Let me know what you thought of the video below gang 🚀And if you want more help with procrastination and to start taking meaningful action on your biggest goals every day, check out Productivity Lab here: go.productivitylab.com/tjoxytocin/yt
Man, I dream of making & editing videos of this caliber. You really are one of my absolute favorite RUclipsrs. Praying that one day I can take your course - should I come across the cash, or find a scholarship opportunity. Bless you for your work!
There are very few channels which make me whip out pen and paper, i have a feeling this entire playlist is going to do just that. Thank you so much for this knowledge.
Thanks for the video. I've always found myself struggling with gratitude practices because I seem to be unable to feel it in abstract without an addressee. E.g., if I'm grateful for having enough money - that would be to myself because I work hard, if I'm grateful for the feeling if tenderness that would be to my cat because she's a cuddly sweetheart, etc. I might be happy about a sunny day, or beautiful view or something but I don't feel grateful because to whom do I owe that? I'm not religious, so thanking someone higher up doesn't work either..
Great video on an important topic! One thought: To me, being more grateful always seems a very abstract concept and things don't just change by me saying in my head "I'm grateful for ...". I rather like to take a look at my feelings while I go through the things that play a role in my life right now. So in a way I'm just looking for something in my life that makes me feel good. I guess you could then say that's obviously what I'm thankful for then, but looking at it from another perspective somehow makes it much easier to find something that I'm actually thankful for and not just listing things that I SHOULD feel thankful for. Tl;dr: Ask yourself what makes you happy right now rather than what you're thankful for.
VI-DE-AZO. Excelente video Ali, realmente de los mejores de tu canal. Muy muy bueno, realmente sentí que me aporta mucho y sin duda voy a verlo varias veces e intentar aplicar los consejos. Este tipo de contenido es increíble. Muchas gracias! Greetings from Uruguay!
Thank you Ali Abdaal because of your mindset full time contents 🎉🎉🎉🎉,I am doing great on my day today activities, because of this I do more than one year one RUclips consistently my channel is Monetized and also my blog website is also Monetized. Thank you again my brother
Hugs need consent too! I heard it was closer to 30 seconds or so before the happy hormones are released, but I like to ask my friends before I just hug them for so long 😂. Some are ok with it, others aren’t.
It should be noted that oxytocin is very context dependent. it doesn't always yield positive effects on people. i think at the heart of every DV situation their is oxytocin.
Hey Ali ! Recently I watched your productivity systems video and I am greatly impressed by it . Your videos about productivity are really great. But I have request can you please take out your precious time for making a video on productivity system that can be used on windows for free. Thank You
Yo Ali, quick question. Do these acts of kindness make us like the people we are serving more? Curious to know if TJ has any research for this as well. Thanks!
I found the video and podcast really insightful and helpful-thanks for sharing! I did want to mention, though, that it feels like the content is very focused on a Western audience. I’m currently working in South Korea, where the culture around social interaction is quite different. Here, building meaningful bonds and relationships can be more challenging due to these cultural differences. Any thoughts on how to approach this in a non-Western context?
Hii ali great video brother... i kinda have a philosophy/ mind exploring question.. the things i will say isn't necessarily true or false but just a trip in my mind of exploring and questioning what i do believe and i want to put as a comment so i can see outside opinions... damn that's a pretty boring long intro 😂😂... the point is .... do you really believe in love? Is It a thing that is scalable? Or explainable in a way of division? Cuz i want someone to answer me what is love and how to identify it without mentioning other terms such as attention, caring , respect or desire...etc . Personally i think it's just a big scheme of media and environment... like who made the definition of love? And if you looked at any love relationship you will find that its just in it's essence a purely transactional equations of giving and receiving ... like if you asked any random person of someone they love then asked why .... taaaadaaaa they will give you a reason mostly superficial but even deep ones that they don't know or know still reasons i would like to compare it to a catalyst in a chemical reaction without it the reaction won't complete.. you would ask what is those reasons? ...its pretty common ones like money , fame, listening, making them feel better, better social status, improving them, or maybe the need of them or the craving of the idead of i want someone special.. etc ... for me that's it in a relationship that is functioning an active reaction.... but what if it's in the stage of before happening? Suchlike talking stage or getting to know each other... if you zoomed out and looked at it in a third party point of view... you would notice it's just a game of marketing intended or not it is just marketing of the idea i will better your life or i am a good person or I'll treat you better than everyone... by doing the little things such as being nice listening to them empowering them making small things better for them... in the the generations before us this marketing game was forward to our parents and grandparents before them ... it was just which is the best option avilable to the things i want so i offer him marrige but now it is kinda like unnoticed or covered by the idead of being nice....... so what is my point? My point is that actually every love is just a conditional transaction of receiving and giving 🙃... and it does not exist ... and it should end with the stopping of the transaction or one of the sides don't notice or he sticks for stupid reasons and in harsh reality there's nothing called love and no one loves for just the deep reason of loving you forever for just being you with nothing attached and for wanting to be by your side... there's always a selfish part in it of receiving something... and am sure alot of people will say ooh but my parents love each other or love me unconditionally.. etc but noo actually there are other sides to the point like duty dignity and responsibility towards people but not just pure.... i really hope you guys read my comment and tell me your thoughts about this.... and thank you for reading this long complicated thoughts 😊
I'm not gonna lie I delayed watching this vid because as someone who is in a relationship with someone I started dating at 18 and now have spent 30 plus years with this same person I really doubt you're gonna tell me something I don't already know...or I'm going to shake my head and say oh my sweet summer child. However, I will watch this becuase I enjoy your videos and if you give me one ah-ha moment...I'll correct myself. Bless.
Hey ALI, I've been a long time subscriber of yours, could you Please make a video on why you moved to HongKong? I'd Really love to know.. I'm really curious, looking forward to the vid soon
I was not so surprised when I saw this on my notification as you recently got married. Anyways happy marriage life man, never thought someone like you would marry but I was wrong
Bro it's high time you make a "complete productive system" video.... please like this comment to let ali knew that u also want this video.....we want an update productive system video asap
My friend is interested in writing you a series for your channel, where you produce academic content to mathematics, physics, medicine each in its own playlist, and that would really uplift your channel, he can write and you could animate. If you're interested, he can contact you?
Can you please help me for my education. I got 94% at +2. But I can't achieve my dream of becoming a dentist bcz lack of family's financial support. My father passed away. Pls help me to achieve my dream
Huge fan, make videos like this in 20 years when you’ve actually had a relationship Not when you’re a newlywed This is the equivalent of white belts making technique videos
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Let me know what you thought of the video below gang 🚀And if you want more help with procrastination and to start taking meaningful action on your biggest goals every day, check out Productivity Lab here: go.productivitylab.com/tjoxytocin/yt
Marriage or Magic Ali !! 😊 Love is really in the air 😅
OMG! Loved the video! it was stuff I already knew but I just love the way you present it, also I am saving to join productivity lab!
"the sponsor of todays video which is actually me" imagine that! Your journey is so inspiring Ali!!
Most waited video since Ali just got married😂!!!
When did he get married huh ?
Don't know the exact date but He publicly announced his marriage on August 21. And she is no one but my another favourite youtuber@Dr Izzy Sealey 😮🫠
Yo Yo😂😂😂
@@kmtzbrainfood4330 check community post
Ali giving relationship advice, times have changed, time has definitely changed
Here comes the Productive Relationship series!
Just commenting to say I listened to the full interview in this series and it is well worth a listen if you haven’t listened to the full version yet
1. Acts of Kindness
2. The Hug Habit
3. Eyes and Ears
4. Celebrate the Wins
5. Thoughts of Gratitude
Finally Ali can relate to such topics
This backdrop of blue and warmth is super calming!
Congratulations for getting married !! ❤🎉🎉 Watching you from France ! ❤
Man, I dream of making & editing videos of this caliber. You really are one of my absolute favorite RUclipsrs. Praying that one day I can take your course - should I come across the cash, or find a scholarship opportunity.
Bless you for your work!
14:49 I would actually love to hear more about your morning manifesto journaling system
Awesome! Thanks for this video.
I was expecting "How to be more Re-Productive"
Hahha that is such a a creative comment hahaha
There are very few channels which make me whip out pen and paper, i have a feeling this entire playlist is going to do just that.
Thank you so much for this knowledge.
Thanks for this serie !
Thanks for the video. I've always found myself struggling with gratitude practices because I seem to be unable to feel it in abstract without an addressee. E.g., if I'm grateful for having enough money - that would be to myself because I work hard, if I'm grateful for the feeling if tenderness that would be to my cat because she's a cuddly sweetheart, etc. I might be happy about a sunny day, or beautiful view or something but I don't feel grateful because to whom do I owe that? I'm not religious, so thanking someone higher up doesn't work either..
Great video on an important topic!
One thought: To me, being more grateful always seems a very abstract concept and things don't just change by me saying in my head "I'm grateful for ...".
I rather like to take a look at my feelings while I go through the things that play a role in my life right now. So in a way I'm just looking for something in my life that makes me feel good.
I guess you could then say that's obviously what I'm thankful for then, but looking at it from another perspective somehow makes it much easier to find something that I'm actually thankful for and not just listing things that I SHOULD feel thankful for.
Tl;dr: Ask yourself what makes you happy right now rather than what you're thankful for.
I already watched part 1 as well, looking forward to this one, thanks for the video!
Good series Ali. Enjoying it alot!
Small creators like me take lot of inspiration from you. Thank you
Thanks for the video! Was feeling kinda down this morning, and watching something about happienes was absolutly what I needed :)
VI-DE-AZO. Excelente video Ali, realmente de los mejores de tu canal. Muy muy bueno, realmente sentí que me aporta mucho y sin duda voy a verlo varias veces e intentar aplicar los consejos. Este tipo de contenido es increíble. Muchas gracias!
Greetings from Uruguay!
This blessed me❤
great video man ,looking forward for the next videos of this series
Bless you and your wife, have happy days and happy hearts together.💖
Thank you Ali Abdaal because of your mindset full time contents 🎉🎉🎉🎉,I am doing great on my day today activities, because of this I do more than one year one RUclips consistently my channel is Monetized and also my blog website is also Monetized.
Thank you again my brother
Thank you Ali
Relationship therapist = helps navigate and guide through the challenges of doing marriage together.
Always well explained no matter the topic. ❤
Awesome video Ali! Never thought I would be learning science with Ali Abdaal, anyways he was a doctor at one point.
Thesis of this video: more hugs! 🥰
Thnkx for teaching productivity in Relationship ❤❤
Love the video
Would appreciate more of these videos
Hugs are so important. ❤
Hugs need consent too! I heard it was closer to 30 seconds or so before the happy hormones are released, but I like to ask my friends before I just hug them for so long 😂. Some are ok with it, others aren’t.
Love seeing this Ali! Really enjoyed shooting this with you. Great video 🤝🧠
It should be noted that oxytocin is very context dependent. it doesn't always yield positive effects on people. i think at the heart of every DV situation their is oxytocin.
Would like a review of relationship counselling!
I have read about these hormones in Your Book FEEL GOOD PRODUCTIVITY...
Congratulations to you and your wife. Izzy - the one we know but haven't seen for a while?
Yeah we really miss seeing her😅
Hi Ali, thanks for another great video. You mentioned the idea of a relationship therapist. Would you mind naming the one you're seeing? Thanks
"If you're watching this channel you're probably high-achieving and good looking"
Homekong ❤❤
When it comes to the relationship with ourselves , it would be interesting to know what are the effects of talking out loud to ourself .
The whole six second hug thing is surprisingly challenging.
Ali could you make a video about "how to use storytelling in youtube videos". I never saw a good video about it. Plz make video about that.
Ali Abdaal
You are the man
Is there an article Ali read that you should tell the person watching "you're probably good looking?" I think it was in the last one too
Congratulations for getting married❤
Hey Ali ! Recently I watched your productivity systems video and I am greatly impressed by it . Your videos about productivity are really great. But I have request can you please take out your precious time for making a video on productivity system that can be used on windows for free. Thank You
Good timing man
this is so good
Connect. Not attach. 100% correct.
Yo Ali, quick question. Do these acts of kindness make us like the people we are serving more? Curious to know if TJ has any research for this as well. Thanks!
thank u
Thanks sir
Great video❤
Productivity lab is so expensive! I really wish to join …help me out !
I think relationships have feelings so they never end
I found the video and podcast really insightful and helpful-thanks for sharing! I did want to mention, though, that it feels like the content is very focused on a Western audience. I’m currently working in South Korea, where the culture around social interaction is quite different. Here, building meaningful bonds and relationships can be more challenging due to these cultural differences. Any thoughts on how to approach this in a non-Western context?
Hii ali great video brother... i kinda have a philosophy/ mind exploring question.. the things i will say isn't necessarily true or false but just a trip in my mind of exploring and questioning what i do believe and i want to put as a comment so i can see outside opinions... damn that's a pretty boring long intro 😂😂... the point is .... do you really believe in love? Is It a thing that is scalable? Or explainable in a way of division? Cuz i want someone to answer me what is love and how to identify it without mentioning other terms such as attention, caring , respect or desire...etc .
Personally i think it's just a big scheme of media and environment... like who made the definition of love? And if you looked at any love relationship you will find that its just in it's essence a purely transactional equations of giving and receiving ... like if you asked any random person of someone they love then asked why .... taaaadaaaa they will give you a reason mostly superficial but even deep ones that they don't know or know still reasons i would like to compare it to a catalyst in a chemical reaction without it the reaction won't complete.. you would ask what is those reasons? ...its pretty common ones like money , fame, listening, making them feel better, better social status, improving them, or maybe the need of them or the craving of the idead of i want someone special.. etc ... for me that's it in a relationship that is functioning an active reaction.... but what if it's in the stage of before happening? Suchlike talking stage or getting to know each other... if you zoomed out and looked at it in a third party point of view... you would notice it's just a game of marketing intended or not it is just marketing of the idea i will better your life or i am a good person or I'll treat you better than everyone... by doing the little things such as being nice listening to them empowering them making small things better for them... in the the generations before us this marketing game was forward to our parents and grandparents before them ... it was just which is the best option avilable to the things i want so i offer him marrige but now it is kinda like unnoticed or covered by the idead of being nice....... so what is my point? My point is that actually every love is just a conditional transaction of receiving and giving 🙃... and it does not exist ... and it should end with the stopping of the transaction or one of the sides don't notice or he sticks for stupid reasons and in harsh reality there's nothing called love and no one loves for just the deep reason of loving you forever for just being you with nothing attached and for wanting to be by your side... there's always a selfish part in it of receiving something... and am sure alot of people will say ooh but my parents love each other or love me unconditionally.. etc but noo actually there are other sides to the point like duty dignity and responsibility towards people but not just pure.... i really hope you guys read my comment and tell me your thoughts about this.... and thank you for reading this long complicated thoughts 😊
I smell Ali creating a video on how productive his wife is
Tell me why he looks so much happier ❤🎉🎉🎉😊
Yes🎉
I'm not gonna lie I delayed watching this vid because as someone who is in a relationship with someone I started dating at 18 and now have spent 30 plus years with this same person I really doubt you're gonna tell me something I don't already know...or I'm going to shake my head and say oh my sweet summer child. However, I will watch this becuase I enjoy your videos and if you give me one ah-ha moment...I'll correct myself. Bless.
Nothing new learnt but I do like your delivery. Thank you. I enyoyed the video.
What programs were used to create this video?
Was that @Ethan Chelewbowski ?
We got Ali's advice on relationship before GTA6😂 !!!!!
Hey ALI, I've been a long time subscriber of yours, could you Please make a video on why you moved to HongKong? I'd Really love to know.. I'm really curious, looking forward to the vid soon
coming soon x
Please make the video with Izzy 😅
I want to know the morning manifesto though
I was not so surprised when I saw this on my notification as you recently got married.
Anyways happy marriage life man, never thought someone like you would marry but I was wrong
I paused, looked twice and saw one watch in each hands ⌚️
It's not a watch, it's a whoop
@ oh thanks for correcting
Bro it's high time you make a "complete productive system" video.... please like this comment to let ali knew that u also want this video.....we want an update productive system video asap
❤❤❤
We need 5 hugs a day
I believe I got only 5 hugs in my lifetime😂😂😂
We need 5 hugs a day. Most people get 1.6
My friend is interested in writing you a series for your channel, where you produce academic content to mathematics, physics, medicine each in its own playlist, and that would really uplift your channel, he can write and you could animate.
If you're interested, he can contact you?
I brush my teeth when brushing my teeth.
I wonder why your thumbnail looks the way it does on this one.
Anyone notice he has 2 watches on? lol
Can you please help me for my education. I got 94% at +2. But I can't achieve my dream of becoming a dentist bcz lack of family's financial support. My father passed away. Pls help me to achieve my dream
Why is he wearing two watches 😀😀
In Spanish?
ETHAN??????
To Ali’s team of editors… you realise you have used the same thumbnail image and style two years ago on a similar topic???
I wish all men were like Ali….the world would be a safer place (especially for women)
Why do you have two Apple Watches on?
😂
I wondered about that too
Hey, if I'm not wrong Taimur got a kid, looks like he was more productive than you Ali
Huge fan, make videos like this in 20 years when you’ve actually had a relationship
Not when you’re a newlywed
This is the equivalent of white belts making technique videos
Vote Kamala 🤍
പക്ഷേ എനിക്കു വോട്ട് ഇല്ല
Lol, I cannot believe he just got married 🤣🫶. I hope you guys have 1000s of reasons to smile - laugh - have fun together.
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