They try to cut us off from you. Connect to us here, secure, always free. Be honorable. www.grimletter.com/ OUTLINE: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Number 1: Collecting Status Symbols 01:02 Number 2: Distraction by Comfort 01:10 Number 3: Distraction by Lust 01:17 Number 4: Distraction by Anger 01:31 Number 5: Distraction by Consumption 01:42 Number 6: Distraction by Envy 01:52 Number 7: Distraction by Technology 02:05 Bonus
No. 8- will you be distracted by addictions of drugs, alcohol Cigarettes. Todays generation is not even half strong as people used to be 200-300 years ago. Youth needs to quit harmful addictions and drugs.
@@Skylark241Our Serb army🇷🇸 won 1st battle in WW1, 2 Balkan wars so in war from 1912 to 1918,farmers bratan, 90% of them. Since we have a war every 20,30 years think i will have to go to next one with 45,50years old, these young can't handle Zastava arms Ak 47,only mobile phone maybe. Plus no army service like i went to it, that is the goal to make next generations soft
Hello from Russia, Moscow. 30 years.When i was young , my father told me the same. "You can be calm, you can be funny , you can be whatever you want , but if you have honor mixed with any of this emotions , people would respect you as you respect yourself. My mother told me : " you better be alone then with someone who is not your lvl( it means your lvl of honesty and peace)". I saw a lot of firends who fall , even when they had more achievements and money then me. Luck suits the best remember . Guys i wish you all the best . Follow your own path.
I am 63. I spent my life distracted by my traumatic childhood. Only just realising how unfocused that made me. But i have always tried to be honourable and to never inflict my pain on others
The universe brought me to this channel and after watching a few video's I am hooked and because I have been saying and repeating a lot of things this and other videos were saying some comments similar some identical to my close circle and when I give advice to those who are willing to listen. And my #1 thing is HONOR and always will be ! To be if you are not HONORABLE I want nothing to do with you! These days it's a rare GEM! Thank you for your powerful messages and reminders or real VALUES to those willing to LISTEN! Always BE HONORABLE !
Number 1 will you be distracted by collecting status. 2 will you be distracted by comfort. 3 will you be distracted by lust 4 will you be distracted by anger ,hate ,rage. 5 Will you be distracted by consumption. 6 will you be distracted by envy. 7 will you be distracted by technology. Will you be distracted by greed
Tears came to my eyes at the last "Be honorable.". This video was so well written, so well edited, so well executed. Thank you to everyone behind this video. Keep it up. Keep changing the world one individual at a time.
As a communicant, you are one of a very rare kind, your energy is fully communicative and generous. Like a good old school folk, a kind brother !! L' Étincelle qui permit d'allumer le feu sacré !!
I serve in the Army. When I was very young, my mother told me a sentence.... She survived the Spanish Civil War, she is very old, still alive, and I take care of her. The sentence: "My son, even if you see your guts out and even you have to hold them in your own hands... keep going." Best advice in my fu**ing life.
That last point hit me like a ton of bricks: "At the end of your life, you will have to answer to the higher power that gave you this life. Were you distracted, or did you go your own way, Grim?" Something about being able to empathize with my future unsatisfied self, incapable of being distracted by instant gratification anymore, and having an existential crisis that lasts for the rest of eternity shook the living hell out of me. So powerful.
'Someday the EarthMaker will look straight into your heart to see if you're a real human being -or just a hungry ghost running around down here". Jon Voight in the movie U-Turn.
No. 4 is a big one for me. I am working on it, and have been. I'm starting to do 10 pushups every morning like you said in your other video. And honoring my ancestors. I always honored my Aunt's memory, b/c she was always kind to me, but I need to honor them all. Thank you for your videos.
This is one of the best advices I've ever heard! It is so important and true, cause in these modern times, distraction is so easy and focus is so hard! So choose the hard way - it gives you more satisfaction and inner peace!
The 7 Most Dangerous Distractions are a formula used by the hip-hop/rap music genre (apart from very few exceptions- an exception to every rule). It should make one question the hidden motivations of the hip-hop/rap music. This is a beautifully crafted video in production and wisdom, thankyou for the time taken to make this and enlighten the people.
That was sooooo goooddddd I write down every word he says since months and have it hanging on my wall , grim , you saved my life and brought me closer to my roots, ancestors and of course god even i was it before but now with more power
He's getting much more in depth. I am impressed. Honor is a tough word to interpret in English. We associate it with discernable behaviors. We do not associate it with internal struggle and internal results. Struggle in this case means to remove things that cause us to veer from our own true path. Brush them aside, moment by moment.
Anger is an illusion of power. I just had a colleague ask me to do something really foolish. They sent me an email, a similar email that they have sent me several times. I cannot use what they sent to me. They know that I am not in charge of things. They are anxious and use me as a prod to get work done. Realizing that I can make tangible process for my management, I scheduled me time to get this work done. I replied to their naive email that we are finishing work on one class of product. I blocked off time to get that work into our repository. I really wanted to call them at home and scream at them. Instead I forged a path ahead.
I lost my father when i was 19.He waa a great businessman.After that,no one was to guide me and nw im 43. Thanks to Almighty fr giving me a chance to see this video. Grim a great mentor
The journey has been hard brothers. We are fighting a war and the odds are agaisnt us. I have no friends around me either. Nobody to turn to because i see the artificial reality many are living on the internet and refuse to participate in their shallow delusion of flaunting status and riches as if it puts them above others. Today we take a step forward and do not look back. Even then, I still have a long way to go..
Was lost for a long time. It took great loss to turn myself around. My road is uncertain. My eyes are clear. My mind and heart is open. The lesson is real❤
Grim hustle because you mix honor with your motivational videos , we find them the most real and honest straight forward videos unlike others who make motivational videos to sell you books and coaching programs or just say unpractical shit.
Majority resell what's been sold for thousands of years. If those would be successful we would not be here. I have yet to find recipe for success. In other words, would you go to expensive school that only 1% graduate? Imho something wrong with school it self.
It's scary how true this is but it really is. I can relate a lot. Don't be distracted by these foolish things and keep your focus. Find your power and stick with it. Live and die with honor.
Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰
I am not distracted by addictions, or I wouldn’t of been sober for so long, and I’m not greedy. I have helped many people and shorted myself and sat with nothing too many times people mistake my kindness for weakness because I’m so nice I am not greedy I never have been I know what it’s like not to have anything, there’s no way I could ever be greedy. There’s a difference when someone is a need of a lift in this world little financial break little moral support versus people playing psychological warfare with me. I can clearly tell the difference.
The pressure and distraction in this world is heavier than ever... Thank you for a brilliant channel!! I am 55 and have never reached the point of owning anything materialistic exept now for my own preparation and is focused on one thing only... Surviving the planned onslaught of a massive geno cide against my people, white sou th afri cans. We face a brutal time ahead, just like the one that hit u kraine and gaz a... But instead of b om bs, we will be wiped off by hatred from hungry masses...
So sehr ich diesen Kanal schätze und würdige, in all seinen Facetten, mache ich mir langsam Sorgen, dass sich einige „höhere Mächte“ auf den Fuß getreten fühlen…also, bitte weitermachen.
Hi Grim. Doing a great job. I love your philosophy it's same as my late father taught me by living in such a way..... I am also one of your like minded.
Duty: What must be done. Period. Honor: The standard that you hold yourself to. Many have none. Country/Rodina: Your homeland; you are the caretaker of the land and the custodian of your heritage; and your heritage is freedom, most especially, from yourself.
Well, God knows that I do my best I give everything 200%. I have good intentions and a loving heart, and God knows that I’m tired of being disrespected and I pray to God every day silently for patience as I walk away I take a breath I walk it off and keep going.
you hit me deep for real!!! i consider myself getting out of dangerous distraction on slow pace! to be honest i lost almost a decade of my life to find my purpose of life, like why i am exist!? I'm sure I'm not a number i have a name!! sometimes i feel i know why I'm existed but after a while i realize i was wrong, the purpose of our Existance is much deeper than our comprehension!! i now think that as long as we breath we should build and sharpen ourselves! it's no joke journey for Men! where are the kings!?
I have never been in a competition with nobody. The rest of the world has been in a competition with me for 40 years they’ve been trying to challenge me for 40 years they’ve been disrespected me for too long I have never been in a competition with anybody life is not a competition. Life is not a race, life is supposed to be teamwork and camaraderie and it’s me against the whole world so I pray for more patients to deal with the overwhelming disrespect that comes at me on a daily basis
It’s nice to listen to the words of a gutsy independent leader. Nonetheless, I find that safeguarding both honor/integrity and focus/discipline are vital.
Thoughts on #5: In the last year, I have dropped over 80 pounds just by not consuming that which is pleasant, but by going to a simple protein type diet. That one cookie might as well represent a case of cookies. For if you have one, you will eat more. Plain boiled eggs, lean meats, lentil soups and an occasional pickle. I could have lost even more weight, but those distractions drew me back to the foods (if you can call them that) which poison our bodies. Following this, I do believe my anger (#4) has been a bane. I have looked to meditation and I am thinking I should just look upon the world bemusedly.
It could also just be an side-effect of "Eventual Consistency". In short, many computers need to sync their states, so one counter can be further than the others for some time ;)
They try to cut us off from you. Connect to us here, secure, always free. Be honorable. www.grimletter.com/
OUTLINE:
00:00 Intro
00:56 Number 1: Collecting Status Symbols
01:02 Number 2: Distraction by Comfort
01:10 Number 3: Distraction by Lust
01:17 Number 4: Distraction by Anger
01:31 Number 5: Distraction by Consumption
01:42 Number 6: Distraction by Envy
01:52 Number 7: Distraction by Technology
02:05 Bonus
thank you bratan❤
What is honor exactly, bratan?
No. 8- will you be distracted by addictions of drugs, alcohol Cigarettes.
Todays generation is not even half strong as people used to be 200-300 years ago.
Youth needs to quit harmful addictions and drugs.
@@Skylark241Our Serb army🇷🇸 won 1st battle in WW1, 2 Balkan wars so in war from 1912 to 1918,farmers bratan, 90% of them. Since we have a war every 20,30 years think i will have to go to next one with 45,50years old, these young can't handle Zastava arms Ak 47,only mobile phone maybe. Plus no army service like i went to it, that is the goal to make next generations soft
rusia mexico le agredece p9r el apoyo seras reconpensado al final.los justos con los suyos etc
Hello from Russia, Moscow. 30 years.When i was young , my father told me the same. "You can be calm, you can be funny , you can be whatever you want , but if you have honor mixed with any of this emotions , people would respect you as you respect yourself. My mother told me : " you better be alone then with someone who is not your lvl( it means your lvl of honesty and peace)". I saw a lot of firends who fall , even when they had more achievements and money then me. Luck suits the best remember . Guys i wish you all the best . Follow your own path.
Guys, ty for your likes. I see that many of you share my vision. Thats damn heartwarming.
@@SpectrD🇬🇪💪🏼✝️
братан
Lucky you had such parents.
@@JohSebBac Yup...!!! 😅😅😅😂😂😂
Ukraine Is As It Is, A Part Of Mother Russia... 😎😎😎😁😁😁
I am 63. I spent my life distracted by my traumatic childhood. Only just realising how unfocused that made me. But i have always tried to be honourable and to never inflict my pain on others
You won. You have mastered yourself
can you give us about some of your regrets so that, it will help us
realizing is best achievement you have done!! stay sharp my friend!!
God bless you ❤
U won the battle mate 👍👍🎉🎉🎉 congratulations mate iam happy for u
The universe brought me to this channel and after watching a few video's I am hooked and because I have been saying and repeating a lot of things this and other videos were saying some comments similar some identical to my close circle and when I give advice to those who are willing to listen. And my #1 thing is HONOR and always will be ! To be if you are not HONORABLE I want nothing to do with you! These days it's a rare GEM! Thank you for your powerful messages and reminders or real VALUES to those willing to LISTEN! Always BE HONORABLE !
The BEST motivational channel on the internet, hands down👍
On the planet at the moment 😅
Grim Hustle is probably better than any motivational speaker in the world!
And he is better than all my bachelor's and master's degree professors, combined 🙄
100%
No doubt.
No doubt.
🙏
Plus he has the coolest name.
Puts down phone immediately and starts doing push-ups
Good one ! 😂
Same here
We will take Bakhmut, my friend. Welcome to the team!
That's more like David Goggins hahaha 😂
Sorry, I just had dinner
Can't do exercise
Number 1 will you be distracted by collecting status.
2 will you be distracted by comfort.
3 will you be distracted by lust
4 will you be distracted by anger ,hate ,rage.
5 Will you be distracted by consumption.
6 will you be distracted by envy.
7 will you be distracted by technology.
Will you be distracted by greed
Great encouragement. To be honorable is a calling so rare in the world right now.
Tears came to my eyes at the last "Be honorable.". This video was so well written, so well edited, so well executed. Thank you to everyone behind this video. Keep it up. Keep changing the world one individual at a time.
As a communicant, you are one of a very rare kind, your energy is fully communicative and generous.
Like a good old school folk, a kind brother !! L' Étincelle qui permit d'allumer le feu sacré !!
Dear Mr. Hustle, Thank you for this post. I needed to hear it and I believe God spoke through you so I may learn. Thank You. ❤
Keep calm and be honorable.
3 Minutes of pure Power.
Very true.
I serve in the Army. When I was very young, my mother told me a sentence.... She survived the Spanish Civil War, she is very old, still alive, and I take care of her.
The sentence:
"My son, even if you see your guts out and even you have to hold them in your own hands... keep going."
Best advice in my fu**ing life.
She is a legend living with us biless her and you!
God bless her.
Lovely words bro . Thanks ,I was distracted by lust , anger and envy . I have to move to my own path .
When you are distracted then pray to God, Bro. No one will help you to overcome being distracted but God. Stay honorable! Every damn day, Bro...
Amen !
Amen
amen
Amen
True that
This what we need for the men in the UK , I pray for our brothers in Russia we don’t want to fight the west has lost its mind.
Be Honourable ❤❤❤
That last point hit me like a ton of bricks:
"At the end of your life, you will have to answer to the higher power that gave you this life. Were you distracted, or did you go your own way, Grim?"
Something about being able to empathize with my future unsatisfied self, incapable of being distracted by instant gratification anymore, and having an existential crisis that lasts for the rest of eternity shook the living hell out of me. So powerful.
'Someday the EarthMaker will look straight into your heart to see if you're a real human being -or just a hungry ghost running around down here". Jon Voight in the movie U-Turn.
No. 4 is a big one for me. I am working on it, and have been. I'm starting to do 10 pushups every morning like you said in your other video. And honoring my ancestors. I always honored my Aunt's memory, b/c she was always kind to me, but I need to honor them all. Thank you for your videos.
That is one powerful message. This channel has always been a cut above the rest. Thank you.
Very true
Class advice. Grateful. Honour will come.
This is one of the best advices I've ever heard! It is so important and true, cause in these modern times, distraction is so easy and focus is so hard! So choose the hard way - it gives you more satisfaction and inner peace!
Answerable to the highest power ❤
The 7 Most Dangerous Distractions are a formula used by the hip-hop/rap music genre (apart from very few exceptions- an exception to every rule). It should make one question the hidden motivations of the hip-hop/rap music. This is a beautifully crafted video in production and wisdom, thankyou for the time taken to make this and enlighten the people.
When He said About Latest technology: The classiest. The most powerful of all. Thank you
That was sooooo goooddddd
I write down every word he says since months and have it hanging on my wall , grim , you saved my life and brought me closer to my roots, ancestors and of course god even i was it before but now with more power
He's getting much more in depth. I am impressed.
Honor is a tough word to interpret in English. We associate it with discernable behaviors. We do not associate it with internal struggle and internal results.
Struggle in this case means to remove things that cause us to veer from our own true path. Brush them aside, moment by moment.
Anger is an illusion of power.
I just had a colleague ask me to do something really foolish. They sent me an email, a similar email that they have sent me several times. I cannot use what they sent to me. They know that I am not in charge of things. They are anxious and use me as a prod to get work done.
Realizing that I can make tangible process for my management, I scheduled me time to get this work done.
I replied to their naive email that we are finishing work on one class of product. I blocked off time to get that work into our repository.
I really wanted to call them at home and scream at them. Instead I forged a path ahead.
Stand firm,@@jamallabarge2665. Brave work!
It's so thankful that I can understand English. I'm Korean! 🇰🇷 Love you, bratan! ❤
Honour will come ,Be Honorable !
I lost my father when i was 19.He waa a great businessman.After that,no one was to guide me and nw im 43.
Thanks to Almighty fr giving me a chance to see this video.
Grim a great mentor
That reality, you don't find it in family, school or church...So wach it, over and over again and share it...
This hits home during these bizarre times.
The way he hinted to honor at the start and revealed it at the end was brilliant.
The journey has been hard brothers. We are fighting a war and the odds are agaisnt us. I have no friends around me either. Nobody to turn to because i see the artificial reality many are living on the internet and refuse to participate in their shallow delusion of flaunting status and riches as if it puts them above others. Today we take a step forward and do not look back. Even then, I still have a long way to go..
Inner Peace..THANK YOU GRIM..
God, Honor and Values are so important. Without these thing we are going to the abyss. Thank you Adrycha 👍
Was lost for a long time. It took great loss to turn myself around.
My road is uncertain.
My eyes are clear. My mind and heart is open.
The lesson is real❤
May God bless you
Each time i listen to Grim i feel much more connected to what my father used to tell me and my brothers when were still in school,,,,
We love grim hustle.. Be honorable! !
EXCELLENT...ALWAYS EXCELLENT....Thank you so much...for these treasures..Thank you....
Grim hustle because you mix honor with your motivational videos , we find them the most real and honest straight forward videos unlike others who make motivational videos to sell you books and coaching programs or just say unpractical shit.
Majority resell what's been sold for thousands of years. If those would be successful we would not be here. I have yet to find recipe for success.
In other words, would you go to expensive school that only 1% graduate?
Imho something wrong with school it self.
I needed this. Arrived at the right time like a mentor. Thanks again Grim!!
It's scary how true this is but it really is. I can relate a lot. Don't be distracted by these foolish things and keep your focus. Find your power and stick with it.
Live and die with honor.
Dear unkhown person whoever reads this we don't know each other yet I wish you all the luck afterward from this moment 💫❤️ you are a blessing you don't know that yet , don't blame your self or else loose yourself in the dessert of uncertainty, ur smile is precious keep that up🥰
wow :-) impressed sharing this wisdom - Focus is not the antidote to distraction, it is honor! ! . Billion thanks to Grim Hustle
Bratan .. this is one of your most important videos .. thank you and may Allah bless you ❤️👊🏻
Ameen , May Allah give him hidayah
@@mohammedmavizsheikhumer2168 Ameen !
I am not distracted by addictions, or I wouldn’t of been sober for so long, and I’m not greedy. I have helped many people and shorted myself and sat with nothing too many times people mistake my kindness for weakness because I’m so nice I am not greedy I never have been I know what it’s like not to have anything, there’s no way I could ever be greedy. There’s a difference when someone is a need of a lift in this world little financial break little moral support versus people playing psychological warfare with me. I can clearly tell the difference.
Have a good day. Blessing’s and prayers and good wishes.
The reason I am subscribe is because you mention GOD.
All you say it's true and am always amazed at the wisdom.
TO GOD BE THE GLORY.
Be honorable ❤
BY FAR the best motivational channel EVER!
Best motivation in 2024 thanks for it and i will surely achieve my goals 💯🔜❤️
This is Gold, thank you brother. ❤😊
I don,t care who he are, but his motivation always work for me.
Spot on!! All have to answer to the Higher. Gentleman's Word!!
I am proud to be a Grim best decision I ever made in my life, now it time to take action and concentrate also avoid been distracted 😊
The best lessons so far.
If we had this at school...
The pressure and distraction in this world is heavier than ever... Thank you for a brilliant channel!! I am 55 and have never reached the point of owning anything materialistic exept now for my own preparation and is focused on one thing only... Surviving the planned onslaught of a massive geno cide against my people, white sou th afri cans. We face a brutal time ahead, just like the one that hit u kraine and gaz a... But instead of b om bs, we will be wiped off by hatred from hungry masses...
Thank you sir. I always look forward to you Grim. I am Grim.
Dziekuje. Prawda, co Pan mówi, też z doświadczenia potwierdzam. Szacun.
A Lot of Thanks,God blessing 👍❤️🙏
You lecture better than many professors in colleges and universities.
Words to live by.🙏🏽
So sehr ich diesen Kanal schätze und würdige, in all seinen Facetten, mache ich mir langsam Sorgen, dass sich einige „höhere Mächte“ auf den Fuß getreten fühlen…also, bitte weitermachen.
May God Bless you and your loved ones in this world and the next...Amēn
Do you accept that Jesus is God.
Powerful message. It’s rooted in Stoicism philosophy, as a way of understand life and act accordingly. Yes, be honorable, my friend!
Hi Grim. Doing a great job. I love your philosophy it's same as my late father taught me by living in such a way.....
I am also one of your like minded.
Amen may God bless this old man
Thank you for bringing always the best content, greetings from Colombia
The message is fantastic but more fascinating is the way he spoke and presented it.
Amen, Thank you. 🙏
Priceless content and what a beautiful advice
Finally, some word's on Real Knowledge " Word's of Life, snd truth..
Just what i needed inn my bags!
When we become adults we definitely go our own way. It's the only way! Great video.
Duty: What must be done. Period. Honor: The standard that you hold yourself to. Many have none. Country/Rodina: Your homeland; you are the caretaker of the land and the custodian of your heritage; and your heritage is freedom, most especially, from yourself.
Well, God knows that I do my best I give everything 200%. I have good intentions and a loving heart, and God knows that I’m tired of being disrespected and I pray to God every day silently for patience as I walk away I take a breath I walk it off and keep going.
I like the Grim Manifesro philosophies . This one is so accurate. All those things he mentioned are what so many people get pulled into.
Mister I really appreciate your videos. Thank you for the advice
Grim hustle ... Thanks Father!!!
Best youtube channel of ALL TIMES!!!!!!!
The world deserves more wise people like you.💯👑
you hit me deep for real!!! i consider myself getting out of dangerous distraction on slow pace! to be honest i lost almost a decade of my life to find my purpose of life, like why i am exist!? I'm sure I'm not a number i have a name!! sometimes i feel i know why I'm existed but after a while i realize i was wrong, the purpose of our Existance is much deeper than our comprehension!! i now think that as long as we breath we should build and sharpen ourselves! it's no joke journey for Men! where are the kings!?
🙏🏾thank you as always for the wisdom brother
Good teachings, can feel it. Thank you
Yes sir it is True . Love from India
So meaningful words. A person from far from weak💪🏻🔥
I have never been in a competition with nobody. The rest of the world has been in a competition with me for 40 years they’ve been trying to challenge me for 40 years they’ve been disrespected me for too long I have never been in a competition with anybody life is not a competition. Life is not a race, life is supposed to be teamwork and camaraderie and it’s me against the whole world so I pray for more patients to deal with the overwhelming disrespect that comes at me on a daily basis
Thanks for this beautiful message sir.
It’s nice to listen to the words of a gutsy independent leader. Nonetheless, I find that safeguarding both honor/integrity and focus/discipline are vital.
Thoughts on #5: In the last year, I have dropped over 80 pounds just by not consuming that which is pleasant, but by going to a simple protein type diet. That one cookie might as well represent a case of cookies. For if you have one, you will eat more. Plain boiled eggs, lean meats, lentil soups and an occasional pickle. I could have lost even more weight, but those distractions drew me back to the foods (if you can call them that) which poison our bodies.
Following this, I do believe my anger (#4) has been a bane. I have looked to meditation and I am thinking I should just look upon the world bemusedly.
Thank you sir.
Bless everbody behind and in the forefront of this arrangement.
I never overlook any of your videos.
There's always something to learn here.
Thank you❤❤❤
Thank You ❣
This shows that there’s many forms of distractions.🔥
Wow❤ thanks for this
1- collecting status symbol (pride, luxury, showing off)
2- Comfort (want easy, soft, instant, convenient)
3-Lust
4-Anger, hate, rage
5-Consumption (eating, buying, playing)
6-Envy (Rankings, Comparisons, constant competition)
7-Latest technologies (phones, gadgets)
8-Greed
0 views but 35 likes. The YT aglo is trying to shadow ban GRIM HUSTLE
yes they are
They are. Suki! Share this video all over the world. And come here to escape the shadow. t.me/grimhustle
It could also just be an side-effect of "Eventual Consistency". In short, many computers need to sync their states, so one counter can be further than the others for some time ;)
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like the A D L trying to grab Tick Tock
THIS IS GREAT ADVICE!!!❤❤❤