall and troll him. Watching farther, I couldn't agree more. Even though most alpha bros are assholes an have horrible takes, they "back it up" what they're saying with having the dream home, car, drip, ect. This dude is in a shitty car, lives with roommates, and records on a older phone; why would anyone listen to him? He's regurgitating the same garbage that he's been fed believing that he'll blow up. Well, he kind of did, but is getting dogged on by everyone, even some incels.
I think we need to bring the term "pickup artist" back into the cultural lexicon because I think these guys are just pickup artists who are trying to distance themselves from the bad rep that term (rightfully) has
Others dating „experts” although take care about facade, like clothes, haircut, hygiene and filming from luxury apartments (it’s other thing that is rent not their) but this guy is unconvincing even before start talking.
If a guy said to me “well I’m the absolute best” to my saying “no thanks I’m not interested” I’d probably barf and then die on the spot from the cringe.
The fact he refuses to take No and he's apart of the Kink scene...or was IG? Tells me that most women who would be into the same shit AVOIDS him like the plague. I've heard that the Kink community has flaws but from what I'm seeing....he's the guy they warn you about.
He's giving off a certain kind of energy that's equal parts lazy and ignorant. He clearly wants to be a part of very specific communities, but he's not a part of them and he has zero understanding of why rules exist in the kink community specifically. It all feels like he's grasping at straws.
They're always like "You can't even TALK to women these days without getting Me Too-ed" while invading womens' (and teenage girls') personal space and making objectifying comments to/about them.
As an old attached lady (36), just talk to people like they are human beings. No one worth their salt is using this alpha-beta-whatever nonsense. Find a hobby you love, keep learning, and enjoy life - and you DONT have to be in a romantic or sexual relationship to have a full life. And dont lie to people to get them into bed, thats scummy.
Exactly. It doesn’t have to be a game where you’re constantly trying to get in their head and make people think this or that, make sure you’re not doing this but you are doing this and finding ‘high value’ men or women... It sounds exhausting. Just find someone you like being around and see if they like being around you too.
thank you jocelyn !!! my boyfriend and I are just trying to make each other's lives easier and better. It's not a game of winning and losing, tit-for-tat BS. We're just honest and we like each other. Also, you've got another 30 years before you get anywhere close to "old".
I should be a dating coach. I've been married for like 16 years and haven't dated in a long time but I've stayed married😂 my best advice is "be hygienic" and "maybe try to have fun on early dates and if you are thinking about making it serious think about it you are financially compatable. This doesn't mean you make the same amount of money but do you agree on what married couples do with money. Also, what kind of debt do you have each?"
👆👆👆x1M. Also tho “be hygienic” for real ❤❤❤ I am 50+, considering dating again after a long hiatus, but between the herp & the syph (omg it’s back), as a pan enbyish woman, instead of everyone looking good, all I see are 🦠 🦠 🦠 any time I do feel an attraction 😂
@@greeny.official seriously people literally Wait until the day after they get married and then say "let's combine checking accounts" and the other person says "no way this is my account, we can't get an account just for bills" and then arguments start over who pays what bills and it's like... This is a pre marriage discussion 🤷
I definitely think people who have been married HAPPILY need to be the ones doing the coaching on how to find and keep someone to actually build a life with and ways to go about building said life together
This guy lives in my state and his picture gets spread around local Facebook groups to steer clear of him. Also he gets regularly kicked out of places for harassment
26:53 this is really giving "people kept getting mad at me for being extremely weird in kink clubs/online and im saying the kink community is a cult now because the whole safe, sane, and consensual thing is sooo boring >:( what do you mean it's weird to ask strangers who I've had 0 conversations with to call me master and get collared???"
"You do NOT have to accept her rejection." Yes, you do. Yes, you fucking do. NO. MEANS. NO. I don't know why this is so fucking hard. Sorry, but I agree with you. If he's the master of the course, invest in some good equipment.
I volunteer, as a not very girly girl who's repulsed ace, to pester him and teach him what it's like to not accept rejection. He wants to play Yu-Gi-Oh with me, right? Right?? RIGHT????? THAT'S WHAT THE BOYS LIKE??? YES??? CARD GAMES????? No? POKÉMON BATTLES THEN??? I HAVE POKÉMON DND LET'S PLAY~ Let's see how stubborn he is~
4:07 I had to pause after he said "professional dating coach" to hold my head in my hands. Then I hit play and he said "to help guys understand the female mind" and I had to pause again to screech, my goodness how awful. Thank you Swell for saving us all 😂
I mean it’s been a while since I was in the kink scene, but I was way more comfortable at public events with people looking out for one another instead of agreeing to just go alone to someone’s house??
When you mentioned he was buckled and changing locations all I could imagine was Christian Grey Doordashing and having "business meetings" in the corner of a parking lot 😂
As someone in the kink community where I live, an experienced person consistently bringing new people into the space can be a red flag... the community can be very tight and word-of-mouth goes a long way when there's a problematic person around. When you can't find play partners in the community, bringing people in from outside becomes your only option.
he clearly got fired from a customer service job because he's a creep and is now an app delivery driver filming between gigs on the off hours while waiting for calls 🥲
Not everyone needs to sell a course. Not everyone needs a podcast. Not everyone needs to write a book. No credentials and a couple of alright ideas doesn’t make anyone an expert.
Oh my god as someone who has been in kink communities everything he said in that description is a huuge red flag. It sounds like he got chased out because he was being a creep. Seriously so many self styled ""Doms"" get rejected from kink communities because they use it as a power trip and get weird and self obsessed with the title "Dom" and he gives me that vibe 100%. Good Doms don't tend to use the title outside the context of their partner, and certainly understand styling yourself as Dominant in all things 24/7 is grossly unrealistic and unhealthy.
Everyone says this guy probably got kicked out of the kink community, but I don't think he's even gotten that close. My guess, dude went to one of those sex expos, saw a booth about BDSM, and listened for 30 seconds tops before walking away. I really want to know if any women have posted online about their experience with him...but I doubt he's actually been with anyone.
Considering he doesn’t take rejection well, I think he’s got a hard time with that first part,,,, or maybe his ears are full of wax considering the rest of his apparent hygiene
I need- NEED- the women that have rejected him and/or his ex-wife to step forward on TikTok and talk about their experiences with him. BEGGING the universe to get his ex-wife on TT.
i have a gf now but i rarely ever walked up to women to try and date them for multiple reasons but not wanting to come off as a creep was a big one. girl say no thank you i say ok have a great day with a smile, and walk away.
This is giving me flash backs to someone I used to know who always had to tell obviously made up stories about how many women he had been with and how much money he was making from "investing". Anytime someone would tell a story he would have to butt into it and he always did something bigger and better. The level delusion is incredible.
This guy reminds me of open mic comics who flex like they're established, paid stand-up comics. Then they start a school. Re: "If you don't look up to the person giving the course, don't take the course.". I concur! Which is why we have this thing among open mikers who swear by The Comedy Bible (it's really titled that) which if you look at merely the author's bio she nobly admits that she quit stand-up comedy after 3 years and became a motivational speaker (and author) instead. She offers fairly straightforward wisdom of public speaking, strict set structure in terms of joke writing. It's a book that I regret buying. But brand new comics swear by it! I think it's a book of decent stage habits that kills the artistry if you honestly continue with them. Bah, your comment about choosing well who you take advice from struck a chord with me, obviously.
I think the real problem is how content that is more extreme gets more engagement on a platform no matter if the content is good or bad. The red pill community has only gotten more and more extreme with their takes and ideas because dating advice that actually works is realistically, kinda boring most of the time. I think you mentioned before how at least Andrew Taint has a super car but like, if a bald head is a deal-breaker for me, then all the super cars in the world can't win me over. Also simple stuff like preferences and mental health they seem to just gloss over. It seems like a huge house of cards based of of mens own insecurities honestly, and when it falls a lot of men are gonna be lost and misinformed.
The first clip of him literally made me gag. Anyone who says "you'd have to be ok with my mastery of ropes" is immediately not someone you want coming near you at all, let alone tying you up
His comments about the kink community are all I need to know - someone's big mad that the community focused on consent and not coercing people excluded him 😂
But frreal I wish there was a non-toxic dating coach for women, about women, because I'm bi too and FINDING A GIRLFRIEND IS 100000000000000% HARDER than finding a man 😭
Swell being more of a dom ripping apart this guy's complete lack of production than the "alpha dom" tells you all you need to know about tiktok dating coaches
23:54 can the men who eat this shit up just go read some fanfiction or enjoy a romance movie? Because that scratches the "driving them to a state of obsession, making them prioritize him above all else" itch without the delusion.
I would agree that Russel can come off as a well put together dude that other dudes can maybe take advice from, but Tate is such an utter joke that only kids can take him seriously, and they do, which i would argue, is terrifying.
My bets are he went through school in special Ed classes, not that there's anything wrong with learning disabilities, it's just very obvious he's lacking in the brains castegory
"For all the people who haven't bought in to see what I actually have accomplished " This dude is definitely signs in to one of his burner accounts and looks at his own page and tries to believe his own bs.
The fact that he didn't fill in any of the information in his capcut youtube video is sending me - "name of the associate" "name surname" my man PLEASE
Weird of him to claim he was a dom in the kink community and then in the same breath calling the women asking if he was a sub haters! You have to have a dom to be a dom! Its like an apprenticeship!
the movie trailer one is hilarious bc he didn't even bother putting his own name or username on it, it all says "NAME SURNAME" for the director, producer, actors, etc, lmao
Negging: backhanded compliment or otherwise manipulate statement to get the other person’s need for approval. „Oh you couldn‘t handle that anyway“ - most people *want* to say, that they can handle anything/disagree with him. But he is not doing that right. (Not that you should do it at all) but yeah, not sure what people like that hope to achieve in making others uncomfortable.
Why pay $10 when every job has a creep like this in the workplace giving out this stuff unsolicited?
LMAO.. yeah just ask craig from accounting
@@RubyWalker-j1n John Oliver reference?
So true AND you can actually earn money while getting the "advice" 😂
The way he has his seatbelt on and kept changing locations, door light still on, etc. is 100% giving D0ordash driver filming between his pickups in the off-peak hours💀
He’s just filming in the car so he doesn’t wake his 3 girlfriends up.
🤣🤣🤣
@@alxndria1fake news, he actually has 6 girlfriends 😂
He gets ideas on the fly and thinks just filming and posting it is quality content 😂 dude where's the planning, script and editing??
‘claiming’ to have left the kink community because it was part of the occult and not a safe place to learn - really sounds like he was dangerous and ended up getting kicked out of his local community and is now a sad boy in his feelings… 😢😂
Exactly! Especially the way he talks about kink, all of the action but none of the levels of communication needed to make those relationships/sessions safe.
Exactly, no club would allow a rigger with
@@tobereplaced Agreed. Have actually already sent this off to a few local people myself, we were all icked out by the behavior - no matter the gender on my side!
He asked to get pegged and had WAY too many requests for his local dom
He probably has... interesting opinions on safe words
I want to live in a world where a "dating coach" refers to an archeology professor
And where a "pickup artist" is the guy who takes your trash to the dump
I'm cackling I love this
Yeah, I'm into dating. Carbon dating. I can show you how your relationship with a woman (or man) won't decay like a radioactive isotope. After taking my course your love life won't be a half-life but a life full of excitement and wonder...
@@bregowego heheheh, thanks!
10/10 only time 'dating coach' is valid 😩
It's giving Angry Rejected "Doms" Crying in the Walmart Parking Lot vibes to me. This guy 100% did not "leave" kink, he was KICKED OUT for being unsafe, creepy, and abusive to women!
He's definitely filming in his car because his roommates make fun of him.
My brain went to “he is unhoused and actually lives outta his car”
I'll bet literally anything this man got blacklisted from his local community for being creepy and not respecting boundaries, that or he's all talk and he's never done anything in the community.
EXACTLY that!
Yes! And I'm leaning towards the second one
One of those guys who's been "mastering ropes" on a mannequin he found in a dumpster when he was fifteen.
100% this. I don't buy this guy at all. Really strong "I've carved out an incredibly small pond and made myself big fish in it" vibes.
same dude who’s probably shaking and crying when he asks for no onions if his server is a woman
he has verizon store assistant manager in western massachusetts vibes. got fired from geek squad in 2011 for making female clients uncomfortable energy. the worst townie you remember from your college years (y'know, the guy who'd buy a bunch of handles of admiral nelson and like, one 2 liter bottle of coke and invited 19 year olds to trash his horrible home that had more mattresses on the floor than chairs) has an exciting new career.
Disturbingly specific amd accurate
That guy has gotten into kink, god help us
Lmao Berkshires represent
Oh my god i know like 3 of these guys
Please tell me you're familiar with chris fleming's bit "polyamorous"
Oh god, he's That Kind of Dom. He definitely got pushed out of the kink community after word got around about how he treats his subs. Somehow I don't think he's great at boundaries.
Exactly! Especially the way he talks about kink, all of the action but none of the levels of communication needed to make those relationships/sessions safe.
He 100% has never had an actual sub, he's just done horrific things to women who had no experience in kink/BDSM and the moment he encountered an actual sub, his ass got blasted and rightfully so
WHAT? A guy who became Internet-infamous because of a video describing how you don't take no for an answer is BAD AT BOUNDARIES? 😂 Yeah, dude, if you can't leave a stranger alone who told you "no," what self-respecting kinkster is going to trust you to STOP A DANGEROUS ACTIVITY when they safeword?
for real. That's not dominance, that's being a fcking predator.
Very much gives off the vibes of an abusive asshole who sees "kink" as little more than cover...and thinks subs like me are nothing more than a convenient breed of females™ who get turned on by abuse.
> "Oh wow, I can treat my partner however I want and no one can complain? Sign me up!"
This is why I'm scared of finding a man who is already into being a dom. Every good dom I've had started out as a vanilla relationship and was later convinced by me to give it a chance.
_(It sucks...but I am technically looking for a man who is cool with hurting me, and the men who would be most attracted to that dynamic are abusive assholes. The man who deserves to be my Dom should be _*_more_*_ hesitant and actually _*_less_*_ eager about hurting me than a straight up abuser.)_
"I am an expert on dating!"
Then why are you single?
Because he’s TOO MUCH MAN for just one woman 🙄
They said dating which implies failure at actual relationships.
Quoting the bible and calling the kink community occult is giving weird conservative christian who’s trying to rationalize being kinky.
Also he probably kept getting kicked out of clubs for being a creep
I was gonna say he sounds like the type of guy the legit kink community is extremely sick of dealing with.
Also, calling the kink community occult would be dark magic. Which would mean that he's saying that if you join the kink community, you gain magical powers lol
dude definitely got blacklisted from his local kink community for doing weird manipulative shit with consent and now he's gotta cover his ass, LOL
the kink community is weird ill pass
He was originally raised as a Jehovah's Witness, apparently.
no but the $3000 personal coaching is so funny to me because, like... growing up amab, I could barely go to any family gathering without a middle-aged drunk uncle pushing the same shit on me for free lol
Like, where's the demand?? If you're presenting as a boy and you want shitty advice from a guy who claims to be drowning in girls, you can get that from your local frat boy for the price of, like... two Fireball shots aksjfkdjksjksjkswj
also, love how he's halfheartedly trying to distance himself from the redpill movement when his website bio apparently ends WITH A STRAIGHT UP RIPOFF OF THE PILL SCENE FROM THE MATRIX 😭😭😭 "the choice is yours; do you allow yourself to reach your potential, or do you let him help the next person? So, what will it be?" maybe he's trying to disavow the redpill movement so nobody figures out where he gets his writing from lmao
the target audience (which these guys will never explicitly acknowledge) is people who cannot leave their houses or talk to other people and would better be served by psychiatry or literal children
I am unendingly confused about guys that want girls that don't want them. Like my dudes, don't you want someone who likes what she sees?
Unfortunately many people feel they have a right to possess who and what they want. Hearing someone say 'no' is part of the game to them, the first step in ultimately getting their way. They cannot fully comprehend that people do not want them due to their awful personalities so they justify it by saying 'that person I want is playing coy and wants to be chased'.
But they all DESERVE the hottest woman they can find
A lot of these guys are either delusional enough to think that she'll come around once she sleeps with him, or they only wanted sex anyways. Pity sex, half-hearted sex or drunk sex, it doesnt matter because its all just sex to these guys.
@Expunge6667 I've literally only ever heard men comment about how women like tall guys. At this point it feels like something men tell themselves to explain away why women don't want to talk to them, because they can't fathom that it might be their personality.
@Expunge6667 lol no. It's not a bad argument. Everybody's got something that turns them off about the gender they're attracted to. For some people, sure, it's height. But it isn't as common as guys seems to think it is. They get in their own heads about it and psych themselves out and then blame their height when they get rejected. If you think women don't have the exact same experience sometimes (of being on a first date they thought went well and then being rejected for seemingly no reason later), you're dreaming.
Tiktok dating coach "I'm so good with women!"
source: trust me bro
I don't think he's ever had sex. 😂
This guy is broke AF, and trying to cope. It's just sad.
it’s giving i live in my car
@@tlowery2074 I think his car would be more full if he lived in it but I'm definitely getting gig-app/doordash driver who works 12+ hours and films these between deliveries in the off-peak hours :T (and seems to cope by spending so much of his driving time fantasizing about his alter-ego who has a lot of dub-con sex that now he's trying to pretend that fantasy version of himself is a real person x_x;)
Yeah, but not every guy will resort to creating cringey, no-effort PUA content that features a clearly misogynistic perspective, that is fraught with endless obvious inconsistencies and lies, as a response to being broke... much like not every woman will create an OnlyFans to make money. This economy and the struggles it is causing is sad, of course, but grifting is clearly not an ethical solution. Sorry, but I do not feel all that sorry for him.
This kind of thing is so genuinely depressing to me. Sitting in your car, rambling about your (made-up) romantic and sexual success, deliberately presenting yourself in a way that pisses people off and inspires them to attack you. Just seems like an incredibly sad life.
It might be easier for him to live a lie than to face himself. Cause whatever is left of him cannot be happy.
Taking "fake it til you make it" to a whole new level
His room mates are his parents and he’s embarrassed for them to hear him talking about his course because they probably make fun of him
"Are you winning yet, son?" 😂
lol yes, definitely his parents 😂
i dont think he knows the difference between occult and a cult
Things that never happened called, and they want their poor fanfiction back from alphadom.
Everyone in the room wants their seats and applause back
tell that to his private clients that have already successfully held women hostage!
Thanks for getting infected with Alpha Dom so we don't have to. Your swell review saved us all! 😭
I heard this guy has 3 girlfriends, and yes, they smoke weed.
Do they smoke weed?
You mean she doesn’t just smoke cigarettes, but weed cigarettes?
pulled that from the depths of my memories
Weed cigarettes??
@@TheAngryCleric It's actually called a bunt - not a weed cigarette
wait his photo is AI??? could he not afford to put on a nice suit, shave, and have a REAL professional headshot taken???
He records his "courses" inside his car. You think he can afford a good suit and a professional photographer? 😂
I mean, the bio sounds like it was also written by an AI trained on Wattpad, sooooo
Omg, as soon as you said dating coach, I was hoping it was this dude. He's so damn creepy, obvious lie about talking to a woman, and the awful boundary pushing. The only reason that he has gained any followers is to watch is downfall and troll him.
Watching farther, I couldn't agree more. Even though most alpha bros are assholes an have horrible takes, they "back it up" what they're saying with having the dream home, car, drip, ect. This dude is in a shitty car, lives with roommates, and records on a older phone; why would anyone listen to him?
He's regurgitating the same garbage that he's been fed believing that he'll blow up. Well, he kind of did, but is getting dogged on by everyone, even some incels.
@@Dug252 truly. I'd love to be that delulu. Then all my problems are someone else's.
i hope it’s all just very lazy rage bait
@@Dug252 unlike everyone woman he's ever been with...
I think we need to bring the term "pickup artist" back into the cultural lexicon because I think these guys are just pickup artists who are trying to distance themselves from the bad rep that term (rightfully) has
Pickup artist? Don't you mean garbage man? Pickup artists are the lovely gentlemen who collect my trash on Thursdays, community heroes
rule number one: never take advice from anyone who calls or refers to himself as an alpha
Others dating „experts” although take care about facade, like clothes, haircut, hygiene and filming from luxury apartments (it’s other thing that is rent not their) but this guy is unconvincing even before start talking.
Usually never trust anyone that has to call themselves anything lol
If a guy said to me “well I’m the absolute best” to my saying “no thanks I’m not interested” I’d probably barf and then die on the spot from the cringe.
Tbh I think I’d burst out laughing cuz WHO TALKS LIKE THAT 😂 I’d be embarrassed for them
The fact he refuses to take No and he's apart of the Kink scene...or was IG? Tells me that most women who would be into the same shit AVOIDS him like the plague. I've heard that the Kink community has flaws but from what I'm seeing....he's the guy they warn you about.
He's giving off a certain kind of energy that's equal parts lazy and ignorant. He clearly wants to be a part of very specific communities, but he's not a part of them and he has zero understanding of why rules exist in the kink community specifically. It all feels like he's grasping at straws.
Honestly I think the only guys who are afraid of "Me Too" stuff are the ones doing shit they shouldn't be
They take it as we are attacking them and try to be a victim
They're always like "You can't even TALK to women these days without getting Me Too-ed" while invading womens' (and teenage girls') personal space and making objectifying comments to/about them.
If they're so hurt by the truth, they need to take the energy they spend being defensive and redirect it towards actually helping fix the issue
As an old attached lady (36), just talk to people like they are human beings. No one worth their salt is using this alpha-beta-whatever nonsense. Find a hobby you love, keep learning, and enjoy life - and you DONT have to be in a romantic or sexual relationship to have a full life. And dont lie to people to get them into bed, thats scummy.
Exactly. It doesn’t have to be a game where you’re constantly trying to get in their head and make people think this or that, make sure you’re not doing this but you are doing this and finding ‘high value’ men or women... It sounds exhausting. Just find someone you like being around and see if they like being around you too.
by the time you are paying some charlatan it's not even about meeting someone at that point but a whole lot of self esteem issues.
thank you jocelyn !!! my boyfriend and I are just trying to make each other's lives easier and better. It's not a game of winning and losing, tit-for-tat BS. We're just honest and we like each other.
Also, you've got another 30 years before you get anywhere close to "old".
Be kind, be interested. It's not rocket science.
39 and been with my husband for 17 years and I 100% agree! ❤
If MeToo and related stuff is specifically making it difficult for guys to approach women...they shouldn't be approaching women.
Remember $1,000.99 can also be considered a six figure salary.
I should be a dating coach. I've been married for like 16 years and haven't dated in a long time but I've stayed married😂 my best advice is "be hygienic" and "maybe try to have fun on early dates and if you are thinking about making it serious think about it you are financially compatable. This doesn't mean you make the same amount of money but do you agree on what married couples do with money. Also, what kind of debt do you have each?"
👆👆👆x1M. Also tho “be hygienic” for real ❤❤❤ I am 50+, considering dating again after a long hiatus, but between the herp & the syph (omg it’s back), as a pan enbyish woman, instead of everyone looking good, all I see are 🦠 🦠 🦠 any time I do feel an attraction 😂
Solid advice.
agree u should b the dating coach bc ive never considered these things (BESIDES FROM HYGENIC) b4 LMAO
@@greeny.official seriously people literally Wait until the day after they get married and then say "let's combine checking accounts" and the other person says "no way this is my account, we can't get an account just for bills" and then arguments start over who pays what bills and it's like... This is a pre marriage discussion 🤷
I definitely think people who have been married HAPPILY need to be the ones doing the coaching on how to find and keep someone to actually build a life with and ways to go about building said life together
he's giving "my three girlfriends. and yes, they smoke weed" energy
Where is the reference from?
tumblr
This guy lives in my state and his picture gets spread around local Facebook groups to steer clear of him. Also he gets regularly kicked out of places for harassment
26:53 this is really giving "people kept getting mad at me for being extremely weird in kink clubs/online and im saying the kink community is a cult now because the whole safe, sane, and consensual thing is sooo boring >:( what do you mean it's weird to ask strangers who I've had 0 conversations with to call me master and get collared???"
He's also giving rapist energy
We all threw up in our mouths 🤮.
"You do NOT have to accept her rejection."
Yes, you do. Yes, you fucking do.
NO.
MEANS.
NO.
I don't know why this is so fucking hard.
Sorry, but I agree with you. If he's the master of the course, invest in some good equipment.
I volunteer, as a not very girly girl who's repulsed ace, to pester him and teach him what it's like to not accept rejection.
He wants to play Yu-Gi-Oh with me, right? Right?? RIGHT????? THAT'S WHAT THE BOYS LIKE??? YES??? CARD GAMES????? No? POKÉMON BATTLES THEN??? I HAVE POKÉMON DND LET'S PLAY~
Let's see how stubborn he is~
4:07 I had to pause after he said "professional dating coach" to hold my head in my hands. Then I hit play and he said "to help guys understand the female mind" and I had to pause again to screech, my goodness how awful. Thank you Swell for saving us all 😂
I mean it’s been a while since I was in the kink scene, but I was way more comfortable at public events with people looking out for one another instead of agreeing to just go alone to someone’s house??
Yeah he doesn’t want people to be comfortable. He’s probably not ‘safe, sane and consensual.’ And was creeping people out.
Booktok is fantasy. FANTASY. I can't even comprehend why men think this is what we want.
When you mentioned he was buckled and changing locations all I could imagine was Christian Grey Doordashing and having "business meetings" in the corner of a parking lot 😂
As a terminally offline acearo in their mid-30s I would like to thank you for your service.
As someone in the kink community where I live, an experienced person consistently bringing new people into the space can be a red flag... the community can be very tight and word-of-mouth goes a long way when there's a problematic person around. When you can't find play partners in the community, bringing people in from outside becomes your only option.
"My six girlfriends.
And yes, they are submissives."
First time I saw this guy I thought he was one of those guys who “has a girlfriend but she goes to another school so we wouldn’t know her”😂
Say what you want but the guy clearly cares about road safety (not womens safety tho)
he clearly got fired from a customer service job because he's a creep and is now an app delivery driver filming between gigs on the off hours while waiting for calls 🥲
I'm sure this guy absolutely loves cops so he'd NEVER break a traffic law
I've been here all of 6 minutes and 50 seconds and this man just smells like onions.
...
Wait, I meant Onision.
Like the kids say, I FEEL THE ICK. I am angry and creeped out at the same time.
I don't understand why some men so badly want there to be like a formula for finding someone to date.
He can’t film in his room because his roommates are his parents.
You never know how much time you have left with you parents
Not everyone needs to sell a course. Not everyone needs a podcast. Not everyone needs to write a book. No credentials and a couple of alright ideas doesn’t make anyone an expert.
Nothing says TAKE ME NOW like a man with backne wearing a seat belt in a honda civic
It’s unfortunate that wanting to get women isn’t about wanting companionship but power. And the appearance of superiority
Had a brief run in with ol’ Alpha Dom a few months back. He’s absolute clownshoes.
Wait what happened?
Your just a jaelous haterr beta mail!!1!
bro spill don't leave us hanging like that 😭
Well, now we need to know
Oh I definitely need to know
Oh my god as someone who has been in kink communities everything he said in that description is a huuge red flag. It sounds like he got chased out because he was being a creep. Seriously so many self styled ""Doms"" get rejected from kink communities because they use it as a power trip and get weird and self obsessed with the title "Dom" and he gives me that vibe 100%. Good Doms don't tend to use the title outside the context of their partner, and certainly understand styling yourself as Dominant in all things 24/7 is grossly unrealistic and unhealthy.
he’s probably buckled in so he can move locations quickly after getting embarrassed every time someone sees him filming
Everyone says this guy probably got kicked out of the kink community, but I don't think he's even gotten that close. My guess, dude went to one of those sex expos, saw a booth about BDSM, and listened for 30 seconds tops before walking away. I really want to know if any women have posted online about their experience with him...but I doubt he's actually been with anyone.
9:03 "he's buckled in and parked" Amanda how could you not respect this safety king
He’s probably just vaping. I get that vibe from him.
Biiiiig vaper energy
Definitely a vapist
I heard he has 3 weed smoking girlfriends on tumblr.
He has three friends who are girls that smoke his weed.
There, I fixed it 😂
How to understand the female mind: listen to a woman when she talks and explains it to you. Really difficult, I know
Considering he doesn’t take rejection well, I think he’s got a hard time with that first part,,,, or maybe his ears are full of wax considering the rest of his apparent hygiene
I expect that he films in the car because he doesn't want mom and dad to hear his course.
I need- NEED- the women that have rejected him and/or his ex-wife to step forward on TikTok and talk about their experiences with him. BEGGING the universe to get his ex-wife on TT.
i have a gf now but i rarely ever walked up to women to try and date them for multiple reasons but not wanting to come off as a creep was a big one. girl say no thank you i say ok have a great day with a smile, and walk away.
"so I'm currently writing a book right now" "Dear God"
This is giving me flash backs to someone I used to know who always had to tell obviously made up stories about how many women he had been with and how much money he was making from "investing". Anytime someone would tell a story he would have to butt into it and he always did something bigger and better. The level delusion is incredible.
The level of insecurity, far too much 😂
Alpha Dom is like the most un-serious un-professional person trying to be serious and professional and just lying all the time.
We love a road safety king 😆
God his about section just sounds like self-insert fanfiction. Some real mary sue energy right there.
Alpha/beta/etc is just boy astrology
The second hand embarrassment. Oh good god 😅 make it stop haha.
This guy reminds me of open mic comics who flex like they're established, paid stand-up comics. Then they start a school.
Re: "If you don't look up to the person giving the course, don't take the course.". I concur! Which is why we have this thing among open mikers who swear by The Comedy Bible (it's really titled that) which if you look at merely the author's bio she nobly admits that she quit stand-up comedy after 3 years and became a motivational speaker (and author) instead. She offers fairly straightforward wisdom of public speaking, strict set structure in terms of joke writing. It's a book that I regret buying. But brand new comics swear by it! I think it's a book of decent stage habits that kills the artistry if you honestly continue with them. Bah, your comment about choosing well who you take advice from struck a chord with me, obviously.
I think the real problem is how content that is more extreme gets more engagement on a platform no matter if the content is good or bad. The red pill community has only gotten more and more extreme with their takes and ideas because dating advice that actually works is realistically, kinda boring most of the time. I think you mentioned before how at least Andrew Taint has a super car but like, if a bald head is a deal-breaker for me, then all the super cars in the world can't win me over. Also simple stuff like preferences and mental health they seem to just gloss over. It seems like a huge house of cards based of of mens own insecurities honestly, and when it falls a lot of men are gonna be lost and misinformed.
The first clip of him literally made me gag. Anyone who says "you'd have to be ok with my mastery of ropes" is immediately not someone you want coming near you at all, let alone tying you up
4:54 omg, literally in no way has that ever worked. Complete BS lol
Restraining order! Jail! Gallows!
packing up stuff for a move. needed something to listen to. thank you homie🙏
Hope your move goes good, sending good vibes 💕
His comments about the kink community are all I need to know - someone's big mad that the community focused on consent and not coercing people excluded him 😂
But frreal I wish there was a non-toxic dating coach for women, about women, because I'm bi too and FINDING A GIRLFRIEND IS 100000000000000% HARDER than finding a man 😭
Swell being more of a dom ripping apart this guy's complete lack of production than the "alpha dom" tells you all you need to know about tiktok dating coaches
23:54 can the men who eat this shit up just go read some fanfiction or enjoy a romance movie? Because that scratches the "driving them to a state of obsession, making them prioritize him above all else" itch without the delusion.
I would agree that Russel can come off as a well put together dude that other dudes can maybe take advice from, but Tate is such an utter joke that only kids can take him seriously, and they do, which i would argue, is terrifying.
I predict that any 'book' ever 'written' by this 'alpha' dude is generated via AI.
I need you to roast the terrible decisions of house flipper tiktok. They never once touch the actual issues like piping and insulation.
His paying audience, to the extent he has one, is young children right? That's always the answer with weirdos like this.
Honestly, I feel bad for guys who think like this and both make and purchase this type of course. What a really freaking sad life to be living.
I bet you anything he doesn’t know the difference between cult and occult
My bets are he went through school in special Ed classes, not that there's anything wrong with learning disabilities, it's just very obvious he's lacking in the brains castegory
"For all the people who haven't bought in to see what I actually have accomplished "
This dude is definitely signs in to one of his burner accounts and looks at his own page and tries to believe his own bs.
ew. ew ew ew ewewweweweewweewweewewwewewew. Everytime he shows up on screen, I feel my scalp shrivel up into a ball.
I can't make my face go back to normal, it's stuck in the "gross" expression after your video!
The steepleing hands THE STEEPLEING HANDS 🤣 He does it so intensely too. Like he's trying his best to get them fully in the video frame
The fact that he didn't fill in any of the information in his capcut youtube video is sending me - "name of the associate" "name surname" my man PLEASE
Do you think his book's on Kindle Unlimited? Wattpad? 😂
His bio sounds like someone from a 2000s pick up artist forum
Is he saying the kink community teaches magic?
Yes! The magic of negotiation, consent, and respect! (yeah, I know it's corny, but I had to!)
Is he a door dash driver or something and he’s just filming these in between delivering 😂
why do men love a/b/o so much 😔
Weird of him to claim he was a dom in the kink community and then in the same breath calling the women asking if he was a sub haters! You have to have a dom to be a dom! Its like an apprenticeship!
the movie trailer one is hilarious bc he didn't even bother putting his own name or username on it, it all says "NAME SURNAME" for the director, producer, actors, etc, lmao
Negging: backhanded compliment or otherwise manipulate statement to get the other person’s need for approval.
„Oh you couldn‘t handle that anyway“ - most people *want* to say, that they can handle anything/disagree with him. But he is not doing that right. (Not that you should do it at all) but yeah, not sure what people like that hope to achieve in making others uncomfortable.