So true, and Joy needs to learn that as well! Joy was striving for anything low-born or "sensational" too pique the interview and thank goodness Betty didn't fall for that!
She was the last living Golden Girl. She outlived everyone else. And almost made it to 100 years. We love you Betty, we miss you and you will forever be in our memories. Rest peacefully Queen!! *hugs*
@@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS Yea she DEFINITELY took good care of herself. She was still walking and moving around quite well. I honestly thought she would live forever.
The story about her mother is truly something special. She was always so optimistic about even the darkest of things. Rest well Betty. You filled a world of such hate with so much love and we will greatly miss you. 🌹
Yes, but that saying isn't literal. It means the good die young at heart. All good people die young at heart because they don't have anything to fear from death. When you die hardened from the years, you die old. When you die just as enthusiastically and full of optimism as a child, you die young. The bad will always die old because they're worried about punishment for their ill deeds.
Joy: "You outed Carey Grant." Betty: "What??" Joy: "You outed Carey Grant." Betty: "No one knows, and it's NONE OF OUR BUSINESS." Joy: *continues to talk about it*
I love how even when Bea didn't like Betty she still respected her for her talent and Betty even thought Bea never liked her she has such love for her and all of that cast. May they all rest in peace.
Betty is such a selfless person i really do enjoy washing her show's and she has got an amazing talent....how well do you enjoy Betty show while she was alive?
I love that you said that--it seems like she probably 'always' knew the secret, but it was cute of her to play coy with us so we weren't intimidated. ;)
@@ingridfong-daley5899 Not exactly. First of all, Ecclesiastes is a book from the Hebrew Bible which is also one of the "wisdom books" in the Old Testament. It was written about 300 years before Jesus Christ. Also, he didn't write the entire verse. It says "“For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward, and even their name is forgotten.” Solomon wrote this book from an entirely EARTHLY perspective. In its most simplistic terms, it means that the dead can no longer enjoy or be rewarded for their activities in THIS life. If you read the entire book, Solomon says in 4:2 that the dead are happier than the living. But, when a person is dead, the opportunities to enjoy things on earth no longer exist. Its not a passage of gloom and doom.
She made sure it was a better place for animals but with people she couldn't care less. All that age and just as niev as the rest of the self-righteous so called women on the view.
I always feel kind of gross when I chime in with a negative person. I think, 'What was the point to all that except now I feel even worse'. Better to stay positive.
She is very lucky in that she has a very pert shiksa nose, wide doe eyes and a strong willingness to confidently showcase her femininity. No doubt this was because she was born at home (how quaint), fed her mothers milk until she was 2 years old (which beautified and feminised her). She was no doubt fed a very simple diet of red meat, potatoes and oatmeal even in sunny california. Her sweet Norwegian ancestry also helps!! She is the ultimate aryan doll!!
My guess is that Bea Arthur was one of those people who was easily annoyed by people who are shall we say just too chipper and too happy. That's not anything Betty White did wrong, it is merely a clash of personalities. I have been the person who is too chipper, and I have been the person who is annoyed by the people who are too chipper, and I get that both can cause a clash. The fact that both still managed to find a way to respect each other professionally in spite of that natural clash in personalities is a real testament to their professionalism. And the fact that Betty just sees Bea's dislike of her as a mere curiosity and amusement and still seems to love her back in spite of it all is also such a sweet, huge credit to her. I think that is the core of the truth of her being and is why so many people from all walks of life love her. It is completely genuine, and truly remarkable.
@@beatriz9376 It’s an interesting theory. Personally, I don’t buy it. Part of why I don’t buy it is because when they surprised Betty White for I think it was This Is Your Life, although it is very subtle Bea does this really sweet squeeze of Betty’s shoulder, and there is a protective, loving look on Bea’s face. It’s way too subtle for her to be playing it for the sake of the cameras. In spite of the fact that they grated on each other’s nerves, or more specifically in spite of the fact that Betty grated on Bea’s nerves, to me in that moment it looks like in spite of it all Bea actually did genuinely care a lot about Betty, and in that moment she was feeling proud and glad that someone she cared about was getting an honor that she richly deserved. I admit I could be reading that moment wrong, but even though it was subtle it looked and felt extremely genuine to me. Bea got many, many accolades over the years for her work, and Betty also gave her plenty of credit and never tried to take away Bea’s limelight. I just don’t see Bea being that petty over Betty getting an honor when she was so proud and supportive and caring when Betty got another honor. I have no idea how Bea personally felt about not having her own star, but I do not for a second get the impression that she would direct any of her anger or disappointment or jealousy over something like that towards Betty. No, when I see their animosity, such as it is, I always get the impression that Betty is someone who regularly grated on Bea’s nerves and drove her crazy, but when the chips were down I suspect if anyone else had ever come after Betty Bea would have been the first person to be protecting Betty like a ferocious Lion protecting her cubs, and I also get the impression that when they were not grating on each other’s nerves that professionally Bea had no problem silently being Betty’s greatest cheerleader as long as it was from a distance where they weren’t driving each other crazy. But yes, that is me reading a lot into a handful of interactions and sparse evidence.
You're right. Bea was a much more serious person, nothing wrong with that. I loved her work and she gave so much and really gave women someone, in two great shows, to truly admire. I think I read her best friend was Angela Lansbury and she was also close to Jean Stapleton. I think they all came from a theater background while Betty was out there being a television trailblazer doing so many firsts for a woman in that industry. All great ladies but just different. It's too their credit, as you said, they worked so well together and were mostly friendly in that work environment. Everyone we work with, after all, isn't always going to be our besties. Betty and Rue, on the other hand, were actually good friends so it's nice that they did have that beyond just being colleagues. What they all created together on that show has been such a gift to us all. I remember, long ago, sitting as a kid watching the Golden Girls with my grandma. Sophia would always crack her up. I'll always remember her when I watch Golden Girls and be thankful we had those moments together. -- Best wishes to you and anyone who reads this. 💛
I couldn’t stop sobbing laying on my kitchen floor right when I read the news. Was even supposed to pick up my little boy from day care at 4 that day but I just couldn’t and couldn’t even take calls. He stayed at one the workers house for two nights since they couldn’t reach so now everything is fine. THATS how much I love her I couldn’t deal
She’s an Angel. I couldn’t stop sobbing laying on my kitchen floor right when I read the news. Was even supposed to pick up my little boy from day care at 4 that day but I just couldn’t and couldn’t even take calls. He stayed at one the workers house for two nights since they couldn’t reach so now everything is fine. THATS how much I love her I couldn’t deal
Even knowing Bea wasn't fond of her, Betty was still courteous and kind about her.. That's humility right there.. What a talented kindc soul this lady was.. The Zzzzlisters of today could not hold a candle to her. She navigated the labirynth of Hollywood with style, grace and authenticity.. What a beautiful legend ❤️🙏❤️
Adrenochrome doesn't keep people alive, it does make them live longer. Carey Grant lived with Randolph Scott for 12 years. Then he was advised by his manager to marry his secretary.
I remember watching Lake Placid. I've only watched it once. My heart about leaped out of my chest when I heard Betty White drop the F bomb. I think I literally had to pick my jaw up off the floor. I remember both my husband and I staring at each other in disbelief that Betty White actually said that word. Think we sat there for a good 10 minutes stunned. Granted I do say that word, but it was just something about hearing it come out of Betty Whites mouth. I've never been able to watch that movie again.
Topher S I was going through the comments and saw yours. No, I don't remember her on the Mary Tyler Moore Show. Actually, I didn't even know that she was involved with that show. When I get a chance, I'll have to check it out. Someone else commented that she was in a movie called Lake Placid ( which I've not seen either) and that she "dropped the F bomb!" Yikes! I'll have to check that out as well! I have seen a few episodes of a show called "Hot in Cleveland" that she acted in and her role was much more risky. But no matter what she's in, I'm a fan. I think she's a wonderful actress!
Bea was a very strict person. her son even said (i remember reading it) that she was the type of person who would sit in silence at the table with her morning paper and coffee. and i think maybe Betty was the oppisite of her (fun loving, a little more relaxed, etc). Bea was a hell of a person though. she was a marine
Bea was the type of person from what others not in the business have describes as completely kind and giving, if she knew and trusted you. she's like the American Maggie Smith, someone who just did not suffer fools.
This program was just not good. I watched a couple of times (due to the guest, like this episode) and was really disappointed. It takes a real skill to be a good interviewer, not everyone can do it.
@@johnfd0210 it doesn't matter who's doing the interview, if it has Betty in it, it's great. If more people were like Betty and not you, it would be a better world.
@@shandelebroyles1099 First, you comment has nothing to do with what I stated. Second, the point (you try to) make is negated by your very comment. It's a bright one you are...graduate of Trump University, I assume?
Dan San me I love her ..I’ve been watching them since I was a kid though ..I grew up watching them and my sister is in heaven and it helps me remember the good times with her
Betty White was phenomenal. Not many people exude grace and charm throughout their lives. Fame sometimes corrupts people, but she always stayed classy and sunny. She was enjoyable to watch, because she brought her sunshine with her to her performances and brightened all that saw her. A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22
Hello Serena how are you doing today? I love how even when Bea didn't like Betty she still respected her for her talent and Betty even thought Bea never liked her she has such love for her and all of that cast. May they all rest in peace.
I think that lady got all the protection she need I think you've been watching way too many other videos when people say we need to protect a person, the only thing that got her still around is God Not a Human Being protection
No offense to Bea, but I suspect she didn't like Betty just because Betty was so happy. I used to identify more with Bea, but now I'm more of a Betty. When you're a very unhappy person (through no fault of your own), there's something about people who are just happy that confuses and kind of angers you. Even when you try to hide it, the happy person notices your annoyance at their happiness. I'm glad I figured out the happiness thing, or at least I'm working on it. I lucked into the right therapy.
What a wonderful thing to share. THank you. Interesting to admire how Betty couldn't care less about who slept with whom, but Joy Behar just wouldn't let it go. Seemed kinda petty and gossipy, while Betty just soared away on the high road. Makes you love 'animals' all the more.
Joy: Let's talk about people being gay. Betty: I don't care about that as long as people are decent and kind. Joy: Right. So let's continue to talk about people being gay.
Joy is too dense to pick up on the concept Betty was talking about. She's also not a good interviewer since she stays stuck on what she wants and ignores the interviewee.
xScreamfinity Do you have to swear? It really lowers everything :( There's plenty of nice comments about Betty. You come along, and although with a sort of nice one too, spoil it with swearing. It isn't needed (yes i swear myself)
Elek Ekberg OK, mom. We can express our fucking selves cause we are adults. Read the studies that discuss how intelligent people quite often swear and are prone to love the drink.
Ellen Gregory she wasn’t throwing shade, she was just saying God blessed her with such a long life because she never disrespects anyone. also her attitude on life keeps her here
I noticed Betty was ignoring or skillfully waving aside some things that the interviewer was saying. I absolutely love that. There's too much hatred in the world.
+FrozenAuroras It was truly great television. but look back at nearly allepisodes of the show, Bea treats the other two ladies nicer and friendlier than to Betty
@@hurricaneaj6412 sorry. That response makes zero sense. Please translate “ur British L” into English or Spanish. Those are the only two languages I can read and write fluently. Thank you.
My grandmother hated her. She told me that since I was a child. She never gave me a solid answer as to why. And my grandmother was a loving person who loved everyone, but had a weird distain toward her. Very wierd.
True Blue Review... I always thought she came off as an uppity, nose in the air, snooty know it all, just from watching her from different older game shows. Your grandmother probably noticed that as well? Not a fan of Betty, but I wish her only a healthy longevity.
What an absolutely wonderful woman. It's so rare that someone can live as long as she did without anyone having a bad thing to say about them. It seems that absolutely everyone who encountered her just loved her. What a loss that she's gone. I hope there is something after this life, and that I get to encounter her in some way.
I loved how Betty responds to Joy’s attempts to talk about gay movie stars, etc, and Betty is like, “I really could care less” if the person is a good, kind human. You tell it Betty! Class act and I miss you already. ❤️💐
That was truly the best part. It shows how authentic she was as a person. Meanwhile, Joy can't shut up about the superficial topic. Betty had a heart of gold. 💛
It’s kind of sad when people assume that because you’re the oldest means you’ll die first. Betty, I believe is still alive because she’s always happy and optimistic and she’s always thinking of others. There will never be another Betty White.
Hello Crystal how are you doing today?......I love how even when Bea didn't like Betty she still respected her for her talent and Betty even thought Bea never liked her she has such love for her and all of that cast. May they all rest in peace.
It’s October, and Betty is still alive. 2020 isn’t a total write-off 🙏🏼 Edit: It’s January 1st 2021 and I didn’t jinx it! She’s unjinxable 🙌🏼 Edit 2: December 31st 2021 - RIP to a true class act. Thank-you for years of entertainment ❤️❤️❤️
Love you Betty . If you can tell me the secret I'll be still and listen. If you can't tell me I certainly hope I see you in the next go round . I will be in the best of company.
@M M B So sorry life tries you like this. 1) Autism is not the end of the world. Autistic kids often have genius in some area/s. And are not necessarily difficult. We adults are. 2) Your wife freaking out w denial is the clue to the other two mishaps. Try to be there for your child/ren & easy does it friend for her. Maybe she will come back, if not to you, at least to her senses. 3) I have been an insomniac since my childhood (perhaps since the womb) & take 1/2 Bromazepam per night since 1981, when I was suffering devastation from the end of a great love relationship. The meds authorise me to sleep. 4)I never did night shift but several jobs at once... try at least to rest when you are home... in your bed or on the sofa are best. Comfort yourself w music, films, books, above all, friends you like/really care about. Try not to shut yourself off from these nor from what pleasures life has afforded you in the past. 5) They are still your family. Tell/write your wife re how important she & your kid/s remain even tho' separated. Stay Dad to your kids. 6) You are not too old now... to lead a new life. Even if you were in your 60s you wouldn't be too old. Age is in your head. And you said you're in a blur. So, give yourself time to trust life again. Please forgive me if I respond to your suffering piece by piece. Am only trying to help. I am a woman, but have been "there" where suffering lives. Take care & stay safe. It is normal for you to feel as you do... after all that trauma. Give yourself the same understanding & comfort you would give to anyone close. And good luck .
@M M B I am pretty sure your wife's been wanting to leave you for some time but needed an excuse. Most likely to screw around with that other guy. But remember your a dude so use that to your advantage get yourself a younger girl. Many girls love older men.
Exactly what would Bea need to defend herself against? Did Betty say she was an evil witch? No. She merely said Bea wasn't fond of her. Nowhere in this interview did she bash Bea Arthur in any way, shape or form.
Plus, I just finished reading story interviews from the Empty Nest cast. You know, the show that was spun off from the Golden Girls. The cast talks about their experiences working with Bea on their show or just being on the same sound stage. It was also confirmed that Bea could not STAND Betty, unfortunately.
DaxShaw I agree. What is so wrong in stating that you know someone does/didn't like you? She didn't elaborate or give any specifics or details, just made a statement.
JhomasE That is sad. It almost sounds like Betty and Bea were the closest to truly being like their characters. That is probably part of the reason why any scenes involving the two of them seemed authentic...most especially the Saint Olaf stories...lol!!!! Life imitating art, or art imitating life, I guess! 😉
Betty was petite, very cute, funny and charming. Bea was big, gawky, had a manly voice and look about her and had an angry vibe about her. I think Bea's problem with Betty was mostly jealousy.
Well, the problem with celebrities and TV shows is no one knows what goes on behind the cameras except the actors. They can act like they love each other on the show and hate each other in real life. Look at Linda Evans and Joan Collins. They were friends long before Dynasty and were friends in the beginning years of Dynasty, but something happened and they ended up hating one another.
Betty White has to be an angel. She is wise, Shes funny, Shes caring, Shes open minded and very intelligent. Wealthy but very grounded, I hope she stays around for another 50 years!
Betty White was a high priestess in the Church of Satan. She was the Satanic Queen of Hollywood. You didn't get to be famous in LA without Betty's approval.
"I love everything with a leg on each corner. But the human animal is a vengeful creature. Human animals wish very bad things for other human animals." ~Betty White 💛💜
@@LisaMaryification lol detective Kenda is the man! One of my favorite Kenda quotes is, "Not only are you the worst liar I've ever seen, but you also have the I.Q. of a turnip." 😁🕵️♂️
Just such a legend. At the end of the day - all this time on earth is about being a good person, like Betty was. That's it. Well done Betty you did great!
Right. She broughr up the subject acting like she was totally unaware of anything. Then when Betty White said "Bea wasn't too fond of me", Joy chime in with " I've heard that before"
Yeah, sure Betty says "I don't care who you sleep with.", but then you wait for her naked in her dressing room and it's all "Who the hell are you?" and "I'm calling the police!"
@@bmbutler2 well let our eternity be at stake and stfu. Did u not hear this woman? Ur watching a video with such a pure woman explaining how these things should be handled. She clearly said it isnt any of her business who pp sleep with yet negative, evil ppl like u still found a way to mind other ppls sexual choices. Let our eternity be at stake and only worry about YOURS. Also some of us arent brainwashed so save it 🤦♂️
Ultimate, never thought much about her. I thought she was funny on everything she was on that I remember watching her in. I love that she's such an animal activist. I've watched her in this ugly political climate (thanks to the libs) and I love how she doesn't speak ugliness when asked a biased question. She doesn't fall for the Katie Couric's and all the other talk show hosts who try to elicit an anti conservative answer. NOW that's CLASS!!! I've noticed that about Rachael Ray, too. She may be a screaming lib, but, she doesn't care what political side you are when her guests appear on her morning show. Everyone should take their lead.
ProudKansan08 I absolutely agree! I hope 2018 will bring this country back together, seems like people on both sides have lost the ability to be gracious and kind to one another. So with that sentiment in mind, this "screaming lib" would like to say Happy New Year!!! May you and your family have a blessed and bountiful year! ✌🏽️❤️
10dogs7catsezpz, thank you, and I appreciate your gracious reply. WISH more people were like you!! Happy New Year!! And may YOU and YOUR family have a blessed and bountiful year, too!!! :)
I’m sad and not sad at the same time, Ms. Betty lived a great life up to 99 years old that is a blessing. As my grandma would have said “she is made out of good material”. R.I.p Ms. Betty
I read somewhere about Saturday Night Live-Betty White, Madonna and Tina Turner didn't need to use the monitors to read their lines in the skits. They memorized all their lines in the skits they were in. Watch Coffee Talk with Madonna and she delivers her lines like she's just talking naturally.
Show bussiness back then: co-stars didn't like each other personally, but respected each other and kept it professional. Now, everything is about catfights and throwing shit at each other even if you work together. It used to be about talent, now is about gossip. Is even funny how the video's title is about Betty's relationship with Bea, when the subject was talked about for ten seconds more or less. Drama sells.
Joan Crawford. and Bettie Davis had one of the most talked about feuds in Hollywood. Basically the only difference between now and then is social media/the internet. People are people at the end of the day. Not everyone will like you, that's just human nature.
Such a happy, genuine soul. We will miss you Betty. A few weeks shy of her 100th birthday, what a long life! May you continue to make others laugh in the after life, now you know the secret 🙏🏼
Betty was just confirming what Rue McClanahan told everyone before she passed. It's not that Bea disliked Betty, I think Betty just got on her nerves sometimes. Conflict of personalities. They both admired and respected each other immensely on a professional level. Bea and Betty were polar opposites as far as personalities go so it's not unexpected that sometimes Betty's super sweet personality would grate on Bea's more reserved personality's nerves. Betty didn't say anything negative about Bea here, went on to say how much she admired and respected her. Love them both - they made magic together on screen along with Rue and Estelle. I still watch Golden Girls to this day. No other show matches it's level. Hot In Cleveland is also good since its great to see Betty on TV regularly with an ensemble of women, but it's vastly different from Golden Girls.
Bea initially turned down Golden Girls because she thought Betty was the put up to be the star - so it seems she didn't like her even before they worked together. But that happens - a lot of people say they don;t like someone who's famous despite the fact they don't know them as a person
Me, too. Sometimes, my jaded 19 year old watches it with me, and she thinks their funny. Usually, she doesn't like the old shows that I used to watch when I was a teen, twenty something, and thirty something. But, she likes the Golden Girls.
"I wouldn't want to be president of the United States" sounds like she was qualified, anyone that wants the job has an angle, a head of state should be dragged into office kicking and screaming
I had no idea Estelle was so afraid of death. That really makes me sad knowing she played the oldest person and constantly had scenes discussing death. Must’ve been so difficult for her 😢
Hello Rebecca how are you doing today?....Betty is such an amazing soul she was so selfless and kind of love everyone around her....what do you think about Betty and her lifestyle?
@@amehka5416 She wouldn't let it go, like she thinks the public is entitled to that information. We're not. Edit: to be fair this a gossip show and that is a sad enough commentary on our culture.
patricia gatlin there are a Million things she could've asked her: about the golden girls, about her days on Mary Tyler Moore show, about keys to surviving a Hollywood career over decades, over some of the changes she's seen in her lifetime, she could've asked her about the golden girls or plays she appears in... but no: she asked about outing a gay/bisexual actor (Grant) who died decades ago, which is irrelevant in this context and about a flamboyant gay performer Liberace who had nothing to do with Betty's career or life. Completely random, ridiculous questions just in order to create sensationalism. So tacky and it's because of people like the screeching Joy Behar in the media that America is in decline. Pure Vulgarity.
Betty is proof that if you're kind and talented you can have a long career... and I can't think of anyone who has had a longer career than Betty, who's been on TV pretty much since it's inception. She is and will always be amazing
This host was determined to speak of negativity. BETTY WAS THE EPITOME OF CLASS , GRACE, HIP, AND JOYFUL AND HAPPY. My child is blessed to have a Nana like her..exactly like her. Crying over Betty's passing. 😢
I couldn’t stop sobbing laying on my kitchen floor right when I read the news. Was even supposed to pick up my little boy from day care at 4 that day but I just couldn’t and couldn’t even take calls. He stayed at one the workers house for two nights since they couldn’t reach so now everything is fine. THATS how much I love her I couldn’t deal
@@againstthepods4316 i cried a lot, i think it effected so many people. although i’m 18 she was all i watched when i was a younger kid. cried like i did when my papaw died
@@againstthepods4316 …you abandoned your child for two days because a celebrity died? I’m sorry if that sounds insensitive, Betty white was a wonderful person, but your priorities sound very skewed
1kudzuking It does seem confusing, at first, whether Betty was referring to her mother or to Estelle. If you go back and listen to it a time or two I think you will determine (as I have) that Betty was saying that her mother often used that phrase but then Betty shifts her thought and her tone back to the death of Estelle and says "now SHE (meaning Estelle) knows the secret. At least that is how I'm interpreting it after listening to it a few times. Who knows? I'm often wrong!! Regardless, it IS a beautiful sentiment.
Sorry for being two years late with a reply but heres the Answer. Because it is said that you grow wiser with age, Thus Old people who are closer to Death have a more clear understanding of what Death is and life in General, Compared to an inexperienced young adult. Why not ask them? We know they are going to die soon, They know it as well, They know and have a more clear Understanding of Death (Since having seen a lot of people in their life die).
As someone who has a very upbeat friend, sometimes it's hard to take. Doesn't mean Bea truly didn't like Betty, just means sometimes your having a day where "sunshine, lollypops&rainbows" is hard to take...
What a lovely interview. Both women played off each other well and had an intellectual conversation that went beyond “what’s your favorite role”. RIP Betty, you will always be missed.
I've just stared watching the Golden Girls this year. It's sad to think Betty is the only one left. But it's great to see her doing so well. And I can understand Estelle's fear of death very well. You don't know what happens at that moment..not a nice thought at all.
***** That's true. In the end she forgot about that fear, lucky for her. But, when you still know you have it, it's not nice. It's not nice for the relatives too.
The bible says you can know where you go after you die. Jesus said " He that believeth on me hath everlasting life. Trust Jesus as your lord & savior. Repent of your sins & live for Jesus. He died on a cross that we might have eternal life.
It's a nice story. LOTR has a good one after death too. Truth is, nobody *knows* until they die. (Though arguably, an MRI has some pretty compelling evidence.)
Really though, according to Bea Arthur's son, she did like Betty. They just approached showbusiness differently. Betty liked to talk to the audience between shots, Bea liked to stay in character and not engage the audience between shots, etc. Really just Bea was more old school, but they did get along.
You might be interested and maybe relieved to know that many questions on talk shows like this are discussed and agreed upon before the cameras roll. Some might think it takes away the “magic” or whatever, but it’s actually a courtesy to the guest, to ensure they’re prepared to talk, make any statements they need to make, and happy to come back on the show.
"Back in St. Olaf" "Picture it Sicily 1931" "For God's sakes Rose Eisenhower used less chalk planning D-Day" "My my sir your words could charm the dew right off a honeysuckle" 😂😂😂😂 I absolutely love this show!! I've seen them all a thousand time and never get sick of them!
Betty was so careful not to bad mouth anyone and good for her for that.
Mr. Nobody
Now if Quincy Jones where to sit there... We would've gotten some Hollywood insiders.
Like joy wanted her to slip up. WHICH ONE OF YALL IS GAY 👀
So true, and Joy needs to learn that as well! Joy was striving for anything low-born or "sensational" too pique the interview and thank goodness Betty didn't fall for that!
This is why Joys shitty show was cancelled. Next, cancel the view.
Classy
She was the last living Golden Girl. She outlived everyone else. And almost made it to 100 years. We love you Betty, we miss you and you will forever be in our memories. Rest peacefully Queen!! *hugs*
Not to mention the eldest of the women. She truly took care of herself.
Meh, she was 100. She lived 100 years really
really.
@@ACCOMPLISHEDSHEIS Yea she DEFINITELY took good care of herself. She was still walking and moving around quite well. I honestly thought she would live forever.
We had a Golden Girl, now heaven has a Golden Angel.
My heart will break a thousand times when Betty White goes.
Picket Pants i knowwww.... I love her soooo much
Picket Pants yeah
Picket Pants same
It will for be the saddest day.. Her light has touched so many.. I love her
Me too. I ♥️ Betty White so much
The story about her mother is truly something special. She was always so optimistic about even the darkest of things. Rest well Betty. You filled a world of such hate with so much love and we will greatly miss you. 🌹
Well said 👏🏿
Betty White is proof that the good do not always die young.
Yes, but that saying isn't literal. It means the good die young at heart. All good people die young at heart because they don't have anything to fear from death. When you die hardened from the years, you die old. When you die just as enthusiastically and full of optimism as a child, you die young. The bad will always die old because they're worried about punishment for their ill deeds.
Well said.
@@fartkerson sex
@@fartkerson Unless the bad are masochistic as well.
Betty white is evil that is why she is still alive she is just hiding behind a mask 🤣😉
Joy: "You outed Carey Grant."
Betty: "What??"
Joy: "You outed Carey Grant."
Betty: "No one knows, and it's NONE OF OUR BUSINESS."
Joy: *continues to talk about it*
Joy is a drama queen on political views also.
Disrespectful to the dead, and the living. No class at all
“It’s none of our business!” Love Betty - so respectful of everyone and her past colleagues.
She is a modern-day miracle to still be this sharp in her 90’s. You just don’t see that every day.
Randy H yup rite true
So so true
Randy H this was almost a decade ago but yeah she’s amazing
I hope she makes it to 100.
Betty We love you so much. You live in our society . May God keep you.
I love how even when Bea didn't like Betty she still respected her for her talent and Betty even thought Bea never liked her she has such love for her and all of that cast. May they all rest in peace.
Betty is such a selfless person i really do enjoy washing her show's and she has got an amazing talent....how well do you enjoy Betty show while she was alive?
The world was a better place for having had Betty White in it. Now she "knows the secret". Rest in peace, beautiful soul.
I love that you said that--it seems like she probably 'always' knew the secret, but it was cute of her to play coy with us so we weren't intimidated. ;)
@@LazloNQ Is that the Christian version of 'bringing joy and hope' to the world?
@@ingridfong-daley5899 Not exactly. First of all, Ecclesiastes is a book from the Hebrew Bible which is also one of the "wisdom books" in the Old Testament. It was written about 300 years before Jesus Christ. Also, he didn't write the entire verse. It says "“For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward, and even their name is forgotten.” Solomon wrote this book from an entirely EARTHLY perspective. In its most simplistic terms, it means that the dead can no longer enjoy or be rewarded for their activities in THIS life. If you read the entire book, Solomon says in 4:2 that the dead are happier than the living. But, when a person is dead, the opportunities to enjoy things on earth no longer exist. Its not a passage of gloom and doom.
She made sure it was a better place for animals but with people she couldn't care less. All that age and just as niev as the rest of the self-righteous so called women on the view.
How did betty make the world a better place?
She was still with us another 10 years after this interview. What a treasure she was.
They sure don't make them like Betty White any more. RIP, Betty. You're already missed. What a classy lady.
Yes, I wonder what her secret of a long life was? Maybe to laugh at ourselves instead of being stressed all the time. ❤️
exceptional math skills
She knows the secret
@@smileyladyT
Simple, only the good die young
No matter how hard Joy tried to get Betty to say something bad about someone, she wouldn’t do it.
That's so true!! Joy sure was doing that!! Good for Betty for not taking any of her baits!!!
So very tacky.... I guess that's what she feels she need to get her ratings up. Wise & classy Betty wasn't having it.
I always feel kind of gross when I chime in with a negative person. I think, 'What was the point to all that except now I feel even worse'. Better to stay positive.
Class act all around.
She is very lucky in that she has a very pert shiksa nose, wide doe eyes and a strong willingness to confidently showcase her femininity. No doubt this was because she was born at home (how quaint), fed her mothers milk until she was 2 years old (which beautified and feminised her). She was no doubt fed a very simple diet of red meat, potatoes and oatmeal even in sunny california. Her sweet Norwegian ancestry also helps!! She is the ultimate aryan doll!!
My guess is that Bea Arthur was one of those people who was easily annoyed by people who are shall we say just too chipper and too happy. That's not anything Betty White did wrong, it is merely a clash of personalities. I have been the person who is too chipper, and I have been the person who is annoyed by the people who are too chipper, and I get that both can cause a clash. The fact that both still managed to find a way to respect each other professionally in spite of that natural clash in personalities is a real testament to their professionalism. And the fact that Betty just sees Bea's dislike of her as a mere curiosity and amusement and still seems to love her back in spite of it all is also such a sweet, huge credit to her. I think that is the core of the truth of her being and is why so many people from all walks of life love her. It is completely genuine, and truly remarkable.
I totally agree!
Bea Arthur didn't like Betty because Betty had a Star in the Walk of Fame and she didn't.
@@beatriz9376 It’s an interesting theory. Personally, I don’t buy it. Part of why I don’t buy it is because when they surprised Betty White for I think it was This Is Your Life, although it is very subtle Bea does this really sweet squeeze of Betty’s shoulder, and there is a protective, loving look on Bea’s face. It’s way too subtle for her to be playing it for the sake of the cameras. In spite of the fact that they grated on each other’s nerves, or more specifically in spite of the fact that Betty grated on Bea’s nerves, to me in that moment it looks like in spite of it all Bea actually did genuinely care a lot about Betty, and in that moment she was feeling proud and glad that someone she cared about was getting an honor that she richly deserved. I admit I could be reading that moment wrong, but even though it was subtle it looked and felt extremely genuine to me. Bea got many, many accolades over the years for her work, and Betty also gave her plenty of credit and never tried to take away Bea’s limelight. I just don’t see Bea being that petty over Betty getting an honor when she was so proud and supportive and caring when Betty got another honor. I have no idea how Bea personally felt about not having her own star, but I do not for a second get the impression that she would direct any of her anger or disappointment or jealousy over something like that towards Betty. No, when I see their animosity, such as it is, I always get the impression that Betty is someone who regularly grated on Bea’s nerves and drove her crazy, but when the chips were down I suspect if anyone else had ever come after Betty Bea would have been the first person to be protecting Betty like a ferocious Lion protecting her cubs, and I also get the impression that when they were not grating on each other’s nerves that professionally Bea had no problem silently being Betty’s greatest cheerleader as long as it was from a distance where they weren’t driving each other crazy. But yes, that is me reading a lot into a handful of interactions and sparse evidence.
You're right. Bea was a much more serious person, nothing wrong with that. I loved her work and she gave so much and really gave women someone, in two great shows, to truly admire. I think I read her best friend was Angela Lansbury and she was also close to Jean Stapleton. I think they all came from a theater background while Betty was out there being a television trailblazer doing so many firsts for a woman in that industry. All great ladies but just different. It's too their credit, as you said, they worked so well together and were mostly friendly in that work environment. Everyone we work with, after all, isn't always going to be our besties. Betty and Rue, on the other hand, were actually good friends so it's nice that they did have that beyond just being colleagues. What they all created together on that show has been such a gift to us all. I remember, long ago, sitting as a kid watching the Golden Girls with my grandma. Sophia would always crack her up. I'll always remember her when I watch Golden Girls and be thankful we had those moments together. -- Best wishes to you and anyone who reads this. 💛
@@carolynm8421 Wow, thanks for sharing all of that. There’s a lot there that I didn’t know. Very thoughtful analysis. Thank you.
Betty White survives because she is so positive and easy going.
That is what I think, she has an inner light that animates her She is an icon !!!
Or it's not her time to go yet.
Jen Ritter Yeah, I've known many assholes to live a long time and many good people die young.
Penny for your thoughts? Do they live longer.......or does it just SEEM that way?
TMIDiva longer than what?
She was a good soul; though Bea was not fond of her, she still said I like her; never anything bad to say about anyone. May she rest in peace.
She was a decent person through & through. She did not dwell on the negatives of life but looked at the bright side.
I couldn’t stop sobbing laying on my kitchen floor right when I read the news. Was even supposed to pick up my little boy from day care at 4 that day but I just couldn’t and couldn’t even take calls. He stayed at one the workers house for two nights since they couldn’t reach so now everything is fine. THATS how much I love her I couldn’t deal
@Matthew Harrup Maybe move on if you don't like something instead of criticizing?🙄
Was not a fan of bea to negative Betty ran circles around her
@Matthew Harrup then why did you watch it? That's just stupid don't you think?
After 99 years Betty finally knows the secret. R.I.P. to one of the best people who ever lived.
She’s an Angel. I couldn’t stop sobbing laying on my kitchen floor right when I read the news. Was even supposed to pick up my little boy from day care at 4 that day but I just couldn’t and couldn’t even take calls. He stayed at one the workers house for two nights since they couldn’t reach so now everything is fine. THATS how much I love her I couldn’t deal
@Armando Armando I know. that's pretty dramatic
100 years she was two weeks shy which makes her 100 no matter what
@@beautifulwonderful4391 I don’t remember asking for your opinions or judgemental attitudes
@@againstthepods4316 really that's your comment for me. I'm not the one who asked you "Are you crazy?"
Even knowing Bea wasn't fond of her, Betty was still courteous and kind about her.. That's humility right there.. What a talented kindc
soul this lady was.. The Zzzzlisters of today could not hold a candle to her. She navigated the labirynth of Hollywood with style, grace and authenticity.. What a beautiful legend ❤️🙏❤️
Bea is a Marine and Betty is a Soldier. It's a sibling rivalry
Adrenochrome doesn't keep people alive, it does make them live longer. Carey Grant lived with Randolph Scott for 12 years. Then he was advised by his manager to marry his secretary.
I really think she was throwing a little shade there and tried to clean it up! Lol but it was ok to speak her mind and just leave it at that❣
@@ROSE_reddy I thought so too 😂
@@julieharrell2585 Randolph Scott!
RANDOLPH SCOTT!!!
I wonder if anyone gets this reference? 🤔
Greatest Betty White quote:
Q: "is there anything you regret not doing?"
A: "Robert Redford"
Bwahaha good one😉😂😊
When asked ,"Why she didn't have children" My favorite was, " I love children but they grow up "
Makes me wonder if she had he opportunity.
Animals are better than humans and they are delicious
angst lol yeah he seems arrogant! Watch his interview with Oprah and Barbara Streisand
Betty White is one class act.
St Olaf must be proud of their native daughter.
Kathryn,that was such a cute comment ❤️
Any time St Olaf was brought up I'd be grinning ear to ear before laughing at whatever St Olaf story came up.
Every St. Olaf -- ruclips.net/video/Q1Z3E4d02xk/видео.html
There's something very "innocent" about Betty White, kinda like a child's innocence. Certainly Not in a bad way... She's too, too cute.
Yes, she is young at heart and that may be why she has remained so youthful.
She will be 98 soon.
I remember watching Lake Placid. I've only watched it once.
My heart about leaped out of my chest when I heard Betty White drop the F bomb.
I think I literally had to pick my jaw up off the floor. I remember both my husband and I staring at each other in disbelief that Betty White actually said that word.
Think we sat there for a good 10 minutes stunned. Granted I do say that word, but it was just something about hearing it come out of Betty Whites mouth.
I've never been able to watch that movie again.
She can be raunchy too now
Did you ever see her on the Mary Tyler Moore Show? You should look it up. She played a much different character.
Topher S
I was going through the comments and saw yours. No, I don't remember her on the Mary Tyler Moore Show. Actually, I didn't even know that she was involved with that show. When I get a chance, I'll have to check it out. Someone else commented that she was in a movie called Lake Placid ( which I've not seen either) and that she "dropped the F bomb!" Yikes! I'll have to check that out as well! I have seen a few episodes of a show called "Hot in Cleveland" that she acted in and her role was much more risky. But no matter what she's in, I'm a fan. I think she's a wonderful actress!
Even tho her and Bea weren’t best friends, she still handled it like a LADY!
They don't make them like her anymore. Old school love them
A great mentor,.a .role model
Because she WAS a lady. A great lady. Very few of them left anymore.
@@jjeezey99
So true and the pass president Trump sure was a prime example.
Stay corvid Free
God Bless America
Cheers 🇨🇦
@@a.a.p3254 what a joke!
Bea was a very strict person. her son even said (i remember reading it) that she was the type of person who would sit in silence at the table with her morning paper and coffee. and i think maybe Betty was the oppisite of her (fun loving, a little more relaxed, etc). Bea was a hell of a person though. she was a marine
Bea is my role model. She was amazing
Bea was the type of person from what others not in the business have describes as completely kind and giving, if she knew and trusted you. she's like the American Maggie Smith, someone who just did not suffer fools.
Plus I always felt that she really got trashed alot on the show. Which may also caused a effect.
Yes and a very good one
Yes. Different personalities, both great people.
Despite Joy's tasteless attempts to engage Betty in her messiness, she once again chose to shine like the golden girl she is.🎗
This program was just not good. I watched a couple of times (due to the guest, like this episode) and was really disappointed. It takes a real skill to be a good interviewer, not everyone can do it.
@@johnfd0210 it doesn't matter who's doing the interview, if it has Betty in it, it's great.
If more people were like Betty and not you, it would be a better world.
@@shandelebroyles1099 First, you comment has nothing to do with what I stated. Second, the point (you try to) make is negated by your very comment. It's a bright one you are...graduate of Trump University, I assume?
johnfd0210 the minute you made it political you lost credibility. You Dems will never learn.
HELLS KITCHEN joe please
Who’s watching in 2020!? 😆
Dan San me I love her ..I’ve been watching them since I was a kid though ..I grew up watching them and my sister is in heaven and it helps me remember the good times with her
I'm watching in 3030.
Meeeeeee👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾 I love her💕💕💕
Me!
I watch religiously, a show that will forever stand the test of time.
Betty White was phenomenal. Not many people exude grace and charm throughout their lives. Fame sometimes corrupts people, but she always stayed classy and sunny. She was enjoyable to watch, because she brought her sunshine with her to her performances and brightened all that saw her.
A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22
Hello Serena how are you doing today?
I love how even when Bea didn't like Betty she still respected her for her talent and Betty even thought Bea never liked her she has such love for her and all of that cast. May they all rest in peace.
We gotta protect this woman at all costs. She is everyone’s grandma
Not everyone's.
patricia gatlin she is your grandma, pattie
I agree. I’m really needing her to be happy and healthy. Like with armed guards and doctors to make sure she lives forever.
I think that lady got all the protection she need I think you've been watching way too many other videos when people say we need to protect a person, the only thing that got her still around is God Not a Human Being protection
walter johnson I think you’re taking this post way too literally 😂😂😂
Rose Nyland quote : What happens when I’m the only one left ?
I think she says what happens when there's only one of us left? And Sophia says "Don't worry I can take care of myself"
In that scene they were also seated in the order they passed away
I think what Sophia says is "Don't worry I'll take care of ya."
J Good oh yes. I think that is right :)
Jessica Ayala never noticed that .. weird
Betty White
.... was raised right. Bless her heart.
No offense to Bea, but I suspect she didn't like Betty just because Betty was so happy. I used to identify more with Bea, but now I'm more of a Betty. When you're a very unhappy person (through no fault of your own), there's something about people who are just happy that confuses and kind of angers you. Even when you try to hide it, the happy person notices your annoyance at their happiness.
I'm glad I figured out the happiness thing, or at least I'm working on it. I lucked into the right therapy.
The story I heard, is Bea liked to stay in character at all times, Betty did not. Bea felt Betty wasn't serious enough. Pretty petty to be honest
@@BRockIITWi I mean, her character was pretty mean to Betty's character, so maybe that's why she didn't like her. 😂🤣
What a wonderful thing to share. THank you. Interesting to admire how Betty couldn't care less about who slept with whom, but Joy Behar just wouldn't let it go. Seemed kinda petty and gossipy, while Betty just soared away on the high road. Makes you love 'animals' all the more.
@@dougimmel Behar seems like a miserable person herself.
@@dougimmel I agree Joy Behar is annoying asf. Betty couldn’t care less about any of that nonsense🙄
Joy: Let's talk about people being gay.
Betty: I don't care about that as long as people are decent and kind.
Joy: Right. So let's continue to talk about people being gay.
Joy is one of those people you wish had never gone into show business. She's just mediocre at everything.
Joy is too dense to pick up on the concept Betty was talking about. She's also not a good interviewer since she stays stuck on what she wants and ignores the interviewee.
@NuDiamond Music wait, what?👀
lol
Joy is one of the most joyless people on the planet.
How the fuck can you not like Betty White. That doesn't make sense.
Not a surprise...people even hate babies, air, living...if it can be identified then someone in the world will find a reason to hate it.
modernmarvel #true hahahahahaha
xScreamfinity Do you have to swear? It really lowers everything :( There's plenty of nice comments about Betty. You come along, and although with a sort of nice one too, spoil it with swearing. It isn't needed (yes i swear myself)
Elek Ekberg OK, mom. We can express our fucking selves cause we are adults. Read the studies that discuss how intelligent people quite often swear and are prone to love the drink.
xScreamfinity love Betty, can't stand Joy...now I'm off to Hulu for a GG marathon.
She's still left because she refuses to disrespect anyone.
#Blessing
Yes, God struck down Estelle, Bea and Rue because they were disrespectful.
Ellen Gregory she wasn’t throwing shade, she was just saying God blessed her with such a long life because she never disrespects anyone. also her attitude on life keeps her here
And being on hgh since the 80s. Betty white is so funny. Lover her.
@@ellengregory8002 right lol
Miss Betty is my role model and very respectful to everyone and live her life with a funny bone.
Such a loss to this world. Betty was a wonderful human being
She's in Hell 🔥
@@Joshua-dc1bs wtf. Have some respect asshle you obviously couldn't even be the shit that came out her ass
@@Joshua-dc1bs and you will be too
@@Joshua-dc1bs she's not. but you are.
@@beaugoss3816 She taught Sin and Pride
RIP Bea Arthur, Estelle Getty and Rue Mcclanahan. Also Betty White is a Legend!!!
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Love how Betty White stays above the host's attempts to get her to pass judgement on people and be petty. Love that woman so much.
I noticed Betty was ignoring or skillfully waving aside some things that the interviewer was saying. I absolutely love that. There's too much hatred in the world.
Yeah miss Betty been in the business tooooo long
Betty's amazing a heart of gold . Lovely person and kind heart ❤ 😘🙏 God bless you
The Golden Girls was great television....
+Steven Torrey the best
Indeed it was!
yesss
+FrozenAuroras It was truly great television. but look back at nearly allepisodes of the show, Bea treats the other two ladies nicer and friendlier than to Betty
yes
This interview went from “did everyone in golden girls get along?” To “do you believe in Hell?”
Way to pay attention I guess.
@@fezzik7619 ur British L
@@hurricaneaj6412 sorry. That response makes zero sense. Please translate “ur British L” into English or Spanish. Those are the only two languages I can read and write fluently. Thank you.
@@fezzik7619British=bad.
Wow, Betty White took the high road. Pure class!
There was an episode where they all made a pact and Betty asked “what happens when there’s only one of us left” ... Almost as if it was a prediction.
I remember that episode very well. My heart hurt for her during that episode.
I said that same thing. It does seem like a prediction.
Right. I remember that episode. Sophia said something like "I'll be okay" knowing she was the oldest of them (on the show not in real life)
Lori R I always talk about that episode. So sad...
Maybe they're going to end up as heads and Sophia with the old head/young body?
Who could not love Betty White? :-(
ladyvee7110 Beatrice Arthur
My grandmother hated her. She told me that since I was a child. She never gave me a solid answer as to why. And my grandmother was a loving person who loved everyone, but had a weird distain toward her. Very wierd.
i hate her i love bea arthur
No one truly knows How people are behind the scenes
True Blue Review... I always thought she came off as an uppity, nose in the air, snooty know it all, just from watching her from different older game shows. Your grandmother probably noticed that as well? Not a fan of Betty, but I wish her only a healthy longevity.
What an absolutely wonderful woman. It's so rare that someone can live as long as she did without anyone having a bad thing to say about them. It seems that absolutely everyone who encountered her just loved her. What a loss that she's gone. I hope there is something after this life, and that I get to encounter her in some way.
Everyone except Bea Arthur....
She kept her mental sharpness and sense of humor right up to the day she left us.
With Jesus, there is eternal life ❤️
It’s amazing that she didn’t get Alzheimers
Just her & Dolly
I loved how Betty responds to Joy’s attempts to talk about gay movie stars, etc, and Betty is like, “I really could care less” if the person is a good, kind human. You tell it Betty! Class act and I miss you already. ❤️💐
That was truly the best part. It shows how authentic she was as a person. Meanwhile, Joy can't shut up about the superficial topic. Betty had a heart of gold. 💛
Do you know the exact phrase is "couldn't care less" but everyone gets it wrong.
Betty be okay
Montag,
Ikr? Gays have been around since the dawn of time. To think 1965 gave rights to gays is absurd.
@@bz3086 more like 1977 when rights became to decriminalize
It's gonna be a very sad day when Betty dies. She seems like such a sweet lady.
Try not to think about it ffs yaull gonna jinx her!
It’s kind of sad when people assume that because you’re the oldest means you’ll die first. Betty, I believe is still alive because she’s always happy and optimistic and she’s always thinking of others. There will never be another Betty White.
Absolutely!
Until today…🙏 rip
Well, Betty knows the secret now. God bless her. Fly high Betty White
Hello Crystal how are you doing today?......I love how even when Bea didn't like Betty she still respected her for her talent and Betty even thought Bea never liked her she has such love for her and all of that cast. May they all rest in peace.
I love Betty White ❤ She has a young soul but old wisdom.
True! Nicely put.
It’s October, and Betty is still alive. 2020 isn’t a total write-off 🙏🏼
Edit: It’s January 1st 2021 and I didn’t jinx it! She’s unjinxable 🙌🏼
Edit 2: December 31st 2021 - RIP to a true class act. Thank-you for years of entertainment ❤️❤️❤️
Shut the fuck up. 2020 will hear you.
Why they hell did you just put that out there.
😂😂 ok ok you’re right I TAKE IT BACK!
If she dies this year I’ll blame you
@@BandlerChing delete the comment, don’t jinx it!
She was such a pure soul. I’m just glad she was with us for as long as she was.
Love you Betty . If you can tell me the secret I'll be still and listen. If you can't tell me I certainly hope I see you in the next go round . I will be in the best of company.
PRECIOUS
It’s so cute how the crew can be heard laughing. Everyone loved Betty. ♥️
Wow 97 years on this earth and here I am in my mid 30's saying i'm old.
You're not old.
She's 98 now 😊
@M M B Use them well. They will/should be the best years of your life. I remember mine succinctly... w delight.
@M M B So sorry life tries you like this. 1) Autism is not the end of the world. Autistic kids often have genius in some area/s. And are not necessarily difficult. We adults are. 2) Your wife freaking out w denial is the clue to the other two mishaps. Try to be there for your child/ren & easy does it friend for her. Maybe she will come back, if not to you, at least to her senses. 3) I have been an insomniac since my childhood (perhaps since the womb) & take 1/2 Bromazepam per night since 1981, when I was suffering devastation from the end of a great love relationship. The meds authorise me to sleep. 4)I never did night shift but several jobs at once... try at least to rest when you are home... in your bed or on the sofa are best. Comfort yourself w music, films, books, above all, friends you like/really care about. Try not to shut yourself off from these nor from what pleasures life has afforded you in the past. 5) They are still your family. Tell/write your wife re how important she & your kid/s remain even tho' separated. Stay Dad to your kids. 6) You are not too old now... to lead a new life. Even if you were in your 60s you wouldn't be too old. Age is in your head. And you said you're in a blur. So, give yourself time to trust life again. Please forgive me if I respond to your suffering piece by piece. Am only trying to help. I am a woman, but have been "there" where suffering lives. Take care & stay safe. It is normal for you to feel as you do... after all that trauma. Give yourself the same understanding & comfort you would give to anyone close. And good luck .
@M M B I am pretty sure your wife's been wanting to leave you for some time but needed an excuse. Most likely to screw around with that other guy. But remember your a dude so use that to your advantage get yourself a younger girl. Many girls love older men.
Exactly what would Bea need to defend herself against? Did Betty say she was an evil witch? No. She merely said Bea wasn't fond of her. Nowhere in this interview did she bash Bea Arthur in any way, shape or form.
Plus, I just finished reading story interviews from the Empty Nest cast. You know, the show that was spun off from the Golden Girls. The cast talks about their experiences working with Bea on their show or just being on the same sound stage. It was also confirmed that Bea could not STAND Betty, unfortunately.
DaxShaw I agree. What is so wrong in stating that you know someone does/didn't like you? She didn't elaborate or give any specifics or details, just made a statement.
JhomasE That is sad. It almost sounds like Betty and Bea were the closest to truly being like their characters. That is probably part of the reason why any scenes involving the two of them seemed authentic...most especially the Saint Olaf stories...lol!!!! Life imitating art, or art imitating life, I guess! 😉
Betty was petite, very cute, funny and charming. Bea was big, gawky, had a manly voice and look about her and had an angry vibe about her. I think Bea's problem with Betty was mostly jealousy.
Well, the problem with celebrities and TV shows is no one knows what goes on behind the cameras except the actors. They can act like they love each other on the show and hate each other in real life. Look at Linda Evans and Joan Collins. They were friends long before Dynasty and were friends in the beginning years of Dynasty, but something happened and they ended up hating one another.
Betty White has to be an angel. She is wise, Shes funny, Shes caring, Shes open minded and very intelligent. Wealthy but very grounded, I hope she stays around for another 50 years!
carmencolumbusohio you are so right - and with her qualities she possesses might just be why she is still living strong today :)
Angel? She doesn't even know if there's a heaven or hell.....and at her age. Tragic
Sarah Stewart excuse you.
Hannah Heart Sorry. I meant no disrespect to Betty White. Just surprised she doesn't know much about faith at her age that's all.
Sarah Stewart better.
"Maybe he figures that he's already been there." - LOL almost turned my stomach upside down. Yeah, she will be missed a lot.
She had a heart of gold. Our golden girl was so sweet and truly cared about people and animals. Rest in peace Betty.
Great lady. Lived a full life. God bless her soul
Our golden girl 🥺✨💛
Betty White was a high priestess in the Church of Satan. She was the Satanic Queen of Hollywood. You didn't get to be famous in LA without Betty's approval.
Look up the video of her drinking blood. Hollywood isn't what you think.
@@ottohesslein3230 100% yes.
Every day I think I am having a bad day, I google to make sure Betty White is okay. If she is still here, I pull me stuff together and carry on.
Wow. No joke.. I've done this on a bad day. She is loved 💜
Brilliant!
Vicki... What a lovely inspirational thing to say ❤️👍💐 x
I do this sometimes, too.
Vicki Payne really? No offence but what if she dies then what for you?
"I love everything with a leg on each corner. But the human animal is a vengeful creature. Human animals wish very bad things for other human animals."
~Betty White 💛💜
Yeah, definitely the best statement from this whole video. I've always loved her transparency.
You sure that wasn't Joe Kenda who said that? lol.
@@LisaMaryification lol detective Kenda is the man! One of my favorite Kenda quotes is, "Not only are you the worst liar I've ever seen, but you also have the I.Q. of a turnip." 😁🕵️♂️
We will never be good enough to be called Animals an animal is pure and loyal and amazing humans will never be animals humans are trash
I only like humans who like animals. We can work together. Other than that, screw humans.
Just such a legend. At the end of the day - all this time on earth is about being a good person, like Betty was. That's it. Well done Betty you did great!
"And it's none of our business!"
THANK YOU, Betty!
Joy was getting a little bit messy here but Betty forever stayed classy...no need to get nasty for ratings Joy....
Right. She broughr up the subject acting like she was totally unaware of anything. Then when Betty White said "Bea wasn't too fond of me", Joy chime in with " I've heard that before"
The Helping Review Girl she did she played it off well
@@Kelaine72 right..trying to go wendy Williams won't help Joy at this stage in her career... with such a classy respectable guest like Betty
If joy can't bad mouth someone, she can't talk.
@@johnkelly2663 right I think she's better off just staying on The View hanging out with Whoopi
“I really don’t care who you sleep with”
My sentiments exactly… the secret to long life is not dwelling on stupid stuff.
Except your eternity is at stake.
@@bmbutler2 no it isn't.
@@bmbutler2 according to bullshit that you can’t demonstrate.
Yeah, sure Betty says "I don't care who you sleep with.", but then you wait for her naked in her dressing room and it's all "Who the hell are you?" and "I'm calling the police!"
@@bmbutler2 well let our eternity be at stake and stfu. Did u not hear this woman? Ur watching a video with such a pure woman explaining how these things should be handled. She clearly said it isnt any of her business who pp sleep with yet negative, evil ppl like u still found a way to mind other ppls sexual choices. Let our eternity be at stake and only worry about YOURS. Also some of us arent brainwashed so save it 🤦♂️
Rest In Peace Betty! The world is a little darker without you. ❤️😭
THAT'S a classy lady. We should all take note, eh?
Ultimate, never thought much about her. I thought she was funny on everything she was on that I remember watching her in. I love that she's such an animal activist. I've watched her in this ugly political climate (thanks to the libs) and I love how she doesn't speak ugliness when asked a biased question. She doesn't fall for the Katie Couric's and all the other talk show hosts who try to elicit an anti conservative answer. NOW that's CLASS!!! I've noticed that about Rachael Ray, too. She may be a screaming lib, but, she doesn't care what political side you are when her guests appear on her morning show. Everyone should take their lead.
ProudKansan08 I absolutely agree! I hope 2018 will bring this country back together, seems like people on both sides have lost the ability to be gracious and kind to one another. So with that sentiment in mind, this "screaming lib" would like to say Happy New Year!!! May you and your family have a blessed and bountiful year! ✌🏽️❤️
10dogs7catsezpz, thank you, and I appreciate your gracious reply. WISH more people were like you!! Happy New Year!! And may YOU and YOUR family have a blessed and bountiful year, too!!! :)
UltimateOmegaRed amen!!! The world would be such a better place if there were more people like Betty White!!!!
oh i love betty white , i am so glad that she is still with us today.
pelen23 Yes, so true. It will be such an incredibly sad day when she leaves this world. I've adored her since the 70s. 🤗
pelen23 Me, too! She is so sweet!
pelen23
Amen
And still is
pelen23 me 2
Picture this, Sicily, 1932,...
Lol... good one, Rose and Sophia were my favorites on GG
😂😂
😂😂 brilliant
Yessss I love it
👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
I’m sad and not sad at the same time, Ms. Betty lived a great life up to 99 years old that is a blessing. As my grandma would have said “she is made out of good material”. R.I.p Ms. Betty
Betty still looks great. What an amazing lady.
I read somewhere about Saturday Night Live-Betty White, Madonna and Tina Turner didn't need to use the monitors to read their lines in the skits. They memorized all their lines in the skits they were in. Watch Coffee Talk with Madonna and she delivers her lines like she's just talking naturally.
Show bussiness back then: co-stars didn't like each other personally, but respected each other and kept it professional. Now, everything is about catfights and throwing shit at each other even if you work together. It used to be about talent, now is about gossip. Is even funny how the video's title is about Betty's relationship with Bea, when the subject was talked about for ten seconds more or less. Drama sells.
P.S. Betty White is amazing
Karla Padilla I thought she meant at first from what i know they all grew to be great friends
+Karla Padilla business GN
+Karla Padilla Or they don't make their scenes in the same room. I'm looking at you, Julianna Margulies.
Joan Crawford. and Bettie Davis had one of the most talked about feuds in Hollywood. Basically the only difference between now and then is social media/the internet. People are people at the end of the day. Not everyone will like you, that's just human nature.
Such a happy, genuine soul. We will miss you Betty. A few weeks shy of her 100th birthday, what a long life! May you continue to make others laugh in the after life, now you know the secret 🙏🏼
Oh no, I cry now 😭
Betty was loved because she was so kind to everyone. She made you feel happy. Even joy tried to watch her manners.
Watching this, I caught myself smiling listening to Betty White speak. She is a class act. So kind hearted. So funny.
My grandma just turned 97 in January and Betty white talks just like her..
Betty was just confirming what Rue McClanahan told everyone before she passed. It's not that Bea disliked Betty, I think Betty just got on her nerves sometimes. Conflict of personalities. They both admired and respected each other immensely on a professional level. Bea and Betty were polar opposites as far as personalities go so it's not unexpected that sometimes Betty's super sweet personality would grate on Bea's more reserved personality's nerves. Betty didn't say anything negative about Bea here, went on to say how much she admired and respected her. Love them both - they made magic together on screen along with Rue and Estelle. I still watch Golden Girls to this day. No other show matches it's level. Hot In Cleveland is also good since its great to see Betty on TV regularly with an ensemble of women, but it's vastly different from Golden Girls.
Bea initially turned down Golden Girls because she thought Betty was the put up to be the star - so it seems she didn't like her even before they worked together. But that happens - a lot of people say they don;t like someone who's famous despite the fact they don't know them as a person
And how would you know? You are just going by hearsay.
Me, too. Sometimes, my jaded 19 year old watches it with me, and she thinks their funny. Usually, she doesn't like the old shows that I used to watch when I was a teen, twenty something, and thirty something. But, she likes the Golden Girls.
HOW THE HELL DO YOU KNOW? WHERE YOU THERE? IF BETTY SAID WHAT SHE SAID, I THINK I WOULD TAKE HER ON HER WORD.
I guess Jon people like that don't like that people who gives interesting insight. Don't worry I agree with you :)
Did anyone notice when the reporter asked about death, Betty was like "ya know my mother-"
It's like Rose with her St Olaf stories! 💖😂
Loved the St Olaf stories :-)
calihartley2010 haha yes, the Sicily stories were amazing
omg bless his comment
picture it, Sicily 1934...lol
I thought the exact same 👏😂💜
"I wouldn't want to be president of the United States" sounds like she was qualified, anyone that wants the job has an angle, a head of state should be dragged into office kicking and screaming
She is a lovely human being.
I had no idea Estelle was so afraid of death. That really makes me sad knowing she played the oldest person and constantly had scenes discussing death. Must’ve been so difficult for her 😢
She was also the first Golden Girl to pass away….
I hope she is in in Heaven she was so funny she was actually my favorite golden girl.
"What happens when there's just one of us left?" - Rose Nylund.
I love her she was the epitome of wit and grace. She will be forever missed.
Hello Rebecca how are you doing today?....Betty is such an amazing soul she was so selfless and kind of love everyone around her....what do you think about Betty and her lifestyle?
Boy Betty had such a great outlook on everything. U cud just c how genuine she was. She was amazing.
Wow, Joy. Just have to dig up dirt huh? I've never seen someone so inappropriately named.
What did you think she was going to ask her?
@@amehka5416 She wouldn't let it go, like she thinks the public is entitled to that information. We're not.
Edit: to be fair this a gossip show and that is a sad enough commentary on our culture.
patricia gatlin there are a
Million things she could've asked her: about the golden girls, about her days on Mary Tyler Moore show, about keys to surviving a Hollywood career over decades, over some of the changes she's seen in her lifetime, she could've asked her about the golden girls or plays she appears in... but no: she asked about outing a gay/bisexual actor (Grant) who died decades ago, which is irrelevant in this context and about a flamboyant gay performer Liberace who had nothing to do with Betty's career or life. Completely random, ridiculous questions just in order to create sensationalism. So tacky and it's because of people like the screeching Joy Behar in the media that America is in decline. Pure Vulgarity.
@@stmichl9433 correct. Insulting inappropriate and offensive
Betty is proof that if you're kind and talented you can have a long career... and I can't think of anyone who has had a longer career than Betty, who's been on TV pretty much since it's inception. She is and will always be amazing
Fun fact, Bea Arthur was a US Marine. She served during WWII
This host was determined to speak of negativity. BETTY WAS THE EPITOME OF CLASS , GRACE, HIP, AND JOYFUL AND HAPPY. My child is blessed to have a Nana like her..exactly like her. Crying over Betty's passing. 😢
I couldn’t stop sobbing laying on my kitchen floor right when I read the news. Was even supposed to pick up my little boy from day care at 4 that day but I just couldn’t and couldn’t even take calls. He stayed at one the workers house for two nights since they couldn’t reach so now everything is fine. THATS how much I love her I couldn’t deal
@@againstthepods4316 i cried a lot, i think it effected so many people. although i’m 18 she was all i watched when i was a younger kid. cried like i did when my papaw died
Yes I don't like the host
@@againstthepods4316 …you abandoned your child for two days because a celebrity died? I’m sorry if that sounds insensitive, Betty white was a wonderful person, but your priorities sound very skewed
@Rebecca Friedman she made the same comment elsewhere, I wasn't 10% as nice about as you were. I ripped into her.
Betty is a class act. May God bless her for many more years.
Dont know why, but when she said Estelle now knows "the secret", I couldnt help but get teary eyed because thats the sweetest thing Ive ever heard!
It really was ! :')
I think she was referring to her mother not sure tho
Paul Simpson I think you are right. She was telling about what her mother had told her.
1kudzuking It does seem confusing, at first, whether Betty was referring to her mother or to Estelle. If you go back and listen to it a time or two I think you will determine (as I have) that Betty was saying that her mother often used that phrase but then Betty shifts her thought and her tone back to the death of Estelle and says "now SHE (meaning Estelle) knows the secret. At least that is how I'm interpreting it after listening to it a few times. Who knows? I'm often wrong!! Regardless, it IS a beautiful sentiment.
Jimmy Lollar more importantly, WHO CARES!!
I loved how she embraced everyone! Just learning more about her now. What an awesome human being. I wish that there were more people like her.
Why would you ask ANY "old" person, "Are you Afraid of Death"??? ~ O.O
Ted Green, Joy is no spring chicken herself.
Sorry for being two years late with a reply but heres the Answer. Because it is said that you grow wiser with age, Thus Old people who are closer to Death have a more clear understanding of what Death is and life in General, Compared to an inexperienced young adult. Why not ask them? We know they are going to die soon, They know it as well, They know and have a more clear Understanding of Death (Since having seen a lot of people in their life die).
Ted Green because she's next.
I can see you're point, and I think its a stupid question, too, but, then, why not ask it? Probably couldn't think of anything else to ask her.
Robert Lofgren, You are right , Joy is an old woman herself. She is 75 years old.
Betty is like everyones loveable Grama. It will be a deep loss when she leaves us and discovers the secret. I adore you Betty! You are fabulous!!
Sattnin77 very well said!
Sattnin77 Indeed. Well put.
Betty White should make a perfume line for mature women and call it 'Secret'
Too bad she never had children
Even as a kid I loved watching Golden Girls, to date. I'm guessing "Rose" outlived them all being the eldest coz she is chill. Both on and off stage.
She had her head frozen!
Love how Joy thinks Betty "outted" Cary Grant when she's the gossiper who went digging.
Living angel hope she’s reunited with her love and the rest of the golden girls ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love Betty White...she seems like a truly good soul.
When the guest is so much more interesting and intelligent than the host...
Kung Flu anyone is more intelligent then Joy!
Tell me about it. In phillines you will find more stupid host in media and current affairs asking the stupidest questions.
@@michellearseneau8119 THAN Joy. THAN. Classy that.
@@loverojas6988 What is phillines, pray tell?
@@mckavitt13 sorry its phillipines dear
As someone who has a very upbeat friend, sometimes it's hard to take. Doesn't mean Bea truly didn't like Betty, just means sometimes your having a day where "sunshine, lollypops&rainbows" is hard to take...
What a lovely interview. Both women played off each other well and had an intellectual conversation that went beyond “what’s your favorite role”. RIP Betty, you will always be missed.
I agree. Joy has haters, but so what -- she's mouthy and opinionated. And a total role model for this here introvert. You go, gurl.
Loved Bea Arthur. Dorothy's sarcasm is hilarious.
Eileen Pizarro 🙋
Very funny lady.
She was just as sarcastic as Maude too😀
Eileen Pizarro Ahhhh Dorothy Zbornak! I love that woman!
@Sweetpea What s fucking stupid thing to say,! Your moronic
I've just stared watching the Golden Girls this year. It's sad to think Betty is the only one left. But it's great to see her doing so well. And I can understand Estelle's fear of death very well. You don't know what happens at that moment..not a nice thought at all.
***** That's true. In the end she forgot about that fear, lucky for her. But, when you still know you have it, it's not nice. It's not nice for the relatives too.
The bible says you can know where you go after you die. Jesus said " He that believeth on me hath everlasting life. Trust Jesus as your lord & savior. Repent of your sins & live for Jesus. He died on a cross that we might have eternal life.
+DutchHPfan1992 ...you do know if you are saved/born again Dutch. Well at least that you make heaven
if you are.
It's a nice story. LOTR has a good one after death too. Truth is, nobody *knows* until they die. (Though arguably, an MRI has some pretty compelling evidence.)
+mysonruns idiot!
Really though, according to Bea Arthur's son, she did like Betty. They just approached showbusiness differently. Betty liked to talk to the audience between shots, Bea liked to stay in character and not engage the audience between shots, etc. Really just Bea was more old school, but they did get along.
Joy Behar is so incredibly rude. Who asks an older woman tons of questions about death? Talk about classless.
She treats her like a person. Simmer down
@Thunder Bird What an incredible rebuttal.
Why, we're all going to die. She's an adult she can handle it
You might be interested and maybe relieved to know that many questions on talk shows like this are discussed and agreed upon before the cameras roll. Some might think it takes away the “magic” or whatever, but it’s actually a courtesy to the guest, to ensure they’re prepared to talk, make any statements they need to make, and happy to come back on the show.
She interrupted her, i'm not a fan of that interview style .
Who doesn’t love Betty White? She’s just love and joy personified.
To be fair, she's not that Joy personified, Joy is just awful. 🤣
Facts
"Back in St. Olaf"
"Picture it Sicily 1931"
"For God's sakes Rose Eisenhower
used less chalk planning D-Day"
"My my sir your words could charm the dew right off a honeysuckle"
😂😂😂😂 I absolutely love this show!! I've seen them all a thousand time and never get sick of them!
Kram Proff I do to hot topic needed to sell golden girl merch.
And I just said all those in the voices of the people very likely to say them... lol
What a great interview, what a life this woman had, God bless her soul.
Amen.☁️🎺👼💒🙏🌹