That is absolutely truth. The statistics show the children end up with emotional problems and more. It should be a big consideration in the court and when proven should go to jail.
I have been the targeted alienated parent with all four of my sons for the past 20 years. And over the course of time my 2 grand daughters and 2 of my new daughter inlaws. It's so screaming painful.
It’s also lose-lose, because if you are upfront with your kids (in an appropriate way), they will converse with the other parent and make fun or tear apart what you shared. But if you choose to not be up front, then the other parent has free reign on defining reality and who you are
I had to walk away sadly my daughter only wanted money from me and lied and manipulated me and her grandmother couldn’t take it anymore been 3 years now still think about her and still love her
I always wonder when tbe child in this situation starts lying and manipulating, how much is "learned" from the narcissistic parent and how much of it is actually a genetic personality trait. ??? If we knew that it was 100% inherited, it would be possible to move forward in our own lives without the constant feeling that we need to rescue them.
After 18 years of no contact my daughter called me probably out of Guilt. I was not expecting that all the sudden she would invite me into he life. However She only responds some of my texts She has 4 kids now whom I only met once briefly) Now all I can do is be grateful of the first 18 years of her life that I was "allowed" to be close to her. I am also grateful that she cleared me of fault. Beyond that there's no place in her life for me. When you're screwed you're screwed !
Absolutely!
It’s loose loose no matter what you do it’s choose ur poison.
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That is absolutely truth. The statistics show the children end up with emotional problems and more. It should be a big consideration in the court and when proven should go to jail.
I have been the targeted alienated parent with all four of my sons for the past 20 years. And over the course of time my 2 grand daughters and 2 of my new daughter inlaws. It's so screaming painful.
Same here.
Dammed if you do dammed if you don't.
Exactly 💯
Precisely what had happened to me . Despite fighting for years in court. Eventually the kids don’t care and are like the that parent
Oh wow, that is exactly what I witnessed. It's like these narcissistic alienators all have a playbook.
Its going to continue until alienators are fined and put in jail. Its child abuse. Period.
My son is now 34, and withholding my grandchildren. He took over from his dad. I am literally exhausted from this whole mess.
It’s also lose-lose, because if you are upfront with your kids (in an appropriate way), they will converse with the other parent and make fun or tear apart what you shared. But if you choose to not be up front, then the other parent has free reign on defining reality and who you are
Thankyou for doing these it helps
I had to walk away sadly my daughter only wanted money from me and lied and manipulated me and her grandmother couldn’t take it anymore been 3 years now still think about her and still love her
I always wonder when tbe child in this situation starts lying and manipulating, how much is "learned" from the narcissistic parent and how much of it is actually a genetic personality trait. ??? If we knew that it was 100% inherited, it would be possible to move forward in our own lives without the constant feeling that we need to rescue them.
After 18 years of no contact my daughter called me probably out of Guilt. I was not expecting that all the sudden she would invite me into he life. However She only responds some of my texts She has 4 kids now whom I only met once briefly) Now all I can do is be grateful of the first 18 years of her life that I was "allowed" to be close to her. I am also grateful that she cleared me of fault. Beyond that there's no place in her life for me. When you're screwed you're screwed !
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