The worst part of these passport stories is, in these relationships the Farang and the Bar Girl's intention is to use and play each other for their own needs. But we are supposed to feel sorry at the farang and treat them like the victim, and to develop a distrust and hatred for bar girls. This will double down the farang idea to treat bar girls like pump and dump objects, while the bar girl will double down that the farang doesent actually care about them and should only be used as cash machines. It is only perpetuating the cycle of "use and be used". Its a mutual dynamic.
@@billyjohnson9166 exactly right. pump and dump is part of most bar girl's job description. Unfortunately idiot farangs think they can change these women who sleep with multitudes of men for money into trustworthy wives. They think all these women want out of this lifestyle, when most of them love it. These morons deserve to have their wallets emptied. I feel sorry for neither side.
If you want to live in SE Asia, find a way to build a life in SE Asia. Don't go for the girl first. A man carves his own path. He doesn't wait for a woman to assist him. Women are dead weight to a man.
I imagine every night he went out she tried safe combinations, starting sequentially at 0000 until 9999, could take a few hours work broken up many days. Not a good idea leaving a lady with long term access to a combo safe.
Here is the breakdown. You were her 1000th or maybe 5000th customer. So she instantly felt you were treating her differently and were going out by yourself, so she instantly knew that her time was up. Her Thai boyfriend (pmp) told her to get going, that the jig is up, and to clear you out.
I find it quite annoying as someone who is thinking about spending some time in thailand, all everyone goes on about is the bar girls, is not there any normal beautiful women with regular jobs there? Or are all the guys scared to approach this type of market? You get what you pay for assing around with these types of women. Have fun, yes, why on earth are you Muppets trying to take these women serious lol..
@@Mark-gg6iythere's a reason for that. The ones who don't speak English are the women of QUALITY who usually marry only Thai men but, bar girls are quantiful
These dudes refuse to see THESE women as just as bad or WORSE than women back home. So many old washed over expats who are now lonely old farts who don't like seeing expats going to enjoy themselves
I lived in Bangkok from 2004-06. If you are green from the midwest, and don't know the hustle of places like NYC, the locals will eat you up. If you are street smart, you will have a good time, and not fall for the bullshit coming from every direction.
This dude…. Came to Thailand to buy a woman and got burned… Man we should make people aware that they move to someplace and think they are gonna “save” a bar girl they may get taken for a ride… Then again that never happens😂😂😂
It's Thailand. Money is king. These people can do anything an everything for money. And I really mean ANYTHING. Getting involved with a bargirl is like pocking an extremely hungry grizzly bear and hoping for the best outcome 😁
I actually cheer for the bar girls now. 50 yr old guys sleep around for awhile and then thinks 20 yr old girl loves them for who they are. They probably play all the other bar girls until they find one they like. But don’t mention this part. And then calls them scammers when they leave ‘em high and dry. Som nam na.
Yes the girls are scammers and so are many Thai establishments in tourist areas. The farangs that sleep around pay for it in fair transaction. Thats what helps the girls and supports Thai economy, not agri exports.
You know Jon this story does not make sense. Who leaves a safe open with gold bars in it? Why have a safe then just leave it in a drawer. Or full of cash why have a safe then? If you leave it open.
Great story. Typically all i can say perhaps she got someone to open the safe or she could have had a camera on the safe hidden from him and watched him open it 🤔 .strange one that. seems she had it planned out. Too much money in it anyway. First red flag passport well stamped up travelling. Freelancer obviously. All i can say the thai girl knew what she was doing all along
If you give a poor girl nothing, but provide her a roof over her head for free, and food, she should be over the moon! That would happen in any sensible country. People lose their minds as soon as they get off the plane.
Not necessarily! I've met a bar lady and the number one thing on their mind is money, i paid for everything but she started demanding a monthly salary! Wtf 😂 so she met other foreigners to get money from them ... Eyes wide open 😊
@@CelestinoAcquaviva I am not saying everyone looses their monds, but it's very common! So many men in their 50's/60's and even 70's suddenly think young girls find them attractive. Of course, it's a financial transaction and nothing else.
The stories are all pretty much same (like your thumb nails) and are too predictable. Foreigner moves from the west to Thailand and meets a bar girl/massage girl/etc. and gets ripped off. These stories have been told 10 million times. Complete waste of time.
you handsome man, you so handsome, you ninety-eight years old but still very handsome
😂😂😂 Wrinkled and bald with liver spots..you're So "handsome man" 🤑💰
Jus goofy lol
Interesting story & lesson learned having a relationship with a bar girl is always a high risk gamble
The Ho always wins
First scam- have to pay bar to leave, they are not slaves and can leave when they like. Usually they split the money with the bar.
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I had a bar in Nana years ago, and yes the girls got a cut. They also have a quota for bar fines, meet it or be let go.
Bar girl - the odds are just stacked against you. So rare it work out with them.
You can take the girl out of a bar, but can't take the bar out of the girl.
You can take the girl from the bar, you can’t take the bar from the girl.
Pattaya veteran.
The worst part of these passport stories is, in these relationships the Farang and the Bar Girl's intention is to use and play each other for their own needs. But we are supposed to feel sorry at the farang and treat them like the victim, and to develop a distrust and hatred for bar girls. This will double down the farang idea to treat bar girls like pump and dump objects, while the bar girl will double down that the farang doesent actually care about them and should only be used as cash machines. It is only perpetuating the cycle of "use and be used". Its a mutual dynamic.
A bar girl is a pump and dump project. They put the label on themselves. The farang as you put it was treating her like a partner.
@@billyjohnson9166 exactly right. pump and dump is part of most bar girl's job description. Unfortunately idiot farangs think they can change these women who sleep with multitudes of men for money into trustworthy wives. They think all these women want out of this lifestyle, when most of them love it. These morons deserve to have their wallets emptied. I feel sorry for neither side.
If you want to live in SE Asia, find a way to build a life in SE Asia. Don't go for the girl first. A man carves his own path. He doesn't wait for a woman to assist him. Women are dead weight to a man.
sadly true
Sadly even married foreigners who live here like to visit the massage shop for a bit extra and their Thai wives put up with it
I imagine every night he went out she tried safe combinations, starting sequentially at 0000 until 9999, could take a few hours work broken up many days. Not a good idea leaving a lady with long term access to a combo safe.
Here is the breakdown. You were her 1000th or maybe 5000th customer. So she instantly felt you were treating her differently and were going out by yourself, so she instantly knew that her time was up. Her Thai boyfriend (pmp) told her to get going, that the jig is up, and to clear you out.
Bro I got recommended this channel and sorry I can't listen or watch any more this is my third video. These people are so naive.
I find it quite annoying as someone who is thinking about spending some time in thailand, all everyone goes on about is the bar girls, is not there any normal beautiful women with regular jobs there? Or are all the guys scared to approach this type of market? You get what you pay for assing around with these types of women. Have fun, yes, why on earth are you Muppets trying to take these women serious lol..
The bar girls often speak English to some degree, the others not so much.
Ahh have spent time here?
These guys do it because they are losers in their own country and they think they can pick up women half their age.
@@Mark-gg6iythere's a reason for that. The ones who don't speak English are the women of QUALITY who usually marry only Thai men but, bar girls are quantiful
Ordinary working ladies aren't going to be hanging around in Pattaya brothel bars drinking each night with elderly sex tourists.
This girl had so many lies from the start yet he gave her the code to the safe. How silly?
dudes really be goofy as hell man lmao
@@stayingfitandfocused😂😂😂
These dudes refuse to see THESE women as just as bad or WORSE than women back home. So many old washed over expats who are now lonely old farts who don't like seeing expats going to enjoy themselves
Love these stories
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I lived in Bangkok from 2004-06. If you are green from the midwest, and don't know the hustle of places like NYC, the locals will eat you up. If you are street smart, you will have a good time, and not fall for the bullshit coming from every direction.
"settle down, be within a family, have a reasonable, respectable time"?
with a blooming bargirl?! 🤣
I know right, such a huge red flag
This dude…. Came to Thailand to buy a woman and got burned… Man we should make people aware that they move to someplace and think they are gonna “save” a bar girl they may get taken for a ride… Then again that never happens😂😂😂
Yes unbeleiveable any can be so stupid save a bar girl..😅😅
Superb reading skills. Better than an Audible.
I'm buttering my popcorn for another great Thailand horror story!
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How did she open the safe?
code was 0000 or 1234 🤣
@@sheiladikshit5110 hahahahahaha
I have a safe to open what’s your number?
007handsome 😂
who would have known a bar girl doubles as a professional safe cracker
It's Thailand. Money is king. These people can do anything an everything for money. And I really mean ANYTHING.
Getting involved with a bargirl is like pocking an extremely hungry grizzly bear and hoping for the best outcome 😁
Date in your own country 😂 don’t act surprised when you are a boom boom tourist
Show me a Thai lady who is not obsessed with & don’t want any money .. regardless of what job they do or wherever they work …
Wait a minute, are you Jon from Chaing Mai? I followed your jon Chaing Mai RUclips
This was not the long game. Sounds like it lasted only some months.
These guys are incredibly delusional.
I actually cheer for the bar girls now. 50 yr old guys sleep around for awhile and then thinks 20 yr old girl loves them for who they are. They probably play all the other bar girls until they find one they like. But don’t mention this part. And then calls them scammers when they leave ‘em high and dry. Som nam na.
Exactly, 90% of these dudes play themselves.
Yes the girls are scammers and so are many Thai establishments in tourist areas. The farangs that sleep around pay for it in fair transaction. Thats what helps the girls and supports Thai economy, not agri exports.
Thousands of these stories. But fools and their money soon parted in Thailand.
Partner... Lol
She sounds like a perfectly normal Thai 304. He sounds like a perfectly normal foreign mark.
You know Jon this story does not make sense. Who leaves a safe open with gold bars in it? Why have a safe then just leave it in a drawer. Or full of cash why have a safe then? If you leave it open.
Great story. Typically all i can say perhaps she got someone to open the safe or she could have had a camera on the safe hidden from him and watched him open it 🤔 .strange one that. seems she had it planned out. Too much money in it anyway. First red flag passport well stamped up travelling. Freelancer obviously. All i can say the thai girl knew what she was doing all along
If you give a poor girl nothing, but provide her a roof over her head for free, and food, she should be over the moon! That would happen in any sensible country. People lose their minds as soon as they get off the plane.
Not necessarily! I've met a bar lady and the number one thing on their mind is money, i paid for everything but she started demanding a monthly salary! Wtf 😂 so she met other foreigners to get money from them ... Eyes wide open 😊
@@CelestinoAcquaviva I am not saying everyone looses their monds, but it's very common! So many men in their 50's/60's and even 70's suddenly think young girls find them attractive. Of course, it's a financial transaction and nothing else.
@@UKVeteran2024 100%
Most guys with money pay the girls as well. Farangs are mostly generous. The girls are heavily manipulated by their families
Marry and date in your country
Who have 400000 baht laying around in a safe. For me it sound crazy irresponsible.
Dear John,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
why didn't you make a police report are you that generous with this ladykodo to you bro
Sabai Sabai
OP story is purely naivety.
The stories are all pretty much same (like your thumb nails) and are too predictable. Foreigner moves from the west to Thailand and meets a bar girl/massage girl/etc. and gets ripped off. These stories have been told 10 million times. Complete waste of time.
Doesn't seem like any of these guys have a clue how to invest in anything.
I would have filed a police report and press charges
What’s the purpose of your video ..your story makes no sense !!
Another dumb dumb stories. Better watch a movie. What a waste of time and life 😢
If you don't like it you don't have to watch it. You can always take your negativity elsewhere.
Don’t blame the girls… they are there to make a living… blame the guys who think the girls actually love them… you are a meal ticket 🤦🏻♂️😂
You sound like a brit not yank anyway, live and learn, you married a family, money don't buy love though.