BREAKING DOWN THE DR. SEUSS CAT IN THE HAT INTERVIEW WITH DR. CHEYENNE BRYANT

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Комментарии • 478

  • @Acheyforreal
    @Acheyforreal 17 дней назад +447

    I felt I was losing brain cells from cam, Dr.Bryant restored them. Learned so much from her in this interview.

    • @patrongold7170
      @patrongold7170 16 дней назад +12

      You and me both. He is exhausting!!

  • @RheaMickens
    @RheaMickens 17 дней назад +312

    About 18 minutes in....and already a few things are starkly apparent. Firstly, it's obvious that his intention was not to interview his guest, but to oppose her, as well as devalue,demean and debunk her. I was appalled at how rude he was, straight out the gate. She was exceptionally sweet and respectful and so graciously showed her reverence to his platform in spite of his obvious inferiority. I love how she psychologically and verbally castrated him....with brilliant articulance...all the while never breaking a sweat or stride.

    • @sammy69831
      @sammy69831 17 дней назад +28

      Yes! You explained that perfectly, kudos to her having poise and couth and the patience of Job bby😂😂😂 and showed him love, checked him, and didn't show that she was offended(if she ever felt that way) but took his childish, dusty jabs in stride whew! 😊 Go Doc💜 very beautiful, intelligent, confident lady

    • @Drando1989
      @Drando1989 17 дней назад +29

      It’s the delusion that he thought he stood a chance rebutting her 🤦🏾‍♀️
      The current state of Black womanhood needed this exchange and the lack of accountability to be exposed. 💯

    • @whoome1638
      @whoome1638 15 дней назад +11

      Absolutely! She was feminine yet dominating at the same time. She was graciously alluring and he tried to play her and still lost. She was everything these men sat they want in a woman and still couldn’t handle her nor the truth

    • @rosiesanaa
      @rosiesanaa 15 дней назад +1

      Superbly Worded.

    • @rhondell
      @rhondell 12 дней назад

      💯

  • @jasinthricketts6921
    @jasinthricketts6921 17 дней назад +381

    how he has a good a relationship with his babymommas when he sued one of them last year for a bentley he bought her in 2017. basically saying in 2023 he want the bentley back that he bought her 🥴…. i dont believe nothing he says

    • @UnpopularOpinion3000
      @UnpopularOpinion3000 17 дней назад +22

      😮

    • @_Ridethemaverick
      @_Ridethemaverick 17 дней назад +34

      I couldn’t remember what happened but didn’t he sue because she got a new man??

    • @grahamcrackerjay
      @grahamcrackerjay 17 дней назад +33

      ​@_Ridethemaverick I don't even know the situation. That sounds exactly like him though.

    • @user-cf2cc9li4q
      @user-cf2cc9li4q 17 дней назад

      Lmaooo i was thinking this…like huh?! Men are so delusional…they have no idea when a woman truly likes them…she probably don’t care anymore and has moved on so he reads that as a “good relationship”…when really she’s probably just trying not to slap him everytime they are in the same room

    • @natashabrown41
      @natashabrown41 16 дней назад

      I remember

  • @aliyahharmon9045
    @aliyahharmon9045 17 дней назад +138

    THIS, women like Dr.Bryant, is why the males with mics do not invite educated, mature women to their platform.

    • @elle7014
      @elle7014 8 дней назад

      💯💯💯

    • @YallBeLYING
      @YallBeLYING 3 дня назад +1

      Came across This YT called “Black Men Unfiltered” & I was SO DISGUSTED. I bet she would rip them to pieces w/ their hypocrisy & warped views.

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi9355 17 дней назад +222

    I had a guy tell me how problematic he felt single mothers were after just meeting me only to turn around try and turn me into one less than six months after knowing me. He was upset because I wouldn't have kids with him, but he wasn't interested in marriage. We no longer speak. Some men are just clowns.

    • @prtdiva
      @prtdiva 16 дней назад +32

      Chile my ex was the same way. Devalued women with kids, didn’t want to marry me BUT, wanted to be in a “committed relationship” and have kids. I said there is no commitment without marriage. These men want to use our wombs for FREE. No sir, you can knock someone else up. I’m good love 😊

    • @KrysBrown89
      @KrysBrown89 16 дней назад +13

      They love to say one thing while doing another.

    • @TKOin2life
      @TKOin2life 15 дней назад +7

      75 percent are clowns

    • @debbiemoore1008
      @debbiemoore1008 5 дней назад +1

      He was very much delusional

  • @Candikanelane
    @Candikanelane 17 дней назад +261

    Your situation is the result of choices on both sides. No one would demand this much grace for a woman who made the same choices as Cam. Who says thank you to the mothers of 8 kids, with multiple fathers for making the best of their situation?

    • @art2asia
      @art2asia 16 дней назад +24

      Clock ittttttt

    • @deasyastarr
      @deasyastarr 16 дней назад +33

      Girl nobody does, I’m so over the coddling of grown males

  • @aroniejashe4105
    @aroniejashe4105 17 дней назад +113

    When it said “Dr Suess Cat in the Hat. Interview” I was so confused then when I clicked I laughed so hard 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @planetshlorp
    @planetshlorp 17 дней назад +243

    The number of times I’ve rolled my eyes hearing this man talk, I can’t even count on two hands… 🥴

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  17 дней назад +30

      😂😂😂 same

    • @Rella28
      @Rella28 17 дней назад +18

      For me it was a lot of huh and what!

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +39

      I was triggered by him not understanding that she answered his questions in depth. Poor baby

    • @JusDrawBraw
      @JusDrawBraw 16 дней назад +16

      He's infuriating. Dismissive. Mocking...ugh

    • @angiebaby834
      @angiebaby834 12 дней назад

      Stay his in lane, looking real crazy. Show everybody don’t need to do a show. How you comeback from obvious stupidity, I thought he looked & acted like a jester. Cat in the Hat😜
      ,

  • @jehanm8493
    @jehanm8493 17 дней назад +94

    This man came with the intentions of humbling her , belittling her and shutting her up. Listen to how he responds to her.

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад +15

      Barely lets her speak.. Imo he’s offended that she’s as knowledgeable as she is..

    • @whoome1638
      @whoome1638 15 дней назад +8

      @@alaneofmyownlike “how dare you be intelligent, how dare you see me through all this smoke I shoot outta my ass and the false sense of confidence”. lol

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 15 дней назад

      @@whoome1638 Exactly this!

  • @sdc1961
    @sdc1961 16 дней назад +74

    I’m in awe of her communication style. I’m for sure taking notes.

    • @kieshaarielle
      @kieshaarielle 16 дней назад +9

      Same, it's inspirational

    • @southernivyrx
      @southernivyrx 16 дней назад +9

      This is what my mom and all her married friends always taught me growing up … gotta massage that ego …. While still holding high standards of course … I do the same with my husband … lol … it works

    • @sdc1961
      @sdc1961 15 дней назад +1

      @@southernivyrx Yeah I’m definitely still learning. I was one hot headed kid 😅. I see a significant change in how I communicate now but it could use some work.

  • @semmmii
    @semmmii 17 дней назад +220

    His ego couldn’t even allow him to introduce her as Doctor…he said Ms.

    • @Gullah84
      @Gullah84 17 дней назад +26

      Thank you...I was thinking the same thing smh

    • @niratomas579
      @niratomas579 16 дней назад +18

      I peeped that too

    • @whoome1638
      @whoome1638 15 дней назад +44

      And I love how she kept referring to herself as “Doc” or “Doctor”. She did it on purpose and I know she’s dealt with this misogyny before.

  • @Overcomer-zd2do
    @Overcomer-zd2do 17 дней назад +177

    The audacity of Cam Newton to think that he’s qualified to debate a doctor because he has a podcast, when it’s obvious that he does not want to address his insecurities…your feelings are not the same as understanding complex human behavior.

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +30

      @Overcomer-zd2do That's what I thought was crazy also, he's comparing him taking a couple of psychology classes and having a podcast, to her having a masters degree in counseling and 17yrs of experience. That shows his ego and how he really thinks he's that intelligent. In reality, he's used to manipulating "low functioning" women lol

    • @aspiring...
      @aspiring... 17 дней назад +18

      The majority of these podcasts have been a detriment to society.
      Take thier microphones away.

    • @whatsmaname9219
      @whatsmaname9219 16 дней назад +5

      Cam: “trust me bro”

  • @RheaMickens
    @RheaMickens 17 дней назад +109

    She's saying that a man cannot literally make a woman into anything ...a woman can CHOOSE to change into what that man wants her to be. Just like you said, a woman can't take accountability for something she didn't CHOOSE to do. So in essence, women have to value themselves enough to not allow themselves to be bought.

  • @56sweetpea
    @56sweetpea 17 дней назад +185

    Thank you for doing a 4 hr live! It’s highly appreciated, I’m about to take my twist down to this 😊

    • @RealTalkWithYanie
      @RealTalkWithYanie  17 дней назад +33

      Thank you, enjoy! 😚

    • @Coco-nq3vg
      @Coco-nq3vg 17 дней назад +15

      Right!! I love longer videos from Yanie ❤

  • @destinyw.8661
    @destinyw.8661 17 дней назад +77

    Her energy CANNOT be touched ❤

    • @jehanm8493
      @jehanm8493 17 дней назад +11

      Cannot! She politely gathered him each and every time. This is the type of energy I aspire to have.

  • @Ririnicole85
    @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +124

    He loves bringing up his parents relationship, for one, he's not modeling his life after the relationship by getting married himself. He wants a woman to be a pushover and be his momma/girlfriend but he doesn't want to be his dad and marry said woman. Also from his previous explanation of his parents marriage, it sounds like it was not a partnership and his momma dealt with too much.
    I also felt like he thought he was proving some type of point by talking about being from a home with married parents, his parents are married, yet he has a fear of marriage, his parents are married but he wants a bunch of baby mothers and kids out of wed lock. He's proud of that like it's his marriage but he's not going to marry any of his children's mothers, future or present. So ALL of his children are coming from homes without two parents and/or married parents. Also if he feels like his parents marriage was amazing and he wants that, why is that not his goal.

    • @shamrockshow8490
      @shamrockshow8490 17 дней назад +34

      Facts! Also, he said “ my mom is all my dad knows”, I’ve heard him say that before and that lets me know the type of woman his mom is. The one to stick and stay no matter what her husband does. Then he said something about how his mom told him one has to be willing to go through hell with their spouse/significant other. Like, why? That’s a problem within itself. Too many black women thinking about suffering and trying to prove themselves to black men by how much mess they’ll tolerate. Instead of having healthy/happy relationships. Ridiculous!

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +24

      @shamrockshow8490 It's very telling that he never felt bad about his mama going through all of that and taking care of him his siblings, that's how I know those kids don't live with him full time and/or he gets a lot of help. He wants the same from a girlfriend/baby mother that his dad got from a wife. Sadly, he probably does get that

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +15

      @shamrockshow8490 I completely agree. I've never heard him say, my mom is all my dad knows, or how his dad took care of the kids. His mom is the one always giving him marriage advice because she was going through it. His dad probably had the same mindset about women. They are free to be whomever they want, but the woman has rules. I kind of remember him saying, no matter what his mama had food on the table every night/day even if she was tired, and took care of them, and I'm like dang your dad didn’t try to give her break, she was doing EVERYTHING, Everyday. When he talks about his parents, it never sounds good for the mom, or at least what I've heard, I don't watch him that much lol.

    • @shamrockshow8490
      @shamrockshow8490 17 дней назад +12

      @@Ririnicole85 Exactly! And, yes he definitely lied about his kids living with him full time. I think it was club Shay Shay where he said he has a nanny and a chef

    • @marc8h726
      @marc8h726 17 дней назад +3

      What if these women heal and wanna find other men, instead of being a consort to him?

  • @Ririnicole85
    @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +113

    Even if it's for a bag... Jasmine is strong to deal with talking to a man that knows nothing but think he knows everything. The expert couldnt even get through to him. And if his children really live with him, how is she taking care of 8 kids and him, cooking, cleaning, parenting, babying, giving all her energy for a baby daddy, that intends on making more kids, even if it's not with her. He didn't say I want more kids with my current gf that I'm not going to marry. He said whatever life brings him.

    • @LashayneHampton
      @LashayneHampton 17 дней назад +33

      At one point he said when God send her. Meaning he doesn’t want to marry any women he’s met

    • @truvy_5544
      @truvy_5544 17 дней назад +31

      Dude just talking, he doesn’t plan on getting married; he already have 3 bms it’s selfish to date a woman with no kids thinking she’ll wanna play step mother

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +13

      @truvy_5544 I agree but the truth is, he did meet one in Jas, that's exactly what she's doing and that's why marriage isn't on his list

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +14

      @LashayneHampton Doesn't want to or plan to. How does he brag about his parents' marriage and how he loves coming from a 2 parent married home, but has a fear of marriage? Or doesn’t want to give his 8 and counting children the same?

    • @Tiaballa
      @Tiaballa 16 дней назад +2

      All of this!

  • @EarlyBirds25
    @EarlyBirds25 17 дней назад +47

    She's book-smart and street-smart. How have I not heard of her already?

  • @OOoKarmaoOO
    @OOoKarmaoOO 17 дней назад +111

    Cam was like that one bad kid in class that the teacher won't give up on 🙃

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад +15

      Sadly who takes the focus away from other children who aren’t trying to manipulate the teacher and actually have parents pouring into them

    • @sallyhemings2295
      @sallyhemings2295 14 дней назад +4

      😅if you’ve ever see me his mother 👩🏽 it all makes sense. She’s a major MAMMIE 🤡

    • @BoujiHoodBaby
      @BoujiHoodBaby 12 дней назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BoujiHoodBaby
      @BoujiHoodBaby 12 дней назад

      @@sallyhemings2295Oh wow 😳

  • @Ririnicole85
    @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +106

    I know you disagreed with her saying, high value women do entertain low value men. We see it all the time with our friends, family, and even celebrities. What Cam and the Doc were equating high value with was money and finances. I know this is not your definition, nor is it mine, but this is what they were saying. So there are many women that date men below them financially(value). Not only are these men lower than them financially, a lot of these men are broke, with high debt. We have, Nicki Minaj, Keke Palmer, Halle Berry, Jill Scott, and Keyshia Cole does it a lot. This can also prove her point of, value and function are not the same, because although Nicki and Keyshia have money are valuable in that regard, but they are very low functioning, look at their dating history, and argument/fight history Also look at all these women making these broke men their managers instead of getting an actual manager.
    This stories on tiktok even prove the point, the song "bills, bills, bills, and even "irreplaceable". So many women take care of these men financially.

    • @Kandykakez
      @Kandykakez 17 дней назад +36

      I was looking for this comment. Yes, per the Doc’s definition of “high value,” High Value women do entertain Low Value men all the time!

    • @Tshidi-zd2yx
      @Tshidi-zd2yx 16 дней назад +7

      I agree with the doctor as well

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад

      @@Kandykakez “bad boy” “hood dude” .. there’s a reason that Tyler Perry movie Divorce in the Black gained the millions of views it did on Amazon prime

  • @C_L.
    @C_L. 16 дней назад +25

    *... His mom's an "angel" because she took a lot of abuse, and kept taking it. She took it, because her insecurity was high. A woman who loves herself, would not keep taking abuse... This is where his view of women is very skewed. He probably thinks a woman only loves him, if she stays with him and stays faithful, even though he's sleeping with everybody else, like his mom... The going to hell conversation was crazy. I agree with you. Cam's Actual Translation: when the woman, of the couple is dragged through hell. Not the man. She has to go through hell, for his actions, not the other way around. This is Cam's mind-frame.*

    • @JB4C89
      @JB4C89 6 дней назад

      Boom!

  • @camalcina
    @camalcina 17 дней назад +41

    I would listen to her talk all day. when she said learning who she was allowed her to learn who her mom was I almost cried. She's so wonderful. And Cam was negging her the whole interview and she never fell for it.

  • @MsFitKitty
    @MsFitKitty 17 дней назад +54

    You’re the first person to call out Cam’s daddy’s issues. He does have it. I don’t think his dad was the best to his mom. They’re a heavily in the church family. His mom seems very sweet and submissive. When he tells stories about his dad it’s always authoritarian

    • @trycoachinglv
      @trycoachinglv 16 дней назад

      @MsFitKitty you're absolutely right. And his mother taught him that women are supposed to go to hell with a man (i.e. cheating, abuse, neglect etc.) So he believes if women really loved him they would put up with his CRAP!... He's TOXIC!!!

    • @Nancy22102
      @Nancy22102 11 дней назад +1

      Maybe he’s had children outside of his marriage

    • @lalalittle3900
      @lalalittle3900 7 дней назад

      Also, I think his dad is a Pastor.

  • @EarlyBirds25
    @EarlyBirds25 17 дней назад +59

    She gave a whole inspirational background and his response was what? Smh

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад +12

      Devaluing her..

    • @Chinathomas_
      @Chinathomas_ 10 дней назад

      😅 cause she talked to much. It was inspiring but good lord.

  • @MilaMonstrosity
    @MilaMonstrosity 16 дней назад +26

    I HATE when you have to dial your intelligence back and repeat yourself 50/11 ways for him to get the point 😂

  • @grahamcrackerjay
    @grahamcrackerjay 17 дней назад +86

    She had to pet this man's ego a lot 😂

    • @mahoganysoul1798
      @mahoganysoul1798 16 дней назад +26

      literally had to prep him before answering his questions in order to spare his ego, because we know how unpredictable a lot of them are.

    • @grahamcrackerjay
      @grahamcrackerjay 16 дней назад +20

      @mahoganysoul1798 exactly! She treaded lightly and hit that ego slightly each time, haha. She still got her point across he just couldn't understand the jabs. He was shady and not slick at all.

  • @Coco-nq3vg
    @Coco-nq3vg 17 дней назад +50

    Notice he says his father is all his mother knows. I guarantee it's not the other way around.

    • @Byebandit50
      @Byebandit50 17 дней назад +22

      I’d like to add that he would be disgusted by his mother for the same reasons he’s proud of his daddy 🙄
      These males are lost

    • @Coco-nq3vg
      @Coco-nq3vg 15 дней назад

      ​@@Byebandit50 Very true!!!

  • @LumkaJwara
    @LumkaJwara 17 дней назад +57

    He is not married but judging her 😂😂😂

  • @nikkie_a
    @nikkie_a 16 дней назад +34

    By calling Stedman low value, she wasn't saying that he wasn't of value to her. She was saying that in comparison to Oprah and according to Cam's standards/reality, financially, he is low value.

  • @mollypercet8593
    @mollypercet8593 17 дней назад +65

    30:13 Why would you want anyone to go to hell for you? These ninjas have supernatural expectations now?

  • @Lavender_8497
    @Lavender_8497 17 дней назад +34

    I really wish there were more black male therapist to talk to these black males because when it's all over they're not gonna listen to a woman and follow her advice especially a BW.

    • @Byebandit50
      @Byebandit50 17 дней назад +15

      I’ve learned to keep my expectations very low when it comes to bm. ESPECIALLY in education.

    • @tataliciousdelicious9840
      @tataliciousdelicious9840 16 дней назад +8

      My therapist said the same thing. She also said bm aren’t receptive to therapy and that’s why she doesn’t work with them anymore….

  • @art2asia
    @art2asia 16 дней назад +28

    Cam thought he was gonna read her and handle her better than Nick, and he was soooooo wrong! That man was gooped and gagged

  • @Self-helper415
    @Self-helper415 17 дней назад +18

    Hey Yanie, I listened to others break down this commentary and I really enjoy your perspective because you gave a wholistic approach rather than cherry pick what sounds good to you. I like the balance and fairness. Dr. Bryant is very intelligent and Cam was not ready

  • @MsFirestar21
    @MsFirestar21 14 дней назад +5

    I didn't grow up seeing healthy relationships and am married. Seeing dysfunction showed me what I didn't want or need in a relationship, and my husband's mother and stepfather have a healthy marriage.

  • @Chevonne8
    @Chevonne8 17 дней назад +48

    I notice in alot of his interviews, he always states that all his mother knew was his father. To me, it sounded like the children were never paid attention to like the father was. It almost seems like he noticed that but doesn’t want to acknowledge it. So though he loves his mom, he feels that if she can take anything, so can the other women that he hardly commits to.

    • @southernivyrx
      @southernivyrx 16 дней назад +7

      I’m 45 and have noticed o eat the years, the women (my mom’s friends, neighbors mom growing ) who had abusive husbands… the children grew up and had MAJOR disregard for the mother as adults … particularly the sons .Additionally, how can he hold his mother in such high regards while treating women as disposable objects for producing children for him but not good enough to marry.

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад +4

      Whew, I truly feel in that last part of your comment, my son’s father felt that about me.. if my mother can go through all of that so can you.. and the mother went through h🔥 ll and she took them kids through h🔥ll.. I straight up told him I’m not your MOTHER

  • @jabellatv3240
    @jabellatv3240 17 дней назад +40

    20:38 she ain’t say nothing but the truth, she is definitely doing what she was born for it’s so amazing seeing people who finds their purpose and passion in life

  • @latiquaplease7915
    @latiquaplease7915 16 дней назад +24

    It’s her answering his questions, but him turning around telling her that she didn’t MULTIPLE times…for me. Jesus. I hope she got herself a nice meal after this. That had to be draining for her. I’m drained just watching it.

    • @art2asia
      @art2asia 16 дней назад +8

      She’s probably so use to having to navigate conversations like this with men and women so for her it’s probably not as draining as it is for us watching. I feel like she left and laughed about how silly he was 🤣

    • @trycoachinglv
      @trycoachinglv 16 дней назад +1

      @latiquaplease7915 A meal, turned her phone off AND a massage😅

  • @Kcn145
    @Kcn145 17 дней назад +23

    Him looking for her approval at the end is sending me ☠️

  • @luvphoenix956
    @luvphoenix956 17 дней назад +42

    he is disgusting smoking in her face absolutely not so disrespectful

    • @VirgoGoddessXxo
      @VirgoGoddessXxo 17 дней назад +11

      Yes, I thought that was so disrespectful! Imagine how he treats his women behind close doors. Smh

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад +4

      @@VirgoGoddessXxoconstantly reminding women “im the KANG of this here castle” 🙄… and he devalued her so many times

    • @VirgoGoddessXxo
      @VirgoGoddessXxo 5 дней назад

      @@alaneofmyown yup!

  • @Chloenextdoor
    @Chloenextdoor 11 дней назад +4

    She really spoke so eloquently omg!! When she spoke in self I legit started clapping meanwhile he was ANGRY!! I really admire this woman & love her doctorates being put to use in these few hours. I know that DOCTOR will get what she wants. No way this man argued with her so many times that he does and doesn’t want. He wants her to want what she DOES NOT WANT! My goodness he ran himself in circles while she remembered everything he stated!

  • @Besafe782
    @Besafe782 17 дней назад +23

    That man said they coddle black women feelings must be a joke!!!

  • @chelseagriffin3148
    @chelseagriffin3148 17 дней назад +20

    Thank you for this live Yani! I know it was alot. Cam drained my patience & brain cells 🫠

  • @AnomalyBelleza
    @AnomalyBelleza 15 дней назад +13

    He was 𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗬 𝗿𝘂𝗱𝗲 throughout this interview 𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗯𝗲𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 when he was sort of saying “sheesh all I asked is where are you from?”
    That was 𝘀𝗼𝗼𝗼𝗼𝗼𝗼𝗼 rude. He took several opportunities to try to humiliate her low key.
    I like that she checked him several times. I will say though, she coddled and gas lit him a little bit too much. He don’t need all that. Big ol jerk.

  • @sammy69831
    @sammy69831 17 дней назад +28

    kudos to Dr. Bryant✨✨✨ , having poise and couth and the patience of Job bby😂😂😂 and showed him love, checked him& challenged him respectfully, and didn't show that she was offended(if she ever felt that way) but took his childish, dusty jabs in stride whew! 😊 Go Doc💜 very beautiful, intelligent, confident lady

  • @chitv0208
    @chitv0208 17 дней назад +31

    We as BW definitely need to be harsh. If you have no children he can’t have any children. BM will date you and because you have just one child they will never plan to marry you. These podcast promote it and it’s exhausting but we as women have to start and I bet we get a difference out of our BM.

  • @always_priceless5598
    @always_priceless5598 16 дней назад +19

    Cam wants to make a point so bad, he can’t even comprehend what she is saying, because he’s treading water trying to “win” the conversation.

    • @Nancy22102
      @Nancy22102 11 дней назад

      Thats i was thinking… 🎯

  • @sade304
    @sade304 15 дней назад +7

    Watching this back, I realized how disrespectful he was speaking to her. You can make your point all you want, but you have to be respectful. Now I’m thinking about his other baby mothers and how he’s probably speaking to them disrespectfully. The kids are watchingggg.

  • @Moonlilly13
    @Moonlilly13 16 дней назад +17

    He pretty much has the same rhetoric “where your man and why aren’t you married if you have these degrees and accomplishments?” . If she was happily married to a man especially outside of her race . The interview would be over in 5 minutes.

  • @bigfranco
    @bigfranco 16 дней назад +18

    He could have just listened. That’s why the took the post down because all the exposing he was trying to do to her, he ended up doing it to himself.

    • @1msdoll
      @1msdoll 16 дней назад +3

      Wow, he took it down? 😮 He was not READY!!!

  • @jackie81893
    @jackie81893 17 дней назад +26

    This live was exactly what I need at this point of my grow journey. I’m so happy!!😊😊 Love every moment of this. This is going to be one of things I’ll be watching again and again.

  • @acopeland8248
    @acopeland8248 17 дней назад +16

    Who uses "hell" as an analogy for love? 😂

  • @PsychITgod
    @PsychITgod 17 дней назад +34

    Doc had Cam slow azz thoroughly pissed. He had to bring out all the masks. The easy smash via his status/money wasn't present 😹💅

  • @vee5019
    @vee5019 17 дней назад +30

    His mom sounds like my mom. I call it TRAPPED. I asked her to name 3 hobbies she would love to do. Or things she would love to do. She drew a blank. Just sit and waste away pleasing others.

    • @Byebandit50
      @Byebandit50 17 дней назад +16

      I have a married friend like this. Her ENTIRE personality is being married
      She can’t tell you one thing she enjoys or does for herself.
      Women like this are always married to well rounded men who sacrifice nothing for them. These men always have friends and pursue everything they want.

    • @bostonrachaelrae
      @bostonrachaelrae 16 дней назад +3

      So sad

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown 16 дней назад

      @@Byebandit50Imo this is why these ignorant men use “she’s not married” “she don’t have a husband” toward single women with boundaries who choose to heal and change the trajectory because they know the desperate low hanging fruit BW want marriage so badly.. it’s to show them “see this single woman has so much to say but she’s not married though” when the whole time they don’t even want marriage! They just have to keep that idea dangle in the woman’s mind because he knows that’s what she really wants

    • @GoldenSighlence
      @GoldenSighlence 14 дней назад +4

      😞 this makes me sad. There’s probably so much untapped potential, interest and talents she has yet to discover or cultivate because of the choices she made.

  • @amiam8116
    @amiam8116 17 дней назад +25

    So his mum is talking about loving a man more then God? I bet his dad was married but was basically in the streets, mum stayed for the image. It don't make it make sense. Cam has my brain cells dying... then he says he prays God sends him a woman to marry, embarassing for the new bm, scratching his back to sleep aint doing it.

  • @Tx_Nay
    @Tx_Nay 17 дней назад +12

    Lmfaoo yes I peeped when he said her background was not a simple answer, it was going to be a frustrating interview..

  • @christinem8799
    @christinem8799 14 дней назад +4

    Theres going to be a lot to unpack, but at 17:15, after she explained her life story as briefly she could and he responds with THAT? My jaw dropped...? Im over here in awe by her upbringing and resilience and he just responds with such empty headedness....

  • @rjameelah09
    @rjameelah09 17 дней назад +14

    She ate him up so bad lmfao love her.

  • @thesurfacewater
    @thesurfacewater 16 дней назад +10

    The reception Dr. Bryant is getting should have also been given to Eboni Williams! I love to see it!

  • @sannydee
    @sannydee 17 дней назад +25

    He’s cosplaying value.

  • @adebusolalizzy4903
    @adebusolalizzy4903 17 дней назад +13

    Yanie ! One can tell from your outlook towards life that you take notes and lessons from other peoples’ experiences

  • @Kaylajoy_420
    @Kaylajoy_420 17 дней назад +12

    A 4 hour live stream!?? Yanie you’re truly gem!! And ofc you look gorgeous as usual 🥰🥰 thank you so much!

  • @whoome1638
    @whoome1638 15 дней назад +4

    She keeps saying his name to center him. It’s a psychology tactic. It’s sad she had to do that

  • @trycoachinglv
    @trycoachinglv 16 дней назад +5

    When she asked him how many with regards to the number of children he has... He said "EIGHT!" and he said it with his chest😅... It's not the fact that he has 8, it's the fact that he has them by 3 different women. He was so condescending and disrespectful and it was disgusting to watch... BUT!!!!! She so eloquently, professionally, respectfully and intellectually 👑💎❤️ DOG-WALKED CAM... Priceless!!!

  • @mzmeshelle
    @mzmeshelle 17 дней назад +12

    I'm not going to hell with nobody. That's a trap talk.

  • @CPCP11
    @CPCP11 17 дней назад +13

    Come through Dr. Bryant. He wasn't ready.

  • @shatiadriskell5144
    @shatiadriskell5144 17 дней назад +10

    Lmao at Yanie’s reaction to them saying “go to heaven and hell”. I feel the same way, I can stand the rain for someone I love but I’ll never let them take me to the depths of hell. No way! But I’m also a runner track star so 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @JayyPinkksVanity
    @JayyPinkksVanity 17 дней назад +16

    God don’t even say go to hell for someone. He tripping

  • @I.am.arig_
    @I.am.arig_ 17 дней назад +24

    I have watched the original vid a few times. And this man made my face scrunch up and my stomach turn. He’s so delusional that he thinks we can’t seem him in all his responses to her. The foolishness.

  • @babetheebuilder5823
    @babetheebuilder5823 16 дней назад +7

    2:39:12 what kills me is this same question can be asked to him at his big age. Because you also haven’t found Mrs. Right. Only Mrs. Right now.

    • @fivemargaritasonly
      @fivemargaritasonly 15 дней назад

      In his mind he has, all his baby mamas add value to him apparently 😂

    • @babetheebuilder5823
      @babetheebuilder5823 15 дней назад +1

      @@fivemargaritasonly what they do for him is of value, not them as people to him in this case unfortunately.

  • @veronicagomes7485
    @veronicagomes7485 17 дней назад +19

    Wisdom is trying to get to him but he runs faster 🤭 track🌟

  • @NieshaThomas
    @NieshaThomas 12 дней назад +2

    LISTEN! I'm married in solo therapy because I truly love my husband and I knew an undiagnosed mental disorder was getting in the way of me fully living. Dr. Bryant said a whole word about not counseling married COUPLES! My therapist gives me tools to recognize when I'm not my best self and how to get back grounded. Therapy and getting a care team together was the best money I have spent.

  • @nataliabrizan
    @nataliabrizan 17 дней назад +17

    Please stop taping into low function by saying Oprah ang Gayle are together. We don't know those ppl sexual history, that ain't cool. Unless they come out and say they are gay and they haven't.

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi9355 17 дней назад +17

    Cam has said in interviews that when his father would come home it would put all of them on edge. Tbh i wouldn't be surprised if he secretly resented his dad and thats whty he lives the way he does.

    • @Blue4626
      @Blue4626 17 дней назад +9

      He’s really afraid to be in a relationship like his parents which is why he won’t ever get married. There’s no way that you had such an amazing healthy relationship for an example of love and relationships and you ran in the complete opposite direction. He’s not even living up to the expectations he’s trying to place on her in this conversation.

    • @tracywilliams925
      @tracywilliams925 16 дней назад +4

      @@Blue4626BINGO! I caught that he spoke highly of his dad and said I choose to do the opposite and go the other direction which lets me know he didn’t see what his dad was doing as conducive to his life or family he wants and how his kids will be raised. He literally exposed his real trauma during this and needs to seek help.

  • @jenimichelle
    @jenimichelle 17 дней назад +10

    ✨Yanie’s so pretty ✨

  • @torritorrytorre
    @torritorrytorre 15 дней назад +6

    Where is this notion that a dr who is single can’t advise those who are married? You dr probably never had cancer but can’t treat it because they’re EDUCATED on it

  • @jd2024-
    @jd2024- 16 дней назад +9

    I know a lot of high value women that are with broke men some are high functioning and some are low functioning women. So she is right. Churches encourage women who are doctors and lawyers to date men that barely have a job too because they are “men of god”. Some are childhood sweethearts and became unequally yoked as the woman progressed and the man stayed stagnant. The women that grew up in the hood and are now successful still mostly relate to hood men. A lot of women do date men for looks too and they are funding his lifestyle.

  • @_dede_lol1438
    @_dede_lol1438 16 дней назад +10

    1:02:25 and like he said birds of a feather flock together, so that means he’s in there doing everything she said those people do behind closed doors and kicking azz too 🤦🏽‍♀️🤔

  • @sade304
    @sade304 16 дней назад +8

    Cam will go home and stare in the mirror after this one 😂

  • @MizzezMac
    @MizzezMac 16 дней назад +5

    😮 when she said: one I am in the room with them. Chillleee 😅❗️❗️❗️

  • @deasyastarr
    @deasyastarr 16 дней назад +28

    Funny how “life be lifing” and “life happens” when it comes to a man being a baby daddy. But with women being single mothers no matter the circumstance, it’s “don’t nobody want no baby mama.” The way these males irk my nerves.

    • @asiad7175
      @asiad7175 12 дней назад

      And she should have got the ring first...they always shift all the responsibility to us smh that's why I'm glad women are waking up and realizing it and now decided to just opt out altogether

    • @deasyastarr
      @deasyastarr 12 дней назад

      @@asiad7175 right! They’re getting what they’re asking for which puts them at a disadvantage. They keep saying to choose better and to close our legs… okay! They already complain about women not letting a man smash on the first date. They don’t know what they want lol

  • @Renee0733
    @Renee0733 17 дней назад +14

    Hi Yanie, I'm 49, single, and no children. I decided in my twenties that I did not want to be a single mother. In my late thirties I decided not to have children. In my forties I decided not to date. As I get ready to enter my fifties I know, love, and appreciate me. My goal each day to is to be at a higher level than I was yesterday. Walk in your power and don't give it to no one. 🩷

  • @Reevay762
    @Reevay762 17 дней назад +18

    This was a great live. He is such a narcissist. Also an irritating one! His body language, his words, his mannerisms. She wasted her time! He clearly likes her.

    • @1msdoll
      @1msdoll 16 дней назад +4

      Right! He asked all those questions trying to see if he could find a chip in her armour. That's why he kept asking if she would date a man with kids.
      Girl, she is his exact fantasy woman, but he couldn't handle her. She is so above and beyond his level.

    • @Reevay762
      @Reevay762 16 дней назад +1

      Ya girl, he really thought he was gonna make her the next Jasmine Brown. Dr. Bryant for sure put him in his place 😂

  • @avarosalia4309
    @avarosalia4309 15 дней назад +3

    The fact that he is asking her to validate him after she DRAGGED his situation through the mud and back makes my heart warm. Deep down he knows he is trash a.k.a a deadbeat dad.

  • @catlady3024
    @catlady3024 17 дней назад +7

    Four hours!? 😩 you spoiled us! ❤ great live from start to finish, Yanie!

  • @jazzie0009
    @jazzie0009 17 дней назад +6

    The way I was hollering and saying Amen during your entire live Yanie 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @KiaraKnose
    @KiaraKnose 17 дней назад +9

    He was being so shady and dismissive. He oughta be ashamed of himself, but ion think he has much of that go around

  • @Dreadhead_jefe
    @Dreadhead_jefe 15 дней назад +4

    The reason Cam is the way he is really makes sense when you look at his upbringing and past. His father was a pastor. That’s the reason he speaks in riddles, similar to a P. His bravado and ego is the way it is because he was not only a Heisman winning quarterback, but also a NFL MVP. To perform at that level, you have to have supreme confidence and at some times delusion.

  • @chocolatebubblegum1550
    @chocolatebubblegum1550 16 дней назад +6

    Cam is giving Clay from Love is Blind vibes

  • @asprinkleofcompassion3706
    @asprinkleofcompassion3706 16 дней назад +7

    There's so much to unpack here. Just because your parents are pastors doesn't mean they see a healthy example of marriage. If they raised him right he would be married and all of them kids would have one mama in the house.

    • @tracywilliams925
      @tracywilliams925 16 дней назад +1

      HELLO! Please say it for the people in the back. Most preacher kids try their hardest to live up to those standards. He literally said he ran the opposite way which lets me know he seen the worst in his parents but respect them enough not to blast or criticize them for his upbringing.

  • @ambergraham103
    @ambergraham103 16 дней назад +7

    Lol 😂she read him like a book and he was like “ let’s change the subject! Let’s play a game” she ask a question and he like “hold on let me tell you a story about me goin to phycology classes”😅😂 this guy

  • @adrianostafford8240
    @adrianostafford8240 17 дней назад +17

    Low functioning is gonna be the word of the fall. Gzus.

  • @jjmusiclover3
    @jjmusiclover3 15 дней назад +2

    I don’t always agree but when Yanie said be more harsh!!! Girl you are talking about me!!! I met a guy who smoked cigarettes, drank beer (hella), and had a hairline Stevie couldn’t see. No job AND no car and I’m like “I don’t wanna judge” GIRL I needed that.

  • @AvianaVenise
    @AvianaVenise 17 дней назад +30

    "Sir, you had no choice but to hold your tongue. You couldn't keep up" 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ririnicole85
      @Ririnicole85 17 дней назад +6

      @AvianaVenise lmao right, I cackled. He is not the type to hold his tongue, so the only reason he did is because he didn't know what to say. Also, those little sassy remarks he was giving, she did not care, she said "right", "ok", and laughed 😆 🤣. She is therapist, she has many difficult and low functioning patients like him.

  • @EllieStrums
    @EllieStrums 16 дней назад +6

    I’d argue that having integrity makes you high functioning. Lack of integrity, self esteem, and morals seems like low functioning and low vibrational to me.

    • @EllieStrums
      @EllieStrums 16 дней назад +1

      High value women absolutely entertain low value men all the time especially the ones who think they can fix everyone.

  • @LumkaJwara
    @LumkaJwara 17 дней назад +13

    4 hours 😮 what a gift

  • @bkasoul9643
    @bkasoul9643 15 дней назад +1

    There is only one thing have to say. In all honesty, the video title is one of most clever and great play on words titles I have seen as of late. Well done.

  • @tonjamanigo
    @tonjamanigo 17 дней назад +10

    Welp!! They can't blame this on single mothers because this irresponsible man came from a 2 parent household. Interesting. 😊😊😅😅🤔🤔

  • @Tx_Nay
    @Tx_Nay 17 дней назад +4

    Girl you going to get me thru my workday.. I’m listening to this like a podcast rn lol 🙌🏾

  • @shellbeeforreal3915
    @shellbeeforreal3915 17 дней назад +8

    He’s getting hung up on this hell because he wants someone to essentially ride and die to be his wife. He’s approaching this convo very similarly to what you’ve seen in every hood movie. He wants his wife to accept him unhealed and stick with him no matter how long it takes and how much damage is done for him to heal. That’s why he chose through heaven and focused on hell as opposed to saying for better or worse in sickness and in health. He seems to tell on himself aka how much can I get away with before I want you as a wife?

  • @aspiring...
    @aspiring... 17 дней назад +7

    A wickepedia is nothing really.
    He is so gross, he had to find a rubbish way to diminish her.