I have been married for 6years. My husband does the laundry(his, mine and our kids),hovering, taking the trash out, washing the bathroom , drop off and pick up the kids, putting the kids to sleep and I do the cooking, groceries, plates and getting the kids ready for the day. 6years and the routine is same. We never talked about splitting the roles. It just happened.
If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them. Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also! When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble! Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do! I would never argue with you! When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!
Thank you. I tell people this all the time it’s just about working as a team. People get so focused on roles for each gender rather than everyone just doing their part
My husband and I do everything together, we cook and clean together no gender roles just two people trying to make Life easy for themselves Alhamdulilah ❤️
Great video 🥁. This topic is very essential. I love doing chores especially washing dishes and sweeping. I love to serve others. It’s a joy to my soul 😊. Finding balance is key. Thank you for sharing 🥁
This was beautiful. My husband and I also made a list of roles typed it out and saved it on our drive. It's been almost a year and a lot of things have changed. Just like you said, nothing is set in stone and so some roles have changed 😅. God bless supportive men jare
I do the laundry, dishes, take the bins out, washing, cleaning toilets, paint, wash the car, look after the kids, pick n send them from school most of the time, and work full time. Please tell me what to do? As my husband doesnt want to help any of these chores apart from changing light bulbs, mow the lawn, after i nag that the grass and weeds are too long and work full time. And complain to me when i do things wrong. Please tell me as im feel like killing myself. When i ask him nicely to help me he will bring all the things he has done for the family and why i should not talk rude to him and raise my voice
Chai chidera, Ina achakpodo this man. He's just like yeah yeah to everything you say. He's the agreeable one. You are lucky,. Land a Nigerian man and you will be as quiet as a man.
Beautiful couple.Glad to see you two happy. But I differ in my opinion. Marriage isn't roleless. Roles aren't bad, even traditional ones. Its just that switching roles should be as situation demands. Great video😊
Your man is a real man abeg…I need advice my husband is very lazy he doesn’t like helping around the house he just sits there all day pressing his phone from morning till night, as a result he takes his bath very late…I cook and give to him the same spot where he woke up he wouldn’t even help me take the plate to the kitchen, I will have to pick it up my self and wash…it continues like this everyday until they call him back to work, he is a rig worker when he comes back he continues the same behavior…I have complained severally he hasn’t changed
I don’t know the kind of mentality he has but I feel he thinks that it’s just in his place to provide financially and that’s all he has to do…I almost got burnt one that time cos of hot oil in the kitchen I screamed for help he was there pressing his phone he didn’t even bother to come to the kitchen to see what really happened…when I finally get him to do something like bringing down a box for me from the wardrobe he’ll complain and complain, or help take the trash out he would say say things like.I should stop filling the trash with dirt or I should stop using a particular bag for the trash he would complain and get angry all through he just expect me to do everything I’m just tired
Seems like you’re going through a lot and your man’s mentality needs to be worked on. You guys need to actually have an in depth conversation and if he loves you, he’ll try to make changes. I recommend giving him a to-do list on the days he’s less busy (please do XYZ today). That should help.
It's me and my boys and do most of it🙆🏿♀️🙆🏿♀️ Jason, did your parent taught you how to clean wash room? My boys 23 and 17 has their own and I have mine in my room however I still wash both
I am now convinced my husband is just not contributing to household chores. As a stay at home mom I do 99% of everything household. I also have no babysitter or extra help with my kids. But my husband brings home the money so🤷♀️ But no, this is not working so well for me… Suggestions anyone?
Fundamentally marriage does have roles! God created men a certain way and women a different way. Roles are not bad. Women generally are better at certain things eg breast feeding. Need I say more. Even in this video you both gravitate to certain things.
Honestly. I totally dislike it when people do this. She might be, she might not even be but it's up to her to announce when she's ready and not for subscribers to congratulate her into spilling the beans. I rest!
OGA 😂😂 sorry i might sound somehow to some people but as a man black man for that matter sorry i am not doing all those things and still pay more of the bills and still sponsor you come uk bye bro breakfast dey wait for you lol 😂😂😂
I have been married for 6years. My husband does the laundry(his, mine and our kids),hovering, taking the trash out, washing the bathroom , drop off and pick up the kids, putting the kids to sleep and I do the cooking, groceries, plates and getting the kids ready for the day. 6years and the routine is same. We never talked about splitting the roles. It just happened.
Love that for you
"whoever can does, whoever sees acts" THIS!!! LOUDER!!!
That’s amazing, feels like I do everything around my house, wash dishes, cook clean be a mom, go to school then go to work!
If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them.
Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also!
When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble!
Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do!
I would never argue with you!
When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!
First of all, thank you for joining Jason. Chidera I enjoy watching you both. It’s not hard to see what great people you both are!
Thanks for watching too ❣️
Thank you. I tell people this all the time it’s just about working as a team. People get so focused on roles for each gender rather than everyone just doing their part
It's him encouraging the princess treatment 😂
It’s the way he looks at you for me💜 And red lippy suits you so well 🥰
Everything you said 💯
You guys are so cute. Such good example of godly couple. More bliss to you guys. Love the way he looks at you😂🥰
My husband and I do everything together, we cook and clean together no gender roles just two people trying to make
Life easy for themselves Alhamdulilah ❤️
Great video 🥁. This topic is very essential. I love doing chores especially washing dishes and sweeping. I love to serve others. It’s a joy to my soul 😊. Finding balance is key. Thank you for sharing 🥁
Why do FRESH AFRICANS like to serve ppl baffles me
This was beautiful. My husband and I also made a list of roles typed it out and saved it on our drive. It's been almost a year and a lot of things have changed. Just like you said, nothing is set in stone and so some roles have changed 😅. God bless supportive men jare
I learnt something new today difference between Response ability and responsibility.
thanks for citing "the Purpose and Power of Love and Marriage", I will also grab a copy
You guys are soo cute🥰🥰 I enjoyed this video in particular!
Awww thank you so much Aunty Jayne 😁♥️☺️❣️
Amazing dynamics, lovely how everything is deliberate.
Glad you think so!
Sidebar: This hair and makeup looks so so good on you!
You are married to a good man
Thank you
I do the laundry, dishes, take the bins out, washing, cleaning toilets, paint, wash the car, look after the kids, pick n send them from school most of the time, and work full time. Please tell me what to do? As my husband doesnt want to help any of these chores apart from changing light bulbs, mow the lawn, after i nag that the grass and weeds are too long and work full time. And complain to me when i do things wrong. Please tell me as im feel like killing myself. When i ask him nicely to help me he will bring all the things he has done for the family and why i should not talk rude to him and raise my voice
Thank you Jason and Chidera
I loved seeing Jason here. And I absolutely loved the video! ❤
Chidera, you look so pretty, as always ☺️…love the top and lip colour combo 🥰
Awww thank you for acknowledging my effort o 😂☺️
Chai chidera, Ina achakpodo this man. He's just like yeah yeah to everything you say. He's the agreeable one. You are lucky,. Land a Nigerian man and you will be as quiet as a man.
Beautifully couple, educational content. Thumbs up
Beautiful couple.Glad to see you two happy. But I differ in my opinion. Marriage isn't roleless. Roles aren't bad, even traditional ones. Its just that switching roles should be as situation demands. Great video😊
Lovely and hilarious video. Well done to you both 👏 👍 ❤
Ever popping chidera this girl is always popping
Aww thank youuuu
I almost said the same thing. Your personal stylist is Bombbb
I will love his/her contact to help with mine when the time is set
I enjoyed watching this ..And Chidera you look so pretty 🥹😍…’I love cooking’ sounded so weird😂
lol fish 😂
Chidera you look stunning 😍
Awww thanks Racheal ☺️♥️
I love this conversation
Very knowledgeable video. Part 2 please 🙏🏽
Love this 😂❤
Lovely video, I just kept smiling 😊😂
Y'all are lovely....
Luv both of u. More Grace.
Love this video ❤️❤️
I enjoyed every bit!!
Wow. I’m married to myself 😢
I am loving this boogie personality...😂
😌☺️
This was fun to watch. 06:53 had me😂😂😂🤣
Your man is a real man abeg…I need advice my husband is very lazy he doesn’t like helping around the house he just sits there all day pressing his phone from morning till night, as a result he takes his bath very late…I cook and give to him the same spot where he woke up he wouldn’t even help me take the plate to the kitchen, I will have to pick it up my self and wash…it continues like this everyday until they call him back to work, he is a rig worker when he comes back he continues the same behavior…I have complained severally he hasn’t changed
I don’t know the kind of mentality he has but I feel he thinks that it’s just in his place to provide financially and that’s all he has to do…I almost got burnt one that time cos of hot oil in the kitchen I screamed for help he was there pressing his phone he didn’t even bother to come to the kitchen to see what really happened…when I finally get him to do something like bringing down a box for me from the wardrobe he’ll complain and complain, or help take the trash out he would say say things like.I should stop filling the trash with dirt or I should stop using a particular bag for the trash he would complain and get angry all through he just expect me to do everything I’m just tired
Seems like you’re going through a lot and your man’s mentality needs to be worked on. You guys need to actually have an in depth conversation and if he loves you, he’ll try to make changes.
I recommend giving him a to-do list on the days he’s less busy (please do XYZ today). That should help.
Nice video . And ur beauty is 🎉 I must add, Jason is lucky or should I say you are meant for each other
Awwww stop making me blush 🤭☺️
Jason is not lucky he can pull prettier babes
I love your hair.
Please, where/who did you buy it from?
Thank you.
First here 🎉❤
Welcome back Mr. Jason
I love clean toilets but I don’t like toilet cleaning 😢
Lol you get it!😂
Chidera didn't do her signature BYE-BYE 😁😁
I loveeeeeeee you both, chidera’s energy is so unmatched.
The bougue part😅😅😅😅
Hello Chidera and Jason
Hiiiii
Love you guys.
Aww thank youuu
This was funny 😆 to watch. I like your thumbnail which software did you use for the icons on your thumbnail?
I use Canva to create my thumbnails and thank you
@@ChideraPeters thank you!
Aaaaaw Chidera🥰🥰🥰
It's me and my boys and do most of it🙆🏿♀️🙆🏿♀️ Jason, did your parent taught you how to clean wash room? My boys 23 and 17 has their own and I have mine in my room however I still wash both
Teach u not taught u speak better please
So do you cook Nigerian food for him or Ghanaian food?
What is this camera quality? Shishhh!!! 🔥
Hehehehehe 🤭
I am now convinced my husband is just not contributing to household chores. As a stay at home mom I do 99% of everything household. I also have no babysitter or extra help with my kids. But my husband brings home the money so🤷♀️ But no, this is not working so well for me…
Suggestions anyone?
Thank you Chidera ❤😊
I love this topic 😊 everyone is contributing their quota according to their ability
I'm learning ❤
Funny
I’m sending this to my man so he isn’t soooo shocked when he starts sharing the load!
Lol 😂😂😂
1st
Thanks for showing up ♥️♥️
Fundamentally marriage does have roles! God created men a certain way and women a different way. Roles are not bad. Women generally are better at certain things eg breast feeding. Need I say more. Even in this video you both gravitate to certain things.
I can see the glow of P! Congratulations 😘
its not everything your eyes see your mouth would say.. you don't know what people are facing... give them a break to make announcements by themselves
Honestly. I totally dislike it when people do this. She might be, she might not even be but it's up to her to announce when she's ready and not for subscribers to congratulate her into spilling the beans. I rest!
What does P means to you pls? It means Precious for me. Stop assuming anything for anyone, it is so wrong 😡
@@CHIDOMINICA I said P! Are you Pained or Provoked? Pls choose your P
OGA 😂😂 sorry i might sound somehow to some people but as a man black man for that matter sorry i am not doing all those things and still pay more of the bills and still sponsor you come uk bye bro breakfast dey wait for you lol 😂😂😂
Do what works for you
Beautifully couple, educational content. Thumbs up