How My Igbo Nigerian Parents Accepted My Ghanaian Husband

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

Комментарии • 61

  • @GodsonChinwendu-lh1gd
    @GodsonChinwendu-lh1gd Месяц назад +1

    Thanks for sharing. I am also Igbo from Nigeria dating a very great Ghanaian. We’re planning on getting married and i don’t even know how to go about it. I’m already exhausted even before starting 😢

  • @rosemaryasiamah783
    @rosemaryasiamah783 Год назад +11

    Had the same challenge. I'm Ghanaian and my husband is Nigerian. My mum took longest to accept it...some of the toughest months of my life to be honest. But we're happily married now and living in the UK

    • @user-bs5qr5ie4s
      @user-bs5qr5ie4s Год назад

      Tell me your experience in a multi cultural relationship
      And what finally convinced your mom to accept it
      Please let me know

    • @zigibeat3689
      @zigibeat3689 Год назад

      Akani ba paa!! Aah!!
      Who have birth to you?

  • @Africaly_
    @Africaly_ Год назад +2

    Looks like my head girl in high school, Command day secondary school in Kaduna. I'm a Ghanaian born in Nigeria, and i'm really glad you found love in my country. You made the right choice and i wish you all the heavens best. Good job👍🏾❤

  • @Experience_Wellness_With_Sophy
    @Experience_Wellness_With_Sophy Год назад +1

    Just came across your video and it's inspiring.. Dating a Ghanaian as well but it's be struggles, especially his family refusing he marries a Nigerian. I say Amen to your testimony and pray it happens to us too cos I love him alot.

  • @chrisb4629
    @chrisb4629 Год назад +2

    Wow, so much to learn from your story especially the prayers you and your husband had. Stay blessed and you’ve won a new subscriber. Great story. For your information I’m Ghanaian in us and my best friend is Nigerian.

  • @Brown6031
    @Brown6031 Год назад +5

    I say, aaaamen, I am not dating. I am Caribbean, but I love African culture, food clothes, and as 1st choice would want to marry a Nigerian 2nd Ghanian, but God's will is perfect

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Год назад +22

    Help us invite Mr. Jason to share his side of the story ...

    • @afia6935
      @afia6935 Год назад +3

      Our sister in-law please accept our request ❤

  • @donnashreeingti1597
    @donnashreeingti1597 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this story. Studying abroad and finding someone special is so beautiful, I've also met a special someone and we are both undergrads. He's somone I can see spending my rest of the life with even tho he's my 1st serious relationship. Idk how I'll convince my parents cuz he's chinese but he recently told me that he told about us to his mom and his mom approves us omg I'm gonna cry 😳😭

  • @EdwardOduku
    @EdwardOduku Год назад +1

    I am a Ghanaian in London
    Your marriage story is inspiring
    I love you all and I ask God blessings you and husband

  • @pamela_ofuani
    @pamela_ofuani Год назад +3

    It all ended in praise!
    I so love your story!

  • @tamunoenebelema4796
    @tamunoenebelema4796 Год назад +2

    Oh Chidera thank you so much for this video, I am currently in this situation right now, in love with a Ghanaian, we met here in the UK and just like you on a dating app, I am literally scared and skeptical about the relationship cause he wants something serious and I don’t know how to relate it to my family. I for one hasn’t accepted it that I am involved with someone outside my Nationality. Thanks so much for this. God bless you

  • @emmanuellaamara1876
    @emmanuellaamara1876 Год назад +1

    This video is so emotional to me because I am Ada too imagine being away from home... I cried 😭 as I watch how you were able to convince your parents.

  • @user-bs5qr5ie4s
    @user-bs5qr5ie4s Год назад +3

    I can see why he dated u
    Ur gorgeous
    🇬🇭🇳🇬am seeing More and more Ghana Nigerian couples in uk

  • @jerrytema872
    @jerrytema872 Год назад

    God bless you my Dear, wish you all the best.

  • @klaw1425
    @klaw1425 Год назад +2

    May almighty Allah bless your marriage aameen my dearest sister in law

  • @clairelast6723
    @clairelast6723 Год назад +1

    For those asking for Jason's side of the story. I think Chidera did a video of that. At that time Jason was still carrying his dreads. Chidera actually fought it and tried calling the relationship off at a time, but she couldn't stand it and she had to give up. So happy for you Chidera may your union continue to grow in love.

  • @RoselynOsakweRobert
    @RoselynOsakweRobert Год назад +3

    Hmmmm like this now am in this same situation he his a Ghanaian and am a Nigerian. He is talking marriage I have hinted my parent my dad is cool buh my mum is like “ I no get pikin way dey lost”😮 hmmmm . Anyways she will finally believe when he comes from SA to Nigeria 🇳🇬 lolzzz waiting to see my mums expression 😂

  • @bernardappiah3074
    @bernardappiah3074 Год назад +2

    Your parents concern were valid

  • @EstellM
    @EstellM Год назад +14

    Parent's concerns are always valid, I get it. They have the right to be concerned. I was like you. Marriage was the last thing on my mind. I grew up n England 14-23. I was 23. I had a fab job! I was independent, so when I said I was getting married, everyone was just sooo shocked that I said I was getting married!
    My mum was always afraid that I was not interested and that noone would want to marry a UK educated Pharmacist!! Hehe! I married a full blown Ibo man, born and bred while this girl did not know how to make a decent ofe!!
    Now though, my eldest is 26 and I am understanding the concerns.
    We talk about it often,
    We talk about the challenges of mixed cultural and race mariages.
    I am so scared to be honest!
    I get palpitations sometimes!
    I am hoping that God will feel sorry for me and us and make it easy!!
    SO if your parents are concerned, I hope whoever reads this will undersatnd!
    They want the best..
    Boys are the real problem!
    Your parents were phenomenal!
    Wishing you two the very best!
    Thanks for sharng!

    • @Jaay2022
      @Jaay2022 Год назад +2

      Amen.
      Parents' concern is from a place of love

    • @FavourBabajamu
      @FavourBabajamu Год назад +1

      So true. Parents’ concerns are always valid.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 Год назад

      Blessings to you

    • @asiedu2869
      @asiedu2869 Год назад +1

      All Africans hv similar cultures and tradions..So,culture differences shouldn't be a problem at all..

    • @EstellM
      @EstellM Год назад

      @@asiedu2869 n Nope! That is not the case! I am Igbo, out our culture is not similar to the Yorubas or Hausas. So not true. Even within Igbo land there are differences that could be problematic. Best!

  • @moroabdulkarim2143
    @moroabdulkarim2143 Год назад

    Marriage is blessing 'I wish you happy enjoyment married

  • @Maa_meAfua
    @Maa_meAfua Год назад

    Yes, Go did it!🎉

  • @senaopoku6153
    @senaopoku6153 Год назад +1

    Chidera Peters note today down.... Will explain later

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing 😊

  • @dejideji2720
    @dejideji2720 Год назад

    hey chi,
    there is telegram closed group you advertised for on your page, i applied but have not gotten any response
    or may be ii is not the rigt thing i applied for, do kindly reach out. Thanks

  • @godwinejiofor8064
    @godwinejiofor8064 Год назад +7

    I dont think it is because he is Ghanian but because he is not an igbo. Igbo parents are the most tribalists in Nigeria if your husband is a Nigerian and not igbo it will be the same. You are Ada and it is very difficult for them to marry their Ada to non Igbo.

  • @sourcestvghuk9897
    @sourcestvghuk9897 Год назад

    Beautiful ❤❤❤😊😊😊

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Год назад +2

    My people come online, another tori don land

  • @ajibade_christabel
    @ajibade_christabel Год назад

    13 lol
    Thank you for sharing

  • @opeyemiayeni
    @opeyemiayeni Год назад

    Amen

  • @deborah7830
    @deborah7830 Год назад +4

    I hope the Ghanaian man treat you well.

  • @afrafraasempa6357
    @afrafraasempa6357 11 месяцев назад

    Always Igbo’s feeling superior over Ghanaian because we once came hustling in Nigeria and jolloff afrobeats etc and so how many Ghanaian married to Nigerians are making videos like this

    • @GiftMichael-ii8wp
      @GiftMichael-ii8wp Месяц назад

      Your stupidity made you to forget that Nigerian were the first to go to Ghana.and was chased out by Ghana during Biafare war

  • @Eda-j5t
    @Eda-j5t Год назад

    Ooh my God how do i even tell my parents I'm getting married 😂😂😂 it's soo awkward😂😂😂

  • @niiadu1983
    @niiadu1983 Год назад +1

    Even the Ghana igbo king is married to Ghanaian.

    • @rebeccaemeka
      @rebeccaemeka Год назад +1

      And ?! Must Igbo parents want their kids to Igbo’s not Ghanaians so it’s understandable she struggled

  • @sourcestvghuk9897
    @sourcestvghuk9897 Год назад

    😊😊

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Год назад

    Chi baby my mouth is scratching me to say something but I zip my mouth for now. I wish I wish...

  • @Elldrop1
    @Elldrop1 Год назад +1

    Every man's fear coming in 😅

  • @eugenestrilchuk3817
    @eugenestrilchuk3817 Год назад

    Awon amuni buni

  • @lilybaby4762
    @lilybaby4762 Год назад +1

    2

    • @Jaay2022
      @Jaay2022 Год назад

      Welcome lily baby

  • @eugenestrilchuk3817
    @eugenestrilchuk3817 Год назад

    Na igbos people dey make Ghanaia dey disrespect us and I just taya for them, Go to their market na Igbos people dem dey chase up and down fools

  • @elvisasante2479
    @elvisasante2479 11 месяцев назад

    If he were a white man, would your parents have taken so long to accept your decision?. Am a Ghanaian and did not support intercultural marriage but after some deep reflections I have come to accept it.

    • @GiftMichael-ii8wp
      @GiftMichael-ii8wp Месяц назад

      Yes they will. The problem is tribe not race. I know of an Igbo parent who gave testimony in church because her daughter broke up with a white and she's marrying a Nigerian. The problem to her was she sees whites as people who doesn't know God but Nigerian men knows God the most😂😂😂. That's her mentality. But I pity her cause Nigerian men are the worst 😂😂😂.

  • @ugonnaya___
    @ugonnaya___ Год назад

    No 3 😁

  • @Jaay2022
    @Jaay2022 Год назад

    1