My Miscarriage At 16 Weeks | You are NOT alone! Miscarriage Awareness*

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @ameliaarnold6815
    @ameliaarnold6815 Год назад +20

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m 16 weeks pregnant and my biggest fear is a miscarriage. I’m so sorry and sad to hear your story but thank you so much for being brave and sharing with other mommas ❤

    • @0gliyah
      @0gliyah Год назад +1

      Any up dates?

    • @VanessaR1313
      @VanessaR1313 10 месяцев назад

      How’s the baby? Did all turn out well , I hope? 🙏🏼

    • @Shannon-nl1dz
      @Shannon-nl1dz 5 месяцев назад

      How did everything go? ❤

  • @champagnegardening5182
    @champagnegardening5182 Год назад +20

    Thank you for sharing. No one talk about the emotions with a miscarriage. Also no one talks about the anxiety with a pregnancy after a loss.

    • @malloryevans3424
      @malloryevans3424 Год назад

      Most definitely agree… I found out that I was pregnant on the 23rd of January and miscarried the 25th I am devastated that was my very first pregnancy. 😩🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @zamirakargar736
      @zamirakargar736 Год назад

      @@malloryevans3424 I’m so sorry it happened to you, unfortunately I had a miscarriage yesterday it was my 15 weeks and few days. I’m so broken I feel they took off my heart.

    • @Bossmommas83
      @Bossmommas83 Год назад +1

      I'm 39 an lost 6 babies in two years I'm currently 13 weeks today praying 🙏 I get through this I'm high risk but baby looks good so far. Sorry for your loss

    • @nailsbycynaraartise413
      @nailsbycynaraartise413 3 месяца назад

      @@Bossmommas83please tell me you had your rainbow baby

    • @Bossmommas83
      @Bossmommas83 3 месяца назад +1

      @nailsbycynaraartise413 yes I did a healthy little girl who's going to be 1 on the 5th of September ❤️ thanks for asking this means alot

  • @lealeija9722
    @lealeija9722 2 года назад +15

    I been there September last year, I lost my baby at 12 weeks d and c surgery your right I become open about it to my family and close friends. I still cried when I think about it and yes everything happens for a reason.
    After 6 months I found out I'm expecting again this time everything is going well.
    Sending prayers, love and hugs always ❤️

  • @briseidab7615
    @briseidab7615 2 года назад +13

    I truly appreciate you for posting this! I just went through this 3 weeks ago & I’m still grieving. Thank you for helping me see this differently & giving me hope.

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  2 года назад +5

      You don’t understand how much that means to me. That’s exactly why I wanted to share my experience. I’m so sorry that you have to experience this pain, it never fully goes away. I pray that your heart gets filled with joy again soon ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nicoleparisi7855
    @nicoleparisi7855 Год назад +8

    Thank you for making this video. I just went through the same, and it’s so hard finding similar stories. So happy you have your rainbow babies ❤

  • @nataliegodoy1421
    @nataliegodoy1421 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you for opening up about this, everyone goes through miscarriages in different ways, but it’s good to open up and educate others.
    I feel like giving you a hug, I know I don’t know you but I’m so grateful you talked about this.
    You have the sweetest heart ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  5 лет назад

      Thank you for watching and appreciating the message that I'm trying to spread Natalie. Here's a virtual hug, lol xoxo

    • @joannajimenez1065
      @joannajimenez1065 5 лет назад

      @@mandipalermo hello mandi I am going something stressful too with my pregnancy I am so scare too

  • @kasia251sz5
    @kasia251sz5 2 года назад +14

    I was 3 months and I can't stop crying. Next month my baby girl would be born, I miss her every day. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @rachelgrace3230
    @rachelgrace3230 4 дня назад

    Mandi, thank you for this. It’s 5 years since you posted this so you probably won’t see this comment, but our stories are so similar. I just lost my baby boy at 15w6d; I had gotten pregnant in August as well. I had an appointment the day before losing him and everything looked great, which was a relief bc two weeks prior I had had some bleeding. Like you, I came here to RUclips to seek comfort and searched “16wk miscarriage”. Yours was the first suggested. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone ❤️‍🩹

  • @heyitsgeorgia
    @heyitsgeorgia 5 лет назад +10

    i’m so sorry you had to go through this. so brave of you to share your story. sending love to you💕

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  5 лет назад

      Gee & Alex thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️

  • @reejuti
    @reejuti 2 года назад +7

    Thankyou for sharing this. I just had a miscarriage at 15.3 weeks n my timeline is from August to December as well. Feels good to be able to relate to someone

  • @justcuz9181
    @justcuz9181 2 года назад +2

    It's so hard breaking in the beginning to see you holding a puppy reflected both the pain you must have suffered and the comfort you get from the dog.... To all women who go through miscarriage you're all champs... my wife is 15 weeks now..

  • @garimasspace1413
    @garimasspace1413 3 года назад +7

    I know its 2019 video of yours... but saw it today... And I literally cried because I also went through this.. I was in my 17th week... when this happened with me... Its been 9 months but still I cry almost daily... I know how it feels :-(

  • @zoegrei
    @zoegrei Год назад +4

    I lost my baby girl that I prayed so hard for a week and a half ago. I have been devastated and their are several people that do not understand. I was 18 weeks and 3 days. I already have other children but, the loss of a baby is still not just something most women can get over. The doctor checked the heartbeat twice and then I had to see the sonographer and got the news of a fetal demise. The oxygen went out of my body. I felt her move I honestly thought the morning of my appointment.

    • @QueenLeeMi79
      @QueenLeeMi79 Год назад +2

      Same with me yesterday. I started cramping badly and had clear fluid coming out and then I had a bad headache and started bleeding badly and passing clots. I was 16 weeks and I swore I felt the baby moving but when they did an ultrasound the doctor couldn't find my baby and asked if I was sure and I said yes he was so uncaring that I got up and walked out. My mom wants me to go back for a d and c.

  • @Rokluver
    @Rokluver 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your story, your strength and healing are cathartic to me. I found out yesterday that I had miscarried our son at 18 weeks and had no idea until 20 week scan. We are broken but slowly will put the pieces back together. We will always love him and will always be his parents, we just didn’t get to have him for long - that’s the only thing that’s changed. I feel so lucky to have been able to carry him for 18 weeks and he was so loved already. I will never give up hope of having a healthy, full term baby that I hold in my arms. 🌈💓✨👼

    • @nicoleparisi7855
      @nicoleparisi7855 Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I just went through the same. Lost my girl at 19 weeks, still no answers. Thinking of you

    • @maritzaherrera6878
      @maritzaherrera6878 Год назад +1

      I also lost my baby boy at 18 weeks three weeks ago. We are so heartbroken. Praying for you as well

  • @choochie2003
    @choochie2003 2 года назад +4

    I just went through this two months ago, after 14 years we were finally blessed to have had our little boy. But unfortunately we lost him, 😢at 5 months. It’s still difficult to think about it and to even talk about. But I loved what you said in your video,” that no matter what I’m always going to be that’s mother”, and that is exactly how I feel.
    I really haven’t had time to mourn over my loss, and maybe it’s because I don’t want too, or I’m not ready yet. Either way I know my Son Carson is in a better place, and that’s he’s looking down on me, his dad and his big sister. Love ❤️ you son.

    • @dzunisanimakamu5739
      @dzunisanimakamu5739 Год назад

      Sorry about your loss. I just lost my 21 weeks pregnancy 7 days ago. Im mourning and grieving every day. Worst part my boobs are dripping milk and very painful 😢😢

  • @HangoutwithSimone
    @HangoutwithSimone 2 года назад +13

    I’m actually going through this right now. I lost my baby at 16 weeks. It’s so painful. Thanks for sharing!

  • @maryellenblount6376
    @maryellenblount6376 Год назад

    So sorry for your loss but appreciate you sharing your story. My daughter suffered miscarriages and she ended up having counseling which helped. Sharing stories about infant loss is so important and helps so many women.

  • @dzunisanimakamu5739
    @dzunisanimakamu5739 Год назад +6

    Sorry about your loss. I just lost my 21 weeks pregnancy 7 days ago. Im mourning and grieving every day. Worst part my boobs are dripping milk and very painful 😢😢

  • @organizedwithme7347
    @organizedwithme7347 3 года назад +21

    my miscarriage in 32th week of pregnancy my baby girl found died inside me she was my first kid .. still i can’t get out myself from all of this .. still broken 😞

    • @gowsikitchen9705
      @gowsikitchen9705 3 года назад +1

      Me too lost my baby at 27 weeks 😭

    • @zenadavis4193
      @zenadavis4193 Год назад

      That's not a miscarriage, that's a stillbirth, and I'm so sorry for your loss

  • @thatgirlyanara
    @thatgirlyanara 2 года назад +1

    You are so brave and generous to share this with us! I had a miscarriage in January when I was 7 weeks and it was so painful and traumatic physically, mentally and emotionally... I actually pass out the fetus!6 months later I found out I am pregnant again and I am now 16 weeks and pregnancy after miscarriage is just as scary as miscarriage itself... I bled when I was 6 weeks but for barely a day and I say and heard my baby heartbeat at 13 weeks... I can not tell you the relief but I will never look at my children(I also have a 14 year old) the same!
    For me if I hasn't hold on to Yah like I am now I don't think I couldn't make it... Yah has gave me alot of revelations related to the miscarriage and has healed me in the most beautiful way! I pray for anyone who is going through miscarriage now that Yah will heal you and your heart and that He will use this difficult situation for good like He always does! In Yeshua name amen! Much love 🤍

  • @shakyrarosa
    @shakyrarosa 5 лет назад +7

    Wow you’re so strong about your situation, god bless you ❤️

  • @haleymoon657
    @haleymoon657 Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Feel very alone losing out baby so far along

  • @kitrieinspire9495
    @kitrieinspire9495 Год назад +1

    Yes thank you for posting this video, I had a miscarriage the day before I turned 16 weeks. I was wondering if anyone had felt this before but I had really bad abdominal to back pain and then found out I had a uti but within the 3 days before I started bleeding the pain was worse but I kept telling myself that this is not normal pain but after the 3 days I had started bleeding and went to the hospital but what was concerning is that the hospital didn't keep me but they checked and didn't tell me maybe why I was bleeding. So we went home and I was having pain of what felt like contractions early the next morning and had the miscarriage but sadly I wish I was at the hospital so that the doctors could also tell me why or what caused the miscarriage. But I am thankful to have my fiance to help me and support me and me to him through this moment. But thank you so much I wanted to understand if others experienced this too.

  • @tracyfalconer478
    @tracyfalconer478 Год назад

    You are a very strong person. I pray for your continued joy and happiness Mandi. I learned a lot from you. Thanks.

  • @trvylynjohnson1618
    @trvylynjohnson1618 9 месяцев назад

    God bless your heart ,Thank you being so strong& sharing . May God bless you abundantly ❤

  • @terencenichols3756
    @terencenichols3756 Год назад

    Your experience will educate and inspire many, including my family. Thanks for sharing.

  • @allifrau2146
    @allifrau2146 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. I hope to be as brave as you are during your experience. I am 15 weeks and I am scheduled to try hear my babies heart beat again in 2 days. I have been spiraling about what to do if something happened. ❤

  • @RomanKinq
    @RomanKinq 5 лет назад +7

    ❤️🙏🏽 your a strong person for sharing this

  • @brookeadams9764
    @brookeadams9764 6 месяцев назад

    My baby boys heartbeat stopped at 16 weeks due to a crazy freak virus you can only get once in your life and show no symptoms until it's too late. My placenta was also in the front they sent it off. I went straight to RUclips for comfort. Thank you for sharing your story it still helps 🙏

    • @Heartforheaven
      @Heartforheaven 3 месяца назад

      So sorry, my baby boy died no heartbeat as well, no symptoms. Waiting for the placenta results to come back

  • @HayleyFocsan
    @HayleyFocsan 5 лет назад +3

    iSo sorry you had to go through this. so brave of you to share your story. Sending lots of love 💕

  • @jacquelinejacobson6789
    @jacquelinejacobson6789 Год назад

    Silent miscarriages are the worst. My heart goes out to you.

  • @hailymelinowski1386
    @hailymelinowski1386 2 года назад +1

    I had a miscarriage at 16 weeks as well and also chose the surgery but I ended up losing 3 pints of blood and had to stay 2 nights in the hospital thank you sharing this helped me not feel as alone ❤

  • @inyoungchoung
    @inyoungchoung Год назад

    "I'll be still their mother" really hit me hard ❤

  • @LittyNailz
    @LittyNailz Год назад

    Sorry to hear that 😢 STAY STRONG 💪 MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL AGAIN

  • @mybabyboyjaren1002
    @mybabyboyjaren1002 Год назад

    I absolutely agree with you with everything you said and definitely hard to deal with this! Hugs and prayers my condolences. I lost my baby boy as well then god bless me bless with another baby boy now he's 12 yrs old. No worries god will give you strength and another opportunity for you to be the best mom you can be!

  • @ericareader714
    @ericareader714 2 года назад +1

    I'm currently experiencing this just found out today that my babies heart stopped I'm 16 weeks but the baby stopped developing at 15 weeks. I have my D&E this Thursday which is 2 days from now. I'm heartbroken scared and just hurt. Thank you for sharing

  • @marangelyx33
    @marangelyx33 5 лет назад +4

    Wow I'm amazed on how opened you were on your miscarriage mandi. We don't know each other but have talked through IG. I loved your video and how you encouraging other women that went through this experience or are going through this, I'm admire you girl.
    I have never dealt with this situation, but it has happened in my family and I have been afraid with both my boys while pregnant with them and its hard to feel that way while carrying them cause you never know.
    Just found out I'm expecting another one and I'm due October 2019, just hopefully everything goes well and taking care of myself and doing the best as I can.
    When I watched this video I cried and I just wanted to hug you and be a friend. Keep it up girl you are strong-willed, lots of love your way love. God Bless you!!
    ❤❤❤

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  5 лет назад

      Omg congratulations on baby #3 So happy for you Marangely! And I appreciate your kind words, support and love. I can't wait to see your little blessing come October

  • @Queenbeautyyy
    @Queenbeautyyy 3 года назад +4

    This makes me so sad! The scary thing is, is how do you even know something is wrong. Would you have ever known? It makes me so sad

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  3 года назад +2

      It is really sad love! And super scary. You often hear of miscarriages being painful and bloody but I had NO idea. That’s part of why I wanted to share my experience. I feel like it’s less common but it does happen. I’m grateful that I had a scan when I did otherwise who knows what would’ve happened!

    • @KavitayeinKahaaniyaan
      @KavitayeinKahaaniyaan 3 года назад

      @@mandipalermo I had the same experience did not know until 17 weeks that baby died at 14 weeks ,it's devastating experience 😭

  • @shaligasuksomsong
    @shaligasuksomsong 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing. How are you now? I didn’t know miscarriages can happen other than genetic. I hope you healed and everything is going ok.

  • @galaxychamp500
    @galaxychamp500 2 года назад +5

    I have gone through late miscarriage in my 18th week of pregnancy. It was difficult but I am coping from it.

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  2 года назад +1

      My heart goes out to you! I'm so glad to hear that you're coping. HUGS!

    • @galaxychamp500
      @galaxychamp500 2 года назад

      @@mandipalermo Thank You So Much 😊

  • @angeleciabeltran
    @angeleciabeltran 5 лет назад +5

    I am actually going threw this right now. My baby stopped growing at 16 weeks and I'm scheduled for the D&e

    • @joannajimenez1065
      @joannajimenez1065 5 лет назад +1

      I am going for the same thing can u reach me pls

  • @lealeija9722
    @lealeija9722 2 года назад +2

    Sending prayers, love and hugs 💝

  • @santanafarley8687
    @santanafarley8687 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video… I’m 15 weeks pregnant now and the doctors are shoving the same options at me right now even though the baby still has a heartbeat. You are so strong.

  • @Violeta_Selva
    @Violeta_Selva Год назад

    Thank you for your story and wonderful stregth you have within you to share. ❤❤

  • @bariettaperez
    @bariettaperez 5 лет назад +1

    It doesn’t sound crazy to say that the good outweighs the bad. It’s very strong ❤️

  • @andreaarriaga27
    @andreaarriaga27 11 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my baby girl at 15 weeks and it was the hardest thing ever I thought everything was going good until the baby heart stopped beating

  • @BlitzOfTheReich
    @BlitzOfTheReich Год назад +1

    18:50 I saw another video by a gynecology specialist. Chromosomal issues are actually much rarer than we thought.

  • @sydney2236
    @sydney2236 3 года назад

    thanks so much for sharing. i’m so sorry for your loss

  • @Heartforheaven
    @Heartforheaven 3 месяца назад +1

    I also lost my baby at 16 weeks recently. I gave birth to our beautiful boy, it was so difficult but my husband and my God helped. Thank you for your story.

  • @Janetmarlen
    @Janetmarlen Год назад +1

    So, during your gender reveal scan even though the baby stops developing there is still a heartbeat? I know personally i felt traumatized to get past the 3 months that I didn't even realize that at 16 weeks is considered 4 months and I was still telling people i was 3 months. I have gotten 2 ultrasounds, at 10 weeks and 14 weeks. I am patiently waiting for my 20 anatomy scan and hoping everything will turn out okay. Thank you so very much for sharing your beautiful story. Hopefully you will get your beautiful rainbow baby soon.

  • @arielredman9398
    @arielredman9398 Год назад +1

    I hope I can be like this. I'm heading to the hospital. My babygirl is being delivered at 18 weeks today. It's absolutely heart shattering. Idk how I'm going to make it through honestly

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  Год назад

      My whole heart is with you, my friend! I pray strength and peace over you. You will get through it day by day. Feel everything you need to feel. Hugs! ❤️

    • @Lilly-ev7ll
      @Lilly-ev7ll 11 месяцев назад

      How are you doing? I went through the same 3 weeks ago at 19 weeks, I had a baby girl too. it's so hard isn't it. I'm still really struggling, I just hope it gets easier

  • @romanasempio4017
    @romanasempio4017 Год назад

    I lost mine at 12 weeks last Aug 2022. I thought I was a bit ok when I got pregnant again after 3 months. But it just hits you unexpectedly sometimes when you thought you have moved on... I

  • @littlemaelights8995
    @littlemaelights8995 3 месяца назад

    I have my anatomy scan today...im 13 weeks and a few days....I'm really nervous. I just want to hold my Myles in my arms 💙

  • @fatimaimran4456
    @fatimaimran4456 Год назад

    Hi I am so sorry to hear about your loss and I listened your story is as same as mine I also went to for gender at 16weeks but they didn't see any heart beat nd it stopped on 14weeks plus 5days but i was at 16 weeks I didn't have any symptoms and only few days before I had headaches and then I deliver baby but my placenta didn't came out so they did D&C .

  • @nikilion2445
    @nikilion2445 3 года назад +4

    I found out I lost my baby this month January 15th I would’ve been 15 weeks from my last period and it was my first ultrasound out of my whole pregnancy because of my health insurance problems but I got it all figured out in time the doctor told me I had a silent miscarriage they had to do a D&C on the 8th I was beyond devastated but I’m glad I had the support I didI just wanna say anybody who goes through this their very strong and it does get better with time this video has help me thank you!

  • @RosaMartinez-zy3oe
    @RosaMartinez-zy3oe 5 лет назад +1

    ❤️ I love how strong you are baby . Titi baby in heaven . I love you guys

  • @shelandamitchell3752
    @shelandamitchell3752 9 месяцев назад

    New fear unlocked 😭

  • @zenadavis4193
    @zenadavis4193 Год назад +1

    I lost my 1st baby at 23.3 weeks, I had to give birth to her, she was born sleeping 😢❤

  • @shirin1625
    @shirin1625 Год назад

    😢😭 I am @14week and I can feel the pain 💔

  • @sunnivs
    @sunnivs 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing. I just went through missed miscarriage at 17 weeks. ❤ I'm so sorry you went through this.

  • @lizzmorales7550
    @lizzmorales7550 2 года назад +2

    Going through this right know 😞💔👶🏻

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry! I'm sending love ❤

  • @MzamoMlilo-g5c
    @MzamoMlilo-g5c Год назад +1

    Hey i have a question.. My woman claims she had a miscarriage but i dont buy the story.. She was 6 months pregnant and she says she was alone in the house.. Is it possible that she survived and without any medical knowledge.. She never even went to the hospital after that.. Im just curious.. I jist want justice for my child😢.. I need information.. Im commenting from South Africa

  • @hilahjohnsonpembleton2562
    @hilahjohnsonpembleton2562 Год назад +1

    I'm pregnant I feel flutters and movements

  • @princessjzebguwa809
    @princessjzebguwa809 2 года назад +1

    Because i have a fibroid i had 3 miscarriages

  • @squadofmunchkins
    @squadofmunchkins Год назад

    God Bless you!

  • @jessicamorgan7104
    @jessicamorgan7104 2 года назад

    Feeling so sad. I lost my baby at 8+3 pw

  • @jamiekirkland7918
    @jamiekirkland7918 Год назад

    Are you going to be ok with future pregnancies?

  • @comediccheffaith
    @comediccheffaith 7 месяцев назад

    God bless u

  • @hilahjohnsonpembleton2562
    @hilahjohnsonpembleton2562 Год назад

    I have a lot of health issues

  • @nehak6620
    @nehak6620 9 месяцев назад

    Can you please tell me how fast you got pregnant again and the process. I just had a miscarriage and the emotional trauma and pain is quite intense.

    • @mandipalermo
      @mandipalermo  9 месяцев назад +3

      I’m so sorry, I can totally relate and feel for you! That pain in something you never forget. I was advised to wait up to 9months to a year due to them initially suspecting that I had a partial molar pregnancy. However, I got pregnant the month after the miscarriage. It was a healthy and smooth pregnancy, Glory to God. My little boy is 4 years old now and I’ve had another child since then. Hold on to hope, always! ❤️ sending hugs and prayers

    • @nehak6620
      @nehak6620 9 месяцев назад

      @@mandipalermo thank you. That really does give me hope. We had gotten pregnant via IUI. But we will try once again just naturally. Do you have any tips on ovulation tracking and how you times BD around it? Thank you

  • @nathalyy.a
    @nathalyy.a 5 лет назад +2

    ♥️

  • @allyssadigiovancarlo5878
    @allyssadigiovancarlo5878 5 лет назад +1

    I love you 💕

  • @cleomwansa156
    @cleomwansa156 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ekhelefkhel1284
    @ekhelefkhel1284 2 года назад

    You look like Mahira sharma

  • @suki959
    @suki959 2 года назад

    How can you miscarriage?

  • @ngaferg6042
    @ngaferg6042 6 месяцев назад

  • @xoxxxoooxo6643
    @xoxxxoooxo6643 3 года назад +1

    ❤️

  • @haselta.7544
    @haselta.7544 5 лет назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @FellatiousWoman23
    @FellatiousWoman23 5 лет назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sanjinamahmud3181
    @sanjinamahmud3181 4 года назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤