君馨Sharing之我的被欺凌經歷 My Experience with bullying || Grace Wong 王君馨
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2020
- 好耐冇upload youtube video了，
今次好想同大家分享一下我細個讀書時被欺凌嘅經歷，
希望借助分享我以前嘅經歷去鼓勵一啲經歷緊被欺凌嘅朋友要勇敢面對！
如果你地都有經歷過被欺凌，都可以留言分享你地嘅故事，
同埋分享一下你地當時係點樣去處理～
希望可以喺度互相鼓勵！
如果大家有其他topic想我分享都可以留言話我知㗎！
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中意聽有藝人身分既真實經歷分享，探討生命各方面俾其他野更重要。另外多數為藝人塑造既形象好少多方面並有真實性
原來君馨都有咁嘅經歷，都仲可以咁正面去面對，真係好勁
欣賞你有顆善良的心和對朋友很好👍
俾人bully嘅感覺完全明白 但被bully之餘全世界都覺得自己先係衰人所以俾人孤立晒 成個high school得自己一個人咁⋯⋯⋯好開心你會share呢d experience令到我地呢d都suffer過嘅人知道we’re not alone
Joanne 點解會咁嘅？🤯🤯🤯 欺凌你嘅人係咪之後仲扮受害者？
Grace this will happen if you are bullied and kept silent, didn't even speak a word for yourself. My experience is that I was bullied during my years in Form 6 & 7 ( probably equivalent to high school in the United States, but not sure) and emotionally I had quite similar reaction with you at that time. I didn't know how to handle the whole thing and I was too afraid to speak what had happened to me. Instead, I tried to behave tough and pretended I can handle it. However this just made things even worse and gradually people who are around you will start to keep distance with you or even outsider being rude to you. This is all that I can still tell and share with you today.
由小學被人欺凌到中學..IVE時以為冇事好開心..但最後都係被杯葛...
但係好慶幸自己係果種「一個人無咩唔好」「我唔會衰比你地睇」「我以後會比你地活得更好」既心態
雖然影片中沒有任何的背景音樂，但是看著看著直到尾聲卻有種莫名的感動🥰你真係一個很棒嘅人，多謝你嘅鼓勵❤️❤️
謝謝君馨，好鍾意分享呢類型既片！！好真實！有時候諗起被欺凌，但係內心依然無法原諒佢地😖😖😖
Thanks for sharing. I was bullied in my first year in the US (8th grade) not by other races but by my very same people (Chinese) because I was a FOB. My book bag was kicked on the muddy ground, my stationeries were tossed, my locker lock was damaged, you name it. I cried and cried and cried. Worked my way up. Today... I am an attorney. I help others, I speak up for others, I yell back at bullies, I welcome minorities ... those who had bullied me- they are far behind me today. You brought back my memories...
Claire G wow I’m sooo proud of you! Thank u for making kickbutt lemonades with them lemons!!!!!
分享想法真係好支持，我覺得內在美太重要，youtube有太多外在的分享。
我好想了解其他人，好的想法and任何可學習的經歷，所以超級支持這種聊天類影片。
Grace!無論你有沒有看我的評論，我都要講噶啦。睇左之後真的很窩心，感覺我們和你的距離近左好多，很喜歡你這種分享自己的故事被我們聽這種形式，真的會感化我們噶，I am touched!下期早update啊！講講愛情都得噶，想聽你見解！💕
看完這影片很感動。希望人與人之間能夠理解和關心，在世界上人人都能被愛。感謝君馨你的經歷分享！
無意間睇到呢個分享,睇左之後感覺被鼓勵了,感謝你
Thank you so much 因為我過多陣都要去美國讀書(high school)成日都係度諗緊關於bully嘅問題 因為始終係亞洲人 同埋美國種族歧視嘅問題都仲比較嚴重 仲有要離開依家D朋友 家人 都有D擔心 so thank you so much for sharing ur experience and it’s really helpful🙏🏻🙏🏻
好中意呢啲碎碎念嘅片😆可以多d拍關於生活上愛情上嘅題材
試過被人排斥 搞到有情緒病抑郁左幾年瘦左十公斤 依加走出左陰影 更加覺得識朋友要帶眼識人 希望所有被欺凌過既人都可以走出陰影
I never knew you've got a youtube channel but this is amazing to have discovered!!
Grace, 我諗你真係做左一些好好的決定，看你現在多開心，多幸福！努力加油呀！
其實真的！所以我到依家個人都幾冇自信 幾自卑，謝謝你分享💓
咩男人值得haha 好中意聽你講野啊
一開始見到25分鐘覺得好長 但係好touching想再聽多D
快d upload 下段la 加油!!
Thank you Grace for sharing your experiences with us. I was bullied before so I could totally relate that feeling 😭😭it was so tough! Even now sometimes that feeling comes back...but after I watch your sharing, I feel better. Let’s spread God’s love to more people who are in need. You’re so inspiring and beautiful inside-out, I’d really wanna meet you in person!
May God bless you in everything you do, Grace💕💕
Thank you very much for sharing Grace!!😢😢我完全係感同身受 我都係去左美國留學讀中學同大學 然後有受到欺凌 雖然而家啲欺凌者無你果時咁猖狂 但其實佢地系背後搞小動作 破壞我嘅財物都已經令我好有陰影 好憎恨佢地 btw Grace不如講下種族歧視問題Or how to overcome language barrier
Welcome back to RUclips! Grace❤️
感謝你君馨 在我現在於工作上被人欺凌時 看到這條片感到溫暖
現在 在工作上同事覺得自己罵人好威 所以無緣無故罵我 我疏遠他 他連同其他同事排擠我
但我相信事情總會過去的 盡量叫自己唔好介意一切...
辛苦了，每個困難的經歷都會有所得著，主會看顧。😊🙏🏽 23:04 多謝提醒
Really loved this kind of sharing video!! Would love to hear more about your faith and stuff abt love relationships haha ❤️
我覺得有時候遇到這些事，忍可以捱過去，我會忍～但壞人好多都係以為你忍就代表驚左佢地，之後只會變本加勵去對付你！幸好你最後無遇到更差對待！我以前小時候都是正義，幫朋友出頭，但後來經歷了很多不好的回憶，現在都會怕事！長大了，覺得自身態度很重要，不要讓人覺得你不會拒絕，不害人，不反撃，不代表我弱！
LaLa SAO yes sometimes our past experience can make us fear our future. But in Christ we can become new people. I have had to go through some healing because of some traumatic experiences. But those experience don’t define me they only make me stronger!!! Bless you dear and thanks for sharing your story!
If anyone wants to do English subtitles for me! That’ll be amazing ~~~~~~
I was bullied due to my shortness (I am 4'9), talked down to due to not being that bright.
I don't know why they were being mean in the first place but I was always aware of it.
I've been counseled during my high school year being talked out of trying to hurt myself from weird gossips about me.
I was mostly upset that someone who I used to know during high school cried wolf and made it look like I have bullied her throughout 4 years of our lives, but she herself gang up on me and told lies multiple times to her parents and harrassed me in the middle of the night by coming over with them making me apologize even though I didn't do anything wrong.
Luckily after that, I cut ties with her and didn't speak to her ever since.
This happened 12 years ago, I'm turning 30 this year.
Anyways, thank you for sharing your story/feelings with us. We appreciate you and adore you even more. Love you 💕💕💕
I’m sorry you had to go through that Victoria and thanks for sharing with us here. Pray that your heart will be healed and many can receive encouragement and healing from your sharing too! We got through it! Let’s continue to spread love with those around us!
I would like to help you
Dear Grace, long time no see!! Thank you for sharing some of your deepest stories with us :))) I'm definitely willing to help with adding CCs!! If you need any supports like editing or filming I'm very much willing to help too~
Shelby Ho thank u Shelby!!! English subtitles will be awesome help!
好正 好少見到有人會分享自己經歷😻😻
多謝妳既分享，聽見妳話瞓得麻麻，但妳係點樣keep住有精力去應付日常密密麻麻既工作呢？祝身體健康，生活愉快!
I’m so sorry that this happened to u, but so admired the way u dealt with it! Ur such an inspiration❤️
好喜歡你的分享，好正面！加油💪🏻Jesus loves you
我鍾意你呢條sit-down video ,真係好紓解都我，我都想你拍多d呢啲類型嘅分享影片，同埋嗰個有咩男仔值得去等嘅都好呀，期待🙋🏿♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏿♀️
Lo F 😂😂😂 Ho!
So proud of you for speaking out on this! Supporting you always! ❤️
Thanks for sharing your experience! I totally relate with you, I was born and raised in New York in the late 80s, I also had a very similar bullying experience with non-asian students during junior high school. Thanks for speaking about this topic!💛
黑暗中總會有晨曦.
就算經歷再唔好嘅事都會過去.
大家一齊加油 勇往直前⚡
好多謝你的分享，希望會沒有欺凌，將心比心，沒人會希望被欺凌，所以跑去欺負比自己弱小的人，只會顯得很幼稚。
還有不管是性別歧視還是種族歧視，大家都是住在地球，並沒有分高低。如果真的要分的話，也是看一個人的人格。
Please take care,you look so exhausted,health is most important.Thank you for sharing and helping others out,God bless!
帶出很好的價值觀👍🏻感受到你用生命影響生命
Love ur video Grace! It’s very motivational and encouraging. Would love to hear your sharing on long distance relationship and love life ❤️❤️❤️Haha
Viv hehe yes, that’s a longggg topic 😝😄
I like the last part of your sharing, the influence of media could shape what people think, hope more positive message can be conveyed through some tv episode and hope you could be part of it :) Everybody stay strong and love is the only solution.
講左個心聲出黎🥺💕
如別人對你差，你個刻報仇對佢差，你就會成為同對方一樣嘅人，要避免自己成為曾經討厭嘅人。
當你平時懂得自嘲，對方想貶低你都難搵位入，就會少啲敵人，就算有敵人都打唔沉你，因為最懂嘲笑你嘅人就係你自己。
舉例：
如怕別人嘲笑你死肥婆玩你，你只要平時承認自己係肥，甚至可用肥嚟講笑，就無人可再攻擊你玩得謝你。
對付種族歧視都一樣可咁處理，但好多學生唔識自嘲，太要面嘅人只識認叻好易多敵人。古代戰爭中最聰明嘅人都會扮傻唔邀功，先可唔比人殺得以保命長命。
Grace, thanks so much for your heartfelt sharing and praying. You are one of the best daughter in Christ. So spiritual video! Amen 🙏🏻
呢種經歷係一個歷練 可以令到欺凌既人更加強大 一定要冧通先得 唔可以一直沈浸係唔開心既emotion入面
Angelina Chow so true !!!!
好鍾意聽你講故事❤️
sis im so sorry that you had to go through that but im 100 percent sure you're way more successful then they will ever be
I love your video Grace. Watching this reminds me of a quote from Keanu Reeves, “I If you have been brutally broken but still have the courage to be gentle to other living beings, then you’re a badass with a heart of an angel.“ I was bullied too when I was younger. It’s so hard sometimes when you are nice, people think it’s superficial or take advantage of it. I felt so proud of you when you stood up for yourself.
HugsyHugsy great job!!!!!!
Thank you for your sharing!!! Such a good video!❤️❤️
Its been a long min! Some vlogs/day in the life would be great.
好多謝Grace你既分享！it makes me remember what i have been gone through in my junior high in Staten Island where you barely see any Asian in the school. I was an immigrant at the time, I didn’t know much of English at least not well enough to communicate. Honestly, I was just like you. I wasn’t their target at first but my cousin because they were in the same class. But we have the same lunch period and that was how i noticed they bullied my cousin. Just like what you have done at first we stay quite when they throw us garbage while we were eating, spit gum on my cousin’s new book bag, throw our lunch out... it goes on for half year until they were targeting me only because i always fought back and I guess it was interesting to them that i fought back and of course i didn’t tell the principle assistance still. But i cant hold it anymore, one of girls (there were 3 girls in total) threw an empty chip’s bag at me but she missed it. I threw back a meatball oh yeah a meatball with full of tomato sauce on her ALL WHITE North Face jacket (back then having a north face jacket is a big thing) and of course i didn’t miss it. She got really pissed at me and she grab another empty chip’s bag and rubbing on my face for good 10 seconds. There were lots of emotion going through inside me of course i was scared and mad. I cried because I didn’t know what to do. She ran into the bathroom afterward and waiting till the bell ring. I was crying like i never cry before, my face turned red. The Principle Assistance can’t ignore me at that point, he walked toward me and asked me what happened oh yeah i was waiting on that. I said “someone is bullying me. I’m scared. I don’t feel safe. I need to call 911. I hate this school. I need to see their parent and ask them why me. I want to call 911...” blalala this could be the most accrue English that I have spoken. So he asked me to point who, i pointed out the other two girls (the girl who rubbed my face was inside the bathroom). And we were ask go to Principle Assistance room. I guess the girl who hide in the bathroom got snitched because she was there too. I cried again and repeat I need to call 911... yeah so rest of junior high was peaceful and beautiful after this. I think you just have be brave somehow being quite cant really do much. Thanks again on sharing it because empathy does matter.
tifftuu thank you so much for sharing! I experienced another bullying before that I didn’t share in this video but I did actually call the cops on that guy and never again did he dare to lay hands on me. Thanks for being so brave! Bless ur heart!
你很勇敢-相信有深愛。 ㊗️福你。我只是一個簡單的女人。thank u for your help to me. 無男人值得我浪費時間。❤💜 努力做好我自己
sooo this is the video!! Lemme watch it now ❤️❤️
多謝鼓勵 真係睇唔透欺凌人個個係咩心態 呢段video令我覺得好warm 原來we are not alone
Yes please! More stories of anything 😄
Thank you for your efforts in sharing with us!!! 👍🏼 Let’s stay healthy together❤️
Maybe some sharing on 為夢想奮鬥, like how did you overcome the situation when you know you have to sacrifice a lot but you may not get a guaranteed success??!!!Or someone else has already gotten numerous awards and you just started your journey reaching your dream ???
It would be great if you are going to share about your journey (how you deal with self-doubt)❤️
Tszlam Chan I would love to share!!! Thx for ur support 💖
It’s warm. Want to hear to sharing your love story as well to all the girls❤️
I think most of us Asians living in other countries have been bullied by other races during our school life. I'm glad you shared it with us. Yeah, I didn't ask for help from my parents because I know they can't help much.
想睇多啲你嘅日常🙋🏻♂️😆😆😆😆
hi 君馨 我想睇下有關你努力減肥同daily workout or how to keep a work life balance~
真心希望你分享你嘅暴食症點樣康復過黎😢因為我已經俾哩個病影響左大半年，而家每日都過得好難過，嘗試左無數次自救但都唔成功，好無助，唔知可以點，真係好幾次切切下食物好想就咁將把刀往頸上移，心諗𠝹落去就唔會再咁辛苦落去。暴食症嘅感受好多人都唔會明，就算我鼓起勇氣同朋友分享，佢地都完全無法理解。聽到你電台訪問中提及你嘅暴食症病史，同我嘅情況完全一模一樣，我就係食極都填補唔到心裡面嘅窿，永遠填唔滿心靈上嘅空缺，好想知你點樣走出黎🙏🏻
雖然不認識你, 但我岩岩為你禱告左, 希望天父可以幫助你, 醫治你, 好多謝你願意係網上分享自己既經歷呀, 你都可以嘗試同天父禱告架, God bless you❤️
Hey Grace, just wanna let you know your videos are so inspiring and encouraging❤️ Can't believe I actually sat down and watched the entire video haha! It would be nice to hear your experience of leaving home in the US and moving to HK to pursue your career. I personally had a similar experience when I left home in HK at 15 to study high school in Australia. Just curious about how you managed to get over the homesickness and culture shock etc. 😊
Claudia Chan awww ok I’ll try to do one of these
I don’t even have to finish watching your video but I know you are a very righteous person and it is so rare for a chinese girl to have this trait. I am also a righteous person but because of that it has impede me from being likeable . As a righteous women no one will like you on a personal level . It’s so sad . I stood up for my identity and I look for unity only to realize chinese ppl are so divided . There so many typical passive hypocrites Chinese ppl . I literally gave up seeing a sense of community I just focus on being myself and being happy . As long I got money I am fine . You are one of the most genuine tvb artists and I can feel it . Continue to stay true to yourself and dun let ppl lower your confidence . As a chinese overseas like myself , your chinese is excellent . If people judge negatively it’s because they are jealous . Dun let Identity crisis Affect your happiness . It used to make me feel lonely and feel left out . Not anymore because I am proud to speak so many languages in the end . Dun let anybody bring you down you know your worth . You are a true gem in the HK industry . Cant wait to see more of your work .
Grace 想睇你分享暴食症同埋你點樣減肥&keep身形，日常飲食等❤️⋯
試下玩challenge 片😋😂比你同大家笑下🤪e家發生咁多事 真係笑唔出🥺希望你發放下正能量🤩
多啲拍片分享，好中意你既性格😍
唔開心既事會過去！！！！
❤️❤️❤️❤️
其實唔知係唔係緣份 其實我見過你真人幾次 真人靚過上鏡呀❤️😊
Thanks for sharing and bless your heart! The same happened to me too when I was in high school, and I agree it would pass eventually (every time). Luckily, my experience with bullying stopped kinda dramatically before graduation after one of ‘them’ almost got drowned at a field trip our class had, when we were canoeing in a lake (PE class); just happened that I was able to maneuver my canoe closer so that she was able to hang on to it for staying above the water, while her friends were laughing at her. I was simply moving closer by looking at her direction naturally, didn’t think anything at all, and didn’t learn how to maneuver a canoe either. When I think back, I’m sure it’s God who helped me through, PTL! (She even whispered ‘Thank you’ when our paths crossed when getting ready to leave, I didn’t react though coz I thought I heard it wrong 😂 )
I always tell my children that popularity is overrated. Just focus on your future and always be kind, even if you are not repaid back with kindness. Continue to share your positivity and words of encouragement. You are a shining star.
Yasss amen! You go mama!
Just love your personality ❤️
i think i was very lucky and was never bullied personally when i went to francis lewis in queens. teens got into fights for stupid stuff and every morning we had to go through those TSA security scans to enter the school (yea, crazy NYC). i had positive experience in high school through college and people were very friendly to me, i thought that was just the definition of a melting pot. i might have taken it for granted being fortunate but im thankful. sorry to hear that you had to go through it. Working in a big company in NYC still, i am also lucky that I have been given tons of career opportunities and respect despite my yellow skin. Add oil!
Thank you for ur share ! I love to watch ur vedio and share. I can feel ur heart is kind! God bless u!
First,my grace my lady 🙆🏻♂️
I was once bullied by a bad girl during high school, now I went through it. Thank you Grace:) Stay strong and one day you will become a much stronger person that no one could push you around.
Xiaoyang WANG let’s stay strong together!
I hate those domineering girl
好有正義感，正👍👍👍
有被欺凌經歷的人, 會比一般人堅強, 有好的個性, 這是個好的歷練 which is good for your life, add oil
I love your content 💖💖💖
@11:19 I wish I had a friend like that. When I was bullied, my so-called best friend decided to side with the bully.
@13:17 That was my exact thought so 忍左兩年 and later requested to move schools, but didn't say why
Like these kinds of videos, just plain and simple along with your pretty voice. Background music not needed ^^
Thanks for sharing，生命影響生命👍🏻
your sharing would help young people stay strong.
I'd love to see more English vlogs :D
君馨真的好棒，好善良
Love your videos. Your voice is so soft!! Maybe it’s easier to talk in English and keep the Chinese subtitles?
我也在初中的時候被排斥過、欺凌過，每天都過的很不開心，不想去上學，很懷念小學開心的日子。我的雙胞胎妹妹和我在一班級，她受到的影響明顯比我還要深很多，最後是熬過去了，好在未來的日子裡我們還是有遇到可愛的人的。
係咪飲左少少酒先出片？好似wing wing哋😂
A C It’s 2am in the morning and I just wanted to share haha. I wonder if I had a glass of wine during dinner 🤔🤔🤔
非常非常好的分享
Thanks grace for sharing
好鍾意睇你啲片
在初中的時候,我都試過被欺凌,真的很難受及恐懼。。。那種影響是你無法想像!
wanna watch make up tutorial, skincare, girly things
Thank you for your sharing!!
Grace 好想知你會點處理憤怒？
I am always fear to deal with anger.
Just because I don’t want to hurt others.
聽你講野好舒服
拍some vlog with Jonathan laaaa!!!!!!!
I was bullied by a classmate whole year at junior high. She was strongly attached to one girl only, did not like/ need other classmate. Her best friend once talked to me. .. From then on she bullied me, her face was v bad looking n bad attitude towards me. It was nightmares whole year 😭. I told class teacher wants to change seats but she refused：may be next term, obviously no changing seats whole year. Luckily thank you God 🙏 haven’t seen her next year ever. Yes such experience is v disturbing in our young lives but later I think God want us to learn to live, there are lots of bad and good people surrounding us and learn to protect ourselves emotionally and physically. Be ready not every one open arms to you or show smile to you.
完全好明🥺🥺
我都看過同學被人欺淩，不過冇你咁勇敢站出來，依家好後悔
ps:君馨d小表情好可愛
Eugene Wan Do something when you can, even to share your support to them over the phone it still means a lot.
Freshmen friday still happens when I was at bx sci, but that was almost 10 years ago it wasn't as crazy. Mostly just small pranks.
你經歷，同我一樣，形容得好好
Is it a requirement in the US college to join a fraternity/ Sorority?