Etiquette expert reacts to Netflix's The Crown

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @maryamz2608
    @maryamz2608 4 года назад +2865

    "admittedly it didn't go very well for him after that...but he followed etiquette and that's the most important thing" HAHAHAHHA 😂😂😂

    • @sfowler1017
      @sfowler1017 4 года назад +54

      I snorted 🤣

    • @MrZekinhaluiz
      @MrZekinhaluiz 4 года назад +58

      I was shocked. Was not expecting that hahhaha

    • @holly8320
      @holly8320 4 года назад +19

      coffee came out my nose lmao

    • @figgettit
      @figgettit 4 года назад +30

      I hope he got paid extra for that joke.

    • @BobbyHernandez
      @BobbyHernandez 4 года назад +55

      That had to be the most British explanation I’ve ever heard

  • @StripyTigers
    @StripyTigers 4 года назад +1629

    Please turn this into a series, could watch you all day!

  • @bco5678
    @bco5678 4 года назад +983

    Me watching this video while eating a hoagie in a parking lot: “wow they’re such slobs”

    • @TheDisney93TheDisney93
      @TheDisney93TheDisney93 3 года назад +33

      lmao meeeeee.....eating a cold pancake in pjs with bare hands 🤣, got to this and said ugh how uncouth🤣🤣 in a British accent 🤦‍♀️

    • @davidwilds8647
      @davidwilds8647 3 года назад +15

      You see him sitting on the bollard in the parking lot eating his hoagie with the paper spread out on his lap, that is quite frankly heinous - a parking lot hoagie is properly eaten over the rubbish bins with the paper spread out across it. And you see a gatorade along with the hoagie - this would simply not be done. Coffee, iced tea (Arctic Splash if you're in Port Richmond) yes. Gatorade, no.

    • @yyg4632
      @yyg4632 3 года назад +6

      @@davidwilds8647 correct.

    • @MagisterialVoyager
      @MagisterialVoyager 3 месяца назад +3

      @@davidwilds8647😂😂😂

    • @patrickhopkins4468
      @patrickhopkins4468 2 дня назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @fourthgirl
    @fourthgirl 4 года назад +1934

    The silver is dulled for the filming. Shiny shows the crew, background, lights.

    • @vl6357
      @vl6357 4 года назад +131

      Fourthgirl I have seen the set organisers spraying powdered deodorant on to metal to dull the shine for that reason.

    • @jec222
      @jec222 4 года назад +42

      Certainly a Netflix production has enough money to make the silver more silver like in post production. That's no excuse.

    • @cathairr
      @cathairr 4 года назад +223

      @@jec222 At the end of the day I don't really think any network is going to fund money into enhancing silver that a small population actually pay attention to. They'll be saving that money for all the extras in the large crowd scenes where they have to pay everyone on set.

    • @andrewjackson4012
      @andrewjackson4012 4 года назад +5

      Very cool.

    • @dinglebarry528
      @dinglebarry528 4 года назад +19

      Very interesting, thank you for this tidbit.

  • @candyclews4047
    @candyclews4047 2 года назад +15

    It's funny how things grate when you least expect them to - that knife pointing the wrong way at 7.58, gave me the shivers!

  • @ladynoluck
    @ladynoluck 4 года назад +201

    In the first scene, I always took the footmen pouring the tea as a sign of how upset the Queen was at her. She herself wouldn’t pour the tea for her, and having footmen do it shows that she has greater power and is above her.
    Edit: Same for eating quickly. She didn’t want to spend much time on her.

    • @JLchevz
      @JLchevz Месяц назад

      yeah I think that was what was intended

  • @chrisnightly6
    @chrisnightly6 4 года назад +631

    I feel like the vast majority of the things pointed out here can be explained by the setting and tone of the scene. The queen didn't pour the tea or offer milk for the same reason that there were guards all over the place. She's hurt, and is snapping out in the ways she can. The quick buttering of the scone shows how she desperately wants this meeting over. Yes, faux pas. But not oversight. The etiquette consultant they employed on set was very good and definitely wouldn't have allowed it if there wasn't good cause.

    • @davidcockayne3381
      @davidcockayne3381 4 года назад +42

      What complete nonsense. The queen’s staff and the queen herself don’t get this stuff wrong. And your reference to guards is a complete joke. They’re called liveried servants. HM’s guards are big chaps with big guns and distinctive headgear. They don’t pour tea.

    • @chrisnightly6
      @chrisnightly6 4 года назад +76

      @@davidcockayne3381 I'm aware of the difference between the Queens Guard and Footmen. At the very beginning of this scene Jackie Kennedy almost gets run over by the Queens Guard. You should keep in mind that this is from a television show. Are liberties taken? Of course. But of you take it in context with the tone of the scene it makes a lot more sense.

    • @krdiaz8026
      @krdiaz8026 4 года назад +37

      The point of this video is to show correct and incorrect etiquette, NOT to explain a scene. Regardless of how you feel about a person, if she is a guest, you cannot be impolite. Even if the details of this scene were all deliberate to show what is happening, the point remains that incorrect etiquette was shown.

    • @chrisnightly6
      @chrisnightly6 4 года назад +29

      @@krdiaz8026 I agree. The etiquette is incorrect. I just feel like context is important as well, so you don't leave thus video thinking the Crown is a terribly made show with no regards to the truth.

    • @davidcockayne3381
      @davidcockayne3381 4 года назад +11

      @@krdiaz8026 Absolutely. It seems to be a lesson we have largely lost in the West, especially in the Anglo-Saxon world. Etiquette demonstrates politeness and politeness demonstrates a fundamental respect for the other person.

  • @GenniferLee
    @GenniferLee 4 года назад +847

    Why has the Crown not hired him as a consultant?

    • @edronc2007
      @edronc2007 4 года назад +77

      Because they don't care about anything that doesn't boost audience figures.

    • @EdwardBee
      @EdwardBee 4 года назад +18

      Because Queen disapproved of his etiquettes 🤪🤪🤪🤪😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

    • @irumhashmi9696
      @irumhashmi9696 4 года назад +1

      genlee that’s his resume

    • @jessica5497
      @jessica5497 4 года назад +84

      @@edronc2007 actually they put a lot of thought into the details that the main audience may not really notice, just because they didn’t hire this guy doesn’t mean they don’t put lol he's not the only consultant in the world. When analyzing etiquette it is important to take context and symbolism into account, what this meant in the relationship of one character to the other, these things are consciously taken into consideration

    • @juliehock6059
      @juliehock6059 4 года назад +21

      @@jessica5497 Well Netflix obviously doesnt care about correctness. Manners and etiquette are very important - it is courtesy; something that appears to be lacking at times these days.

  • @gabybop
    @gabybop 2 года назад +84

    You can tell how professional he is by how he refers to an actress/fictional depictions as “Her Majesty”.

  • @Lulu-kt6gr
    @Lulu-kt6gr 4 года назад +219

    I think the hurried buttering is the actress portraying the agitation of the queen.

    • @sookibeulah9331
      @sookibeulah9331 3 года назад +6

      No butter. It’s clotted cream, and then jam.

    • @skylarjohnson7779
      @skylarjohnson7779 3 года назад +16

      that was some angry buttering.

    • @irmar
      @irmar 2 года назад +6

      The real queen would never allow herself to show her agitation that blatantly. So it didn't feel authentic at all.

    • @UnicornPizza
      @UnicornPizza 2 года назад +5

      @@irmar Who cares about how the Queen would behave in reality ? It’s a drama series, it’s meant to exagerate things.

    • @TheDeathOrange
      @TheDeathOrange 2 месяца назад +1

      jam always goes first ffs

  • @FriedEggSarnie
    @FriedEggSarnie 4 года назад +133

    Me watching this with a mug of tea on the arm of the chair, emptying a packet of crisps in to my mouth from the air: "M'yes. Quite".

    • @TherealP013
      @TherealP013 3 года назад +2

      Lol loved this comment

  • @MM-rl1ep
    @MM-rl1ep 4 года назад +78

    I personally think that all the errors were intentional. For example, the reason why the footmen poured the tea for both The Queen and Jackie was because of Jackie’s comments. Jackie stated that she found Buckingham Palace dull and like a provincial hotel. So, as William said that the tea pouring was very hotel-like, it was a perfect Easter egg, pointing to the fact that the Queen knew every comment made. As for the other etiquette errors in this meeting, they all contributed to the fact that this was not a state dinner. It was an informal meeting.

    • @GBOAC
      @GBOAC 2 месяца назад +4

      Meh plate on a plate is unheard of in such a setting, and the same applies to more small details are not common even if it serves making a statement.

  • @truthseeker444
    @truthseeker444 7 месяцев назад +3

    Sandwiches at Buckingham Palace are served with no crusts, and a rectangular shape, I know because years ago my Mums friend had tea at the Palace, and after she reported back to Mum how the sandwiches were served, that's how our sandwiches were served thereafter :-)

  • @meeragovindaraj9469
    @meeragovindaraj9469 4 года назад +76

    Totally agree with all your observations; the only thing re: the footmen - the episode shows that the Queen was trying to intimidate Jackie as a retaliation after she said several critical things in public about the run down state of the palace. My guess is that that's why she had them pour.

  • @maryamz2608
    @maryamz2608 4 года назад +195

    Oh my god william you absolute queen. "Probably produced the day before...dare i even say shop bought by netflix..." 😂😂 It is my life's mission to have afternoon tea with you one day and go for a little evening shop in harrods after 😍

    • @sarahwells2794
      @sarahwells2794 4 года назад

      Friend of Dorothy. Lmao.🤣

    • @Zippy15
      @Zippy15 4 года назад

      Was literally going to comment this as I read yours 😂

    • @chrisucl
      @chrisucl 4 года назад +1

      He's fabulous!

  • @nicolahickman5551
    @nicolahickman5551 4 года назад +77

    I'm so glad you mentioned the scone! 😂 Watching this scene I was just like "Oh Your Majesty 🙈'

    • @juliehock6059
      @juliehock6059 4 года назад

      And the old “correct way to eat a scone” - slathering the cream on first - oh dear! Or is that the Cornish way and not the Devon way??

    • @nicolahickman5551
      @nicolahickman5551 4 года назад

      @@juliehock6059 I think cream on first is the Devonshire way and jam first is Cornwall. But I could be wrong!

    • @juliehock6059
      @juliehock6059 4 года назад

      @@nicolahickman5551 exactly, as per my comment.

    • @anderjpoo
      @anderjpoo 4 года назад +3

      I am an ordinary working class person and I would always break, not slice my scone!

    • @arthurfleck816
      @arthurfleck816 4 года назад

      Lol

  • @ladymondegreen
    @ladymondegreen Год назад +45

    I think she was buttering the scone like that so furiously because she was pissed, so it seemed more like an acting choice. She also could have (as a character) deliberately went against etiquette because Jacqueline's criticism of her was that she was too stuffy and "middle-aged" so it was a subtle way for her to break etiquette.

  • @alyssaviolacartagenapaloma7878
    @alyssaviolacartagenapaloma7878 4 года назад +464

    Yeah. What if everything is symbolically. The Queen is being rude to Mrs Kennedy... and lay all etiquette aside haha.

    • @l2sunshine173
      @l2sunshine173 4 года назад +60

      Maybe that is how posh people argue...Get the milk first..The rest have Gerry Springer Lol

    • @marcela1816
      @marcela1816 4 года назад +46

      That's what I thought when I saw the food. It looked so dry and tough even....also she cuts it almost aggressively. This also happens when she's pouring other stuff on the plate...I thought it had to be symbolisms...

    • @davidcockayne3381
      @davidcockayne3381 4 года назад +14

      That’s what vulgar people would do. If you have class, you do the exact opposite. Maximum propriety and maximum formality. It show’s who’s in control.

    • @lugm1034
      @lugm1034 4 года назад

      @@davidcockayne3381 I m really sorry I swear I thought it was a nickname.. nowadays everybody has one on youtube. In fact I will erase it. Believe me, my comment was out of ignorance.

    • @davidcockayne3381
      @davidcockayne3381 4 года назад +3

      @@lugm1034 Not at all, and very decent of you to say so. Must say, I've had much worse. As for the name it was a medieval term for a Utopia where cakes (Kuchen) grew on tress, and thus a place of luxurious living. It was apparently used to describe idle dreamers, or as I like to think of us, profound philosophers.

  • @hollywolly2612
    @hollywolly2612 4 года назад +11

    That was ridiculously entertaining to watch! I honestly didn't think I'd enjoy it that much. Please make more, it was interesting and hilarious!

  • @Saythankyoumore
    @Saythankyoumore 4 года назад +111

    "Jesus broke break too, but it didn't go well for him BUT he did follow etiquette" hahahaha subsctibed!

  • @octaviushilbert8307
    @octaviushilbert8307 4 года назад +125

    QE is known to put her jam on first and cream second, the Cornish manner, according to former royal chef Darren McGrady

    • @juliehock6059
      @juliehock6059 4 года назад +2

      Thank you. -my comment reflected this.

    • @vl6357
      @vl6357 4 года назад +1

      @@juliehock6059 me to.

    • @patandderry8416
      @patandderry8416 3 года назад +1

      That is how I do it also, because I like jam and it slides off the clotted cream otherwise.

    • @sedekiman824
      @sedekiman824 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, Cream last. Far less messy!!

  • @allancuseo7431
    @allancuseo7431 4 года назад +57

    Damn I love William Hanson. Absolutely riveting. Although I have to admit I would be afraid to eat anything around him and with him less I make a mistake.

    • @blueribenaberry
      @blueribenaberry 4 года назад +2

      'Less' you make a mistake...? I shall believe that you did of course write 'lest' and blame the bizarre whims of autocorrect for the schoolboy error ;)

    • @nickkellerman1638
      @nickkellerman1638 4 года назад

      You cant be serious 🙄

    • @jzwalz51robin45
      @jzwalz51robin45 4 года назад +3

      With all of those detailed rules of etiquette, why would anyone join the British for tea? I always thought that the purpose for etiquette rules was to help make company feel comfortable by understanding what behavior is expected. I guess I was wrong. No one outside of British royalty would feel welcome in that demanding atmosphere.

  • @tj3366
    @tj3366 4 года назад +14

    This was exceedingly enjoyable. I do hope that you continue to create these beautiful gems.

  • @Zoom_1012
    @Zoom_1012 4 года назад +7

    Interesting. I’ve always been fascinated by etiquette and all the nuances within.
    Please do more. I enjoyed this very much.
    Thank you.

  • @turnedaround4954
    @turnedaround4954 4 года назад +50

    I watched this guy ages ago as I had to attend a fancy afternoon tea and needed to know how to behave. I passed with flying colours thanks to him

  • @knockitoffhudson3470
    @knockitoffhudson3470 4 года назад +45

    "Dare I even say it, perhaps shop bought"
    What have we become?

  • @kamilarmacki3497
    @kamilarmacki3497 4 года назад +35

    I need a series of this! Please!

  • @mm27567
    @mm27567 4 года назад +42

    They need to hire William for this show , so they can get things right ! Keep up the good work! You are the best !

  • @KatieDontYouDare
    @KatieDontYouDare 4 года назад +77

    this hurt after seeing Claire and Matt talk about the tea etiquette lessons they received

  • @Bonglecat
    @Bonglecat 4 года назад +5

    Thank god someone has called out the cutting scone!!! I knew I could rely on you William Hanson.

  • @layoverbear
    @layoverbear 4 года назад +98

    I feel like Her Majesty might have asked the staff to pour tea to show off in a way? It makes a lot of sense considering the context of the scene.

    • @edronc2007
      @edronc2007 4 года назад +16

      HM would have NEVER "shown off".

    • @thehenryp
      @thehenryp 4 года назад +27

      @@edronc2007 In fact, she would in the context of this scene and the scenes before. It comes after Mrs Kennedy insulted Buckingham Palace and called it drab. In the scene directly before this, The Queen pulled out all of the stops to make sure there was an abundance of staff and guards in Windsor.

    • @jfluffydog2110
      @jfluffydog2110 4 года назад

      @@edronc2007 You're not even British. Shutup

    • @sheilaenglish7329
      @sheilaenglish7329 4 года назад +4

      I can’t imagine the Queen (the real one) ever feeling the need to show off. 😄

    • @lugm1034
      @lugm1034 4 года назад +1

      c mon you dont need to say Her Majesty.. we all know that queens and kings don´t exist, really. It´s a crazy convention in XXI century -and an expensive one for the citizens of some European countries

  • @Gavin_Gavalli
    @Gavin_Gavalli 4 года назад +48

    the reason the queen did NOT pour her tea; had to do with the context of their meeting. Jackie had been talking shit about her so she ha Jackie meet her in a fortress NOT the palace and paraded her military around Jackie. This was done to create distance due to huge disrespect Jackie gave.

    • @pamjudge9691
      @pamjudge9691 4 года назад +3

      I agree - it took place in the early '60's too - charger plates were common.

    • @joantollerton9905
      @joantollerton9905 4 года назад +4

      Common but not correct in a royal household !

    • @pamjudge9691
      @pamjudge9691 4 года назад +2

      @@joantollerton9905 Common as in many - aristocratic families used charger plates, that's why they were made. 'Common' folk often used newspaper, not tablecloths.

    • @juliehock6059
      @juliehock6059 4 года назад +3

      @@pamjudge9691 but not for afternoon tea, surely! Charger plates are used at a several courses meal.

  • @alwaystruetoblue
    @alwaystruetoblue 2 месяца назад

    As a complete and utter stickler for accuracy both for historical and modern day historical shows, I am enthralled and will be bingeing this channel. William, you are enchanting.

  • @racheleraanan5133
    @racheleraanan5133 4 года назад +34

    Netflix should have hired Alistair Bruce (etiquette consultant for Downton Abbey) for The Crown. Even Her Majesty could find no fault.

    • @annetessari1004
      @annetessari1004 4 года назад +1

      my 93 year old mother could not stand Downtown Abbey because she thought it was so unrealistic and rules and etiquette disregarded or poorly portrayed. She loves The Crown though. Don't we all

  • @fantasip
    @fantasip 4 года назад +6

    Having a great, good and nice time watching the Royal etiquette rules and manners, kinda needed that right now

  • @majahelena6923
    @majahelena6923 4 года назад +60

    I think they did pretty much everything on purpose to emphasise how mad the queen actually was and how tense the whole situation was. Of course, it is unrealistic for the queen to lay all etiquette aside, even if she’s pissed asf, but guys, this is a DRAMA SERIES...of course they’ll exaggerate. This RUclips video was still interesting please make this whole thing a series i’d binge watch it😩

    • @aktchungrabanio6467
      @aktchungrabanio6467 2 года назад

      Of course! They even prepared some triangle-shaped sandwiches on purpose right???

  • @kearsten2871
    @kearsten2871 4 года назад +1

    I love that you made your face cam in the top-right a postage stamp. It's adorable, please continue doing that for your reaction videos.

  • @missmitra.a96
    @missmitra.a96 4 года назад +5

    I have been waiting for this for a long time, thank you

  • @rinoamenna
    @rinoamenna 4 года назад +1

    so many little details i would've never thought about your amazing please make more of these!

  • @rebeccao8895
    @rebeccao8895 4 года назад +197

    Man. You’d think the show would have a consultant for this stuff.

    • @seanjonesy180
      @seanjonesy180 4 года назад +49

      Or they do and this is just one person's point of view and maybe its a TV drama so it doesn't matter anyway? 😂😂

    • @JollyWanker
      @JollyWanker 4 года назад +34

      I think it's mostly because absolute majority of viewers know fuck all about Royal Etiquette and its intricacies, therefore such small details, while important and somewhat integral to the proper representation of the character, may simply go over our heads.
      Even if the consultant was there, I doubt it would make the difference for the audience. At least for the majority.

    • @wyzolma99
      @wyzolma99 4 года назад +5

      A Jolly Wanker it's NOT just Royal etiquette... it's for all.

    • @kylepadilla7022
      @kylepadilla7022 4 года назад +4

      they actually do he the guy that they got used to work in the palace

    • @allye4228
      @allye4228 4 года назад

      @@seanjonesy180 Yeah but they don’t want it to be inaccurate or overdramatized, which would not be good for the royals

  • @Tun360
    @Tun360 4 года назад

    I like how you highlight the historical background of some of these small details. Very genuine, and informative!

  • @morganoxer5560
    @morganoxer5560 4 года назад +9

    I feel like some of the actions in this scene were to do with the tension between the two because everything you see Claire Foy acting out builds tension. That said, I love these styles of videos as it is always interesting to learn more about etiquette.

  • @57ot
    @57ot 4 года назад +1

    A brilliant video! I like how diverse the knowledge of the expert is. Would love to see more of this

  • @correioanacabral
    @correioanacabral 4 года назад +2

    That last remark was hilarious. Great job, William!

  • @KayliePrice
    @KayliePrice 4 года назад +1

    More of this please. It is delightful!

  • @lauragatehouse7935
    @lauragatehouse7935 4 года назад +9

    I know...the scone thing seemed quite obvious to me. They even have a convenient break through the middle to help you! No knives needed at all. Perhaps they should consult you for scenes like this . Adds a good level of detail .

  • @tomh6696
    @tomh6696 4 года назад

    Love the background information! Great work! Thank you, William!

  • @dragonzord6615
    @dragonzord6615 4 года назад +3

    This is so incredibly fascinating to hear about. When they showed Diana in the recent season getting etiquette lessons and then cut away I was sad. This kind of stuff is super interesting. Thanks

    • @jays2877
      @jays2877 4 года назад

      You can find out what it was Diana was learning by looking up order of precedence.

    • @sarahwells2794
      @sarahwells2794 4 года назад

      @@jays2877 I did find it rather hysterical that the Queen Mother was sitting on a settee and waiting, I think for the phone call confirming Charles had proposed to Diana and a mouse ran across a rug and disappeared under a sideboard 🤣🤣

    • @krishnavyas313
      @krishnavyas313 Год назад

      Which was entirely fictional because Diana already must have her etiquette lessons in her childhood because she was from aristocratic family.

    • @livingincaptivityIII
      @livingincaptivityIII 3 месяца назад

      ​@@krishnavyas313
      Not necessarily. Her mother was absent, her nannies were inexperienced teenagers, and she despised her stepmother. She left finishing school after one term.

  • @trawlins396
    @trawlins396 4 года назад +2

    It makes me so happy that there are fellow etiquette snobs out there 😍😍.

  • @misstelly2821
    @misstelly2821 4 года назад +36

    I realized she was a little rough with spreading the butter but I thought the director was trying to convey that she was upset about the rumor and anxious for Jackie's explanation.

    • @Roddie62
      @Roddie62 4 года назад +14

      Spreading the what ? It's clotted cream how dare you

    • @Kris.G
      @Kris.G 4 года назад +2

      @@Roddie62 off with her head!

    • @Edmonton-of2ec
      @Edmonton-of2ec 4 года назад

      @@Roddie62 How can you tell?

  • @serennothesith1099
    @serennothesith1099 4 года назад

    Please do more of this with The Crown, really enjoyed this!

  • @ethapnerry5740
    @ethapnerry5740 4 года назад +49

    Fun fact: The Queen is a jam then cream person, meanwhile in the show Claire Foy puts cream then jam

    • @yunahnam
      @yunahnam 4 года назад

      ive seen recs for jam then cream so that you can taste the cream more. cream then jam kinda overpowers the cream so they say.

    • @dinglebarry528
      @dinglebarry528 4 года назад +2

      I remembered the same about the Queen. Personally, I find that a bit odd, but then again I’m a ‘just jam’ person.

    • @johncardozo3647
      @johncardozo3647 4 года назад +1

      Republicanism can't come too soon.

    • @adelia988
      @adelia988 4 года назад +1

      It’s the age old debate but should be cream then jam (cream is the butter) as it’s Devonshire cream tea, Cornwall can keep the pasties.

    • @mirandolina46
      @mirandolina46 4 года назад

      Can't abide cream at all, it was always butter on the scones at home.

  • @kuripangui
    @kuripangui 4 года назад

    This video was nice! Since I was learning proper manners from previous videos I was able to notice several errors in the scene, it was satisfying.

  • @Kira1Lawliet
    @Kira1Lawliet 4 года назад +6

    Half of these choices seem like honest trivial mistakes (i.e., triangular sandwiches and waiters pouring tea) but a lot of it seems like either practical necessities for filming (dull pewter instead of bright silver that can screw up the cameras and lighting) or symbolic (a lot of passive aggressive actions by Elizabeth that this guy seems to be reading as simple goofs when actually they seem to be purposefully intended to impart tension, regardless of whether the Queen in real life would have ever engaged in such petty behavior-it communicates the mood to the audience, and that's more important than being perfectly accurate).

    • @irmar
      @irmar 2 года назад +1

      I agree that these things were done to show the tension. But they don't feel true to character. The real queen would have tried her best to be polite, even if glacially polite. It's part of her persona, and if you get that wrong, then what's the point to get the feeling of the scene right?

  • @joycesewald1788
    @joycesewald1788 2 года назад +1

    I enjoyed your video. Not only did you point out the incorrect etiquette in the movie, you also have correctly defended the queen!

  • @jartotable
    @jartotable 3 года назад +3

    For all the people who are commentating about how "if the queen was in a bad mood ...etc". Etiquette is second nature, bad mood or not. There is no other way to do things. They're all taught this the minute they can hold a knife and fork properly. The children arent allowed to eat with the queen until they have learnt proper table manners. And they don't slob out when no-ones looking. After years of seeing people in private homes eating I can tell you that it just feels wrong and very naughty to butter a whole roll or cut into a roll to add butter. It's called indoctrination.

  • @stephaniecass6567
    @stephaniecass6567 4 года назад +1

    I love your adamant demand that scones are light and warm... I recently obtained a recipie for buttermilk scones, and it is amazing how light and fluffy and delicious they are! I just need some clotted cream in my life.

  • @notaclue822
    @notaclue822 4 года назад +33

    It's so weird that if all those rules apply in real life, the queen can't do what she likes in the simplest of ways. I would suffocate.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 4 года назад +2

      Her life is so regimented and rigid I don't know how she does it.

    • @FFSnotagain
      @FFSnotagain 4 года назад +17

      She was born into it. It’s not like she has to force it. For her it comes out naturally just as it is for you to drink water from a glass instead of a bowl or holding a fork.

    • @trawlins396
      @trawlins396 4 года назад +4

      @@FFSnotagain yes that's true. Her life has ALWAYS been so rigid. That's probably why they love going to Balmoral.

    • @daveybearful
      @daveybearful 4 года назад +7

      Always amuses me when people say regarding the Queen” She can’t do what she likes in the simplest of ways”!!!To her this is simple!This is how she was taught & raised so it is simple for her!
      Also we all have rules for want of a better word in our own homes don’t we?
      Most times they have become such a way of life we don’t even notice them anymore!
      I am no snob or etiquette expert but if you come to dine at my home I will have a tablecloth on the table the table will be set & I always use real napkins.
      Sone people have accused me of being posh no it’s not posh it’s the way I choose to live in my own home.
      Oh & if you notice the Queen dos not inflict her way of doing things on her guest because that would be rude & make her guest uncomfortable but in the big things yes there are standards in the Royal home just like we have in our own homes which of course is our right!!!!

    • @sheilaenglish7329
      @sheilaenglish7329 4 года назад +6

      Following rules of etiquette at table wouldn’t be weird or objectionable to the Queen. It’s just her life, the way she has always known it. It would be no different to her than the habits we have in our own lives.

  • @siomhaithwarren739
    @siomhaithwarren739 2 года назад +1

    I never had the intention to watch it. This is one proof, why I haven't missed anything.

  • @juliehock6059
    @juliehock6059 4 года назад +4

    Wonderful work! I also thought that I saw a large fork to the left of the Queen’s bread and butter plate. Surely it should be a cake fork? At boarding school we took the bread or roll onto our plates and tore off a little and dabbed some butter (which we had transported to our B & B plate) and buttered the small portion as we ate. One would have thought that the “advisors” on all things regally correct would have all these details correct - or were the advisors not British? Why didnt they ask you William?

  • @thewaitisogre
    @thewaitisogre 4 года назад +2

    you throw shade so elegantly. subscribed!

  • @orion8835
    @orion8835 4 года назад +3

    It’s terrible I agree. From the ghastly dry scone, the double plates, the weird hotel style pouring, the outward knife. In fact a lot of the moves they make, for anyone who knows is often Americanized or hotel style. It’s an entertaining series but often strange. The weirdest is how often people in the court refer to The Queen this The Queen that, endlessly. In reality they just say “Her Majesty”. Well done .

  • @daxcollazo3038
    @daxcollazo3038 4 года назад +1

    Loved it! And William... Your expressions were worth a million!👍👍😊

  • @Brontebabe
    @Brontebabe 4 года назад +73

    It’s funny how he’s criticizing this scene when this scene is suppose to be like this, it’s suppose to throw out the traditional way because the queen is upset and is trying to intimidate Jackie Kennedy because prior to this scene Jackie was being disrespectful to the proper ways they were doing things

    • @Historian212
      @Historian212 4 года назад +5

      I doubt very much that Her Majesty would allow her annoyance at Jackie to make her forget her own standards.

    • @Brontebabe
      @Brontebabe 4 года назад +8

      @@Historian212 well duh, but this is still a show that uses dramatization for stuff sooooo again this scene makes sense with the show lol

  • @YourBeigeyness
    @YourBeigeyness 4 года назад

    More of these please! I enjoyed this so much

  • @karenbishop5885
    @karenbishop5885 4 года назад +20

    They have the Queen chowing down like she hasn’t eaten in months. Never seeming to offer anything to the guest.
    Also mrs Kennedy hair is way too long and dishevelled. “It just won’t do.”

  • @Pemma200
    @Pemma200 3 года назад

    I have been binge-watching your videos since I came across them and have learnt a lot from you, thanks.

  • @briangarrett2427
    @briangarrett2427 4 года назад +2

    Excellent analysis

  • @arialblack3323
    @arialblack3323 Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing! I love the Crown and I get why they did what they did for visual purposes and to mirror the emotional context of the situation. But I love knowing that truth and how things are properly done!

  • @RspbyLmn
    @RspbyLmn 4 года назад +15

    Sadly, few people study etiquette anymore. I remember when Prince Charles and Lady Diana became engaged. I was a young girl who was so impressed by Diana that I asked my mother for a book of etiquette for my sixteenth birthday. I memorized it, hoping to learn how to be a proper lady and never be perceived as gauche.
    When I watched this scene in The Crown, I cringed at how awkward and "down-home" Claire Foy portrayed the Queen at this tea and how clumsily this scene was staged.
    Thank you for this video commentary.

    • @edenassos
      @edenassos 4 года назад +5

      Etiquette is a waste of time in the world of technology. Do things swiftly and efficiently, that's what matters.

    • @peachesandcream8753
      @peachesandcream8753 4 года назад +2

      @@edenassos Why does it matter? Etiquette is about doing things in a slower way to get away from the fast pace of the outside world. The reason etiquette has dwindled, or more accurately has died in the lower classes, is because people don't know how to slow down

    • @DanielkaElliott
      @DanielkaElliott 4 года назад

      @@edenassos i don't think that the problem is the whole idea of ettiquette. i think it's just that what we think of as "good" etiquette is old fashioned when really times have changed and the "proper" way to behave has changed too. It isn't described in Victorian books because just as they didn't have email and social media their etiquette responded to a different society and environment. there is no point doing things "properly" if it just makes things more difficult and makes people uncomfortable

    • @juliehock6059
      @juliehock6059 4 года назад +1

      @@edenassos Perhaps in your world, but eating like a lout with mouth open, and feet on the table isnt attractive at all - regardless of technology.

    • @edenassos
      @edenassos 4 года назад

      @@juliehock6059 That's pretty obvious, isn't it? It goes without saying you don't put your leg on the dinner table, I'm talking about the over-the-top ones.

  • @audreybuyrn8672
    @audreybuyrn8672 9 месяцев назад +2

    Actually, no US citizen is obliged to curtsey to anyone.

  • @anilewis9539
    @anilewis9539 4 года назад +4

    I have noticed all these errors but I thought that the English protocol could have some differences. I am from Argentina.

  • @taromilktea4834
    @taromilktea4834 5 месяцев назад

    Very interesting and informative analysis. The Queen was a masterful diplomat, I agree she wouldn’t be rude to Jaqueline Kennedy at all, as depicted in here. She was known for being very kind to guests, even the people she didn’t like (including Kennedy and Thatcher)

  • @danwaller6802
    @danwaller6802 4 года назад +3

    I appreciate that you know your stuff. But I think the main focus in this scene was the tension between Mrs Kennedy and The Queen and the emotion in the room of which Claire Foy excelled at.

  • @marclegarreta
    @marclegarreta 4 года назад

    Sincerely, I’ve awaited this since watching this episode.

  • @MrStephanieJChia
    @MrStephanieJChia 4 года назад +20

    maybe Netflix should just get the Queen on the show as a consultant, so they could never go wrong

  • @thistablet1634
    @thistablet1634 2 года назад +1

    Did you even watch the reasons for this meeting? The Queen was pissed off as all fuuuuuuck at Jackie o. I wouldn't extend any courtesy the house guard was out and the audience was Windsor castle. Sometimes only a fortress will do. There is nothing wrong with this meeting.

  • @bobloblaw9679
    @bobloblaw9679 4 года назад +69

    he went from 'charmingly british' to 'annoyingly pedantic' so quickly

  • @RadicalPersonalFinance
    @RadicalPersonalFinance 4 года назад

    This is so wonderfully pedantic. I’ll watch every one of these you make.

  • @monmothma3358
    @monmothma3358 4 года назад +21

    With etiquette it's always interesting to find out if there's actually a rational, sensible reason behind the rule, or if it's "We do it because we have been doing it like this for centuries and we don't care that society is different now, and generally we are nitpickers who don't care about what's important." This is, I think, mostly the latter and... kind of ridiculous.

  • @dat_rat_boi
    @dat_rat_boi 4 года назад

    I love this content!
    Please do one for Wolf Hall. They put a lot of attention to detail in portraying the Tudor period as accurately as possible.
    It's one of my favourite shows

  • @jmcmontanheiro
    @jmcmontanheiro 4 года назад +10

    I could legit watch this guy criticize the whole tv show, plus Downton Abbey.

  • @sheilaenglish7329
    @sheilaenglish7329 4 года назад +1

    Whenever I hear William Hanson speak I realize how many correct etiquette lessons my mother taught us by example. Sadly, some of these things I’ve neglected, becoming I’m afraid rather uncouth. 😱

    • @wyzolma99
      @wyzolma99 4 года назад

      @Sheila English my late mother also taught us. We certainly learned to always break a scone, never to cut it.

  • @Stitchxavi
    @Stitchxavi 4 года назад +8

    This is so funny. As an American we don’t follow like... any of these things...

    • @bundyamill
      @bundyamill 4 года назад

      💯💯💯

    • @stevesteve5804
      @stevesteve5804 4 года назад +1

      This is because Brits worry about stupid stuff and think they’re better than everyone else.

    • @skyinuri8868
      @skyinuri8868 4 года назад

      Hahahahha

    • @larapalma3744
      @larapalma3744 4 года назад

      Wow not the time to boast lol

    • @jbjaguar2717
      @jbjaguar2717 4 года назад +1

      @@stevesteve5804 No, it's actually because we have class.

  • @limeproductions7873
    @limeproductions7873 4 года назад

    Why have I only now found your magnificent channel?
    I love it!

  • @vl6357
    @vl6357 4 года назад +3

    She prepared her scones the Devon way, cream first then the jam. The Cornish put the jam on first then the cream.

  • @williamr6785
    @williamr6785 2 месяца назад +1

    I fully understand and appreciate Mr. Hanson's dissection of this particular scene, however I do agree with a number of the contributors that this is a scene full of nuances and deliberate misdirection for Mrs Kennedy. If nothing more than for the drama this series wants to convey.

  • @kaitlin2400
    @kaitlin2400 4 года назад +17

    The show should have hired you to fact check and help ensure that everything was accurate in all the scenes!

    • @jpgrennan
      @jpgrennan 2 года назад +1

      They have someone who’s job that is. A lot of the stuff in this scene is deliberate given the context.

    • @kaitlin2400
      @kaitlin2400 Год назад

      @@jpgrennanwell clearly they didn’t do a good job. 🙄

    • @MS-nt4xe
      @MS-nt4xe Год назад

      @@kaitlin2400 When experts are employed in film and TV production, they are not given final say over anything. The etiquette expert may have got everything right only to have been overruled by the director. William was an etiquette expert on "Red, White & Royal Blue" and they didn't follow all his advice; the makers of "The Crown" wouldn't have, either.

  • @ThinkInk1604
    @ThinkInk1604 4 года назад

    This was so nice!! Please do more.

  • @Beatriz_MC
    @Beatriz_MC 4 года назад +3

    Nice video!!
    I think some of the things (but not all) were made on purpose since I I feel that scene was like a fight of power between the two women. "I am the queen of Englad, I have all these servants" 😂

  • @WhimsicalEloquence
    @WhimsicalEloquence 4 года назад +1

    Please do more on the Crown!

  • @Ryangraceffa13
    @Ryangraceffa13 4 года назад +3

    Claire Foy actually said in an interview that the *royal etiquette expert on set* told her to always pick up the saucer. Furthermore, like others have mentioned, obviously, she was ignoring a lot of etiquette due to the context of the meeting. Also, obviously, Netflix isn't going to have freshly baked scones, who knows how many hours it takes to film certain scenes!

  • @CoffeeCupVT
    @CoffeeCupVT 2 года назад

    This is excellent - knew most, but not all, you go through. As an American, however, I noticed another grave breach of etiquette that escaped the producers - having Mrs. Kennedy curtsey to the queen. It is a point of principle - at least, to those of us to whom etiquette still matters - that we don't bow or curtsey to foreign dignitaries, howsoever much we may admire them. (You'll remember the furor that arose when former U.S. President Obama bowed to a Saudi king at a G-20 meeting.) Mrs. Kennedy wouldn't have dreamed of curtsying to even this most wonderful of queens.

  • @tresha7744
    @tresha7744 4 года назад +5

    Yes! Jesus minding his P's & Q's at the dinner table is truly the most amazing thing about him...forget the whole died for the sins of mankind thing...it's all about the way the man placed a napkin in his lap.

  • @19gregske55
    @19gregske55 4 года назад

    I've been watching The Crown Season 4. I thought of you, when I watched the luncheon scene with the characters playing HM The Queen and The Prince Andrew. BOTH of them salt their food, before they taste anything!! Also, methinks that HM would use an open salt, rather than a salt shaker. I'd love to hear your take on the scene.
    You are posting great clips!
    Best regards from a Commonwealth brother in Canada 🇨🇦.

  • @tydd1985
    @tydd1985 4 года назад +3

    You threw shades and I like it kkkk

  • @clowicous
    @clowicous 4 года назад +2

    A lot of the things you talked about that was I guess “incorrect” the shot was on it like as if we were to purposely watching this incorrect etiquette so I’m assuming that the director must’ve done it to represent something within the story or whatever the context is. But I DO love this and Find it very interesting!

  • @マダムフローラ
    @マダムフローラ 4 года назад +3

    I totally agree with Mr. Hanson.
    And I also disappointed that she spread the clotted cream first.
    It must be not her way.

  • @wendyp8488
    @wendyp8488 4 года назад

    Thank you for this informative and entertaining video. I just love your witty comments and posh accent ⭐️

  • @BB-or8gi
    @BB-or8gi 4 года назад +5

    NETFLIX I HOPE YOURE LISTENING!