we lost our baby 💔 silent miscarriage at 17 weeks
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Jordan saying ‘three in my arms and one in gods’ absolutely broke me. I feel so much for you guys. ❤ sending love from New Zealand
Faith,Believe, and Trust that Jesus Christ Shed his BLOOD for YOUR Sins, and you'll be saved. He's coming soon🎉
Hey I'm in nz to ! I know that was so sad I was blubbering
God's **
His prayer though was a comfort: the same hands holding us are holding him or her.
“The same arms that are holding us are the same ones holding our baby”
So powerful. God bless you both. This is heartbreaking, but your faith is contagious ❤️
Faith,Believe, and Trust that Jesus Christ Shed his BLOOD for YOUR Sins, and you'll be saved. He's coming soon🎉
Seriously! That was powerful
I was carrying twins, lost one of my boys @ 20 weeks. I had to continue carrying both my sons until they unexpectedly came into this world at 30 weeks. I got to meet both my boys, one who passed and the other who is alive that night. Crazy what the lord calls you to walk through as a mother.
wow. God bless
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God bless
Nurse, doula, midwifery student here! 🙋🏾♀️ This is way more common than people think. Pregnancy is literally a miracle. God bless you all, and praying for your healing and comfort. ❤️
For anyone going through infertility like me or a miscarriage my heart is with you. God is with you. ❤ He is near the brokenhearted
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watching this just made me tear up to the point of crying. Especially the part when you just cried in your husbands arms driving to the hospital. You are so so brave. Having a miscarriage is so hard. But just put it all in Gods hands and he will take care of you and your family. Just know that baby Jireh is in a better place now. 🌿 May God bless both you and your sweet family and may He give you peace, comfort, and happiness! 🤎
Don’t ever give up or lose faith that it won’t happen. I got pregnant at 19 with my first child. Nooooo problem whatsoever. The second time , not so much. We tried for years, probably 12ish. We did do some stuff for the infertility but not IVF a or anything like that as it was too new of a practice. My mother would always say that it’d be in God’s time if it were meant to be. So at about 12 years we thought that this was taking up so much of our lives…never had an abortion or a miscarriage or anything of that nature, thankfully BUT it just wouldn’t happen. We had long stopped using birth control as we didn’t need it. Our daughter was a Jr in High School when out of nowhere, here he comes!! They are almost 17 years to the day apart. She is March 15th and he is March 7th! Today they are 46 and 29 respectively. They are also extremely close! It happened all on its own. Don’t ever give up! We never know what God’s plan is for us. It’s all in His time. Why did it take 17 years, I don’t know. But it did for whatever His reason for that was. I don’t question it or God. It happened the way it was suppose to for us. And I’m glad because I otherwise wouldn’t have had the son I got! He’s brought so many surprises, gifts with him! Btw, our daughter was my birth coach and the first to set her beautiful eyes on her beautiful brother. Always, remember that God is Good. I’ll pray that you receive your precious bundle even if it’s when you least expect it! ❤
🤲🏽 amen
Recently lost our first baby after 5 years of trying💔 but we trust God with our future
I had a silent miscarriage at 18 weeks last week. I searched “second trimester miscarriage” on RUclips and your video came up. Thank you so much for sharing and making me feel less alone.
I have never felt heartache like this, but truly have never felt Jesus so close. It is so encouraging to hear how Jesus is comforting others in the midst of such heartbreaking loss. I am so grateful for His peace that surpasses all understanding.
I believe you guys were called to document this. I just started having a miscarriage today and this video is giving me so much comfort, hope and peace from the Lord🤍
I am so sorry 🥺 praying over you in this very moment. you are not alone in this & never will be 🤎
I just heard the news today at 14 weeks… our baby with no heartbeat. There are no words to describe this pain. Thank you for the video
I'm so sorry 💔
I’m so sorry Milena. We had our son stillborn in December & I remember feeling so broken-hearted. I came on here then & asked for prayers to get through my grief. So many people from your community prayed for me, reached out to me & it truly got me through one of the darkest times of my life. So now it’s my turn to sit here with you & pray for God’s continued healing for you & your family. Losing a child is something I wouldn’t wish on a single person, but He is so near the hurt & stays by our side through it all🤍🤍
Huge hugs to you sister
I cannot fight back tears. I’m devastated for you, Milena, and your family. Devastated beyond words. I remember a long time ago in one of your videos you said, “Just because you’ve been blessed with healthy pregnancies and healthy births, doesn’t guarantee that’s how it will go every time.” I’ve held that helpful warning in my heart ever since. I’m sorry, my sister in Christ. I am proud of you. And of course praying for you. I love you and your sweet family.
I have always remembered that as well.
Alethea is SO precious, her support is everything 🥺❤️
thank you so much for sharing this with us. i miscarried my first baby 4 days ago at 14 weeks and it’s truly the most traumatic and devastating thing i have ever been through. this video makes me feel a little less alone.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers, love, hugs & healing to you & your family.
Sorry about your loss, Take heart
So sorry for your loss. Prayers and love ❤️
My heart is with you. This video can bring us all together with shared experiences. You are never alone ❤
I miscarried twins two weeks ago and I feel the same. Traumatic and devastating. 💔❤️🩹 my heart is broken with you and for you. Praying for peace and love for you in this hard time.
Alethea is just a joy🥹❤️ she is so pure and it amazes me how well spoken and smart she is❤️ God bless your family Milena!
Thank you for taking the time to be patient and repeatedly explaining to Aletha. My mom was pregnant and me and my sister were fighting and she told us that if we didn’t stop fighting our baby sister wouldn’t want to join our family. She miscarried a week later at 19 weeks and I blamed myself for years and years. She never explained anything, just told us the baby died.
I am so sorry. That sounds so traumatic. ❤️
Wow. I am so so sorry to hear that you experienced this.
As a Christian fertility coach who has also experienced miscarriages I want to say thank you. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are helping so many women by sharing your experience. May God bless your obedience Milena 💙
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for what breaks yours. Your sister in Christ. 😢
I’m so sorry for your loss Milena…I know I’m late but I just saw this….wow. I sobbed through most of the video…thank you for letting the Lord move through you in this storm🥺🙏🏻💓💓💓
I often talk about the baby i miscarried last March. I named the baby Dalton even though I never knew the sex of the baby. My family forgets and looks at me like I’m crazy when I say Dalton. It breaks my heart. But I’ll forever acknowledge my baby. I’m at peace knowing the Lord is watching it and I’ll meet them one day in heaven
Dalton is loved and not forgotten ❤️❤️❤️ Dalton is in the best place, with Jesus. You are loved.
I have had 3 miscarriages and they were the absolute worst things I’ve ever had to go through. We don’t have any children here on earth and when people ask I say we have 3 heavenly babies because it feels so wrong to not acknowledge them because they are apart of my life and had a large impact ! It’s hard to know what to say because people act so uncomfortable! Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable time that often women suffer in alone, at least I know I did!
Me too. I have 1 and always mention Him because it feels so wrong to say no.
"Our misery will become our ministry." This line was incredibly reassuring and encouraging to an extremely hard situation I'm also going through right now. Thank you, Milena. My heart breaks for what your family is enduring right now, and I will pray that the Lord continues to minister to your hearts through it & that this would be used as a testimony of His comfort and love to many. So much love to you.
Solidarity sister! Me too. Me too
Thank you so much Milena. I just lost my five-year-old son Jethro in April and have had such a longing to make a RUclips channel this year. God has been carrying my husband and me through this and has given me an unexplainable peace through the grief. Our son's first and last memory verse he learned was "Be still and know that I am God" Psalm 46-10. He died a couple days after getting ice-cream for memorizing that verse. It has now become such a profound and comforting verse for me. There has been so much reassurance from God during this hard time. His faithfulness is true. I get comfort from knowing Jethro is free from the chains of this Earth and is getting cared for and loved for far more than I could ever provide, or even imagine. In the same way so is your precious baby. I believe God will turn this pain into something beautiful and many lives will be transformed through our stories. If more come to know Jesus through our children's Earthly deaths, it makes it all worth it. Though the pain is striking, you will spend eternity together and all is in God's control. I love you so much, though I don't know you personally. Rest in Jesus and His loving arms. - Summer
P.s. I still say I have three children, though one is in heaven. I explain that later. Don't be afraid to say the number of children you have in its full number.
Wow my heart breaks I pray that God comfort your heart and your sons loving memory bring warmth❤ 😭
Thank you so much Jaz!! ♥️ I ended up making the RUclips channel and posted my first video today. God is carrying us though. 💕
ruclips.net/video/VTGZT3Wl6jk/видео.html
May Allah heal your heart and reunite you in the highest paradise!!!! Ameen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sending you the biggest hug. Thank you for sharing your story 🤍
My first pregnancy was a silent miscarriage. It was heartbreaking and I felt like no one out there experienced the same thing as me, but in talking openly about it, I found out so many people have them. I’ve have 3 beautiful babies since then. God is so good and faithful!
My first pregnancy was a missed miscarriage and I’m so nervous it will happen again. Praying the next pregnancy is successful 🤍
I'm so sorry that this happened. But I am so amazed at how you and Jordan turned to God in this time of sadness. You both are such a great examples of faith through trials❤
Milena, I honestly have no words for you.
You exemplify Christlikeness through motherhood in such an extraordinarily beautiful way.
I’m in tears right now. Simply because of the beauty and grace with which you love and honour the Lord.
You’re such an incredible witness and I’m so thankful to the Lord for granting you this platform to glorify Him as you do.
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Okay Tooks was adorable 🥹 you can tell she’s trying so hard to understand and comfort you 😍
I found out I was pregnant in Oct 2021 and experienced a silent miscarriage in Nov 2021 at 11 weeks. It took months to grieve the loss; A year almost to the same week I found out I was pregnant again and we welcomed our beautiful baby girl this May. She was the answer to our prayers and a miracle after the loss. I'm praying for you and your family, I pray God uses your pain and loss to make something beautiful
Thank you. I went through this same exact thing. Silent miscarriage at 17 weeks in September of 2022. We are now 11 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. Praying for you, sister. These are the hardest times but they are doable (barely) when we lean on Him. ❤️
This is SO good that you shared this, people DO need to see the nuance of a baby going to Heaven. I walked this same journey of a silent miscarriage and surgery, it’s an intense loss, as you shared-the love and care of others’ and the peace that Jesus brings is powerful.
My hubby was phenomenal during the whole process and nurtured me.
We conceived 4 months later and named our baby Jireh!
Jireh is 6 months old now!💛
“The same arms that are holding us now, are holding our baby” That was so incredible and beautifully said. May GOD continue to bring you solace, our thought and prayers are with you. I am offering my love and strength to you. You are not alone.
I want to share how this video touched me because it’s so evident His hand is in it❤ After two years of IVF, we were 10 weeks pregnant this week going in for our first ultrasound. The baby boy had no heartbeat and we braced for our miscarriage. Tonight I felt it all begin to take place and felt His Grace and nearness. As I breathed through the contractions/cramps I turned on RUclips to distract me and this video started playing an hour after you posted❤ I felt comforted, I felt peace with His plan, I felt strength from this trial, I felt the strength of the Body of Christ in Jordan’s prayer. Thank you for sharing this precious process, it has given me comfort, strength, faith through my own process. God is always good. He is faithful. He is close to His people. ❤
As an OB nurse, mama, and Christian I am so thankful you shared this journey! So many women suffer in silence. Thank you for your bravery and for shining Christs light through such loss. I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for y’all!
I want you to know how grateful I am you posted this video and shared. I had a silent miscarriage in March at 11 weeks and it broke my world. Took my body 2 weeks to finally release our sweet baby boy. You and others posting makes me feel less broken. Thank you so much… I am praying for your peace and healing.
I have to have this procedure Wednesday. I am grateful for you both documenting this. I was carrying twins. My body passed some but not all of my pregnancy. This gives me comfort ❤ my mom passed a year ago and I always mourned that she wouldn’t get to raise her grandchildren… now I think she’ll get to raise two in heaven ❤
Oh my goodness, the innocence of a child. When you and Alethea were talking, it broke my heart for you to have to explain it, but you could feel the love radiating from her. ❤❤
Mi, I sobbed with you through this video. I’ve gone through 2 silent miscarriages and they have completely altered the course of my life. I’m so sorry for your loss, but so grateful we both know the power of God and his abounding peace and grace. ❤ much love.
Hearing Alethea talk has got to be one of my fav things ❤ she's so smart and has the cutest little voice!! Thanks for letting us in, sending you all so much love ❤
Your story touched me, and was so close to home, because I experienced this last March. I also suffered a silent miscarriage and learned that the baby had no heartbeat and sadly had to have a D&C the next week. I also really appreciate you sharing the peace that came along with your grief because I struggled so much to explain that to people in my life. God is fully in those moments with us and I’m grateful For that!
We lost our son at 16 weeks in January. Only my parents knew I was pregnant. Heart goes out to you. We are pregnant again and due in November ♡
Lost my son at 30weeks..you never really forget. 17w6d now due in November. I try so so much to enjoy the pregnancy but the fear and anxiety is crippling. Don't wanna tell people because in my head I'm trying to avoid explaining the worse if something happens..💔
Did you have your baby??????
I hope you’re with your miracle now!
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I lost my only daughter at birth. My heart goes out to you and your family. You’re in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏻
Sending you so much love ❤❤
I am in the same situation , I am so sorry.
So sorry for your loss.. comfort and peace to your heart and mind mama.
I've been so impressed by the grace you've shared this with and walked through this with. Weve had 4 losses, 2 early miscarriages and 2 silent miscarriages, still quite early and I just don't think I ever thought to pray so much for others in that moment and season as you have managed to. You're such a bold witness, so sorry for your loss and heartache and so blessed by your peace and faithfulness xx
I had a miscarriage earlier this year at 17 weeks too…I am so sorry for your loss. It’s comforting to see that there are other people going through this it makes me feel less alone. I am still grieving but 2 months after my miscarriage I got pregnant again so I am praying for the safety and health of this baby and knowing that it’s all in Gods hands. ❤
I just got back from a follow up appointment at 11 weeks where my baby had no heartbeat. When this video first came out I was hesitant to watch it and I think it’s because deep down I was scared of having another loss. And here I am. As I watch this I hope God gives me peace and speaks to me through you. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this with us. ❤
The way you parent Alethea and explain this to her is so inspiring 😭❤️. You're doing the Lord's work- sending so much love.
Oh Milena, I’m so sorry. My first pregnancy ended in a full term stillbirth and it is so devastating. One of the hardest parts for me was feeling like no one understood and I had no resources to help me get through it, so thank you for sharing this. It will most definitely help someone in their own journey. I have had 2 daughters since losing my son nearly 4 years ago and still when someone asks me how many kids I have, I say “2 on earth and 1 in heaven”. There’s no right or wrong, but yes, it’s always a battle of “do I want to have this conversation with this person right now”. And 100% it brought me and my husband closer. I think walking through tragedy gives you an opportunity to really intentionally love one another, which is honestly a gift in itself. Worshipping through sorrow is truly the only thing that got us through. I can’t imagine walking through something like the loss of a child without God. Praying for your heart mama ❤️
“The same hands that are holding us now are holding our baby”. That was beautiful. I’m so sorry you are walking through this path, but thank you for sharing. This can really bring some comfort and peace to others going through the same thing. Prayers ❤️
I just had a still birth at 40weeks 5 days ago and I avoided this video while I was pregnant but I’m so glad I get to watch this now. Thank you for making this.
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Thank you for sharing, I’ve had two miscarriages and no baby yet. Praying for everyone who has been through this. 💔
I just found out yesterday that I had a silent miscarriage four weeks ago. Im so devastated and i'm sorry you're going through this as well. I'm having to go on medicine to help pass the baby because my body hasn't recognized it. Thank you for speaking up about this because i've been feeling so alone and angry at God since this all happened.
Will have you in my heart mind and prayers
Friends I’m twice your age and have 8 children the Lord has blessed us with. I’m so very proud of you allowing Jesus to shine through you so brightly. Thank you for loving others so well and sharing your story. It’s incredibly moving seeing God’s peace and presence carry you through. Sending much love and prayers from Toledo, Oh!
This community is praying for you ❤️
My husband and I had a silent miscarriage at 11 weeks with our first pregnancy. It took a while, about 8 months for my hormones to regulate again to conceive . My body also had no symptoms of miscarriage. It’s truly not talked about enough. Know you’re not alone in this journey. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I have three with me , one with the Lord , and one on his way . The Lord is so gentle with us . We don’t know why we had to lose our baby but we know God has them in His arms
Jordan has such a beautiful way with his words! Both your strength and faith is truly admirable and I am so sorry for your loss. So much prayers and love to baby Jirah!
Silent or missed miscarriage is awful. It’s all awful. I went through one at 7 weeks and grateful my midwife helped me through it it took long but my body eventually passed the baby. Thank you for sharing this. The only thing besides God that gave me peace is hearing everyone’s stories. I’m praying for everyone going through this gone through this and pregnant again like me but SO scared!
I want a husband like Jordan, a Godly leader, a comforter abd supporter for his wife. So amazing to see
Can you do more videos on miscarriage? I know you’ve walked through and have had some time to really get through your grief and to be able to speak life. I lost my first baby about a month and a half ago, and I’m really struggling to keep faith and not let fear take over.
I miscarried at 14 weeks and went on 3 months later to having a healthy pregnancy 🩵 keeping you and your family in my prayers 🙏
Being a new mommy I am crying with you, you are so strong! You set such a good example of a woman who puts God first through everything even the hard moments and it’s so inspiring.
Missed miscarriages are definitely not talked about enough! I had no idea it was a thing when i got pregnant for the first time and was totally shocked to learn the baby was gone. The doctor let my body try to pass it naturally for a couple weeks but I ended up in the emergency room because of blood loss and then passed out. They did an emergency d&c and I’m okay now. I have 3 beautiful babies now. Thank you for talking about it ❤
Going through a missed miscarriage right now and so grateful for the Lord during this time. You’ve said it before, you don’t know how people go through life without Jesus and that is so true. I’m blessed to have Jesus walking with me everyday. Especially during hard times. I know this video and situation happened a while ago now, but I pray for you and your family. This video was just what I needed to see as I’m dealing with the same. Thank you for sharing.❤
I'm muslim but deeply praying for you guys ! This is so brave of you to share this tragedy, thank you so much for your trust.
Milena talking about people asking how many babies you have is so relatable for me in a different way. As someone who is infertile and 41 that question leaves me feeling so many emotions. It’s really really difficult. And when people try to be encouraging saying “don’t give up” or telling me about their miracle is really not helpful, I’ve heard it all - and it makes me feel less than … being a women and being a women of faith. Cause Lord knows I love Him, I’ve prayed and I’ve done all the things people have told me to do, and now I leave it up to Him, the creator of it all 🙏
I just watched this with a new set of eyes as I am going through my second miscarriage this year. Pain, sister. I know it and feel it too. BUT, I am reminded of strength because you went through this so gracefully with your eyes on Jesus while SUFFERING. True suffering. No answers why, only that god is always good. He always provides. And there is light at the end of the tunnel. True suffering and getting up and putting on a smile is hard, but it’s for him. Nothing in comparison to him looking us in the eyes stepping on the cross in our place. Our babies are up there with him, how lucky are we.
I had a miscarriage back in October of last year and I felt everything you said! You sharing your experiences is going to help so many women. Praying for y’all!🤍
Having a missed miscarriage is honestly beyond awful, sending you alll the love ❤️ It took me 10 months to fully grieve & give everything to God, the next month i found out i was pregnant, that sweet soul is now 14 months old.
Thank you for sharing this. I had a miscarriage two weeks ago with our first and i have felt such peace with Jesus. My husband and I are closer and my relationship with the Lord is closer as well. It’s still hard at times but I only know I can be strong with the Lord. Praying for you and your family
Praying for y’all! Haven’t finished the video of course… but I’ve been struggling with fertility. I’m so thankful for you two and your strength in the Lord. I’m scared to have a miscarriage as we have been trying to conceive. Love you guys so much!!! To God be the glory and stay strong.
Edit: when I wrote this I was already pregnant & just didn’t know it. I just found out that I’m going on 5 weeks! Pray for me & our miracle ❤
Same, same. ❤️🩹 How long have you been TTC?
@@kinseyfreed36925 years!! One miscarriage at the beginning of the year & just found out I am pregnant again. Praying that I make it to full term with a healthy baby.
thankyou for sharing, if we all shared our stories of loss and grief the isolation wouldn't hit as hard. I had a loss due to at 10 weeks last December (missed miscarriage, tummy kept growing until i had a dnc, was later discovered to have been a partial molar pregnancy) , then another loss the first cycle trying to conceive again after the PMP. So much love to you and any other mothers here going through loss.
I went through a missed miscarriage (another term for silent miscarriage) last year. I didn’t even know it was possible. I showed up to what should have been a 9 week scan and only measured 5 weeks or so along with no heartbeat. I’m thankful that given some time my body did eventually miscarry, but it took weeks and if it had taken even a few more days I would’ve needed medical intervention. I’m so sorry you had to go through this. There’s nothing like the shock of feeling like a healthy pregnant woman and being told by a dr that you are actually a bereaved mother.
This is exactly what happened to me about one year ago too. however I needed assistance to miscarry as my body wasn’t passing it naturally. Sending you so much love and healing ❤️🙏
I hope that you all are doing ok. Sending virtual hugs and love. ❤
Sending lots of prayers. I just had a miscarriage on Friday July 21,2023. I was 7 weeks and 6 days. This was our first pregnancy. I went to get it looked at 2 days before that because I was spotting. Baby was strong and healthy with a great heartbeat at 159. Then the next night I passed a blood clot and cramps. The on call doctor wasn’t too concerned because I wasn’t bleeding after it passed. She said to call my doctor in the morning. That Friday we went to the ER because I was so scared. They found the baby but no heartbeat. Such heartbreaking and there are no words how I feel at the moment. Then that night I actually saw the tissue of the baby pass at home. I know it wasn’t another blood clot because it wasn’t red as it was grey and white. I have been crying and praying so much as this is a part of us now. I know God will provide us with a Rainbow baby when he know we are ready. His plan is confusing but his timing is always perfect no matter how hard and heartbreaking it is. Sending lots of love ❤
Thank you so much for posting this comment. This is almost exactly what I just went through three days ago on Wednesday October 25, 2023, down to so many of the same details. This was our second baby and was so loved and anticipated already. Your comment made me feel less alone and I truly appreciate it. I am so sorry you had to go through that, especially with your first pregnancy. I am praying that God grants you your rainbow baby, though I know nothing will make up for your loss. Jesus said, “You do not know now what I am doing, but later you will understand.” Even if we don’t understand in this life, one day we will. Praying for your healing and praying to your little one in Heaven who is tugging on the Lord’s sleeve for you and your intentions. ❤️
It makes me sad hearing alethea ask those questions I would break down if anyone else would ask but I just know if my kids would ask I would keep my composure
You are so kind and patient with Alethea, answering all the questions while you’re hurting. You are so strong. Praying for you guys ❤
I don't even personally know you or your family but when I first found out I cried. This just makes me cry more. Milena, I love you so much, you've taught me so much more than I would have ever thought you would.
I'm so sorry for your loss of your sweet baby, I know the pain of miscarriage and I feel for you both. God's healing grace will see you thru loves. Your baby is in Yeshua's loving arms like our sweet Vince. Prayers up for you all. God bless!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕
Jordan’s prayers are worded so beautifully ❤️🥺 you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers milena 🫶🏼
Milena and Jordan, I am sooo, so sorry you both are having to go through this. Back in 2019, my Husband and I went through a silent miscarriage in my second trimester and had to have a D&C and literally everything you and Jordan went through and mentioned feeling in your video is exactly what my Husband and I felt and went through as well. I say this to tell you that you’re not alone, and my heart is breaking for you both and the babies. My prayers are with you all and I love you all so much! I’ve been following you since the beginning and even though my miscarriage was 4 years ago, watching this was so heartbreaking yet so validating and I want you to know I and so many others commend you for your strength and vulnerability and willingness to use this as a testimony to the Lord is absolutely amazing. Also, I’m praying for you as you navigate these difficult conversations with your babies. I wish I could say more but this message is already so long but I and my Husband are praying for you and Jordan.
I’ve had two silent miscarriage. They called it a missed miscarriage. Currently on my fourth pregnancy and still very early and praying this baby continues to grow. It’s a miserable feeling to feel as though you can’t trust your own body. Both times my symptoms got more intense and even my blood work showed increases in hormones etc. I don’t know why it happens nobody seem to but it’s a awful thing to go to and I’m so sorry you had to go through it as well. It’s amazing to see you lean into the Lord. It’s very hard to go through and not to question why but there is a will for all of us. Thank you for sharing. ❤️❤️🩹 praying for you and your family through your grief and healing.
I’m so sorry for your loss! 💔 I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant (tomorrow) with my second child, and first boy, due October 18th. I’ll be praying for you guys, and can’t even imagine what you’re going through!
Love this sis. I have 2 boys now but my 1st was a miscarriage at around 8 or 9 weeks & we felt God's presence all throughout the experience. Not what we wanted or prayed for but He confirmed & gave peace through so much! My husband & I even prayed about the name bc we know we'll see him in Heaven. God ushered us through the miscarriage & it's been one of the sweetest memories of His comfort & our closeness ever!
I applaud you for posting this, I went through this a year ago and searched all over RUclips researching missed miscarriages and how to deal. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
Thank you for sharing. I am literally going through what I think is a miscarriage right now. I am currently 10 weeks pregnant. I have 2 kids and have never had a miscarriage before. Tomorrow I go in to see if there is a heartbeat.
My sister i will be praying for you ! I went through this with my very first baby its a really sad and hurtful process to get through. I was already 6 m 1/2 but my baby had passed before that and I didn’t know. I felt sick everyday but when i went to the doc they said i was ok obviously not i actually had a major infection and it was so sad to have to get induced to get my little baby girl out but i did it and years later i have twins and 2 baby girls so 4 babies total! I am blessed but will never forget my beautiful baby and the feeling of not taking her home. God bless you sister you are not alone i will be praying for you and your beautiful family. You are strong loved and capable.
I’m so sorry Milena. You and your family are inspiring… what deep faith. Your sanctification over the past year is so noticeable and so stunning. True beauty. I pray for healing and for a rainbow baby for you and Jordan ❤ Sending love and prayers
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I’m praying for you Mi. Especially because people on the internet are so hateful so I just pray that every negative word spoken (or typed rather) over you and this situation would fall to the ground and hold no power.
I can't make it through this video because this subject is triggering for me but I want to say thank you for breaking the stigma and talking about this on your channel. I've had 3 miscarriages and my first one was a missed miscarriage and it was very traumatizing for me. I hope you find peace and healing ❤
This happened to me at 17 weeks as well. The D&E was horrible. The nurses thought I was getting an abortion because it’s input the same way on the computer. I was alone because it was during COVID. I’m writing this as I hold my baby daughter that I conceived 5 months after. Time is healing and so is the Lord ❤️
Hi Milena, I just saw your video on the feed, as I am 24 weeks pregnant with my first after 2 miscarriages, I was drawn to watch and as soon as you mentioned the Lord, I paused the video and said a prayer for you and your family ❤️❤️❤️ I feel for you, and you are so strong and I’m sending so much love and peace your way❤
Sorry you had to go through a miscarriage, it’s definitely a hard thing. I’m grateful that you were able to have access for the proper healthcare for your procedure and it went well.
Oh Milena how incredibly sorry I am. Trials such as these often make us turn away from God, when in reality they're intended to bring us closer to him! Because of you I turned back to the Lord and I couldn't thank you enough. I pray for your healing during these time's. I love you so so much and our Lord and Savior does so much more! 🤎🤎🕊
Long time subscriber here. I feel like I’m bearing your burden sister, crying and praying for you! 🙏 All my love and prayers to you and your family right now. My husband and I lost our first baby. Now we rejoice with our one year old baby boy who the Lord used to restore that brokenness in our hearts, and I praise God for my son and my baby in heaven. You will never “get over it” but the Lord will restore your joy and ease the pain ❤️
I cried along with you. I‘m so sorry, Milena and Jordan. Thank you for letting us be part of this chapter too. May God hold you tight and keep your hearts at peace. ♥️
Our 1st baby was only 9.5 weeks so there was no discuss of gender or being able to burry the baby after the D&C or anything but I think for me it helped me get passed it. It was almost a dream. And then I went onto having 3 healthy babies. I can only imagine how hard it is to have miscarriage after having kids.
Just keep in mind that when pregnant the babys dna becomes apart of your dna so even tho you lost the baby physically the babys dna with always be apart of you, the baby never really leaves. God keeps you together forever! Stay strong 🤍
Thank you for making this video. I just found out at 17 weeks that my baby passed late in the 16th week. Just like you, I had no signs of a miscarriage… I went to a routine midwife appointment and she couldn’t find the heartbeat on the doppler and it was confirmed on ultrasound afterwards. My doctor recommended a D&E as well due to the risk of bleeding with naturally passing the baby or inducing labor with medication. The D&E is also all I feel emotionally capable of at this point. Unfortunately I have to wait 1.5 weeks for the surgery, which feels so impossible right now but seeing everything go as you hoped makes me feel hopeful for myself.
I also appreciate you sharing that book. I just bought it to read to my kiddos and I hope it helps them to understand a bit.
I’ve never experienced a loss like this. I am lifting you guys up in prayer.
Milena thank you for your vulnerability. Your content recently has been pushing me to the feet of Jesus. May you and your family continue to be a vessel for the the Lord 🩷
Milena, ever since watching this I have not been able to stop thinking about the power of prayer and that prayer chain you guys were using! I told my Bible study about it and was hoping you could tell me what you all used to have people praying over you every 30 min!? Bless you all 💕
I cannot tell you how sad this makes me too see. I can’t help but feel so incredibly related to you. I lost my 4th. Also a son. At 15 with a silent miscarriage. Praying for your healing❤️
💔 thank you for openly and beautifully sharing this. Our heart breaks with you. Praying for more joy & healing with each day 🙏💛
Truly inspired by how well you kept it together talking to Alethea on the bed . I was sobbing . You are truly a rock ❤
So so sorry honey. I just went through the same thing this month for the first time too. I was 10 weeks so not quite as far along. It’s the absolute worst thing I’ve been though. To top it all off I developed an infection after and finally just finished a horrific heavy duty course of antibiotics with lots of side effects. It happened at a time when my relationship w the Lord and commitment to him has been so strong, and we deliberately decided to trust in God for this child. It makes it so hard to understand. I know He has a plan, and the peace I feel trusting Him through hard times is so rewarding even though it’s so hard. Lean on Jesus. I am rejoicing our babies are in heaven, praising the Lord together and waiting for us some day to join them, and praying for mending of our broken hearts here. It’s so devastating, there are no words. Praying for peace and comfort for us both. ❤️
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6
And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
Romans 8:28
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The way you talked to Alethea and explained it to her ,you did such a good job and must have been hard to hold it together ❤sending a lot of love to your family
I'm so sorry 😞🙏 Same thing happened to me at 13 weeks 😩 my sweet baby had health issues and I was told my options 😭 and when I went to see my Dr....she asked me if I wanted to listen to the heartbeat and I said of course...it's still one on my babys...and she couldn't find it 💔
I went through a silent miscarriage in April, I was 10.5 weeks when we found out but we lost baby around 6.5 weeks based on sizing. My body held on tight for a good 4 weeks 😢
I feel your pain all to deeply! You and your beautiful family are such strong loving people.
Stay strong! Sending lots of love ❤️