Sole survivor: Brenda Lin's harrowing story of betrayal and murder | 7NEWS Spotlight

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  • @andrewburkinshaw1446
    @andrewburkinshaw1446 3 года назад +2315

    Dear Brenda. I am a father. I know for a fact that your dad knows you love him. I am sure he is proud of the amazing person you have become.

    • @queenmommy2756
      @queenmommy2756 3 года назад +27

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @skatingcanuck9837
      @skatingcanuck9837 3 года назад +50

      Beautifully stated. I also like how you (like Brenda) used present tense.😊

    • @missywaterlilly8775
      @missywaterlilly8775 3 года назад +43

      First time I cried while started this video is when i read this comment. I swear u must be sending her a message from the heavens so beautiful

    • @sarahmats1136
      @sarahmats1136 3 года назад +22

      A very kind message to Brenda❤❤

    • @premasivasubramaniam6621
      @premasivasubramaniam6621 3 года назад +11

      ❤️

  • @livetajanutyte3917
    @livetajanutyte3917 3 года назад +7717

    One of the worst lessons I learnt in life is that those that are closest to us can cause us more harm than a stranger.

    • @a.konadu4010
      @a.konadu4010 3 года назад +139

      So so sad but true

    • @noomwa
      @noomwa 3 года назад +51

      Yep, so true.

    • @nickialaskanyogi
      @nickialaskanyogi 3 года назад +144

      It almost always someone close to you, or knows you. That’s the creepy part. You never know!!

    • @lauryniti1807
      @lauryniti1807 3 года назад +22

      yup sadly.

    • @shukriabdi4271
      @shukriabdi4271 3 года назад +19

      Sometimes. I have to believe that it is sometimes.

  • @jayleigh_bee
    @jayleigh_bee 3 года назад +3727

    Brenda please know this: your father knew you loved him. He knew. Hugs.

    • @jparko4944
      @jparko4944 3 года назад +88

      Had that exact same thought. Nicely written.

    • @quirkya909
      @quirkya909 3 года назад +70

      Had that same thought as Brenda spoke of herself and how she didn’t saw anything to her father. I cried and said he knew baby he knew

    • @xxyes8879
      @xxyes8879 3 года назад +37

      Also if her parents never said stuff like that to her, then saying stuff like that would be really alien for her. The other kids were hugging and kissing their parents because their parents taught them that from birth most likely. So in no way should she harbor any guilt.

    • @ParisXII
      @ParisXII 3 года назад +2

      @@quirkya909; With respect for the family. - .There is an error in your comments.. i.e. "She didn't SEE anything", Nor "SAY anything to her father". :(

    • @masukamagambo4236
      @masukamagambo4236 3 года назад +23

      @Henry Robinson no need to be insensitive. I’m sure if she was there she’d hug her. That’s the point of the comment.

  • @robbiehall9958
    @robbiehall9958 2 года назад +292

    Her principal is like a loving, empathetic mother and her friends seem like sisters to her. I am so grateful all the support and love she has received.

  • @alwiyaalawi7936
    @alwiyaalawi7936 3 года назад +3916

    Are we going to ignore the host ? She was very compassionate and respectful towards Brenda's limits . 👏 Good job !

    • @elavke5441
      @elavke5441 3 года назад +24

      Very much so.

    • @lovelyscorp79
      @lovelyscorp79 3 года назад +29

      But isnt that her job??? Like being a parent or a doctor. No kudos. A simple thanks is appropriate

    • @DM-we8ej
      @DM-we8ej 3 года назад +187

      @@lovelyscorp79 i think the point is most hosts don’t do this

    • @alphabet_soup123
      @alphabet_soup123 3 года назад +52

      Actually this host has a reputation for not being compassionate nor respectful... so its a nice change.

    • @lovelyscorp79
      @lovelyscorp79 3 года назад +17

      @@alphabet_soup123 yikes! That cant be good.

  • @mcvibe5812
    @mcvibe5812 3 года назад +3537

    The fact the kids woke up during the attack and fought for their lives further adds to the horror for me, what a monster for real

    • @marissamorales3273
      @marissamorales3273 3 года назад +75

      I know that’s so dam sad dude 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @beautyeyes7365
      @beautyeyes7365 3 года назад +50

      So depressing

    • @__eganista6372
      @__eganista6372 3 года назад +117

      That's what I was thinking. What the hell did they feel? terror, fear, couldn't protect themselves. At the hands of a vile monster :-(

    • @luciac9123
      @luciac9123 3 года назад +24

      My thoughts exactly!!

    • @czanneian
      @czanneian 3 года назад +115

      I can't help crying when knowing those kids fought for their life... The pain they felt at the verge of dying.. They died too soon,,, my gosh it is so deppressing to watch..

  • @AriPicard
    @AriPicard 3 года назад +2979

    Poor thing she looks spiritually, physically and emotionally exhausted. May she find peace and love in her life

    • @underworldringside
      @underworldringside 3 года назад +12

      She never told her family lol

    • @mariarusso826
      @mariarusso826 3 года назад +18

      What pain and suffering.... God bless you and may God give u strength..... GOD'S love upon you.

    • @rosanagutierrez1640
      @rosanagutierrez1640 3 года назад

      @@mariarusso826 what

    • @nadiashireensiddiqi
      @nadiashireensiddiqi 3 года назад +10

      Australians are gorgeous, Brenda, her friends, her principal; the interviewer, news anchor, all so healthy and glowing.
      Sara B’s “Brave” aw; the murderer is behind bars and confessed on candid camera, but it could be survivor guilt… Brenda wasn’t home, has an alibi
      I think she looks quite peaceful and put together and has a kind loving 🥰 support network.
      Has seen both the worst and best of humanity

    • @hilaryc3203
      @hilaryc3203 3 года назад +24

      @@underworldringside What about that do you find funny?

  • @lilyyyy5502
    @lilyyyy5502 3 года назад +1628

    The part towards the end where she's just walking with her dog makes me think about how many people pass her by and have no idea the horror shes been through and who knows maybe even the people passing by have been through horrific events too , reminds me to be kind to everyone no matter what. You have no idea what the person next to you has been through/going through. God bless!

    • @malimalou751
      @malimalou751 2 года назад +21

      So true!

    • @juliersawyer7047
      @juliersawyer7047 2 года назад +14

      That's the real horror of the horror!

    • @daniellelopez3342
      @daniellelopez3342 2 года назад +29

      Yes a lot of people see a pretty girl and think "their life must be so easy"

    • @jeanchow6948
      @jeanchow6948 Год назад +11

      Agreed. I will be kind to everyone no matter what.

    • @chloeuntrau4588
      @chloeuntrau4588 Год назад +5

      Luckily they don't know! The worse is to be pitied!

  • @lburns7952
    @lburns7952 3 года назад +1861

    When she was telling the story about leaving and not telling her father certain things, I wanted to go through the screen and hold her. Poor baby. She is still so raw and hurt.

    • @SlimKeith11
      @SlimKeith11 3 года назад +68

      It always warms my heart when I read a comment like yours. It makes me feel good there are such understanding, kind people in the world. Some are so judgemental...

    • @eileenpritchard9154
      @eileenpritchard9154 3 года назад +10

      @Brandy Sutherland
      THIS IS SO SAD.

    • @gnatjoy1722
      @gnatjoy1722 3 года назад +23

      I wanted to comfort her so badly. At the age of 20 I found out my uncle had been murdered via a news report. My family had to tried to contact me first but were unsuccessful. Then at 42 my mother died whilst I was overseas. I was so distraught that i didn't get to see her tell her I love her. Watching this courageous young lady has really put things in perspective for me. My story pales in comparison. What an amazing young woman. 🙏❤🙏

    • @miriammcdonnell8239
      @miriammcdonnell8239 3 года назад +2

      @@SlimKeith11 ok see let us help in this message and all that I

    • @sainimitchell4224
      @sainimitchell4224 3 года назад +14

      She had a beautiful family and she's a lovely young lady. It's wonderful to see her friends, principal, and many others that have taken her under their wings and love her. Ah my heart breaks for her. But, she has incredible poise and has shown strength just by doing this interview. God bless, keep, and use her for your glory!

  • @reni5242
    @reni5242 3 года назад +2012

    The loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they do not wish to see anyone else suffer the way they do.
    Keep shining you beautiful girl. What defines you , is your light. Your family would be so proud of you.

    • @womensarmycorpsveteran2904
      @womensarmycorpsveteran2904 3 года назад +73

      What a lovely, kind and insightful thing to say. I lost my grandfather, mother, father & brother in a car accident caused by a drunk driver when I was 10.

    • @jackie31933
      @jackie31933 3 года назад +31

      @@womensarmycorpsveteran2904 I’m so sorry for your loss❤️

    • @mariaevans7811
      @mariaevans7811 3 года назад +22

      Wise words!!! 😁🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

    • @cindypersaud8805
      @cindypersaud8805 3 года назад +23

      Beautifully said; it resonates.🙏

    • @cindypersaud8805
      @cindypersaud8805 3 года назад +26

      @@womensarmycorpsveteran2904 What a tender age....Extremely sorry for your loss.

  • @adaoramadike3543
    @adaoramadike3543 3 года назад +1472

    Her principal is a very caring woman with strong maternal instincts, she was able to tap into the confrontation she witnessed between Brenda and that evil man and knew that he was a very dangerous man, what a remarkable woman, at that moment she was not a principal but a mother protecting her offspring. She is a fantastic lady, God bless her.

    • @corneliawissing7950
      @corneliawissing7950 3 года назад +36

      Yes, she is: no teacher could have done better.

    • @adelesimmercy5492
      @adelesimmercy5492 3 года назад +22

      YOU 💯💯 Right - God bless you Former Principal.
      The world needs more people like HER.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @kathieshaffer9641
      @kathieshaffer9641 3 года назад +3

      @@adelesimmercy5492 lk

    • @rabiatullee3127
      @rabiatullee3127 3 года назад +7

      Yes. God bless her

    • @Kira36k
      @Kira36k 3 года назад +2

      Amen

  • @tomahawkprime4719
    @tomahawkprime4719 3 года назад +532

    The Principle’s empathy is astonishing, her commitment to Brenda’s recovery and ability to instil love and hope is tragically too rare a gift. For both she and Brenda, I hope her wishes for Brenda’s future come true.

  • @tryphineshumba1181
    @tryphineshumba1181 3 года назад +2982

    That school principal is the type we wish to principal.ALL our children..What a lady..More life , more blessings to her.

    • @lily2011uk
      @lily2011uk 3 года назад +57

      I couldn't agreee more. She has a heart of gold. We need more principals such as herself as role model for the young generation

    • @amybrenneman9421
      @amybrenneman9421 3 года назад +29

      As stated above, I agree with everyone. Especially wish all school Principles were as special and devoted to inspire a better life for our future generations as she is. God bless you all.

    • @carolepuleo1307
      @carolepuleo1307 3 года назад +26

      God bless her Principal! Too many are in this field only for a paycheck......❤️❤️

    • @tryphinedzimbanete9616
      @tryphinedzimbanete9616 3 года назад +11

      I couldn't agree more 👍

    • @tryphineshumba1181
      @tryphineshumba1181 3 года назад +2

      @@tryphinedzimbanete9616 .....sazita heeeeeyyyyy🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @berniceopare9405
    @berniceopare9405 3 года назад +3772

    Growing up, I used to think that my grandma was crazy because she didn’t allow some family members around my sister and I. After she passed away I found out the truth. She was protecting us from the evil in her own family, her sister’s kids.

    • @SobrietyandSolace
      @SobrietyandSolace 3 года назад +439

      I'm so glad she did. My mother and grandmother exposed me to terrible men. To some people, saving face and projecting the image of a happy family is more important than saving their children, with the older generation usually being especially set in their ways.

    • @Tr0ublezz
      @Tr0ublezz 3 года назад +430

      Yup my mom would never leave us alone with any men in our family it was always family gatherings but no one even babysat us, my mom worked nights to take care of us and I never knew why she was so strict, until I grew up and realize what the world was like and also she told me about her experiences as a child ...I hope kids reading this appreciate their parents and why they want to protect them

    • @charnewyngaard9598
      @charnewyngaard9598 3 года назад +214

      My grandma did the same (bless her soul). I was a teenager when she died and if she was still alive today, I would have thanked her each day, after I was old enough to realize why she actually did what she did. I do the same with my daughter now.

    • @khouxiong7187
      @khouxiong7187 3 года назад +82

      Same with mine and I am doing the same with my kids.

    • @quintillabatts9472
      @quintillabatts9472 3 года назад +171

      My husband and i we did the same with all 4 of our kids, we both worked but we never had a babysitter for our kids, he worked nights, i worked days, if i had to work nights he would work days. Until they got old enough to keep themselves, tgats how we were raised, and thats how inraised my kids, and its how my grandsons were raised. People are crazy, and very perverted, its so very sad, and they are getting worse so much worse.

  • @blackicex1622
    @blackicex1622 3 года назад +1800

    The principle lady is just a wonderfully compassionate lady. When she said she wants to be there when Brenda gets married, has her first child, and has a family again, it almost made me tear up.

    • @dakelei
      @dakelei 3 года назад +11

      I find it sweet but also a tad sexist. Why does she assume Brenda will marry and have kids?

    • @SUPERSPAZD
      @SUPERSPAZD 3 года назад +123

      @@dakelei
      Seriously, dude? 😂
      Adjust.Your.Focus.

    • @dakelei
      @dakelei 3 года назад +1

      @@SUPERSPAZD Shut up. It's called having an opinion. I'm allowed to. I live in China and teach at a university here. Chinese culture is very sexist. I experience it every day. I have reasons for thinking how I do. It's bad enough when men act like chauvinist pigs. It's worse when women buy into it. Did you notice that Brenda herself has said she's not sure about marriage and kids? Should she also adjust her focus?

    • @SUPERSPAZD
      @SUPERSPAZD 3 года назад +36

      @@dakelei
      So.Feisty. 😁
      Chill TF Out. 😂

    • @Zireael83
      @Zireael83 3 года назад +44

      @@dakelei what´s wrong with you?

  • @Emily-lh6em
    @Emily-lh6em 3 года назад +614

    This documentary was respectfully done. It didn't sensationalize the gruesome details or show too much of the crime scene. It focused on the survivor , a lovely young woman whose gonna share kindness and hope wherever she goes in life. You can tell by the way she speaks of them that they were wonderful people who deserved better. She smiles when she thinks of them even though its bittersweet for her and she cries.
    The uncle is where he belongs and he's gonna rot in there and be forgotten. Her family will continue to be remembered by her and her parents are proud of her. They know she loves them.

    • @JenJ2023
      @JenJ2023 Год назад

      You mean the part she suggested she may be to blame? Super tasteful.

    • @f7e8t9i3
      @f7e8t9i3 Год назад +2

      I too feel they are probably looking over her and I’m sure they knew and know how much she loved them and how much she misses them.I’m sorry she had to go through something so traumatic and life changing at such a young age.

    • @AwfulDog1
      @AwfulDog1 3 месяца назад +1

      And the questions about sexual interference and the tasteful silence whilst Brenda tried to not answer..

  • @urahotmess
    @urahotmess 3 года назад +1448

    When the principal stated she witnessed him yelling at Brenda, I could only think he was trying to get her to sign over the family's business and money to him. I'm glad the principal introduced her to a lawyer that could fight for her!

    • @GRASHA1524
      @GRASHA1524 3 года назад +144

      the pricipal here is Brenda's angel guardian sent from heaven--

    • @awarenessvillage
      @awarenessvillage 3 года назад +30

      @@GRASHA1524 Most definitely!

    • @mytoesarecold5555
      @mytoesarecold5555 3 года назад +7

      He was trying to convince her to move in.

    • @joannelee4875
      @joannelee4875 3 года назад +1

      When you know you know so listen to yourself

    • @atonement7232
      @atonement7232 3 года назад +16

      Brenda was too in shock and pain to know anything. I’m glad the teacher listened to her instincts and got her a lawyer

  • @Greenpower2
    @Greenpower2 3 года назад +1690

    That school principal is a genuinely good hearted person.

    • @conniethurin7014
      @conniethurin7014 3 года назад +13

      Yes

    • @user-pampam70634
      @user-pampam70634 3 года назад +9

      Yes

    • @ivana92ify
      @ivana92ify 3 года назад +14

      We need principals like this in America.

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 3 года назад +1

      I believe he may be innocent. Asians behaving differently in a white culture get harmed. Standing too close, speaking too loud, don’t look like a nice person (are all ugly people bad? Most would say no. But when it comes to judgment time, it’s much easier to convict people who don’t look like us. Especially unattractive bald short Asian male with a weak chin like uncle Robert Xie). I think the police framed him with the guide of that Principal. Another example of xenophobia.

    • @YanLT
      @YanLT 3 года назад +5

      @@seattlerain8655 in Chinese culture, when something like this happened, people will be nicer than what they used to be. But they won’t stand soooo close to a 15 yrs old girl, usually will keep a distance that’s chinese propriety. Robert is the murderer, he is not innocent.

  • @danalee5279
    @danalee5279 3 года назад +1201

    I don't think that principal has enough credit for what she did in speaking out and stepping up for Brenda!! So much compassion

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 3 года назад +3

      I believe he may be innocent. Asians behaving differently in a white culture get harmed. Standing too close, speaking too loud, don’t look like a nice person (are all ugly people bad? Most would say no. But when it comes to judgment time, it’s much easier to convict people who don’t look like us. Especially unattractive bald short Asian male with a weak chin like uncle Robert Xie). I think the police framed him with the guide of that Principal. Another example of xenophobia.

    • @twus6
      @twus6 3 года назад +10

      I have many Asian friends professionally and friendships, I totally have much respect for all cultures no matter where your from. We are entitled to our own views but to judge others I too would be judged. If the evidence was stated clearly then I would say that's your verdict. It's a whole family taken for no apparent reason but obsession or jealousy of success.

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 3 года назад +2

      @@twus6 I don’t know the story in full but neither is the public at large. But the evidence cited here seem extremely weak to meet the legal standards to convict someone for such a serious crime. Four trials? I think they were really trying hard to get him!

    • @twus6
      @twus6 3 года назад +6

      Absolutely agree, and this young lady needed all the support she could get through this ordeal after loosing her whole family. Thank the lord she had her school principal who reached out to her. ❤️

    • @twus6
      @twus6 3 года назад +2

      Thank you Dana Lee, for expressing your view regarding the school principal 👍 totally in support of not enough recognition. What state of mind would Brenda be in if she did not have that moral support 🌻

  • @RawkClaws
    @RawkClaws 3 года назад +285

    Ugh, the pure grief in her voice as she describes her last moments with her father. Just breaks my heart into a million pieces.

  • @kaybee22
    @kaybee22 3 года назад +456

    Both the interviewer and school principal expressed incredible compassion towards Brenda. She was able to provide a glimpse into her life-her family tragedy-without judgement, and without being hurried. Her spirit is incredible. Bravo.

    • @awarenessvillage
      @awarenessvillage 3 года назад +11

      I agree. She's lucky to have the principal in her life. And the reporter was so compassionate and respectful. I appreciated them both.

  • @hongkongmomslife
    @hongkongmomslife 3 года назад +533

    The interviewers in Australia are so respectful, considerate, and kind. I appreciated how they handled this interview instead of forcing and probing

    • @passedoutsober6322
      @passedoutsober6322 3 года назад +7

      Lol no she has a reputation of not being respectful 🤣🤣 you guys believe anything

    • @dangerislander
      @dangerislander 3 года назад +3

      Hmmmmmm I dunno about that...

    • @daschund7680
      @daschund7680 3 года назад +1

      Lol maybe then you should see the ones in Asia lol

    • @DMoses76ix7
      @DMoses76ix7 3 года назад

      @@dangerislander before I read your name I saw "DUNNO" and knew you were an islander.

    • @dangerislander
      @dangerislander 3 года назад +1

      @@DMoses76ix7 lmaoo 😂 you right

  • @mae388
    @mae388 3 года назад +1152

    She's been abused most of her life without anyone knowing. She's used to putting on a smile to hide her pain. I hope she lives a calm life

    • @atonement7232
      @atonement7232 3 года назад +18

      And a happy life with her family that she adds too ❤️💖❤️

    • @melissae.8031
      @melissae.8031 3 года назад +31

      Yes!!! People don't understand this is a way for self preservation!!

    • @debbiepink7640
      @debbiepink7640 2 года назад +6

      God bless you always

    • @jennbeth1
      @jennbeth1 Год назад +6

      She smiles her way through the interview. Her way to cope, but also hide the horror from outsiders.

    • @qazedc3
      @qazedc3 Год назад

      You think her parents abused her?

  • @PureXLR8tion
    @PureXLR8tion 3 года назад +408

    My heart broke when Brenda was feeling guilty saying she didn’t tell her dad she loved him as she was saying goodbye to him prior to going on her trip.
    Brenda, if you’re reading these comments, know that your dad knew you loved him. Parents know…they really do.

    • @mencot89
      @mencot89 Год назад +7

      I have a lot of tears watching that scene knowing many of us had the same thought especially when we part ways or even just reminded of our loved ones and wondering if it was the last time you’d ever see them again. Very sad what happened to her. The family seems to be so wholesome and happy.

    • @JadedBelle
      @JadedBelle Год назад

      ​@angeleyes-bk7unA what?

    • @nononino7383
      @nononino7383 Год назад +2

      😥🥹

  • @prog3142
    @prog3142 3 года назад +771

    This girl is so strong. She’s been through a lot and still radiates so much positivity. If you are reading this, keep saying strong. You will have your own family one day and find that love again you once had.

    • @Food-Dharma
      @Food-Dharma 3 года назад +17

      Thank you for that loving message.

    • @gee7simply76
      @gee7simply76 3 года назад +6

      @@Food-Dharma 💞

    • @amybrenneman9421
      @amybrenneman9421 3 года назад +14

      I agree wholeheartedly. Brenda, you are an amazing woman and I hope only the very best for you and you will find love one day, if not already! Because you truly deserve it and have SO MUCH TO GIVE.
      There is one incredibly lucky person out there who will get your love and beauty inside and out! Much love and best wishes to you Brenda, your parents are looking down from heaven and are so incredibly proud of you!

    • @vasilisakrusteva3072
      @vasilisakrusteva3072 3 года назад +1

      @@gee7simply76 на

    • @gee7simply76
      @gee7simply76 3 года назад +1

      @@vasilisakrusteva3072 ??

  • @songyi5706
    @songyi5706 3 года назад +2053

    Her aunt is also a monster. How can she stand by the very person that murdered her own brother, sister-in-law, and two nephews. This is so disheartening and makes me sick to the core.

    • @FallenJanettv
      @FallenJanettv 3 года назад +190

      And denies sexual abuse of a child

    • @nyahmanismommy
      @nyahmanismommy 3 года назад +163

      She's delusional

    • @sydniesyannthomas6131
      @sydniesyannthomas6131 3 года назад +102

      She felt the same way about them he did

    • @cmariah80
      @cmariah80 3 года назад +25

      Omg your absolutely right

    • @fanaticforager6610
      @fanaticforager6610 3 года назад +32

      Could be Grating Pride ; in how wrong one's judgment can be ⚠️
      Exhibit A ; he admitted that he had sedated her...🚻

  • @RealVedicAstrology
    @RealVedicAstrology 3 года назад +2943

    To anyone questioning why she’s smiling a lot it’s because she is stronger than you people. Instead of letting the trauma destroy her she is trying to remember the things she loved about her family members. Do you seriously not see the way she is smiling specifically when she is talking about her memories of her family members and complimenting them, she is remembering them fondly and that is why she is smiling, she probably has tried to push the traumatic part out of her memory, so that she can go on living. Instead of reliving the trauma she is clearly trying very hard to think about her family members when they were alive rather than their death, that’s why you see her smiling in the tears because she is trying to fight through her traumatic memories by recalling the good ones. Also she may naturally just be a person who smiles nervously when she is put on the spot. Especially in an interview about a very personal trauma for millions to see. By that same logic you could say the interviewer is a psychopathic murderer because she is smiling throughout the video while talking about an unspeakable murder, get over yourselves🙄🤮.

    • @moralmentecorrecto7032
      @moralmentecorrecto7032 3 года назад +267

      Some people cope with hard issues or nervousness by smiling, its sort of automatic way of coping, that happens to me all the time when am nervous.

    • @pnwadibie
      @pnwadibie 3 года назад +52

      Spot on

    • @mistyrious1111starseed
      @mistyrious1111starseed 3 года назад +80

      OOOHH I didn't see any comments saying that! I would have ripped them a new one like you did!!

    • @ifynwamma
      @ifynwamma 3 года назад +41

      Well said!!

    • @megan1445
      @megan1445 3 года назад +70

      Spot on. People can be the most ignorant judges. They watch a 45 minute interview and a few clips around the time and think her smiling equals 24 hours of blissful happiness every single day of her life.
      If people weren't so self centered they would be able to see through a smile to the sadness in someone's eyes.

  • @marlissfern2710
    @marlissfern2710 2 года назад +110

    Her principal Susan is stellar. She’s lucky to have her in her life. Not all school administrators are so involved or caring about the students and community. She’s a wonderful example of of excellence in education. God watch over Brenda. She looks like she’s headed in the right path to healing. Much luck and love to her.

  • @lanetterung4463
    @lanetterung4463 3 года назад +678

    Anyone watching this please. Never be afraid to report sexual abuse. No matter who the person is abusing you!

    • @feliciaowens1104
      @feliciaowens1104 3 года назад +37

      Yes yes yes because with that 1 secret so many other things are attached to that evil li this and also transcends generations when that secret is kept

    • @katyap.8404
      @katyap.8404 3 года назад +8

      Yes, that is so true!

    • @mitchand9
      @mitchand9 3 года назад +41

      Easier said than done.

    • @cedricksamaniego9146
      @cedricksamaniego9146 3 года назад +16

      Even after telling a trusted family member that doesn't believe you!

    • @MommiDonni1
      @MommiDonni1 3 года назад +49

      I should have reported my abuser but I didn’t because I was just a kid myself. He was later arrested for sexually abusing his young step daughter. It was around that time that I realized I was a victim but I still kept the secret. 😞 It makes me sick till this day.

  • @BaBa-kf7tn
    @BaBa-kf7tn 3 года назад +1029

    The school principal is a very responsible and kind woman.

  • @lisale9896
    @lisale9896 3 года назад +930

    Bludgeoning is such a horrible way of murdering, it's so personal and close compared to shooting someone. It's horrific the boys woke up, the fear and pain they must've felt in their last moments is just so cruel. Rest in peace to this family.

    • @dorasyiem4010
      @dorasyiem4010 3 года назад +4

      😭😭😭😭😭 RIP

    • @poachh2061
      @poachh2061 3 года назад +20

      Hopefully they were in shock so they didn't feel much pain

    • @atonement7232
      @atonement7232 3 года назад +10

      I think it happened very very fast. It had to have. Try not to dwell on the actual murder. That is the last thing Brenda needs

    • @SUPERSPAZD
      @SUPERSPAZD 3 года назад +3

      I agree. 😞

  • @arlscent
    @arlscent Год назад +147

    This is why it’s very important for the parents to teach their children not to keep any secrets especially when someone is abusing or threatening them. Praying for Brenda’s peace and strength 🙏🏼

    • @annamarielewis7078
      @annamarielewis7078 Год назад +2

      Absolutely true. No truth is worse than the lies told to “protect “ us.

    • @freespiritable
      @freespiritable Год назад +1

      One thinks they don't want the kids have anxiety. You don't really want your child to live in fear.

    • @ThanaBrunges-mx7ji
      @ThanaBrunges-mx7ji 11 месяцев назад +2

      Amen secrets can be lethal! 😅

    • @sleepyearth
      @sleepyearth 8 месяцев назад +2

      Also the stigma and culture of shaming victims just because "family ties", "family face", "family pride" and also respect the elderly.

    • @DonnaMayStanish
      @DonnaMayStanish Месяц назад

      arlscent - Well stated ❤️

  • @masukamagambo4236
    @masukamagambo4236 3 года назад +1479

    The way the school and community galvanized for Brenda.......so heartwarming to see. Sad sad tragedy

    • @joememphis1571
      @joememphis1571 3 года назад +30

      The school and headmistress (Australian English for principal) were pure class personified.

    • @amybrenneman9421
      @amybrenneman9421 3 года назад +21

      I agree strongly that the good in people is most always there, sometimes you have to ask for it and asking for help when you need it is so difficult!
      At the end of the day, the true good in people is amazing and never fails to inspire me to be the same way. I would rather give than receive. To see the smile on someone's face for the smallest act of kindness given them is priceless to me. Our world would be a better place if we all could show love and kindness in any way, big or small, it doesn't matter, it's the thought that counts, always!!!

    • @joememphis1571
      @joememphis1571 3 года назад +4

      @Blunder 143 I’m a English professor so technically you’re right but headmistress/headmaster is British, Australian and Canadian English for principal.

    • @joememphis1571
      @joememphis1571 3 года назад +1

      @Blunder 143 🙄😐👍👍

    • @virgenrodriguez9405
      @virgenrodriguez9405 3 года назад +8

      @@amybrenneman9421With of all the pain and suffering our country is going through at all times every time someone is victimized there are many more people around to help, love and support.. There is much more love and kindness in this world than evil....

  • @tennyo120
    @tennyo120 3 года назад +302

    the fact she still talks about her family in the present tense and smiles fondly while remembering them really shows how much faith and love she harbors for them. god bless you brenda 🙏

    • @garymonaghan7196
      @garymonaghan7196 3 года назад +3

      I got that as well!!!

    • @MintyVL
      @MintyVL 3 года назад +11

      I immediately noticed when she started talking about how hard working her dad IS. I felt the love and how she’s keeping their memory alive.

  • @1GR8LMFT
    @1GR8LMFT 3 года назад +551

    “People become bitter or better”.
    What a beautiful young woman!!

    • @chinchinchokhlei
      @chinchinchokhlei 3 года назад +8

      I am trying to become better thank you!!!

    • @rosihantu1
      @rosihantu1 3 года назад +1

      With Australians, you can't tell. Even better sounds like bitter.

    • @chinchinchokhlei
      @chinchinchokhlei 3 года назад +1

      @@rosihantu1 Australian are good!!!

  • @patty4709
    @patty4709 Год назад +92

    How does one ever get over loosing an entire family? A nightmare from hell. Bless this young girl and ease her heart. ❤

    • @jameshama
      @jameshama Месяц назад

      Good morning friend how are you doing today

  • @sassiebean9052
    @sassiebean9052 3 года назад +387

    That principal is such a warm, loving, compassionate, human being! We need more like her❤❤

  • @lunaopenyourmind7554
    @lunaopenyourmind7554 3 года назад +324

    I’m so proud of Australia 🇦🇺 for supporting this poor girl in her worse time in her life, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @thetruthseeker8841
    @thetruthseeker8841 3 года назад +376

    Oh man, seeing just one coffin of a family member is devastating enough, but seeing 5 ? I can't imagine...

    • @robinmcinarnay7827
      @robinmcinarnay7827 3 года назад +10

      That part had me shook. I am devastated for her. I knew her Aunt would take his side tho. But logically, what other motive or story makes any sense, besides the truth? That lady will die in denial I guess.

    • @lecannet
      @lecannet 3 года назад +6

      And one greedy low life caused it all and ruined that poor young ladies life..abusers of all types r pure evil..they walk among us...

  • @nette2144
    @nette2144 Год назад +50

    Last year I lost my sister to a brutal homicide at the hands of her brother in law. In her home, 4 years after she lost her husband to cancer. The pain I feel is beyond words can explain. This young lady must be experiencing 100 times more what I'm feeling because she lost all if her family! I pray that she will one day be able to just fully live! She seems to be surrounded by people who love and support her.

    • @FeezFBaby
      @FeezFBaby 8 месяцев назад +4

      I’m sorry for ur loss but u ain’t lying tho, her pain must be unbearable & unimaginable and that’s not to say that ur pain was any less ya kno? U lost ur sister whereas she lost her whole freaking family, that’s just insane. I’m terribly sorry for ur loss again my friend & u have my deepest condolences 🙏🙏🙏

  • @aramiralte9035
    @aramiralte9035 3 года назад +239

    Love seeing her smile whenever she talked about her family. Shows what a loving and caring family she was raised from. Best wishes to Brenda for a beautiful life ahead.

  • @bannanna.
    @bannanna. 3 года назад +803

    I hope every principal is just like her. She loves and cares about her students.

    • @babyramses5066
      @babyramses5066 3 года назад +12

      Ikr when brenda was talking about her aunt being the substitute mom the real substitute mom was the principal. This is all awful but at least she had that kind of person to suport her.

    • @hezsurnarcissus1460
      @hezsurnarcissus1460 3 года назад

      My nieces elementary school is like this. Incredible people. They notice when the girls are probably sick for instance, just because they'll be quieter than usual and we'll get a phone call. When they misbehaved as well, the school would call and say, "is something going on at home? She hasn't been herself." And what had happened was two of us had recently moved away, so their little world was a bit confusing to them!
      When I would see the principal at the school, the kids would run up to him and surround him, talking away like crazy too and some even giving him hugs. I don't think he hugged them back- I think they just genuinely loved him and felt comfortable enough to grab onto him.

  • @ivana92ify
    @ivana92ify 3 года назад +326

    Imagine being able to smile and stay noble after such tragedy. She is so, so strong. And has become my new idol.

    • @Nerdtacularcolombian
      @Nerdtacularcolombian 3 года назад +8

      Absolutely same. I haven’t witnessed such strength in a long time, my heart is broken for her.

    • @Kumutuna
      @Kumutuna 3 года назад +3

      I wanted to comment something and i didnt know what to say. And you said it well

    • @bettykhuboni8758
      @bettykhuboni8758 3 года назад

      I think i could have taken my life 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @voyaristika5673
    @voyaristika5673 Год назад +54

    I have 3 daughters and this touches me deeply. Thank God Brenda has some incredible people around her. She is the epitome of "a survivor" and it's amazing. I'm so glad she has her dog! Anyone who's loved a dog knows of their unconditional love and their uncanny ability to stabilize one's life. Bless you, Brenda. And don't cry because you didn't tell your dad of your love for him. He knows, he really does know.

  • @MommiDonni1
    @MommiDonni1 3 года назад +664

    Uncle Robert is a despicable creep. My prayers for Brenda for healing.

    • @potterj09
      @potterj09 3 года назад +6

      I've lived around Cabramatta the majority of my life, most my friends are either Chinese or Vietnamese. Despite being white I know the body language, facial expressions, I know enough to bargain for a TV. this guy hadn't even prepare himself to lie & he tripped up so much just by this.

    • @charlottekakooza9663
      @charlottekakooza9663 3 года назад +4

      Bless you Brenda! Thank you for sharing your story and being an encouragement and role model to others and showing us that there is light at the end of the tunnel. May God richly bless you and have a fruitful life! Amen!

  • @Lilyium
    @Lilyium 3 года назад +2237

    In Asian culture, it's actually quite common for children to not ever tell their parents 'I love you' and vice versa, mainly because of being brought up in generations of traditional and conservative rules. Instead of words, it's shown through actions instead. Poor Brenda...

    • @twilightingX
      @twilightingX 3 года назад +38

      It's more of a formal respect for elders culture rather than conservative rules.

    • @mika1928
      @mika1928 3 года назад +74

      So true. I've never told my parents this either. I wish Asian families didn't hold back this sort of conversations. I hope this changes.

    • @judil3294
      @judil3294 3 года назад +42

      @@mika1928 It's not just an Asian thing. Until a couple of generations ago it was a British and Scottish thing too.

    • @mika1928
      @mika1928 3 года назад +28

      @@judil3294 for sure but for my language/culture there is no vocab to even say i love you in my language. Only language is how to say i love you to a lover.

    • @yanifree114
      @yanifree114 3 года назад +25

      It's not only Asian culture..others as well. My parents, may they RIP, were from Ireland. We're not a demonstrative race either. When a culture is decimated and genocide (Mao?) has taken place..trauma carries on into future generations.

  • @billmeriwether605
    @billmeriwether605 3 года назад +299

    I am a father and one day you will know that regardless of what you did or didn’t say at a certain time to your Dad. HE KNOWS that he has a daughter who loves him ... As parents, the fact that you are young and growing as our revered children is a miracle we enjoy so immensely - we as parents are NOT looking to prove out “if” you are emoting and professing your love properly ....that isn’t the goal - We Know you Love us - it’s understood. - You will “understand” someday and it will be overwhelming- there are GREAT things in your future. You WILL get there ...AND you will reunite w/ your family someday - until then - Prayers and blessings to you

  • @cynhwon
    @cynhwon 2 года назад +115

    I was a student living around the neighbourhood at that time. I remembered passing by their newsagency and always got my bus tickets there, and my host family's daughters also went to the same school with Brenda. Absolutely heartbreaking when I heard the news >< Such a warm-hearted man her father was...

    • @bonnylouwho76
      @bonnylouwho76 Год назад +8

      Oh my word, you were there mourning in that school and that community. This must have been so frightening for you.

    • @harrypotter-mc1sq
      @harrypotter-mc1sq 8 месяцев назад +1

      They seemed like lovely people. I'm glad this has been conveyed and it's not all just focused on the crime.

  • @Alexa-dm8wm
    @Alexa-dm8wm 3 года назад +840

    The principal is extraordinary human being. She is a real role model.

    • @NehaKarim.
      @NehaKarim. 3 года назад +6

      Very very true ❤

    • @julieli5381
      @julieli5381 3 года назад +2

      i dont think she is a principal at that school anymore.

    • @leahallen8420
      @leahallen8420 3 года назад +6

      @@NehaKarim. she was my principal

    • @leahallen8420
      @leahallen8420 3 года назад +3

      @@julieli5381 yes she retired

    • @NehaKarim.
      @NehaKarim. 3 года назад +5

      @@leahallen8420 such an amazing soul and beautiful person inside out.

  • @milaherana534
    @milaherana534 3 года назад +576

    She smiles all the times when she talked about family horror but if you focus to her eyes when speaking about her sad experienced, you can see sadness, hurt and pain in her whole being. She is a very strong young person . God bless her al the way of life.

    • @KK-ez5iz
      @KK-ez5iz 3 года назад +28

      I think it is a normal reaction because as the victim she is watching the interviewer react to her trauma. That is why it is hard to share trauma stories because it is exhausting having that feeling like you need to support the listener's feelings. I hope she finds a way to peace and doesn't feel survivor's guilt.

    • @user-su6zt2of2p
      @user-su6zt2of2p 3 года назад +5

      Its due to disbelief. Obviously whole family gone in one day is hard to believe

    • @coltv319
      @coltv319 2 года назад

      i think some of them are like smiles of defeat... or self-assurance reaction

    • @sonjaheck3156
      @sonjaheck3156 2 года назад +1

      I act the same way, appearing to smile in the worst scenarios - obviously nothing this bad, not even close, but I understand this action. It is not that uncommon.

  • @NehaKarim.
    @NehaKarim. 3 года назад +263

    The principal came into her life as an Angel. Such a role model, Hats off to you Principal.

  • @KaleHello
    @KaleHello 3 года назад +113

    I am so proud of her, she is in law school now and going to spread her kindness with her kine of work.

  • @yvec241
    @yvec241 3 года назад +431

    I wish Brenda nothing but a future filled with love and happiness. She is one example of a true survivor. After such a tragic horrific act that destroyed her family it did not destroy her spirit. I know it took a lot to be where she is emotionally and it's not easy to wake up to face the day but she does it for her own sake and for her family's honour. Brenda and Sky, sending you blessings from Canada.

  • @brendawehkamp3396
    @brendawehkamp3396 3 года назад +1026

    Her uncle confessed to the murders and giving his wife sleeping meds. So why the confusion over his innocence. I highly respect Brenda and her teacher/principal. 🙏🏻

    • @jessfrancis434
      @jessfrancis434 3 года назад +45

      Phew for a second I thought you said you SUSPECT Brenda and her teacher, I was like WHAT?! hahaha never mind 🤦🏼‍♀️ but I whole heartedly agree with what you’ve said. Why his innocence is speculative is beyond me!

    • @divawendy
      @divawendy 3 года назад +50

      i think they did it together i really think his wife was involved

    • @lily2011uk
      @lily2011uk 3 года назад +31

      @@divawendy I think so too. It does not make any sense his wife is so protective of him. Poor Brenda and his grandparents. No words to describe.....very very sad

    • @cynthia587
      @cynthia587 3 года назад +38

      I guess the truth is unbearable, she has to denial it in order for her to continue to live

    • @divawendy
      @divawendy 3 года назад +14

      @@lily2011uk, hope she will have her peace one day and her own family and a man that really loves her 🙏❤️

  • @melissatejkl7169
    @melissatejkl7169 3 года назад +740

    Her high school principal is a rock star she saw through him immediately
    She is working at the job to save this girl
    That was God I do believe

  • @millicentprettymillzjordan7443
    @millicentprettymillzjordan7443 3 года назад +45

    Seeing the grandparents in so much hurt and pain just broke my heart

  • @WilmaNevarez
    @WilmaNevarez 3 года назад +560

    My heart broke when she said she wanted her parents to be proud of her. Brenda, they’ve always and will always be proud of you.

    • @jennifers4528
      @jennifers4528 3 года назад +5

      ...loved her dearly and they knew that she loved them.

    • @claravela3330
      @claravela3330 3 года назад +3

      Yeah sweetheart.
      God bless you.

  • @PC-oi8hk
    @PC-oi8hk 3 года назад +672

    Can’t help but cry at the sadness she is feeling. How could such evil exist on this earth.

    • @stressmuffin
      @stressmuffin 3 года назад +16

      It’s heartbreaking & pisses me off that money is the root of all evil.

    • @salmontanio212
      @salmontanio212 3 года назад +3

      @@stressmuffin Jealousy and greed.

    • @phyllismagunde5844
      @phyllismagunde5844 3 года назад +6

      God, I pray for your continued presence in Brenda's life. It's only You Lord who can heal her broken heart.

    • @allengina1091
      @allengina1091 3 года назад +1

      Correct

    • @kimdavidoff6618
      @kimdavidoff6618 3 года назад +1

      Crying for days

  • @smnvo1129
    @smnvo1129 3 года назад +535

    The principal had 6th sense, strong intuition about the killer.

    • @lolwealego6951
      @lolwealego6951 3 года назад +17

      Teachers are trained watch dogs

    • @shlee5675
      @shlee5675 8 месяцев назад

      Most empath can feel very deeply and figure out emotions quite accurately.

  • @LickyTee
    @LickyTee 2 года назад +69

    You can see the pain in her eyes.
    I wish her all the best life has to offer

  • @magicmilestone
    @magicmilestone 3 года назад +333

    There’s NOTHING I’d like to see happen more, than to wake up one day in the future to see a news piece about her wedding day with her principal at her side, as well as the entire community there as the biggest support system. She deserves THE WORLD, and I’m praying so much that she gets all the love and good in it from now on ♥️

    • @care4animals114
      @care4animals114 3 года назад +3

      Nice🙏💕

    • @thequeen4999
      @thequeen4999 3 года назад +3

      Very touching story really couldnt stop my tears and that wonderfull lady who supportes her all the way through this very difficult times means the world for Brenda i can't imagine how someone can feel in this situation I love Brenda's spirit she is a very sweet and kind lady ❤RIP her family i hope the monster who took their lives will rot in hell i hope he will suffer a lot in prison 🙏 😢

    • @billybobhaystraw4067
      @billybobhaystraw4067 3 года назад +3

      Yes. So well said!!

    • @nayoungkim5534
      @nayoungkim5534 3 года назад

      So beautiful!!

    • @ricardomoseley
      @ricardomoseley 2 года назад

      If those are Brenda’s Desires. I would Love to hear About It If ever made public.

  • @bheenachoytooa1604
    @bheenachoytooa1604 3 года назад +361

    Brenda, the whole world cry out all their tears in front of such huge suffering. We love you.

  • @Lk19895
    @Lk19895 3 года назад +400

    I watched while crying...from her voice she hasn't healed.... hugs wherever you are ❤️

    • @igitha..._
      @igitha..._ 3 года назад +25

      Healing is a journey not a destination - it will take time

    • @factsoverfiction7826
      @factsoverfiction7826 3 года назад +19

      Sorrow is there and brokenness ... but Brenda's soul is complete. Evil did not win this one.

    • @chikochiringa7247
      @chikochiringa7247 3 года назад +4

      How does she heal😥😥

    • @senoritamaminah9634
      @senoritamaminah9634 3 года назад +11

      Sometimes it never really heals, we just learn to live with it.

    • @droopypie
      @droopypie 3 года назад +8

      It's very difficult to heal from something like this... will take a lifetime

  • @Sarah-ty5ev
    @Sarah-ty5ev 3 года назад +45

    I love that she got to go see her parent’s home. That’s such a beautiful way to honor their lives.

    • @jameshama
      @jameshama Месяц назад

      Hello Sarah how are you doing today

  • @winonahdemars8861
    @winonahdemars8861 3 года назад +103

    The interviewer was wonderfully compassionate. Didnt push when Brenda didnt want to talk about things. Her facial expressions emoted kindness and compassion.

  • @mariannehettinger
    @mariannehettinger 3 года назад +220

    Brenda Lin is such a brave, intelligent and loving person. My heart goes out to her.

    • @jameshama
      @jameshama Месяц назад

      Hello Maria how are you doing today

  • @LokiHiddlestone13
    @LokiHiddlestone13 3 года назад +310

    Her friends and the principal make me believe the world is good. Real angels.

    • @MrRisingapple
      @MrRisingapple 3 года назад

      What does the uncle make you believe about the world?

  • @carolinehoughton3685
    @carolinehoughton3685 2 года назад +64

    She’s been through an unspeakable amount of pain and trauma. She has every reason to hate the world, but instead wants to make it a better place. Her strength to move forward is extremely admirable. She deserves to live a very joyful and fulfilling life. On another note, her uncle deserves to never see daylight again.

    • @jameshama
      @jameshama Месяц назад

      Hello Caroline how are you doing today

  • @gilbertmendez2310
    @gilbertmendez2310 3 года назад +286

    This was one of the most heart wrenching stories that I've ever heard. Such a beautiful girl. God bless her.

    • @alanking2959
      @alanking2959 3 года назад

      She's not pretty! Be honest mate!

    • @ingodwetrustdellaware-inc8322
      @ingodwetrustdellaware-inc8322 3 года назад +6

      @@alanking2959
      😆🤣😂
      You're right she is not pretty, she's gorgeous 😍

    • @alanking2959
      @alanking2959 3 года назад

      At Delaware nah she's not gorgeous either I hate her eyes 👁️

    • @jiluo5656
      @jiluo5656 3 года назад +5

      @@alanking2959 ...how old are you

    • @ingodwetrustdellaware-inc8322
      @ingodwetrustdellaware-inc8322 3 года назад +4

      @@alanking2959
      Me personally.. I love Asian girls.
      My EX was a Japanese..
      Brenda it's a survived and have a wonderful character with a bright future ahead of her.
      Her uncle was a EVIL manipulative person..

  • @joannemates6367
    @joannemates6367 3 года назад +251

    I just bawled my eyes watching this. At the age of 47, suddenly my life doesn’t seem so bad. Such a horrific story and tragic loss of life. This will be Brenda’s greatest teacher! She will go on to do amazing things with her life. I wish you all the love, strength and peace, for the journey ahead, Brenda. Xx

    • @bobjolly7795
      @bobjolly7795 3 года назад +10

      this story is beyond heartbreaking.....beyond almost anything

    • @jessicagrover402
      @jessicagrover402 3 года назад +10

      I couldn’t have said it better. At 38 this makes my troubles seem minuscule. God love her sweet soul❤️

    • @deniserossiter1059
      @deniserossiter1059 3 года назад +8

      Same here. She broke my heart. Her pain is so palpable even through a video. She’s very strong.

    • @Dragonfruit260
      @Dragonfruit260 3 года назад +2

      A perfect statement. Grateful for mine. Pray only the best for her journey and she’ll find happiness in the end. Very strong lady.

    • @pauldaniels2179
      @pauldaniels2179 3 года назад +3

      @Has Goodles Some people are so Ignorant, with their ''my life is not so bad'' comments.

  • @candicezhang8619
    @candicezhang8619 3 года назад +925

    Update: Robert Xie's appeal to the conviction was dismissed this month.

  • @hurricanehubbs9459
    @hurricanehubbs9459 2 года назад +71

    hearing Brenda describe her parents made me think about this in a different perspective: just made me think about how I felt about my own parents and just makes me appreciate and love them more, a reminder that this should never be taken for granted. I can't even imagine what it must have been like to experience what she did, but I'm glad she shared her incredible story

  • @joememphis1571
    @joememphis1571 3 года назад +401

    May her Uncle Robert burn in hell for such a hateful, despicable, callous, monstrous and sadistic act. Brenda Lin deserves all of the world’s undivided sympathy, empathy, compassion, kindness and respect. This story sent chills down my spine. For anyone to endure such tragedy like this is very heartbreaking and broken-hearted.

    • @NangDeeSan
      @NangDeeSan 3 года назад +9

      Crazy how there is no true justice in this world on how we as a society deal with sociopathic/psychopathic individuals! There is no amount medication and no amount of behavioral therapy that will ever fix their brain (and the vast majority think we are the flawed ones, not them). How can a small select number of individuals ruin so many lives in a split impulsive second? How is that any fair if we know damn well what the folks are all about but yet we still ‘look the other way’ and do nothing about them before it is too late? Granted not all of them will be driven to become serial killers, but every single one of these broken individuals still ruin many lives (including their own in the end).

    • @suedaun928
      @suedaun928 3 года назад +8

      Jealous of his own brother (or brother in law)....what a disaster to have such family member..

    • @crystalo9489
      @crystalo9489 3 года назад +13

      @@NangDeeSan think about your soul, God is a forgiving God, just like he teaches us how to forgive . If uncle Robert doesn’t truly repent and turn to Jesus . He will rot in hell. Hell is terrible worse than our minds can handle, Don’t think God doesn’t see all these things. He sees all, he knows us more than we know ourselves. Jesus has a plan for this young lady, she is set apart for Gods plan for her. I can’t wait to see her grow

    • @lindaopperthauser2284
      @lindaopperthauser2284 3 года назад +1

      @@crystalo9489
      At last! Someone who KNOWS❣️❣️❣️💯

    • @seattlerain8655
      @seattlerain8655 3 года назад

      I believe he may be innocent. Asians behaving differently in a white culture get harmed. Standing too close, speaking too loud, don’t look like a nice person (are all ugly people bad? Most would say no. But when it comes to judgment time, it’s much easier to convict people who don’t look like us. Especially unattractive bald short Asian male with a weak chin like uncle Robert Xie). I think the police framed him with the guide of that Principal. Another example of xenophobia.

  • @Angela-ne9cy
    @Angela-ne9cy 3 года назад +392

    I can't imagine how Brenda feels, watching her aunt (Uncle Robert's wife) continuing to support him. Being that she's her only surviving blood relative, it must be devastating to know she supports the man who abused you and murdered your entire family.

    • @blackhair85
      @blackhair85 3 года назад +17

      Sadly, despite the claim many people make that "Blood is everything/Blood is thicker than water" and so on, this notion is bullsh*t. I've met people, who experienced betrayal as their mother tried to protect the violent father who had broken the leg and arm of their child from prosecution. I've met people, who got thrown out onto the street by their family at age 13 because they dared to express their own sexuality. I've met people, who have suffered the most by the people who were their blood relatives and closest to them.
      I wish Brenda all the best for her future, that she may find safety and trust again in the people, she chooses to be close to. You are a strong and beautiful soul.

    • @marilynschmidt6400
      @marilynschmidt6400 3 года назад +2

      @PUJ fittyhealth you said in a previous comment the school principal was ignorant. Are you ok?

    • @JoJo-xl4mb
      @JoJo-xl4mb 3 года назад +9

      @PUJ fittyhealth well clearly she was right

    • @TT-hq2cf
      @TT-hq2cf 3 года назад +5

      @PUJ fittyhealth it's not that he was speaking rapidly/loudly, she emphasised on the fact that it seemed like he was coercing/persuading her into something (while she was sobbing)

  • @joyachie8491
    @joyachie8491 3 года назад +331

    I would never be the interviewer I would be on the floor crying instead of actually talking 😭😭😭

  • @squirrelywrath07
    @squirrelywrath07 3 года назад +74

    I can’t imagine the amount of grief to not just lose one member of your family but all at once. Not only that but the only relatives that could look after and comfort you, could do such horrific things.
    My heart goes to that poor girl and am amazed at her strength.

  • @am-outtagas768
    @am-outtagas768 3 года назад +222

    i am your black aunty in London UK, sending you lots of sincere love, guidance and protection. You are loved by so many people who hear your story.I know, everybody who hears your story, wants the BEST for you. I want you to thrive and one day little one, you will have your own cute family. you are not alone.

    • @blueblue5427
      @blueblue5427 3 года назад +3

      Awwww so sweet of you .

    • @nora4981
      @nora4981 3 года назад +3

      You are an angel ❤️ stay blessed ❤️

    • @farhanahnijam8833
      @farhanahnijam8833 3 года назад +4

      Your comment is one of the most heartwarming things I came across. More power and love to you

    • @show._bug
      @show._bug 3 года назад

      ❤️

    • @thabsilechamane3774
      @thabsilechamane3774 3 года назад

      God bless you 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @prettygirlpandora
    @prettygirlpandora 3 года назад +183

    Brenda’s eyes are haunting, even when she smiles you can see her immense sadness pour through. 💔

  • @arosete3512
    @arosete3512 3 года назад +413

    She needs intense therapy. The trauma she has suffered is intense. I’m so glad she has so much support and love. May God bless her as she continues to heal. Sometimes close relatives are the ones who do the abuse with their own family members. So sad.

    • @paintinganimalsonrocks7633
      @paintinganimalsonrocks7633 3 года назад +8

      Even her delusional Aunt.

    • @arosete3512
      @arosete3512 3 года назад +12

      @@paintinganimalsonrocks7633 yes indeed. She’s very much in denial. I hope she can move on and let her evil husband rot in jail.

    • @pattiwhite9575
      @pattiwhite9575 3 года назад +1

      @@paintinganimalsonrocks7633 She comes from a different place and time. Different culture. And I imagine the whole sex abuse issue was not raised in an appropriate way with her. That is her shock and horror in life also. How do either one move on with their lives after all the this.

    • @herowillrose3198
      @herowillrose3198 3 года назад +4

      Whoever will married her must have extensive experience in tragic events to handle sensitive relationship for a very long time, not easy to nurture relationship.

    • @herowillrose3198
      @herowillrose3198 3 года назад +1

      It is not illusion aunt, but she fighting for her own wealth in this case, she will loses all if requesting appeals rejected for her hubby’s actions.

  • @courtneyfrost915
    @courtneyfrost915 Год назад +38

    Hands down, this is the worst case of betrayal by a family member that I have ever seen! I am amazed by this girl's strength.

  • @ilianaaah1
    @ilianaaah1 3 года назад +784

    I think she doesn’t process the abuse because that means the murders are “because of” her in her mind ...so sad I feel for her so much

    • @lomont6786
      @lomont6786 3 года назад +59

      It's not her fault her uncle is a psychopath and that he murdered her family. At the end of the day, we are responsible for our own actions. She doesn't process the abuse because she was betrayed by a loved one. I feel bad for what happened to her family not because she might have caused it because she didn't.

    • @dgcfgvvgb6555
      @dgcfgvvgb6555 3 года назад +139

      @@lomont6786 i think that op meant that she would blame herself in her head, not that it was actually true. Victims blame themselves all the time. Its why survivors guilt is such a big thing

    • @mikewoodson6930
      @mikewoodson6930 3 года назад +15

      Yes, I agree. Text book. She is a rare person being in this situation. Help is not so educated with her needs. God bless her.

    • @alethastevens6151
      @alethastevens6151 3 года назад +14

      It is IMPORTANT to tell mom who is abusing you right away!!!! Don’t be afraid you may be saving your family heartaches! Keep close to grandma to she didn’t live long for nothing! She’s a wise owl even within!!

    • @yolondambrowm9803
      @yolondambrowm9803 3 года назад +8

      @@lomont6786 one day you might learn to LOOK before you leap! NOTHING in that comment placed a shred of blame on her! It’s not uncommon for victims to blame themselves. Get it together FOOL!

  • @elisapetit1
    @elisapetit1 3 года назад +200

    Man this is one of the documentaries that made me cry the most. Horrific. I can’t even imagine the sheer pain Brenda went through. I don’t think I would have survived to be completely honest. What an incredible person

    • @joyfuls.1690
      @joyfuls.1690 2 года назад

      That means you haven't watch Chris Watts Documentary?

  • @abhishekgupta3612
    @abhishekgupta3612 3 года назад +188

    So much respect for the principal who made a difference in Brenda’s life.

  • @daisydd1709
    @daisydd1709 2 года назад +17

    susan the high school principal is so lovely. the world needs teachers like hre

  • @mmichy
    @mmichy 3 года назад +179

    God bless that principal. All it takes is ONE adult to speak up or care. We all have that responsibility. ❤️

  • @jillchinnt
    @jillchinnt 3 года назад +322

    What a sick man. I feel so terrible for Brenda.. How do you grieve 5 people at the same time?😞

    • @whatwillbem6825
      @whatwillbem6825 3 года назад +9

      The most EVIL type of human....😡

    • @kdm1733
      @kdm1733 3 года назад +8

      It's unimaginable. Truly horrific.

    • @ivana92ify
      @ivana92ify 3 года назад +15

      Unimaginable. And yet, she still smiles and sees the best in people. She's my personal hero.

  • @kafkabishop9369
    @kafkabishop9369 3 года назад +322

    Checking the "Newest first" comments was a mistake. Can't believe there are people actually blaming Brenda for her facial expression or voice. Not everyone reacts to trauma the same way as you do.

    • @DiMa-cn6ot
      @DiMa-cn6ot 3 года назад +9

      Sorry but I also find that there is something off with her as well.Why she never said anything to anyone about the abuse? Why she went to stay with him?

    • @kafkabishop9369
      @kafkabishop9369 3 года назад +64

      @@DiMa-cn6ot lots of victims of abuse do not speak up for a myriad of reasons. Could be shame or normalization, she might've even been groomed. As to why she went to her uncle, she might not have realized something was wrong back then and only realized that something was amiss as time went on.
      Now, there is also the slight possibility that she had some kind of involvement, but as of now, we have no concrete evidence aside from "creepy vibes".
      Innocent until proven guilty.

    • @jonathegoat7839
      @jonathegoat7839 3 года назад +28

      People say it’s because of the smile. They don’t know how she feels and there calling her things that she is not even close to being just because she reacts differently than them. I have just lost faith in humanity man. She lost her family and still tried to smile. Yet people decide to bash her for reacting differently than them. It’s just disgusting. It’s hard to imagine that people actually live like that knowing that they say this and are ok with it.

    • @LahainaStrong444
      @LahainaStrong444 3 года назад +5

      Exactly! Obviously she is innocent.

    • @LahainaStrong444
      @LahainaStrong444 3 года назад +9

      @@DiMa-cn6ot you need to learn and understand it.
      Maybe when you're older you'll be wiser.

  • @kellyfalletta1949
    @kellyfalletta1949 3 года назад +62

    Heartbreaking. I admire how strong Brenda is. And bless her friends, including her school principal, for being wonderful and supportive.

    • @ThanaBrunges-mx7ji
      @ThanaBrunges-mx7ji 11 месяцев назад

      School principals can be so wonderful and compassionate and play such essential roles in the development of young peoples minds hearts and spirits! ❤❤❤❤😊

  • @stevet4564
    @stevet4564 3 года назад +441

    She is one of the strongest people I believe that I've ever witnessed.

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 года назад +2

      Facts

    • @amybrenneman9421
      @amybrenneman9421 3 года назад +3

      I agree with many other people that she is one of the strongest people I have ever heard of and her will to go on in life with a positive manner is truly amazing. I wish her only the best in life as she deserves. Her school principle is one great woman too and I wish all principles were more like this woman. This is such a tragic story that truly shows even through the worst of times, the good heartedness of people shines through in the end.

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 3 года назад +218

    If "A woman's intuition" was a person, it looks like the principal 💯💕💎🙏🏽😭

  • @girleylizb
    @girleylizb 3 года назад +213

    The Journalist that interviewed Brenda is a professional lady. We all can see she made Brenda feels relax and comfortable in her presence because she did the interview with a smile and empathy.

  • @pqiptesdana8890
    @pqiptesdana8890 3 года назад +63

    He even gives off them creepy vibes just looking at him & listening to his interview.

  • @violetmartha916
    @violetmartha916 3 года назад +417

    Dear Brenda.... I know that nothing will bring your precious family back to you in this life but.... My German father lost his entire family and home during WWII. And met my English mum when he was here as a prisoner of war... He went on to make a family of his own and he had so many happy times... We were a very close family. I wish you a long and happy life with many children and grandchildren and one day you will be re-united with your Mum, Dad, brothers and Auntie. If you ever read this darling, I'm sending you much love. 💘💘💘💘💘💘

    • @Micah-wj2bd
      @Micah-wj2bd 3 года назад +7

      ♥️🥀♥️

    • @brokehalo101
      @brokehalo101 3 года назад +4

      💙💙

    • @pimpwitnohoes
      @pimpwitnohoes 3 года назад +6

      This warmed my heart

    • @artieparson4545
      @artieparson4545 3 года назад +8

      @@brokehalo101 God Bless you!🙏 This is such a beautiful sentiment!😪

    • @trenitahodge6103
      @trenitahodge6103 3 года назад +11

      She don't have to read it. THE UNIVERSE took the energy you sent and wrapped her it. She feels all the love sent her way
      It will return to back also.
      Compassion brings COMPASSION

  • @suzyn9119
    @suzyn9119 3 года назад +354

    Dear brenda lin. No one should ever make one bad comment to you ever! So sorry this all happened to you, honey. Goodness and good times to you for the rest of your life.

  • @selenagrinage5631
    @selenagrinage5631 3 года назад +698

    Can we just take a moment and acknowledge how INCREDIBLY STRONG AND COURAGEOUS THIS BEAUTIFUL ANGEL IS!💞🌟💞🌟💞

    • @winnievaughan
      @winnievaughan 3 года назад

      @Paul Walker you’re kidding right?

    • @julieteh4827
      @julieteh4827 3 года назад +3

      She looks sneaky to me... her eyes,her voice

    • @traceykoke6016
      @traceykoke6016 3 года назад +1

      😭😭😭😭😭😭true she is so brave

    • @JimmiAlli
      @JimmiAlli 3 года назад +21

      @@julieteh4827 you sound like a person without compassion.

    • @hilaryc3203
      @hilaryc3203 3 года назад +12

      @@julieteh4827 Stop trolling with miserable comments. You're sick.

  • @Laura-wb2se
    @Laura-wb2se Год назад +54

    Brenda’s friends are impressive. They understand the importance of treating her no differently. Her desire to focus on the good and not choose bitterness is not only wise but is obviously proving to have a powerful affect on her life.

    • @jameshama
      @jameshama Месяц назад

      Hello Laura how are you doing today

  • @sonyafly
    @sonyafly 3 года назад +456

    This poor child. I can’t imagine what she had to go through.

    • @spicnspan981
      @spicnspan981 3 года назад +5

      I wouldn’t have gotten through this if it was me, I just wouldn’t have. What a strong woman she is

  • @jenrutherford6690
    @jenrutherford6690 3 года назад +422

    That school principal is a gem

    • @feliciaowens1104
      @feliciaowens1104 3 года назад +9

      Yes

    • @roseoliveira4534
      @roseoliveira4534 3 года назад +2

      My thoughts exactly

    • @DebbieW1965
      @DebbieW1965 3 года назад +12

      I agree 100%! There are so many school officials that only care about getting a paycheck. That principle truly cares about her students and goes above and beyond her job title. I think God put her in the place she needed to be so she could give the girl the love and support she so desperately needed to be able to go on with her life. She also knew from the very beginning that the girl’s uncle was guilty of the murders. God Bless everyone affected by that horrible tragedy!

    • @bellezapo3567
      @bellezapo3567 3 года назад

      She has really good instincts. I think it was very good that she shared her suspicions with the police..it was a good call. Sometimes its the small details that can start the lead to solving a case

  • @sharingmyusaexperiences
    @sharingmyusaexperiences 3 года назад +116

    Every school in the world needs a Principal like her..

  • @Amaya_
    @Amaya_ 2 года назад +8

    Couldnt stop crying😢
    Such a strong, beautiful & amazing young woman