Hi Coach Lee. Your videos have kept me sane during my darkest days. I fell asleep watching 2-3 every night for almost a month. I did everything you said, followed all your advice, and after two months my ex wants me back. But I realised during this process that no contact is not about getting your ex back, it’s about getting yourself back. I cut contact to get my ex to miss me, but I realised now since we started talking again that it makes me so anxious and I’d honestly rather be alone. I got him back after doing everything you said, but now I realise that I don’t even want him back. I cannot thank you enough for putting my life on track. Thank you!
I hope I can feel the way you do some day. She’s a widow and dumped me because she said she’s not attracted to me for being bald. She knew I was bald the 3 months we dated. She knew I was bald when she wanted to be intimate. She also knew I was bald when she told me she fell in love with me. 😔
@@firemedic542 It has NOTHING to do with baldness. I believe she just lost attraction. It happens more often than you think. Good luck to you Michael..Listen to Coach Lee's video.
I'm not trying to get my ex back anymore, I'm now here for the moment Coach Lee says something really funny with the most serious look on his face. 👀🤔😁
These are the best moments😂 And besides I just love how all my anxiety fades away as soon as I start watching his videos. I feel understood and comforted and it just helped to move forward
To everyone who is hurting right now: things will get better. Follow his advice because it seriously works! My ex is begging for me back after 2 months. Stay in no contact. Keep pushing.
@@danielsea6479 .. For me .. because we share a dog together I had to be in contact at least once a month .. But when I talked to him .. I DID NOT TALK ABOUT ANYTHING EXCEPT, Cocoa ( the dog).. He would talk about his life on the calls. and he always answered or called back.. But I wasn’t rude at all .. I was sweet .. But just like Coach Lee says .. I gave him the Breakup.. After 4 months and seeing how our conversation over the phone was so positive.. I Knew he Missed me... However... Please Note it was Very very subtle at first then it grew.. after 4 MONTHS I MENTIONED MEETING UP AND TRYING AGAIN .. He said that was possible.. I DID NOT PLAY HARD TO GET .. I Was as Sweet as pie.. .. it’s now 6 months later and we are having our first date again.. I also follow Personal Development School with Thais Gibson.. Because she teaches an is an expert about attachment styles.. So what worked for me .. is knowing his attachment style .. But I gave Him time.. But I also had respect for myself enough to tell him what I needed and I didn’t say what he did wrong instead I said what will work.. Personal Development School is online but Coach Lee Message and videos I needed too because not everything that Thais Gibson I agreed with.. But everything Coach Lee says is the Truth! Give him or her the breakup and after time at least 3 and half months later .. Reach out but don’t pressure and go Very very slow and wait patiently.... But DO BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF
I hope I helped you because I am telling you the truth.. And don’t listen to any other Coach online !!! Stay away from Craig Kenneth.. Yes he is a psychotherapist but he believes in indefinite No Contact!!!! Such B/S... it’s just to keep you hanging on and on and to him .. I know because he isn’t telling you the truth . He will Rob you Blind if you let him!! He only is out for money! I also got the Emergency Break up Kit from Coach Lee .. It’s Extremely encouraging and it helped.. Good Luck to everyone on here!
@Leslie Johns can you give me advice? Did your ex ever breadcrumb you and if so, how would you have responded? My ex just breadcrumbed me a text where he just commented on a football team we both follow and said "Lol the (name of team) sucks" and all I did was respond "Lol indeed" the day after (he texted really late at night) and I haven't heard from him in a week. Do you think I blew it? Or did he just want to see if I was still interested and hoped I would jump for joy (as I have the week prior before resuming NC)?
Did you also respond sweetly to breadcrumbs? My ex ignored my last text so I went NC then he breadcrumbed me a week later with a text message where he commented on a football team we follow and all he said was "Lol they (name of team) sucks" and all I replied was "Lol indeed" and haven't heard from him in about ten days. :/ @Leslie Johns
@@maryalbazzaz8591 Good Morning.. I was sleeping so I couldn’t respond .. No NO NO NO YOU DIDNT BLOW IT!.. He is giving you very little, like I said in previous messages.. Subtle signs.. So you do the same but you must do no contact until he reaches out more..Yes Yes he misses you because he would not have anything to do with you.. I don’t know your age? But if you are young this is So normal.. My Ex at that time didn’t bread crumb me at all .. However he isn’t much of a tester.. But if he did text me anything besides information of our dog.. This WAS A HUGE SIGN ! .. Keep texting him depending how much he is texting you... do it once for 2 weeks then build it up twice for 2 weeks.. Then wait patiently.. if he doesn’t respond within 2 weeks ... back off.. if he does mirror what he does.. Also Please watch all Coach Lee videos.. because I have studied them and watched them very carefully.... And go to Personal Development School with Thais Gibson. She is online .. All her videos are free.. Find out his attachment style by taking the quiz and BE CONSUMED WITH WATCHING ALL HER VIDEOS.. Because you don’t want to be ever manipulative. You must be YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF AND THERE ARE STRATEGIES FOR HIS ATTACHMENT STYLE.. This will work if you do what she says for his attachment style.. This is also taking care of what you want in your relationship.... Because if he can’t meet your needs , it won’t last .. because it didn’t the first time when he broke up with me for a month.. I didn’t change that time .. I needed to change my behaviors and thinking .. I was begging and pleading and clingy.. But don’t BEAT YOURSELF UP IF YOU WERE! Because you are only human .. Lastly.. ITS TIME AND MORE TIME AND MORE TIME AND PATIENCE .. I Truly believe you have a chance!..
No contact definitely works. My ex reached out to me fairly quickly actually, today after 12 days. But the most important thing is that no contact helps YOU. Even in this short time of 12 days I realized a lot about myself. Even if things don't work out with my ex, this period has given me the strength to not feel bad about it and look towards my future with hope.
Also beware of the coaches who say, “An ex is an ex for a reason. Never go back to your ex.” Those coaches are also too extreme. Don’t play easy to get, but don’t play hard to get, either. You don’t want to rush through the process, but you also don’t want to avoid them too much.
Coach Lee, thank you ! After watching your videos all summer, finally last night the roles reversed. I don’t really have feelings for her anymore but she was literally crying over me. Trust the process. If I wouldn’t have gone into no contact, nothing good would of happened. I became a better person and my ex sees that. It’s a great feeling. Thank you, and listen to Lee!!
WE LOVE COACH LEE!!! I am on Two weeks of no contact with my ex, she got into a rebound but I have no fear!! I am working on myself and I believe that I will pull through and get her back! She is a great woman and I made many mistakes that I hope can be overlooked in the future!
I got my ex back after months of no contact she had a rebound but obviously it failed exactly how coach lee said it would in the meanwhile I lost the feelings of desperation’s to get her back so when she did ask me I told her to convince me why I should even think about it in which she gave a lot of heart warming words of regret and misery without me saying she made the biggest mistake and she even admitted that is now me with the last say at this chance of starting over
True about playing hard to get. Had this co-worker. Whom I would chat with respectfully, no interest. I was new at the office and was conversing with everyone and getting to know my new teammates. Then half way through our friendly conversation. She spoke in a low whisper voice "I have a boyfriend". I reacted with the "Where did this come from?" face. Then jumps to asking me a personal question on hobbies. I just shut that down and bid her a good day and walked off. 2 weeks she was upset. I continued with greetings and acting professional. Then after the 2nd week she is all "OMG! Its been forever since I seen you how you been." Batting her eyes, smile, and flirty. I just stated "I know" and walked off. She showed what I perceived as her interest. I want someone who consistent from the start. Mixed signals help no one. Closed mouths don't get fed.
I really appreciate you coach Lee. My relationship was only 3 months but very intense. He broke up with me and I really really wanted to contact him. I did not, thanks to you! A month had passed by, he didn’t come back. But I am finally in a good mental shape and ready to move on. If I had contacted him, I think I would have injured myself more.
Stopped sharing my location with my ex today. 3 weeks into no contact, but if she wants to know what I’m doing she will have to ask. Trust the process 🙏
guys. so 1 months into break up and i kinda like her. would like her back but at the same time if i lose her im okay with it. not quite sure. we talk abit. but i asked her and no contact made it worse she said. she told me she already missed me. pretty much after break up. she told me it just felt like i gave up on her instead, like i didnt care.
3 Weeks down the line from the breakup and starting NC. It feels as if I'm focusing so much on sticking to NC that I actually can't stop thinking about my ex and what the future could hold for us (Peaceful breakup with a possibility to come back in the unknown future)... This journey is gonna drive me crazy
Broke no contact and reached out to her after 2 months of 0 communication and it actually felt good. She replied to my first text, but it seemed rather formal, ignored my second text. Somehow that non-response has given me the closure to move on and i feel a lot better.
Same thing happened to me. Same 2 months. Same formal first reply and ignored 2nd reply. But I called her out and she told me she don’t hate me but trying to stop contacting me because she already has another person in her life.
Yeah, I just read one guy asking when you were going to start taking calls again. I second that emotion! P.S. Thank you Coach Lee for ALL of your videos. You have inspired me to stay strong, especially those days when I feel weak. I would still like to schedule a phone call. From; A potential client.
Omg!!! What AN ABSOLUTE GENUINE BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE!! Thank you Thank you!! My God You are DOING YOUR CALLING!! You are SOOOO DAMN FUNNY ! You Need to have a tv show!! I am DEAD SERIOUS!! You Have such Unique Talent and your Intelligence is to the Sky!!!! You ARE INCREDIBLE!!! 🙏🏻♥️🌹😂
after 3 months she found someone else...guess what? i don’t care, i feel free. and i know she’ll never find anyone like me so...her loss. EVERYONE WHO IS READING THIS HEARTBROKEN: YOU are STRONG. Are you missing this person or the memories you made with that person? Follow No Contact and eventually you will be in control and able to make all the decisions you want.
Guys it has been just under 3 weeks. I treated her like a queen yes I have anger issues but never towards her. I doubt this at first thinking it wasn’t gonna work and she would just move on. I don’t have social media by personal choice but she is still friends with my friends and 2 days ago she posted why do I push the ones who actually love me and are nice to me away. This isn’t a for sure but she is definitely remember my value in her life and how I treated her. Give it time and stay strong. I still haven’t reached out and actually went into radio silence on the one social site I have two days ago. Let that cake bake. My ex has issues like we all do. And I’m ok if she never comes back. However I love her with everything I have and see her for her and she is now seeing that again and who knows what will happen. But my bet is coffee in the next month. Trust coach lee because he saved me and made me think with my head again and not just my heart.
I was dumped in the end of 2018. I was literally lost and had no idea what I was doing. Thankfully I listened to coach Lee and applied no contact. Tho I never got my ex back, she never reached out to me, but I'm extremely glad that the relationship ended. I realized I had no control whatsoever. The only time I got the opportunity to control was when I said NO to the friendship offer. Up until today, I feel happy because I rejected it. I feel good about myself. I feel that I knew I was worthy of more than just a friendship. Guys, I know how hard it is, but you gotta move on. Do it for yourself. You deserve much more than that. Love yourself and make yourself your number one priority and you'll be happy. Good luck!!
Thank you from one guy to another. As the days go by in NC, ( 35 days), I'm starting to realize that that is the goal.....move on ! Although I started NC wishing a different outcome, the NC will work either way !!!!! Thanks for your comment and to Coach Lee.
I still remember the first time i started watching your videos Coach back in January. Back than it was the only thing comforting me from emotional sorrow. Its been 11months and my ex hasn't contacted me unfortunately. I still think about her sometimes but the feelings are gone(I promise it does happen). One advice I would give to the viewers is just text them after 2, 3 months. Simple as that. Take the shot. Dont end up like me falling into a deep regretive stage during month 5 through 10 when I knew she was gone forever. Thank you so much Coach this is goodbye :,) 👋
Hey Coach Lee...it's been 100 days today of NO Contact and since i've seen my Ex. I moved away from my last apt as I've mentioned b4. I feel GREAT and i hav been datin som 1 else almost 7 weeks now. Lovely video. I'm stil here and jus as excited 2 see your new videos. Not wantin my Ex back but 2 help me in my future r'ship. 👍💜
My ex reached out after a month of no contact. He is still interested but things are just moving slow and I don’t want to mess things up in the process. It’s kinda terrifying. But we also talked otp the other night for over 3 hours and it went really good.
It’s been one month yesterday I came to the realize as helpful as this man is I needed to reach out. I don’t regret it or feel bad in fact it finally gave me the peace to move on. And through this I realized I’m not perfect but som people are so damaged from their past that they don’t know how to respond to love. And my ex is completely damaged and broken. One day after who ever comes into her life she will realize and know I was the best man that walked into her life. I would like to say she’s come back eventually but she did give up on me when I gave my all and I deserve some one who will love me like she did but never question leaving. Thanks for your help but I’ve done what is best for me and wish all of you well
Jeffrey shewnake, I just now read your comment. Thanks for sharing. I felt I was reading about my situation. I'm in day 37 of NC and I believe the same. She is not coming back.. She has been damaged from her past. She loved me and tried with me and fought for us, but snapped and just gave up. I personally believe if there has been no violence and no infidelity, you never ever give up on a relationship. Love comes and goes, but the sense of unity, respect and maybe even feelings of family is what should bind us together no matter what. Our minds and hearts play tricks on us to the point of making unsound decisions. I too believe I was a damn good man to her, now maybe even second guessing if I was too good to the point of being taken for granted. Wasn't smothering nor overbearing just especially attentive to her likes and needs while being good to her daughters. I wish her the best and all of my love to her happiness as it should be when you truly love someone even if it means you are no longer part of their lives.
@@memolina9224 amen. It sucks and hurts but we can’t make some one wants us or be with us. I truly did set her free and each day I delete a picture. I will save one at the very end of this process and she was a huge part in my life. She made me a better man and one day she will see that and who knows what life will be like then. I can only hope that she knows I loved her unconditionally l. It hurts to know your hurting but it puts me at peace knowing I am not the only one. Thank you
@@Drizo41 Ah man. You left me with tears in my eyes. I can't help but feel the pain you reminded me of, ( with all of the wonderful memories of pictures I sill carry in my phone). My sentiments exact.....she made me a better man. I changed alot for the better. I am reading my feelings as I was reading what you wrote!!! I will try to begin to delete her pictures....I think it is a good idea. I loved her unconditionally with all of my might, with every single cell in my being, but because I do.... I will give her her breakup without bothering her. I know she knows how much I love her!! She will go thru life remembering my love....that is the only comfort I take out of all this pain and heartache. Thank you writing back Jeffrey.
@@memolina9224 no problem brother. People say it gets easier but in all honesty we just get used to the pain. It was a girl I could never keep. Once she said I love you unfortunately I knew it was over because from there it just became to much for her to handle. Thank you for sharing it’s saving me from making a lot of bad choices. I’ll be a better man for who or whoever God decides to bring into my life. But always remember they got the best of us. And in that I have found peace.
@@patty30 well I’m very sorry for you. And I was crying over a women who didn’t care about me cause she couldn’t see who I was. I restored so many friends ships I didn’t have. I am with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Life is better then ever honestly and it is incredible. So stop looking for damamged women cause it seems this is why this is effective.
Coach Lee, my ex wife(whom I believe is my soulmate) has reconnected with me after 2 years of semi no contact because of our children in common and 23 years of marriage. My ex wife is being nice to me and even gave me a quick one second kiss this past Mother’s Day when I gave her flowers and took the family out for dinner. She has shown me kindness but I’m still confused to how I’m to approach everything whether to continue the semi-non contact or to start courting her again. Need your sound advice and has been watching your videos a lot and helped me get through some tough times. Hopefully I could repay you back when everything works out even though I just lost my job. Thank you coach🙏
Honestly, I've been binging Coach's vids for like a week now, I really wish I had known about him back when my gf broke up with me, cuz I really screwed that up
All good information Coach Lee! 1) I’m really afraid I would not know a healthy balance of taking it slow VS hard to get. 2) My X’s maturity level would interpret I’m afraid, any hold back as being hard to get, and would back off. 3) The maturity level of my X I believe as being hard to get and would hold out even if missed me. 4) I’m feeling pretty weak at 2.5 mos NC. I am concerned that even if my frustration response at the break up, being the first time ever he’s heard anger from me, even though justified and probably past due, intermixed with statements I made that I was trying to be non toxic, ect. Will keep him from reaching back out. Then final text, that I don’t want to loose contact with him. Did he mean he was never going to contact me again. 5) It is possible he already had another person lined up to take my place, that may even give him the one thing in the bedroom that I voiced concerns over, ready to go? All this I’m sure sounds like I shouldn’t want him back. I have traditionally been in the role of begging, pursuing after silence for prolonged periods of time. This last 3 mos reunion showed promise as he was showing up in my life regularly. Ideally I need to be coached but isn’t in my financial realm at present. Anyway, thanks again coach Lee. I’m trying to use my very best judgement.
Coach Lee, you're the best. My ex came by for a certificate that was by my house. I met her downstairs and gave it to her. She text me this morning on something else she left. I'm in no contact mode so I'm not (sorry for the double negative) going to do it.
Love your videos, but I think we need more on what to do once your ex decides to come back around after those first two months of no contact. How do we tread the fine line of reengaging but not going over board? And what if there is stuff to work on? My ex broke up with me because I called him out on poor communication styles.
Hi Lee! I made tons of mistakes(begging pleading) after the breakup and as I saw that its not working, I went to No Contact after a month of breakup. Eventually, I saw that she reached out to me and I kept the conversation light and playful but didnt carry the conversation forward(She started to see me in a positive light and seemed that she forgot the negative memories via the fading effect bias). She reached out for the second time after a week and then I also kept the conversation light and fun, and also asked her out, but she said 'Maybe' to that. I didn’t push her and ended the conversation. It felt like the no contact gave me my respect back and I felt the Surge of Power inside me. It's like I am a high value guy. But her birthday was upcoming, so I decided to wish her and initiate contact with her in a playful way. Worked pretty well, we were having positive conversations for a few days, asked her out she said she'll let me know when she's free, but in the midst of the positive conversation, suddenly she pulled away without any reason. She started giving short responses or not responding at all. I got kinda panicked and told her "I feel like I'm talking to a wall i'm sorry" (i think that angered her) she said "Yeah I'm a wall" I replied "Im looking for a hole in the wall so that we can communicate back and forth " told this as a sarcasm, but maybe she took it as a needy text. So, a day after we were talking again and a misinterpretation occured, and it felt like all the past relationship drama flowed back in her mind when i said 'could've been 8months of togetherness". It felt like the clock went backwards. She was suddenly really open to being really cold. I didn’t know what to do. She said "see i dont wanna hurt you please dont talk anything unimportant, dont give long texts, no matter how good your texts are, as im feeling irritated, even those texts will feel irritated to me" so after hearing this, i tried to push a little bit and she started giving 'Block' threats. Didnt want to make the situation worser so i said "I respect your decision and wish you the best" gave her the space and i saw her having fun in her instagram story, so i said "Good to see you having fun riding the river and watching the beautiful sunset. Happy for you" she restricted me after this, wtf? I called her for the reason she told me "Didnt like the way you said it as an Author. Feels like you're an unknown and talking to me for the first time" I mean, I was trying to get an emotional response from her, but never expected that. One thing I can't figure out, she tells me "The way you talk after the breakup, feels like you're talking to an Unknown. It feels like there was never a relationship between us" What do you think might cause this?? I can't say lovely romantic things to her after the breakup, so I behave in a friendly way, is that the reason? I tried to talk to her but it seems she's remembering all the negative memories of the past and thus shutting me off. She wants to delete all the memories from her brain. Anyways, she told me i can contact her for anything important. My family member died so we had a little talk regarding it, that was the last contact. It just feels frustrating that the power I got after 25days of no contact is now lost. My birthday's coming up after a few weeks so lets see if she wishes me or not, wont initiate contact and maintain my value.
@@RealCoachLee I don’t want to play easy to get, but I also don’t want to play hard to get. I want to keep it simple for myself and just take it slow, in other words, trust the process and let things happen naturally because it won’t happen overnight.
Hey coach can you do a video on why your ex would act mean or cruel days after the break up, even after going into no contact. Almost like she’s acting like a completely different person that you don’t recognize, and if there’s any hidden meanings behind that. Because that would help me a lot with my situation.
She broke up with me. She said she still loves me and doesn’t want me out of her life. Been in no contact for a week now. She still has pictures of us up on her social media. Hopefully she comes around. In the mean time I’m working on me
It's been almost exactly a year since the breakup. I messed up multiple times a couple months in when she reached out, but finally let go/accepted that she wasn't coming back. That's when she popped back up. She's calling me and making plans with me and starting to pursue me. But I also know I can't give it all back to her. Tbh I'm not sure if getting back with her would even be healthy, im not sure I would actually be able to get over the betrayal and how bad she treated me at the end. But the past couple of times we hung out were fun and we still really enjoy eachothers company. I want to keep hanging with her, but I feel like if I'm available whenever she asks/makes plans she will lose interest again. Do I say yes every time when she makes plans (obviously won't drop previous plans for her)
Hey guys so I just wanted some advice. Three months ago he ended the relationship. He was a very honest and open guy. Last time we called he said that he is not looking for a relationship and that we shouldn't be in contact for a while. Its been two months now and he hasnt shown any signs of any sort. I think I'm in a good place emotionally and in my single life but I keep on wondering if I should reach out and see if there is still a chance. But I keep on thinking that he was the one that put the distance, would it be stupid of me to reach out, especially since I have not heard anything?
Thanks! This is a realistic good advise 😊 the dating is so hard now days because BOTH people play hard to get and both learned from the dating advice! I am one of them 🤪
After 4 months of doing no contact, my ex girlfriend blocked me in WhatsApp (only way to contact them) since we broke up, I never reach out them but she was always looking at all my statuses, but this week, just blocked me out of the blue! I think she tried to show she's still in control of the breakup.
I told my ex when he was breaking up with me : “Don’t come running back to me in a couple of months” & “I’m not doing off again on again”.. I went straight to NC after that (Been a month) Will this f things up? I want him back yall 🥺
I told my girl the same thing! Crazy! I want her back to though, I think I kind of said it to try to get her to think but what’s noodling around in my head is what she said after I said that “my parents broke up and got back together a lot” granted her parents are married for 25 years now, anyways, what the hell did she mean by that?! It confused the hell out of me, does it imply she thinks we’ll back together? Did imply that she’ll think I’ll go running back? I don’t get that comment by her
What if he was wishy washy, hot and cold, came on strong then said he didn’t want a relationship. So I told him either we’re working towards something or we need to go our separate ways, and he told me he wishes me the best. Do these techniques work on someone like him? This is someone I’ve seen off and on for 25 years and leave him every time because he won’t commit.
i have been in a relationship with this girl for 2 months and our time together was awesome, i am sure i am speaking for both of us what i say that... before that we have been best friends for 2 years and we had our ups and downs in that time but at the end we realized how much we mean to eachother and proceeded to relationship... we got into argument a week ago and she wanted a break only to later tell me she consider it a break up (ik she only said that bcs she was in a relief phase) but she always sounded unsure about it every time she said it. In any case i want to keep going with no contact for a month and work on myself and what was my wrong in that relationship, i just wanna know what are my odds of getting her back considering theres many people that say 2 months is not long enough for no contact to be effective? i knew for no contact so break up wasnt hard, i just let her have it knowing ill proceed to no contact.
I bought your emergency break up kit and It is giving me hope that the girl I was seeing for 5 months (not in a relationship) will come back to me. 2 weeks of NC and the last she messaged was shouting at me for liking girls profile pictures on fb (we aren’t friends so she had to actually open up and view the list of people who liked it and see if my names there).
@@nathanb2167 yup getting jealousy signals. She said “I took some time to think like you said but after seeing that I’m definitely not interested anymore!” I let her have the last word and that’s the last we spoke. Now I can all of a sudden she’s online on messenger when I haven’t for the past month. She’s done something to see when I’m online
@@UncleEggnog It hurt her ego, she used it against you to hurt you by letting you think there was a chance. IF you do want her back don't push her anymore with jealousy, keep NC and let her sweat.
@@nathanb2167 I didn’t do it to try make her jealous. When I like someone’s pic It doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them, I’m just being polite but girls these days see it as I want to sleep with them if I like another girls pic. I explained it to her but she didn’t believe me and I’m staying in NC I haven’t reached out and I don’t intend to. I know she snooping on my profile I know she is
@@danielsea6479 yeah I got a feeling she’s gonna expect me to reach out after leaving it on bad terms but I’m not going to. She can snoop on my profile and try spying on pics to see if I like it or not all she wants. I don’t post anything atm in radio silent just she can see when I’m online
Hey coach, what if your ex says “I lost my feelings for you” , that’s why the break up happened for a short term relationship. Can you do a video about that.
He already has many of them talk about it bro I was in a relationship for 3 months anything after two months will have an impact. Trust no contact and if y’all had what was good then bet on that and stay silent.
Coach lee , its been months after the break up my ex has shown me she loves me and she has came clean after many excuses to why she doesnt wanna get back together , it turns out shes scared of something negative happening but she really comes off as she wants to get back together , and shes told me she misses and loves me but just doesnt wanna pull the trigger on getting back together . Can i get some advice or help?
Over a month in no contact, i did some mistakes after breakup, i pleaded and tried to talk to her, she likes all my photos and stuff but didn't wish me for my birthday. I see that it has no hope and i will try to move on as she did. You say that there is always the possibility but i don't see it,, maybe in far future I'll meet her and we will be maybe friends but i don't think relationship is possible even though she said it was her best relationship and she was never more happy. I'll just leave it be and maybe I will be surprised.... I hope everyone else gets their ex back or that they will be atleast happy :)
Coach Lee, my wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have 5 children. She wants a divorce. What happened in our marriage was 6 years ago she wasn’t being intimate so I created a fake Facebook profile of a woman and sent messages to my profile to get her jealous, from time to time I would comment on my profile flirty messages. It worked almost Immediately. Eventually I forgot about the fake profile and never deleted it. During that time she claims she went through depression and she had a miscarriage. This past summer i checked our cell phone carrier bill and seen she was talking to another guy while I was at work, my sons elementary school teacher. She kicked me out and now after a four month separation she wants a divorce. What do I do?
If they are ok losing you forever you should be ok walking away from someone who pushed you out of there life sadly I don't want that to be the case but I'll survive
I have a question and I don't think you made a video of this... What to do when you are in No contact but your ex (that dumped you) still talks to your family? She has been calling my sister and mom telling them how great she's doing, taking trips out of town, meeting new friends, talking about all the new plans she has coming up. My sister and mother keep telling me all this stuff and it's killing me inside smh... Also, Keep in mind she cut me off and block me from social media, text messages, and phone calls.
My gf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We are in the same friendgroup and class. During the lunchbreak we are sitting together with the group. But i am doing NC... do i need to go sit somewhere else or just don’t speak to her during the lunchbreak?
What if you said during the heat of the moment of the break up ‘well don’t come back because I would have probably moved on by then’ I really shouldn’t have said it but I was upset at the time and I really do wish he would come back but I didn’t want to show that I would be easy. I did tell him I loved him and I thought he was making a mistake and that we should work through our problems instead of breaking up. I really miss him, it’s been a month since we broke up and he hasn’t spoken to me since but I have a feeling the reason he broke up with me is because he was seeing his coworker behind my back. I have no proof of this though
Hey Coach Lee, could you make a video about what to do if you mistakenly pleaded and begged for your ex back? I pleaded and begged regrettably for my ex back to the point where he said I couldn't fix things.
My ex keeps blocking / unblocking me on fb... breakup has been 4 weeks. Thoughts anyone ? I’ve obeyed no contact for just over 3 weeks, I’m out and about and enjoying myself .... is she in her confused state ?
What if they are in a serious rebound (engaged), want to meet up and get really nostalgic and then say “I just can’t get it out of my head, maybe it was too good.” And “I miss you so”? I held back my “I miss you too”, because it felt like being too vulnerable and honestly I felt really scared of being hurt again after him having been ambivalent before. Now I wonder wether that’s too reserved and what’s a good way to respond to such displays of longing that don’t seem to be connected to a change in attitude?
So I'm doing smart contact because we have kids and assets. Married 13 years separated for shy of a month. When things were going well, he up and got pissed off saying that it seemed like i didn't get it.. that i wanted to still be a family but live separately. So i cut off communication. I broke down and had to get a slap to the face by a friend who told me some truths. I have not contacted him since. He has reached out every day since. Asked about the kids but then he'll ask about how I'm doing and i answer politely but not too engaging. I love him so much... but I'm tired of getting hurt. Am i doing good??
@realcoachlee Coach lee. I started doing no contact. Just two days into it. She went crazy. Started crying. And calling. And saying we should be together. I told her to take some time off for that negative space to fade. Then I get back to talking with her. But again I feel her mind is fixated on not being in the relationship, "She wants to focus on becoming better version of herself and focus on career. And wants me to do same." Moreover she wants a break. What should I make of this.???? We had a peaceful breakup. But there is something of a void in her for relationships. What should I do?
Going on almost 6 months since the breakup. Always watch these videos when I feel I ain’t gonna make it. I got some breadcrumb texts from my ex. A few exchanges via text and then disappears and maybe a few likes on my posts on fb but that’s it these days.
He viewed my Instagram story after reactivating his account, I blocked him everywhere except on Instagram coz he deactivated his account when we had the argument.... Should I block him there too, part of me wants to give him zero energy
What happens if you work for him and he is dating someone else? I'm trying to walk away from working with him but he takes me for granted. Treats me like a business transaction but he shows hot and cold with me. How do l approach this. I want him back but it seems like me don't have strong emotions together or spending time together
Me and my ex work at the same company. I have been in no contact for a month now and we ran into each other at the office today. I was friendly and said hi and had to run back to work, but he was very angry 😡, glaring, and sighing loudly. Otherwise he is stonewalling me and giving me the silent treatment. I don’t know what to do now? Do you know what he is thinking? Also note that I’m pregnant, it is his, he knows, but does not ask how anything is going. He doesn’t even know when the due date is
If the pregnancy is his, and he isn't asking questions or showing care, write him off. That's a much deeper problem that will only cause you perpetual heartache.
I genuinely care for him and it’s hard to wrap my mind around his reaction. I was so happy that we were going to have a child together after all these years. He threatened to hurt/kill me and the baby. I know I need to hide from him, but it is difficult because we work in the same building. I have conflicting feelings about the child support, I know I want that for the child but worry that might trigger another rage reaction from him. What if it makes my situation more dangerous?
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt and thought he was in shock and needed a cooling off period. He is angrier now than when he broke up with me. He never went through the stages of the breakup that Coach Lee talks about. He never had the relief period, or curiosity
I spend the whole week after the breakup messaging and calling her, last night I asked her if she ever loved me and she reacted with anger. The reason for the breakup was that she didn’t have enough time for me because of school and it felt like i was the only one trying to keep the relationship alive. I am now blocked and don’t know what to do, do I still have a chance with her? Anyone help please?
I did no contact rule and after two months I talked to her, she told me that I’m careless and you gave up on our relationship. She’s upset and she moved on for sure she’s not even responding anymore Rip lol
Hi looking for advice , me and my ex broke up mutually as we were going to do things that would be disrespectful, I didn’t do the no contact and we remained in touch , had a few hookups , I’m now at the stage where I miss them and want to be back together , however I feel my ex has cold feet , so I stick to the simple no contact , be reserved and wait for the signs that they want me back however it hasn’t happened , any ideas or help so we can be back to a place where we are attracted to each other again ??
Playing hard to get also perpetuates the idea that being persistent is what makes you "get the girl" (or guy). This works at the expense of those who are legitimately not interested, and what ends up happening is harassment and lack of social skill improvement. So, be clear and believe people when they say no!
When will you take 1-on-1 sessions again? Your page says you’re not currently taking any. It’s been over a month now. I would like to speak to you. Thank you.
Will no contact work if I made her feel dumped during our relationship? I mean we had an awful relationship, fighting, yelling, I even laid hand on her I was such a monster, but later I just realized how much I love her esp. when she already dumped me 😔 Now does No Contact work in my case? I want her back and make it all up to her and make her happy and have a healthy relatiinship. Pls help Coach Lee 🙏
Diw,, you said you "laid a hand on her?" I would not take a man back who hit me. If she's staying away from you it's because you hit her, you were a monster to her, and very mean. To hit a woman is the worst thing you can do. Please try to get some help. Talk to a Therapist, but you seem to have ANGER ISSUES that need to be addressed before you start dating sgain.
After 15 days radio silence my ex contacted me, and we met up next day but she said she wants to be friend and i said no but she says okay and she wants to stay connected with me, what should I do now.
Hey coach Lee! I’m on 11 weeks of no contact. Coming up is her dad’s birthday and he passed away earlier this year while we were still together. Should I break no contact and reach out to her on his birthday just to say happy birthday to him? I was always there for her when she needed support after his passing.
What if I got the girl I chased for a long time and she pulled some shady stuff, I left, went no contact now for just over a month, didn’t go nc immediately we talked a few times, I didn’t beg or plead tried to be nice, she wanted to fight I went strict nc after that, I think I’m kind of screwed cuz she knew how badly I wanted her before I got her, but I have this crazy confidence she’ll be back, is that bad? Also I told her if we break up that’s it, i will not do on again off again (I said this to try and stop the break up) anyways she replied “my parents broke up and got back together a lot” her parents never divorced married 25 years, but anyways why did she that she what did she mean?? Is that her being confident well back together, was it her expecting me to run back and beg and plead, which i didn’t do and won’t. I’m just confused by that comment. Out of all the arguing that went down when we broke up that sticks out the most to me, what’s it mean??
Every single thing u talk abt I've been through n it really works..I have a question though...is it okay to delete my ex's number for a while after break up?
It was so nice to see my ex walk by holding her new boyfriend’s hand while i was working. Man that made me feel so good.... Just kidding! It was probably the worst thing i have ever seen and i really wish I didn’t see that....
i know it’s hard man...with time you will get stronger. your indifference and silence is your power. you are much stronger than you give yourself credit for.
I unfollowed my ex on every social media the day we broke up. Been in no contact for 3 weeks and he just unfollowed me now.. will this affect anything?
I NEED SOME ADVICE. I AM THE DUMPER. A week after dumping him I regretted it and I wanted to reach out but he was very rude when I broke up with him so I felt like he was still angry and I was still very confused about my feelings. After 30 days I reached out to him asking a very specific question (i was testing the waters) and he responded 3 days later saying he was busy and kinda over shared telling me what has been going on in his life. I was very cautious with my response and the conversation was very short. 3 days later which is yesterday, I tried reaching out to him again with a “How have you been?” And I eventually was gonna tell him I want to try again and to get back together but It’s been 24hours and still no response. I feel like he doesn’t want me communicating with him anymore and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I haven’t asked for a second chance as yet but o feel his attitude is telling me all that I need to know. I’m on the fence right now and not sure if I should just tell him although he is ignoring me (I can see ghe last time was active on WhatsApp) and I am about to delete his number and move on because it’s starting to feel like he has already.
I just found out that my ex have dating app, even tho he said he dont want to go into new relationship because maybe we will get back together . Its just few days after breakup. We were together for 4 years. I'm dying r now...
my x ended it.. she keeps saying she wants to keep contact.. keeps messaging me. but doesn't want a relationship.. should i keep pushing her away or let it happen?
Whoever is hurting right now, know that you are stronger then you think.
*you got this* ❤️
thank u KNOW THAT I AM STRONGER than i think
Thanks, man... needed that
Hi Coach Lee. Your videos have kept me sane during my darkest days. I fell asleep watching 2-3 every night for almost a month. I did everything you said, followed all your advice, and after two months my ex wants me back. But I realised during this process that no contact is not about getting your ex back, it’s about getting yourself back. I cut contact to get my ex to miss me, but I realised now since we started talking again that it makes me so anxious and I’d honestly rather be alone. I got him back after doing everything you said, but now I realise that I don’t even want him back. I cannot thank you enough for putting my life on track. Thank you!
I hope I can feel the way you do some day. She’s a widow and dumped me because she said she’s not attracted to me for being bald. She knew I was bald the 3 months we dated. She knew I was bald when she wanted to be intimate. She also knew I was bald when she told me she fell in love with me. 😔
@@firemedic542 bro, sending you good vibes. That's harsh, stay strong focus on having a great relationship with yourself and we got this
@@shivatecs thank you for this. You simply taking the time to say something uplifting to me is more meaningful than words can say. I appreciate you 🙏🏼
@@firemedic542 I'm glad brother. Times are tough these days, but they won't last forever. We deserve and are worthy of love and happiness.
@@firemedic542 It has NOTHING to do with baldness. I believe she just lost attraction. It happens more often than you think. Good luck to you Michael..Listen to Coach Lee's video.
I'm not trying to get my ex back anymore, I'm now here for the moment Coach Lee says something really funny with the most serious look on his face. 👀🤔😁
This time it was 18:41 that made me laugh lol. I love how much he cares about this
i know he is so great :) thank u for this post :)
These are the best moments😂
And besides I just love how all my anxiety fades away as soon as I start watching his videos. I feel understood and comforted and it just helped to move forward
🤣I know, right? That expression is the funniest. I usually rewind to listen and watch the joke agai. Lol
To everyone who is hurting right now: things will get better. Follow his advice because it seriously works! My ex is begging for me back after 2 months. Stay in no contact. Keep pushing.
Like I said .. I have my Ex back! Because of YOU! Now I still stay subscribed because you Are a Joy to watch!
@@danielsea6479 .. For me .. because we share a dog together I had to be in contact at least once a month .. But when I talked to him .. I DID NOT TALK ABOUT ANYTHING EXCEPT, Cocoa ( the dog).. He would talk about his life on the calls. and he always answered or called back.. But I wasn’t rude at all .. I was sweet .. But just like Coach Lee says .. I gave him the Breakup.. After 4 months and seeing how our conversation over the phone was so positive.. I Knew he Missed me... However... Please Note it was Very very subtle at first then it grew.. after 4 MONTHS I MENTIONED MEETING UP AND TRYING AGAIN .. He said that was possible.. I DID NOT PLAY HARD TO GET .. I Was as Sweet as pie.. .. it’s now 6 months later and we are having our first date again.. I also follow Personal Development School with Thais Gibson.. Because she teaches an is an expert about attachment styles.. So what worked for me .. is knowing his attachment style .. But I gave Him time.. But I also had respect for myself enough to tell him what I needed and I didn’t say what he did wrong instead I said what will work.. Personal Development School is online but Coach Lee Message and videos I needed too because not everything that Thais Gibson I agreed with.. But everything Coach Lee says is the Truth! Give him or her the breakup and after time at least 3 and half months later .. Reach out but don’t pressure and go Very very slow and wait patiently.... But DO BE YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF
I hope I helped you because I am telling you the truth.. And don’t listen to any other Coach online !!! Stay away from Craig Kenneth.. Yes he is a psychotherapist but he believes in indefinite No Contact!!!! Such B/S... it’s just to keep you hanging on and on and to him .. I know because he isn’t telling you the truth . He will Rob you Blind if you let him!! He only is out for money! I also got the Emergency Break up Kit from Coach Lee .. It’s Extremely encouraging and it helped.. Good Luck to everyone on here!
@Leslie Johns can you give me advice? Did your ex ever breadcrumb you and if so, how would you have responded? My ex just breadcrumbed me a text where he just commented on a football team we both follow and said "Lol the (name of team) sucks" and all I did was respond "Lol indeed" the day after (he texted really late at night) and I haven't heard from him in a week. Do you think I blew it? Or did he just want to see if I was still interested and hoped I would jump for joy (as I have the week prior before resuming NC)?
Did you also respond sweetly to breadcrumbs? My ex ignored my last text so I went NC then he breadcrumbed me a week later with a text message where he commented on a football team we follow and all he said was "Lol they (name of team) sucks" and all I replied was "Lol indeed" and haven't heard from him in about ten days. :/ @Leslie Johns
@@maryalbazzaz8591 Good Morning.. I was sleeping so I couldn’t respond .. No NO NO NO YOU DIDNT BLOW IT!.. He is giving you very little, like I said in previous messages.. Subtle signs.. So you do the same but you must do no contact until he reaches out more..Yes Yes he misses you because he would not have anything to do with you.. I don’t know your age? But if you are young this is So normal.. My Ex at that time didn’t bread crumb me at all .. However he isn’t much of a tester.. But if he did text me anything besides information of our dog.. This WAS A HUGE SIGN ! .. Keep texting him depending how much he is texting you... do it once for 2 weeks then build it up twice for 2 weeks.. Then wait patiently.. if he doesn’t respond within 2 weeks ... back off.. if he does mirror what he does.. Also Please watch all Coach Lee videos.. because I have studied them and watched them very carefully.... And go to Personal Development School with Thais Gibson. She is online .. All her videos are free.. Find out his attachment style by taking the quiz and BE CONSUMED WITH WATCHING ALL HER VIDEOS.. Because you don’t want to be ever manipulative. You must be YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF AND THERE ARE STRATEGIES FOR HIS ATTACHMENT STYLE.. This will work if you do what she says for his attachment style.. This is also taking care of what you want in your relationship.... Because if he can’t meet your needs , it won’t last .. because it didn’t the first time when he broke up with me for a month.. I didn’t change that time .. I needed to change my behaviors and thinking .. I was begging and pleading and clingy.. But don’t BEAT YOURSELF UP IF YOU WERE! Because you are only human .. Lastly.. ITS TIME AND MORE TIME AND MORE TIME AND PATIENCE .. I Truly believe you have a chance!..
No contact definitely works. My ex reached out to me fairly quickly actually, today after 12 days. But the most important thing is that no contact helps YOU. Even in this short time of 12 days I realized a lot about myself. Even if things don't work out with my ex, this period has given me the strength to not feel bad about it and look towards my future with hope.
Stay strong everyone ♥️
Also beware of the coaches who say, “An ex is an ex for a reason. Never go back to your ex.” Those coaches are also too extreme. Don’t play easy to get, but don’t play hard to get, either. You don’t want to rush through the process, but you also don’t want to avoid them too much.
Keep baking that cake. It takes time
My cake is baking too long. Been 8 months.
This is true. And don't open up the oven to check on the cake. It'll ruin it!
You can find yourself at Las Vegas, losing the money you have... if you do open the freaking owen 😁
I ruined it I didn't baked it enough I guess oh well 🤷I really don't want my baby daddy back
Single is the best! No heartaches and stress. Just enjoying life! 💙
Lee rocks! 💙🤩
Coach Lee, thank you ! After watching your videos all summer, finally last night the roles reversed. I don’t really have feelings for her anymore but she was literally crying over me. Trust the process. If I wouldn’t have gone into no contact, nothing good would of happened. I became a better person and my ex sees that. It’s a great feeling. Thank you, and listen to Lee!!
WE LOVE COACH LEE!!! I am on Two weeks of no contact with my ex, she got into a rebound but I have no fear!! I am working on myself and I believe that I will pull through and get her back! She is a great woman and I made many mistakes that I hope can be overlooked in the future!
Yes, we do ❤️💐
Have you apologised for the mistakes ? Otherwise the no contact wont work
@@somijak7540 Of course, I apologized and sent her a clean slate letter, now we drop the bait and wait for a bite
I got my ex back after months of no contact she had a rebound but obviously it failed exactly how coach lee said it would in the meanwhile I lost the feelings of desperation’s to get her back so when she did ask me I told her to convince me why I should even think about it in which she gave a lot of heart warming words of regret and misery without me saying she made the biggest mistake and she even admitted that is now me with the last say at this chance of starting over
If she's in a rebound after 2 weeks, she's not worth. I know the feelings are the feelings, but it looks like she's just playing with the men.
YESSS. thank you for posting this right as I’m having a super depressing Saturday night. 😭
I can recommend you to the man who helped me bring back my ex
How are you now
True about playing hard to get. Had this co-worker. Whom I would chat with respectfully, no interest. I was new at the office and was conversing with everyone and getting to know my new teammates. Then half way through our friendly conversation. She spoke in a low whisper voice "I have a boyfriend". I reacted with the "Where did this come from?" face. Then jumps to asking me a personal question on hobbies. I just shut that down and bid her a good day and walked off. 2 weeks she was upset. I continued with greetings and acting professional. Then after the 2nd week she is all "OMG! Its been forever since I seen you how you been." Batting her eyes, smile, and flirty. I just stated "I know" and walked off. She showed what I perceived as her interest. I want someone who consistent from the start. Mixed signals help no one. Closed mouths don't get fed.
I really appreciate you coach Lee. My relationship was only 3 months but very intense. He broke up with me and I really really wanted to contact him. I did not, thanks to you! A month had passed by, he didn’t come back. But I am finally in a good mental shape and ready to move on. If I had contacted him, I think I would have injured myself more.
Stopped sharing my location with my ex today. 3 weeks into no contact, but if she wants to know what I’m doing she will have to ask. Trust the process 🙏
guys. so 1 months into break up and i kinda like her. would like her back but at the same time if i lose her im okay with it. not quite sure. we talk abit. but i asked her and no contact made it worse she said. she told me she already missed me. pretty much after break up. she told me it just felt like i gave up on her instead, like i didnt care.
3 Weeks down the line from the breakup and starting NC. It feels as if I'm focusing so much on sticking to NC that I actually can't stop thinking about my ex and what the future could hold for us (Peaceful breakup with a possibility to come back in the unknown future)... This journey is gonna drive me crazy
Broke no contact and reached out to her after 2 months of 0 communication and it actually felt good. She replied to my first text, but it seemed rather formal, ignored my second text. Somehow that non-response has given me the closure to move on and i feel a lot better.
Same thing happened to me. Same 2 months. Same formal first reply and ignored 2nd reply.
But I called her out and she told me she don’t hate me but trying to stop contacting me because she already has another person in her life.
@@SuperRed.V4 stay strong man
You are stronger than I am.... I would never
You’re the man, Coach Lee!❤
Yeah, I just read one guy asking when you were going to start taking calls again.
I second that emotion!
P.S.
Thank you Coach Lee for ALL of your videos. You have inspired me to stay strong, especially those days when I feel weak.
I would still like to schedule a phone call.
From;
A potential client.
Omg!!! What AN ABSOLUTE GENUINE BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE!! Thank you Thank you!! My God You are DOING YOUR CALLING!! You are SOOOO DAMN FUNNY ! You Need to have a tv show!! I am DEAD SERIOUS!! You Have such Unique Talent and your Intelligence is to the Sky!!!! You ARE INCREDIBLE!!! 🙏🏻♥️🌹😂
after 3 months she found someone else...guess what? i don’t care, i feel free. and i know she’ll never find anyone like me so...her loss.
EVERYONE WHO IS READING THIS HEARTBROKEN:
YOU are STRONG. Are you missing this person or the memories you made with that person? Follow No Contact and eventually you will be in control and able to make all the decisions you want.
Guys it has been just under 3 weeks. I treated her like a queen yes I have anger issues but never towards her. I doubt this at first thinking it wasn’t gonna work and she would just move on. I don’t have social media by personal choice but she is still friends with my friends and 2 days ago she posted why do I push the ones who actually love me and are nice to me away. This isn’t a for sure but she is definitely remember my value in her life and how I treated her. Give it time and stay strong. I still haven’t reached out and actually went into radio silence on the one social site I have two days ago. Let that cake bake. My ex has issues like we all do. And I’m ok if she never comes back. However I love her with everything I have and see her for her and she is now seeing that again and who knows what will happen. But my bet is coffee in the next month. Trust coach lee because he saved me and made me think with my head again and not just my heart.
@@danielsea6479 amen brother seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you Daniel. Postive encouragement is definitely needed
@@markdavid7603 without question
@@markdavid7603 absolutely
I was dumped in the end of 2018. I was literally lost and had no idea what I was doing. Thankfully I listened to coach Lee and applied no contact. Tho I never got my ex back, she never reached out to me, but I'm extremely glad that the relationship ended. I realized I had no control whatsoever. The only time I got the opportunity to control was when I said NO to the friendship offer. Up until today, I feel happy because I rejected it. I feel good about myself. I feel that I knew I was worthy of more than just a friendship. Guys, I know how hard it is, but you gotta move on. Do it for yourself. You deserve much more than that. Love yourself and make yourself your number one priority and you'll be happy. Good luck!!
Thank you from one guy to another. As the days go by in NC, ( 35 days), I'm starting to realize that that is the goal.....move on ! Although I started NC wishing a different outcome, the NC will work either way !!!!!
Thanks for your comment and to Coach Lee.
I still remember the first time i started watching your videos Coach back in January. Back than it was the only thing comforting me from emotional sorrow. Its been 11months and my ex hasn't contacted me unfortunately. I still think about her sometimes but the feelings are gone(I promise it does happen). One advice I would give to the viewers is just text them after 2, 3 months. Simple as that. Take the shot. Dont end up like me falling into a deep regretive stage during month 5 through 10 when I knew she was gone forever. Thank you so much Coach this is goodbye :,) 👋
Hey Coach Lee...it's been 100 days today of NO Contact and since i've seen my Ex. I moved away from my last apt as I've mentioned b4. I feel GREAT and i hav been datin som 1 else almost 7 weeks now. Lovely video. I'm stil here and jus as excited 2 see your new videos. Not wantin my Ex back but 2 help me in my future r'ship. 👍💜
My ex reached out after a month of no contact. He is still interested but things are just moving slow and I don’t want to mess things up in the process. It’s kinda terrifying. But we also talked otp the other night for over 3 hours and it went really good.
Take things slow. That’s really good to be honest and the best thing to do. You don’t jus want to rush straight back into the relationship
It’s been one month yesterday I came to the realize as helpful as this man is I needed to reach out. I don’t regret it or feel bad in fact it finally gave me the peace to move on. And through this I realized I’m not perfect but som people are so damaged from their past that they don’t know how to respond to love. And my ex is completely damaged and broken. One day after who ever comes into her life she will realize and know I was the best man that walked into her life. I would like to say she’s come back eventually but she did give up on me when I gave my all and I deserve some one who will love me like she did but never question leaving. Thanks for your help but I’ve done what is best for me and wish all of you well
Jeffrey shewnake,
I just now read your comment. Thanks for sharing. I felt I was reading about my situation. I'm in day 37 of NC and I believe the same. She is not coming back.. She has been damaged from her past. She loved me and tried with me and fought for us, but snapped and just gave up. I personally believe if there has been no violence and no infidelity, you never ever give up on a relationship. Love comes and goes, but the sense of unity, respect and maybe even feelings of family is what should bind us together no matter what. Our minds and hearts play tricks on us to the point of making unsound decisions. I too believe I was a damn good man to her, now maybe even second guessing if I was too good to the point of being taken for granted. Wasn't smothering nor overbearing just especially attentive to her likes and needs while being good to her daughters. I wish her the best and all of my love to her happiness as it should be when you truly love someone even if it means you are no longer part of their lives.
@@memolina9224 amen. It sucks and hurts but we can’t make some one wants us or be with us. I truly did set her free and each day I delete a picture. I will save one at the very end of this process and she was a huge part in my life. She made me a better man and one day she will see that and who knows what life will be like then. I can only hope that she knows I loved her unconditionally l. It hurts to know your hurting but it puts me at peace knowing I am not the only one. Thank you
@@Drizo41
Ah man. You left me with tears in my eyes. I can't help but feel the pain you reminded me of, ( with all of the wonderful memories of pictures I sill carry in my phone). My sentiments exact.....she made me a better man. I changed alot for the better. I am reading my feelings as I was reading what you wrote!!! I will try to begin to delete her pictures....I think it is a good idea. I loved her unconditionally with all of my might, with every single cell in my being, but because I do.... I will give her her breakup without bothering her. I know she knows how much I love her!! She will go thru life remembering my love....that is the only comfort I take out of all this pain and heartache. Thank you writing back Jeffrey.
@@memolina9224 no problem brother. People say it gets easier but in all honesty we just get used to the pain. It was a girl I could never keep. Once she said I love you unfortunately I knew it was over because from there it just became to much for her to handle. Thank you for sharing it’s saving me from making a lot of bad choices. I’ll be a better man for who or whoever God decides to bring into my life. But always remember they got the best of us. And in that I have found peace.
@@patty30 well I’m very sorry for you. And I was crying over a women who didn’t care about me cause she couldn’t see who I was. I restored so many friends ships I didn’t have. I am with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Life is better then ever honestly and it is incredible. So stop looking for damamged women cause it seems this is why this is effective.
Coach Lee, my ex wife(whom I believe is my soulmate) has reconnected with me after 2 years of semi no contact because of our children in common and 23 years of marriage. My ex wife is being nice to me and even gave me a quick one second kiss this past Mother’s Day when I gave her flowers and took the family out for dinner. She has shown me kindness but I’m still confused to how I’m to approach everything whether to continue the semi-non contact or to start courting her again. Need your sound advice and has been watching your videos a lot and helped me get through some tough times. Hopefully I could repay you back when everything works out even though I just lost my job. Thank you coach🙏
Honestly, I've been binging Coach's vids for like a week now, I really wish I had known about him back when my gf broke up with me, cuz I really screwed that up
All good information Coach Lee!
1) I’m really afraid I would not know a healthy balance of taking it slow VS hard to get.
2) My X’s maturity level would interpret I’m afraid, any hold back as being hard to get, and would back off.
3) The maturity level of my X I believe as being hard to get and would hold out even if missed me.
4) I’m feeling pretty weak at 2.5 mos NC. I am concerned that even if my frustration response at the break up, being the first time ever he’s heard anger from me, even though justified and probably past due, intermixed with statements I made that I was trying to be non toxic, ect. Will keep him from reaching back out. Then final text, that I don’t want to loose contact with him. Did he mean he was never going to contact me again.
5) It is possible he already had another person lined up to take my place, that may even give him the one thing in the bedroom that I voiced concerns over, ready to go?
All this I’m sure sounds like I shouldn’t want him back. I have traditionally been in the role of begging, pursuing after silence for prolonged periods of time.
This last 3 mos reunion showed promise as he was showing up in my life regularly.
Ideally I need to be coached but isn’t in my financial realm at present.
Anyway, thanks again coach Lee. I’m trying to use my very best judgement.
“A raw egg falling off of a nail.” LOLOLOLOLOL
Coach Lee, you're the best. My ex came by for a certificate that was by my house. I met her downstairs and gave it to her. She text me this morning on something else she left. I'm in no contact mode so I'm not (sorry for the double negative) going to do it.
Love your videos, but I think we need more on what to do once your ex decides to come back around after those first two months of no contact. How do we tread the fine line of reengaging but not going over board? And what if there is stuff to work on? My ex broke up with me because I called him out on poor communication styles.
Nice video man. I agree with all of it except for 1 thing... And No Sir, I will not wear pants on dates. And no one can make me...
Hi Lee! I made tons of mistakes(begging pleading) after the breakup and as I saw that its not working, I went to No Contact after a month of breakup. Eventually, I saw that she reached out to me and I kept the conversation light and playful but didnt carry the conversation forward(She started to see me in a positive light and seemed that she forgot the negative memories via the fading effect bias). She reached out for the second time after a week and then I also kept the conversation light and fun, and also asked her out, but she said 'Maybe' to that. I didn’t push her and ended the conversation. It felt like the no contact gave me my respect back and I felt the Surge of Power inside me. It's like I am a high value guy. But her birthday was upcoming, so I decided to wish her and initiate contact with her in a playful way. Worked pretty well, we were having positive conversations for a few days, asked her out she said she'll let me know when she's free, but in the midst of the positive conversation, suddenly she pulled away without any reason. She started giving short responses or not responding at all. I got kinda panicked and told her "I feel like I'm talking to a wall i'm sorry" (i think that angered her) she said "Yeah I'm a wall" I replied "Im looking for a hole in the wall so that we can communicate back and forth " told this as a sarcasm, but maybe she took it as a needy text. So, a day after we were talking again and a misinterpretation occured, and it felt like all the past relationship drama flowed back in her mind when i said 'could've been 8months of togetherness". It felt like the clock went backwards. She was suddenly really open to being really cold. I didn’t know what to do. She said "see i dont wanna hurt you please dont talk anything unimportant, dont give long texts, no matter how good your texts are, as im feeling irritated, even those texts will feel irritated to me" so after hearing this, i tried to push a little bit and she started giving 'Block' threats. Didnt want to make the situation worser so i said "I respect your decision and wish you the best" gave her the space and i saw her having fun in her instagram story, so i said "Good to see you having fun riding the river and watching the beautiful sunset. Happy for you" she restricted me after this, wtf? I called her for the reason she told me "Didnt like the way you said it as an Author. Feels like you're an unknown and talking to me for the first time" I mean, I was trying to get an emotional response from her, but never expected that. One thing I can't figure out, she tells me "The way you talk after the breakup, feels like you're talking to an Unknown. It feels like there was never a relationship between us" What do you think might cause this?? I can't say lovely romantic things to her after the breakup, so I behave in a friendly way, is that the reason? I tried to talk to her but it seems she's remembering all the negative memories of the past and thus shutting me off. She wants to delete all the memories from her brain. Anyways, she told me i can contact her for anything important. My family member died so we had a little talk regarding it, that was the last contact. It just feels frustrating that the power I got after 25days of no contact is now lost. My birthday's coming up after a few weeks so lets see if she wishes me or not, wont initiate contact and maintain my value.
You're looking good (nice hair cut) I watch your videos all the time
Thanks man.
@@RealCoachLee I don’t want to play easy to get, but I also don’t want to play hard to get. I want to keep it simple for myself and just take it slow, in other words, trust the process and let things happen naturally because it won’t happen overnight.
Coach Lee is the best
Hey coach can you do a video on why your ex would act mean or cruel days after the break up, even after going into no contact. Almost like she’s acting like a completely different person that you don’t recognize, and if there’s any hidden meanings behind that. Because that would help me a lot with my situation.
Evan2335, they act like that bcse they are hurt. The core of ANGER IS HURT....She is hurting!
Not sure if I need to get my ex back. He wants nothing to do with my kids, doesn’t even want to meet them. Should I try?
She broke up with me. She said she still loves me and doesn’t want me out of her life. Been in no contact for a week now. She still has pictures of us up on her social media. Hopefully she comes around. In the mean time I’m working on me
It's been almost exactly a year since the breakup. I messed up multiple times a couple months in when she reached out, but finally let go/accepted that she wasn't coming back. That's when she popped back up. She's calling me and making plans with me and starting to pursue me. But I also know I can't give it all back to her. Tbh I'm not sure if getting back with her would even be healthy, im not sure I would actually be able to get over the betrayal and how bad she treated me at the end. But the past couple of times we hung out were fun and we still really enjoy eachothers company. I want to keep hanging with her, but I feel like if I'm available whenever she asks/makes plans she will lose interest again. Do I say yes every time when she makes plans (obviously won't drop previous plans for her)
Hey guys so I just wanted some advice. Three months ago he ended the relationship. He was a very honest and open guy. Last time we called he said that he is not looking for a relationship and that we shouldn't be in contact for a while. Its been two months now and he hasnt shown any signs of any sort. I think I'm in a good place emotionally and in my single life but I keep on wondering if I should reach out and see if there is still a chance. But I keep on thinking that he was the one that put the distance, would it be stupid of me to reach out, especially since I have not heard anything?
Coach Lee you should make more videos for healthy relationships!
“dirty shoes” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks! This is a realistic good advise 😊 the dating is so hard now days because BOTH people play hard to get and both learned from the dating advice! I am one of them 🤪
After 4 months of doing no contact, my ex girlfriend blocked me in WhatsApp (only way to contact them) since we broke up, I never reach out them but she was always looking at all my statuses, but this week, just blocked me out of the blue! I think she tried to show she's still in control of the breakup.
I told my ex when he was breaking up with me :
“Don’t come running back to me in a couple of months” & “I’m not doing off again on again”..
I went straight to NC after that (Been a month)
Will this f things up? I want him back yall 🥺
I told my girl the same thing! Crazy! I want her back to though, I think I kind of said it to try to get her to think but what’s noodling around in my head is what she said after I said that “my parents broke up and got back together a lot” granted her parents are married for 25 years now, anyways, what the hell did she mean by that?! It confused the hell out of me, does it imply she thinks we’ll back together? Did imply that she’ll think I’ll go running back? I don’t get that comment by her
What if he was wishy washy, hot and cold, came on strong then said he didn’t want a relationship. So I told him either we’re working towards something or we need to go our separate ways, and he told me he wishes me the best. Do these techniques work on someone like him? This is someone I’ve seen off and on for 25 years and leave him every time because he won’t commit.
letting things move naturally
i have been in a relationship with this girl for 2 months and our time together was awesome, i am sure i am speaking for both of us what i say that... before that we have been best friends for 2 years and we had our ups and downs in that time but at the end we realized how much we mean to eachother and proceeded to relationship... we got into argument a week ago and she wanted a break only to later tell me she consider it a break up (ik she only said that bcs she was in a relief phase) but she always sounded unsure about it every time she said it. In any case i want to keep going with no contact for a month and work on myself and what was my wrong in that relationship, i just wanna know what are my odds of getting her back considering theres many people that say 2 months is not long enough for no contact to be effective? i knew for no contact so break up wasnt hard, i just let her have it knowing ill proceed to no contact.
Good idea. NO CONTACT.
Good luck to you..⚘️
I bought your emergency break up kit and It is giving me hope that the girl I was seeing for 5 months (not in a relationship) will come back to me. 2 weeks of NC and the last she messaged was shouting at me for liking girls profile pictures on fb (we aren’t friends so she had to actually open up and view the list of people who liked it and see if my names there).
She broke up with you what you do is none of her concern who does she think she is.
@@nathanb2167 yup getting jealousy signals. She said “I took some time to think like you said but after seeing that I’m definitely not interested anymore!” I let her have the last word and that’s the last we spoke. Now I can all of a sudden she’s online on messenger when I haven’t for the past month. She’s done something to see when I’m online
@@UncleEggnog It hurt her ego, she used it against you to hurt you by letting you think there was a chance. IF you do want her back don't push her anymore with jealousy, keep NC and let her sweat.
@@nathanb2167 I didn’t do it to try make her jealous. When I like someone’s pic It doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them, I’m just being polite but girls these days see it as I want to sleep with them if I like another girls pic. I explained it to her but she didn’t believe me and I’m staying in NC I haven’t reached out and I don’t intend to. I know she snooping on my profile I know she is
@@danielsea6479 yeah I got a feeling she’s gonna expect me to reach out after leaving it on bad terms but I’m not going to. She can snoop on my profile and try spying on pics to see if I like it or not all she wants. I don’t post anything atm in radio silent just she can see when I’m online
Hey coach, what if your ex says “I lost my feelings for you” , that’s why the break up happened for a short term relationship.
Can you do a video about that.
Basically what happened to me after 5 months
He already has many of them talk about it bro I was in a relationship for 3 months anything after two months will have an impact. Trust no contact and if y’all had what was good then bet on that and stay silent.
I’ve been on no contact for 1 month but nothing yet .
@@rodimus900supreame4 have faith that what you had was good and know that after 2 months you made need to reach out if you feel the need to
It is already there.
Coach lee , its been months after the break up my ex has shown me she loves me and she has came clean after many excuses to why she doesnt wanna get back together , it turns out shes scared of something negative happening but she really comes off as she wants to get back together , and shes told me she misses and loves me but just doesnt wanna pull the trigger on getting back together . Can i get some advice or help?
Over a month in no contact, i did some mistakes after breakup, i pleaded and tried to talk to her, she likes all my photos and stuff but didn't wish me for my birthday. I see that it has no hope and i will try to move on as she did. You say that there is always the possibility but i don't see it,, maybe in far future I'll meet her and we will be maybe friends but i don't think relationship is possible even though she said it was her best relationship and she was never more happy. I'll just leave it be and maybe I will be surprised.... I hope everyone else gets their ex back or that they will be atleast happy :)
@@danpaul7227 I don't think anyone can help me get her
Mine also same situation , last week was my birthday ,but he didn't even wish me 😔, I want him back but I think he is happy without me 😭
Coach Lee, my wife and I have been married for 15 years and we have 5 children. She wants a divorce. What happened in our marriage was 6 years ago she wasn’t being intimate so I created a fake Facebook profile of a woman and sent messages to my profile to get her jealous, from time to time I would comment on my profile flirty messages. It worked almost
Immediately. Eventually I forgot about the fake profile and never deleted it. During that time she claims she went through depression and she had a miscarriage. This past summer i checked our cell phone carrier bill and seen she was talking to another guy while I was at work, my sons elementary school teacher. She kicked me out and now after a four month separation she wants a divorce. What do I do?
play hard to get better and improve yourself others will chase you😁😉
Digging your shirt coach ☺️
Coach Lee please EXPLAIN to people what hard to get means....hard to get means DON'T be EASY.....IT also means to NOT be NEVER to get!!
She dumped me........
I wished her well in her life,
I cut all contact directly afterwards.
✌🏿️❤️💪🏿
Good for you
I am on yr 6
And life is grand
If they are ok losing you forever you should be ok walking away from someone who pushed you out of there life sadly I don't want that to be the case but I'll survive
I have a question and I don't think you made a video of this... What to do when you are in No contact but your ex (that dumped you) still talks to your family? She has been calling my sister and mom telling them how great she's doing, taking trips out of town, meeting new friends, talking about all the new plans she has coming up. My sister and mother keep telling me all this stuff and it's killing me inside smh... Also, Keep in mind she cut me off and block me from social media, text messages, and phone calls.
My gf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We are in the same friendgroup and class. During the lunchbreak we are sitting together with the group. But i am doing NC... do i need to go sit somewhere else or just don’t speak to her during the lunchbreak?
no just do not initiate contact for atleast 2 months
Just keep the NC
What if you said during the heat of the moment of the break up ‘well don’t come back because I would have probably moved on by then’ I really shouldn’t have said it but I was upset at the time and I really do wish he would come back but I didn’t want to show that I would be easy. I did tell him I loved him and I thought he was making a mistake and that we should work through our problems instead of breaking up. I really miss him, it’s been a month since we broke up and he hasn’t spoken to me since but I have a feeling the reason he broke up with me is because he was seeing his coworker behind my back. I have no proof of this though
Hey Coach Lee, could you make a video about what to do if you mistakenly pleaded and begged for your ex back? I pleaded and begged regrettably for my ex back to the point where he said I couldn't fix things.
He sent me messages around 2 am, then he unsent them. What should I do? (Haven't read yet, but the messages were about getting back together.)
My ex keeps blocking / unblocking me on fb... breakup has been 4 weeks. Thoughts anyone ? I’ve obeyed no contact for just over 3 weeks, I’m out and about and enjoying myself .... is she in her confused state ?
Week 1 NC: can’t eat, can’t sleep can’t watch tv
Week 2 NC: eating a bit more, back in the gym, sleeping better,
Week 3 NC: Eating, sleeping, gym, self development, Netflix
Week 4 NC: MONEY OVER BITCHES 😎
So informative! Coach Lee is the best! Thank you so much!
What if they are in a serious rebound (engaged), want to meet up and get really nostalgic and then say “I just can’t get it out of my head, maybe it was too good.” And “I miss you so”?
I held back my “I miss you too”, because it felt like being too vulnerable and honestly I felt really scared of being hurt again after him having been ambivalent before. Now I wonder wether that’s too reserved and what’s a good way to respond to such displays of longing that don’t seem to be connected to a change in attitude?
So I'm doing smart contact because we have kids and assets. Married 13 years separated for shy of a month. When things were going well, he up and got pissed off saying that it seemed like i didn't get it.. that i wanted to still be a family but live separately. So i cut off communication. I broke down and had to get a slap to the face by a friend who told me some truths. I have not contacted him since. He has reached out every day since. Asked about the kids but then he'll ask about how I'm doing and i answer politely but not too engaging. I love him so much... but I'm tired of getting hurt. Am i doing good??
@realcoachlee Coach lee. I started doing no contact. Just two days into it. She went crazy. Started crying. And calling. And saying we should be together. I told her to take some time off for that negative space to fade. Then I get back to talking with her. But again I feel her mind is fixated on not being in the relationship, "She wants to focus on becoming better version of herself and focus on career. And wants me to do same." Moreover she wants a break. What should I make of this.???? We had a peaceful breakup. But there is something of a void in her for relationships. What should I do?
Going on almost 6 months since the breakup. Always watch these videos when I feel I ain’t gonna make it. I got some breadcrumb texts from my ex. A few exchanges via text and then disappears and maybe a few likes on my posts on fb but that’s it these days.
You still got text and likes on Facebook? Shit. Mine stone cold. No message and no likes. Just like a fking ghost. Don't blew your no contact bruh.
He viewed my Instagram story after reactivating his account, I blocked him everywhere except on Instagram coz he deactivated his account when we had the argument.... Should I block him there too, part of me wants to give him zero energy
After 3 months I contacted him that I want to talk, he didn’t even read it. I feel so stupid already :(
Because No Contact is FOREVER!
Until your ex contacts you that is
Can we talk Noha revivo Personally i’m also in the same position maybe we could find a way out
Don’t beat yourself up. It’s okay, he is very uncaring to not even respond. He’s not worthy of your effort
Wtf! He maybe dating. Are u the dumper?
What happens if you work for him and he is dating someone else? I'm trying to walk away from working with him but he takes me for granted. Treats me like a business transaction but he shows hot and cold with me. How do l approach this. I want him back but it seems like me don't have strong emotions together or spending time together
Good to see you coach
Me and my ex work at the same company. I have been in no contact for a month now and we ran into each other at the office today. I was friendly and said hi and had to run back to work, but he was very angry 😡, glaring, and sighing loudly. Otherwise he is stonewalling me and giving me the silent treatment. I don’t know what to do now? Do you know what he is thinking?
Also note that I’m pregnant, it is his, he knows, but does not ask how anything is going. He doesn’t even know when the due date is
If the pregnancy is his, and he isn't asking questions or showing care, write him off. That's a much deeper problem that will only cause you perpetual heartache.
I genuinely care for him and it’s hard to wrap my mind around his reaction. I was so happy that we were going to have a child together after all these years. He threatened to hurt/kill me and the baby. I know I need to hide from him, but it is difficult because we work in the same building.
I have conflicting feelings about the child support, I know I want that for the child but worry that might trigger another rage reaction from him. What if it makes my situation more dangerous?
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt and thought he was in shock and needed a cooling off period. He is angrier now than when he broke up with me. He never went through the stages of the breakup that Coach Lee talks about. He never had the relief period, or curiosity
I spend the whole week after the breakup messaging and calling her, last night I asked her if she ever loved me and she reacted with anger. The reason for the breakup was that she didn’t have enough time for me because of school and it felt like i was the only one trying to keep the relationship alive. I am now blocked and don’t know what to do, do I still have a chance with her? Anyone help please?
@@juliousfarmary2792 I do, I love her and because of my mistakes I lost her, she's the best thing that has ever happened to me
I did no contact rule and after two months I talked to her, she told me that I’m careless and you gave up on our relationship. She’s upset and she moved on for sure she’s not even responding anymore Rip lol
Hi looking for advice , me and my ex broke up mutually as we were going to do things that would be disrespectful, I didn’t do the no contact and we remained in touch , had a few hookups , I’m now at the stage where I miss them and want to be back together , however I feel my ex has cold feet , so I stick to the simple no contact , be reserved and wait for the signs that they want me back however it hasn’t happened , any ideas or help so we can be back to a place where we are attracted to each other again ??
Playing hard to get also perpetuates the idea that being persistent is what makes you "get the girl" (or guy). This works at the expense of those who are legitimately not interested, and what ends up happening is harassment and lack of social skill improvement. So, be clear and believe people when they say no!
When will you take 1-on-1 sessions again? Your page says you’re not currently taking any. It’s been over a month now. I would like to speak to you. Thank you.
Will no contact work if I made her feel dumped during our relationship? I mean we had an awful relationship, fighting, yelling, I even laid hand on her I was such a monster, but later I just realized how much I love her esp. when she already dumped me 😔
Now does No Contact work in my case?
I want her back and make it all up to her and make her happy and have a healthy relatiinship.
Pls help Coach Lee 🙏
Diw,, you said you "laid a hand on her?" I would not take a man back who hit me. If she's staying away from you it's because you hit her, you were a monster to her, and very mean. To hit a woman is the worst thing you can do. Please try to get some help. Talk to a Therapist, but you seem to have ANGER ISSUES that need to be addressed before you start dating sgain.
After 15 days radio silence my ex contacted me, and we met up next day but she said she wants to be friend and i said no but she says okay and she wants to stay connected with me, what should I do now.
I'm not chasing and running behind no man don't mean any harm
Thank you for your guidance coach Lee
Indeed u have helped me alot n pray God to give u wisdom and long life to keep guiding us...
Should I do no contact if the reason we broke up is because I didn’t give her enough attention and took her for granted.
Hey coach Lee! I’m on 11 weeks of no contact. Coming up is her dad’s birthday and he passed away earlier this year while we were still together. Should I break no contact and reach out to her on his birthday just to say happy birthday to him? I was always there for her when she needed support after his passing.
No
What if I got the girl I chased for a long time and she pulled some shady stuff, I left, went no contact now for just over a month, didn’t go nc immediately we talked a few times, I didn’t beg or plead tried to be nice, she wanted to fight I went strict nc after that, I think I’m kind of screwed cuz she knew how badly I wanted her before I got her, but I have this crazy confidence she’ll be back, is that bad? Also I told her if we break up that’s it, i will not do on again off again (I said this to try and stop the break up) anyways she replied “my parents broke up and got back together a lot” her parents never divorced married 25 years, but anyways why did she that she what did she mean?? Is that her being confident well back together, was it her expecting me to run back and beg and plead, which i didn’t do and won’t. I’m just confused by that comment. Out of all the arguing that went down when we broke up that sticks out the most to me, what’s it mean??
Could you do a video on when exes are most likely to come back. I feel as if this would be a great video
“Like a raw egg off a nail” hahahah
Every single thing u talk abt I've been through n it really works..I have a question though...is it okay to delete my ex's number for a while after break up?
Yes.
It was so nice to see my ex walk by holding her new boyfriend’s hand while i was working. Man that made me feel so good.... Just kidding! It was probably the worst thing i have ever seen and i really wish I didn’t see that....
i know it’s hard man...with time you will get stronger. your indifference and silence is your power. you are much stronger than you give yourself credit for.
I unfollowed my ex on every social media the day we broke up. Been in no contact for 3 weeks and he just unfollowed me now.. will this affect anything?
I NEED SOME ADVICE. I AM THE DUMPER. A week after dumping him I regretted it and I wanted to reach out but he was very rude when I broke up with him so I felt like he was still angry and I was still very confused about my feelings. After 30 days I reached out to him asking a very specific question (i was testing the waters) and he responded 3 days later saying he was busy and kinda over shared telling me what has been going on in his life. I was very cautious with my response and the conversation was very short. 3 days later which is yesterday, I tried reaching out to him again with a “How have you been?” And I eventually was gonna tell him I want to try again and to get back together but It’s been 24hours and still no response. I feel like he doesn’t want me communicating with him anymore and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I haven’t asked for a second chance as yet but o feel his attitude is telling me all that I need to know. I’m on the fence right now and not sure if I should just tell him although he is ignoring me (I can see ghe last time was active on WhatsApp) and I am about to delete his number and move on because it’s starting to feel like he has already.
Hey! Sorry if I’m seeing this too late, my ex had left me so it’s hard for me to comment on most of the above.
Is there any update on your situation?
I just found out that my ex have dating app, even tho he said he dont want to go into new relationship because maybe we will get back together . Its just few days after breakup. We were together for 4 years. I'm dying r now...
my x ended it.. she keeps saying she wants to keep contact.. keeps messaging me. but doesn't want a relationship.. should i keep pushing her away or let it happen?
coach lee I just watch your video, you looks so young in your new haircut matching with your 👕 😊