Thanks for making this video, Jenn! So relatable and I’m glad we’re talking more about what being on social media does to our minds. Everything was relatable esp the pressure to make everything content - for example even being on vacation was overwhelming bc there was so much opportunity for content vs. just wanting to enjoy the moment. I’ve let go of trying to make everything an “aesthetic” moment and my camera roll is now filled with unaesthetic photos that I don’t post & are purely for my memory 😂
it always amazes me how you seem to discuss the exact topics i’m struggling with right when i need it 🥹 thank you for so many years of comfort & insights! ❤️
Wow. This video truly resonates with me in a way that I think will impact me forever. I've looked up to you immensely for years and oftentimes I feel like I'm following your footsteps - you always mention that at the peak of your career, your mental health and self-image were at their lowest. As my social media career grows and I reach so many crazy milestones, I can feel myself struggling more and more with all of the topics you touch upon: work/life balance, the desire for external validation, imposter syndrome, etc. Your content and insight always reminds me to take a step back and actively work on these mental traps before they consume me further. Thank you for this ❤
I'm so grateful that you made this video ❤ Seeing creators that "made it to the mountain top" and come back to tell the truth about it is so beautiful. It helps us calibrate our mindset, habits, and content to withstand the long game. Thank you Jenn. Your videos always feel like a rich, warm, home-cooked meal 😋💕
Jenn! Is writing a memoir or any book in your long-term plan by any chance? I love it when you create thought-provoking and reflective content like this, and I have always admired your communication skills. I would love to have a book in hand that contains more of your insights about life, arts and humanity
Paused at 6:15: Social media inflates your self importance. It makes you feel like everyone is waiting on you…waiting for you to post. Yessss, so true. I actually have loved your life commentary/ self-reflection videos lately. I think it’s my favorite content you produce. Beauty and Brains 😊
I completely relate to everything you said. I realized recently that my RUclips channels don’t reflect enough of my inner world so I’m going to overhaul my content. I’ve also had to work really diligently in therapy to let go of the negative comments about me online. It’s a rewarding job but it can also be incredibly toxic.
It's definitely a process to be able to create work that truly reflect what's inside our minds, so I hope you're not being too hard on yourself. Sending you my love! xx
Thanks for sharing this Kait! I just started putting myself out there online and the fear of negative comments is what’s stopped me. I commend you for putting yourself out there and taking the time to block those negative thoughts in your being… and know that for every one bad comment you get there are more likely hundreds if not thousands who truly look up to you, not the least of which is because you put yourself out there when not many will. Preaching to myself here as I aim to shoot and edit more video. Rock on sister!! 🤘🏽
@@checreates You got this!! Like Jenn mentioned, our brains have a negativity bias so we may get 300 positive comments in a day but 1 negative comment, and we'll inevitably focus on the negative. I've had to work REALLY hard on changing my brain through therapy and it's been massively helpful in processing hate comments and dms. You can do it! It's hard at times but so worth it. Ultimately, you don't want to look back on your life with regret that you didn't do something purely out of fear.
can we talk about when youtube released the "update" to the studio dashboard THAT RANKS HOW WELL YOUR NEW VIDEO IS DOING COMPARED TO THE LAST??? the way i've spent hours trying to turn that feature off. as if comparing your channel to others' isn't bad, now i gotta compare myself to...mySELF? enough already 🤣😂
I feeeel you! I purposefully try to avoid my YT Studio app after an upload. Too much unnecessary data! Also, unrelated, but I think every single one of your videos are works of art!!! x
"Don't be afraid to take your time.. really simmer on it because depth takes time & patience... and honestly, in this digital world that's rapidly becoming this dumpster filled with ill-prepared processed microwave content, be that warm, nourishing, homemade meal straight from the oven that's perfectly seasoned and marinated because that's what humans crave." my girl, that's a mfin BAR. *mic drop* i am so appreciative of your analysis & thoughts on this current digital age and i'm right there with you.
Jenn, I love the kind of "influencer" you've become! Nowadays, I find myself mentioning you more often when talking with friends because you're the only youtuber I watch, whose content, I feel, is actually relevant right now, and who is reminding me to be more mindful and reflective. I also recently got into reading again, partly because I read March's curlupclub book "Stolen Focus" :) Thank you for taking the time to share what you're passionate about!
this was so eloquently said, jenn! as someone who's just starting out I struggle with feeling inauthentic in my life when I'm filming / vs inauthentic in my videos when I'm living life on camera, thanks for sharing your relationship with this so many years into your career !!
Jenn, I've been following you since just before your viral "how I lost 10 pounds" video.. just turned 20 then, and today I just turned 30. I felt like I grew a lot with you - through your thrifting days, fashion days, then your journey of self-love and self-acceptance, through your relationships, then motherhood.. if anything I'm always very thankful you're so honest and transparent in your videos. I relate to everything you said in this video. You make me feel seen, heard and normal. At the start you inspired me to dress better, and now you inspire me to just... be okay being me. To be okay with every aspect of me because we're just human, and humans are downright COMPLEX. Thank you for sharing your honest opinions with this video!
This all resonated with me and I'm not even a content creator. Social media definitely has its dark sides and it's easy to spiral into these traps if we don't have self-esteem. That was my biggest takeaway. Like we truly need to wholeheartedly love and accept ourselves. Both the good, the bad, and the ugly. This also reminds me of the line, "I stood for nothing, so I fell for everything," which is true. It's actually better to stand for something, even though it may not be a popular opinion, but at least having principles helps us stay grounded, firm and resilient to whatever this world chooses to give us.
I think that’s why it’s so relatable, right? My hypothesis is a lot of people are in denial this applies to them because they’re not “content creators”. False!! Anyone on social media needs to hear this
Jenn! I'm a mom now (my baby's only a couple months apart from Lennon) and what I love about your channel is that I feel like I'm growing with you. Everything that you choose to share from your struggles to the highlights, I see you growing and it's inspiring! The lessons you learn in therapy, the boundaries you're creating, the meals you cook, the way you try to be a better partner in marriage, the books you read, the growth in your mindset and the way you view life, it's just all so great! You're peeling through your layers of who you are and just figuring it out like the rest of us! I genuinely feel like when I watch your videos, I don't feel like I'm watching content or watching an influencer but just feels like I'm listening to a friend talk about what's going on in her life. I'm sure there's so much that goes behind the scenes and we do appreciate that effort, but we love that you're being you as you weave through the complexities of life and deep questions like "what moved me?". Thank you for being you, Jenn! :)
exactly the video I needed today, feeling all dull and comparing my ideal self with my current mindset. Thank you Jenn :) Have been watching you for the last ten years and grew up to you becoming this strong person you are today
Jenn I think you would like the book "The Chaos Machine: The Inside Story of How Social Media Rewired Our Minds and Our World". It talks about how social media exploits vulnerabilities in human psychology to promote extreme emotions and extreme actions. A quote: "Social apps hijack a compulsion-a need to connect-that can be even more powerful than hunger or greed." Definitely the dark side of social media. I learned so much from it!
Hey Jenn💗I recently just deleted (like full-on deleted) my Instagram account because I felt like I was putting pressure on myself to be perfect and make everything about content. So hearing you talk about this makes me feel like I'm not crazy or alone. Thank you for opening up on this topic 💖
Wow, this hit right on time! I've been off from social media for 2 weeks now, and it has brought so much peace. However, I'm a business owner and understand the significance of social media and just trying to find balance. Thanks Jenn for your transparency on this matter and keep taking your time. Life is beautiful that way ✨️
I remember you saying in an older video how you feel like you can’t just enjoy a view because you feel like you have to film it or take a picture, and after hearing you say that I have always thought about that
Thank you for being so blunt about this topic! I’ve always wondered about the distorting effects of social media on those like yourself who have a career in it. So it’s great to see your open acknowledgment of it. :) Based on everything you’ve said, even though you say you love this job so much, would you ever remove yourself from this world completely and have a different career, for the benefit of your mental health?
Thanks for watching, Erica. Yes, I've been looking into other careers outside of this one, however I think I'd still enjoy updating this channel periodically for my personal pleasure and expression. (:
really interesting topic! i want to share some thoughts to add to the conversation. when i was younger i overshared online because i wanted to be authentic and i thought that was the way. this actually made me uncomfortable and in some ways unsafe too. as i grew up i realised something important for myself and i decided that nobody is entitled to the entire me or the whole picture. i don't owe it to anyone to share every little thing about myself (which would be impossible anyway) in order to still be authentic to what i'm creating
I like what you said about the viewers not seeing all the complexities and sides of a content creator. Over the years I started to unfollow contents that seem way too polished, too "perfect" because I realised that not only is it not them, it's definitely not their reality, but also because it feels like a robot posting rather than a human being with eccentricities, thoughts and feelings. But on the other hand, I would totally understand the will to share content as a brand or not wanting to share too much of oneself to the world. There are few content creators who can share constant wisdom and interesting reflections as you over the years. Thank you!
Thank you for this video, I’m not an active social media user and sometimes it makes me feel like I’m losing friends. But I agree with all the downsides of social media you mentioned, I dont feel the urge to share anything because I dont think anyone needs to know about what Im doing seeing or thinking. However most of my peers use this to maintain connections such as by replying stories or whatever. I just feel like theres a struggle between wanting to maintain friendships but refusing to be dragged into the social media trap. I don’t know whether I should just go with the flow or continue to be me and see how many friends would still bother to contact me. Your video has helped me rethink social media because it was built for connection, now that its aim is clear I kinda want to be more active on it while being aware of why I use it.
It really is too much data! Even as someone who generally feels calm and confident, and bases my judgment on internal measures, I have found the social media analytics (from creator side) to be kind of like a false promise of objectivity. Just because they’re numbers doesn’t mean it’s any more valid. At the end of the day it’s still a piece of external validation. Jenn I’ve been following your content for a decade now (like on and off, because we are humans and interest varies ❤), and this video really spoke to me. Best “how to RUclips” video ever. Depth takes time.
This video speaks the truth about downsides of social media and it means a lot coming from you as the content creator. You’re one of the few youtubers I still tune into and get excited to listen to bc you always have value add content to share. “You become what you spend your time on”
But I am really waiting for your release every week and I get down when you didn't last week I kinda feel you update every two weeks hahah I wouldn't mind watching your release every day girl! You really kindle me. I just reached the threshold of 20 and I am a total mess. I don't know who I am what I want what life I want but seeing your journey gives me a gleam of hope that with positivity and time I can only grow and glow.
Content creators are really hardworking. A lot of them try their best to be “perfect”. That’s exhausting. And honestly, I feel that eventually messes with their mental health which eventually they disappear from social media. They would either come back as what we think is a new person (when really a lot of them come back as wanting to be themselves), or they don’t come back at all.
I think this is an interesting and important conversation to have. Nowadays it is practically impossible to escape social media, and the implicit messages shared by those with bigger platforms aren't always the healthiest. I think you send a great point by encouraging people to be mindful in their social media consumption. There are way too many people with platforms who spread harmful messages, and it times even fuel their audience's dependence on content consumption. Great video, as always!
I’ve been watching your videos since I was 11 years old in 2010. You are the only reason I visit RUclips anymore! I’m not sure how to say this without sounding naive - I don’t put people on a pedestal. I know what I see online isn’t the full truth and that people show you what they want you to see. That being said, I’ve always related not to your life really but more so your choices, your struggles, and your perspective on things. I’ve respected you as a person and admired what you did choose to show us. Even through the screen it is very clear that you are a real person full of soul and of higher-order intelligence and thinking. From where I stand the essence of who you are is beautiful, real, and just freaking human. What you have to say, edited or not, flawed or curated, is of value and many of us fellow humans continue to appreciate it. Much love to you and your family. x
22 year old here reallyyyy struggling with self-love and self-esteem (especially after a recent breakup).☹️ I’d love a video on your advice on how you started building those for yourself Jenn!!
Just wanted to say that you've been killing it with your videos lately (these thumbnails!!!!!), thank you so much for continuing to share your journey with us 💌
Love this as a commentary to consumption of online social lives. We all know it's not exactly or always the healthiest relationship, but the little insights into consuming it in a healthier way is always the bit I need to hear, or to be reminded of 😌
Been watching LITERALLY since like that Tumblr trend with the taped mouth and the notecards, like omg. I think your growth as a person has been fascinating and it's so crazy to watch you be such a 180 diff person yet still in many ways the exact same. 💕 I think you are way too hard on just yourself because at the end of the day, youtube and socials from like 2018 to dramageddon were just very VERY synthetic. I think it was jus expected like everyone thought influencers were the new celebs, and everyone with a platform was responding to the pressure of being like the next Jennifer Anniston lol. It's so interesting that everyone in that line is nervous to meet you and wants you to like them but you on the flip side were nervous to meet them and wanted them to like you 😭 universal problem
I've been here since you were thrifting, and I have to say: THANK YOU! 💕 This is so important! It's impossible to live up to the online, edited version of ourselves & ofc most of the time we only show what we think is the best version of us, but tbh these are the kind of videos that really make me proud to be part of this community. Thank you for sharing this and for inspiring me to stop editing my online self 🙌🏼
It was really refreshing watching a content creator talk about this topic. Social media is great, but with moderation. It really can be addictive and since it is still something fairly new, we have yet to see the long term consequences. We have forgotten how to live life before everything we: did/saw/wore/liked/shared/ate/drank/went/thought/etc. had be "InstaWorthy". We pay more attention to our screens than to those around us. As you shared, we do compare ourselves and accept the validation we receive online. Idk. I just continue to wonder, where will this all lead us to?
I think the best part of this video was when you mentioned that you stutter. I stutter and I know how difficult it can be. Honestly, this was really hard for me to deal with throughout my K-12 education until I started college and pageantry. I always love watching your videos and I feel like I can connect with you better!
ah everything about this ! You worded it perfectly ! I don't have a large following like you do but i've been posting for years, and people never talk about how much creators/influencers compare their current self to their past self. I thought I was the only one for so long. Also editing and seeing your face all the time brings out insecurities you didn't know you had. Thank you for posting this !
Jenn. I’ve been watching you for over a decade now and I have loved seeing you grow and evolve over time. For many of us, it’s like we’re growing up beside you, you being the big sister and knowing what to say and how to say it in a way that perfectly explains how a lot of us are feeling. Thank you so much for being you and sharing all the different parts of what makes you, you 🤍
I still remember the first time I got a video suggestion from this channel. It was your pregnancy journey- I was instantly hooked, it was so relatable. It's been so satisfying to follow the channel cause not only entertaining but it's also so wholesome, yes I said wholesome❤
Oh Jenn, this video is so helpful it’s just what I needed to hear. Being on RUclips and trying to figure out what I need to do to please the algorithm is exhausting, niching down, keywords, trends etc not to mention keeping up with all the other social apps can really take a toll on your mental health. I will definitely be looking back on this video to remind myself I am in control.
I'm happy you found this video helpful. Just like every career, this job has the ability to grind the spirit out of you too. What helps me is to remind myself why I love creating and then channeling that passion into my projects again. x
I got here from Alyssa Lenore's storys and I'm in shock at all the connections you've made. I'm not a big content creator, but I have in my veins a need to share relevant or interesting things and your video expresses a lot of things that I feel mainly deciding what to record to be a vlog or when to live in the moment without having to record or photograph something. Your thoughts are excellent Jenn! Thank you and I'm now your new follower. 🤩
SO HELPFUL - I love how intentional your tips are! I want to start implementing being intentional to my life more! I feel like I'm in the phase of caring too much about external validation and need to work on myself. My goal in live is to be a working actress so I definitely need to do that before I become a sad girl in a big house!!!!
It’s so interesting how social media can affect us in a very subtle way. Last week I decided to be off social media and I still had the urge to share or know what was happening on Instagram. I did feel like I was missing out and started questioning why I have so much FOMO. At the same time, I was starting to think more of things I’ve been wanting to do and to go for them, like my attention was able to focus on things that social media will usually distract me or make me forget about it. I do like sharing on social media, but I am learning to enjoy my life out of the screen even more.
i really appreciate that you take your time to make videos about a variety of topics that get us to ~think! I kind of like that you don't vlog everything or do day in lives as much, kind of feels like you put in a lot of effort into your videos and really encourage us to ~think~ rather just appreciate or whatnot (tho I do appreciate, haha). i guess I like that you curate the content you share a bit feels like ur vids are another level for other vloggers. an OG! thank you! :D ^_^
I think what you said about the self-esteem/seeking validation/success part is really interesting and can be applied to anyone! No matter what career path or life choices people make, if they don't have the self esteem and love for themselves while always seeking only external validation, no matter what success they have, it won't be enough. People have to learn how to love themselves and believe in themselves before they can accept any validation from others. Love that you're sharing this side and hopefully more people can recognize not to idolize others' lives and can love their own path no matter what it may be!
I absolutely loved this video! I’ve been a fan for years and have loved watching you grow and change and see what new or different content you create! I also loved the tips you shared. A while ago I turned off my notifications. I realized how addicted I became to seeing everyone a notification would pop up if someone liked my photo or messaged me. I definitely want to try out your tip about taking a deep breath before opening an app to see if you really want to go on it! Sending you all the love, Jenn!! Thanks for being so vulnerable and open and sharing what you’ve learned along the way! ❤❤❤
Omg Jenn. This was my favorite video of yours. I didn’t know you when you were doing fashion (not my thing) but deep insight 1000% is. I thank you for sharing the dark side with us - it feels so meta, in the best way, and no one is delivering this truth sizzling hot the way you are. I can’t wait for more of your thoughtfulness!! Also, my fav part was when you looked at yourself unfiltered and smiled… so sweet :) - ché
jenn, this is such an amazing video and i might even just bookmark it somewhere to replay it again and again, especially parts about comparing and imposter syndrome. It's so hard especially when you just want to be a version of yourself that you can be proud of and live up to others expectations. Such a beautiful reminder that we are all human and even the people with the most successful and inspiring careers I can think of, like yourself, have gone through these same challenges. 💗 much love, I barely ever comment but I've been watching you since you started and you've helped me and I'm sure thousands of others to work on their mental health and my anxiety came a long way because of you encouraging me to do the work 😊 much love, amazing video as always! 💕 My favorite videos from you lately are the ones where you just sit down and talk, I love it!
Oh Jenn, you just have a way to articulate your thoughts so well, thanks for chatting to us on such an important topic. Just wanted you to know how comforting your words/presence have always been to me over the last decade, sending you lots of love
A really thought provoking video! I commented with criticism in one of your recent videos saying things feel rigid and too structured but hearing your thoughts on vlogs and preventing seeing life through the lens makes me understand that the rigidness of your videos comes from the professionalism you put into your work because this is your job! It’s not simply sharing your life like everyone does but with your years of experience, of course brings wisdom on why you do things a certain way.
This is very helpful, especially the part about sharing all sides of yourself (that you feel comfortable with) and not having to find a niche for your content like every single branding guru says to do. Thanks for sharing!!
I’ve been watching your videos since I was a kid and you were (and still are) one of my biggest idols that got me into fashion. Even now as an adult, I can relate to everything you’re saying. Thank you ❤
Loved hearing your thoughts on this topic! After being addicted to external validation for most of my life, I've been trying to train myself to lean into internal validation, but it's a continuous process. I'm working on a book of self-reflection exercises, and it's such a DELIGHT when I'm immersed in the creative process... but then I think about sharing it on social media or how it would be received, and OMG my fear of judgment and imposter syndrome are intense. I do want to release the book, but I also want to protect it (and myself). I'm trying to remember that I can't control other people's opinions of me, and to not put too much weight on these opinions, whether they be negative or positive. 💛
I would like to be able to be a business woman, be rich, self confident and sufficent, having a good relationship with food-body-mind-gym, making people envious of my life. Showing I don't need family or others, that I'm someone, worth and gorgeous. Having a good body without having to have making efforts... But eating disorder make it hard and even worse day after day, especially after losing everything in a short time. I see no futur. I don't know who i am even if I imagine something very vaguely. Only memories of 2y ago where all was ok when child (comfort, warmth, loved, family (feeling to belong) , protected, living) But no one can help me..... Doctor gave up and people onlne like you don't help us even when we ask ...... sadly. Today I got the news I can have a heart attack at any moment but I'm not even scared and look upon it even... So hard the ED's pestering my life is and that I see no futur, no purpose, nothing...... Yeah I know, no one care right hahaha ? You won't help me too like others ^^
Someone who loves to document things, I've been finding myself trying to record every glimpse and moment and things that I do but I also somewhat miss the times when I would just enjoy the moment. Good for you for finding that balance. I'm still having a hard time doing so.... but yeah I just need to find my own balance.
trying to come up with a long thank you note for this video because c'mon... I'll just say, you're my favorite girlpop that just says it how it is🫡🧡 thank you Jenn!
"the convenience of phone camera has brought us back to the mindfulness of our life. Why we take those pictures?..." Why we spend so much time on photo editing rather than enjoying the moment!!
Thanks for the tips! I've just started taking my social media seriously and establishing boundaries, like certain vlog days or content days, has really helped. Since you mentioned the notifications tip, I've since turned mine off! I'm hoping that helps. It's so easy to get completely sucked in these days
“In this digital world that’s quickly becoming a dumpster of ill prepared processed microwave content- be that warm nourishing homemade meal straight from the oven that’s been perfectly seasoned and marinated because that’s humans crave- that’s what we fucking need” I resonated so so hard to this ❤️
Something that have always made me stay constant in you channel is the way i connect to you and what you stand for, thanks for being so open and speak about this things. Love you Jenn! ❤ following you since clothes encounters 🫰🏽
I am actually relieved… for over a decade I’ve been trying to be an influencer because I felt that I have a huge passion for beauty and fashion, it meant to me that I HAVE to be a creator. But I was never successful. Instantly I felt fake and needed external validation which I immediately felt so off and not myself. It was on and off for so long and eventually I was like no, this is not for me. Instead I used that energetic passion to become a makeup artist and fashion designer. I am still into posting my interest and daily life but gone are the days trying to be a creator. I’m living in the moment and doing my best to be proud of my occupation. I really appreciate your honesty ❤ and seriously naming the toxicity of social media that nobody mentions. I still love your videos, you and your ideas from the past till now and I can see the growth and changes, which we also need to see to grow cause that’s REAL life! Thank you for being a real influencer. 🎉
your hair is adorable in this video! Could you do a hair tutorial ❤❤. Also love this video and you Jenn, always appreciate your authenticity and depth as a human being. Sending love xx
Jenn hello. This is the first time that I leave comments on your post. :) I have always appreciated your effort to make this type of video. In particular, I love the way you talk with great vocab and ideas. I often refer to your video to study English too.
Hiya, as someone how just started my own youtube channel, this video truly resonates with me. I think it's wonderful you are sharing these important messages to the young generation, exactly what is need. X
Wow Thank you so much Jenn for this share that actually is truly refreshing. I hear a lot of things about social media, on social media and it sounds very much the same, like you should do this to succeed on the gram, or do that to go viral, or to make a nice video... But can we just take a moment, breathe, disconnect and think quietly to make sure we feel good before stepping fully into this digital on-going world ? I personally work in a agency as a content writer, and sometimes I feel I'm just microwaving content. We freaking need to put nourishing content in the world, that feeds us truly our brain and spirit. And I am planning to do only that in a short time, and quit my job completely.
Thanks Jenn for sharing this video, truly appreciate the knowledge and the opinions that you have on different things in life. I really enjoy watching self-development contents, feel like i can grow with u!
Thanks for making this video, Jenn! So relatable and I’m glad we’re talking more about what being on social media does to our minds. Everything was relatable esp the pressure to make everything content - for example even being on vacation was overwhelming bc there was so much opportunity for content vs. just wanting to enjoy the moment. I’ve let go of trying to make everything an “aesthetic” moment and my camera roll is now filled with unaesthetic photos that I don’t post & are purely for my memory 😂
it always amazes me how you seem to discuss the exact topics i’m struggling with right when i need it 🥹 thank you for so many years of comfort & insights! ❤️
Awww thank you, Imane.
hi poki ^-^
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I’ve been watching you since I was in middle school. Now I am about to graduate college. Thanks for being transparent. You always make my day Jenn🖤
WOW! FIRST OFF, congratulations!! Secondly, thank you for your continued support throughout the years! xx
Omg same with me 😳 I think from 17 or smth and in one week I’m 29🥲😄
@@imjennim Thanks Jenn🥺 You are a gem. Please take care of your health (physically and mentally). We love you ❤️
Love this Jenn! Well spoken
@@MichelleRodriguez-sj5cu Does Lizzo follow Jenns diet regime?
Wow. This video truly resonates with me in a way that I think will impact me forever. I've looked up to you immensely for years and oftentimes I feel like I'm following your footsteps - you always mention that at the peak of your career, your mental health and self-image were at their lowest. As my social media career grows and I reach so many crazy milestones, I can feel myself struggling more and more with all of the topics you touch upon: work/life balance, the desire for external validation, imposter syndrome, etc. Your content and insight always reminds me to take a step back and actively work on these mental traps before they consume me further. Thank you for this ❤
I'm so grateful that you made this video ❤ Seeing creators that "made it to the mountain top" and come back to tell the truth about it is so beautiful. It helps us calibrate our mindset, habits, and content to withstand the long game. Thank you Jenn. Your videos always feel like a rich, warm, home-cooked meal 😋💕
Aww thank you for watching and for the sweet feedback. Sending you all my love! x
Jenn! Is writing a memoir or any book in your long-term plan by any chance? I love it when you create thought-provoking and reflective content like this, and I have always admired your communication skills. I would love to have a book in hand that contains more of your insights about life, arts and humanity
Thanks Edel! I write every day and would love to write a memoir down the line. I s'pose it's still being written as I live my life. (:
Jenn hi 👋🏽💫 love these project style videos on your life experiences ✨
Paused at 6:15: Social media inflates your self importance. It makes you feel like everyone is waiting on you…waiting for you to post.
Yessss, so true. I actually have loved your life commentary/ self-reflection videos lately. I think it’s my favorite content you produce. Beauty and Brains 😊
I completely relate to everything you said. I realized recently that my RUclips channels don’t reflect enough of my inner world so I’m going to overhaul my content. I’ve also had to work really diligently in therapy to let go of the negative comments about me online. It’s a rewarding job but it can also be incredibly toxic.
It's definitely a process to be able to create work that truly reflect what's inside our minds, so I hope you're not being too hard on yourself. Sending you my love! xx
Thanks for sharing this Kait! I just started putting myself out there online and the fear of negative comments is what’s stopped me. I commend you for putting yourself out there and taking the time to block those negative thoughts in your being… and know that for every one bad comment you get there are more likely hundreds if not thousands who truly look up to you, not the least of which is because you put yourself out there when not many will. Preaching to myself here as I aim to shoot and edit more video. Rock on sister!! 🤘🏽
@@checreates You got this!! Like Jenn mentioned, our brains have a negativity bias so we may get 300 positive comments in a day but 1 negative comment, and we'll inevitably focus on the negative. I've had to work REALLY hard on changing my brain through therapy and it's been massively helpful in processing hate comments and dms. You can do it! It's hard at times but so worth it. Ultimately, you don't want to look back on your life with regret that you didn't do something purely out of fear.
@@imjennim Sending love right back!
can we talk about when youtube released the "update" to the studio dashboard THAT RANKS HOW WELL YOUR NEW VIDEO IS DOING COMPARED TO THE LAST??? the way i've spent hours trying to turn that feature off. as if comparing your channel to others' isn't bad, now i gotta compare myself to...mySELF? enough already 🤣😂
I feeeel you! I purposefully try to avoid my YT Studio app after an upload. Too much unnecessary data! Also, unrelated, but I think every single one of your videos are works of art!!! x
"Don't be afraid to take your time.. really simmer on it because depth takes time & patience... and honestly, in this digital world that's rapidly becoming this dumpster filled with ill-prepared processed microwave content, be that warm, nourishing, homemade meal straight from the oven that's perfectly seasoned and marinated because that's what humans crave."
my girl, that's a mfin BAR. *mic drop*
i am so appreciative of your analysis & thoughts on this current digital age and i'm right there with you.
Hahahahahahah thank youuuu! I MEANT EVERY WORD!!! x
❤I like this part best as well!
Jenn, I love the kind of "influencer" you've become! Nowadays, I find myself mentioning you more often when talking with friends because you're the only youtuber I watch, whose content, I feel, is actually relevant right now, and who is reminding me to be more mindful and reflective. I also recently got into reading again, partly because I read March's curlupclub book "Stolen Focus" :) Thank you for taking the time to share what you're passionate about!
This video deserves way more likes
this was so eloquently said, jenn! as someone who's just starting out I struggle with feeling inauthentic in my life when I'm filming / vs inauthentic in my videos when I'm living life on camera, thanks for sharing your relationship with this so many years into your career !!
Jenn, I've been following you since just before your viral "how I lost 10 pounds" video.. just turned 20 then, and today I just turned 30. I felt like I grew a lot with you - through your thrifting days, fashion days, then your journey of self-love and self-acceptance, through your relationships, then motherhood.. if anything I'm always very thankful you're so honest and transparent in your videos. I relate to everything you said in this video.
You make me feel seen, heard and normal. At the start you inspired me to dress better, and now you inspire me to just... be okay being me. To be okay with every aspect of me because we're just human, and humans are downright COMPLEX. Thank you for sharing your honest opinions with this video!
This all resonated with me and I'm not even a content creator. Social media definitely has its dark sides and it's easy to spiral into these traps if we don't have self-esteem. That was my biggest takeaway. Like we truly need to wholeheartedly love and accept ourselves. Both the good, the bad, and the ugly. This also reminds me of the line, "I stood for nothing, so I fell for everything," which is true. It's actually better to stand for something, even though it may not be a popular opinion, but at least having principles helps us stay grounded, firm and resilient to whatever this world chooses to give us.
I think that’s why it’s so relatable, right? My hypothesis is a lot of people are in denial this applies to them because they’re not “content creators”. False!! Anyone on social media needs to hear this
Jenn! I'm a mom now (my baby's only a couple months apart from Lennon) and what I love about your channel is that I feel like I'm growing with you. Everything that you choose to share from your struggles to the highlights, I see you growing and it's inspiring! The lessons you learn in therapy, the boundaries you're creating, the meals you cook, the way you try to be a better partner in marriage, the books you read, the growth in your mindset and the way you view life, it's just all so great! You're peeling through your layers of who you are and just figuring it out like the rest of us! I genuinely feel like when I watch your videos, I don't feel like I'm watching content or watching an influencer but just feels like I'm listening to a friend talk about what's going on in her life. I'm sure there's so much that goes behind the scenes and we do appreciate that effort, but we love that you're being you as you weave through the complexities of life and deep questions like "what moved me?". Thank you for being you, Jenn! :)
all is factual this is why I love watching you! :)
This was so so relatable and exactly what I needed, thank you so much for this video Jenn!❤
exactly the video I needed today, feeling all dull and comparing my ideal self with my current mindset. Thank you Jenn :) Have been watching you for the last ten years and grew up to you becoming this strong person you are today
Jenn I think you would like the book "The Chaos Machine: The Inside Story of How Social Media Rewired Our Minds and Our World". It talks about how social media exploits vulnerabilities in human psychology to promote extreme emotions and extreme actions. A quote: "Social apps hijack a compulsion-a need to connect-that can be even more powerful than hunger or greed." Definitely the dark side of social media. I learned so much from it!
Thanks for this video Jenn. Really really helpful and insightful to hear your journey over the years!
Hey Jenn💗I recently just deleted (like full-on deleted) my Instagram account because I felt like I was putting pressure on myself to be perfect and make everything about content. So hearing you talk about this makes me feel like I'm not crazy or alone. Thank you for opening up on this topic 💖
Finally someone said that appearing very relatable or real on social media is ALSO just another branding strategy 😂 the irony!
been following you since the og days! thank you for sharing your journey
Wow, this hit right on time! I've been off from social media for 2 weeks now, and it has brought so much peace. However, I'm a business owner and understand the significance of social media and just trying to find balance. Thanks Jenn for your transparency on this matter and keep taking your time. Life is beautiful that way ✨️
I remember you saying in an older video how you feel like you can’t just enjoy a view because you feel like you have to film it or take a picture, and after hearing you say that I have always thought about that
Thank you for being so blunt about this topic! I’ve always wondered about the distorting effects of social media on those like yourself who have a career in it. So it’s great to see your open acknowledgment of it. :)
Based on everything you’ve said, even though you say you love this job so much, would you ever remove yourself from this world completely and have a different career, for the benefit of your mental health?
Thanks for watching, Erica. Yes, I've been looking into other careers outside of this one, however I think I'd still enjoy updating this channel periodically for my personal pleasure and expression. (:
Thank you so much for always being so real 🥺 truly resonate
really interesting topic! i want to share some thoughts to add to the conversation. when i was younger i overshared online because i wanted to be authentic and i thought that was the way. this actually made me uncomfortable and in some ways unsafe too. as i grew up i realised something important for myself and i decided that nobody is entitled to the entire me or the whole picture. i don't owe it to anyone to share every little thing about myself (which would be impossible anyway) in order to still be authentic to what i'm creating
I like what you said about the viewers not seeing all the complexities and sides of a content creator. Over the years I started to unfollow contents that seem way too polished, too "perfect" because I realised that not only is it not them, it's definitely not their reality, but also because it feels like a robot posting rather than a human being with eccentricities, thoughts and feelings.
But on the other hand, I would totally understand the will to share content as a brand or not wanting to share too much of oneself to the world.
There are few content creators who can share constant wisdom and interesting reflections as you over the years. Thank you!
Thank you for this video, I’m not an active social media user and sometimes it makes me feel like I’m losing friends. But I agree with all the downsides of social media you mentioned, I dont feel the urge to share anything because I dont think anyone needs to know about what Im doing seeing or thinking. However most of my peers use this to maintain connections such as by replying stories or whatever. I just feel like theres a struggle between wanting to maintain friendships but refusing to be dragged into the social media trap. I don’t know whether I should just go with the flow or continue to be me and see how many friends would still bother to contact me. Your video has helped me rethink social media because it was built for connection, now that its aim is clear I kinda want to be more active on it while being aware of why I use it.
so eloquent and articulate; really enjoyed this creative video, thanks Jenn
It really is too much data! Even as someone who generally feels calm and confident, and bases my judgment on internal measures, I have found the social media analytics (from creator side) to be kind of like a false promise of objectivity. Just because they’re numbers doesn’t mean it’s any more valid. At the end of the day it’s still a piece of external validation.
Jenn I’ve been following your content for a decade now (like on and off, because we are humans and interest varies ❤), and this video really spoke to me. Best “how to RUclips” video ever. Depth takes time.
This video speaks the truth about downsides of social media and it means a lot coming from you as the content creator. You’re one of the few youtubers I still tune into and get excited to listen to bc you always have value add content to share. “You become what you spend your time on”
this video is gold!! thank you Jen, I definitely needed to hear all of this today 💗
But I am really waiting for your release every week and I get down when you didn't last week I kinda feel you update every two weeks hahah I wouldn't mind watching your release every day girl! You really kindle me. I just reached the threshold of 20 and I am a total mess. I don't know who I am what I want what life I want but seeing your journey gives me a gleam of hope that with positivity and time I can only grow and glow.
Content creators are really hardworking. A lot of them try their best to be “perfect”. That’s exhausting. And honestly, I feel that eventually messes with their mental health which eventually they disappear from social media. They would either come back as what we think is a new person (when really a lot of them come back as wanting to be themselves), or they don’t come back at all.
I think this is an interesting and important conversation to have. Nowadays it is practically impossible to escape social media, and the implicit messages shared by those with bigger platforms aren't always the healthiest. I think you send a great point by encouraging people to be mindful in their social media consumption. There are way too many people with platforms who spread harmful messages, and it times even fuel their audience's dependence on content consumption. Great video, as always!
I’ve been watching your videos since I was 11 years old in 2010. You are the only reason I visit RUclips anymore! I’m not sure how to say this without sounding naive - I don’t put people on a pedestal. I know what I see online isn’t the full truth and that people show you what they want you to see. That being said, I’ve always related not to your life really but more so your choices, your struggles, and your perspective on things. I’ve respected you as a person and admired what you did choose to show us. Even through the screen it is very clear that you are a real person full of soul and of higher-order intelligence and thinking. From where I stand the essence of who you are is beautiful, real, and just freaking human. What you have to say, edited or not, flawed or curated, is of value and many of us fellow humans continue to appreciate it. Much love to you and your family. x
Oh boy, this content is so relatable 😂 even for smaller RUclipsrs
22 year old here reallyyyy struggling with self-love and self-esteem (especially after a recent breakup).☹️ I’d love a video on your advice on how you started building those for yourself Jenn!!
Just wanted to say that you've been killing it with your videos lately (these thumbnails!!!!!), thank you so much for continuing to share your journey with us 💌
Love this as a commentary to consumption of online social lives. We all know it's not exactly or always the healthiest relationship, but the little insights into consuming it in a healthier way is always the bit I need to hear, or to be reminded of 😌
Yess, I feel like we all inherently know these truths, but just need a refresher! x
Been watching LITERALLY since like that Tumblr trend with the taped mouth and the notecards, like omg. I think your growth as a person has been fascinating and it's so crazy to watch you be such a 180 diff person yet still in many ways the exact same. 💕 I think you are way too hard on just yourself because at the end of the day, youtube and socials from like 2018 to dramageddon were just very VERY synthetic. I think it was jus expected like everyone thought influencers were the new celebs, and everyone with a platform was responding to the pressure of being like the next Jennifer Anniston lol. It's so interesting that everyone in that line is nervous to meet you and wants you to like them but you on the flip side were nervous to meet them and wanted them to like you 😭 universal problem
I've been here since you were thrifting, and I have to say: THANK YOU! 💕 This is so important! It's impossible to live up to the online, edited version of ourselves & ofc most of the time we only show what we think is the best version of us, but tbh these are the kind of videos that really make me proud to be part of this community. Thank you for sharing this and for inspiring me to stop editing my online self 🙌🏼
It was really refreshing watching a content creator talk about this topic.
Social media is great, but with moderation. It really can be addictive and since it is still something fairly new, we have yet to see the long term consequences.
We have forgotten how to live life before everything we: did/saw/wore/liked/shared/ate/drank/went/thought/etc. had be "InstaWorthy".
We pay more attention to our screens than to those around us.
As you shared, we do compare ourselves and accept the validation we receive online.
Idk. I just continue to wonder, where will this all lead us to?
I think the best part of this video was when you mentioned that you stutter. I stutter and I know how difficult it can be. Honestly, this was really hard for me to deal with throughout my K-12 education until I started college and pageantry. I always love watching your videos and I feel like I can connect with you better!
ah everything about this ! You worded it perfectly ! I don't have a large following like you do but i've been posting for years, and people never talk about how much creators/influencers compare their current self to their past self. I thought I was the only one for so long. Also editing and seeing your face all the time brings out insecurities you didn't know you had. Thank you for posting this !
Jenn. I’ve been watching you for over a decade now and I have loved seeing you grow and evolve over time. For many of us, it’s like we’re growing up beside you, you being the big sister and knowing what to say and how to say it in a way that perfectly explains how a lot of us are feeling. Thank you so much for being you and sharing all the different parts of what makes you, you 🤍
I still remember the first time I got a video suggestion from this channel. It was your pregnancy journey- I was instantly hooked, it was so relatable. It's been so satisfying to follow the channel cause not only entertaining but it's also so wholesome, yes I said wholesome❤
Soooo refreshing to have a vidéo that doesnt feel liké a forced product placement!!
You’re so real for this Jenn, thank you for sharing!! ❤
Filled with so much great advice. 👍
Oh Jenn, this video is so helpful it’s just what I needed to hear. Being on RUclips and trying to figure out what I need to do to please the algorithm is exhausting, niching down, keywords, trends etc not to mention keeping up with all the other social apps can really take a toll on your mental health. I will definitely be looking back on this video to remind myself I am in control.
I'm happy you found this video helpful. Just like every career, this job has the ability to grind the spirit out of you too. What helps me is to remind myself why I love creating and then channeling that passion into my projects again. x
I love this video, so thought-provoking, thank you Jenn!
I got here from Alyssa Lenore's storys and I'm in shock at all the connections you've made. I'm not a big content creator, but I have in my veins a need to share relevant or interesting things and your video expresses a lot of things that I feel mainly deciding what to record to be a vlog or when to live in the moment without having to record or photograph something. Your thoughts are excellent Jenn! Thank you and I'm now your new follower. 🤩
SO HELPFUL - I love how intentional your tips are! I want to start implementing being intentional to my life more!
I feel like I'm in the phase of caring too much about external validation and need to work on myself.
My goal in live is to be a working actress so I definitely need to do that before I become a sad girl in a big house!!!!
Love this one, and the diversity of your videos. It's quality - and your positive, smiling spirit can save a rainy day. 😊 ♥
I appreciate this video so much, Jenn! Thank you for always being so authentic. Side note: what's your nail color? It looks super cute for spring!
It’s so interesting how social media can affect us in a very subtle way. Last week I decided to be off social media and I still had the urge to share or know what was happening on Instagram. I did feel like I was missing out and started questioning why I have so much FOMO. At the same time, I was starting to think more of things I’ve been wanting to do and to go for them, like my attention was able to focus on things that social media will usually distract me or make me forget about it. I do like sharing on social media, but I am learning to enjoy my life out of the screen even more.
i really appreciate that you take your time to make videos about a variety of topics that get us to ~think! I kind of like that you don't vlog everything or do day in lives as much, kind of feels like you put in a lot of effort into your videos and really encourage us to ~think~ rather just appreciate or whatnot (tho I do appreciate, haha). i guess I like that you curate the content you share a bit feels like ur vids are another level for other vloggers. an OG! thank you! :D ^_^
I think what you said about the self-esteem/seeking validation/success part is really interesting and can be applied to anyone! No matter what career path or life choices people make, if they don't have the self esteem and love for themselves while always seeking only external validation, no matter what success they have, it won't be enough. People have to learn how to love themselves and believe in themselves before they can accept any validation from others. Love that you're sharing this side and hopefully more people can recognize not to idolize others' lives and can love their own path no matter what it may be!
I absolutely loved this video! I’ve been a fan for years and have loved watching you grow and change and see what new or different content you create!
I also loved the tips you shared. A while ago I turned off my notifications. I realized how addicted I became to seeing everyone a notification would pop up if someone liked my photo or messaged me. I definitely want to try out your tip about taking a deep breath before opening an app to see if you really want to go on it!
Sending you all the love, Jenn!! Thanks for being so vulnerable and open and sharing what you’ve learned along the way! ❤❤❤
I can listen to you talk all dayyy I love your take on everything and how eloquent and articulate you are. ❤
Eeep thanks Sandy! x
jenn, you’re such a breath of fresh air ❤ i adore you
Omg Jenn. This was my favorite video of yours. I didn’t know you when you were doing fashion (not my thing) but deep insight 1000% is. I thank you for sharing the dark side with us - it feels so meta, in the best way, and no one is delivering this truth sizzling hot the way you are. I can’t wait for more of your thoughtfulness!! Also, my fav part was when you looked at yourself unfiltered and smiled… so sweet :) - ché
jenn, this is such an amazing video and i might even just bookmark it somewhere to replay it again and again, especially parts about comparing and imposter syndrome. It's so hard especially when you just want to be a version of yourself that you can be proud of and live up to others expectations. Such a beautiful reminder that we are all human and even the people with the most successful and inspiring careers I can think of, like yourself, have gone through these same challenges. 💗 much love, I barely ever comment but I've been watching you since you started and you've helped me and I'm sure thousands of others to work on their mental health and my anxiety came a long way because of you encouraging me to do the work 😊 much love, amazing video as always! 💕 My favorite videos from you lately are the ones where you just sit down and talk, I love it!
Oh Jenn, you just have a way to articulate your thoughts so well, thanks for chatting to us on such an important topic. Just wanted you to know how comforting your words/presence have always been to me over the last decade, sending you lots of love
Fantastic discussion Jenn. I hope you're well 🥰 💗
A really thought provoking video! I commented with criticism in one of your recent videos saying things feel rigid and too structured but hearing your thoughts on vlogs and preventing seeing life through the lens makes me understand that the rigidness of your videos comes from the professionalism you put into your work because this is your job! It’s not simply sharing your life like everyone does but with your years of experience, of course brings wisdom on why you do things a certain way.
I love this comment so much!!
Yes it's true I'm always waiting for your video to post😊😊❤❤
This is very helpful, especially the part about sharing all sides of yourself (that you feel comfortable with) and not having to find a niche for your content like every single branding guru says to do. Thanks for sharing!!
def resonated with this, thank you for being vulnerable once again
I’ve been watching your videos since I was a kid and you were (and still are) one of my biggest idols that got me into fashion. Even now as an adult, I can relate to everything you’re saying. Thank you ❤
Loved hearing your thoughts on this topic! After being addicted to external validation for most of my life, I've been trying to train myself to lean into internal validation, but it's a continuous process. I'm working on a book of self-reflection exercises, and it's such a DELIGHT when I'm immersed in the creative process... but then I think about sharing it on social media or how it would be received, and OMG my fear of judgment and imposter syndrome are intense. I do want to release the book, but I also want to protect it (and myself). I'm trying to remember that I can't control other people's opinions of me, and to not put too much weight on these opinions, whether they be negative or positive. 💛
I would like to be able to be a business woman, be rich, self confident and sufficent, having a good relationship with food-body-mind-gym, making people envious of my life. Showing I don't need family or others, that I'm someone, worth and gorgeous. Having a good body without having to have making efforts... But eating disorder make it hard and even worse day after day, especially after losing everything in a short time. I see no futur. I don't know who i am even if I imagine something very vaguely. Only memories of 2y ago where all was ok when child (comfort, warmth, loved, family (feeling to belong) , protected, living)
But no one can help me..... Doctor gave up and people onlne like you don't help us even when we ask ...... sadly.
Today I got the news I can have a heart attack at any moment but I'm not even scared and look upon it even... So hard the ED's pestering my life is and that I see no futur, no purpose, nothing...... Yeah I know, no one care right hahaha ? You won't help me too like others ^^
Someone who loves to document things, I've been finding myself trying to record every glimpse and moment and things that I do but I also somewhat miss the times when I would just enjoy the moment. Good for you for finding that balance. I'm still having a hard time doing so.... but yeah I just need to find my own balance.
You’re always so smart and informative ❤️ I can’t relate to this post but I enjoy just listening in. 🤓 thanks Jen!!!!
Jenn, you're always so smart and you speak with such substance. Thank you for this video, definitely needed this today!
trying to come up with a long thank you note for this video because c'mon... I'll just say, you're my favorite girlpop that just says it how it is🫡🧡 thank you Jenn!
I wish I could talk like this. Thank you for making valuable content. I always learn something new from you each time. Have a blessed day!
I love your videos and I’m glad I watched before starting a RUclips channel. Also that Will be so great if you could start a podcast. Kisses ❤️
You are like my wise younger sister. I love your content and your evolving self. I learn so much from you. Thank you, Jen.
Thanks Jenn ❤ I would love to learn what's your life work balance schedule working on RUclips 🤓✨
"the convenience of phone camera has brought us back to the mindfulness of our life. Why we take those pictures?..." Why we spend so much time on photo editing rather than enjoying the moment!!
Thanks for the tips! I've just started taking my social media seriously and establishing boundaries, like certain vlog days or content days, has really helped. Since you mentioned the notifications tip, I've since turned mine off! I'm hoping that helps. It's so easy to get completely sucked in these days
“In this digital world that’s quickly becoming a dumpster of ill prepared processed microwave content- be that warm nourishing homemade meal straight from the oven that’s been perfectly seasoned and marinated because that’s humans crave- that’s what we fucking need”
I resonated so so hard to this ❤️
Something that have always made me stay constant in you channel is the way i connect to you and what you stand for, thanks for being so open and speak about this things. Love you Jenn! ❤ following you since clothes encounters 🫰🏽
Thanks so much for your continued support, Andrea! Hope you have a great weekend! x
I am actually relieved… for over a decade I’ve been trying to be an influencer because I felt that I have a huge passion for beauty and fashion, it meant to me that I HAVE to be a creator. But I was never successful. Instantly I felt fake and needed external validation which I immediately felt so off and not myself. It was on and off for so long and eventually I was like no, this is not for me. Instead I used that energetic passion to become a makeup artist and fashion designer. I am still into posting my interest and daily life but gone are the days trying to be a creator. I’m living in the moment and doing my best to be proud of my occupation.
I really appreciate your honesty ❤ and seriously naming the toxicity of social media that nobody mentions. I still love your videos, you and your ideas from the past till now and I can see the growth and changes, which we also need to see to grow cause that’s REAL life! Thank you for being a real influencer. 🎉
your hair is adorable in this video! Could you do a hair tutorial ❤❤. Also love this video and you Jenn, always appreciate your authenticity and depth as a human being. Sending love xx
Jenn hello. This is the first time that I leave comments on your post. :) I have always appreciated your effort to make this type of video. In particular, I love the way you talk with great vocab and ideas. I often refer to your video to study English too.
Hiya, as someone how just started my own youtube channel, this video truly resonates with me. I think it's wonderful you are sharing these important messages to the young generation, exactly what is need. X
Ali abdal lol when 2 RUclipsrs u love come together🤣
Wow Thank you so much Jenn for this share that actually is truly refreshing. I hear a lot of things about social media, on social media and it sounds very much the same, like you should do this to succeed on the gram, or do that to go viral, or to make a nice video... But can we just take a moment, breathe, disconnect and think quietly to make sure we feel good before stepping fully into this digital on-going world ? I personally work in a agency as a content writer, and sometimes I feel I'm just microwaving content. We freaking need to put nourishing content in the world, that feeds us truly our brain and spirit. And I am planning to do only that in a short time, and quit my job completely.
Thanks Jenn for sharing this video, truly appreciate the knowledge and the opinions that you have on different things in life. I really enjoy watching self-development contents, feel like i can grow with u!
No interest in becoming a social media person/creator here. But I do Consume a lot of content. And I think many of these insights still apply. 💙
you're the goat jenn 🐐
Really love your makeup and hair in this era!! Looks amazing. Can you share some makeup tips and hair tutorial?
I like following you because you are a reflected and well-articulated person and I like your values