@@somethinglikeanonymous1773 since when is having self-assuredness, awareness.. being secure in yourself, who you want and who you are smug? Men are never called smug for showing these sides of them
@@bsbgirl85 for god's sake leave tmaera alone. You must be lonely to be that mad about her life. And by the way, women who have kids need to have their mouth covered sometimes cuz you don't want them to figure out what you doin!
I agree with Jeannie. Telling them what you like before might mess of their flow. It’s better to guide them through during if it’s not going well. News flash, what if, they do something to you that you never experienced and you like it? Just saying it’s better to guide during rather than before. You might be surprised 😉
Um no I don't like talking during sex so if u wanna know ask way before talking is annoying less talking more action only noise should be my moans and sex sounds
For once it’s really nice to watch an episode with only the 4 of you. I’ve lost interest watching the show since Amanda came along. Everything is so serious and angry. You 4 ladies were meant to host The Real and we see the friendship and love, it’s very refreshing.
As a man, I learned you have to pay attention. It's not just what's coming out of there mouth but watch their body. Every woman is different n has different spots or like things certain ways. As a man take your ego out of it n the best sex is learning the person n focusing on them not thinking you know everything. Example you think just bc you got the big you know you just start hammering like a jackhammer. Her screams probably aren't from pleasure pimpin but from pain. Women only have a certain amount of space in there like 5 to 6 inches at the most. You try ramming all 8 you giving them a hysterectomy lol Learn you can't just ram the whole thing you gonna have to leave a few inches out. Don't think you just know how to eat kitty learn. Lastly like Katt williams says it a marathon not a race get a good rhythm n focus on them n you'll last bc you not just overly excited. Also ain't no shame in hopping out for a sec you get to happy doing other things then getting back in the game lol
Ladies can't take it for granted either...just because guys generally finish doesn't mean you can't do more to please him or to make it better than just getting off. My ex from 25 years ago used to finish fairly quickly (I don't mind...having actual intercourse for a long time is not my thing) but he recovered fairly quickly, too. So, I took care of him first as part of the foreplay and we would just keep enjoying each other and each other's bodies until we had intercourse -- it wasn't rushed, he wasn't stressed about finishing too soon and we finished together 99.9% of the time. All these years later and he still says it was the best sex he's ever had. We were in love back then so I would say that had something to do with it, too -- intimacy is much different when feelings are involved.
@@justmemadison you are absolutely right. People just take sex for granted n just willy nilly. Tho I've never cheated I had my hoe time during his n early college. If I was single was always honest but it was empty. Whatever people believe sex was made for connection n just doing whatever doesn't make people truly happy men or women. You even ask pornstars the older ones who have significant others the best n most meaningful sex n they will all tell you the tear creating kind bc they are one. They've done everything possible n they'd still be ok with just that person bc that's what's sex meant to be
I think the notion that “Don’t want to have to teach ‘ this is crazy because we are human beings with different hot spots that come with(Instructional Manuel’s)so if you don’t communicate them with me I will not know what to lick n kiss
What mass media lied about the most is that people can’t get better at sex. The first couple of times my fiancé and I did it, it wasn’t great and I was filled with regret because of how it didn’t meet my expectations. But within a month or so, we both improved immensely. You have to work on the chemistry and what does and doesn’t work. The idea of being “bad in bed” is a temporary state. Don’t assume you have to settle for that just because of what media tells you, saying leave the person who doesn’t woohoo you right the first time.
You can tell jeannie is the best one in bed, tamera plays 21 questions and talks to much during sex, Adrienne worried about being the best and kills the mood, loni is old school and keeps it simple
@@andrewdontjackthat1918 I get you. Without Amanda they are fine. Plus Amanda, it's just noise. I think it's going to take time for me to get used to them being 5
Jeannie always knows it all. I still remember how her husband was on the show and she acted like her relationship was the most amazing. Not even 1 year later (closer to 6months) they were divorced. Fake!!!
I as a man would have loved had they posed the question the other way around as well, would they want their man to be honest about how good they are!✌🏽
I love that the colour scheme is back and and how the conversation is flowing with just the 4 ladies... I was totally laughing out loud again, well done The Real👏🏾🎉
*ASK?! when you know what you’re doing, you’re in your abilities, & you can read energy (and expressions) well, there is no need to ask. i’ll just leave it at that* 😇
As I'm becoming more sexually experienced I feel like for me PERSONALLY, sex should also be verbal because different people like different things. Me and my guy now constantly communicate about our sex life whereas my ex never did and I was inexperienced so I was too shy to bring it up. That being said, sex is much better with my current dude😊
@@bossytweed6664 wow, you sound inexperienced, sometimes sex with the same person gets boring, and there are over 4billion women on earth there will never be a shortage on pussy cause it's literally everywhere and easily attainable 🤷
Ok so here’s my thing right... the moment y’all both plop down after that WONDERFUL SESSION... I would hope that you both already acknowledge that each other are good at doin the do... if you HAVE TO ASK... something ain’t right... if you can’t tell during that they’re enjoying it as well , something ain’t right! You shouldn’t have to “ Was I “ nothing... they should be like “ damn babe you rocked my world “ ... that’s a killer cuz what if you get an answer you not expecting ?!?! You can’t blame them cuz u the one who asked...
I disagree with this wholeheartedly. My last relationship I was very sexually inexperienced but my guy would never really talk about sex, his likes, dislikes etc. He loved giving me oral (like alot, like he'd be down there 10 minutes at a time lmao) and the few times I tried to return the favor (mind you I'm inexperienced at this time) he'd stop me after maybe a minute (if that long) and we'd jump to sex. So you could imagine I started to feel a little bad thinking I'm not good at it and he just doesn't like it but being new to sex, I'm too shy to bring it up. Fast forward to my current guy; he can't get enough of my skills and we talk openly about our sex life. He thought I had a lot of experience performing fellatio which surprised me because I thought my last guy didn't like it. Well now that I'm experienced, looking back I'm realizing, Im a natural lol, and my last guy can't last too long which is why he'd perform oral for so long and wouldn't let me do it to him for too long. I think sexual partners should openly communicate with their partners, what they like, what they don't like, they're skills etc. It doesn't haven't to be awkward either and a lot of the time (for me at least) its sexy when we're not together and talk about it over the phone or text☺️
0:18 “No, girl. You better find someone better that would please you” Some might not agree with what I’m about to say/write. (Please read and understand everything i wrote so you can get where i’m coming from) I’m sorry to say this but I don’t think Jeannie is morally right. I mean sure, some people think it’s important for their significant other to please them. BUT.. let’s be real if your partner is bad in bed, then you mustn’t leave them (imo) . Before you “Thank U, Next” your partner, you should consider your relationship with the person and ask yourself the following questions: Do you really love him/her? Will it hurt if you , perhaps, give her/him strategic advices? That being said, people should stop over-praising sex. (IMO it’s overrated, some people are in a relationship, not because they love each other, but only cuz their sex-life is exciting) Sure sex is important (again for SOME people) But let’s be honest, you don’t have sex immediately with someone you’re in a *serious* relationship with. Sex isn’t everything in a romantic relationship.
100% thank you, her comment flawed me too and the ensuing audience agreement applause. My relationship compass is very different to hers. Culturally and from our upbringing sex is something sacred and when you choose who to be with, it is not a gaming experience of whether to keep or toss! It is a serious commitment to work with and learn together, a team effort.
True. Go with the flow. We learned one another... it's the best! My ex just knew what to do and it worked he was hands down the best. But now...my current significant other learned my body and that put him above the ex. It's different than just being good in bed it's actually taking the time to learn your partner in bed. Breathtaking. Cloud 9. Crazy making 🤣
Brianca Alexander Agreed. Different people like different things so the idea that people are "good/bad in bed" is a fallacy. What really matters is whether or not a couple is sexually compatible and the best way to know for sure is by talking, in my opinion. I enjoyed sex with my ex but we never communicated what we liked or didn't like whereas with my current guy, the sex is honestly better because we're so open about our sex life with eachother.
Melissa Unicorn But that "bad", is still subjective therefore its still a fallacy in my opinion. Some people don't mind their partner just laying there. When I'm performing fellatio that's exactly what I want lol. I want my man to sit back, relax and just look at me, while other girls/boys may want him to pull their hair or hold their head etc. Also what needs to be mentioned is comfortability and capability. Is it that someone is "unwilling to learn", or are they just not comfortable with whatever act or position? Do they "not know what theyre doing", or are they physically incapable of lifting their leg in this position or that position etc. I know for me, my cervix is low and my current partner has inches😏so certain positions cause me to have discomfort the days following sex. I expressed that to him so the next time we do doggie (his fav) we can tweak some things so its enjoyable for both of us. All of this still boils down to it being important to talk about sex. This is all just my opinion🙂
YO! I didn't expect this part of Girl Chat to be so amusing!! When Tam was talking about loud sex as the norm, the looks on Loni's face were tickling the heck outta me. Then Adrienne mentioned breaking a lamp in the throes of passuon....hilarious.
Yall look so good! Adrienne, now I gotta buy that dress. I bought it when I saw you in it in yellow. Now this pink is giving me allll the life I need! And TAM this pink jumpsuit! A dream.
If it's good, usually the guy will say without you having to ask or bring it up. And as for guys, they do ask. Way more than us women, in my opinion. I think this means maybe they are insecure about performance.
I don’t know if the producers cut these videos before posting but every time tamera laughs... she’s always cuts it short and seems like she’s about to get in trouble for laughing like that 😂 let lose girl !
I believe sex is teamwork. There is no such thing as being good at it or not. It is about doing what needs to be done, in the range of each other's abilities, for both partners to be satisfied. This implies good chemistry and great communication. Just like any other activity, sometimes it's going to be great and sometimes not but if the commitment is strong then it's all good.
I don’t know if it’s just me but mostly all the guys that I’ve been with (which is not much )but they always ask me if they’re good and I remember two of my exes would constantly ask every time after sex I feel like it’s an insecurity thing
Ivanneth Suyin I was just thinking this! I had an ex that asked my right after sex all the time. And I’d be like YES! damn lol. And he was the only person I’d ever had sex with so I thought it was amazing. Which it was bomb but still lol
TAM: Sister sister, women be changing like wind💨 Men need confirmation also before, during & after My personal barometer is if someone can dance. Rhythm, like the panelists mentioned. Also having few obsessions help with the bonding process. Yours sincerely 🇬🇧❤️🇯🇲
Melissa Evans lol please ya get boring and the pussy gets old. That’s why men cheat. Why you think in the Beginning the men you been we couldn’t stop fucking. Then it gets old and it becomes more about getting head and not nagging. Vagina gets old
Lately they have been posting a lot of videos with 4 of them at the table and I like it and miss it. We get to hear from all of them, almost equally. When it's 5 of them, they talk over each other so much!! And we end up hearing from like 2 of them the most. When it became 5, I feel like Adrienne does the most talking or she cuts them off frequently. She wasn't like that before. Is it just my imagination?? What do ya'll think?
I 100% agree. It's much better with 4, the conversation flows better. I think it's because the 4 women know each other better and more comfortable with each other. It feels like 4 girlfriends having a chat. I miss these conversations. I think adding a 5th host this far in wasn't a smart move. Hopefully things improve because I stopped watching as much as I use to.
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Guys it’s official, Tamera has finally moved on from -always saying “I have two kids”. It is now “I love sex”
It gets easier as they get older
It may be now because her kids are older and she no longer feels like a new mom.
Or she reads the comments
Sumaya Said shes so annoying
You're going to hell for that comment LMFAOOO !
Jeannie is definitely pleased, within her current relationship.
"Dark meat" 😏😄
john smith are mad small bacon
who's who who 100%
@@somethinglikeanonymous1773 since when is having self-assuredness, awareness.. being secure in yourself, who you want and who you are smug? Men are never called smug for showing these sides of them
And seems to me Loni isnt with that out of shape man of hers lmao
Tamera and Adrienne looking good with the pink.
Yes all the ladies are coordinated perfectly
princess D I was gonna say the same thing. Also, their makeup is on point!
Must be a Wednesday lmao
Tamera looks nice in pink.
Yessssss. I was thinking the same thing. Love that shade of pink and Adriane's dress is 😍.
Don’t ever asked that question, lol. You will never get an honest verbal answer, and honestly you should be able to tell.
Ehh I don’t think men can really tell tbh cuz some women really do be fakin it 😂
Yep lol
Tanya B you can’t fake body fluids, or cooked meals and continuous phone calls love 🤷♂️😂😘
gerard lead well body fluids come out with small excitation so it’s not like that you gonna see the truth!
If if you are husband and wife or any serious committed relationship where comfort and trust is there, it shouldn't be a problem right???
I missed just the 4 of them, tbh.
Same
Where’s Amanda?
I was looking for this 👏🏼same
It’s an old episode that’s why it’s the 4 of them, look at the seating plan
Shay91 out here suggesting tam and Loni are NOT black enuf. disrespecting 2 grown women with black mamas. That’s what we do now? ✌🏽🤫
adrienne's hair stylist needs to be on a million dollar salary.
Mary Claudia shoutout to ray is bomb
Something so simple & sleek yet mature & sexy. Beautiful!
Yes so true. She always looks so fabulous💕
Her makeup is bomb asf too
And so does her manicurist, considering what he/she is dealing with...
I love these 4 together they’re natural
Yep :) me too
yup.... same
Love it without whats her name shes so negative
Yes,all 4 are good.they do not need a 5th host.. Really,it's not necessary
Righttt!!
Definitely miss the 4 of them. Their interactions were so natural and they all so comfortable with each other.
LMAO... You DON'T get out much do you
If my legs are trembling, if I cook for you, you ain’t gotta ask.
Exactly
Yesssss 👏👏👏👏💁😋
haha Im dying!
@@nette3800 😂😂😂
Low key FACTS!!!!
Anyone else kinda wish that there show was at night so they could have these conversations without a censor?
Absolutely
Angela yees lip service
@@Bdotdecember i learn alottt from lip service 😂
Bridgette Queen what’s that
Jaye Kisses look it up on RUclips
Loni’s face is the best
Yes that look was funny 🤣😂
She is soo goofy...lol
Lol, yes!!
She’s a big ol hater
May I just say, Adrienne looks absolutely stunning! I am obsessed with her outfit!!
Meron Samson hi habesha buddy
@john smith haha
@@arbila1 omg!!! hiii! how's it going?
LMAO
Tamara saying 'Yal know i love sex' is my life motto. 😁
Why so many haters on Tam and what she does? She's got kids and been married for years so they doing something right. Be gone chitlins! 🌬️
bsbgirl85 you just did entirely too much
@@bsbgirl85 Sounds like you need to get some cause you hella angry and got some pent up aggression 🤣✌️
@@bsbgirl85 for god's sake leave tmaera alone. You must be lonely to be that mad about her life. And by the way, women who have kids need to have their mouth covered sometimes cuz you don't want them to figure out what you doin!
There's a better choice of words for the point she's trying to make 😄😄
I agree with Jeannie. Telling them what you like before might mess of their flow. It’s better to guide them through during if it’s not going well. News flash, what if, they do something to you that you never experienced and you like it? Just saying it’s better to guide during rather than before. You might be surprised 😉
Exactly. Dont miss out on their creativity 😝
Exactly.. good point
Agreed
Um no I don't like talking during sex so if u wanna know ask way before talking is annoying less talking more action only noise should be my moans and sex sounds
Zaqueen zhane ́ b makes sense. Gotta learn how to talk while moaning or talk softly. Like in pornos lol. But that takes practice for most lol
For once it’s really nice to watch an episode with only the 4 of you. I’ve lost interest watching the show since Amanda came along. Everything is so serious and angry. You 4 ladies were meant to host The Real and we see the friendship and love, it’s very refreshing.
Adanja Carr I agree
Uhhmm they had years to become this way.
Amanda,makes it heavy and not fun
Exactly same here. I haven't watched the show as much since Amanda.
This is such a ignorant take
In order to get better, you need feedback. Just know how to ask it.
I agree ☝️
In.The.Moment. And not as if your self esteem depends on it.
Everything Jeannie said was just spot-on. Agree with every word.
LMAO
Amanda would've made this a whole different issue lmao
lilliesxo 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
lilliesxo yeahhh lol! She brings a whole another vibe !!
She would have made it racial. Lolest
@@adrianaelvira9364 not a good one lmao
This is why the show became my guilty pleasure.
JB 😂😂😂
As a man, I learned you have to pay attention. It's not just what's coming out of there mouth but watch their body. Every woman is different n has different spots or like things certain ways. As a man take your ego out of it n the best sex is learning the person n focusing on them not thinking you know everything.
Example you think just bc you got the big you know you just start hammering like a jackhammer. Her screams probably aren't from pleasure pimpin but from pain. Women only have a certain amount of space in there like 5 to 6 inches at the most. You try ramming all 8 you giving them a hysterectomy lol Learn you can't just ram the whole thing you gonna have to leave a few inches out. Don't think you just know how to eat kitty learn.
Lastly like Katt williams says it a marathon not a race get a good rhythm n focus on them n you'll last bc you not just overly excited. Also ain't no shame in hopping out for a sec you get to happy doing other things then getting back in the game lol
Hope your guy friends read this...
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Only a real man knows this!!
Please brother, tell your guy friends this! Please!
Ladies can't take it for granted either...just because guys generally finish doesn't mean you can't do more to please him or to make it better than just getting off. My ex from 25 years ago used to finish fairly quickly (I don't mind...having actual intercourse for a long time is not my thing) but he recovered fairly quickly, too. So, I took care of him first as part of the foreplay and we would just keep enjoying each other and each other's bodies until we had intercourse -- it wasn't rushed, he wasn't stressed about finishing too soon and we finished together 99.9% of the time. All these years later and he still says it was the best sex he's ever had. We were in love back then so I would say that had something to do with it, too -- intimacy is much different when feelings are involved.
@@justmemadison you are absolutely right. People just take sex for granted n just willy nilly. Tho I've never cheated I had my hoe time during his n early college. If I was single was always honest but it was empty. Whatever people believe sex was made for connection n just doing whatever doesn't make people truly happy men or women. You even ask pornstars the older ones who have significant others the best n most meaningful sex n they will all tell you the tear creating kind bc they are one. They've done everything possible n they'd still be ok with just that person bc that's what's sex meant to be
I think the notion that “Don’t want to have to teach ‘ this is crazy because we are human beings with different hot spots that come with(Instructional Manuel’s)so if you don’t communicate them with me I will not know what to lick n kiss
Kenny Ray right 🙌 finally someone asked the right question.
FACTS
Exactly I’ve never understood that mentality
Ajoh Wong Thankyou
I actually agree with Tamara n surprisingly Loni
What mass media lied about the most is that people can’t get better at sex. The first couple of times my fiancé and I did it, it wasn’t great and I was filled with regret because of how it didn’t meet my expectations. But within a month or so, we both improved immensely. You have to work on the chemistry and what does and doesn’t work. The idea of being “bad in bed” is a temporary state. Don’t assume you have to settle for that just because of what media tells you, saying leave the person who doesn’t woohoo you right the first time.
Yo I didn't even notice amanda isn't there. 😂
Deni Gonzalez I noticed, because I actually watched the clip..lol!
@@Superstar-he3vr I did too I just didn't notice lol just bc forever it's only been them 4 and shes fairly new.
Me too
I did. It's not her fault they talk about more serious topics now.
These clips are episodes before Amanda joined the show. They are being rebroadcasted due to the virus and no tapings are being done.
Jeannie knows what she is talking about ☺️😌
Girls yess!! Love hows shes low-key reppin Jeezy❤
JoShanda Bradford yasss
I just like Jeannie
Latina Faulkner i agree that’s my girl 💙
You can tell jeannie is the best one in bed, tamera plays 21 questions and talks to much during sex, Adrienne worried about being the best and kills the mood, loni is old school and keeps it simple
Adrienne’s example with the makeup was perfect, that’s how I’ve discovered things I didn’t even know I liked or gotten ideas from a new partner.
"Y'all know I love sex" Tamera's comedic timing is impeccable without even trying 🤣🤣🤣😭lmaooo
this segment should have been longer hahaha
I am great in bed ! I can sleep for 9 hours !!! 😁✅💃🏽😅
🤣🤣🤣😫😫😫
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤗😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Loool
Same here! I'm the best at it!
I love tam 😂🤣😂😂”rhythm is great “
@Shay91 and how do you know that?
@Shay91 lol no need to duh me but ok still think your comment was a lil mean
I wonder if she realizes how funny she is lmao
No one:
Absolutely no one :
Tamera: y'all know I love sex
She’s really tryna break her good girl stereotype lol
So loving sex makes you bad? 🤔😄
@@85gmb1 ikr! It's Natural!
One of my favorite clips in a while! Light conversation, no attitude and no attacking each other’s opinions!!!
Their natural dynamic and seating is back. 😍
these are prerecorded
I love how passionate Jeannie is about this subject, hahaha.
I don’t know why but I love the shows vibe without Amanda she’s cool and all but too much
The five of them are too loud!
Pretty Mphokane I don’t mean that I mean her energy is what throws me off idk it might just be me
@@andrewdontjackthat1918 I get you. Without Amanda they are fine. Plus Amanda, it's just noise. I think it's going to take time for me to get used to them being 5
Pretty Mphokane so true I feel the same way
same & same & same
Tameras reaction to jeannie at the end of this segment was gold
Yes I saw that too. Just scrolling thru the comments wondering if no one saw her reaction.
i think she kind of got heated lollll bipanic
Jeannie lmao. Loni 😂😂😂😂
john smith Umm, can Jeannie not share her opinion? That is her job.
Jeannie always knows it all. I still remember how her husband was on the show and she acted like her relationship was the most amazing. Not even 1 year later (closer to 6months) they were divorced. Fake!!!
@@paulguzman7088 Umm, you know situations change, right?
@Paul Guzman .... Jeannie was perpetrating a lie!
Adrienne is always SO vocal every time sex is brought up ... like girl we get it
I love this one cause they were very friendly and genuinely laughing / having a good time. 🖤
Adrienne's right... Everyone on the table is actually right..smile
You should definitely talk about boundaries when it comes to sex or what new things they want to try
I'm an virgin so this conversation way over my head
Same
You want a cookie?
incel
BigBank New York chad
Same LOL...
Y’all this makes me realise how much i miss the show when it was just the 4 of them.
Dose anyone pay attention to Tam 😩 she had me crying over here 😂she is sum else 😂Love you Tam 💜
I think the question was asking if u would ask ur partner of u were good and how u were not how they are or whether u should tell them
Exactly! They miss the whole topic most of the time... So annoying
Girl I was over here like ummm was that the question 🤔
I as a man would have loved had they posed the question the other way around as well, would they want their man to be honest about how good they are!✌🏽
@@mondorubio1552 that's what the question was!! They didn't answer the question the right way at all. Which they frequently do .. smh
That's why I clicked on the video but you're right, they missed the mark. What do you guys think? I have asked that question afterwards, lol
Tamera and Loni’s faces had me 😂
I love that the colour scheme is back and and how the conversation is flowing with just the 4 ladies... I was totally laughing out loud again, well done The Real👏🏾🎉
*ASK?! when you know what you’re doing, you’re in your abilities, & you can read energy (and expressions) well, there is no need to ask. i’ll just leave it at that* 😇
True. If there's moaning and trembling and hearing it feels good etc you're doing it right
As I'm becoming more sexually experienced I feel like for me PERSONALLY, sex should also be verbal because different people like different things. Me and my guy now constantly communicate about our sex life whereas my ex never did and I was inexperienced so I was too shy to bring it up. That being said, sex is much better with my current dude😊
Bossy Tweed pussy gets old
Madridista Halamadrid Switch to dick😁
@@bossytweed6664 no just new pussy.
@@bossytweed6664 wow, you sound inexperienced, sometimes sex with the same person gets boring, and there are over 4billion women on earth there will never be a shortage on pussy cause it's literally everywhere and easily attainable 🤷
If you tell a guy too much they start to get insecure and the whole mood is gone. I think Jeannie advice is best.
YAS JEANIE TAKE CONTROL!
"aye I wanna do it this way because i'm big" IM LITERALLY IN TEARS😂😭😂
Ok so here’s my thing right... the moment y’all both plop down after that WONDERFUL SESSION... I would hope that you both already acknowledge that each other are good at doin the do... if you HAVE TO ASK... something ain’t right... if you can’t tell during that they’re enjoying it as well , something ain’t right! You shouldn’t have to “ Was I “ nothing... they should be like “ damn babe you rocked my world “ ... that’s a killer cuz what if you get an answer you not expecting ?!?! You can’t blame them cuz u the one who asked...
Some people are reallyyyy good liars tho ...
I disagree with this wholeheartedly. My last relationship I was very sexually inexperienced but my guy would never really talk about sex, his likes, dislikes etc. He loved giving me oral (like alot, like he'd be down there 10 minutes at a time lmao) and the few times I tried to return the favor (mind you I'm inexperienced at this time) he'd stop me after maybe a minute (if that long) and we'd jump to sex. So you could imagine I started to feel a little bad thinking I'm not good at it and he just doesn't like it but being new to sex, I'm too shy to bring it up. Fast forward to my current guy; he can't get enough of my skills and we talk openly about our sex life. He thought I had a lot of experience performing fellatio which surprised me because I thought my last guy didn't like it. Well now that I'm experienced, looking back I'm realizing, Im a natural lol, and my last guy can't last too long which is why he'd perform oral for so long and wouldn't let me do it to him for too long.
I think sexual partners should openly communicate with their partners, what they like, what they don't like, they're skills etc. It doesn't haven't to be awkward either and a lot of the time (for me at least) its sexy when we're not together and talk about it over the phone or text☺️
@@chrisnicoleofficial but if she's faking it she won't answer the question honestly either
I agree Myronn
@@chrisnicoleofficial true lolll
Loni looks great. I don’t know who her new stylist is but they need to give him/her a raise.
There's an old expression: "If you have to ask your partner was it good for them, it wasn't"
I love Jeannie!!!! She is so dope.
I love how Loni is so honest
Loni’s facial expressions be killin me 😂 especially when Tamara talks about sex lol I love it!
I literally received a text telling me I was amazing in bed 😂😂😂 i didn’t know how to feel, no need to ask, and DAMNNN JEANIE
I was wondering why this conversation seemed to natural and flowed so well, and then I realized it was just the four of them.
Where is Amanda
Blessed AndFavored it’s prerecorded
IF HE SLEEP YOU DON'T HAVE TO ASK HIM ANYTHING!!!
Tyeda Jones 😭😭
Yaaaassssss!!!!
Interesting how Loni perspective seems to be always from the beginning of a relationship and not from a ONGOING relationship
Reggie Said it good observation. Perhaps she never had a long term partner
0:18 “No, girl. You better find someone better that would please you”
Some might not agree with what I’m about to say/write. (Please read and understand everything i wrote so you can get where i’m coming from)
I’m sorry to say this but I don’t think Jeannie is morally right.
I mean sure, some people think it’s important for their significant other to please them.
BUT.. let’s be real if your partner is bad in bed, then you mustn’t leave them (imo) .
Before you “Thank U, Next” your partner, you should consider your relationship with the person and ask yourself the following questions:
Do you really love him/her? Will it hurt if you , perhaps, give her/him strategic advices?
That being said, people should stop over-praising sex. (IMO it’s overrated, some people are in a relationship, not because they love each other, but only cuz their sex-life is exciting)
Sure sex is important (again for SOME people)
But let’s be honest, you don’t have sex immediately with someone you’re in a *serious* relationship with.
Sex isn’t everything in a romantic relationship.
100% thank you, her comment flawed me too and the ensuing audience agreement applause. My relationship compass is very different to hers. Culturally and from our upbringing sex is something sacred and when you choose who to be with, it is not a gaming experience of whether to keep or toss! It is a serious commitment to work with and learn together, a team effort.
@@shembeliever6095 AMEN!!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
💯
True.
Go with the flow.
We learned one another... it's the best!
My ex just knew what to do and it worked he was hands down the best. But now...my current significant other learned my body and that put him above the ex.
It's different than just being good in bed it's actually taking the time to learn your partner in bed.
Breathtaking.
Cloud 9.
Crazy making 🤣
Brianca Alexander Agreed. Different people like different things so the idea that people are "good/bad in bed" is a fallacy. What really matters is whether or not a couple is sexually compatible and the best way to know for sure is by talking, in my opinion. I enjoyed sex with my ex but we never communicated what we liked or didn't like whereas with my current guy, the sex is honestly better because we're so open about our sex life with eachother.
Melissa Unicorn I agree 100%. Everything you said, I feel the same way.🤗👍
Melissa Unicorn But that "bad", is still subjective therefore its still a fallacy in my opinion. Some people don't mind their partner just laying there. When I'm performing fellatio that's exactly what I want lol. I want my man to sit back, relax and just look at me, while other girls/boys may want him to pull their hair or hold their head etc. Also what needs to be mentioned is comfortability and capability. Is it that someone is "unwilling to learn", or are they just not comfortable with whatever act or position? Do they "not know what theyre doing", or are they physically incapable of lifting their leg in this position or that position etc. I know for me, my cervix is low and my current partner has inches😏so certain positions cause me to have discomfort the days following sex. I expressed that to him so the next time we do doggie (his fav) we can tweak some things so its enjoyable for both of us. All of this still boils down to it being important to talk about sex. This is all just my opinion🙂
Segment was called "Am I Good in Bed" immediately transforms to "How Can He Improve"😂😂😂... go figure
I've met my match and I married him and have two kids, Lol!!! God is good
Tamera be like “yo imma get MINES!” 🤣
JazzyQ that’s why she has toys lol. Her man gets tired of smashing the same old pussy
*jeannie’s defensive facial expression in the thumbnail has me HOLLERING*
🤣🤣🤣 Loni cracks me up
Loni’s face when Tamera talks makes laugh please let her enjoy herself
5:04 woah I’m not even straight, but imagining her doing that made me... nvm 🙈 it’s too much
Music Explosion X I watched that part and liked it too
I love Adrienne make up 🔥🔥, tams laugh, jeanies smile and lonis faces
LoL dang Jeanie! XD woo
Especially getting it with Jeezy? WOW!!!!!!!!
bsbgirl85 pussy gets old that why men are the best in the beginning . Then we get bored and cheat. At that point we just care on getting head
Was the topic “Is he good” or “Am I good?” ladies? 🧐😂
I think it speaks volumes that even though this was a question posed for women by a woman it was answered for men by women.
YO! I didn't expect this part of Girl Chat to be so amusing!! When Tam was talking about loud sex as the norm, the looks on Loni's face were tickling the heck outta me. Then Adrienne mentioned breaking a lamp in the throes of passuon....hilarious.
You don't need to ask. See how they respond. If you gotta ask, it wasn't that great.
Yall look so good! Adrienne, now I gotta buy that dress. I bought it when I saw you in it in yellow. Now this pink is giving me allll the life I need! And TAM this pink jumpsuit! A dream.
It's something that should come naturally,like let it flow easily. Not some diplomatic interview but a romantic remark
😁😁😁😁 love your response🤗
Loni: "talk slower"🤣🤣🤣
Anyone else miss when it was just these 4 of them😢😍😍😍
If it's good, usually the guy will say without you having to ask or bring it up. And as for guys, they do ask. Way more than us women, in my opinion. I think this means maybe they are insecure about performance.
ADRIENNE LOOKS SO GOOD her hair omg...how do i get this
I don’t know if the producers cut these videos before posting but every time tamera laughs... she’s always cuts it short and seems like she’s about to get in trouble for laughing like that 😂 let lose girl !
5:21 Tamera Felt it fully HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Makeup? Soup? Great analogies lol😂
Jeannie is a star. Her friendships with Adrienne is wow
I believe sex is teamwork. There is no such thing as being good at it or not. It is about doing what needs to be done, in the range of each other's abilities, for both partners to be satisfied. This implies good chemistry and great communication. Just like any other activity, sometimes it's going to be great and sometimes not but if the commitment is strong then it's all good.
I don’t know if it’s just me but mostly all the guys that I’ve been with (which is not much )but they always ask me if they’re good and I remember two of my exes would constantly ask every time after sex I feel like it’s an insecurity thing
Ivanneth Suyin I was just thinking this! I had an ex that asked my right after sex all the time. And I’d be like YES! damn lol. And he was the only person I’d ever had sex with so I thought it was amazing. Which it was bomb but still lol
I think the phrase comparing “apples and oranges” I feel people don’t realize how similar apples and oranges are they’re still fruit lol
TAM:
Sister sister, women be changing like wind💨
Men need confirmation also before, during & after
My personal barometer is if someone can dance.
Rhythm, like the panelists mentioned.
Also having few obsessions help with the bonding process.
Yours sincerely 🇬🇧❤️🇯🇲
“You want some coffee?” 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
I feel like it's unspoken when it's good.
If it’s good there’s no need to ask 😂
Tam tam: “y’all know I love sex” the openness in her voice is something very powerful a lot of people can learn from😍
Yeeeaaaah Jeannie! I always loved that girl you gotta show em how it's done! 😉
Melissa Evans lol please ya get boring and the pussy gets old. That’s why men cheat. Why you think in the Beginning the men you been we couldn’t stop fucking. Then it gets old and it becomes more about getting head and not nagging. Vagina gets old
@@madridista703usa3 Are you okay?
Melissa Evans what is she even saying😭😭😭
@@dahliamacabre Ikr!!!🤔🤔🤔😒😒😒😒
@@TheJanetjacksonlover yea why?
Lately they have been posting a lot of videos with 4 of them at the table and I like it and miss it. We get to hear from all of them, almost equally. When it's 5 of them, they talk over each other so much!! And we end up hearing from like 2 of them the most. When it became 5, I feel like Adrienne does the most talking or she cuts them off frequently. She wasn't like that before. Is it just my imagination?? What do ya'll think?
I 100% agree. It's much better with 4, the conversation flows better. I think it's because the 4 women know each other better and more comfortable with each other. It feels like 4 girlfriends having a chat. I miss these conversations. I think adding a 5th host this far in wasn't a smart move. Hopefully things improve because I stopped watching as much as I use to.
Jeannie is so dope love her!!!!!!!
I told my husband treat me like a classic car. Enough said..
I luv these 4 ALONE TOGETHER.... light fun convos