THE DARK TRUTH ABOUT CONTENT CREATING! INFLUENCER EXP0$ES THE TRUTH ABOUT CREATING CONTENT ONLINE
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
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People tell you to love yourself then when you do they try to humble you.....
i think that's why ppl loved dragging jlo or tyla so much
@@lidiagizaw3828 idk about Tyla but Jlo has a history of being rude and nasty to fans; especially waiters.
@@unbeknownst2me-o9t i think ppl just love piling on hate on confident , pretty women
The young lady Jessica was definitely felt. DSBW dont like to see their own images because they've been conditioned to believe they're not desirable or beautiful. That internal hate is projected onto other DSBW, then they uplift that which they were told was superior or more acceptable. Especially when she spoke on her view of feminity. I was bullied alot because i didnt care to be hard or aggressive. She came with so much wisdom.
I’m not a content creator, I have a regular job in a big company and I find myself struggling with majority of my coworkers and even higher ups being toxic. Watching this live helped me to see i’m not the only one that gets bullied for not being a mean girl / being toxic and it helped me to decide ro be my regular, soft, kind self no metter how everyone else around me behaves. Thanks to yanie and everyone that spoke 🖤
There is definitely Italy a manual I did not read nor get to know how to be in todays environment.
People who create positive content want validation right away. When it’s a long game and the long game doesn’t pay the bills 😐
Yep😊 I create positive content for bw and I'm just grateful I can do it without needing to depend on social media for income. Its not a quick journey at all.
The algorithm feeds off negativity. The more controversy and conflict you can generate from your content, the more you are rewarded. They want us fighting with each other and they call that engagement.
Especially as of late, it seems as if everyone is beefing. Even the Christian content creators, it’s almost like YT promised additional money for a contrived beef! Mainly in the black community of YT
@@traumaqueeen I believe men are behind the Instagram algorithms
Im a small social media person and I must admit, the toxic content is what caused me to mass unfollow pages, people i used to know and others. I couldn't take it. It was so draining.
I’m a Black woman who lives in Maine so I naturally geared towards “Black women” safe spaces online in addition to groups that cater to women of other races for numerous reasons (mostly tips on life). The BW groups seemed like “safe spaces” for people to be unapologetically toxic and inexplicably mean to others. When I tell you I ended up leaving majority of the BW groups because of the high amount of negativity, between the bullying, complaining about things that THEY didn’t go through and the victim mentality on situations they put themselves in? I couldn’t take it anymore. The posts about improving our lives/communities and becoming better people overall were always empty but let someone make a post about their deadbeat baby daddies or bullying someone because they didn’t like their comment on another post, everyone comes out and you’ll see thousands of comments on it. Let me not even start on the colorism and the cryracial debates that just further divided people within the groups😭
Racism in 2024 is the least of our problems, the hate that we have towards each other will take us out before racism does.
Instagram also hides positive content/posts/ accounts. I don’t follow negative accounts but the accounts I do follow HAVE to post some negative content to get the views, to get pushed in the algorithm. It’s sad.
I agree with you feeling defeated seeing the statistics and analytics when comparing the engagement- but you have to also consider the people who are coming to social media more often and why they are on social media. And it’s a reflection of how people are feeling. If my energy is negative or I’m in a negative mindset, I’m going to search for negativity.
Great conversation was had 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. We need to get away from the toxicity and promote positivity. This will allow us to grow and these content creators are so needed.
Jessica is a revolutionary Her takes are so spot on. And I understand her with such clarity. I often catch her TikTok lives. And I'm so mad that they're not recorded or placed on RUclips for me to go back and watch Over.
I liked this video Yanie. I feel like a lot of times our community doesn’t see the intersection of so many other things when it comes to how we consume certain content. It’s something for ppl to actually think about.
Thank you for holding space for these conversations when you don't have to talk about colorism 🖤
For all the corporate girls. Two skill sets to navigate the corporate environment are. Learning about a concept called "stakeholder management and change management."
Both concepts will give you a lot more clarity in navigating the corporate world.
Can you elaborate?
@@camarathomas6552
Stakeholder management and Change management are process frameworks that corporate executives use to govern their organisations.
A lot of women think the base of the issues are just about race. However when you study these topics it will teach you how the institution actually govern themselves. It will equip you with communication skills and people awareness. At the moment a lot of us go into these environments with emotional reaction.
@@camarathomas6552In my experience, change management means making sure the proper steps are taken when something is changing. The change has to be tested & communicated and any documentation needs to be updated. You can’t assume someone else will do it. Even if it’s not your job, it kinda is.
I’d assume stakeholder management means making sure people outside of your team that you work with are happy
I really wish Jessica (and Emily) was on RUclips. Her discussion was SO GOOD and so refreshing! Everything she said was spot on. I could sit and talk with her for hours, my goodness. Thank you for having these beautiful women on the panel, Yanie 💗
You look so good hun 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾
Thank you 🥹🙏🏽
Glistening tbh
Markeyta is an AMAZING storyteller. She needs to lean into this. Story + then content. Lead with story, incorporate story into all of it. Its FIRE the way she can engage with a camera and tell a story. Any story. Wow!!!
Yes, she can do a story time over her thrift hauls. A story about over consumption, she can make it work
What is her page please❤❤❤
One way to incorporate balance is to merge the drama with a positive message. Like highlight the drama but put a positive lesson/message at the end of the content.
I follow makings of j Marie and that’s one of my favorite channels she’s a great example of young black woman carrying themselves with grace especially the ballet classes she took
And being showcased with beauty brands as a particular standard of beauty
I would LOVE if you post a separate highlight video of all the major points styled by jess ( Jessica) stated..... she spoke a lot of truths
Thank you for having us Yanie!!! ❤
I hope each conversation is a step forward toward us healing and loving each other in our community more.
Great live! I’m so happy Jessica joined and spoke on her experience as a creator. We need to do better in our community. We can be so focused on “hot topics” and negativity that we don’t grow. I pray it helps us see where we can improve.
Thank you for this video. I have fallen off my YT channel and IG so many times because I felt defeated. I switched from tarot to more spiritually edifying and educating videos and my views PLUMMETED. I feel drained doing readings all the time and I feel stuck in a box in a way because I have SO much to say and talk about. The most views I got after making the switch was about negative people in your life. Everything else was barely watched. I want to keep going but it’s hard 😣 nobody wants positivity or education.
First, I watch all your videos. I tend to not want to watch the more negative ones but I still engage because you need to make money.
Second, I would love to hear more about how people can progress. You growing as a person and telling your story is the most beautiful part. I feel I've been in a similar boat and feel great to see that people go through stuff but they get better.
I'm happy for you and your progress and everyone else who's fighting everyday to make their lives better than it was yesterday.
I appreciate that, thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for this video Yani, I've been going back and forth about starting RUclips myself. I'm 33, and after watching this video, I feel even more inspired to take the leap and just start. Again, love these ladies, love what you're doing, thank you all!!!! ❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your point is really being proven with the view count and likes.
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I really enjoy this conversation. I’m a beginner at content creating and I don’t want to be boxed in.
I agree I had someone tell me today my content was boring. But I gained subscribers and comments but when I spoke on a woman being unalive in Atlanta it wasn’t much. So I get it
I love Jessica’s content ❤ sad to hear her experience has been negative since her change to modesty
Thank you I’m not changing just not giving advice
@@StyledbyjmarieI’m a new subscriber and don’t change who you are because of bitter people, more content like this is needed ❤😊
This was really a great conversation. The bit about being feminine made me think that maybe that is why we are seeing the uptick in overtly sexual behaviors/trends(lace, lingerie in public, selling sex or being a sex symbol) I think there’s definitely a link between the two. IMO I think a lot of lost black women equate those overly sexual antics as being in your “feminine” era
This conversation was needed ❤️
I’m so mad I missed this yesterday. I 100% can relate to these women. I’ve been on this social media scene as a content creator since 2009 and it baffles me how the content that did more numbers were surface level vs the more in depth content💜. I don’t have a niche because I refuse to be boxed in.
This young lady is not wrong for her response. As a black woman, im also done with modern black culture and want nothing to do with it. I've started looking into black culture from the past. When BW had poise, style, grace, elegance.
The best thing BW can do and SHOULD do is detach from modern black culture and take more of a neutral stance in society.
This was a real conversation. Meaning talking about what is really happening. I find in these conversations I learn the most. Things I need to work on, I get knowledge, and the cherry on top is a feeling of freedom. Thank you Yanie.
Aww Yani you are so sweet to Taylor and supportive ❤️ she’s so cute too
thank you for this love Yanie. i’m also a silent supporter but this live gave me perspective on how to support my favorite influencers so they know they have supporters who love the positivity 💜 thank you for what you do
Appreciate you boo, thank you 🥰
Ballerina Farm got so much more engagement than Sonya Massey and it hurt my heart. I even seen people that look like me (a black woman) talk more about another Black woman about an AI video she seen and didn't know her facts.
I watch all of your recent videos regardless
You are appreciated boo 😭
Me too❤❤❤
I honestly think it's the buggy algorithm sometimes. Sometimes you go under the radar, and then it randomly promotes one of your videos, and channels keep growing from there. It makes it really hard to determine if you need to tweak your content or just keep being consistent and wait for your "turn" in the algorithm.
Love this live. Please do more like it. We appreciate all that you do.
Commenting for the algorithm. This was such a great conversation. I’m disappointed I didn’t get a notification for this live. Thank you ladies so much for the positivity and good energy. Wishing you all much success.
This was definitely inspiring 💕✨
I definitely feel Jessica! And I hope she never let up! She got to keep going!! ❤️❤️ and I hope she do RUclips because I’m going to see what she’s about! I like her and will support her
Love the conversation!! I subscribe to all the loevly ladies that came up on the panel. ❤
What I'd like to know is, why do people focus on the negative comments? I'm willing to bet there are far more black women who support her, big her up, reshare etc but it's always seems that people want to focus on the negative minority. Its very disturbing. One does not get a following if people DONT like you, why constantly focus on the negative?
I’ve been doing this I never cared before but when someone post your address where your family lives it’s an issue . When I’m being called out my name that’s an issue . Did you even listen to me or somewhere you became triggered.
@@BellaVidaMercy I just dont understand where it comes from. Like yall are not popping because of others. The people who are supporting you are black, the women reposting you, are black. To sit here and act like because a couple of black women post something negative it means you dont get support from the whole black community is so wild!
Ignoring people who doxx you and harass you online is very hard to do when you are being attacked and cyberbullied. It's not just people saying negative things its people stalking and cyberbullying. We have normalized stalking, doxxing, and bullying on social media. The point of this video was to be transparent enough so that black women content creators can be successful not just content creators.
You can't ignore everyone who attacks you. Sometimes you have to stand up for yourself. I had a bm trying to harrass me on my channel by creating damaging lies about me, calling me a prostitute just because I was taken care of in my interracial relationship and I didn't just sit back and take it. His channel ended up being terminated by youtube for defamation and he has never tried to harrass me again.
In some cases you must defend yourself or the narrative will be written for you no matter how damaging.
@@RealTalkWithYanie No one is saying to ignore those people who doxx and harass. That is illegal. I'm saying its disingenuous to act like its only black women doing it to other black women. She specifically stated that the white content creators are not receiving the same treatment, and then proceeded to state the only hate she gets is from other black women. The whole tone of this video came across as "my own community hates me and others love me". When that is not the case. My point that keeps getting overlooked is why focus on the negative COMMENTS being made by *some* people (Who Im sure arent all black) label it a black thing, instead of talking about the supporters (who Im sure ARE mostly black)
I enjoyed this video. Appreciate you, Yanie✨️✨️✨️
This was such a great conversation! Thank you ladies.❤
I loved this !! So many things that needed to be said. Thank you ❤
I honestly think most BW have and follow the same culture/interests. I don’t think there are many BW who have different interests from the norm and if they do they don’t explore it openly or through content. There is pressure in the BW community to be one way and there is no room for differences. If you are different you’re seen as acting white. Growing up I didn’t relate with many BW. Even though I was open to being friends I was not close friends with many BW I came in contact with. I do have BW friends but they are more seen as eccentric and have “white people” interests. It used to disappoint me but I’ve realized having different interests as a BW is looked down upon in the black community. I agree that BW who have different interests should not minimize their reach to only BW through content.
Yep I create positive content for bw to build their self esteem and image but it takes a while for them to find my content. Anyway I am fortunate enough to enjoy creating content without expecting anything in return. My community may be small but it's VERY tight knit and very active.😊
This was a beautiful conversation. Thank you Yanie for sharing your platform with these beautiful women. Great video.
This is why BW have to stop excluding ourselves to the black community and the black experience and open ourselves up to other markets. Women like Oprah, Shonda Rhimes, lupita, Diana Ross, Naomi Campbell, went the neutral route in their career and they gain tremendous success. Megan the stallion has ventured out into the anime world and she is gaining more success and fans aswell. If Megan cleaned up her look and soowed down on all the tweaking she could go even further.
Tte black woman in the video said she is going to stop doing videos for BW and I don't blame her. It would be smart for her to broaden her approach and reach larger audiences.
Beautiful discussion miss yanie! Luv it!!!!🎉🎉
We see that with Tyla right now. The girl steps is so watch everything she does, people are just waiting for her to mess up so they can attack her it's crazy.
But that’s really any woman, even yt women get it from other yt women. Chappell Roman is getting dragged because she hates how fans were basically harassing her and they told her she basically signed up for it. Dragging Blake Lively to hell and back from her recent interview and from past interviews and comments.
That was so interesting I almost want to do content creating again 😂
This was wonderful! I throughly enjoyed it ❤
This was sooooo good!!
I feel as an African artist there is this expectation to create art around Black art or African things I can relate because people say this is a way to get popular. But I don't follow because I love creating other things🤧 what I also find strange and maybe it's just me but there is a certain continous theme around African art or films that is quite popular but I believe we are more then that. 😢
I’ve been engaging a lot less in negative content but I never thought about how I also don’t engage in more positive content much either. I usually just admire and think about it and move on. After seeing this video I’m going to try and change that for sure.
I agree that we should allow our sisters to live out loud and show a variety of good things that they enjoy online.
Because the same freedom that we crave for ourselves, we also have to give to each other.
Exploring our individualism only expands our reach and greatly beneficial. Mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially.
There's enough for all of us to eat... Let's make being negative lame and being a supportive girl's girl popular!💯🎉😁
PS. If you just rolled your eyes at the thought of being positive and supportive on purpose, then you're a part of the problem. 🤣😂
But it's okay. 😂 Now that we know better, we can do better!💯✌️💞😎
Great conversation and I hope it penetrates some hearts
Love these kind of topics as always. Keep it coming!
If you are genuine in your content, the views will come. Stop chasing being viral, stop looking at the numbers. I follow a black cruise couple, a black travel couple, a BW who do wig reviews, BW who thrift, BW who are tall and wear stuff for tall plus size women--their followings are huge. Why? Because they are true to self. Stop saying "toxic stuff is what they want to hear" "no one wants positivity" that is simply not true! The way you all keep putting this title on black women is so disgusting!
I agree! I think chasing trends and making content based on trends is the problem. I follow people that have been doing the same boring thing for years now, its their thing, who they are and I follow because they stay the course. I don't know if people wake up and plan content, I thought people were just documenting their lives and not planning content. idk, I am not a creator.
I have help to create the space for black women commentators. I started doing commentary when no one else was really doing commentary. I was always original. This was mainly for the smaller creators who are struggling because the numbers don’t reflect behind their amazing content. The people you listed off may create content, but it doesn’t mean they don’t feel defeated because they’re not getting the support. When I spoke on numbers, I spoke on the success of being a creator. You can be original and still be successful as a content creator. Commentary may be popular now, but I definitely helped create that lane. My authenticity got me to this level in this space with commentary. People are wanting me to get into other things, and I simply brought this conversation to light to show them that it will take me going through a transition. I’m okay with that! 😊
Majority Rules 🤷🏾♀️
@@RealTalkWithYanie I wont pretend to know how they feel, but they have stated they were able to quit their full time jobs and do youtube full time, so the support must be there. I dont feel that you (Yanie) are not genuine, I actually feel the opposite and I stumbled across you and subscribed immediately within the past month. This was towards the other woman who stated black women dont like positivity, and I hate that. We can like a myriad of things (Im a balance of righteous and ratchetness) and everyone simply does not have the personality to garner a large audience regardless of what they do. I mean the black woman who does nothing but shows her excessive cleaning and restocking has millions of views and subscribers, she is genuine to who she is. Not everyone will have the "it" factor and it is not a reflection of black women.
The first girl is Jmarie. I follow her on IG and RUclips. She’s gorgeous
I like these types of video topics.
Yani is so divinely favoured. It was the lady at the end who only joined by the link “randomly” that concluded so beautifully the content of the entire video by discussing her experience.
Who would have thought she really added so much to this live! 😭🙏🏽
I think you did this video in response of a girl who commented that she wants to see you doing different content.
I agreed with her in the comments. But I think if you have done a different type of content. I would have not listened to the video. It makes me wonder why I am attracted to a certain type of content. I complain about it but I know I won’t watch anything else.
It was a very very interesting video Yanie. Thank you.
Security needs to stop kicking everyone out or at least walking out with ppl if they are gonna kick both parties out. That’s how my dad passed away. This couple initiated a fight and they kicked all of them out and the guy was mad that he got beat up and grabbed a gun from his car. Like why would security kick y’all out and y’all are being harassed?
I always watch all your videos,in fact i am always looking forward when you post about beauty,health etc these are the ones i truly prefer❤❤❤
I loved this, it was so engaging.
people are miserable so that’s what they watch
I loved this conversation ❤
I know that we are encouraging soft life, but we should also teach about the reality of how hard the world is in general. Work is hard no matter where you work. Dating can be hard. Everything in life can be hard, but it can also be easier if we taught the new corporate girlies about office politics, CYA, and how to play the game. I mean, we have Kerri Washington to look at for an example. That Washington TV show she did is a good example of how on alert and smart and strategic we have to be on any job, self employed or whatever. Someone has to teach about how to be tough in a feminine way. And, we do need to stop complaining online about everything, because people are not going to want to risk their brand with us... The slow bus ones are ruining it for the girls that get it. Good girls are going to have to separate themselves from the ones that fight to stay at the bottom and to always be the victim. People have no more sympathy... Everybody is going through!✌️
You should definitely make the thumbnails look way more toxic so more people can click on it😭 do the yee old uno reverse
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I love this live
Thank you 🙏🏽
@christian bae is another content creator that I love 💕
I learned so much ❤
for the algo🥰.thank you for this
Eventhough it takes a lot of time and hard work to earn a decent living on social media. If you stay consistent and work hard you can earn a decent amount of money to the point that you can quit your 9 to 5 job.
I love Jessica’s content!
I feel like this video definitely hit the nail on the head. I've had to go and block certain blogs because the comments were a mess for the most innocent of things. Like why are grown adults having a jab session over a little baby just existing?? Drama is fun and all but people are way too comfortable being complete demons in comment sections.
Also side note, Taylor's smile is gorgeous! She's so pretty.
I love your makeup!
Yanie you look so pretty!
Shout out to KCMO! Crown center days lol ❤
You look astonishing wow
Thank you 😚😚
I plan on starting to post videos on my youtube channel on litterature. Im based in Switzerland and my content will be in french (storytelling) although all my inspo's from my youtube english speaking girlies like you Yanie. Ive been writing scripts since july, not ready to film yet lol😂
Wasn't Jessica the content creator that made fun of the other black creator that wore a pink bow and she said it's inappropriate to wear big bows? She's not all innocent when it comes to bullying.
1hour 40secs point!!!!. Truth.
A lot of people are addicted to toxicity unfortunately 😔 they have to want that change
Emily has a beautiful voice.
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Yanni this is a great live
Jessica is so beautiful.
Maybe it’s not the people it’s the content. If you’re not getting the shares on TikTok then you’re not going to get the views. I’ve been in the thousands with my views and my videos are on various different things and I don’t post consistently.
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I just wish these women were on RUclips so I could get the content 😅😂
I made a comment and for some reason my comment was deleted. Strange.
I don’t delete comments I blocked people so if your comment can be seen, that means that it’s RUclips that is removing your comments, not me.
I think it’s hard to have this convo without including racism 🤷♀️
27:58 how do you know what a YTube commenters race is 🥴
I like Yanie but I feel like she’s not the right person to speak on this topic . The lady in the beginning of the video is talking about colorism . woman I notice that Yanie shy away from colorism topics because she’s lighter. I’ll skip this video .
I did a whole video on Ekane and colorism recently. I specifically bought on different shades of black to have a voice based on experience. I didn't need to overpower and overshadow these ladies. I simply listened!
✌🏾Toddles! Go get some therapy for your playground insecurities. You obviously are not a loyal viewer of hers.