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I had to lecture my daughter last night. She got mad and kicked the back of my seat in the car because she couldn't eat out that day. I reminded her that in the 7 years she's been alive, that she's NEVER missed a meal, and broke down the process her mother had to go through to cook. Then, I informed her that some times I did not eat for entire weeks when I was her age.
Her brain, effectively broke.
Had it been my mama I would of gotten an azz whooping on top of that to make sure my brain Broke. And my momma is a Loving Christian Giving Lady
Edit: The butt spanking would have reminded me to never kick momma seat again
❤I'm 55 my mom said she used to be HUNGRY; knew what it was to be hungry....ergo she makes sure my grandbaby is fed when she steps off the bus, because she said she remembered being hungry after school....you never know someone's journey/truth.....
I do that for my family now. I will go hungry on a normal basis so my son and husband can eat. I made a point to plan when I eat to when they are not around so when I go without they don't know so they won't have that burden.
Sounds like a spoiled brat.
As a father. i applaud you. My friend. If she's like this now? You have to dig in deep to instill true morals. I didn't. I have it worse. Ill pray that you work now, hard and fast while you still have a chance. Cuz this fallen world will mold her cuz it's with her 24/7. And we are not
I never considered a wealthy and privileged family would feel like contenders in the oppression olympics. But here we are, making history.
You got to find cred somehow. Having wealth doesn't matter anymore. The only thing that counts is victim points.
Go look and see how many African Americans having become millionaires by using racism. If you were black would you want to give up your race card? You just scream all white people are racist and you get money. You notice only blacks benefit from screaming racism and are the race that screams racism. Hell, blacks beating the crap out of Asians and then try to tell the Asians that it's white people's fault. Everyday they manufacture fake racism. Look at TV and movies, all they do is push racism lies.
This is it in a nutshell.
well they are black and are women. so they hit 2 boxes
@@johnsmith-fz5pzIf they identify as something it's an easy four. Black, woman, rainbow section, black rainbow section.
“For most people, to have a pool is a major thing “??? For most people to have a pool is an IMPOSSIBLE thing.
I was excited with my $10 blow up pool from Aldi with the built in back rest. 😂😂😂
I’m the daughter of a multimillionaire and I grew up in a small class divided mountain town in San Diego county. I’m 27 now but I still remember the pure venom people would spit at me for being given things like my parents big property, my first car/nice trendy new clothes etc. I wasn’t really into the other rich girls in my school; I found them annoying and shallow, so I hung out with normal kids. I felt ashamed of coming from a certain class. My dad worked his ass off to provide me with what I had. He didn’t wake up one day with a bunch of money. He wanted me to enjoy a certain level of comfort as his child. I still had to get a job at 16 and pay for my own college. I work hard like my dad did now. The idea of my child growing up to be shamed for me working hard to provide properly for them bothers me.
Absolutely as it should and I feel for you because it’s not right that you should be made to feel shamed. I come from a low income scattered family because some of us (the golden few that got all the adoration from the adults) made it to be middle class. I had to provide for myself when I became 14yrs old as my mother went homeless after fighting through the adversity I made it to college at 17rs old and took an aptitude test to help me decide (as a kid I wanted to be a chef as a teen I just wanted whatever I’d be good at that was tangible) it took me the business marketing route I started my own business before my first year of college was out and I kid you not to this day it is the hardest to get my family to help me with any of them it’s like their envious of my mind everything I tell them they shoot down even though later they will tell me like you were right or I see them trying to do the same things later be it business, politics, lifestyle my views are treated very poorly and its like I understand the truth about how slavery happened and was able to prevail as long as it did and why they always rapped about unity and try the self building efforts to make us feel better because we can be just negative to the core. I love my culture but I definitely pray for is evolution
Feel shame? I'm never bothered by the fact I can put high test gas in my German car @ $6 a gallon or have to check my grocery bill. I don't brag or answer questions, I just do me. Shame from anyone less is meaningless. There's better things to do and think about. My family has always checked my excesses so I maintain. Give yourself 1 toy or piece to remind yourself who you really are. If you know what I mean. I've worn a Presidential Rolex for decades, people think it's fake or they have an idea but don't ask. I live floating right "there".
I’m sure certain people would act like that but many wouldn’t. My best friends dad was a doctor and they had a huge house and a lake house and went on cool trips. I never felt annoyed that they had what they did. I knew that if my dad had been able to go to college or had decided to he could have become a do but he didn’t. I was happy for her to have the things she did and I was glad to be her friend. We were very similar in every other way and loved being goofy together.
@PrettyinGreenn - Wow! I literally gave someone, a RUclipsr, whose name I'm not going to say (because I don't want people to attack them or adversely affect the channel), this same advice that you just said but I had to water it down because if I just said it out right, like you said it here, they would probably lose some viewers because of the hatred toward them and their child. I am always happy when I see people change to an affluent status in life; nothing to do with race. I want everyone to come out of poverty to the best of their ability.
We don't get your blessings or earn rewards from our own hard work by hating other people who have made it or are successful who received financial means from their family. I was raised on that. And the thing is, you can't live with and love just money. You're going to need to interact with other people in life who may not have the same status as you. There's nothing to be ashamed of because people have money that they work for; especially when they work for it. But people are people. I enjoyed reading your comment and perspective. Have a nice day
FACTS. Which is why I don't allow anyone to shame our children. Our 4 boys deserve everything the Lord blessed us to give them. We went from being homeless in a car to millionnaires by working hard and investing smart.
She grew up in a very wealthy area in Texas. To think that all of Texas is like this is ludicrous. Of course there are older homes and plenty of kids don’t get cars at 16. Her parents just didn’t expose her to life outside their bubble. It’s important to have our kids volunteer and help out at food banks, collect items for shelters, etc.
The irony is there is no county in TX wealthier than Howard County, MD. It is the 6th wealthiest county in the US.
Or just become part of an athletic team that travels. She could also go on vacation, she could also travel 10 miles on foot to see people living in trailer parks. Seems to me like she has a 100 times more privileged than I ever had
It’s all created from the media and schools. It’s to avoid their own accountabilities when it comes to the dumbest subject of the color of somebodies skin…it’s not that, it’s culture. B culture is garbage and promotes murder, drugs, and leaving their children. It’s just a fact and they know it. It’s all completely systematic to turn it the other way to avoid that true reality that is what’s happening in real life.
Edit: and get called the R word for stating it. It doesn’t work that way and never has. It’s simple stupid.
I was going to say her parents just kept her so sheltered they she never watched the news, or volunteer, or even traveling other than lavish destination most likely resorts or cruises!
She lived in Frisco. Mommy and daddy needed to take her to South Blvd - Park Row or anywhere else in South Dallas to show little miss what life is like on the other side of the tracks.
Did I really hear that right? "sometimes I have to decide what to drive to an event." You are right, maam. I have never had to decide what to drive to an event because I only had one choice. That IS a whole different level. WOW.
My choices at her age: walk, ride a bicycle, or (if I was feeling rich) take a bus. Is my "white privilege showing?
I just know that she thinks a perfectly functional, clean, 8-10 year old midsize sedan is a 'beater'
The way she chose derogatory language for everything relating to poor people told me everything I needed to know about her. She sounds like a cartoon.
Right .....that was such a stupid freaking comment. Just shut up and be happy that you can choose which car you can drive to an event in don't complain about it.
@@libertarian4323 You have a bicycle?! Didnt own one since i was 18 and left home to study and work...
Though, you could say i'm still higher class than you, i have a month pass for the bus (which i technically got for free). I'm basically royalty.
@libertarian4323 Those are my options now, minus the bus - as an adult, lol.
There’s a difference between Privilege and Ignorance… she has a level of both.
I grew up in Howard County MD. It is one of the most affluent counties in the country and I went to school with a whole lot of wealthy black kids. She makes it seem like the ghetto.
😂 Well she viewed it as such🤣 Maybe Frisco Texas is much better😄
It’s not as new as the neighborhoods in Texas. They don’t have a lot of homes older than 20 years old (late 90’s)
There was a reason they moved from Texas to Howard County. Ppl like this do thorough research before moving.
I was gonna say. Howard County is fairly affluent so I have to imagine the class difference would be more like her moving from Beverly Hills to here. Like if Hillary Banks from Fresh Prince moved here.
My sister lived in Frisco, it’s one of the richest cities in the US top 10 if Im not mistaken could be off but I remember reading that because it’s a wealthy town in Dallas. It’s also predominantly white by probably half, the rest being Asian, black and Hispanic.
“Omg everybody is so envious of us, that is why we don’t have people over” Just obnoxious people, whatever race they are.
Human, I believe
I mean they are answering questions that aren't really ever really asked of them. Sometimes it's hard to articulate the Whys behind what you do.
@@justinanderson267 pretty sure she meant to say NO MATTER the race.
Remind me of a Chinese who driving around in the most expensive cars back in my university and keep complaint about how US is so "racist" against Chinese.
I am like "You are keep bad mouth about US while you yourself came here to study".
Needless to say after Pandemic, his family got poor because of no business in China and you can see he downgrade so much like his car along with his attitude.
Her reaction/response is to people that are judgemental towards them cause of their wealth. This is actually a very common thing amongs people with wealth cause poor folks have a certain attitude towards rich folks like they dont' deserve their wealth. Poor folks see it as I work my ass off but still poor. So it is a form projecting self pity.
shes a prime example to when rich kids don't learn the value of a dollar
I live in a beautiful neighborhood in the city. If any of my friends from back home came here, they'd be afraid to get out of the car. Rich people say that where I live is the ghetto, but all I see around me are wonderful people who aren't afraid to live life to the fullest within their means
I've Always found in super poor areas there is more of community as long as drugs have not hit the area hard.
@@carloszarzoso1724 Even in the worst areas there are good people with hope that don't want to be there.
Value of a dollar is how much gold you can buy with it today, that's it. If you mean it's hard to get a dollar, and someone else gets ten thousand with the same effort -- maybe that's the problem?
Your post is a prime example of blacks not knowing ENGLISH. First letter of a sentence is CAPITALIZED. It's not TO WHEN it's "EXAMPLE OF HOW ".
This reminds me of when working at a private school, I was required to attend a meeting where the key speaker was an African American woman who is a doctor and grew up attending private schools and wanted to teach us her scaring experience as a black child in a white school.... I am an immigrant from South America, teaching spanish and getting paid not near to what she makes and I will never be able to afford the car she drives or the house she lives in nor send my children to a wealthy college like she did ... but she will tell me about struggles... come one, people !!
You don't understand and it shows.
@@dangerouslycheeky3746 ... explain then.
She was too sheltered. Shame on her parents 4 nvr exposing her to community svce or philanthropy or even the other "side of her family" thats not affluent
If I were rich I wouldn't give my child or myself anymore than the essentials. All that money is back up money unless I can rewrite the foster system for their inhumane treatment of children. I would teach my child to work hard for their own money and get rich themselves. Of course if my child ever needed it I would give the child money just to fix her situation and turn it around. However if they try to rely on it they won't get a dime. They'd have to come to me with w whole freaking proposal and it would probably be treated like getting a business loan from a bank just to make sure the child doesn't take advantage of it all. It makes no sense to me the idea of getting rich and then living a life of luxury. There is nothing enticing to me about luxury. It's a waste of money and there's no purpose of having expensive things.
More wealthy than 99% of the country and still trying to play the victim... I'm tired y'all 😮💨
Being a victim is a fad. Some people follow whatever crappy fad comes along.
Katpooh 100% right. It's cool to be oppressed.
Being a victim is a fad.
Victim shaming is a fad.
Shaming shaming is a fad.
Shaming shame shamers is a fad
@@justinanderson267 Apparently, trying to look clever is also a fad.
@@justinanderson267... Ok... when this fad is over and enough people are crushed and rights are taken away, can we start the fad of total fucking equality like I've fought for most of my life? Maybe? No... wake up! This is no fad. This is our American life. 🙄🙄🙄
Black, rich and privileged.. .. THAT is the whole point of the lecture. As Jojo knows, there are as many rich black people as there are white (% wise) that are not generational wealth. Black and poor are NOT synonymous as a fixed narrative.
Lies African Americans make up 14% of the population there is no way they have as many celebrities as whites do
only 6 million blacks in the ghetto. the other 7 million are in the burbs.
Anyone born in America is considered privileged. Being “poor” in America is far better than being poor in any other countries.
In the rich Jewish area near New Haven CT. there are here and there many rich blacks living in million-dollar homes. I met them when I was young and went door to door. The other rich areas of CT in the 80s and 90s were not safe for them to live sometimes but the Jews know they are mixed with black with Moses's wife being from Africa. They say nothing about it and welcome you in. As a black youth, I ran into a lot of KKK in those wealthy areas. People would warn of the homes not to go to but I would go anyway. F-the KKK.
@@makeitso4793 Moses wife was White
She’s fm Frisco. Everyone is rich in Frisco. White or Black. All she has to do is leave her neighborhood to see poverty
Right on.
Ahh you missed her point.. She wasn't obligated to drive anywhere🤔 She just wasn't taught what exist..🤨
Victimhood is the biggest superpower of current society. It can give u every benefit without any accountability
A message is ringing in my ears...."we focus so much of giving our children what we didn't have, that we forget to give them what we did have." Also: "struggle builds character". There are a lot of mantras that can fit here 😂
I have so much "white privilege" that I grew up poor, lost half my thyroid, was turned down for jobs, hardly have any friends, have severe anxiety/depression, have lyme disease, mold toxicity, and sustained a brain injury at the age of 26 because of medical malpractice, and am now permanently crippled.
You are definitely a warrior !! Sorry for all your battles. ❤
Sorry for your struggles.
So sorry youve gone and are going thru this every single day. Plus the anger towards adoc screwing up I believe it. Im disabled also and no money or priviledge is being thrown my way. An employer doesnt care at all about my ohsical pain. There is no help. I hope the best for you.
According to many in this classroom they would say to you « be quiet/shut up and check your white privilege « even those that have so much more than you and have had way more opportunities than you have had yet their skin color is not the same as yours….hypocrites
You're out here living the good life 😂
never forget that everyone has problems. poor, rich, middle class, it doesn’t matter. people will find themselves in situations they weren’t equipped to handle.
Bad timing
My question is why do rich people waste their money to the point they cause themselves problems? Why must they have multiple vehicles that they would have to decide which one to drive to an event? If I were rich I would have one modest vehicle and the rest of that money would go to something important like completely replacing the foster care system. They are treated so inhumanely.
Mom is absolutely loving the attention 😂
They all are
I've had many conversations with people about the myth of "white privilege" My first question to the (often very young) person is: "Where did you get those clothes?" The answer is always the same "The store." My eyebrows raise and I say "You mean you're the first person to ever wear those clothes?" They either softly say "Yeah." or look at me confused. I continue "When I was young, we got almost all our clothes from thrift stores and we had a budget of about 50 cents per garment; up to a dollar for 'church clothes'. It sounds like you're the privileged one, here." There hasn't been a good comeback to that one, but I continue further "What do you eat at home? What did you have last night?" The answer is usually a boxed dinner of some kind or even better, fast food or one guy said "steak" Unrelenting, I push on with my point "We had refried beans at least three times a week because we didn't have money for fancy meals like that. I always wanted more sour cream on mine and was told 'No' because that was the most expensive part of the meal." This brief conversation makes young people imagine a different life than the one of comfort and security that they experienced.
Very seldom do I have to go into the violence I experienced as a child because of my skin color. I was attacked over 200 times for being white and sometimes by 3-5 people. I've got 23 stitches in my face from being a "cracker, honkey, snowflake, ofay, casper, or whitey" I was asked every morning "Is you a hard-ass n!gga?" and was beaten to a pulp if I said "No." or anything tentative. From the age of 9 years old, I was beaten, thrown around, ridiculed, and tortured for the color of my skin and I became a monster to fight those monsters. My nose has been broken so many times, it pops in and out of place when I blow my nose. No person I've met of any other color has experienced this sort of harassment and violence. In three years, I went from "B!tch-ass n!gga" to "Weak-ass n!gga" to "Hard-ass n!gga" and after being able to trounce 2-3 people at once, they started calling me a "Beast-ass n!gga" I never asked for these titles; nor did I ever refer to myself by them. It was the delusion of oppression by my attackers that caused this "culture" to torment me. Once, I lay in a pool of my own blood on the floor with passers by laughing and spitting on my 9 year old body; some stopping to give me another kick to the stomach.
I hold no ill will, but the point of this long anecdote is: These people have NO CLUE what oppression is.
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This family seems very reasonable and would sympathize with your experience. But Critical Race Theory would say you deserved to be treated that way simply because you are white and for no other reason. CRT has no sympathy for poor whites at all.
Great comment!
This is the best comment i have read all day
@TexZenMaster I am so sorry for what you had to go through. No person, regardless of race, regardless if they’re a boy or girl, regardless of who they want to take to bed deserves this kind of brutality. That’s what word reading this brought to mind. Brutality… I hope you have healed and recovered.. that includes anyone else who can share this pain with you..
One of my ex girlfriends is Puerto Rican and she had two kids. She was always on top of them to make sure they do good in school because of this she had friends and family asking her why she was raising her kids white. She would always ask them why is making sure my kids are educated and have the ability to take advantage of every opportunity in life is being white. I think it’s ridiculous
I think it's kinda funny cause being super good in school and being super successful use to be an Asian stereotype
Only if you’re white. Everyone else just defaults to the “y rays dem yt” attitude
PR WOMEN ARE WAY LEDS EDUCATED THEN BLACK WOMEN THATS A FACT!!! Look it up but hey self hatred is a real thing I have seen first hand over and over so one more doest surprise me!
It's sad that this is even being discussed in a public forum like this. It's normal to have people of all income levels in every ethnic group throughout time. There will always be people with less who hate people with more.
When my daughter was young we put her in a volleyball club. Not knowing much about the club, we went ahead and signed her up. It turned out most, maybe even all of the families were well off. All were such nice people, to the point at tournament’s someone would buy lunch for everyone. The first time I thought how nice, what a blessing. The next tournament came up and someone else bought lunch. I kind of panicked, because I could no way afford to buy lunch for even half the team. I ended up bringing our lunch to not make it awkward. They were very nice people and probably wouldn’t have had a problem had I spoke up, that’s not the point. The point is sometimes things happen and we don’t even realize it.
The fact that she has these views falls solely on her upbringing. My grandparents were very wealthy, but nothing was given for free. I worked a whole summer picking avocados in their grove in order to receive my choice of one of their used cars for high school graduation. Just graduating wasn't even considered worthy, much less getting my license. And it was understood that not everyone had money. Schools are not the only ones dropping the ball. Parents are rhe ones sheltering, to the detriment of their kids. They are not prepared for reality whatsoever.
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ahh well your grandparents did you good. they taught you. yes we have money. yes we are privelidge. but it doesn't "fall into your lap" you have to work hard 1 way or another to get that wealth
@@johnsmith-fz5pz Yeah. The first generation rich people, they can say "WE are wealthy," because THEY EARNED IT. But the second and third generation... Not so much.
There is a common phenomenon with generational wealth, when it came from industry, in the first place (as opposed to old landed gentry, who inherited estates that have been kept intact for centuries). The first generation makes the money, and are "Neuveux Riche." They raise their children to fit in with the Old Money, and the second generation tries, but they have a tendency to overdo it, and don't hang on to the money that well, if the first generation dies too soon. Then, the third generation comes along. Either they TANK that fortune, or else they take after the first generation, and work hard and hustle to even increase it. And because they worked hard, and hustled, and got tired, and missed a lot of time with their children, they tend to spoil their children, and the fourth generation doesn't know how to work, or where the money comes from... It's a cycle of swapping back and forth.
Wise parents who are wealthy still make their children work for it. They may say, "Yes, you will inherit a portion of this wealth, upon my death, but until then, you need to make your own way. And if you don't show that you can make your own money, we may just leave everything to charity. You have to prove that you'll manage it well, or you won't get anything." And that forces the second generation to behave like the first generation. However, as the second generation, they have advantages in education, networking, and possibly seed money.
It's really hard to find the right balance between "I want to raise responsible, self-reliant adults" and "I want my children to ENJOY their lives, without having to suffer, like I did," and "I want to give my children the world!" It's not even a straight line, so it' really hard to find the balancing point.
Same. Agree 💯
My parents went out of their way to make sure I understood hard work and didn’t feel privileged.
There were so concerned about it they decided to not be wealthy at all so it was the only option for me.
I'm a white middle-class woman and I think it's "weird" to meet/interact with anyone who is wealthy.
My childhood friend married a very wealthy man and that whole journey from them dating to the wedding to their $3.5 million house was weird. It still is weird for me even 15 years later.
I'm still not used to it.
It has nothing to do with skin color but the difference in their behavior (including purchases).
Yep, these things transcend race. The car thing is true for all business people. My dad is white but never, ever took his nice truck to business stuff - always took an average/below average one. He said that if people who hire him think he’s rich they won’t want to do business with him as eagerly. We weren’t rich but upper middle. My parents both came from poor backgrounds so they never acted differently. I recognize here’s also a huge difference between upper-middle and rich rich.
They said that people look at them as if they shouldn't have it. It's not the same
I’m English and working class, I live on a council estate in your regular 2 up, 2 down house with one toilet and bath. A lovely work colleague of mine who I never knew was rich (she’d kept it really quiet even drives around in a real old banger of a car and works full time because she enjoys it, not for the money) hosted a party for a hen doo for 2 of my work colleagues who were getting married. Anyways I was shooketh when I turned up to her house. It was like downtown abbey with an east and west wing, regency wallpaper,arga,tennis courts,acres of landscaped gardens etc. she comes from old money,lives humbly, does lots of extra volunteer work, lives off sweeties and toast ,her treat is a McDonalds and just blends in with everyone else.
People tend to do that with wealthy people in general though
Both sides act like she doesn't deserve it. She does simply because her parents work so she could. That's it!
She must have been so precious to her parents they kept her in an incubator until 16. Therefore her complete lack of awareness of outside world
I grew up having nannies, mades, and chauffeurs, and my parents tried their best to keep me away from people who were not of the same class for safety reasons. The school I went to was private but has a program that allowed scholarships for the less fortunate. Through this, I was able to understand the way other people lived, and this caused me to begin sharing what I had with the less fortunate.
Oh I guess that makes sense. I couldn’t understand how she didn’t know, but your explanation makes sense. Another rich kid made a comment agreeing with her too.
I am white and I got a car when I was 16 but my grandma told me she would match however much I saved up to buy a car. I worked every shift I could at McDonald’s and saved up $500 and we found a car for $1,000 at an auto auction. I was making $3.25/hr granted this was in the 1980’s but $500 was still a lot of money to me. Even in 2023 I am living in a house built in 1958 , no central heat and air. We have window unit ac and electric heaters . I live up in the mountains of Northeast Georgia and everyone around me is about the same no matter what your skin color is . To be honest $500 is still a lot of money to me.
I don't care what the color of skin is, if your rich or poor, or what you drive or wear. I look for values, kindness, caring, respect, how you treat others and animals. The out side of people is just a wrapping, it is what is in your heart and mind.
Absolutely and bless you because we are far and few and we’re truly needed
I came from Jamaica and I couldn’t believe that people in America was living worst than us, and we were not rich. I drove through a community in Virginia once my mouth hit the floor, I was scared shitless the poverty was so apparent it felt contagious to the point I rolled up my windows and hightailed out of there.
My advice is to listen to peoples experience to understand and give thoughtful feedback and not judgment. Rich people can’t understand why u are so poor and poor people can understand why rich people are so rich.
AT this point RACE should not be an issue in AMERICA! Black-White-Latino-Asian wealth is everywhere! NO VICTIMS can we focus on real issues!!!
There is a whole industry that needs Blacks and Latino's to believe that they are oppressed. They need people to believe that their failures are not their fault, but rather are the result of some vast conspiracy against them. They need this because they use this belief to get these people to help them become rich.
The working class is oppressed and the system is rigged against us. The people you are talking about work to split the working class and pitch us against each other.
What is that industry?
You mean a whole political party
@@halbleavy9900it's called the racism industry.
@@monember2722 So, there is no racism in America? Please tell me why the state of Alabama keeps drawing election maps deemed racist by the SCOTUS. That's just one example, I've got more.
This poor girl is going to be so embarrassed by this moment in the very near future lol
she will probably need one of the vacations they talked about where they fly around the world.
naa.. she's too stupid to understand the situation to be embarrassed.
Why? What should she be embarrassed about? Genuinely curious to know what you saw that I didnt?
@@TheAsianRepublican She should be embarrassed about the way she and her family made themselves out to be ignorant fools. She's obviously sheltered and has no real world experience, but the worst part is that they insist on blaming racism for the way that people treat them differently rather than the fact that the family is wealthy and fails to relate to people of lower classes. Time and time again, they're blaming racism as the primary reason why people are treating them differently. At best, they're willing to say that people treat them differently because they're jealous, but the most likely reason is that they're ignorant and out of touch with no comprehension of how majority of the population struggles and how much of a difference there is between their lives and others simply due to the difference in class and wealth. NEWS FLASH: If you're snooty and rich and acting like "having a pool, taking trips around the world, and buying a teenager a brand new car costing tens of thousands of dollars is NO BIG DEAL", and that you have to hide your wealth so that the mean racists don't treat you differently "because black people shouldn't be rich", then you've lost touch with reality relative to most people. Most middle class citizens of ANY SKIN COLOR are lucky to own a single car. The average 18 year old OF ANY SKIN COLOR is lucky to get financial help from their parents to buy a clunker of a car to get to a job that they work while being saddled with a mountain of student loan debt to attend college.
In the U.S. a lot of people say "oh, I'm broke" or " I'm poor" but then you see they have a lot of stuff, don't worry about food, etc. Like my MIL is like that sometimes, she says "oh my car is 12 Y/O" in a synonym to being poor, but I am like "you have a car, retirement" yeah we don't go on vacations etc, but we are far from poor. I didn't consider myself poor when I was in Brazil and I had half of the stuff I have today, like iPhone, laptop, lots of clothing, I go to college, my son have cool toys and nice food. So yeah, I see how she could think " oh how come everyone else doesn't get a car at 16?" because most Americans are like that on some level, they don't realize it
19:00 - She's young, attractive, wealthy AND female lol, the only roadblock she's encountered in her life was the dealership not having the Range Rover trim she wanted
you didn't go far enough... it wasn't available in the color she wanted
😂😂😂😂 good one
in looks she's a 4 at best, with that big as awkward head of hers.
I'm happy for her. She and her parents seem like nice people.
@@dbpool probably took her six months to get over that lol
Across the board I believe victim mentality is plaguing our country in so many different circles. As far as their expressions of how they feel their being disparaged I would more lean to say it is classism.
I agree and it takes away from actual "victims" because of the exhaustion that is created by the continual crying of "wolf".
It's not a surprise when it gets taught as an ideology early in life.
I learned a phrase from my nephew: First world problems. Listening to them, in my opinion, they have everything. But they seem to still need to feel slighted. Sometimes people make stupid comments about something like the car you drive and go on. You don’t wear it on your sleeve.
Listening to people who never have to struggle complain about nonsense is funny to a lot of folks who have to face real life problems.
She is doing fine just like a lot of well to people. I see nothing wrong with her. She sounds like good student she will succeed. Poor people do not better themselves.
How are people SO SURE about this family they don’t even know 🤦🏽♀️
You are a very sharp, articulate young man... very refreshing!
I grew up poor and on food stamps… and I’m “white”. Class transcends race. What we all have in common is that we face our own challenges and social concerns. It’s all relative. Try going to a truly “poor” country and the most poor American would feel out of place.
100%. Poor obese Americans would complain about the lack of air conditioning or streaming services the working class in many countries can’t afford.
Welfare was supposed to be help in time of need . The system creates it for them to live off it permanently . I think we should get rid of it .
@@willdegra317 more than likely they would want everything to be catered to their obesity....
so what? food stamps were created for poor white families.
Your parents wasted your white skin! That’s the reality idk why you people act like yall don’t have conversation tell the truth say what you really feel knock it off……
When I turned 16, all I got was a longer list of chores to do around the house and my parents telling me that if I want money, I need to do odd jobs around the neighborhood.
It’s true, but my family members own businesses so they put me to work. It was when I showed a work ethic that my parents actually bought the first car because they knew that I could afford to take care of it.
Good for you and your parents. Glad some values are still being taught.
Yup. That's because they have been doing those chores for 30 years already.
It's your turn buddy xD
I worked from age 12 to 16, saved every penny and was able to buy a 20 year old car by the time I time I was allowed to get a drivers license. I grew up poor white trash. I am personally insulted when anybody calls me privileged. This girl was and is so very privileged and her lack of knowledge about the world? That is poor parenting.
I see nothing good in treating a child this way. Kids should be kids.
That young lady is clueless!!!👀
I am from Maryland (Prince George's too! Upper Marlboro was my home town) and the girl's description of Frisco Texas is accurate. My husband and I moved from the DC area to north Texas 10 years ago and we were glad that we were able to provide our teenaged daughter a car while she was in high school. It was an old busted used car, but we saw it as part of building up her independence. It's a pleasant affluent area here in Texas but you don't have to be ultra rich to be a part of it. We made a point of teaching our daughter that not everyone was as fortunate as her and she had some friends who weren't as well off. I'm a little surprised the girl thought everyone lived that way. It shows a distinct blind spot in her parents' efforts to acclimate her to the world.
Frisco is new affluent. It was pretty rural once.
I'm a white guy from a trailer park in GA. I travelled to CA and went walking through Belair looking for my white priveledge. I was arrested for looking for my white priveledge inside a rich man's house....now my white priveledge azz is typing from jail😮😮
😂😂😂😂good luck in jail stop looking for that white privilege.
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You are a very grounded, well raised young man. You will go far in your life. I only wished this was more common of today's young people. Much love to you
She’s putting on a show to spotlight the fact that she’s from a wealthy background.
thank you for the thought-provoking vid young man 🖖🏽
I am a white woman and I did not get a car until after I graduated high school and got a job
White woman here as well did not get my own beater car until I was 19 and had a job and insurance. It was driven for 6 months by other adults in my life due to family needs and not me when I finally got to drive my own car it lasted 2 weeks before the engine blew and I was back at square one again for about another 6 months.
Ditto
Hell I'm a minority woman in my thirties and I still don't have a car and still use public transportation and live in low income neighborhood. And still collect pantries because even with my job I still can't afford a good amount of food along with the cost of living and having to pay transportation to get to and from work.
And I will say this I think it also depends on how much a person watches the news cuz there are some people who can't watch the news like to be honest I don't watch the news because I know it's nothing but depressing there is nothing ever good news and it there is it's rare.
I rode my bicycle for a decade on my 20's and 30's, cars were too darn expensive and I like to travel, everyone has different priorities. My girls got cars in their sophomore year of college
I gotta say LFR, it hit me a bit when the mama said "why does everything NICE have to be WHITE?!" I had a buddy in school (I also live in Central Texas and the white/black population is about 60w/40b) who was absolutely brilliant, funny, nicest guy you ever met and he had a lot of friends both white and black. He told me he was called an oreo ALL the time by some other black dudes for: excelling at schoolwork, liking rock and country music, dressing nice, having white friends...
If anyone was calling that rich girl an oreo, it was her black friends guaranteed. I think you nailed it when you said these issues are more "culture" than race based. It seems like popular black culture idolizes being "hood," or ghetto, or hard, or thug or whatever. I honestly don't think it's white ppl pointing this out, at least not that I've witnessed. Plus, I had a couple VERY wealthy friends (white & blk) that we made fun of relentlessly for being rich😅(in good fun).
Definitely a class/culture thing and NOT a race thing.
Love your content man, please keep it comin!
I grew up in a white neighborhood and got called "barely black" and an "oreo" by my white friends. There weren't any other black people around to do it.
Sounds like your friend was an oreo. Whether people realize this or not but there are cultural differences in the way people carry themselves. Its not good; its not bad - it just is. If I hang around with nothing but Mexicans when there are other options people will look at me like, "What's up with her?" Everyone wants to dress nice and most people that I knew in high school tried to excel or do well in school. It was never cool to be looked at as slow. But it is a difference between being smart and being nerdy which simply equates to being a little socially awkward. Its also how people carry themselves. Did he go out of his way to make it a point that he likes rock and country music when nobody else around him did? If so, then he got the attention he was looking for.
@@charleyjaxx2493 I get what you're saying, and no, he never tried to put it out there, it's just how he was. Dude def isn't a nerd, just has parents that stayed on his ass to excel. I also don't believe that "everyone tried to succeed". There was def a sub culture that treated school and CARING about school like it was something for punks. All I'm saying is, we gave him shit relentlessly for being rich, but the only time race was pulled into it was by other black kids...This guy is wealthy, well dressed, intelligent and athletic. None of that(imo) makes him less black. I feel like they gave him shit just because he cared. Again tho, I think it's cultural and not racial
You're absolutely right 👍🏾
@@TheKolen2434 I guess this is your experience. I went to mixed schools the majority of my life. I don't ever recall people bullying anyone for doing well in school or dressing nice. We all tried to dress nice. My friends and I were all athletic and on the honor roll in high school. I graduated early. Never got made fun of. I wasn't wealthy but definitely middle class. My mother didn't have a Corvette but she had a nice car that I drove to school everyday my junior and senior year. Never made fun of. If anything people got props for being smart and dressing nice. Idk where you went to school so maybe it was those kids in that city and state. I want to point out that every race makes fun of or teases other people in high school. Black people didn't make up the word "nerd." But those are my experiences and everyone, obviously, is different. There's also a difference between bullying and light teasing in jest and real degradation.
Touchy talking point for me! Because the discrimination my family received by being well off was crazy! We helped many but yet faced racism and hatred for my parents hard work and ethics. It’s a fact ppl will hate you for having more! I received a car at 15! We traveled, we sponsored families and still got a lot of hate! My parents didn’t come from money, they created their own opportunities to gain more money! And the ignorance in this world allows ppl to treat you badly for doing better. Whites hated my parents and blacks… and on them flip side many whites and blacks had love and respect for my family. So I recognized the way of the world early on!
I'm a black person in South Africa and what they are talking about is relatable. White people think less of you until they notice what class you are in and black people treat you different when they find that out too, because how dare you become rich 😢.
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omg victim.... poor poor you, a minority in south africa thinks less of you the majority.
This is most of America. In America this thinking can cost you your life if you are black. Privilege doesn’t extend to certain areas in America, black is black.
I mean bruh, i live in France as a "white" dude and rich people don't want to notice me neither. Don't switch class by race. That's why the left is almost dead.
So... what I get is that you all can't tolerate being verbally bullied? You know not everyone is like that, right? These are things we teach out children to deal with and yet we can't even deal with it as adults? I never once treated any black person differently from white person. I never made assumptions of them and I never hated on them for such ridiculous reasons. I didn't even realize that was so odd for you people until my black coworkers that came from other countries pointed it out to me and actually pointed out the fact that they liked me because I never did treat them differently. You see I get that we want all people to be that way and to stop discriminating against people, but do you know what's more important? To be yourself and work hard despite what others say about you. We're not supposed to care so much what others say about us or think about us. We need to be confident and accept ourselves. That will make us a strong minded person and in order to be that way you have to face some kind of discrimination. I'm not saying people should keep discriminating black people, not at all. I just don't think there's enough of it to be complaining. I know far more people who don't give a damn about who or what you are than people who would. I remember meeting a girl in elementary that was alone at recess. She wasn't the only black girl at the school but she was much darker than the others, had braids, and a scar on her face. I was the only one who approached her but it wasn't the fact she was black that she was avoided. It was the look on her face and the scar. I remember she said some wild animal attacked her as if it would scare me off and I just replied that it was so cool. I remember the shock on her face. These people don't need this victimizing ideology. What they need to know is that there is nothing wrong with them and they can be exactly who they want to be. They just need to ignore other's judgement because there are good people who will look past it all and just care about them as a person. The people discriminating against them are not people they would want to befriend because those people will judge them for every wrong they commit no matter how small. People need to be strong, let go of the discrimination, and find the people who will stand by them not for what they are but for who they are as a human being and nothing more. I myself was discriminated against and I'm just a white woman but I didn't fit into society. I didn't want to talk behind others backs. I cared very deeply for others and did what I could to make them happy. I was kind to everyone no matter what and people didn't like that. People don't like to believe in good and kind people. They try to always say there's some hidden motive. They always claimed I had the worst intentions possible whenever I only had good intentions. I was discriminated for simply being a human being and appearing to be too kind. Isn't that messed up? I don't care though. I never stopped caring about people and now I've met people who love me for exactly who I am and don't judge me for such things. In fact they admire how kind I am which makes me think they're crazy sometimes. I'm just not used to getting compliments and being liked. It's the same thing whether you want to believe it or not and instead of focusing on those who put us down we need to focus on ourselves and eventually we'll find the people who support us as we are without any conditions.
Her parents failed her so horribly that she will never understand reality or take any accountability, ever.
Life may very well teach her what her parents didn't.
She is explaining what she was thinking "I didn't know..." shows a change of mind.
Wow. I am TOTALLY reading something else here. But, then, i have watched the entire vid, and not this edited version. I have yet to see the comment here about watching the vid. If her parents failed her so horribly, then why does hse care so much about other people who are suffering? And that is where your comment makes zero sense to me. My wife and I both come from households not considered poor. My wife's parents were firmly middle class that saved a long time to send her to medical school. She recently retired as the director of a major hospital. That is the upper end of the 'middle class' scale. But the country she is from has a HUGE caste system. We were walking in her country one day, and came across a man collapsed in the street. She did not hesitate. It was someone HER hospital (for rich people ) would never see. She did a quick diagnosis, got into my pack for my medical kit, gave a few things, and told him we would come by in an hour and check on him. He was gone when we returned. She NEVER got to see 'poor people' growing up. She NEVER got to see 'poor people at work'. Her caste totally ignored 'poor people'. She did not have a chance to really know that poor people existed. You would call her 'obnoxious'. One day, just out of medical school, she heard things she just could not believe. That there were people without medical care in her country. She thought she was being lied to. But her parents had brought her up to help EVERYONE in distress. So, in her obnoxious state of mind, she sought people out. Got her hands dirty. Her collegues were shocked. But SHE ended up directing the hospital, not them.
Issabella cares a lot about other people. And she is working to help others less fortunate than herself. How in the world would you be saying her parents 'failed her'?
@@davidbeckenbaugh9598 You can't be a good person and wealthy. Full Stop. No exceptions.
@@davidbeckenbaugh9598 you are literally defending 3 people who admitted to being bigoted. It doesn't matter what they do. They will always be bigots. They admitted to it. They seemed proud of it especially the mother.
Very good commentary young man… 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You can be black and rich, and still face the same obstacles that someone black and poor will in the workplace, etc. Its not about victimhood, its about changing the mindset of a privileged group who refuses to see Black people as equal. Great commentary and thanks for shareing this.
It’s about victimhood. Oh poor me, I’m rich. And you just watched her be racist (classist) to both white and black people that are beneath them financially and you still found it in you to come in this chat and take up for her? 🙄 baby she don’t see you as equal, tf
He does not get it. They are not victimizing themselves. You sound like a white person who does not believe that there are real issues even with money, just the mere fact that they are black. You dropped the ball on this, you are way off.
That "privileged group" are the ones who fought wars to free you because they saw you as equal lol.
You can also be white and poor and go through the same things black and poor people go through. Or you can be white and rich and go through the exact same things black and rich people face. It all goes in a circle. Why? We're all human here and hardly anyone gives a damn about your color anymore except for the people who keep trying to stand up for things that are no longer present in this country. If it is present it's extremely minimal and most of it is based off assumptions which is why people keep saying they are playing victim. It's all assumed thwt its because they are black when it has nothing to do with it. Has anyone ever directly said to anyone it's because you're black outside of the black community in this day in society? No. You need to change your mindset because there isn't any damned privileged people in this country except for those in power meaning the government. Most the time if a black person is treated poorly it's not because they are black. It's either their behavior or something they did or heard they did which happens to anyone and everyone.
Just a note: in TX you NEED a car. Things are very far away, public transportation is not very developed, you can't do anything without driving. So its very common in TX for parents to help kids get a car because its just part of living here, its not only about being rich. Lower class kids still have cars, they just drive junkers. Or kids borrow thier parents car, you have to drive far away. It's a lot different in some other places where there's extensive public transportation in a place where things are closer together.
I get this. I grew up in London UK and had no need to use a car. Since moving to the countryside I noticed that a 15min drive to the shop was a 1hour 15 min walk! 🫣
This is true you definitely need a car in some parts of Texas I live in the Dallas Forth Worth area and a lot of areas don’t have public transportation. I don’t have a lot of money at all, but all of my kids had cars by the age of 16 if not their own I had an extra car for them to drive.
I’d say Maryland is the same nothing outside of the actual city of Baltimore is walk friendly I live in southern Maryland and without a car your very limited on what you can do
The closest job I could get is at least a 25-minute drive from my home in Illinois, which doesn't make cars any more affordable, however. It sounds like it's more common for parents in Texas to have expendable money
Absolutely, where we live most kids need a car. I gave my daughter a car at 16, the a Benz after graduating college. Her so called friends did act weird...the black ones.
This mom comes off as if she is just basking in this “problem” of being too rich
I love how you try to understand and still don´t get so many thinks. But you´re learning and so am i with you. I love your content. Thanks.
This is a great conversation...I have a friend that travel the world and many black and white friends were asking her how can she afford it. Remember it is the perception of what people think about the Black person . She didn't say the same struggles she said, she still have rode blocks. She is still black and her color is what can be a rode blocks or regular human things we go through. She is not saying what you are assuming. The point is she has her own struggles and from her perspectives and that is real for her. I think your perception is a little off. They are not victimizing it. They are sharing to uplift black people and crush the stereotype black as being poor.
Exactly, he really does not understand this young woman. His understanding is very frustrating for me. You are bashing her, and you really dont get it. I have watched my daughter be bullied not picked for stuff yet she had the brands and the "stuff" . She def had the experience as a black person in the worst way
@@Mitzymorris Wow! if you daughter is going through this I am sad to hear.pls stay involved with her and do what ever you have to do to keep her safe. I am sure she is a beautiful young lady.❤
@Mitzymorris sounds like a personality problem.
I've never heard of that stereotype spoken by a white person ever. It's always black people who keep emphasizing on that stereotype because there are poor black people who believe they just aren't as privileged as white people who don't realize there are a lot of white people in their same kind of situation.
@@MitzymorrisBut what white people are saying black people are poor? Is it white people bullying her or black people? I've never heard of that stereotype coming from a white person only from black people claiming they're being oppressed.
I remember driving to my highschool friends house for the first time only to pull up to a mansion. I backed out and drove away thinking i had the address wrong. It was unbelievable that she lived like that. It was shocking she had been to my house a thousand times and never brought up hers and the differences in our life styles. She was so cool about it.
She's a victim of wealth, success and entitlement. What a heartbreaking existence for her.
Poor baby 😢
The daughter seems to be very proud of the fact that she's extremely ignorant. That's ghetto behavior.
That poor girl didn't have her eyes open to see the change when moving to a new neighbourhood. She's not privileged, just sheltered from the real world for a bit too long
I think she was just sheltered by her parents. That's their fault. Good on them for introducing her to the real world. Finally.
"I think I'll drive the beater." Why do I have a feeling their idea of the beater car is not the one that is covered and rust and breaks down all the time
Probably a 5 yr old BMW instead of the Mercedes or Bentley.
My question is how did she learn that term and not know how bad an actual beater is? Who taught her this?
I haven’t gotten past the beginning of this, but If the rich black girl grew up thinking that everybody got Camaros or any kind of nice car when they turn 16 and thought that everybody was like them and was rich then that’s really sad because that would mean that her family never taught her about people that had less. So now I wonder what she thinks about people that have less than her. But I just think it’s very sad that you would raise your kids not to know anything outside their own world, thinking everybody lived like that, that’s the parents fault and now it’s up to her to make her future the way that she thinks she should live. I’m very interested to hear the rest of us now.
She learned about life by watching TV
It seems like the parents never took her anyplace in Texas outside of Frisco. Texas has existed as a state since 1836, and there are entire neighborhoods all over the state, built in every decade since then. So not knowing that there are houses built before 2000 indicates maybe that she was sheltered and possibly is … unobservant and clueless.
@@erzabetf9544some of you don't even know the capital of your own country.
@@naemer_dazeaffwhat in the hell does that have to do with anything being discussed in this comment section?
@@erzabetf9544no it's called ignorance
When I think of saving money I think of saving lose change 😂🤣
I think she's just flexing her wealth, while trying to be a victim. LMAO
lol I realized out of touch that family was when they said, having a pool was normal and basic. Ma’am that is not basic that is a luxury
Not in certain parts of the country loke AZ, FL where....it's middle class
This is why there should NO reparations. It will make no difference. They are victims, & in their world view, they always will be.
There's a lot of reasons there shouldn't be reparations, and this doesn't even make the list.
There should be reparations simply because when someone steals something, they should have to pay it back. It's transactional and not about anyone's feelings.
Huh? Based off your statement it appears you’re lumping people into one way of thinking and living. Thanks for exposing yourself.
If this is the case, then the states would have to take back the reparations given to Native Americans, Japanese, JewISH ppl and so on. By the way the JewISH ppl still receive reparation to this day from a country (USA) that had absolutely nothing to do with what happened to them in Germany. Would you consider these reparation recipients victims in their world view or just black/melanated/aboriginal/indigenous people?
@@jasjeffress6016 Considering the US Gov hired Nazis to work on the Manhattan project...
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Her detachment growing up was probably because she was in a much newer development/town and everything around there had been recently built. It didn't have to be stunning or luxurious...it was just newer. She comes across as very well balanced. The parents did a great job. They should be very proud. This is such a great topic to discuss. It also gives poor black people hope I think. It just uplifts people to see others living in comfort and not worrying about paying bills with so much angst. It's just great to see that kind of economic ease coming from the black community. And in many ways it's like saying "It's about time".
Jo Jo I agree it’s a rich thing and the mother, as she’s talking seems proud of it.
But when she says, maybe we should take the beater car, I’m thinking it’s probably only a year old and maybe it’s a Cadillac instead of a Lamborghini. These people are fake.
Yeah I doubt they're driving say, a 12 year old car with the fender held on by gorilla tape (not my fault, someone did a hit and run on my car at the grocery store) like I am. And it's still the nicest car I've ever had lol.
@@scarlet12234 exactly
You're a wise and well mannered young man. This is the first video I've seen of yours and had to subscribe. I can already tell that you are a wonderful person. Keep up the great work and your voice will definitely be heard by so many people that could use your words to help their lives.
$8 on a salad and now those same people ridiculing her are paying $8 for a fast food hambuger😂😂😂😂
To be fair a burger's ingredients are more pricy than a salad. It doesn't really matter to me though. Why has society made actual healthy organic food so expensive to afford. I want to eat only the best for my baby and all the crappy food is making me feel sick as heck too. Being pregnant in a country overrun by junk food is absolutely horrible.
MARYLAND is a rich state with some of the best public schools in the nation.
What happened to Baltimore?
Have you been to Baltimore?.it's lovely, yes there's a section that's crime ridden, but it definitely doesn't represent the entire city. Get out your house, log off and keep the TV and travel. Connect with people outside your tribe.
"Having a pool is basic" Tell me you are out of touch without telling me you're out of touch.
I'm in shock that she didn't know houses or buildings could be more than 12 years old and its all the parents' fault for not enriching her life properly. She also assumes the newer the house, the more wealthy the people but especially in the east coast, very old houses are still millions of dollars especially if they are well taken care of. I'm just baffled by her concept of the world and I feel sad that her parents did this to her and somehow did not realize.
I don’t see an issue with how she was raised, I grew up poor and if I can make it so my children can look at something like that and be like wow that’s crazy, I didn’t know something like that would be in the country I’m from, I would say I made it in life.
@@christopheravila7989 understandable but I think no matter what kind of upbringing you have, you should have a well rounded understanding of the varying experiences of those in your country if not the entire world. That goes the other way around as well. Even if you can't afford to travel, you can most likely access books for free that offer realistic depictions of various types of people, if somehow you've never seen them on TV or in a movie. Also, money is not everything. Having so much money that you can't even fathom the plight of others outside your community, would not be my definition of "making it" in life, especially knowing my kids would be ridiculed for being so out of touch. Good parents teach their kids not to be ashamed of their economic status be it rich or poor, to be humble, and to respect everyone's differences.
I'm more surprised if someone lives in a building less than 12 years old, and usually that's still considered brand new
I live in an old beat up trailer that is so old it no longer holds any value. She would likely have a heart attack if she saw it. We often have bugs crawling in the kitchen that come from all the cracks in the floor and everything. Unfortunately none of our 4 cats will hunt them 😅. We also had to replace the flooring because the floor was rotting. The place was not at all taken care of when we arrived. We had to hire some plumbers to fix the plumbing. There's so much wrong with it but it's livable and it's actually not that bad. We keep it as clean as possible and if we had to my parents would allow us to move in with them when the baby is born. I grew up in a giant house though. I was raised well as I had no problem moving from my parents giant beautiful house to an old rundown trailer with my fiance. It's already paid off and it was gifted to us by his godparents. Plus it's a nice cozy old rundown trailer. I never really cared about where I lives though. I never cared about material possessions in the first place. I only care about who I am with. My family is coming to visit next week and my fiance is super worried about my family thinking we live in a tiny crappy trailer, but I learned my ideology from my mom. She taught me it doesn't matter where you are or what you have as long as you are happy and I am happy as can be.
@k.willis4800 that's amazing. I'm glad your family gave you such a great outlook on life. Congratulations on the baby and I wish you all well.
I am an old white guy. When I was 12, we got our first indoor toilet. LOL We did not get an air conditioned car until I was in my 20s and married. BTW, it was not as bad as it sounds.
Your commentary on their experience confirms the subject matter
She has pretty privilege.
She has parents with money.
Both are things she was born with. She has no choice. People hating on her.
My husband and I have built a good life, but started out very poor and had to work for everything we have. One of our adopted children, who was new to our home at that time, was invited to a party in an upper class neighborhood. He said he didn’t want to go because he doesn’t hang out with kids like them. Like what? We asked. Rich. We informed him that he was now a child of privilege as well, so he WAS one of them. The look on his face! Classism is real. Everything they discussed in your video has more to do with class, not race. There are certain towns that are considered “ghetto,” and we have lived in these towns where we had families that were multi millionaires. We drive through the outside edges of an “influential” town and see more poverty than in the so called ghetto town where we live. That’s perception and classism, not race.
You are one of the most down to earth people I ever have the pleasure of listening to.
Why does this family remind me of Gretchen from Mean Girls with her quote “I’m sorry that people are so jealous of me - I can’t help it that I’m popular’ replace that with ‘rich’ 😅
That mother's comment about a pool hit me so hard. Whilst my single mom worked her ass off to spoil me as much as she could as she found it so hard that we were poor and that I couldn't have the nice things my cousins or classmates had, I wasn't oblivious to what she was doing. So when I was like 5 or 6 years old, I vowed to her that I would someday become succesful in life and buy her a nice home with a pool so she could have nice things too. It's this promise that made me try my hardest at school, tried to develop my talents as good as I could and how I became a pretty ambitious adult, you know?
I am white woman who has never had brand new cars , new house/apartment and I have many other used second hands items in my life. I have always been happy and thankful for what I did have in life. My Dad had fixed older cheap cars to give to his children and he had taught each of us to repair and care for our own cars. My first older car was adorable burgundy AMC Pacer that I had loved to drive and named Bubbles. My Mom and two Grandmothers had sewn my brothers' handed down clothes to be more girly and they had personally sewn my own dresses for myself since we were poor. As adult , I have always prefer shopping at thift stores and flea markets for it is fun to find what I want in fun adventure with bargain prices. I have always prefer vintage styles of clothes , accessories and jewelry over new ones. I did not have brand new smartphone until my later adult years after my 40s. All races have rich classes, medium classes and poor classes. There is no such thing called white race privileges, but it is actually and factually called class privileges for all races in reality within life. All races including white race have class privileges depending on one's own wealth in life awhile all races including white race have poor classes without class privileges too. Changing class privileges into white race privileges is disingenuous judgemental racism within itself when all races have class privilege classes and poor classes without class privilege too.
I love to see a young man who thinks for himself, and critically. I feel like you’re an old soul. New sub 😊
his father taught him well
Your parents must be so proud of you n themselves too. You seem very humble and intelligent.
Her thinking that everyone in that room has money also shows her ignorance and privilege.
The first thing I noticed is her and her mother's way of speaking. It's definitely Standard English. The second thing I noticed is that they were both very relaxed and very feminine. The third thing I noticed is that they both dress very classy and almost business-like. However, the narrative of racism has been taught to the daughter seemingly by peers and society despite the fact that she is so unbelievably privileged. Perhaps she adopted the narrative of racism out of guilt for other black people who adopted it because "it's just the thing to do" if a person is black. A sense of guilt.
Fresh Prince of bellair syndrome?
Lol, racism can occurs even when rich mate. Tell that to black footballers who have bananas thrown at them all their time. tell that’s to black wealthy men who are suspected to have stolen their own cars etc.
@@Bibirallie Name 2.
Very observant! I am Mexican-American and I speak International English/Kings English.
@@Bibirallie Rich football players, even when they're retired, never lost the 'hood language, the 'hood attitude, and will never lose it because they never bothered to study anything, only to warm a seat in any school. The only reason they got into college is because high schools and colleges will accept even academic failures (and manipulate their grades) as long as they can play a sport. HOWEVER, there are many black people who grow up speaking the formal language of whatever happens to be the country they live in (and their parents encourage them or make them speak it), and many who actually take private speech lessons to speak the formal language of the country they live in, because they want to get far in something other than sports.
Of course, she is Oppressed. The media has told her that she is a victim. The schools have told her she is a victim, social media has told her she is a victim, how is she supposed to think about herself?
True. But it’s up to her parents to teach her otherwise. unfortunately her parents are doing the same thing, playing the victim.
@@danamarie8718 please explain how they are claiming to be victims? I don't understand
Exactly
@@danamarie8718they just explaining their experiences of being a rich people. Remember everything comes at a cost 💲 just because you’re rich doesn’t mean all your problems are gone. Remember Biggie said more money more problems.
@@madant22 they know, they just are looking for any excuse to disrespect black people
I just wanted to say u really enjoy your video's. U are one smart young man. U cone at things from both sides and really think and make us go along with u and think. Rock on young man just wanted to say that. Thank u again. 😊
We need to stop division.
We all black no matter or social class.
She is a child. So her experience is shelter. She doesn't have her own yet
We need to unite as black folks. An understanding one another life experiences.
Maybe we should reunite as humans, humanity as a whole and stop separating ourselves by the color of our skin.
We’re all Gods creation no matter what. Race is a divide tactic used by the people who rule the world to keep everyone divided and fighting against each other instead of looking at the rule they’re playing in destruction of the world and freedom, keeping everyone from being “equal” as they claim they’re trying to do.
The only equality that the rulers of this world want for the people, no matter what their skin color is, is that we’re all equally poor and under their complete control.
If people would stop blaming each other and look at the rulers creating the oppression of all of us they consider below them, we could United and stop them
You want to see real privilege? Take a good hard look at the global rulers and I mean a real good look at them.
@@TabathaGaines1 I disagree, that will never happen.
@@TabathaGaines1 you must not be a black woman. I'll say this the problem is racial. I can't go into detail on here because it's censored.
I only speak the truth in public now.
Why can't you just unite as human beings with everyone and stop dividing that way? The majority of people really don't give a damn about the color of your skin anymore except for the people dividing themselves. You're all human no matter your color or social class. Why can't you just unite over that? You'd be surprised at how many people would take you up on that offer if you stopped separating based on color.
@@TabathaGaines1 I want my people to separate from our oppressors they have shown we are not all equal and we cannot coexist together. They have come k*ll steal and destroy..
My people needs to separate far from them to find paradise again.
Paradise lost is when my people were exposed to the others
I'm 27, and something the mom said struck me. She said that a pool was pretty basic, but some people don't even have that.
When I grew up, even at 17-18, a pool meant you had money. Not necessarily a TON of money, but you clearly had the excess cash to afford to build one or buy a higher cost house with one already there. I didn't grow up super poor, but we didn't have a pool at our house until we got a really good rent deal from our neighbors who moved out, and we moved in. And even then, we were only there for a few years.
Sounds to me like both if the parents were better off than a lot of people even when THEY were kids
I agree. I'm 16 and I understand I'm very privileged to have the life I have, but the idea that she considered a pool "basic" is beyond me.
Not just that but the money to add an addition that doesn’t always add much to the property price and can actually turn some buyers away. I heard that from my mother who wanted a pool but decided it wasn’t worth the cost.
My mom neighbor has a pool..she never use it but it’s been there since the 80s or 90s..I remember as a young girl swimming in it at a friend family cookout..but my mom live in a middle class neighborhood..we considered rich by the area in MAryland/DC/Virginia..
I had to swim in the neighbors pond.
Imagine learning, life's not fair in a classroom, and the lecturing other people on privilege.
Frisco, TX is a well-off city where they are from with a median income of $134,000. Frisco is in two different counties in the Dallas suburbs that have median incomes of $102,000 and $112,000. Howard County, MD is one of the richest counties in the entire country with a median income of $140,000. So, this family moved to a much richer area which in itself is much more culturally diverse than Frisco, TX. Those houses that were built in the 60s are worth more than most of the houses in Frisco, and newer more lavish houses are worth SIGNIFICANTLY more. This isn't a rich family that moved to a poorer area. This is a rich family that moved to an area that has been established for many years that is less materialistic than where they came from. A lot of people are moving to Texas, and Frisco is one of the cities that has been blowing up (population has grown almost 17% in last 3 years). So, this family is very well off, and they put value in material things. That is their prerogative. They did not downgrade in living situations though. Howard County's school system is one of the top school systems in the entire country. So, while the buildings may be older, the education is much better if she is in the public school system. If she goes to private school (there are many very prominent private schools in the Baltimore area), then no kidding that the school building is older. I have many friends that grew up in Howard County. I can assure you that deciding on what type of new car you want when you are 16 may be a thing in Frisco, it is not a thing in HoCo. Again, different areas, different value systems. So essentially, these guests are kind of fronting their situation. Howard County is 'older' not poorer. It is actually quite the opposite.
LOVE YOUR SHOW. I WANT ALL PEOPLE TO FIT IN TO ANY SITUATION.
It takes a great deal of sensitivity and insight to treat people of different races the right way.
Or you could just forget about race and treat others as individuals.
But that's so 1990s. We're much more advanced now.
Excellent comment. I was in my 20s in the UK during the 1990s and watched the 'race divide' gradually melt away. It's been infuriating in the last 15 years (since a certain 'empowering' US President was elected) to see it being deliberately rebuilt to suit nefarious political agendas.
Having to resurrect and utilise the 'Divide and Conquer' tactic shows just how inept and weak Western politicians have become.
My absolute favorite part of this entire event is the looks on the students' faces every time the camera scrolls over them. You've got a bunch of lower to middle class students watching and listening to a high class family talking to these students about how opressed they are because they are so wealthy. The students' faces express exactly what you think they would. A combination of "Wtf am I here," and, "Are you being serious right now, you rich fkers?"
They are not oppressed people may have judged them
@@tonywebb1403 They're talking about how rough they had it because of how rich and black they were. Suffice it to say, they were by far the most privileged people in the room. This is, quite literally, the nobles preaching to the peasants about how the peasants are the lucky ones.
@HarbingerOfRespite True. Honestly, as a child of a middle class family who needed to maintain a scholarship to pay for uni it was so infuriating hearing kids of rich families say they're oppressed when they don't even need to worry about losing a scholarship due to flunking, or managing your money to last throughout the week. Like, what are they trying to be?
@@tkraid2575 So, what, you're trivializing their experiences? You can still be discriminated against if you are perceived as a certain "kind," AKA, you're a POC and. therefore, you shouldn't be in this area. You're missing the point in that you've minimized their own experiences of being discriminated against, and the host of this channel just stated that, when you're wealthy, then you don't have those discriminations against you! WRONG!! I make 6 figures, and some people look at me as if I don't have the wherewithal to afford certain things! The main thing about this is that IDGAF what they think bec., when you run my credit, you'll who it is that you're dealing with. The lesson? Keep an open mind!
I would drop the class. Like really, I'm taking out massive loans, paying thousands of dollars per class per semester, and you think I'm going to sit here and be lectured by some wealthy idiots who insist they are victims meanwhile I don't get to express my own real life struggles because I'm told I have "white privilege" and therefore have no right to ever complain about any struggles because of my skin color? F THAT.
I commend this student and her family for having an open and honest discussion about their experiences and how racism impacts them even as a family of considerable wealth and means. No where in this video did she imply that she felt personally oppressed or struggling. That doesn't invalidate the negative impact and experiences that she personally and her family have to deal with due to the fact that they are African Americans. That you want to deny her the right to call herself an African American woman is an example of the very racism that she speaks of in this video.
I love your channel, my brother. You have good commentary
I grew up in a town in CT had a lot of black friends that were more well off then my family and i didn't think anything about it definitely wasn't weird.
*than my family
You didn’t think it was weird cause you grew up there. Think south park and they make fun of token for being Rich😂