How UPSC changed my life? | Failure, Depression and Success

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  • Опубликовано: 3 фев 2025

Комментарии • 294

  • @adrijachoudhury2388
    @adrijachoudhury2388 7 месяцев назад +98

    I have met a few UPSC aspirants who failed and I have seen them breaking down and eventually turning into arrogant and egoistic human beings to mask their pain. That made me quite demotivated to appear for this exam.But you are really an inspiration. You fit perfect to the quote that, a true teacher is like a candle which consumes itself to light the way for others.
    Thank You.

    • @adityatiwari9018
      @adityatiwari9018 6 месяцев назад

      @@adrijachoudhury2388 i am one of them..yes.... frustration hota he.....

  • @priyajha2335
    @priyajha2335 7 месяцев назад +41

    Mjhe sun k tenson ho gyi ..h..and u have gone through it😢u r very strong person really u r an inspiration for us .😊

  • @triptoaaudicort
    @triptoaaudicort 7 месяцев назад +103

    I remember, that I used to practice in court and in my leisure hours, I used to watch your videos to strategically plan my preparation. I am of the thought that UPSC can never be taught to anyone. It can only be guided. And if there are mentors like you, who shove the truth to your face but at the very same time give a ray of hope through hardwork, consistency and determination, i can definitely say that aspirants can be relieved. You and UPSC PREP team won our hearts again when you showed the truth as to which Upsc topper has taken which course on your platform like clear water. That was a tremendous step by your platform, adding more to your credibility. I don’t know whether i am going to fulfil my dream, but the outlook which you gave to this exam will certainly be the part and parcel of my life ever-long. Thank you so much Sir and thank you so much to complete UPSC prep team for your efforts.🙏🏻❤️

  • @Justhuman5563
    @Justhuman5563 7 месяцев назад +21

    You are a winner ❤❤ After all you have gone through you are still continuing .

  • @tanmaytiwari3828
    @tanmaytiwari3828 7 месяцев назад +210

    I am a person who knows you since Studento 2.0 ❤

  • @AkhtarjiEdu
    @AkhtarjiEdu 7 месяцев назад +15

    Openly speaking.
    You had a very hard time even though you were keep going and today you are assisting many aspirants.
    May God bless you and gives you strength.
    More power to you sir

  • @ashishraj7536
    @ashishraj7536 6 месяцев назад +4

    Sir I have gained a lot of learning from you and your story is all the worth respect for

  • @kuldeep7714
    @kuldeep7714 5 месяцев назад +3

    You are doing a very great work sir , because of you i have started my preparation
    , i have watched your short video while scrolling . I am starting my journey from scratch right now.

  • @ArunjeetSingh-n9u
    @ArunjeetSingh-n9u 7 месяцев назад +5

    Seeing such people of grit makes me humble.

  • @akshay3432
    @akshay3432 7 месяцев назад +18

    I am in the CSE cycle since 3 years and following you since studento 2.0,
    I have seen you showing up
    Making videos and I used to wonder how can anyone be so disciplined
    Fast forward to 2024, Now I realise that that’s what this exam make you disciplined and Perseverant
    Sir you are inspiration for me
    Your subscriber since studento 2.0

    • @Ritika19253
      @Ritika19253 7 месяцев назад

      @@akshay3432 what are you doing now?

    • @Letslaugh321__
      @Letslaugh321__ 4 месяца назад

      @@Ritika19253 unemployed

  • @AjayDuhan
    @AjayDuhan 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is the video that I needed right now. I am not a civil services aspirant but I resonated with the things you said. Thank you for the video your journey is inspirational to me.

  • @Thespringshades
    @Thespringshades 7 месяцев назад +6

    More power to you bhaiya ❤
    You are a saviour to many 🙌

  • @suryavanshi_ashish
    @suryavanshi_ashish 7 месяцев назад +6

    Love you sir, i had also did it with my father. After watching this video i gain "HOPE" thank you for sharing.

  • @footgoblin
    @footgoblin 7 месяцев назад +14

    Love the poem in the title! It's very inspiring and so is your story❤

  • @escobarnaga3245
    @escobarnaga3245 7 месяцев назад +26

    I thought my struggle was tough. Mine is nothing comparing to yours. You are such a lion sir 🔥🔥🔥 Such an inspiration 🙏🙏🙏

    • @yashi5698
      @yashi5698 7 месяцев назад

      What a line true 💟💟

    • @godlsurajchpri7069
      @godlsurajchpri7069 7 месяцев назад

      Bhai Creamy layer ka banda hei yeh , phir bhi OBC ka reservation ka fyada chiye , koi struggle nahi hei , chutiya hei , tum logo ko bhi bana raha hei

  • @Pragya_453
    @Pragya_453 4 месяца назад +3

    Best thing is to say whatever is right
    Expression is best than suppression
    Suppression causes a lot of mental turmoil.
    Let s face it whatever we are going through and be proud of it
    And thank you sir for such podcast
    It gives hope

  • @Yukti_Rao
    @Yukti_Rao 7 месяцев назад +3

    I have been following you on quora since 2020! You are an amazing human!

  • @balamurugank5777
    @balamurugank5777 7 месяцев назад +5

    U r such an inspiration sir❤✨✨✨

  • @nancyyadav3768
    @nancyyadav3768 7 месяцев назад +9

    Abhijeet sir stands tall after rising from ashes! I remember how one shorts video of you just 7-8 days before prelims’24 changed my perspective about end tak jhagarna for your cse dream. And I did fight till 4:30 pm that day.

    • @itzaryan365
      @itzaryan365 4 месяца назад +1

      Do u use telegram?

  • @wordinaryeardough9016
    @wordinaryeardough9016 6 месяцев назад +2

    This was an incredible thing to watch. I’m a 2022 ranker currently on leave and I’m going to write mains this year, but the interview marks that I got in the year I was selected had jolted me from within. The thing is that all the worst possible things I could’ve imagined happening to me, happened. Failing whatever stages I did. But I pride
    Myself over getting back up again and shooting my shot in a direction I feel is important to me. Here is to you shooting your shot at the universe sir. I used to think it is so banal to keep talking about picking ourselves back up and giving ourselves a chance, but I didn’t realise how powerful this act could be. Also, currently reading a book which beautifully underscores the power of language in shaping our self and its concept, and it only made me realise that until we reshape the way we talk to ourselves, there is no way out of anything.

  • @Paragrapher
    @Paragrapher 7 месяцев назад +9

    Rigrously following your videos sir ❤

  • @SHREE-GEE
    @SHREE-GEE 7 месяцев назад +31

    Sometimes I feel that why not take upsc as a journey rather destination with ease ✨️

    • @yashi5698
      @yashi5698 7 месяцев назад +3

      True🎉

  • @swarajkiran3360
    @swarajkiran3360 7 месяцев назад +11

    har na manne ke liye jo strength chahiye vo sabke paas nhi hoti..i cried alot,even every day but stand up for my self because mai haar nhi maan sakti.again i'm fighting, let's see kya hota hai 😢

    • @swarajkiran3360
      @swarajkiran3360 7 месяцев назад

      I'm still in race sir.. dreams me bhi yhi dikhta hai ki sab aage nikl gye or mai sirf lagi hu,kb tk hoga pta nhi but....but I can't give up

  • @tej7545
    @tej7545 7 месяцев назад +9

    i wanted to hear this :) thank you sir

  • @Abhishekkumar-mx1ns
    @Abhishekkumar-mx1ns 4 месяца назад +3

    I am lost my confidence in 2022 and still fighting for it to get it back . I went into the Depression and still fighting with anxiety .

  • @Neha_Swami.
    @Neha_Swami. 7 месяцев назад +14

    Have seen many successful topper videos but your journey despite the failures, is the most inspiring one. Shayad isliye upsc nahi hua apka sir kyu ki ho jaata toh hum jaise aspirants ko sahi guidance kaise milta. God bless you abundantly sir & thank you for all your efforts for your students ❤

  • @nemateinbehisaab4794
    @nemateinbehisaab4794 5 месяцев назад +2

    Love you. It takes huge courage to share these things. I really mean it when I say, I love you. ❤ May u remain happy always. :)

  • @Arjunn25
    @Arjunn25 5 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you my brother 🎉 i can understand the pain.

  • @Biju-tv9gi
    @Biju-tv9gi 7 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you for narrating your entire story, it takes a lot of courage to put it out there. I’ve come across many RUclips channels guiding students but your channel is different. Keep sharing and also Sir kindly make a video on what should be our approach while preparing specifically for state services.

  • @shlokamsrivastava6782
    @shlokamsrivastava6782 7 месяцев назад +6

    Nice of you Abhijeet that you quoted Dylan Thomas. Loved your story. I'm going through a kind of 'depression' (not clinical) right know. It's takes such courage to come out and pour your thoughts. I see somewhat of myself in you. Keep going. You have done well in life. Your startup has helped many including me. Took the course prelims 360 for this year prelims. All the best and hopefully I am also able to achieve something good. ♥️

    • @Fall7timestandup8
      @Fall7timestandup8 4 месяца назад +1

      I can go on and on, a lot of failures since 2019, not even one respite! Last year, failed state pcs after giving the interview! I'm going to appear for the interview again next month! I don't know what's gonna become of me! I'm dead inside! I don't know from where to procure the courage to go on!

  • @princesspriyahari
    @princesspriyahari 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great quote sir..2022 made me the same point in my life to now ..regained myself and yes it's wat life is..🙏

  • @vinayak4778
    @vinayak4778 7 месяцев назад +5

    Belive me bro you are one of greatest prodcaster I ever seen , Thank you for all this❤

  • @radhikathakkar678
    @radhikathakkar678 7 месяцев назад +26

    Cried throughout the video. Maybe I needed to hear this to let go off my emotions. Have been trying to clear UPSC since five years but nahi ho raha hai. I put in so much effort but still something always goes wrong and it’s so frustrating and painful. This year my GS went well but I am failing CSAT by just one mark! Now 2025 is my last attempt and I am already very nervous and afraid to even start the preparation!

    • @flipkartsupport5064
      @flipkartsupport5064 7 месяцев назад +3

      Radhika thakkar will be the name in holy pdf mark my words

    • @radhikathakkar678
      @radhikathakkar678 7 месяцев назад

      @@flipkartsupport5064 thank you, literally dreaming of that!

    • @TheAnalyst-ib9rr
      @TheAnalyst-ib9rr 7 месяцев назад +1

      I don't want to discourage you but please do hedge your bets. I hope you do have back up options.

    • @radhikathakkar678
      @radhikathakkar678 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@TheAnalyst-ib9rr I am already working. Never gave up my job. Maybe that’s why I couldn’t clear UPSC.

    • @Ritika19253
      @Ritika19253 7 месяцев назад

      @@radhikathakkar678im working too… is it like working officials cant clear ?

  • @himanshukuhar007
    @himanshukuhar007 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hauli hauli hasil mukam hunda aa ❤❤phle phle har banda aam hunda aaa✨✨

  • @mr_east_1
    @mr_east_1 Месяц назад +1

    I am watching this video 4-5 times a week. I am like that person who plays video games all day. I gave three prelims and two mains. I cannot agree more to the quote "if you are going through hell keep going".
    However, I have come to the conclusion that some people are not meant to do anything. There is no guarantee of achievements in life.
    Very hard Life.

  • @krishanSharma.69.69f
    @krishanSharma.69.69f 7 месяцев назад +23

    I cried when I saw the actual footage of him crying.

  • @RahulS-ux6kf
    @RahulS-ux6kf 7 месяцев назад +4

    A terrible king could be a genius king-maker 😊

  • @Shivaniileen
    @Shivaniileen 7 месяцев назад +2

    this was very much needed to me at the moment sir... lots of 🧡

  • @ChaitraliMule-p3d
    @ChaitraliMule-p3d 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for truth and great insight. I also said to my parents, why you don't enrolled me in CBSE board? You choose state Board and I failed in exam. The thing is so childish and don't matter much. Being the girl, Atleast I was enrolled in the school. Is most important.
    Thank you.

  • @arvind3121992
    @arvind3121992 7 месяцев назад +90

    Rank 1 2014 Ira singhal
    Selected in 2011,2012,2013 got irs not given job by dopt
    Filed a case in central administrative tribunal won in 2014

    • @yashuaggarwal2401
      @yashuaggarwal2401 7 месяцев назад

      But why ?

    • @arvind3121992
      @arvind3121992 7 месяцев назад +18

      @@yashuaggarwal2401 dopt said an irs has to lift a trunk weighing 10 kg which she can't because she had sclerosis.
      But there were no rules given in the physical requirements of an irs. It's waa a way to stop her from getting job as an IRS
      There are many rules regarding selection procedure and physical requirements for job by UPSC.
      Ex- if you have diabetes you might not get selected a case pending in court
      There are many cases pending in the courts we only know about a few

    • @Sk29471skcnsis
      @Sk29471skcnsis 6 месяцев назад

      @@arvind3121992 I'm having vericocele and I'm very depressed about medical...my preparation was going very well but now it's been 10 days and now I have fear that due to vericocele,will they reject me in medical... please reply 🥺

  • @ArkapravaGhosh-rg1on
    @ArkapravaGhosh-rg1on 7 месяцев назад

    You are an inspiration for youths.❤

  • @Prachi_Yadav1401
    @Prachi_Yadav1401 7 месяцев назад +1

    More power to you Sir❤

  • @paraschaudhary4269
    @paraschaudhary4269 7 месяцев назад +4

    The last quote 🔥

  • @kalpnabansode8617
    @kalpnabansode8617 7 месяцев назад +1

    You are the strongest ❤

  • @tushar8338
    @tushar8338 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sir you r inspirational person for me

  • @harsh-lz8tv
    @harsh-lz8tv 6 месяцев назад

    sir, jo hota hai acche ke liye hi hota hai
    trust me things will be much better in future then they are right now

  • @UPSCFIRST2024
    @UPSCFIRST2024 7 месяцев назад +7

    Sir I am from TN,Kindly do all videos in English as it will reach more Aspirants throughout the Country🙇‍♂️

  • @AB034TX
    @AB034TX 7 месяцев назад +2

    Have been following you on twitter since you were at 1000 odd followers. All the best.

  • @khwaish.789
    @khwaish.789 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hats off to you sir 🫡 u r a super Hero

  • @Mithlesh.
    @Mithlesh. 7 месяцев назад +7

    Thumbnail badhiya choose kiye ho sir. Similar face hai abhilash ka.

  • @supriyapaul6052
    @supriyapaul6052 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank uh so much sir for sharing this with us 😊
    It will help me to be strong enough 👊🏿

  • @somyaprasad6828
    @somyaprasad6828 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sir 🙏 you are a ✨honest hard working students really look up to you, thankyou for being you!

  • @SharmaRsRaiyan
    @SharmaRsRaiyan 6 месяцев назад +1

    those who failed they guide people whats not to do🙏🙏🙏

  • @ayushhhhh690
    @ayushhhhh690 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sir u r really a true gem❤️🙏🏻

  • @utkarsh1220r
    @utkarsh1220r 4 месяца назад

    Sir i met so many students like you alot of experience bhut they are still stuck

  • @AshutoshKumar-ym6ey
    @AshutoshKumar-ym6ey 7 месяцев назад +1

    Bhaisahab aansu hi aa gaye ❤

  • @aspirants6137
    @aspirants6137 7 месяцев назад +6

    Same situation happened with my professor the case name is - union of India vs vimlok tiwari. But as always upsc wins and sir didn't got service while he cleared exam

  • @s1a1v1i
    @s1a1v1i 4 месяца назад

    God bless you Sir.

  • @Anandyadav-of4wb
    @Anandyadav-of4wb 4 месяца назад

    Sir, great inspiration for us .😅😅

  • @learnwithomedul
    @learnwithomedul 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. It has helped me to empathize with my own situation. May Almighty bless you and keep growing.

  • @anweshpriyadarshisahu6047
    @anweshpriyadarshisahu6047 7 месяцев назад +5

    Love from odisha ❤

  • @iankitmani
    @iankitmani 7 месяцев назад +1

    That Poem by Dylan Thomas so powerful. It was quoted in interstellar movie also.. more power to you sir.

  • @jeevankotagiri9617
    @jeevankotagiri9617 7 месяцев назад +2

    Only true aspirants can relate to him❤

  • @abhinavsharma7162
    @abhinavsharma7162 7 месяцев назад +3

    Really needed your story recap sir🙌

  • @amandeepchoudhury84
    @amandeepchoudhury84 6 месяцев назад

    You are a winner sir

  • @AnilKumar-rd3bs
    @AnilKumar-rd3bs 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love from Jammu ❤

  • @Pragya_453
    @Pragya_453 4 месяца назад +1

    Would like to hear you more

  • @vijendergsp5690
    @vijendergsp5690 6 месяцев назад +1

    मैंने यह अनुभव किया है कि यदि आपको रूटीन में सफलता मिल जाती है तो सफलता की खुशी नहीं होती अपितु दूसरे खुश लोगों को देखकर दुख होता है और व्यक्ति उदासी में डूब जाता है । व्यक्ति समझ नहीं सकता कि लोगबाग इतने खुश क्यों है जबकि उसे कोई खुशी अनुभव नहीं हो रही ।

  • @mindbend-38
    @mindbend-38 7 месяцев назад +1

    Salute sir❤

  • @jharkhand4405
    @jharkhand4405 7 месяцев назад

    We appreciate admire you sir❤

  • @ravin6650
    @ravin6650 7 месяцев назад

    More power to you!

  • @khushiroy1511
    @khushiroy1511 7 месяцев назад

    More power to uhh sir 🥺🥺💜🙏

  • @AnjaliSaini-dt6ky
    @AnjaliSaini-dt6ky 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much sir for sharing your story 😊👍🏻🙏🏻😀

  • @sanatanShishya1521
    @sanatanShishya1521 7 месяцев назад +1

    I can understand each and every word feeling beside this conversation, and I request you to never think again in life regarding your failures only remember lesson learned.
    Or Jab Khud Krishna ji ne aapko Guru Dron banane k liye chuna ho.. toh arjun na banne ka dukh na kriye sir.
    Aapko wo guru banana chahte the, or aaj aap wo succesfull bann gye.
    Jo aaj hajaaro arjun bana rhe h is desh k liye.
    Please ONE REQUEST TO YOU -> My inner voice says please anyone who ask kripa to Krishna ji to read and understand Bhagwat Gita. They will know what is life and it's purpose first.
    Jai shree RadheKrishna🙏

  • @deepakkumarpati1146
    @deepakkumarpati1146 7 месяцев назад

    This really gives me hope❤

  • @gauribansal6708
    @gauribansal6708 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great Sir..!!

  • @yogalakshmi2765
    @yogalakshmi2765 7 месяцев назад +8

    I joined your mains advance course....few days before .....while watching your video unknowingly tears were in my eyes though I don't know Hindi ....
    May you be resilient even more in the upcoming days
    Thank you for sharing such a heart wrenching experience of yours !
    When you said about your conversation with your father....I too broke down....
    I know this too shall pass !

    • @Browney0007
      @Browney0007 7 месяцев назад

      Can u tell me about the course is it good or not. I'm planning to join this course. It'll be really helpful.

    • @yogalakshmi2765
      @yogalakshmi2765 7 месяцев назад

      @@Browney0007 so far ..good ...nothing to complain about it ....teachers are experienced ones ! ...

  • @shubhammalik5713
    @shubhammalik5713 6 месяцев назад

    Inspiring!

  • @DrPk-b5l
    @DrPk-b5l 7 месяцев назад +1

    Perfect thumbnail😊

  • @MANISHKUMAR-ck3rc
    @MANISHKUMAR-ck3rc 7 месяцев назад +15

    You didn't mention studento RUclips channel devendra rath channel in which your first interview he has taken , people comment on that video positively that give you confidence and from there you decide to came from to josh talk expose yourself to you tube completely

  • @danishanthal8975
    @danishanthal8975 7 месяцев назад +2

    When a" pagan" said "god "what is the most transcendental fulfilling thing in this palpable world 🌎 .God politely said : it's by lifting others ,nudging them to do what they are capable of achieving and amplifying their happiness. A piece of poetry for all. please!
    When things go wrong (and they some- times will), when the road you're traveling seems all uphill, rest just a little & don't get bitter! Remember never, never be a quitter.
    When funds are low & debts are high & you want to cry but you have to sigh.
    When cares are pressing you down a bit, rest if must but just don't quit!
    Remember that clouds of worry & clouds of doubt are just little rainbows turned inside out!

  • @Star-p9m
    @Star-p9m 6 месяцев назад

    So much positivity

  • @mak3731
    @mak3731 7 месяцев назад +1

    00:50 currently I am going through this stage 😢
    Lost all hope and energy

    • @JupyterlabNotebook
      @JupyterlabNotebook 7 месяцев назад

      @@mak3731 Don't worry Sir/ Ma'am , take a moment to know yourself, that who you are and why you are here.👍👍

  • @debarghamandal3018
    @debarghamandal3018 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am pursuing b.pharm from normal college still preparing for upsc with gut in a hope of working in narcotics vigilance, if not cleared will fly Europe to pursue career in pharmacovigilance💯

  • @nish-ank
    @nish-ank 7 месяцев назад +3

    Your face somehow resembles abhilash of the aspirant web series. 😊rightly you have used it in the thumbnail.

  • @ragitdutta7653
    @ragitdutta7653 4 дня назад

    apke saath toh moye moye ho gaya, sirji

  • @Niharika_sharma.101
    @Niharika_sharma.101 6 месяцев назад +2

    Upsc all optional and gs csat batches available in cheap price ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @ritambharaswami2108
    @ritambharaswami2108 7 месяцев назад

    As a aspirant we can feel ur pain

  • @theoriginalvideos258
    @theoriginalvideos258 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love you sir

  • @AbhishekMishra-pc4cb
    @AbhishekMishra-pc4cb 7 месяцев назад +2

    I was the one who saw your tweet and retweeted it right then....

  • @Radhey_paswan
    @Radhey_paswan 6 месяцев назад +6

    Mere sath bhi kuchh aisa hi hua tha. Mai jee crack kar liya tha but 12th me 2nd aa gya tha. Log puchhte ki kab join kar rhe ho college? Koi kuchh to koi kuchh puchhta. Is wajah se mai darke room se nikalna chhod diya.

    • @Fallout003
      @Fallout003 6 месяцев назад

      why college is not allocked to you

  • @Dev_G07
    @Dev_G07 6 месяцев назад +1

    10 years back same thing happened with me when I left my 15 lpa job and missed final list by 10 marks. Then could not clear prelims due to less time between result and prelims.

    • @arkianempire9669
      @arkianempire9669 6 месяцев назад

      @Dev_G07 how are you now? Did everything turn out well?

  • @mickeymouse9420
    @mickeymouse9420 4 месяца назад +1

    Rahu affect's. I have faced multiple sudden topsy turvy moment in life.

  • @Rancho835
    @Rancho835 7 месяцев назад +4

    Sir for the last 1.5 years i am also in the same state mentally...whole day i watch youtube and do nothing...i don't feel the motivation to do anything...please make a elaborate session on how to overcome this...

    • @Ritika19253
      @Ritika19253 7 месяцев назад

      are you still preparing ?

    • @Rancho835
      @Rancho835 7 месяцев назад

      @@Ritika19253 yeah

    • @Ritika19253
      @Ritika19253 7 месяцев назад

      @@Rancho835which coaching institute are you going to?

  • @safwankhan7707
    @safwankhan7707 4 месяца назад +1

    Sir please tell me uppsc pre and main approach while preparing and approach
    And what is the approach for upsc and mindset for question while preparing
    In dono me dofference kaya hai aur kaisa mind set dono me use krna hai

  • @avulabharath5361
    @avulabharath5361 7 месяцев назад +2

    Big fan sir

  • @sassqt
    @sassqt 7 месяцев назад

    You’re truly an inspiration, I’m proud of you. 🤍 God bless you!

  • @shashankdas4237
    @shashankdas4237 7 месяцев назад +7

    I have no one who can console me like this if something like this happens to me.

  • @top5youwant
    @top5youwant 6 месяцев назад

    I am having same feeling as like him. I didn't know what to do as now i am not appearing for services any more now.

  • @ankurpurkait5521
    @ankurpurkait5521 7 месяцев назад +9

    what is the actual reason for not selection?