Autism Mom VLOG #1 | First of All, Let's Be Real.

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  • @leeblessed7498
    @leeblessed7498 5 лет назад +170

    My son is Autistic and 23 years old. He is functional and a productive part of Society. Needless to say, Anne will be ok, because early intervention is key and you have taken care of it.Your such a GREAT hands on Mom. GOD BLESS

    • @barbarasaunders2160
      @barbarasaunders2160 5 лет назад +4

      My son is 25 never diagnosed professionally with Autism, but I believe he is on the spectrum. When he started walking as a baby he walked on his toes. The pediatrician said he would grow out of it, he didn't. Around the age of 6 I was told he could have surgery to cut his Achilles tendon to loosen it. I chose not to. He still, at 25 will at times walks on his toes. Around 6th grade the teacher said he was a really bright kid the only problem was he didn't have friends, which today at 25 is still true. He went through school and college basically without friends. It bothers me, he seems fine. He has a BS degree in Computer Science, and has veen with his job since finishing college. I guess according to where they are on the spectrum has a lot to do with progress.

    • @Preppergirl10
      @Preppergirl10 2 года назад

      Does he drive?

  • @amoursamone724
    @amoursamone724 5 лет назад +281

    She reminds me so
    much of my son. To all of my fellow Autism Moms! Early Intervention definitely is the key! Give our babies a chance 🧩💙❤️🧡💛💚. Sending positive energy to you all 💕

    • @minnievaughn3359
      @minnievaughn3359 5 лет назад +3

      @DL1982 Peters Up your omega 3 during this pregnancy! And try to eat and diet full of minerals and vitamins.

    • @amoursamone724
      @amoursamone724 5 лет назад +3

      DL1982 Peters DL1982 Peters It definitely wasn’t easy for me either! My Son was diagnosed at 2. I had to almost threaten for a evaluation. After his evaluation i immediately started the process of getting him in ABA. He didn’t start til 3. No one take your child as serious as you do. & It can be extremely frustrating! Don’t give up and stand firm on what you want for your babies! Keep checking on the status , don’t wait on them to contact you! Praying for a healthy baby 💕

    • @lisakaye3919
      @lisakaye3919 5 лет назад +5

      I'm so happy I found this channel.and other autism moms. I need it bcuz sometimes I feel so overwhelmed. This is a great release.

    • @LaTeeTee0125
      @LaTeeTee0125 5 лет назад

      @DL1982 Peters The system does absolutely make you jump through a million hoops, it's a bit easier if you have private insurance unfortunately. Speaking from experience of a 1st time mom of a little boy with Autism. God bless yall and stay strong the babies are worth it🙏🏾💪🏽💛💚❤💙

    • @LaTeeTee0125
      @LaTeeTee0125 5 лет назад

      Hello fellow Autism Autism Mom's stay strong and prayed up!! We are stronger together, encouraging each other and education of those who don't "understand" our special kiddos is MORE important than I can ever explain💙❤💚💛

  • @kathyw.3146
    @kathyw.3146 5 лет назад +285

    Yes we do give a damn.☺ We have come to love Anne too.

    • @BodyCulinary
      @BodyCulinary 5 лет назад +10

      Yay for parents who are present for their children.

    • @bobbiebsweet6025
      @bobbiebsweet6025 3 года назад +1

      Beautiful Mama Heart! 💜

  • @Cupcake813x
    @Cupcake813x 5 лет назад +158

    My daughter is 3 and autistic. She is only about 9 months old mentally. It is a struggle and one of the hardest things I’ve ever dealt with. This reminds me that I’m not alone ❤️ thank you for sharing ❤️

    • @livelystone9367
      @livelystone9367 5 лет назад +2

      Seek Jesus 💙

    • @sundaywhite6082
      @sundaywhite6082 5 лет назад +4

      Elexis Janai’ you should start you and your daughter RUclips ❤️🥰

    • @NaTashaMKilgore
      @NaTashaMKilgore 5 лет назад +1

      💙

    • @tykirahwilliams8401
      @tykirahwilliams8401 5 лет назад +1

      You should record the journey .. it’ll be amazing ❤️

    • @leeblessed7498
      @leeblessed7498 5 лет назад +6

      No, your far from it. I will put you on my PRAYER list. Your still in the early phase. She will still reach MANY MILESTONES and you will REJOICE, as if you won the lottery. You will be ok and your baby will be also. GOD BLESS. 🙏

  • @selenab2531
    @selenab2531 5 лет назад +148

    Btw. Chuckey E-cheese have autism day. Once a month. Lights and sounds are dimmed and there is verry little kids. The staff is always amazin. In in Fl, mines id the frist sunday of the month.

    • @dollface1992
      @dollface1992 5 лет назад +6

      that’s so amazing ! Good Job to Chuck E. Cheese for making a safe space for autistic kids to enjoy and play !!

    • @Thankful2010
      @Thankful2010 5 лет назад +1

      Thanks! I’m in FL. That’s good to know for my little one.

    • @smartmouth0229
      @smartmouth0229 5 лет назад

      Selena Brown In Jax,Fl it varies but always come with positive thoughts and hope for the best.

  • @caramel1922
    @caramel1922 5 лет назад +47

    Content like this helps us to be more empathetic to parents in general. I’m childless so it’s easy to see a child having a meltdown and think (s)he has behavioral issues when in actuality there is developmental impairments. I’m grateful you are educating me.

    • @MsVaughnTV
      @MsVaughnTV  5 лет назад +13

      Before having a child I didn't even know what autism was. It just "wasn't my problem." I started reading lightly about it when I was pregnant but still very ignorant. Now I can see an autistic kiddo coming a mile away. And I run to them. You're so right.

  • @Itspinkpineapples
    @Itspinkpineapples 5 лет назад +213

    Vaughn maybe try putting one of those big plastic mats under her high chair during meal time so that when she eats you can just gather the mat and take it out and shake it..especially since you're already so busy dealing with the day to day of being a mom to Anne..cleaning that floor 3 times could be energy you place into something else. Just a suggestion of course do what works for your family hut motherhood is tiring enough and as a special needs mom myself to a now adult child it can exhaust you....you guys are raising Anne beautifully btw ❤ Take care of you as well so that you can continue to be your best for Anne

    • @827honey1
      @827honey1 5 лет назад +11

      That is a great idea.

    • @andriasmith8295
      @andriasmith8295 5 лет назад +3

      Definitely! Those mats are the best.

    • @yahsharelscrown7647
      @yahsharelscrown7647 5 лет назад +13

      Very sweet advice, it's draining enough being a mom to even a hyperactive child😳😫

    • @mica0408
      @mica0408 5 лет назад +2

      Thank you

    • @tacaradasha6156
      @tacaradasha6156 5 лет назад +9

      My daughter is 11 months and a mat (we use her old tummy time mat) is a must for her. She likes to eat her eggs but also "share" with the floor 🤣.

  • @owemeanthropology
    @owemeanthropology 5 лет назад +95

    I can can see the worry in your eyes, but the early intervention, attention and care you're giving to Anne is going to do/is doing wonders for her. I work in a special needs high school with a lot of students on the spectrum. the goals for each student are different, and honestly I wish they paid as much attention to students' individuality in "mainstream" schools. I definitely can't tell you how to feel or that you should care what I think, and I think you're doing a wonderful job. thank you for sharing.

    • @leeanno9219
      @leeanno9219 5 лет назад +11

      I do agree. I also work in a special needs school and I can see as well as feel the anxiety mom had in Chuck E Chees. Anne truly seems to be exposed to quite a lot. Continue doing a good job mom and dad. When you need to take breaks though, kindly ask someone you trust with Anne to come over and you and dad take break. Your mental health is just as important in this progress of Anne.

  • @RashetaCannon
    @RashetaCannon 5 лет назад +99

    When Anne was singing,”I love you! I love you”....Lawd, my heart can’t take all that cuteness!!!😍

  • @lovesmusic24
    @lovesmusic24 5 лет назад +94

    I have been following you since way back before you had her so I got emotional when she was singing in the bathroom!! So sweet to hear her little voice! and then she leaned in and gave you a kiss!! *im not crying, you're crying* lol! You are doing an AMAZING job!!! She is blessed to have a mommy like you

  • @rabiahh7996
    @rabiahh7996 5 лет назад +103

    As a teacher who has autistic kids mainstreamed into my class I definitely give a damn. What you are providing is amazing

    • @r.w.3897
      @r.w.3897 5 лет назад +5

      rabiah h - I’m only watching this because I’m a teacher! What better way to learn than from awesome parents who are honest about the things that aren’t shared at a regular staff development. The more I know the better I can serve my students.

    • @KITTIEKAT221
      @KITTIEKAT221 5 лет назад +1

      Resa J. Y’all are amazing!!!

  • @Lemonpeel2021
    @Lemonpeel2021 Год назад +1

    I’m very ignorant to autism but your segment is giving so much light. Thank you

  • @ShayDonnice
    @ShayDonnice 5 лет назад +232

    Yay!!! Proud of her...by the way you’re a great mom❤️

  • @MargaretLang431972
    @MargaretLang431972 5 лет назад +74

    My sister's child, my nephew is autistic and he was a handful at first he had to be sent to a special program for autistic children for a time, he came back home and he was much better. Now he is in his 20's and has a part-time job at McDonald's and he does his own cooking and his own choirs. He is really quite independent now but he does have OCD, everything has to be clean in order for him to use it. I'm so proud of him he has come along way. Anne is very sweet I think she will be pretty independent as a teenager, she is quite developed already.

    • @Dime.Society
      @Dime.Society 5 лет назад +5

      Dark Knight I have an autistic son who will be 14 soon. He is very independent. He is looking forward to getting a job as well. He’s very neat an clean as well. He was born @24 weeks. 1.4oz . What a ride lol

    • @karenb2873
      @karenb2873 5 лет назад +6

      My babygirl was born at 24 weeks 1lb 8 oz. She didn't make it tho. But I do often wonder what our life would of been like had she lived. I grieved like hell for years............But after watching videos like these remind me of how her life may have been like had she lived. I wish my babygirl was here, just not suffering..........

    • @Dime.Society
      @Dime.Society 5 лет назад +3

      karen b I’m sorry for your loss. I was 19 when I had him, thank god for my parents helping me. Because I was a child. I’m in my 30”s now an married. I couldn’t imagine my life without him. He taught me to be caring have empathy be kind, listen, take time for small things. An I’m so grateful that god allowed me the pleasure of being his mom. He talks about having children an being a husband❣️ I’m tearing up now ✌🏽😂😂😂

    • @karenb2873
      @karenb2873 5 лет назад +4

      Thank you for your condolences...... I was 21 when this happened to me. I was devastated to say the least. I always wanted a healthy chocolate little girl and that's what she was. It took me 15 years to finally get to a place of acceptance..(she would be turning 21 this December).......BUT, GOD is good because he did bless me with 2 healthy kids later. Now I have a 17 1/2 year old son and 16 year old daughter........Sometimes/Most times, I feel that God knew that having a child with special needs (she was born with some physical issues) he knew I probably would have a tough time with her and he chose to keep her. I used to beg/bargain/plead with to God to let me mother her with all the love/support me and my family was ready to give her...........talk about PAIN...........Can you imagine------------Saying Hello and Goodbye at the same time to your first child?????? I can't even begin to explain that........God Bless you and your family...................

    • @Dime.Society
      @Dime.Society 5 лет назад +4

      @@karenb2873 i was 19 as well, Ive always been a non attached person. Because I can handle if an when they leave. I didn't get attached to him right away because mind you I went into labor at 5 months. they told me if he survived he would have issues an I should commit him. I went to the hospital everyday with breastmilk even though he didn't eat I had a little more hope everyday. No brain bleeds, the hole in his heart closed on its own. he does have learning issues an developmental delays but my god knows what we can bare an what we can't. Now I can't picture my life without him. he made me better 100% your angel watches you, guides you. You will meet her again

  • @Mycaenae
    @Mycaenae 5 лет назад +24

    Just a quick tip: when she pulls you to what she wants it's a prime chance to pause and verbally/nonverbally model and request language. 🙏🏿

  • @KatrinaNicoleIvy
    @KatrinaNicoleIvy 5 лет назад +36

    Man, god gives his toughest battles to his strongest solidiers.Ive been following you for a long time. Im not up to date with the vlogs but I do know about the different seasons you've gone through and WOW! your resilience man. its so admirable

  • @ChanteMoore23
    @ChanteMoore23 5 лет назад +113

    I’m so glad you decided to do this. You & Anthony are awesome. Anne is so blessed 💕

  • @PeacefulAlli28
    @PeacefulAlli28 5 лет назад +81

    We give a whole damn!! ❤️ Blessings to you and your family!

  • @1Doricious
    @1Doricious 5 лет назад +64

    Thx for sharing, my daugther is autistic to. Make me feel less alone 😊

    • @SimplyNikki2
      @SimplyNikki2 5 лет назад +3

      I'm an autism mom too ladies. Hello and God bless you.

    • @immoore7208
      @immoore7208 5 лет назад +1

      I have a daughter with autism as well. She's 28.

    • @latashajackson6163
      @latashajackson6163 5 лет назад +1

      My son is also autistic. I don’t feel alone either

  • @CrystalMyLife
    @CrystalMyLife 5 лет назад +34

    Anne is beautiful! ❤ we speak postivity & amazing growth over her life!

  • @AntoinetteNikki.Styles
    @AntoinetteNikki.Styles 5 лет назад +23

    As an educator... as a mom.. Watching this video makes me so proud!!! I love your positivity and efforts!! It’s NOT unnoticed!♥️ I pray that many moms are encouraged by the video! I was!!! Keep pushing! (I tried to keep it short lol)

  • @KesiAndre
    @KesiAndre 5 лет назад +12

    Dude she is SOOO much like my son. The only differences is he sleeps really good and he doesn’t seem to have sensory issues. His therapist thinks he is under-stimulated but idk yet honestly. Hopefully when he starts talking more he can explain it better how he feels. Thanks for this. I never realized how important seeing parents going through the same until I saw this family guarding their toddler like my husband and I do because he was a “runner” lol it was so comforting to see cause our friends look at us like we are “doing the most” This was everything and you have inspired me to find a autism mom group around me

    • @MsVaughnTV
      @MsVaughnTV  5 лет назад +2

      "Runner" lol Anne is a runner too. They call it "eloping" in therapy.

    • @ladiepink
      @ladiepink 5 лет назад +1

      This comment made me think of one of my favorite shows on Netflix atypical specifically when u said runner. And thanks I didn’t know it was actually called eloping that makes a lot of sense. I love this comment community

  • @TheLowCarbSweetSpot
    @TheLowCarbSweetSpot 5 лет назад +22

    The stats in the intro are so sobering, but I understand why this is happening to us. Autism life is very stressful, unpredictable, and can be isolating-along with triggering depression, anxiety and other issues that moms have to handle while making it all look like we're fine. I am a single mom and an autism mom (to my beautiful 11-year-old son), and this journey has taken everything I have to give, but because of the sacrifices my son is thriving and progressing very well. Thank you so much for sharing!
    Also, a very HAPPY, although belated, Father's Day to your husband for fighting the good fight by your side. Autism life will test our limits to the absolute max, much respect to you both.
    May Anne's speech and all other abilities continue to soar; she's a beautiful girl! Blessings!

  • @heathersmith1580
    @heathersmith1580 3 года назад +1

    Awww.... Anne is so Precious. God Bless you Anne! I love you, I love you.🥰😘❤🙏🏾

  • @tamara8050
    @tamara8050 5 лет назад +38

    Yes, I give a damn...lol. My heart melted when Anne started singing...love her little voice. This was an awesome video...very informative! Thank you for sharing.

  • @atypicalmotherhood2724
    @atypicalmotherhood2724 5 лет назад +1

    I am so happy I found you!!! I am an Autism mom as well. YIKES - those statistics at the beginning of your video scared me a little. It is very eye-opening. We sure need to take care of ourselves so we can be the best for our little ones.

  • @jessicat.7056
    @jessicat.7056 5 лет назад +77

    Anne is so beautiful! This is amazing, Vaughn! Thank you for sharing! 💕

  • @tracymoran7187
    @tracymoran7187 5 лет назад +1

    You are awesome! God gave you Anne because he knew he could trust you with her. I just started watching you recently and I love you already. Continue to be blessed and be a blessing to everyone you inspire and educate.

  • @skylynn9403
    @skylynn9403 5 лет назад +23

    Her eyes are everything! She is so beautiful! Yes we do give a care so much! ❤️👏🏻

  • @ambiie3429
    @ambiie3429 5 лет назад +1

    I absolutely love this! I don't have any autistic children myself, but I'm always fond of learning about the unknown due to when people actually come across someone autistic you know how to approach. Plus, when people see an autistic child they're afraid of asking questions because of fear of overstepping that boundary. Anne is sooo adorable and Vaughn you're a wonderful parent taking the time to learn more about and cater to her every need! That's a beautiful thing to watch the dynamic the both of you share! Please show us more about a day in the life of autism!

  • @herlifeonpurpose
    @herlifeonpurpose 5 лет назад +101

    Thank you for sharing and providing educational information about your beautiful and smart daughter. Looking forward to more

    • @Lydz1derful
      @Lydz1derful 5 лет назад +3

      Her Life On Purpose agreed, sometimes people want to know about conditions but are afraid to ask for fear of offending, so sometimes it’s nice to learn this way

  • @acegrooms5135
    @acegrooms5135 3 года назад +2

    Im a grown man at work, at 4am doing security, in uniform, damn near crying after she sang after you lol. Just gave me so much encouragement with my 2 year old daughter, we are going threw schooling processes and tests. I’m subscribed and following along.

  • @BrendaBrown62
    @BrendaBrown62 5 лет назад +43

    Thank you for sharing. Praying that God will strengthen you for the journey. Anne, is precious.!!

  • @6134kiwi
    @6134kiwi 5 лет назад

    Please do not apologize for looking "messy". The reason why I love your channel is how you keep it real. If you are made up all the time, that isn't something I can relate to. You are a wonderful mom. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are doing a wonderful job!.

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 5 лет назад +13

    This is such an inspiring video!!! Thank you for showing us “ The Real” about autistic children.

  • @latoyacampbell7028
    @latoyacampbell7028 5 лет назад

    I got teary-eyed watching this video. I am a single mom to my 5 year old autistic son and I can't express enough how appreciative I am for this video! ❤💪🏾🤗

  • @femmekapital155
    @femmekapital155 5 лет назад +25

    Omg..... this is so inspirational to me because I was born with polio and my family did not know how to care for a child with disabilities but God was on my side at all time. #GodBless #prayerswork

  • @RaydellBrown
    @RaydellBrown 5 лет назад +1

    I just came across your channel and I really respect you sharing your life raising a child with Autism. My son is 22 yrs old and has a full time job and a girlfriend. I'm so proud and happy for my son and it was totally worth it. Your channel is so encouraging to other moms. Be blessed.

    • @samriissak1204
      @samriissak1204 Год назад

      Hi I am happy uour son doing great....could you please tell us which treatments helped him.also....which level autism he had.......bust I have autistic child my self thank you I really appreciate.

  • @kandecia30
    @kandecia30 5 лет назад +15

    You are such a sweet, calm mama. Anne is lucky to have you and it’s so nice that you’re family is supportive. ❤️

  • @darrenn5756
    @darrenn5756 2 года назад +1

    absolutely loved the realness

  • @vernellharris5278
    @vernellharris5278 5 лет назад +5

    Tears came to my eyes when Anthony showed up. Wishing you and your family many blessings and that Anne development continues to grow and you keep sharing your beautiful family life with us and helping other families learn more as well!!

    • @dscwisdom
      @dscwisdom 5 лет назад

      I love how protective Anthony is with her. Truly a living family, and I'm proud of you❤. Anne deserves nothing less.

  • @gem4365
    @gem4365 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. I have a daughter on the spectrum and its a new journey everyday. God bless you and your beautiful.

  • @taramarion402
    @taramarion402 5 лет назад +23

    The whole time I watched this vlog I found it hard to hold back tears. I can totally relate to you. My son Jace was diagnosed with ASD when he was almost four years old. I know it seems as though it took a long time for him to be diagnosed but my son started having seizures at four months and that took up so much of my focus. I had to stop working because he was constantly having seizures and we almost lost him three times. When he was diagnosed with ASD I cried and cried. My husband works so it has always been me that has become our sons caregiver. This is the hardest job I've ever had. It was hard to talk to my husband about my feelings because he is so used to me being strong. Not only does my child drop to the floor with seizures but now he will have a difficult time communicating. I found myself sinking into a depression and I can't even tell you the thoughts that went through my head. I do everything for my son and thank God he taught me how to be strong and how to be his mother. He is eight now and I have definitely learned to deal with things a lot better. He makes me strong!!! He makes me better!

    • @dollface1992
      @dollface1992 5 лет назад +3

      TARA MARION I don’t know you personally but from what you wrote - I am proud of you . You are strong and resilient and God will continue to see you through all trials and tribulations . God Bless you and your beautiful blessing of a son .

    • @taramarion402
      @taramarion402 5 лет назад

      @@dollface1992 thank you so much!!

    • @tanem9234
      @tanem9234 5 лет назад

      TARA MARION keep on keeping on... I am happy you have come this far which shows your strength and resilliance... I too have a 5 year old diagnosed with moderate autism... I cried initially but as I got the msg I must be extra special to have been entrusted to raise such a extra special child... My daughter thought me extra patients and extra love and I can say I'm proud to be her mom! Continue giving your best and make sure you get time to rejuvenate yourself in the process! All the best!

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      @helloimok7001 5 лет назад

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  • @kelligabaldon435
    @kelligabaldon435 4 года назад +1

    I found your channel unexpected, Wow thank you. My girl is 6 nonverbal, asd,spd,adhd. Awesome video!

  • @tempiress
    @tempiress 5 лет назад +14

    Aw Man this has got to be my Favorite Vlog yet!!! Why did my eyes get misty when she started singing “ I love you” Great Job Mom!

  • @ericakenon424
    @ericakenon424 2 года назад +1

    This was a great video. Representation is so important. My daughter is on the spectrum and currently the age that Anne was in this video. So validating to hear some of your concerns and challenges and know that I’m not alone.

  • @theresabacon4837
    @theresabacon4837 5 лет назад +4

    You are awesome, I teared up when you spoke of the abandoned children. God gives you the strength to handle these special babies, you and your husband are so blessed with the way you take such great care of Anne. May God continue to bless your journey, your strength and your family. He never gives us more than we can handle!!🙏

  • @victoriayoung8529
    @victoriayoung8529 2 года назад +1

    I loved your video and you are an amazing mama. Your daughter is such a gift and beautiful! My son is 20 months and has been in early intervention for a month now. He was diagnosed at 18 months because he was behind in his milestones and has stim behaviors. Some days are really hard but I look at his face and remember that all of this is for him!

  • @vernellharris5278
    @vernellharris5278 5 лет назад +11

    Vaughn I've been following you for a few years and for some reason today's vlog is so different and beautiful and touching not saying that other videos haven't been. My heart is really touched by you, Anthony and beautiful little Anne hoping blessings and strength keep coming your way!!

  • @elementsofshe
    @elementsofshe 5 лет назад

    As an autism mother of an 18 year old the significance of this content is essential to encouraging younger mothers with children newly diagnosed on the spectrum. Raising him has been the most challenging thing I've ever done yet the growth and compassion I've gained is immeasurable. It's a lifelong learning process and I appreciate the statistical data you've shared in this video. I can also relate to the heightened awareness and consideration when going on social outings and I'm sure many parents of children with special needs will also. We tend to create our own form of normalcy and ways to decrease our stress levels. Thank you, thank you, thank your for sharing such these moments with your viewers. It's very necessary for a communities everywhere.

  • @halomathomas4638
    @halomathomas4638 5 лет назад +13

    Your positivity and acceptance is admirable. I say this as a teacher because the spectrum is broad and many parents are in denial and only the child suffers. Kudos to you and your family.

  • @annarazmadze1270
    @annarazmadze1270 2 года назад +1

    She has the most beautiful eyes❤️

  • @ashkake6602
    @ashkake6602 5 лет назад +3

    Anne has such a sweet little voice. I pray for you all’s strength through out this journey. You’re doing great!

  • @ajab2448
    @ajab2448 3 года назад +1

    She reminds me of my daughter when she was 3 shes 7 now and had early intervention. With aba therapy and just believing in her, she has had so much progress. Anne is in good hands! You got this Queen❤

  • @_almondjoy
    @_almondjoy 5 лет назад +5

    You're a wonderful Mom. Little Anne is so precious and she's going to continue to improve. Especially with the love and support from her mom & dad plus extended family. Thank you for sharing

  • @kiahladuncan601
    @kiahladuncan601 5 лет назад

    I love you Vaughn! Ive been watching your channel from the very beginning here on youtube but this video touched me more than any video ive seen on youtube. Im an ABA therapist and one of the most heartbreaking thing ive seen is parents who drop their kids off at therapy but have mentally checked out and have no knowledge or interest in truly learning about autism and its effects on their child and entire family. This video makes me so happy because I love working with children on the spectrum and it has been one of the most rewarding things ive ever don. Its the reason im working toward becoming a teacher now. Seeing a parent so in-tun with her child and what she needs but also being unafraid to say that its hard and that you are doing everything you can is so amazing to me. Keep being the fabulous, kind-hearted person that you are. Your daughter is so blessed.

  • @tiffanythornton1937
    @tiffanythornton1937 5 лет назад +10

    Your a great mom! Way to use your platform! Anne so cute...and smart. You can tell she is progressing. Keep up the great work! #hardassworkingmom!

  • @ravellegittens7906
    @ravellegittens7906 5 лет назад

    She’s a crystal kid. The wave coming in is teaching us to work with our emotions. My little cousin didn’t talk until she was like 3.

  • @sofnblk2
    @sofnblk2 5 лет назад +8

    Vaughn, this was such a good, informational video! I'm a social worker and I am glad to know that you do spend some time on self-care. Anne is beautiful and so blessed to have parents and family that are putting her needs and care first! Peace and blessings!:-)

  • @carrollgirl547
    @carrollgirl547 2 года назад +1

    Watching your videos again. You are an amazing mom and inspiration

  • @catchadream100
    @catchadream100 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you for sharing so much info in a real life day-to-day style. Not many videos on here like this. Most are just speaking on what comes to mind on the topic of autism. But I appreciate their videos as well. this was very helpful . Ann'es village is so loving, I can tell

  • @NaturallyGlamTV
    @NaturallyGlamTV 5 лет назад

    Even if you don't have a child with autism I think these videos are very helpful for the rest of us. Helps us recognize if we see a child that may be autistic and be more aware of how we/our child engages with them. Very insightful! I'm learning a lot!

  • @foxylaidy08
    @foxylaidy08 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much for sharing this! It’s not easy..my daughter is also on the spectrum and is now 13!! She had a fear of unfamiliar places and she hated loud noise...she hated fans like omg! She talks good now still not at normal level but...she can hold a conversation and is very well understood... what helped me was to expose her slowly and consistently to things she hated like the fan, loud music, the dryer in the public bathrooms etc! It helped tremendously to help her adapt to the world around her. Be blessed ♥️♥️♥️

    • @shaywill3451
      @shaywill3451 5 лет назад

      I have a 11 on the Spectrum,and he is going into middle school....I am so scared,he speaks really well and very intelligent.But so worried about bullying.He is very in mature for his age.Do you have any advice for me.

    • @foxylaidy08
      @foxylaidy08 5 лет назад +1

      Shaywill34 how sweet! My daughter is also very smart and is doing very well... I worried about her a lot being in middle school trust me... I just constantly am asking her about her day and making sure that I pick up on any cues letting me know that she is uncomfortable or sad...and that’s never hard for me with her because she will let me know when she isn’t happy lol..she complains about her classmates being out of order in class but noting towards bulling her... I would just make sure you make yourself seen at the school occasionally just letting the everyone from staff to students know that he is not alone and you not gonna take no crap from no one! Good luck to your baby!

    • @shaywill3451
      @shaywill3451 5 лет назад

      Mslady C Thanks you so much...Very good advice..

  • @staceygreen2345
    @staceygreen2345 5 лет назад

    I love when she kept putting your hands up to the food and basically said hurry up!! Such a sweet girl...she makes me smile...You all are amazing

  • @edwinamclaughlin6205
    @edwinamclaughlin6205 5 лет назад +11

    We DO give a damn! Thank you for educating me on Autism.....you are a beautiful family.

  • @avalonbenoit
    @avalonbenoit 3 года назад +1

    Love the encouraging text added in!

  • @amberwaiters1125
    @amberwaiters1125 5 лет назад +5

    Oh my gosh. My oldest son is autistic. This really lifted my spirit! ❤️ Go Anne!

  • @vickiburns379
    @vickiburns379 3 года назад +1

    She is so precious

  • @sking3225
    @sking3225 5 лет назад +16

    Yes, I appreciate you sharing your experiences as an autism mom. I will continuation watch. 👍🏽

  • @kathynorris8843
    @kathynorris8843 3 года назад

    I felt the levity in your voice when daddy got there. You are a strong woman but something about having your husband/dad there makes it so much better for everyone!

  • @nursett08
    @nursett08 5 лет назад +6

    Thanks for sharing this Vaughn!🙋🏾‍♀️ I give a damn! As a first time parent of a toddler I gain a wealth of insight from all types of moms I come in contact with. I appreciate your openness and hope you feel supported by your RUclips community 😊 great job

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 3 года назад +1

    Cute💕 my daughter 8 years old autistic nonverbal, but I still relate. Thank you!

  • @ntaan-yuh4885
    @ntaan-yuh4885 5 лет назад +24

    I love the little song Anne!!💕❤️
    Great job Mrs. Vaughn. Tfs!!

  • @ShaJ07
    @ShaJ07 5 лет назад

    I appreciate you being candid because not many people are. I want nothing but the best for you and your family.

  • @mekamoohoo9541
    @mekamoohoo9541 5 лет назад +9

    Vaugh...her progress is in my prayers

  • @AMarie-qx8tc
    @AMarie-qx8tc 5 лет назад

    I am so grateful for your transparency! This is so beautiful to watch. I work as an ABA therapist currently and one of my kids is nonverbal. He is older so it has been a bit of a struggle learning him and the best way to communicate, but it has its rewards. I get emotional seeing parents who are not supportive with their children who are on the spectrum, so my heart is warmed by the efforts you and all these moms in the comments take!

  • @scorpioray1
    @scorpioray1 5 лет назад +12

    I really enjoyed this video. Please continue to share and educate us on autism. Anne is so sweet and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • @SimplyNikki2
    @SimplyNikki2 5 лет назад

    My son is autistic. He's almost 16 now. I remember those earlier days...how hard it was. Its fortunate that you have Anthony for support. My son's father wasn't there, but my mom was amazing. Bless you and your family for the love and support you give that little angel.

  • @torit629
    @torit629 5 лет назад +5

    You are an awesome mom and you are going to help and motivate many people with your videos. Anne is blessed to have a great support system. Be blessed!! much love!

  • @BrittSadeWill
    @BrittSadeWill 5 лет назад

    I'm a mom to two typical girls but I'm an elementary school teacher of students with autism and I LOVED this vlog! I have worked with children with autism for over 5 years and it's so amazing to see a mom as involved as you from this small peek into your life! I so appreciated your portion about feeding. My students are in grade 4-5 and eating is DEFINITELY a challenge. The picky eating can be lifelong- but as long as you're doing all these leaps and bounds it will continue to benefit Anne in the future! Having a child with autism HAS to be difficult. I'm with my kiddos 8 hours a day and I get home so pooped but still have to parent my own two. I've seen lots of abandonment as you mentioned and some of my work kiddos only get consistency and attention in my classroom. I cannot imagine doing what you do all day every day. Hats off to you mama! You're killing this aut mom thing! Being a mom is HARD AF, let alone navigating life with a child that has a special need. Again, this is inspirational to watch and see someone so involved and dedicated to their child and who isn't in denial and who has done research! Thanks for sharing. Thanks for positivity. And thanks for opening others eyes more and motivating me to push through my daily life with my own kiddos and my students!!

  • @naijachick
    @naijachick 5 лет назад +23

    I randomly just realized you and Eryka Badu favor each other 😆

  • @andriasmith8295
    @andriasmith8295 5 лет назад

    Yes keep the videos coming. I’m a nanny PT so it helps when parents ask me to help out with their kids who have special needs. I think your doing a phenomenal job with Anne and it’s so great that your family helps you as well. With the all the emotions you go through it so good to have support. Anne looks like a super sweet little girl and with the attention and help you are getting for her she won’t miss a beat. Yes girl but take care of yourself too!! Love your little family and all your videos!!!

  • @NaturallyBeingMe1
    @NaturallyBeingMe1 5 лет назад +6

    Hey Vaughn, I meant to say this earlier on when you came out about your daughter having autism. I really appreciate you doing this!! ❤️ My daughter is 16 now and was diagnosed at an early age as well. I rarely see girls with autism so I was definitely feeling alone on that one. She is on the lower end of the spectrum with no behavioral issues. It is just how she communicates and learn. I wish I could talk with you more about it. Thanks again for sharing because I’m sure you are helping so many other moms out there. 🤗

  • @evettehargrove4904
    @evettehargrove4904 5 лет назад

    She is very smart. She guides you to what she wants and she knows where everything is. I love this video. Children diagnosed with autism is very common now.

  • @ChanteMoore23
    @ChanteMoore23 5 лет назад +9

    Coming back again to say this is soooo well edited, Vaughn! The transitions, voiceover, stats in between. This was special.

  • @SimplyAyesha
    @SimplyAyesha 5 лет назад

    Thank you for sharing! I’m an Autism mom too (of a 4 year old) and it is really touching to see other moms of color experiencing some of the same things I am. Sometimes as moms of kids with special needs, it can feel really lonely. Videos like this are very helpful!

  • @chefSqueez
    @chefSqueez 5 лет назад +5

    Yes! U are a wonderful mother! Many blessings to u and ur family! Praying for all the strength you need to succeed! U got this!

  • @tylerallen9390
    @tylerallen9390 5 лет назад +2

    Something to note as an ECE I noticed! Vaughn models the language that she wants Anne to use! She use a lot of descriptors when speaking to Anne which is all useful when helping her develop her language skills! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @jnellp9362
    @jnellp9362 5 лет назад +8

    Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of your life. Btw I love the way you style Anne, so cute! Also loved the vlog.😊💜💜💜👍🏾

  • @kutriceflanders7015
    @kutriceflanders7015 5 лет назад

    My son is 15 and prayer gets me through. Some days are harder then most. Take care of your self when you can, talking about it, and being honest about how you feel helps. Parent groups are good as well.

  • @FarmerCee
    @FarmerCee 5 лет назад +28

    I give a major damn. Love this kind of content as it educates and enrichs. Thank you for sharing.

  • @latanjajones8692
    @latanjajones8692 5 лет назад

    Thank you for sharing! I loved this video. My daughter has a special need, short bowel syndrome, and I take such great care of her and work really hard to make sure her condition doesn’t have her, that I forget to take care of myself. I liked hearing that I am not alone with making sure mommy’s self-care is managed. Please keep continuing to share Anne’s progress with us.

  • @justtasha9217
    @justtasha9217 5 лет назад +8

    Vaughn, You and your daughter are gorgeous beautiful eyes and all....Bless you guys! Also, I just honestly have to say, you have that Erykah Badu vibe going on. You kind of favor her a bit. Thanks for letting us into your lives!

  • @jasmyncaldwell9409
    @jasmyncaldwell9409 5 лет назад

    I’m new to your channel, but I just wanna say that watching you be a mom to your beautiful baby girl while educating us on a daily brings tears of joy to my eyes. Nothing but respect to you and your family, and Anne is so stinking cute 😩❤️!

  • @Getitgirl816
    @Getitgirl816 5 лет назад +3

    Its so beautiful to see Ann come out of her shell. I always knew she was different. ❤

  • @thisnewmommyrnlife494
    @thisnewmommyrnlife494 5 лет назад

    First of all, YES I give a damn. I’m an old, old fan of you and Meechy and even got to meet you guys a few times at different events. I’m a fellow Chicagoan too so I swear I relate to you in so many ways. I’m a new mommy to a 4 month old so when I was pregnant I went back and watched ALL of your vids about Anne and motherhood. I have to say, this was probably the best video you’ve done to date. First, thank you for letting us in on such intimate, sensitive details of your life... second, I don’t think I took a breathe the entire video. I think about your strength, resilience, willingness to learn and adapt to your life as it is, your willingness and ability to educate and inspire others, and in the midst of ALL of the things your YT family has experienced with you-You still SMILE. You still laugh, dance, meet up with your girls, decorate your house, be good to your husband and enjoy life. I’m only 25 years old but Vaughn I have learned sooo much from you and your family. Recipes, motherhood, carpentry tips, beauty secrets, girl the list goes on. Please continue to share content like this and your other vlogs. Much love from your YT little sister.❤️

  • @k.c.17
    @k.c.17 5 лет назад +5

    About to begin my journey with my daughter and this made me feel not so alone. Thank you for sharing this information. You are a breath of fresh air! New subbie for sure. MAD LOVE💖

  • @Nik_Key
    @Nik_Key 5 лет назад

    As a fan of your vlogs and a Speech Language Pathologist, it is so rewarding to see Anne’s growth. You are an amazing mom and an inspiration to all Autism moms! 👍🏿🙏🏾🙌🏾😃

  • @jenniferjones4113
    @jenniferjones4113 5 лет назад +4

    Love it!!! Hats off to you supermom!!! Wishing you and Anthony all the self-care, self-love, couple time, and energy so that you can continue to give your beautiful baby girl everything that she needs to continue to thrive❤❤❤❤

  • @ebonymathis9967
    @ebonymathis9967 5 лет назад

    Beautiful Momma, Daddy and beautiful baby girl! I'm so happy you're sharing your story. I'm a momma to an incredible Spectrum son. Your journey takes me back to all we struggled through but the journey was so humbling and blessed. Your patience & joy is such a blessing from God my sista! Keep loving & doing what you do. Taking proactive steps is the most precious gift you can give baby Anne. Hope & faith & prayer works! My son was non-verbal & afraid of people & food textures & too much stimulation at her age. He is now highly social, working and in college. God & love is sooo crucial for an Autistic child's development. But you are so right to give time & love to yourself too. Sending love & hope & prayer to you and your beautiful family ❤❤❤❤❤