Amberlynn Reid This is a Huge Mistake
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I don't understand why she's acting like she only buys processed foods at trader joes, when thats all she buys no matter what grocery store she goes to.
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💯 she acts like she cooks. Bitch you just reheat already cooked food, which means it’s processed garbage!!!
Thisssss
Her problem is she views every diet as a fresh start and refuses to reflect on the patterns she's built up. She gets a LITTLE weight off and she's acting like she's at a goal weight already.
“I am at 500 pounds. I'm doing well, so I don't need to worry much.”
Amber, I am the same age as you, a man, and you weigh more than twice as much as I do at 500. It is not an end goal
Edit. actually, she weighs more than three times what I weigh.
then she gains the same amount and says it's water 😭
Her only reference point truly is My 600 Pounds Life, anything under that is perfectly fine in her eyes.
@@Romaki96 I saw on a later video she talked about having 150 pounds of that she could not remove except with surgery.
that’s how much I weigh
I'm honestly so over amberlynn. I've had 5 direct family members pass away from obesity related issues, and I just cannot watch her slowly kill herself anymore while pretending to try. I'm just so tired of hearing the same excuses over and over and over again with absolutely NO change
and she blames us and trader joe’s and WW etc. it’s never her fault in her mind. and that’s why she never succeeds
She needs in facility help so badly it’s actually crazy how food industries have normalized this type of shit by buying influence in our culture and internationally.
I’m completely with you on this one and i’m sorry for your losses:/ i don’t think she will ever loose that weight she has so little discipline, even just that mindset of “i know i’ll have to eat healthy eventually”… that’s what you should start with and keep up for the rest of your life
Obesity is suic1de on the installment plan.
She says unironically she, 'Could lose 100 lbs in a year by punishing herself with 1700 cals/day'. C'mon! This woman is consuming in excess of 4000 cals/day based on her current size & continued weight gain. She could easily cut back to "just" 3000 cals/day and still lose massive amounts of weight. I honestly don't know if she actually believes her own words or if it's all just part of the social media game? I've never followed any of her content except 2nd hand thru others critiquing her. Sounds like you know her mentality and aren't having any more.
Her use of alcohol and delta are not helping with her weight.
Can I ask what Delta is?? I'm Canadian and never heard of Delta 😊
Yes please explain Delta ❤️ i am from Germany
@@CatherineB554 Delta-8 THC is an active ingredient (cannabinoid) of the cannabis plant. But most delta-8 products are man-made from converted CBD oil. The biggest risk of delta-8 THC is that it's not regulated, which means that safety, purity, and strength can't be guaranteed.
@@slyfoxxx666so that would also cause the munchies as well?
As someone who not only struggles with weight and has both smoked and used edibles (Canadian, it’s medicinal here) I find that edibles (like she tends to use) are much more likely to cause binges than smoking. While I have to be careful to not smoke so much that it impacts my physical activity/breathing as well as take regular tolerance breaks to make sure I’m doing it as mindful as I can. I honestly feel it actually HELPS my activity when used with caffeine, but anyone with addictive tendencies (like Amber) have to be SOOO careful to make sure it doesn’t create more problems than it fixes.
Girliepop hasnt been “on track” since Krystles parents locked the food away
Does Amberlynn even know what it means to be "on track"?
No she off roads more than anyone… Jesus take the wheel
She’s gained over 200 lbs in her time on RUclips. “On track” for her is like momentary mini spurts of 2-3 days between weeks and weeks of overeating.
@@danielbrown001her issue is that she has an incredible amount of expendable income. And she spends this money on foolish nic nacs and takeout food. She started her channel as a weight loss and gained hundred of pounds as she became more popular and richer. Only way she will change is inpatient care. She cannot trust herself anymore.
Shes been on track for 20 minutes…how dare you
The term ‘on track’ implies there is even a track she follows. Or that she was even on the track in the first place
having junk food in your house is setting yourself up for failure. she gets so cocky and smug and congratulates herself way too soon. you don’t got this, amber. nowhere near. start listening to those of us who have succeeded. start listening to medical professionals. you don’t know better. you really, really don’t. it’s people, places and things. when i first got off of drugs i went out of my way to avoid the people, places and things that triggered my using. she needs to do likewise. no junk in the house, no ordering in, no candy, no eating at restaurants. maybe down the line she can begin to incorporate some of those things, but she is years away from that. don’t lose 7 lbs in a month and act like you cracked the code. it’s time to open your ears and mind; you cannot do this alone. you’re getting nowhere and it’s endlessly frustrating to watch.
Let's face it, Amber doesn't have "years" to do anything. I agree with many commenters in that she is a lost cause. She has been severely overweight almost her entire life (200+ at 11 years old!). As many people have said, inpatient is her ONLY hope! But IMO that will NEVER happen because RUclips feeds (no pun intended) her addictive personality because it gives her the attention, "validation" and "popularity" that she has never had in her life. If we weren't so absolutely disgusted by her treatment of others, her smugness and arrogance, we would ALL just pity her.
My battlefield is the workplace since I can't control what's in that environment. And my god my coworkers eat atrociously. But she doesn't even have a real job so that's not a thing for her.
She knows nutrition more than you do
@@adamandsteve13 I forgot about that
I've noticed that she has an extremely hard time accepting that she has to play by the rules the rest of the world does. She's been doing this for so long and had so much advice and input from others that she knows what OTHER people have to do to lose weight, but she thinks she's special and doesn't have to do things the ways others do. She can tell you how to diet and lay out the guidelines of her latest plan, but it takes like 5 minutes for her to throw in a "but what works for ME..."
the alcohol and gummies aren’t helping. with the gambling and shopping too, it seems like she spends her days going from one dopamine hit to the next in all of these addictive activities.
If shes not high on dopamine she would have to face her negative emotions/trauma. She has to face everything internally head on. Then she can work on the external.
Broke and sickly obese
She would do well in a rehabilitation program. She can't get out of her own way.
Cheat days are the quickest way to self-sabotage if a habit/routine hasn't been established first. Speaking from experience 🤣.
we tried to tell her. we told her not to buy candy. we told her edibles would give her the munchies. we told her drinking alcohol during a diet is counter productive. we told her going out to eat is self sabotage. she just shuts us out and tells us she knows better than us and better than the doctors. so i don’t wanna hear her complain that she is facing backlash, when she won’t take any constructive criticism. after 33 years of failure, you think she would open her mind to those of us who have succeeded.
@@boosqueezy2418 Very true.
They can work within reason for some people, problem being Amber is not those people nor do I believe she uses reason while eating
#FACTS I feel you!
Her weight is her entire personality. Without it she has nothing to offer her audience. She thrives on the drama that goes along with it. She'll never change.
Hey hey she also has her toxic behaviour towards her partners her laziness and being deliberately ignorant
Was she ever thin and active as a child? When I got huge I thought constantly about the activities I used to do, wanted to do again, but could not physically manage. If I didn't know for a fact what being active and healthy felt like I'm not sure I would have ever lost weight.
@@CIARUNSITE I don't believe she was ever thin but when she started her "weight loss" channel she was at least 150 lbs lighter
It's honestly her fault. She has had a decade to pivot her channel into something healthier and monetizable. She chose the cheap way out.
@@Ophelia1023I believe she was about 250-300 lbs when she first started her channel, and the heaviest she got was really close to 700 if I’m remembering correctly. She def for sure got into the 600’s somewhere!
Ambers problem is she is always the victim. Victim mentality at all times. She is keeping her own self stuck on a hamster wheel going no where fast
na, replace the word food with meth or crack or alcohol and you realize what she does. This is basically every drug addict out there before they found a way out of the drug - one way or another.
@@vanivari359she’s also addicted to alcohol, and shopping, and evidently gambling now too. She certainly has addictive tendencies
It seems to be a combination of all of this and probably that she is just narcissistic. I think she loves attention no matter what kind, which is why she will do whatever it takes, even self sabotage her own health/fitness journey, just to have a video with a click bait title. And she knows it's working because all of these channels are still talking about her and she stays relevant. It's incredible how much of an impact social media has on this younger generation.
@@vanivari359people only change when they accept that they have a addiction and aren’t a victim to their choices. People at the end of the day still have a choice. To either change or remain the same.
SHE 👏🏼 IS 👏🏼 NOT 👏🏼 TRYING 👏🏼 TO 👏🏼 LOSE 👏🏼 WEIGHT… if she was, there wouldn’t be constant cheats and yo-yo-ing.
agreed. and youtube pays her to eat herself into oblivion. it’s self harm and shouldn’t be monetized.
She likes feeling successful without trying. "I'm so proud of myself..."
@@MyNameHere101100% “I’m proud of myself because I could have done way worse, and I didn’t. And I deserve credit for that”
The constant excuses to cheat regularly would stop if she was really trying. I’d come up with every excuse to cheat as often as possible back in the day when I was lying to myself about how hard I was trying.
The yo-yoing doesn’t mean not trying though. I had a bunch of both physical and mental disorders, some diagnosed and some hadn’t been yet, that caused both my results and my ability to stay on track to fluctuate even once stopped living in denial and I had started consistently putting in 100% effort. It wasn’t until all the medical issues unrelated to weight were being addressed/medicated/treated that the yo-yoing reduced down to a minimal amount. Even now it still happens a little bit sometimes but it usually means I need an adjustment to my meds dosage, or to address something different in therapy, or my hormones are out either due my natural cycles being irregular, or lack of sleep or a period of higher stress or anything of the multiple things that can disrupt hormones
Correct. This whole cycle is just her making content
She says she wants to be open and honest with us, while actively lying about her life😂 she's literally pretending to have a girlfriend, she's lying about a whole ass human😂
She probably does want to be open and honest, but what she wants is to be open and honest and have everyone validate every thought and feeling she has and tell her how great she is.
The one thing Amber has never understood above all else, is the concept of a cheat MEAL, as opposed to a cheat DAY. That way you aren’t tempting fate as much by ruining your entire day. But no, she just HAS to do the most with everything.
If she didn't do the most with everything she wouldn't be 500lbs
Holy shit this is so true. I’ve had multiple cheat meals during my weight loss but never had a full cheat day just cause I’d feel like I’m going back days just from one day of eating everything I could and it would be so easy to just go back to that lifestyle
C'mon people, look at her thumbnail, watch how she films herself eating. Notice the grin on her face as she tells of being off track. She'll keep feeding people this crap until people stop eating the lies.
Her mental gymnastics frustrate me. She's not off track just because she went to Trader Joe's, and she buys plenty of processed food at her own grocery store. Trader Joe's has lots of healthy options, and the regular grocery store has just as much processed food. The Amy's meals she buys every single week are no more "healthy" than things she could get at trader joe's. She didn't mess up because she went to Trader Joe's, she messed up because of her lack of self control.
And, i struggle with food addiction and binging as well. And I promise you that all it takes is a bad day or a weak moment in ANY grocery store, and it's easy to make bad choices and buy EVERYTHING that looks good, just like she did. Of course she's not going to be perfect right away, no one is. But it's common sense that buying an entire haul of tasty processed carbs is going to be a problem for a person with food issues. She needs to learn to maybe pick one or two reasonable "splurge" items per trip, so even if you go overboard one day, it's limited. Bringing more than that into the house at once is just a recipe for disaster.
One of her cheat days could undo a weeks worth of progress.
Not even a cheat day, she can stuff a whole cheat day in one meal consuming 5000cals
The problem with amberlynn is that she sees anybody who gives her valid (and much needed!) criticism as a hater
Narcissism🤷♀️
she lost a bunch of weight - her body feels that way... If only we had devices that could be used to check those feelings.
her brain and soul felt it too lol just saw someone on my 600 lb life say she felt like she dropped 300-400 lbs. in reality she lost 12 lbs. LOL. that’s exactly how amberlynn is. her clothes are no baggier. she’s lost next to no weight.
i don’t think amberlynn has been on track since she left virginia
She needs to check herself in to rehab, the only way she’ll survive
I'd strongly recommend some type of inpatient treatment to her as well.
we don't understand nutrition like she does.
Are there inpatient rehab programs for obesity?
@@shannonmoynihan8957 I don't know about the US, but in Europe you can go to a psychosomatic ward treating eating disorders when you are morbidly obese.
That would be admitting defeat, narclynn would never!
I’ve been watching since the Destiny days and, outside of all the obvious stuff, there’s one of key thing I see her doing every time: dooming herself to failure.
You hear her say it in nearly every video where she talks about her approach - including this one “It’s gonna happen. I’m going to be making mistakes.”
I’m not saying anyone needs to be perfect. If you do make a mistake - forgive yourself and get back on track. But, saying ‘I WILL fail’, as if it’s unavoidable or an inevitability, has given her a reason to go off track because she’s set up the failure AND forgiven herself for it in advance.
She gets rewarded ($$) everytime she slips and makes a video about it. If she really wanna lose that weight, I'm afraid she's gonna have to take a break from RUclips. So it's a conundrum, because she depends on making content about her not being able to lose weight. It's a shitty situation tbh
Yup. So many content creators like her are stuck in that cycle, in fact, some outright admit it. Depressing and morbid. 😢
absolutely
The thing is, if she started really DOING it the weight would fly off her which would be incredibly entertaining for her audience and would bring a lot of new, supportive followers to her channel.
The cycle doesn’t require any work or effort for her, though. That’s the real reason she will never succeed.
She’s said the exact same thing so many times before
Struggling with her diet?? It hasn't even been 2 full weeks has it?
She claims she started in January. Lost 8#, February 9# March 10#... *Approximately, because she uses decimal points and I don't.
It's been over 10 years
I have food issues and am aware of my triggers. I can't have certain foods in my house because I know I will eat all of it. Hey Amber, just don't buy those things.
I have 4 kids and a wife. I'm the only one dieting it is hard but I end up making 2 separate meals one for me and one for them. It's definitely hard when there's others to consider but luckily my wife is supportive and don't mind us spending more to help me with losing weight. We don't keep to much junk for the kids but they definitely don't want chicken and rice every day lol. I will do it cuz I'm trying hard to lose the weight.
@@travisswiley7663 She lives alone which should make it that much easier but that would entail personal responsibility and we know how she does with that.
Wishing you all the luck in your journey. It's hard but worth it.
She lectured everyone in her videos about how she can handle eating the food she bought from Trader Joe’s and the turns around and admits that it did in fact trigger her. She constantly brings up what she knows will trigger her and then get upset when people point out how her food choices don’t make sense if she wants to avoid that. And then on top of that, she keeps trying to do this weird “seductive” food eating content. She planned a binge and then acts like she can’t understand why she binges.
people telling you that cheat days are a bad idea aren’t “bullying” you. saying you don’t “got this” after you come online and lecture us isn’t “harassing” you. telling you the truth isn’t being mean. we are not haters. we are the ones telling you that you are deluding yourself and need inpatient care. those enabling you and allowing you to make eleven years’ worth of excuses are the ones who don’t care about you. you’ve got this backwards.
Why is her mom enabling her and going to Olive Garden? You aren't getting out of there for less than 1200 calories at least, especially for someone with no portion control or ability to make healthy choices. I think shes had enough Olive Garden in her life.
She said that she's swollen and in the same breath said she had food consisting mostly of salt. Olive Garden is not quality Italian food, its mostly sodium. Like how is someone this delusional?
But when you point out that her mom is an enabler in her comments you get told “it’s Ambers choice what she eats at the restaurant!” - which is true, but her mom doesn’t have to enable her further by driving her to these places and eating with her. A decent mother would put her foot down and refuse to take her to restaurants.
Did we just get 2 posts in the same day +?
Obsessed 😂
Glorious! 🙌
Thought the same lol ❤
Her whole ‘career’ has basically been ultra low effort videos of vague rambling blogging, the only reason people have ever watched is the fact that she’s abused her partners and failed at weight loss ,she’s known as a failure so honestly she’s just gonna keep filming her failure because it gives her enough money to continue her addiction.
I agree. She doesn’t need to share if it is making her feel bad
No I cant believe she continued after a cheat day?!!! Wow how shocking😂😂
I lost a lot of weight. My brain feels that way, my soul feels that way, only the scale seems to disagree 😂
dr now would have her on a 1200 calorie a day diet, which is why she will never go on the show. 2000 calories a day will work for her, if she actually keeps to it. i don’t believe she has been., even when she claimed to be on track. even 2500 cals a day would have her dropping much more weight than she is. she needs to remain consistent. that’s the bottom line.
It's called addiction and EVERY addict goes through this cycle despite the addiction!
Her video is a troll... they all are. If she really wanted to change, she would get professional help. She can't do this on her own.. she's proven it.
A day of sticking to her diet would be the actual cheat day for her
She doesn't want to lose weight. She quits everything that works even a little bit.
what a shocker who could have seen this coming.... cough cough
The cycle continues.....
I'm strongly overweight as well (on my journey since January) but I could never imagine sitting in a restaurant with that many plates. I would be super embarrassed.
I love how you said you can’t from from A to Z, you have to go through the whole alphabet. This hit home and is making me rethink how I’ve been doing things. Thank you!!!
2:24 - Honestly… she’s so toxic. Does she really not realize what she’s doing?! She is constantly yo-yo-ing… And it’s not good or healthy, in ALL aspects! 💯🙄😒
Apparently at least one study has shown being obese is so unhealthy it's actually healthier to yoyo diet as the temporary reduction in weight gives your body a break. The psychological aspect is different though.
She looks high. She needs to knock it off if she wants control of her appetite. Speaking from experience here.
Trader Joe's has many healthy food options and is helpful for single people. I shop there all of the time, especially for fresh produce in small quantities.
I'm shocked.
😱😱
You’re shocked?
Shook to my core. 😐
Who could have possibly foreseen this dramatic turn of events.
Are you really? She has been doing this cycle crap for over 10 years
What would happen if Cholesterolynn Greed suddenly woke up in an alternate universe where real food is plentiful but junk food is scarce and exotic?
Why this obsession with cheat days. It's an excuse to eat whatever you want and the extra calories consumed then negate the achievement made during the rest of the week.
She's like a child, in that she repeats things she's heard without actually knowing the meaning behind them. She says she has all these things planned, but then contradicts them, sometimes in the same day, and then gets mad when someone confronts her about it.
She’s clearly gaining weight & not really trying to be different. She likes how she is
I’m shocked… her jumping from her probable 5k+ calorie intake to sub 2k isn’t going well? Like the other 47 times she’s done it? SHOCKED
I really appreciate that you approach her from a perspective of a "diet only" perspective. Unfortunately, I think there is no way to discount the personality and mental health disorders that she herself has claimed to have, and how these directly impact her choices regarding food and more importantly, how she responds to advice and criticism. She needs in patient treatment IMO because OF these other issues that directly affect how she approaches the mountains and mountains of advice she receives. If only she took your kind advice and offers of assistance- it would change her life. The sad reality of Amber (that I think even you recognize) is that she does not want to change, she definitely doesn't want to put in the work because she is afraid of what is on the other side of success.
Brilliant analysis! But I don't think she will EVER go into inpatient. As I replied on another comment, she is now addicted to RUclips because it gives her the attention and "validation" she never received as a child.
Being mature about yourself is knowing your triggers. I haven't eaten out in years and try to spend as little time at the grocery store as possible. There are very few healthy options in restaurants, and a small portion of the grocery store has healthy products for sale. Those places have no interest in helping you be healthy, they only care about selling you more crap.
This is what a narcissist does. Stop being suprised!!!
I wasn’t expecting to posts in one day 🎉
Dude you're so dope. When you're not live, you post, when you dont post, you're live.
Here's a genuine question....why is anyone paying attention to her? Unless a channel like this talks about her, I wouldn't even know who she is. And maybe things would be better that way.
I might have a serious answer.
From what other drama channels have explained there’s a cycle. At end of year / beginning of year alr starts on a new “weight loss journey” she usually gets a high influx of new viewers then.
They usually start defending her in the comments from the “haters” and by the end of the year they become what they are defending. Maybe 2? Not everyone is the same.
Another reason is because she’s a long time RUclipsr so just because her history lots of people come go and come back and go. She’s been seen/ known by so many people.
I can’t see her being relevant for much longer but the cycle usually stays the same. I think if she becomes super sick of bed bound people will have a hard time watching and I do think drama channels will cover hee less.
Right now there’s an economy new viewer watch her and old viewers watch drama channels and I think it’s pretty stable.
Because people are bored and/or watching somebody they look down on so they feel better about themselves.
That's how lolcows work.
@@Cherryblossoms110 Regardless, the nonsense she puts out doesn't deserve recognition. Its just stupidity.
It's just a trainwreck thing. Fascinating.
Trader joes is great for loosing weight, u know the calories of every meal
So apparently, it's now gotten to the point where when I see her name pop up through others videos of her, I'm starting to get a pit of dread in my stomach that upon reading the title further, I will find out that her body and heart have given up. This is depressing. I hate that I feel like this. Will never stop hoping she figures it out one day, but at the same time, I don't think I have faith left. *sad sighs*
I really feel like Amber has never made the connection between severe calorie restriction and the urge to binge. It’s the first thing they tell you in treatment, quickly followed by “don’t expose yourself to trigger foods unless it is literally unavoidable”. Amber stocks her home full of them and actively seeks out triggering environments like restaurants. She’s either never talked to a professional about it or, more likely, thinks she knows better.
Came here to say something similar. When I was in treatment, I had to work up to conquering my triggers with the help of a therapist, psychologist and dietitian.
And it's like she knows ultimately the goal is to NOT have trigger foods and not binge etc, but she's not putting in the steps/work.
I wish she'd stick with at least an outpatient program. I think she'd benefit tremendously.
Swollen is her excuse I think she thinks that excuses her from her weight gain
I don't get what body inflammation have to do with shoving in empty calories. I could understand not being able to do extra movement, hence she shouldn't be getting up and around ordering/making food. But weight loss is almost all diet....not movement
You can choose WHO you share with. She doesn't have to not share things but share with people who really care about you and your well being. Not randos on the interwebs.
She knows the game to play to make money.
Ive already written her off. She doesnt want to lose. Shell be gone within 5 years at this rate smdh😢 she would have to be eating like 8k calories fornher to gain 15 lbs in 6 days
I really don't believe she's lost that much weight if any. I feel like if she did she would be showing the scale
The fact that she isn't showing herself stepping on scale on camera shows she is not losing any weight and not being truthful.
The problem is precisely this - she has decided she wants to lose weight - she has NOT decided to commit to the process of losing weight. She wants the empowerment, the praise and the feeling of achievement, but she is NOT willing to actually going through the steps she needs to take to get there. I can attest to this from personal experience. I have wanted to lose weight my entire life. I have wanted to achieve thinness my entire life. It was not until the beginning of this year when I could not take another second of another minute of my own excuses, when I finally enacted real change. I’m down 17 pounds since January 19th. I am not perfect by any means. I allow myself two cheat days per month, but I did it and it’s mine and it’s my precious journey. I used to tell myself I couldn’t walk for 20 minutes, once I realized I was full of bs and getting in my own way, that mindset shift ALONE made me go from completely sedentary to going on 1-2 hour hikes 5 times a week. She probably thinks about weight loss constantly but has not set up her life in any sort of way that is conducive to weight loss. If your world is so small and lonely that the only thing that brings you relief is food, you will not succeed. She has every insight, every access to opportunity, finances, a decent enough support system, hell she can even access free online ED support groups where she can remain anonymous. She is committed to living her life in a manor that sets herself up for failure and absolutely nothing else.
I think she does all that on purpose so she can make videos.
she has no accountability to her self, then gets upset when people try to hold her accountable to what she says she wants to do.
The truth is she doesn't want to give these foods up. She doesn't want to get treatment for her food addiction and she won't listen to the professionals because she thinks she knows best. Her narcissism is her biggest problem as it stops her seeing the truth.
Once again, I feel it’s important to emphasize that the community doesn’t dislike Amber because of her weight. She’s disliked because of her smug attitude, lack of humility, lack of maturity (or desire to REALLY grow as a person) and her lack of acceptance around personal responsibility. In all the time here on YT we’ve all witnessed Amber just stuck in this incredibly infuriating repetitive loop, and while WE recognize how to get out of it-she doesn’t. The thing that keeps Amber’s channel alive is simply that we watch her-to recognize in ourselves what NOT to do.
dude you got to know she doesn't want to change by now
Love your reactions to Amberlyn. You're honest and polite at the same time. That's a rare trait 👍. Greetings from Germany😊
Solid points John. Completely agree that she's acting like someone who's already done the work and is maintaining a less lethal weight who can treat themselves 1x without derailing the journey. Like you haven't done the hard part yet??
Sort of. I feel like she's been torturing herself for *years* by constantly staying at the start line (or getting bigger). Years and years of "day 1" like groundhog day day.
At this point she obviously cannot do it alone. She's too emotionally immature while being too emotionally invested with food. She needs months of inpatient and likely wls.
Can't say I'm surprised. It's just how it goes and she gets views for it. It's like the eating on camera. She knows.
My brother works with a dietitian not really lose weight but to stay healthy.His dietitian told him there are no such thing as cheat days but cheat meals.I have been struggling some with my weight I’m trying to lose a few pounds nothing crazy but I feel bloated and have no energy and all that.Towards the end of 2023 I quit drinking pop/soda and stopped eating out as much I dropped like 15 pounds in about 2 weeks and I felt great but sadly I gained it all back but I swear by my method of only drinking water and not eating out.I started it up again going on day 3 with no sugary drinks but I hope she can come to her senses and find what works for her and she sticks to it!
Her MO is self-destruction
She's eating too LITTLE. Then she gets a taste for a "treat", snaps and binges.
She can easily eat 2,500 cal in whole, real food and drop a grip of weight. She needs to go MONTHS without a "cheat" cos she needs to give her palate time to adjust.
I'm down 106 lbs and I have cheat meals (not days) a few times a year. And I know when getting a taste of something is just gonna Awaken The Snakken and it's just easier to abstain.
That's a skill that can take ~years~ to hone.
It's giving "I was eating too little calories so I stopped my diet and went to burgerking" like when sje started jenny craig
She is desoerate fir someone to tell her "you have yo eat sweetie"
I like how you start each video by thanking us for clicking on your video today. I believe you mean it. Refreshing on RUclips.
Lol I didnt notice that... Sounds cute
One video saying she’s totally on track you guise! Next video I’m off track you guise! Then she gets mad and all smuglynn because people think she’s lying and she’s definitely not lying you guise. Then a video cryeen about how she HAS been lying looking for sympathy.
Now it’s what? Smuglynn blaming literally anyone and anything for her own failures? She’s 33 years old and nothing is ever her fault.
She’s never going to change and people are tired, that’s why her views are in the toilet. It’s the same excuses she was making ten years ago, she had the finances and the resources to actually do something about it several times over and never bothered because she just doesn’t want to do it.
she's blaming her audience for being critical of her when she gains but her audience is not the one putting food in her hands to eat. so what now? and she's so smug in blaming people who watch her. this is why people dislike her.
Her priority is food, always has been & will be. If ALR started taking this seriously she would be exercising, which helps decrease the cravings and frequency of eating, helps metabolism get working rather than purely focusing on what she eats all the time. She’s obsessed with food, her life revolves around it
Self-hatred feeds into binge-eating. I think social media and the documenting of her failures is feeding into her disorder. She is larger now than when she started the channel, and that is evidence.
is it just me or does she seem quite high during her rant? she seems to be slurring a bit more than normal. or maybe it’s because i normally watch reaction channels that set her videos to 1.25x speed so that’s what i’m used to 😂 anyway i have been maintaining 60lbs off the past 6 months and i’ve been able to allow myself to have cheat meals and treats, but when i was actively trying to lose weight this would have been a no-go, it’s such a slippery slope.
Yeah, and she's rambling
Lately, she’s either high or drunk or both.
As someone with BED, drinking alch is definitely going to result in a binge.
She is so frustrating! I wish she would get professional help but she’s too arrogant to admit she needs help. Anyone with good advice is considered a hater. I’m at my wits end watching her. It’s also disgusting she’s getting paid to eat herself into her grave. She should not be allowed to monetize any videos of her eating on camera. 10 years of failure and she still doesn’t get it.
33? I thought she was at least 10 years younger than that
mentally. physically she’s like 80-years-old
@@boosqueezy2418Mentally I might say 20 years younger. Really gives off those middle school girl vibes
I thought she was an obese 13 years old back when I found her in 2019
She’s 33?? I thought she was like 22/23. Not that you look much different or sooo much older at 33 than 23 but her mindset just seems so young and immature I just thought she was much younger. I just really hope she gets the help she needs soon. 🙏
I feel what you are saying about her making the mistake of doing what someone further along their journey would be doing. I myself have put on a lot of weight and undone good habits the past couple years. And, the first time I tried to clean it up, I made myself sick because I tried to just step back into my old lifestyle. It's hard to know how much is too much or not enough when you're at the start. Even when you should know better.
Before I watch this video I have gathered a general vibe for it's contents and will share this. I personally know that when I consume THC or Alcohol AND am in a bad headspace with food disaster happens. I am at a current point where I can mix those things and be just fine, and it feels great to be here. HOWEVER, I recognize that there are days in which my mental health is not where it should be, and that those "triggers" can impact me far more than normal and cause me to binge and potentially even spiral. Any substance that inebriates your judgement is a slippery slope while you are in a bad headspace.
and she gambles. her entire day is made up of dopamine hits.
Your content is so classy and inspiring! I am struggling to loose 20 pounds and your content is really incredibly!
What is very clear to me is that Amber wants to find a way to eat WHAT SHE WANTS and still lose weight. The simple truth is that she can't. Unless and until she recognizes and acts on the reality that her current diet is total crap and needs to be monumentally changed, she will lose and gain, and lose and gain the same pounds over and over and over and over and over.......just has she has done since her debut video her on RUclips.
Excellent advice. I cant have chips and french onion dip, milk chocolate, or a few other things in the house. even YEARS after losing the weight. Not worth it
She can’t blame Trader Joe’s when she defended her decision and said these are the things that have been helping her.
2 videos in one day?! You’re spoiling us
You know what would make this all go away? You know that people wouldn't tell you the truth harshly because were tired of it. Lose the weight. Go through what you been saying you're going to do. And it will all go away.
😮😮 Off track??? Shocker. 😐😐
Yup at the beginning of your weight loss journey you have to be strict and work to change the body chemistry away from processed foods. You start strict and then change to a more lenient strategy after a long while.
in my journey, if I am planning for processed foods in the house… it means I will overeat. I still sometimes have processed food, but I do it within intention. for example, if I am craving the Trader Joe’s dumplings, I will buy a box. Once I start buying massive amounts of processed foods, I’m just setting myself up.