I'm a guy so I know this video wasn't aimed at me exactly but I wanted to say thank you for this video. It really helped me with knowing how to leave my bad reputation behind and not feed into it. I also want to thank you for being you. Have a good day
Love the consistent uploads!!!! Thank you for all the advice I've been watching you legit since middle school and I'm a college freshman now, much love
Hi shallon! Love the video as usual, you are literally like the big sister I never had. I have a question that kind of routes from the same issue you addressed in the video. I used to date the "popular" guy in my school a while back but this ended badly, I mean really badly. And because when certain buttons get pushed I can turn into a psycopath, things got ugly fast. I am not proud of past me at all (saying that he deserved everything he got) but this was before I discovered your videos and had no idea how to handle myself.Now three years later people still see me as "that crazy ex" and mr popularity has practically turned all of the guys against me and all my crushes are always his friends so nothing ever works in my favour. Any ideas on how to get my ex to stop digging his heels in, most people see me as chill and smiley now but my ex always meddles with my love interests. (Also I feel as though I'm running out of options as every guy I almost date seems to be a downgrade of my old ex even if I don't have feelings for him anymore- most of the guys in my school are pigs and if they're not- their his best friend) LOVE YOU LOTS XXXXX
Alright so there's this guy in school and he's constantly always flirting with me and coming over to talk to me and his whole face lights up when he sees me my all my friends say it's pretty obvious that he likes me but I'm a little shy in the sense that I won't make the first move.Well this other girl in my class has had her eyes on him and while I was sitting not to far away she went over and asked him if he wanted to hangout at first he said he had plans but eventually gave in and they were talking for the rest of class.I know I have no right to get mad because he was never my boyfriend but how do I act now around him? Do I act the same,do I act like it bothers me?If I act like I don't care he might think I'm not interested at all.
i found shallon when i was 13 and im turning 16 next month and she is the only reason ive survived my teen years so far
One thing I've learned is regardless of doing actions contrary to your reputation people will still believe what they want to believe.
I'm a guy so I know this video wasn't aimed at me exactly but I wanted to say thank you for this video. It really helped me with knowing how to leave my bad reputation behind and not feed into it. I also want to thank you for being you. Have a good day
The best advice. YOU'RE A LIFE SAVER
I swear you always give the best advice!!!!
Back at it again shal with your awesome advice❤️
Love the consistent uploads!!!! Thank you for all the advice I've been watching you legit since middle school and I'm a college freshman now, much love
Thankyou SHALLON you’re very realistic ❤
this entire video applies DIRECTLY to my current situation and it helps so much
I really needed this today
Very nice advice! Thanks Shallon
Thank you so much 🥺you don’t know how much this helped me
YOUR MY FAVORITE RUclipsR
thank you shallon! awesome video
I just love listening to you ^^
I love this video, you’re so right! I so needed this today, thank you :)
OML I REALLY NEEDED THIS!!!!
I needed this
i love your videos!!!
i love you Shallon. you keep it real. thank you for your videos love
Could you do another "How to be more than a hookup" advice?
I needed this about 5 years ago
Hi shallon! Love the video as usual, you are literally like the big sister I never had. I have a question that kind of routes from the same issue you addressed in the video. I used to date the "popular" guy in my school a while back but this ended badly, I mean really badly. And because when certain buttons get pushed I can turn into a psycopath, things got ugly fast. I am not proud of past me at all (saying that he deserved everything he got) but this was before I discovered your videos and had no idea how to handle myself.Now three years later people still see me as "that crazy ex" and mr popularity has practically turned all of the guys against me and all my crushes are always his friends so nothing ever works in my favour. Any ideas on how to get my ex to stop digging his heels in, most people see me as chill and smiley now but my ex always meddles with my love interests. (Also I feel as though I'm running out of options as every guy I almost date seems to be a downgrade of my old ex even if I don't have feelings for him anymore- most of the guys in my school are pigs and if they're not- their his best friend) LOVE YOU LOTS XXXXX
You look so good!!!!!!
Great advice I love u! X
So, True we could live labels.
Thank you
I needed this. Thank you
Alright so there's this guy in school and he's constantly always flirting with me and coming over to talk to me and his whole face lights up when he sees me my all my friends say it's pretty obvious that he likes me but I'm a little shy in the sense that I won't make the first move.Well this other girl in my class has had her eyes on him and while I was sitting not to far away she went over and asked him if he wanted to hangout at first he said he had plans but eventually gave in and they were talking for the rest of class.I know I have no right to get mad because he was never my boyfriend but how do I act now around him? Do I act the same,do I act like it bothers me?If I act like I don't care he might think I'm not interested at all.