How to be the happiest person you know with Ali Abdaal
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- Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024
- I hope you enjoyed this conversation between @aliabdaal & I!
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Chapters:
00:15 - Why do you wake up happy in the morning?
00:56 - Changing the way you approach work
02:33 - The 3 Ps - Power, Play & People
02:40 - Power
07:55 - How to know when to quit
09:19 - Play
13:52 - People
12:58 - How to talk to people and make friends
18:10 - The fear of rejection
19:58 - Confidence: Fake it till you make it
21:48 - Why we struggle with confidence
25:19 - Are some people naturals?
27:28 - Being ok with embarrassment
30:19 - Routines
30:54 - Journaling (check out my class ;))
31:13 - Life contentment
32:58 - Fast forwarding parts of life
36:59 - Are you hoppy?
39:15 - Book recommendations
42:30 - Questions
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thanks so much for coming over and hanging out Lana :) Had a lovely time + I've been thinking a lot about Ro and applying that to my life xx
my 2 favorite youTubers in one room yas
Nice Collab! I like your point in 17:10
owh I'll be happy when I get that fastest TYPING SHENANIGANS on the keyboard BPM KPH MPH
you 2 in 1 video go easy on me hhhhh
Good stuff.
This looks like 2 youngsters crushing over each other, impressed by each other and they both are blushing. Good one guys.
I like these:
1. Everyone is friendly. But u need to go first
2. There is no difference between fake confidence and real confidence
Ali is just so excited to explain everything I can see him bursting to say his answer while she's asking questions haha.
Yes! I really appreciate how engaged he is with every question and how excited he is to share.
@@LanaBlakely i love u ♥️
@@multiverseentertainment4583 what
Lol, they got chemistry and they can't hide it. Attraction is real. 😁😍
When two beautiful souls with high awareness level come together, such a great lovely conversation.
I totally agree wih you. I am so happy to watch this video
Great collab! Excited to listen to this one
you are the male version of her😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@multiverseentertainment4583 do you know this because you live in a multiverse?
Can you collab with her next? 🙂
And I am your subscriber as well, all 3 of you 😅🤣, it came a full circle
@@yuliyasakai hi wanna collaborate and make some money?
Two extremely introspective people who have taken the time over the course of their lives to reflect & formulate thoughts that feel organic. Brilliant discussion.
This is the personal development crossover I never expected but really needed 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️
I totally agree with you, my friend. They are really excellent
yah They are both Batman
I love how attentive and thoughtful she was. Love to have a friend like her!
:)))
With benefits or not?
The two most soothing voices of reason on the internet
Amazing collaboration!
Wow... You should also collabarate
They seem like they really adore each other. Lots of smiling going on here. 😊
Yeah
Agree 😊
They should get a room.
@@mkleng lol
Two of my favourite RUclipsrs together. Couldn’t be happier
Me too 🤗🤗
First thing that came on mind too
ME TOOOOOO!
Ali is a breath of fresh air and Lana is a sunshine herself. Thank you for the colab
Damn she’s so beautiful in so many different ways ❤
Thank you very much ❤️❤️❤️
Lana you are so graceful ! You are the friend everyone needs
God I am astounded by the level of questions and answers that are going in here ....simply awesome
Lana, I admire how you could make such a good questions. Seems like it's so pure and I can relate about it.
I absolutely loved this! Ali shared so many interesting ideas and perspectives and Lana is such an amazing listener. Her questions were also really intriguing and lead the conversation to some really thought provoking insights!
glad to hear that :):)
I don’t normally comment, but this was honestly was refreshing to listen to and an absolute joy. Love the informal/playful/happy/ optimistic chat.
😭TWO OF MY FAVOURITE PEOPLE COLLABING😭
You can tell Ali is just infatuated by Lana's beauty
I love when you try new stuff and getting out of your comfort zone. Respect!
lana seriously gives us all the best advice on how to improve our lives and she's so wise and awesome
thank you for being here xx
Summary -
Take power of your life , Do whatever you do with chill mind and find usefulness in it (do it in your way)
You can fake confidence there is no difference .. just on the switch !
Practise speaking actively.
Mark on calendar upcoming happiness points.
Key to happy life is having something to do , someone to love & something to look upto.
Honestly ali is one of those ppl that casually gives a life changing advices without realizing, love him❤️
I'm not kidding Elizabeth, Ali and Lana are my favorite creators, and it's like the universe made their paths crossed
Same sameeeee
Loved this conversation, thank you for this amazing collaboration.
Ali‘s book recommendations:
Happiness:
Happiness by Derren Brown
The happiness advantage
10% happier
Man‘s search for meaning by Viktor Frankl
The good life by William Irvine
Social skills:
Super human social skills
The charisma myth
Charisma on command
How to win friends and influence people
Let me know if I forgot to mention a book. Thanks :)
thx a lot
Such a thoughtful gesture! Thank you
Great collaboration!!
It has nothing to do with what they're talking about, but his English is really beautiful. So articulate and jumping to the point immediately.
I just want to be honest here i literally can't take my eyes from lana cuteness . She is very cute 😍🤩
I love it how Ali wore MKBHD hoodie and Marques uses Ali's palette art as his phone wallpaper ♡
OH MY GOD!!! THIS CROSSOVER! YEESSSS
This is the collab I’ve been waiting for 🙌🏼 so amazing to see you both on screen together 😍
This is a collab i never thought i needed, love it!
What a duo! thanks for spreading the knowledge and love guys
🥰🥰❤❤
Unpopular opinion -- but they look so cuteeee together! :))
The collab I didn’t know I needed. So excited for this one❤️
Wow I've been waiting for this Collab for SO LONG! Two of my absolute favourite creators
TRIPLE collab! That's an MKBHD hoodie he's wearing haha
Thanks!
I do notice, pursuing happiness usually lead to unhappy result. although I agree money can sometimes buy out unhappiness. However, unhappiness is inevitable, but learn to quietly live with it is key to recover.
That was really nice way to think about it. Thank you!
man spoke my mind
No way! A collab with my favorite youtubers! The productivity king and the swedish queen
hahh glad you enjoyed it!
I seriously needed this video, saw it a few days ago and I promised myself I'd come back to it. Had a stressful few weeks, seriously thinking about dropping out of uni and had this exact scenario... great to know I'm not alone and actually have a guideline for getting through it (no silver spoon version lol) Thank you!
Awesome collab! Keep up the great work and stay happy! Love your videos, Lana, and congrats on over 1 million subscribers! Well deserved!
two of my favorite people on the planet earth in one frame!
the way lana is listening and asking questions 💕💕
:)) xx
Being subscribed to both of ya’ll and seeing this collaboration, I would have never expected it❤️✨
Oh this was really good. Lana does a great job asking the right questions. Loved my time here.
thank you .) x
confidence for me is accepting your insecurities and being okay with fucking up sometimes.
Omg i had been waiting for this ever since you posted something about it!! This is the best COLLAB EVER
thanks for being here :))
THE ACTUAL FACT THAT I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO TO EXIST THE DAY THIS THIS CHANNEL WAS CREATED
2 Very soft speaking people . The Calmness is quite nice
One of the best discussions. I loved it. Probably because of these two great people out there.
I'm more than enjoying this conversation.This conversation between the two came as a surprise.Lana is doing a mild thinker as Ali is replying her
I don't know what it is about you two talking but it feels really calming and nice
:)) x
i subscribed to her channel when it still had only 20K subs and now more than 1 million wow, i always thought why this channel is so underated but glad its making its progress now.
Literally screamed when I saw it aaaah my favorite duo ❤😭😭
Wow this conversation is just SO insightful. I'm enjoying it a lot! I love each of Lana's question and each of Ali's answers ❤
well i honestly really don't know who this is, all i know is i just came here to see lana. she is what makes me happy :)
this is a crossover I didn’t know it needed luv u guys
This is literally the best RUclips video I have ever watched.
I have completed this video today morning. I am not the same person who was before watching this video. thanks lana and ali. love from INDIA
So refreshing to watch a video like this where each person patiently and reflectively listens and doesn’t interrupt or cutoff the other person. Lovely
My thoughts exactly!
This is like golden retriver (Ali) and cat (Lana) having an interview. Excited vs calm. 😍😍
Great podcast with two amazing personalities on RUclips.
is this a multiverse. love you both
Dream collab of the century…!!!! 😍
u dont understand how happy i got when i saw u 2 collabing !!!! :))
Nice and interesting discussion from my two favorite RUclipsrs !!! Thanks guys for this conversation!
thanks for watching :)
GUYS! I NEVER EVER EXPECTED THIS COLLAB TO HAPPEN 😭 wow
*internal screaming* omg like two of my best RUclipsrs are collaborating. Could anything be better!?
hehe :) xx
It's amazing how many cool ideas Ali has. Could listen to him all day and learn 100 books worth of information.
To be happy you need to live in a present moment not worrying what or might not happen in the future or what happend in the past.Learn to enjoy every moment in your life and to embrace simplicity😊Happines is in the little things like the sun on the sky , a good cup of coffee or a smile on someone face😜
How to not think about the future if you have urgent bills to pay but little to no money?
@@chichaos In December last year I decided to change my lifestyle because it didn't worked for me anymore.I had made a list with what made me unhappy and I need to change.I didn't worry what will happen if will not work out !I had one month time to move out from my house without having any options and just one month money aside(salary),I quit my job due to much stress without any other offer and I was financial broke due to some bad decisions in my life.,budgeting money just for food.I had faith that everything will be ok in my life and I was right.I didn't worry that the bank will send me letters because I didn't pay back money or that I might sleep on streets(sound extreme ,I know).I was thinking that the bank will not kill me or sleeping under the sky and if that will happen(worse case scenario) I will be able to pull everything out because I am a healthy and determinated person that wants to turn his life around.
The job offer came after couple of weeks ,better wage and less stressful with supportive colleague;I have a place where I live now where is near to my job, cheap and a peaceful area and with the bank we made a plan together to pay the money back and they understood my situation.
Today I am enjoying my cup of coffee in the morning without stress in my life!
Its was a journey with ups and downs but now is stable and I found peace and balance in my life.Today I am learning and researching to start my own side hustle so one day I will have my own business running.
What I can say for you is to learn to have Faith because no one will take your life if you do couple of mistakes and if you are alive and healthy you can pull yourself out from any bad situation!
OMGG this two, together! Amazing collab! Can't wait to listen+watch :))
hope you enjoyed it :):)
@@LanaBlakely always :) ! Keep on the amazing work :))
The duo we never knew we needed!
you both are GLOWING! :D
hah thank you!! :)
A different type of smile on Ali's face , cute , is that coz of Lana ??
Her face glow speaks everything
I'm happy because I'm conscious and present.
My dog is the reason.
My dog is the reason too
I know Ali for a long time and he is great, but it's the my first time on your channel and It felt so nice.
The energy, the vibe... Thank you for the podcast ⚡
ali's smile and enthusiam oh lord
Woooaaah, I didn't expect this collaboration! 😭 So happy!
I had all the best habits in my childhood but over time, I took everything seriously and start thinking them. But know I asked myself a question that were you happy in the past or now. I replied in the past then I said why not go with the past habits and now alhamdulillah I am even more happy than past
Two people discussing life is usually better than talking solo. I liked this.
11:27 aww cute i love that !!!!
Tmr is my physics exam and ali sir is my motivation to become a doctor
YESSSSSSS. TWO OF MY FAVOTIRE TOGETHER! O.M.G.
i literally needed dis as a freshman in uni these really help. ty
The collab we all were waiting for!!
I’ve been watching your videos since last year when I was in Myanmar and now I am in London. Your videos were with me in my darkest days. I would be so over the moon if I cross paths with you in London.
Selflessness is where everyone's happiness begins
Looking to serve is key.
My favorite RUclipsR Ali Abdaal🖤 - I am watching, reading his every post on his FB page, thanks for the collab Lana🙏❤️
1/4 of my dream collabs finally happened. Now there's only Matt D'Avella, Nathaniel Drew and Pick Up Limes left. Congratulations for the amazing video and work! ^^
his voice is beautiful
It’s Lana’s smile for me !!!!
What a lovely discussion and brilliant questions from Lana! xxxxx
Congrats on one million subscribers! I was following this gem when she was at like 10k. 99 million more to go!
it is so good! Ali you definitely need to be interviewed more often! Or it is you Lana that does ask good questions! :D
Two of the best youtubers and two of my fav. creators.