You inspired me to do a three month no buy. My three months is up on April 18th. I’m so proud of my self that I actually did it. I was able to save approximately $2300 which will allow me to go on a three week vacation without stressing out about money :) But most importantly this experiment totally changed my mindset about my spending habits. Thank you !
Y’all really was coming for this lady for trying to control her spending 😑 WOOW. Just Wow. Thank you for overlooking ignorance. Your videos have helped me regain control of my mindless spending
I admire your humility in responding to those comments, very classy and respectful. I admit that I would be very annoyed 😂. No buy is like minimalism, it has various meanings and forms and doesn’t have to be extreme. I hope you and your family have fully recovered from Covid, cheers!
It’s a shame that people couldn’t see the positive aspect and immediately jumped to criticism or arguing about what a no buy is. I would agree with you there, to some people a gym membership would be ‘essential’ for their physical and mental well-being. In that case I say keep it, just cut out the rest for a period if you want to try a no buy. It definitely doesn’t have to be extreme at all. So many odd comments about toilets in the garden and what soap I should have used 😂 oh well, as the saying goes ‘there’s nowt as queer as folk’ Yes we are all fine thank you, it’s not overly pleasant for a day or so, but has been uneventful for us all. X
You handle people’s disagreement so gracefully… if someone commented on one of my videos “why is this even a video” I would say “why did you even click on it”
Ha ha I know what you mean. I don’t really understand those types of comments, feedback of all kinds is welcome but if I don’t like a video I’d just click off, surely it takes less time to do that than write a snarky comment! X
Wow some of these questions/comments are just very small minded or misinformed. Kudos to you for not letting them get to you and answer with patience and respect
Very true. I try to answer each and every comment if I can, even the ore mean or rude ones, but tbh I might start ignoring some, not because I only want to engage with people who don’t criticise but because I’ve found some of these people are quite frankly ridiculous. They don’t stop. They go on and on with misinformed comments or write their own narrative about things I’ve never said or done. Probably best to leave them to it. 🤷♀️
Many women have enough makeup to last for years! I didn't buy any for 2 years when I cut back spending. Yeah yeah they say it expires. I still used mine! Great tips and replies to the comments.
I find most of it is fine past the expiry date, if it smells bad etc then it’s absolutely going in the bin, but I’ve had no issues with using things past the use buy date. I’m more strict on eye products like mascara, but other than that I’ve had no issues either. Thanks so much for watching! X
I absolutely loved your no buy video and other videos too, they have been both inspiring and educational. I feel society has almost been brainwashed into using consumerism to make ourselves feel as if we are ‘more’ (even to our own detriment financially) and your video has helped me become more conscious about how I consume and what I buy. Sorry you have had trolls trolling your videos, please keep sharing your experiences!
So pleased to hear you enjoyed them Ivana. Yes we do seem to live in a consumer capitalist society, and advertising works! I still like ‘things’, but like you I’m trying to be conscious and mindful with what I do buy. I tend to try to focus on only buying something I REALLY want, and try to consider the quality of the item and if I will really get value from it. Tbh I’ve probably had an easier ride than most regarding negativity being a small account. I think a few people just had real tunnel vision in regards to a no buy. It was like they just couldn’t get their heads around it and were insisting I should change the entire video and not call it a no buy, but a budget year or something of that nature. Rather odd, lots of condescension and patronising advice, but they’re probably lonely or bored really. 🤷♀️ Thankfully the really vile comments (which I didn’t include) were only a handful. Xx
I understood the assignment I clearly understood what no buy meant. You definitely have changed my lifestyle 1st it started with clothing then it perfume and I have been doing phenomenally well since January and my husband is completely thrilled that I have stopped spending and now saving. Thank you for the guidance. Keep talking recording because you are changing lives. Thankyou
Watching your video inspired me more after being a minimalist for eight years but the last part really made me laugh about the bidet. I live in a row apartment with bidet but I still buy toilet paper every quarter of the month. I don't wear make ups and lipstick for decades aside last December 2023 that I bought a mascara and a lip/chic tint when graduated from practical nursing course. But yeah, I love watching your videos. I barely comments on videos, unless they are really inspiring for me. Thank you for sharing.
You have the one person here, from the time I saw your video I wanted to do a no spend year. I am taking it in baby steps by doing it month by month .Keep up the good work work. Block the haters and move on.
Good luck with keeping going with it - I found it was challenging at first but gets easier over time. Yes I think that’s likely the best thing to do, even when I try to engage with some that are more misinformed than nasty, it ends up like fighting with a pig, no one wins and you just end up both rolling around in the mud and everyone comes off a bit dirty! 😂
For my no buy year, I'm only doing it for clothes. I have only bought a second hand bag so im happy so far. I buy because Im bored and I want that image I have in my mind from social media. Its great to be able to address this myself and stop wasting money. I have so many nice clothes as it is. I can only wear so many.
Good luck! I didn’t buy any for two years and it was really eye opening. I understand what you are saying regarding image etc, when you see all these lovely new things on others all the time it can be super tempting. Clothing has always been my Achilles heel - I love them! But like you Ive looked at all the beautiful things I already have and it’s so true, you can only wear one outfit at a time. I’m taking my time over any news purchase, ensuring I really want it, that it will suit my lifestyle, and prioritising quality over quantity. 😊 xx
I watched your video in late 2021 which inspired me to do a no buy in January 2022. It helped me realize that so much of my spending were impulse purchases. The biggest lesson was being intentional to use what I have before buying duplicates. Thank you for being so open and honest about your experience!
Hi Andrea, congrats on your January no buy - impulse shopping was one of the things I was most shocked about, I wouldn’t have particularly considered myself a impulse shopper prior to my no buy! Thank you for watching x
Kirsty, great to see you back and looking so well. I thought of the queen as you answered some of those comments: " never complain, never explain"!! Honestly, some people will find something negative in just about anything and they are not worth and time and energy in explaining. On spending to 'save the economy', that is just a line we are fed by the powers that be, often when they've not done their job well. It is everyone's responsibility to live within their means and save for a rainy day if they can. Spending on things we don't need or want for some perceived benefit to the economy only plunges people into hardship whilst destroying our precious planet at the same time. If we spend ourselves into poverty we become an un-necessary burden on the economy in the long run. I love that you always demonstrate balance and common sense, sadly not everyone understands this!
Thanks Madeleine! Yes I agree, I was only speaking with my mum about it yesterday and saying that whilst i try to answer every comment I can, even the critical ones, some of these people just aren’t worth it. It’s a massive time and energy suck as you point out. I’ve also realised through engaging with some, as odd as it might sound some are elderly ladies who probably just don’t understand some of the more modern concepts. I’m trying to think of them like my gran, she’s old, I get internally exasperated at some of the things she says or odd outdated ideas she holds, but it’s never worth arguing about it. I love that - you are so right, if we all don’t take responsibility for our own money management in the best way we can, we will potentially end up a burden on the state ourselves and ultimately other taxpayers. (Of course some need that support through no real fault of their own)
Thanks for sharing an update! I love your realistic overview. I can only say that I appreciate the learning to live more simply from when I was going through a No Buy process.
Yessss! Many of the best things that came from the no buy were the pretty permanent changes in shopping habits, not necessarily the additional savings.
I appreciate you making these videos and you are brave and showing your maturity in addressing the “negative” comments and concerns. I have to admit I used to be very shy, even ashamed about telling co workers, friends and family that I couldn’t go to a christening or contribute to a leaving present because I didn’t have spare cash but now, thanks to videos like yours and the saving vs spending culture I no longer feel shame in saying no to events and obligations I either cannot afford or just don’t see the value in. So thank you for your contribution to this change in culture.
Bless you Emily! I understand the whole gifts at work thing, I’ve worked in teams where it just expands and expands. First it’s just if someone has a baby or something, then it becomes leaving gifts, birthday gifts, please can you sponsor my children’s skipathon… You’re welcome and thank you so much for watching.
Loved this, I am currently doing a low buy, I just didn’t feel committed enough for a full no buy only because I have a young daughter and feel like now I can take her places and do things with her without pending lockdowns happening! I am however only buying items second hand for us both as she grows so fast and my body is still changing from having her! Loved this video, glad to see you upload again 💜 xx
I understand completely! I know many people got out and about through the last two years, but I found all the rules and prebooking etc just really made even the thought of it so stressful! One of the things I’m so excited about for spring and the weather getting better is going to some of my favourite national trust places armed with my camera, I’ve missed going to places so so much! Second hand is awesome, I love that so many more are embracing it now, and yes kids grow so so quickly. I had loads of hand me downs from my cousins growing up (so essentially second hand) and no one ever knew, they were beautiful so who cares! Xx
I have tears rolling down my face at the moment thinking of you cycling to use someone’s bidet. How on earth would you find someone who has a bidet and would let you use it. I love your sensible approach to No/Low Buy.
For me it's great to see you have met your challenge/goal. It makes me think more carefully about buying unnecessary things or things have multiples of just for the sake of retail therapy. I need less clutter in my home to make cleaning thv house much easier too hehe
It’s funny you should mention that, I’ve just written less cleaning down as a point for my next video 😂 So glad to hear it’s inspired you to think before buying, I’m not anti shopping, more buying things you really want and getting rid of the rest. 😊
The bidet comment was absolutely hilarious!!! Thanks for your videos, your earlier ones really inspired me to do a no buy and to plan it all. I initially decided to do a no spend January and I'm loving it so much I'm keeping going. I have only bought replacement toiletries and most of them I used Christmas gift cards for. Also bought a dress from vinted and allowing myself a small amount over the year for this, and i still eat out max twice a month - so more a low buy. It has made me so much more conscious of everything i spend from groceries and petrol to things I think i want. I am so grateful I've started this given the cost of living crisis. I am already on a low budget as I don't earn a lot, but even then I've already saved hundreds. Sadly when you're poor, places like Primark suck you in because they're cheap and you just want to feel that kick of spending like everyone else seems able to. Before you know it, it adds up to hundreds over a year! I am loving this.
Hi Deborah, I’m so pleased to hear your no buy / low buy has been such a positive experience! I do understand what you mean about having a lower budget, it’s hard sometimes as these fast fashion places do have great prices, and I accept when I’m sometimes talking about buying quality (which usually come with a higher price tag) then in many ways I’m coming from a position of privilege. (That said I’m not buying insane designer stuff either) You are right though, those little shopping trips, £20 here, £30 there add up immensely over the year. I’ve sometimes regretted doing it in the past as I would say oh I really want x but it’s too expensive - and then turn around and spend the exact same amount on lots of cheaper items! 🤦♀️ Thanks so much for watching xx
Thanks again to everyone who watched my no buy video - I appreciate it so much. Ignore my slightly red nose - the lasting after affects of a streaming covid runny nose! P.s Please don't seek out any of the posters of the more negative comments, I can certainly hold my own against someone who is purposefully mean. I also mean nothing nasty by highlighting a particular comment, people are free to have their own opinions, even if we disagree with them. It's just having a light-hearted poking fun, nothing more.
Love these no-buy videos! Keep up with the quality uploads, I regularly rewatch your videos just to keep myself on track and remind myself that I do not need consumerism to maintain my happiness. Most purchases are non-essential and the money could have been put to better use. My family is one of those that doesn't enjoy travelling, just the hassle of making sure bookings are in place, getting to the right places at the right time, sleeping in an unfamiliar place and rushing around puts a lot of stress on everyone so we'd rather just spend the money getting a bottle of wine and enjoy it in the comfort of our own home. It's what we realize we enjoy, and so it does not feel like deprivation in any way. Sometimes, we find it weird how people love travelling so much, and I'm sure they think the same of us too but to each their own! :)
So pleased to hear you are enjoying my content Kelly and that they help keep you on track with your goals. Travel is such an odd one, it almost sold to us that we should all want to travel, see as much off the world as possible before you leave the earth, all that jazz. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing new places and meeting people from other cultures, but travel just isn't that much of a priority either, like you I find the actual travel part quite stressful - happy once there and again when home, but the bit in-between I loathe. Some people have said to me before, 'there is no way I'd forego a holiday just to decorate my house, that can wait', but that makes no sense to me, I live in my house almost every single day, I will always prioritise that over a week or two abroad. The idea that we can all have it all is nonsense and I think more of us should be brave enough to step outside of the expected norms and say that's just not for me. As you say each to their own!
@@KirstyKirby Yes precisely! All the marketing around travelling and jet-setting instagram pics made me feel like travelling is a part of life that I'm missing out, like I SHOULD love travelling, rather than stemming from a genuine interest in it. I share the same sentiments with you where I'd rather spend on home renovations than on travelling. The money is better utilized when I am enjoying my home every single day, than just over a period of 1-2 weeks of travel. Besides, the money spent on a home is likely to provide returns as part of the cost of home improvement if one day you choose to sell it, but money spent on travelling will never be recouped, it's lost forever. Consumerism is such an expected norm nowadays that people seldom question who are the ultimate beneficiaries of such mass exploitation of earth's resources and our hard-earned money - definitely not us, the everyday normal people. People in the past have lived with much lesser, I find that it's more peaceful to seek genuine contentment from our inner selves than find validation in comparing materials goods. There's always going to be the next best thing, it's a never ending cycle. I find that enjoying a homemade coffee, reading and taking a walk are things that make me happy. Those activities don't cost much, and provide me with more happiness that shopping can ever bring. I can repeat it everyday without risking financial ruin whereas the dopamine hit from shopping is ever so fleeting and much less long lasting. It's important to realize that money spent and happiness are not directly proportional to each other. Just because we spend more, does not always mean we're getting more happiness. Nowadays, I find that appreciating the money in bank balance keeps me happier than frittering them away on random purchases. Every time I need a dopamine hit, I log in to my bank account and smile at the growing balance! :p
In 2022 I had plan to do a no buy for a year and I’m glad I started. This year everything hit me at once medical bills, car accidents, paying not just my taxes but my daughter’s taxes and medical bills. Many things broke down at the house so we had to fix everything which cost a lot for repairs. So far everything I had planned to save is impossible at this moment. I’m still trying to catch up. It didn’t just rained it poured. But at least I’m being very careful not to over spend on food etc. I did picked up hours at work just to catch up. It sucks but I’m not giving up
Bless you Olivia, I’m sorry to hear you’ve had such a challenging time. What you describe is why I really make saving and an emergency fund a priority, sometimes life has its own ideas and sometimes they suck. Hope things improve for you soon.
Bathrooms in the U.K. are generally so incredibly small, they’re just not viable for most people here without doing major building work and changing room sizes. They’re also quite unpopular here, I remember seeing them in large houses in the 80s but not really since.
Very true! To be honest I have a reasonably easy ride in comparison to some. My strangest trolls if you will seem to be old ladies, it’s so odd. I have to remind myself they are likely someone’s bored grandma and not to bite back too hard 😉 xx
@@KirstyKirby the one I got at Amazon installs right on my toilet (it’s not a separate throne! Haha). I’m sure the person giving you hell about finding a bidet “in the world” 🙄 was just trolling you. But they really do make portable bidets now that do a great job. That said, I still use TP- but not as much.
Hope you and your family are doing well after Covid. I really enjoyed your video! :) I really liked how you deconstructed some of the comments you received and I couldn't agree more. It's all about balance. Sure, there are always people that live an extreme lifestyle and are perfectly happy about it. But I don't think that's the way everybody has to live. I started a low buy year some days ago (being inspired by RUclips and also your videos!) and hope to see more new videos from you soon! Greetings from Germany :)
Yes we are all fine now thank you 😊 For me there’s a balance to be made, I’m frugal with some things and perhaps somewhat extravagant with others. Since I’ve been looking at quality vs quantity, I’m probably willing to spend more per item previously, but because I don’t shop regularly ultimately I still save money. The no buy was just incredibly useful not only as a way to save more money, but to identify some of those shopping habits that were not serving me. Good luck with your no buy! It gets easier as you go along. Xx
Thank you so much for watching! Slow and steady still gets there. I don’t consider myself a minimalist (I’m sure they would have plenty to say about my wardrobe 🤦♀️😂) but there’s some great lessons in the principles. No one needs a house full of stuff they never use for example, it’s silly. My house stays so tidy since I started donating things I don’t use - I’m no fan of tidying so that’s been a massive benefit lol x
2nd video watching.! thanks! I am in the US living with disability benefits. My first thought was, yes, I am doing this no buy or low buy all my life! Then I thought no--there are still things I buy I really do not need. I think I will try to cut my expenses more while increasing my quality of life. I do not have a green thumb at all!
Hi Carissa, you are probably doing better than most! I don't necessarily advocate for buying as little as possible at all costs, more to encourage others (and myself) to ask if whatever I'm buying will bring real value, if not leave it in the shop :) xx
You are a complete class act! So awful that you received negative comments as you described. Such a gracious presentation. FYI I also did a no buy in 2018 to get me off the consumerism train. And now because I am saving so much money, I can I donate regularly to charitable organizations. Regarding the economy, we need to move to a de growth economy. The economy will not collapse as people will continue to buy services and preloved goods. People need to consume but we need to consume responsibly. Thanks so much for what you do! 💚💚💚
Aww bless you - I think I probably get off more lightly than an awful lot of people on RUclips. I only had a handful of truly nasty comments thankfully. Well done on your no buy, it is staggering how much it can highlight your shopping habits and help save a small fortune at times. Those lessons have really stayed with me since x
You've got to love a 'holier than thou' RUclips commenter. I'm not doing a no buy or low buy but I am mindful about what I spend, I stopped shopping online in 2020 and will continue to support bricks and mortar stores of all sizes. I read somewhere early pandemic that no country has ever improved the health of its citizens by making itself poorer - very true. In my opinion the response to the pandemic was totally disproportionate to the actual situation.
Absolutely! There’s so many wider health impacts of people becoming poorer, it impacts diet, sleep, lifestyle etc. Coming from a low socioeconomic group was shown to be associated for poorer outcomes for Covid too. I know what you mean, I’ve been very careful about sharing things related to the pandemic as it’s become so polarising, but even back in late 2020 I was saying to friends - of course I don’t want anyone to die if we can avoid it, but who is going to pay for all this? We are in war time level debt and our children’s children will still be paying for all this. So many poor decisions have been made and the U.K. are still spending millions on Covid ‘messaging’, taxpayers money I might add. I want to put my head in my hands so often.
Great video & very inspiring✨Those comments you got were🙄🤣Dont buy any groceries?? Do they think everyone should have their own chickens, veg patch & cows in the back garden🤣
Honestly I would LOVE to live rurally, get most of my veggies from my own land, have a few chickens - I’m short of a few million for the land here in Yorkshire though 😂
I think a no buy for a whole year is really amazing. I think I don’t buy much but if I added the few drugstore makeup products, thrift clothes etc it wouldn’t be huge by any means but it is definitely some money. I think you did a wonderful job. I agree that hard times may be coming and we all may learn no buy with no choice. Edit again. I don’t believe the comments that for years and years they haven’t bought anything. I clean houses and I haven’t seen one that wasn’t crammed with stuff. No way!
Thanks for watching Denise! Yes I’m really quite worried about what’s coming, we will all be ok I’m sure, but I think it’s going to be a bumpy and unpleasant ride.
I enjoyed your video, I am trying to get to the point of a no-buy-month and but something always comes up before I make the solid 30 days. But, I'll keep trying. Thanks
That is so true - its easy to spend about $100 on plants/fertilizer/soil etc. for my vegetable garden and I doubt I get the return in produce LOL - you just have to do it because you enjoy it and unless you really are a green thumb, it probably isn't realistic to think you can fully sustain your family on veg from your garden. My peppers never turn out and neither do the carrots or corn or broccoli. Tomatoes and zucchini are about the only vegs I can grow and I live in CA which is considered ideal weather for crops. LOL. And besides that, there is only so much zucchini my family will eat before they rebel - even when I try to slip it in as zucchini bread.
Sooo easy to spend on gardening, plants are just lovely and it’s so satisfying getting things to grow, but it flowers or vegetables. But rarely is it ever free! I’m not too bad on some flowers now, but like you some of my veggie experiments haven’t exactly worked 😂 Omg you are so right about getting bored of certain produce. Love the image of stealth zucchini hiding! 😉
When people say "thats not balanced" they are operating under the assumption that how they live is right and balanced. But that really depends on your own perspective which is formed by your past and what you see in your immediate surroundings. So what might seem balanced to them will be super strict to one person and wasteful spending to another. I love doing no spend months. It just really helps me focus on our family goals and being able to help family and friends when a need rises.
I love that, you are absolutely right. We all judge everything against what we feel is ‘normal’ when really normal doesn’t particularly exist. Me too, I had a no spend month in February, and almost one in March (bought garden plants in the last two days of the month so I guess I can’t count that). It really makes you realise how absentmindedly we can shop if we allow it, and how often that thing you thought you wanted falls from your wish list with just a little time.
Hi Kirsty! I've only been following your channel for a few months ... from the point of view of an impulsive consumer, often influenced in purchases by emotions or other people, I think it would take more channels like this, which will bring you back down to earth, to what is really important in life ... indeed, I would be curious to know if there are youtube channels that have inspired you in your process ... love ... Lucia
You’re absolutely right, I mentioned the emotional aspect of spending in my no buy year video, also social media really influences us when you see others wearing certain items and so on. I don’t really watch a lot of channels related to my content mainly as I really try to not be influenced or create similar content (although I’m sure others do similar things). I’ll see if I can think about what influenced me on my journey and then share that in the future.
any garden centers that you recommend in the north of the UK? I'd love some tips for people who are struggling financially, it'd be extremely helpful thank you in advance. what I personally would love to see more is also just tips on finances in general. It sounds like most negative people are Americans who know nothing but the huge houses and gardens and everything USA related. Hope youre doing well post covid!
Some of the most beautiful ones are pricey 🥴 To be honest though I’ve purchased great plants from places like B&Q and Homebase, they seem to be nice quality and almost everything I’ve purchased over the years has grown well from there (the only ones that haven’t have been when I’ve been quite inexperienced) They often have a few clearance bits really cheap but you have to drop on and sometimes they’re in clearance as they’re a bit sorry for themselves and you can’t always rescue them. My mum managed to find some nice spring baskets full of violas and pansies from Home Bargains for only £2.99 so that might be worth a look. I’ve also started getting into planting bulbs, it can be quite inexpensive and if you choose perennials over annuals then potentially you have them for years. I’ll keep the videos coming, I think it’s really sad we aren’t taught more about finances in school etc, it would be so much more valuable than algebra! 😉 Yes I do find a some comments seem to come from the older generation who seem to think sprawling gardens for self sufficiency is normal. Interestingly a lot of my viewers are in the US. Yes we are all fine now thank you. 😊 xx
@@KirstyKirby Thank you so much for your helpful reply I never thought of checking these places so ill have a look thank you. algebra is awful but finances would definitely be hard too but at least more useful yes, thank you for your hard work on those videos, its extremely appreciated. that makes sense yes and I'M glad you're all well :D
I would be annoyed so much by some comments, kudos to you for answering them so classy! I believe such a challenge requires self-reflection and one has to know and understand themselves in order to draw the lines of what a no-buy would include. I, personally, as a very introverted person, would be absolutely fine with nature, parks, library, walks in the city for fun/recreation but someone on the far side of extroversion may require more socialising and perhaps could swap eating out for potlucks and bbq with their friends. Even if someone pushes themselves a little means something, money- and mindset-wise!
I guess to a certain extent it comes with the territory unfortunately. Its sad people couldn't see I was coming from a positive place, but I guess you can't please everyone all the time. Yes I agree, as I've gotten older I'm more than content with reading a book, pottering in the garden, spending time in nature, going for a run etc, so I'm certain this impacts on my ability to save. x
Just found your channel, thanks for sharing your experience.I know everyone is entitled to their opinions and mine is, please ignore the negative and nonsense comments. Keep the good work!
Stumbled upon this video and watched your NoBuy Video as well. Starting today, going to try to take it 1 month at a time and reassess how it makes me feel. Hope to get as low buy/nobuy till end of this year.
That’s great Rohan! I don’t recommend it as a permanent lifestyle but I found great benefits from doing it for a year and not just the extra savings - good luck!
@@KirstyKirby yes. I am open to transitioning to a low spend lifestyle, cause I know I'm overspending. Unused subscriptions and stuff. A detox will help me I think
I really enjoy your videos. You've really helped me and you are my favourite low/no buy youtuber :). I would only say.... don't argue with idiots because noone wins. If they don't get it. They can go find something they do get. Periodt.
Awww thank you Zara! You are right, it’s pointless. I’ve tried to engage often just to clarify points, but often people want to drag you into arguments and start hurling insults. I need to perhaps be more selective with whom I reply to moving forward xx
Im late to this. Im researching a no year spend as gosh, isnt everything tight now! 100% get the make up thing though. Aside from mascaras i havent brought make up for years 💀💀 i dont care about their consumerism expiation dates, as long as my skin doesnt break out and im careful round my lips and eyes. I also gave a lot away to my sisters and to shelters! Also, very very much agree that many of us dont live like this regularly. I horrribly impulse buy and over spend. My husband does amazing and barely spends anything. I personally need to tightly rein it in!
It’s so challenging now, I’m very fortunate in my current job and yet I still think twice about turning the heating on early and so on - don’t get my started on the food increases! It’s almost like people end up on a no but not through choice but necessity now 😢
So funny my stock of makeup and skincare will last me 2 years minimum. I tried selling some in EBay but after some unpleasant encounters I decided to use it all myself. I did have time of no / less money in my life after my school just had part time jobs. Thankfully I had a garden and know a bid of eatable plants so I got around. A real no buy does not exist. If you have a property you have to pay fees you don’t need power but you need wood and it is not free. Stay healthy and save and I enjoyed you video pretty much
I know those unpleasant encounters well. I used to sell clothing on eBay, and still do from time to time, but sometimes it’s just not worth it. Shame really as it used to be great but too many people know how to cheat the platform.
I do a no buy month 3x's a year ..... Oh how I would love to try a no buy year❣️ The look on my husband's face when I mentioned it when I watched one of your previous videos 😳 😅😅
😂😂😂 To be fair a no buy year is pretty extreme even by my standards lol. I love to do little no buy months too, it can keep you on track and really help focus on if you need whatever thing you might be considering purchasing. Can be really helpful - thanks so much for watching my videos x
My no buy is going only so-so right now. I'm not ovedbuying a lot of stuff, but travel and experiences (which I usually don't have problems with) are stacking up. Wondering if this is my new normal or just the post covid pile up
Bless you, I can sort of understand what you mean. Since I’ve recovered from Covid it’s taken away a certain level of fear I had and I want to get out and about all the time after being at home for so long! Perhaps allow yourself a window of simply enjoying yourself, then set a monthly budget for travel etc. Xx
We just have bidets you install below the toilet seat. That’s maybe what they meant. I still use tp, just a looot less btw. So it doesn’t really solve purchasing a consumable so much as it makes it nicer and use less tp
@@flooshoomoo7104 agree - I don’t think it removes 🧻 in most peoples houses completely. In the U.K. our homes are really very small in comparison to large parts of the world - most bathrooms are around 6ft by 6ft in most new build homes, you simply can’t even fit a bidet in. They’re not all that popular here, yes there’s the fancy toilets, but that would mean a refit - which would be a bit daft to do just to save on loo roll. I think ROI wouldn’t make sense. The whole thing made me laugh though so it’s all good 😊
And if you go to the place with the bidet, you could also put a tiny basket on your bike so that you'd also take some dirty laundry with you to wash them there. Also, if they have a fridge, make a sandwich, as well! The answers are simple, we are the ones complicating things 😜
I am preparing myself for a No-Buy month, come May (baby steps). I am very much addicted to shopping at thrift stores...So. Any suggestions on what to do to get my mind away from thinking of shopping? Thanks!
I'm doing a No Buy this year on my channel and I get similar comments. I say to a lot of people who ask me for help that it's called a No - Buy Not a No Spend - because you aren't going to buy things you 'want' but focusing on the needs, you do need to pay the bills and spend money to keep yourself safe etc. I also hate it when your sharing stuff personally and people tell you how it is I think ok - you don't live here - you don't get a vote LOL
@@KirstyKirby Thanks going well so far haven't bought anything that wasn't allowed - have so much skin care and makeup to use which I don't use a lot anyway and haven't bought any in the last 2 yrs so going to be pretty easy I think ...
@@FrugalFunMum I think easy depends on how many ‘allowed’ things people have. Whilst I always think the ‘rules’ are dependent on individual circumstances, some peoples rules are quite lax and include holidays, day trips and takeaways 😂 Either way it’s a good thing to do to address spending habits. Hope it works out well for you for the remainder of the year.
LMFAO. This hilarious because I've been doing this MY ENTIRE LIFE. When you live in POVERTY, you have no choice, but not to buy anything. It has taught me many valuable lessons though. It's taught me not to want AT ALL. I live on 400 dollars A MONTH. That's it. I get 900 in total for the entire month from disability and then I pay rent and bills and I'm left with 400 for the entire month and that goes to things like body wash, shampoo, conditioner, cleaning supplies, toilet paper.... Things of that nature. I've basically been living this way my whole life since birth. I grew up poor and the cycle just continued through my adult life. So yeah. This is easy when you DON'T HAVE A CHOICE. Be grateful that you can afford to live this way BY CHOICE. That shows that you actually have money to spend! How fortunate you must be to not live in POVERTY that you have a choice to control how your money is used. Must be a real blessing to be able to have to figure out how to control your wanting nature! When you live in POVERTY, THERE IS NO MONEY TO SPEND AND THERE'S NO MONEY TO SAVE!!! And prices just keep rising from the greedy corporations all around us. Everyone wants to get rich quick. But how lucky some must be to be able to choose not to spend their money! This is only doable for people who DON'T live in poverty. Us poor people have been putting out wants on hold for most of our lives. Interesting how people with cash are choosing this life style! Imagine having money to be able to control like this. 😂😂😂 Can't believe that it took a whole pandemic for people to change their wanting behaviors when us poor people have been putting our wants on hold for almost our entire lives. You didn't figure out any secret or magic formula. I've lived this way for 36 yrs. There is no wanting. Wanting things is something that I just literally CANNOT afford. And saving is also impossible. I live on the bare minimum. Wants are non existent and survival is necessary. Very depressing life, but that's how I grew up and continued on.
Please explain to me where at ANY POINT I was ungrateful? Or suggested that people who are only just making ends meet is because they buy too much? I did not. Ever. Nor would I. I also didn’t explain what income I had left after paying basic bills, $400 is a lot to spend a month on toilet paper and body wash. Can you not appreciate that we live in a society where many spend more than they earn and we have debt burdens higher than ever before - could you not take a moment to understand that I’m promoting that you can make a different choice? You don’t have to keep up with the Jones’s and you can utilise what funds you do have in better ways. I hardly think that’s a bad thing, but clearly you had decided I was a laughing stock without even thinking at all. I see you have edited to add further insults. Where exactly did I suggest it was a secret, or magic? Everyone knows you need to spend less than you earn, your sarcasm and nastiness is misplaced. At no point did I ever pass judgement or comment on those who live in poverty. I have nothing but consideration for those people, how could I donate to such causes without saving money and not spending it on unnecessary items. You clearly decided I’m just a bad person through a lens of your situation which I appreciate is hard - but I haven’t done you wrong and this is completely unnecessary and RUDE. As it happens after redundancy and the industry I was in shrinking considerably post covid I had to take a job that doesn’t even cover my basic bills. Much of my other expenses come out of my savings so you are actually better off than myself month to month right now.
You inspired me to do a three month no buy. My three months is up on April 18th. I’m so proud of my self that I actually did it. I was able to save approximately $2300 which will allow me to go on a three week vacation without stressing out about money :) But most importantly this experiment totally changed my mindset about my spending habits. Thank you !
That’s amazing! Thank you so much for sharing and I hope you really enjoy your vacation when it comes around xx
So happy for you!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@aniazurek7258 thank you ! :)
Lucky you for having actual money to save! When you live in POVERTY, YOU CAN'T DO THIS
Y’all really was coming for this lady for trying to control her spending 😑 WOOW. Just Wow. Thank you for overlooking ignorance. Your videos have helped me regain control of my mindless spending
Comes with the territory I guess sadly. Thank you for watching and so pleased to hear my videos have been helpful x
I admire your humility in responding to those comments, very classy and respectful. I admit that I would be very annoyed 😂. No buy is like minimalism, it has various meanings and forms and doesn’t have to be extreme. I hope you and your family have fully recovered from Covid, cheers!
It’s a shame that people couldn’t see the positive aspect and immediately jumped to criticism or arguing about what a no buy is. I would agree with you there, to some people a gym membership would be ‘essential’ for their physical and mental well-being. In that case I say keep it, just cut out the rest for a period if you want to try a no buy. It definitely doesn’t have to be extreme at all. So many odd comments about toilets in the garden and what soap I should have used 😂 oh well, as the saying goes ‘there’s nowt as queer as folk’
Yes we are all fine thank you, it’s not overly pleasant for a day or so, but has been uneventful for us all. X
You handle people’s disagreement so gracefully… if someone commented on one of my videos “why is this even a video” I would say “why did you even click on it”
Ha ha I know what you mean. I don’t really understand those types of comments, feedback of all kinds is welcome but if I don’t like a video I’d just click off, surely it takes less time to do that than write a snarky comment! X
Wow some of these questions/comments are just very small minded or misinformed. Kudos to you for not letting them get to you and answer with patience and respect
Very true. I try to answer each and every comment if I can, even the ore mean or rude ones, but tbh I might start ignoring some, not because I only want to engage with people who don’t criticise but because I’ve found some of these people are quite frankly ridiculous. They don’t stop. They go on and on with misinformed comments or write their own narrative about things I’ve never said or done. Probably best to leave them to it. 🤷♀️
Many women have enough makeup to last for years! I didn't buy any for 2 years when I cut back spending. Yeah yeah they say it expires. I still used mine! Great tips and replies to the comments.
I find most of it is fine past the expiry date, if it smells bad etc then it’s absolutely going in the bin, but I’ve had no issues with using things past the use buy date. I’m more strict on eye products like mascara, but other than that I’ve had no issues either.
Thanks so much for watching! X
I absolutely loved your no buy video and other videos too, they have been both inspiring and educational. I feel society has almost been brainwashed into using consumerism to make ourselves feel as if we are ‘more’ (even to our own detriment financially) and your video has helped me become more conscious about how I consume and what I buy. Sorry you have had trolls trolling your videos, please keep sharing your experiences!
So pleased to hear you enjoyed them Ivana. Yes we do seem to live in a consumer capitalist society, and advertising works! I still like ‘things’, but like you I’m trying to be conscious and mindful with what I do buy. I tend to try to focus on only buying something I REALLY want, and try to consider the quality of the item and if I will really get value from it.
Tbh I’ve probably had an easier ride than most regarding negativity being a small account. I think a few people just had real tunnel vision in regards to a no buy. It was like they just couldn’t get their heads around it and were insisting I should change the entire video and not call it a no buy, but a budget year or something of that nature. Rather odd, lots of condescension and patronising advice, but they’re probably lonely or bored really. 🤷♀️ Thankfully the really vile comments (which I didn’t include) were only a handful. Xx
I understood the assignment I clearly understood what no buy meant. You definitely have changed my lifestyle 1st it started with clothing then it perfume and I have been doing phenomenally well since January and my husband is completely thrilled that I have stopped spending and now saving. Thank you for the guidance. Keep talking recording because you are changing lives. Thankyou
That’s amazing going! Thanks so much for watching and sharing your story xx
Watching your video inspired me more after being a minimalist for eight years but the last part really made me laugh about the bidet. I live in a row apartment with bidet but I still buy toilet paper every quarter of the month. I don't wear make ups and lipstick for decades aside last December 2023 that I bought a mascara and a lip/chic tint when graduated from practical nursing course. But yeah, I love watching your videos. I barely comments on videos, unless they are really inspiring for me. Thank you for sharing.
You have the one person here, from the time I saw your video I wanted to do a no spend year. I am taking it in baby steps by doing it month by month .Keep up the good work work. Block the haters and move on.
Good luck with keeping going with it - I found it was challenging at first but gets easier over time. Yes I think that’s likely the best thing to do, even when I try to engage with some that are more misinformed than nasty, it ends up like fighting with a pig, no one wins and you just end up both rolling around in the mud and everyone comes off a bit dirty! 😂
For my no buy year, I'm only doing it for clothes. I have only bought a second hand bag so im happy so far. I buy because Im bored and I want that image I have in my mind from social media. Its great to be able to address this myself and stop wasting money. I have so many nice clothes as it is. I can only wear so many.
Good luck! I didn’t buy any for two years and it was really eye opening. I understand what you are saying regarding image etc, when you see all these lovely new things on others all the time it can be super tempting. Clothing has always been my Achilles heel - I love them! But like you Ive looked at all the beautiful things I already have and it’s so true, you can only wear one outfit at a time. I’m taking my time over any news purchase, ensuring I really want it, that it will suit my lifestyle, and prioritising quality over quantity. 😊 xx
I watched your video in late 2021 which inspired me to do a no buy in January 2022. It helped me realize that so much of my spending were impulse purchases. The biggest lesson was being intentional to use what I have before buying duplicates. Thank you for being so open and honest about your experience!
Hi Andrea, congrats on your January no buy - impulse shopping was one of the things I was most shocked about, I wouldn’t have particularly considered myself a impulse shopper prior to my no buy! Thank you for watching x
Kirsty, great to see you back and looking so well.
I thought of the queen as you answered some of those comments: " never complain, never explain"!! Honestly, some people will find something negative in just about anything and they are not worth and time and energy in explaining.
On spending to 'save the economy', that is just a line we are fed by the powers that be, often when they've not done their job well. It is everyone's responsibility to live within their means and save for a rainy day if they can. Spending on things we don't need or want for some perceived benefit to the economy only plunges people into hardship whilst destroying our precious planet at the same time. If we spend ourselves into poverty we become an un-necessary burden on the economy in the long run. I love that you always demonstrate balance and common sense, sadly not everyone understands this!
Thanks Madeleine! Yes I agree, I was only speaking with my mum about it yesterday and saying that whilst i try to answer every comment I can, even the critical ones, some of these people just aren’t worth it. It’s a massive time and energy suck as you point out. I’ve also realised through engaging with some, as odd as it might sound some are elderly ladies who probably just don’t understand some of the more modern concepts. I’m trying to think of them like my gran, she’s old, I get internally exasperated at some of the things she says or odd outdated ideas she holds, but it’s never worth arguing about it.
I love that - you are so right, if we all don’t take responsibility for our own money management in the best way we can, we will potentially end up a burden on the state ourselves and ultimately other taxpayers. (Of course some need that support through no real fault of their own)
Thanks for sharing an update! I love your realistic overview. I can only say that I appreciate the learning to live more simply from when I was going through a No Buy process.
Yessss! Many of the best things that came from the no buy were the pretty permanent changes in shopping habits, not necessarily the additional savings.
I appreciate you making these videos and you are brave and showing your maturity in addressing the “negative” comments and concerns. I have to admit I used to be very shy, even ashamed about telling co workers, friends and family that I couldn’t go to a christening or contribute to a leaving present because I didn’t have spare cash but now, thanks to videos like yours and the saving vs spending culture I no longer feel shame in saying no to events and obligations I either cannot afford or just don’t see the value in. So thank you for your contribution to this change in culture.
Bless you Emily! I understand the whole gifts at work thing, I’ve worked in teams where it just expands and expands. First it’s just if someone has a baby or something, then it becomes leaving gifts, birthday gifts, please can you sponsor my children’s skipathon…
You’re welcome and thank you so much for watching.
Loved this, I am currently doing a low buy, I just didn’t feel committed enough for a full no buy only because I have a young daughter and feel like now I can take her places and do things with her without pending lockdowns happening! I am however only buying items second hand for us both as she grows so fast and my body is still changing from having her! Loved this video, glad to see you upload again 💜 xx
I understand completely! I know many people got out and about through the last two years, but I found all the rules and prebooking etc just really made even the thought of it so stressful! One of the things I’m so excited about for spring and the weather getting better is going to some of my favourite national trust places armed with my camera, I’ve missed going to places so so much!
Second hand is awesome, I love that so many more are embracing it now, and yes kids grow so so quickly. I had loads of hand me downs from my cousins growing up (so essentially second hand) and no one ever knew, they were beautiful so who cares! Xx
I have tears rolling down my face at the moment thinking of you cycling to use someone’s bidet. How on earth would you find someone who has a bidet and would let you use it. I love your sensible approach to No/Low Buy.
Can you imagine? 😂😂😂😂
And what about the cost of the water for the bidet....
🤣🤣👏🏻👏🏻me too, “find a bidet out in the world”..ah im good thanks🤣🤣🤣
For me it's great to see you have met your challenge/goal. It makes me think more carefully about buying unnecessary things or things have multiples of just for the sake of retail therapy. I need less clutter in my home to make cleaning thv house much easier too hehe
It’s funny you should mention that, I’ve just written less cleaning down as a point for my next video 😂
So glad to hear it’s inspired you to think before buying, I’m not anti shopping, more buying things you really want and getting rid of the rest. 😊
The bidet comment was absolutely hilarious!!! Thanks for your videos, your earlier ones really inspired me to do a no buy and to plan it all. I initially decided to do a no spend January and I'm loving it so much I'm keeping going. I have only bought replacement toiletries and most of them I used Christmas gift cards for. Also bought a dress from vinted and allowing myself a small amount over the year for this, and i still eat out max twice a month - so more a low buy. It has made me so much more conscious of everything i spend from groceries and petrol to things I think i want. I am so grateful I've started this given the cost of living crisis. I am already on a low budget as I don't earn a lot, but even then I've already saved hundreds. Sadly when you're poor, places like Primark suck you in because they're cheap and you just want to feel that kick of spending like everyone else seems able to. Before you know it, it adds up to hundreds over a year! I am loving this.
Hi Deborah, I’m so pleased to hear your no buy / low buy has been such a positive experience!
I do understand what you mean about having a lower budget, it’s hard sometimes as these fast fashion places do have great prices, and I accept when I’m sometimes talking about buying quality (which usually come with a higher price tag) then in many ways I’m coming from a position of privilege. (That said I’m not buying insane designer stuff either) You are right though, those little shopping trips, £20 here, £30 there add up immensely over the year. I’ve sometimes regretted doing it in the past as I would say oh I really want x but it’s too expensive - and then turn around and spend the exact same amount on lots of cheaper items! 🤦♀️
Thanks so much for watching xx
Thanks again to everyone who watched my no buy video - I appreciate it so much. Ignore my slightly red nose - the lasting after affects of a streaming covid runny nose!
P.s Please don't seek out any of the posters of the more negative comments, I can certainly hold my own against someone who is purposefully mean. I also mean nothing nasty by highlighting a particular comment, people are free to have their own opinions, even if we disagree with them. It's just having a light-hearted poking fun, nothing more.
Love these no-buy videos! Keep up with the quality uploads, I regularly rewatch your videos just to keep myself on track and remind myself that I do not need consumerism to maintain my happiness. Most purchases are non-essential and the money could have been put to better use. My family is one of those that doesn't enjoy travelling, just the hassle of making sure bookings are in place, getting to the right places at the right time, sleeping in an unfamiliar place and rushing around puts a lot of stress on everyone so we'd rather just spend the money getting a bottle of wine and enjoy it in the comfort of our own home. It's what we realize we enjoy, and so it does not feel like deprivation in any way. Sometimes, we find it weird how people love travelling so much, and I'm sure they think the same of us too but to each their own! :)
So pleased to hear you are enjoying my content Kelly and that they help keep you on track with your goals. Travel is such an odd one, it almost sold to us that we should all want to travel, see as much off the world as possible before you leave the earth, all that jazz. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing new places and meeting people from other cultures, but travel just isn't that much of a priority either, like you I find the actual travel part quite stressful - happy once there and again when home, but the bit in-between I loathe. Some people have said to me before, 'there is no way I'd forego a holiday just to decorate my house, that can wait', but that makes no sense to me, I live in my house almost every single day, I will always prioritise that over a week or two abroad. The idea that we can all have it all is nonsense and I think more of us should be brave enough to step outside of the expected norms and say that's just not for me. As you say each to their own!
@@KirstyKirby Yes precisely! All the marketing around travelling and jet-setting instagram pics made me feel like travelling is a part of life that I'm missing out, like I SHOULD love travelling, rather than stemming from a genuine interest in it. I share the same sentiments with you where I'd rather spend on home renovations than on travelling. The money is better utilized when I am enjoying my home every single day, than just over a period of 1-2 weeks of travel. Besides, the money spent on a home is likely to provide returns as part of the cost of home improvement if one day you choose to sell it, but money spent on travelling will never be recouped, it's lost forever.
Consumerism is such an expected norm nowadays that people seldom question who are the ultimate beneficiaries of such mass exploitation of earth's resources and our hard-earned money - definitely not us, the everyday normal people. People in the past have lived with much lesser, I find that it's more peaceful to seek genuine contentment from our inner selves than find validation in comparing materials goods. There's always going to be the next best thing, it's a never ending cycle. I find that enjoying a homemade coffee, reading and taking a walk are things that make me happy. Those activities don't cost much, and provide me with more happiness that shopping can ever bring. I can repeat it everyday without risking financial ruin whereas the dopamine hit from shopping is ever so fleeting and much less long lasting.
It's important to realize that money spent and happiness are not directly proportional to each other. Just because we spend more, does not always mean we're getting more happiness. Nowadays, I find that appreciating the money in bank balance keeps me happier than frittering them away on random purchases. Every time I need a dopamine hit, I log in to my bank account and smile at the growing balance! :p
In 2022 I had plan to do a no buy for a year and I’m glad I started. This year everything hit me at once medical bills, car accidents, paying not just my taxes but my daughter’s taxes and medical bills. Many things broke down at the house so we had to fix everything which cost a lot for repairs. So far everything I had planned to save is impossible at this moment. I’m still trying to catch up. It didn’t just rained it poured. But at least I’m being very careful not to over spend on food etc. I did picked up hours at work just to catch up. It sucks but I’m not giving up
Bless you Olivia, I’m sorry to hear you’ve had such a challenging time. What you describe is why I really make saving and an emergency fund a priority, sometimes life has its own ideas and sometimes they suck. Hope things improve for you soon.
For me you were and still are very inspiring! Thank you for your videos!
That’s so kind of you to say Monika! X
Kristy, you are a lovely human and I hope you continue to create these valuable videos that inspire the rest of us. Always so classy! 🤍
That’s very sweet of you to say Ania! Thanks for watching x
You don't have to explain yourself Kirsty. There will always be idiots hating and being negative for the sake of it.
Keep up the good work!
Very true, especially online. Thanks for watching! X
Haters gonna hate. Keep doing what you’re doing!! Informative and inspirational. Thank you!
I will say though- I got a bidet from Amazon for $60 US and it was easy to install and life changing!
Bathrooms in the U.K. are generally so incredibly small, they’re just not viable for most people here without doing major building work and changing room sizes. They’re also quite unpopular here, I remember seeing them in large houses in the 80s but not really since.
Very true! To be honest I have a reasonably easy ride in comparison to some. My strangest trolls if you will seem to be old ladies, it’s so odd. I have to remind myself they are likely someone’s bored grandma and not to bite back too hard 😉 xx
@@KirstyKirby the one I got at Amazon installs right on my toilet (it’s not a separate throne! Haha). I’m sure the person giving you hell about finding a bidet “in the world” 🙄 was just trolling you. But they really do make portable bidets now that do a great job. That said, I still use TP- but not as much.
@@adenafritz9547 highly likely. It gave me a really good laugh though so I’m glad they did 😂😂😂
Hope you and your family are doing well after Covid. I really enjoyed your video! :) I really liked how you deconstructed some of the comments you received and I couldn't agree more. It's all about balance. Sure, there are always people that live an extreme lifestyle and are perfectly happy about it. But I don't think that's the way everybody has to live. I started a low buy year some days ago (being inspired by RUclips and also your videos!) and hope to see more new videos from you soon! Greetings from Germany :)
Yes we are all fine now thank you 😊
For me there’s a balance to be made, I’m frugal with some things and perhaps somewhat extravagant with others. Since I’ve been looking at quality vs quantity, I’m probably willing to spend more per item previously, but because I don’t shop regularly ultimately I still save money. The no buy was just incredibly useful not only as a way to save more money, but to identify some of those shopping habits that were not serving me.
Good luck with your no buy! It gets easier as you go along. Xx
Thanks so much for all u do, I love ur advice, I’m doing the minimalistic approach slowly lol
Thank you so much for watching! Slow and steady still gets there. I don’t consider myself a minimalist (I’m sure they would have plenty to say about my wardrobe 🤦♀️😂) but there’s some great lessons in the principles. No one needs a house full of stuff they never use for example, it’s silly. My house stays so tidy since I started donating things I don’t use - I’m no fan of tidying so that’s been a massive benefit lol x
2nd video watching.! thanks! I am in the US living with disability benefits. My first thought was, yes, I am doing this no buy or low buy all my life! Then I thought no--there are still things I buy I really do not need. I think I will try to cut my expenses more while increasing my quality of life. I do not have a green thumb at all!
Hi Carissa, you are probably doing better than most! I don't necessarily advocate for buying as little as possible at all costs, more to encourage others (and myself) to ask if whatever I'm buying will bring real value, if not leave it in the shop :) xx
You are a complete class act! So awful that you received negative comments as you described. Such a gracious presentation. FYI I also did a no buy in 2018 to get me off the consumerism train. And now because I am saving so much money, I can I donate regularly to charitable organizations. Regarding the economy, we need to move to a de growth economy. The economy will not collapse as people will continue to buy services and preloved goods. People need to consume but we need to consume responsibly. Thanks so much for what you do! 💚💚💚
Aww bless you - I think I probably get off more lightly than an awful lot of people on RUclips. I only had a handful of truly nasty comments thankfully.
Well done on your no buy, it is staggering how much it can highlight your shopping habits and help save a small fortune at times. Those lessons have really stayed with me since x
You've got to love a 'holier than thou' RUclips commenter. I'm not doing a no buy or low buy but I am mindful about what I spend, I stopped shopping online in 2020 and will continue to support bricks and mortar stores of all sizes. I read somewhere early pandemic that no country has ever improved the health of its citizens by making itself poorer - very true. In my opinion the response to the pandemic was totally disproportionate to the actual situation.
Absolutely! There’s so many wider health impacts of people becoming poorer, it impacts diet, sleep, lifestyle etc. Coming from a low socioeconomic group was shown to be associated for poorer outcomes for Covid too. I know what you mean, I’ve been very careful about sharing things related to the pandemic as it’s become so polarising, but even back in late 2020 I was saying to friends - of course I don’t want anyone to die if we can avoid it, but who is going to pay for all this? We are in war time level debt and our children’s children will still be paying for all this. So many poor decisions have been made and the U.K. are still spending millions on Covid ‘messaging’, taxpayers money I might add. I want to put my head in my hands so often.
Great video & very inspiring✨Those comments you got were🙄🤣Dont buy any groceries?? Do they think everyone should have their own chickens, veg patch & cows in the back garden🤣
Honestly I would LOVE to live rurally, get most of my veggies from my own land, have a few chickens - I’m short of a few million for the land here in Yorkshire though 😂
Exactly! You handled those comments very well. I just subscribed😀New to your channel and love your content
@@RC_17 so pleased to have you! X
I think a no buy for a whole year is really amazing. I think I don’t buy much but if I added the few drugstore makeup products, thrift clothes etc it wouldn’t be huge by any means but it is definitely some money. I think you did a wonderful job. I agree that hard times may be coming and we all may learn no buy with no choice. Edit again. I don’t believe the comments that for years and years they haven’t bought anything. I clean houses and I haven’t seen one that wasn’t crammed with stuff. No way!
Thanks for watching Denise! Yes I’m really quite worried about what’s coming, we will all be ok I’m sure, but I think it’s going to be a bumpy and unpleasant ride.
I enjoyed your video, I am trying to get to the point of a no-buy-month and but something always comes up before I make the solid 30 days. But, I'll keep trying. Thanks
Even a few weeks is better than some can manage, don’t be too hard on yourself. Good luck 😊
That is so true - its easy to spend about $100 on plants/fertilizer/soil etc. for my vegetable garden and I doubt I get the return in produce LOL - you just have to do it because you enjoy it and unless you really are a green thumb, it probably isn't realistic to think you can fully sustain your family on veg from your garden. My peppers never turn out and neither do the carrots or corn or broccoli. Tomatoes and zucchini are about the only vegs I can grow and I live in CA which is considered ideal weather for crops. LOL. And besides that, there is only so much zucchini my family will eat before they rebel - even when I try to slip it in as zucchini bread.
Sooo easy to spend on gardening, plants are just lovely and it’s so satisfying getting things to grow, but it flowers or vegetables. But rarely is it ever free! I’m not too bad on some flowers now, but like you some of my veggie experiments haven’t exactly worked 😂 Omg you are so right about getting bored of certain produce. Love the image of stealth zucchini hiding! 😉
When people say "thats not balanced" they are operating under the assumption that how they live is right and balanced. But that really depends on your own perspective which is formed by your past and what you see in your immediate surroundings. So what might seem balanced to them will be super strict to one person and wasteful spending to another.
I love doing no spend months. It just really helps me focus on our family goals and being able to help family and friends when a need rises.
I love that, you are absolutely right. We all judge everything against what we feel is ‘normal’ when really normal doesn’t particularly exist.
Me too, I had a no spend month in February, and almost one in March (bought garden plants in the last two days of the month so I guess I can’t count that). It really makes you realise how absentmindedly we can shop if we allow it, and how often that thing you thought you wanted falls from your wish list with just a little time.
Hi Kirsty! I've only been following your channel for a few months ... from the point of view of an impulsive consumer, often influenced in purchases by emotions or other people, I think it would take more channels like this, which will bring you back down to earth, to what is really important in life ... indeed, I would be curious to know if there are youtube channels that have inspired you in your process ... love ... Lucia
You’re absolutely right, I mentioned the emotional aspect of spending in my no buy year video, also social media really influences us when you see others wearing certain items and so on.
I don’t really watch a lot of channels related to my content mainly as I really try to not be influenced or create similar content (although I’m sure others do similar things). I’ll see if I can think about what influenced me on my journey and then share that in the future.
Ignore all the negative Nellie's. You are an inspiration XXX 🤗
That’s incredibly kind of you to say Elizabeth 😘
any garden centers that you recommend in the north of the UK? I'd love some tips for people who are struggling financially, it'd be extremely helpful thank you in advance. what I personally would love to see more is also just tips on finances in general. It sounds like most negative people are Americans who know nothing but the huge houses and gardens and everything USA related. Hope youre doing well post covid!
Some of the most beautiful ones are pricey 🥴 To be honest though I’ve purchased great plants from places like B&Q and Homebase, they seem to be nice quality and almost everything I’ve purchased over the years has grown well from there (the only ones that haven’t have been when I’ve been quite inexperienced) They often have a few clearance bits really cheap but you have to drop on and sometimes they’re in clearance as they’re a bit sorry for themselves and you can’t always rescue them. My mum managed to find some nice spring baskets full of violas and pansies from Home Bargains for only £2.99 so that might be worth a look. I’ve also started getting into planting bulbs, it can be quite inexpensive and if you choose perennials over annuals then potentially you have them for years.
I’ll keep the videos coming, I think it’s really sad we aren’t taught more about finances in school etc, it would be so much more valuable than algebra! 😉
Yes I do find a some comments seem to come from the older generation who seem to think sprawling gardens for self sufficiency is normal. Interestingly a lot of my viewers are in the US.
Yes we are all fine now thank you. 😊 xx
@@KirstyKirby Thank you so much for your helpful reply I never thought of checking these places so ill have a look thank you.
algebra is awful but finances would definitely be hard too but at least more useful yes, thank you for your hard work on those videos, its extremely appreciated.
that makes sense yes and I'M glad you're all well :D
I would be annoyed so much by some comments, kudos to you for answering them so classy! I believe such a challenge requires self-reflection and one has to know and understand themselves in order to draw the lines of what a no-buy would include. I, personally, as a very introverted person, would be absolutely fine with nature, parks, library, walks in the city for fun/recreation but someone on the far side of extroversion may require more socialising and perhaps could swap eating out for potlucks and bbq with their friends. Even if someone pushes themselves a little means something, money- and mindset-wise!
I guess to a certain extent it comes with the territory unfortunately. Its sad people couldn't see I was coming from a positive place, but I guess you can't please everyone all the time. Yes I agree, as I've gotten older I'm more than content with reading a book, pottering in the garden, spending time in nature, going for a run etc, so I'm certain this impacts on my ability to save. x
Just found your channel, thanks for sharing your experience.I know everyone is entitled to their opinions and mine is, please ignore the negative and nonsense comments. Keep the good work!
Thank you so much for watching Carolina! 😘
This video gives us such a nice and smart advices, & inspiration.. Thank you for sharing your journey of life improvement 🙏🏼❤️💖
Thanks for watching Rumiko! X
Hysterical bidet thoughts!
I think some people got too caught up in their interpretation of a no buy rather than the concept - it did make me laugh though!
Stumbled upon this video and watched your NoBuy Video as well. Starting today, going to try to take it 1 month at a time and reassess how it makes me feel.
Hope to get as low buy/nobuy till end of this year.
That’s great Rohan! I don’t recommend it as a permanent lifestyle but I found great benefits from doing it for a year and not just the extra savings - good luck!
@@KirstyKirby yes. I am open to transitioning to a low spend lifestyle, cause I know I'm overspending. Unused subscriptions and stuff. A detox will help me I think
@@rohansamal I found it to be a great catalyst to overhauling my habits and can genuinely say I’ve not returned to any wasteful habits.
@@rohansamal you done it?
I really enjoy your videos. You've really helped me and you are my favourite low/no buy youtuber :). I would only say.... don't argue with idiots because noone wins. If they don't get it. They can go find something they do get. Periodt.
Awww thank you Zara! You are right, it’s pointless. I’ve tried to engage often just to clarify points, but often people want to drag you into arguments and start hurling insults. I need to perhaps be more selective with whom I reply to moving forward xx
Im late to this. Im researching a no year spend as gosh, isnt everything tight now! 100% get the make up thing though. Aside from mascaras i havent brought make up for years 💀💀 i dont care about their consumerism expiation dates, as long as my skin doesnt break out and im careful round my lips and eyes. I also gave a lot away to my sisters and to shelters!
Also, very very much agree that many of us dont live like this regularly. I horrribly impulse buy and over spend. My husband does amazing and barely spends anything. I personally need to tightly rein it in!
It’s so challenging now, I’m very fortunate in my current job and yet I still think twice about turning the heating on early and so on - don’t get my started on the food increases! It’s almost like people end up on a no but not through choice but necessity now 😢
Thank you for this video!
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching x
So funny my stock of makeup and skincare will last me 2 years minimum. I tried selling some in EBay but after some unpleasant encounters I decided to use it all myself. I did have time of no / less money in my life after my school just had part time jobs. Thankfully I had a garden and know a bid of eatable plants so I got around. A real no buy does not exist. If you have a property you have to pay fees you don’t need power but you need wood and it is not free.
Stay healthy and save and I enjoyed you video pretty much
I know those unpleasant encounters well. I used to sell clothing on eBay, and still do from time to time, but sometimes it’s just not worth it. Shame really as it used to be great but too many people know how to cheat the platform.
I do a no buy month 3x's a year .....
Oh how I would love to try a no buy year❣️
The look on my husband's face when I mentioned it when I watched one of your previous videos 😳
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😂😂😂 To be fair a no buy year is pretty extreme even by my standards lol. I love to do little no buy months too, it can keep you on track and really help focus on if you need whatever thing you might be considering purchasing. Can be really helpful - thanks so much for watching my videos x
Well done ❤️🇦🇺
It's about thinking before spending.
Agree - that’s what I promote here on my channel - mindful spending.
My no buy is going only so-so right now. I'm not ovedbuying a lot of stuff, but travel and experiences (which I usually don't have problems with) are stacking up. Wondering if this is my new normal or just the post covid pile up
Bless you, I can sort of understand what you mean. Since I’ve recovered from Covid it’s taken away a certain level of fear I had and I want to get out and about all the time after being at home for so long! Perhaps allow yourself a window of simply enjoying yourself, then set a monthly budget for travel etc. Xx
We just have bidets you install below the toilet seat. That’s maybe what they meant. I still use tp, just a looot less btw. So it doesn’t really solve purchasing a consumable so much as it makes it nicer and use less tp
@@flooshoomoo7104 agree - I don’t think it removes 🧻 in most peoples houses completely. In the U.K. our homes are really very small in comparison to large parts of the world - most bathrooms are around 6ft by 6ft in most new build homes, you simply can’t even fit a bidet in. They’re not all that popular here, yes there’s the fancy toilets, but that would mean a refit - which would be a bit daft to do just to save on loo roll. I think ROI wouldn’t make sense. The whole thing made me laugh though so it’s all good 😊
I like your videos very much😊
Thanks Sarah! X
And if you go to the place with the bidet, you could also put a tiny basket on your bike so that you'd also take some dirty laundry with you to wash them there. Also, if they have a fridge, make a sandwich, as well! The answers are simple, we are the ones complicating things 😜
Ha ha if only we could just use everyone else’s stuff we’d all be rich 😉😂
@@KirstyKirby exactly 😂
Love your videos❤
Thank you so much!
I am preparing myself for a No-Buy month, come May (baby steps). I am very much addicted to shopping at thrift stores...So. Any suggestions on what to do to get my mind away from thinking of shopping? Thanks!
Have you seen my ‘how to survive a no buy’ video? There might be a few tips in there that might help x
Internet comments are sometimes like the proverbial monkeys at typewriters who eventually type every conceivable thing
Ha ha you’re probably right there. I left the plain nasty ones out too, the Internet can be a rather strange place at times!
I'm doing a No Buy this year on my channel and I get similar comments. I say to a lot of people who ask me for help that it's called a No - Buy Not a No Spend - because you aren't going to buy things you 'want' but focusing on the needs, you do need to pay the bills and spend money to keep yourself safe etc. I also hate it when your sharing stuff personally and people tell you how it is I think ok - you don't live here - you don't get a vote LOL
Good luck with your no buy year 😊
@@KirstyKirby Thanks going well so far haven't bought anything that wasn't allowed - have so much skin care and makeup to use which I don't use a lot anyway and haven't bought any in the last 2 yrs so going to be pretty easy I think ...
@@FrugalFunMum I think easy depends on how many ‘allowed’ things people have. Whilst I always think the ‘rules’ are dependent on individual circumstances, some peoples rules are quite lax and include holidays, day trips and takeaways 😂
Either way it’s a good thing to do to address spending habits. Hope it works out well for you for the remainder of the year.
You crack me up 😂
Glad to be of service 😉😂 x
LMFAO. This hilarious because I've been doing this MY ENTIRE LIFE. When you live in POVERTY, you have no choice, but not to buy anything. It has taught me many valuable lessons though. It's taught me not to want AT ALL. I live on 400 dollars A MONTH. That's it. I get 900 in total for the entire month from disability and then I pay rent and bills and I'm left with 400 for the entire month and that goes to things like body wash, shampoo, conditioner, cleaning supplies, toilet paper.... Things of that nature. I've basically been living this way my whole life since birth. I grew up poor and the cycle just continued through my adult life. So yeah. This is easy when you DON'T HAVE A CHOICE. Be grateful that you can afford to live this way BY CHOICE. That shows that you actually have money to spend! How fortunate you must be to not live in POVERTY that you have a choice to control how your money is used. Must be a real blessing to be able to have to figure out how to control your wanting nature! When you live in POVERTY, THERE IS NO MONEY TO SPEND AND THERE'S NO MONEY TO SAVE!!! And prices just keep rising from the greedy corporations all around us. Everyone wants to get rich quick. But how lucky some must be to be able to choose not to spend their money! This is only doable for people who DON'T live in poverty. Us poor people have been putting out wants on hold for most of our lives. Interesting how people with cash are choosing this life style! Imagine having money to be able to control like this. 😂😂😂 Can't believe that it took a whole pandemic for people to change their wanting behaviors when us poor people have been putting our wants on hold for almost our entire lives. You didn't figure out any secret or magic formula. I've lived this way for 36 yrs. There is no wanting. Wanting things is something that I just literally CANNOT afford. And saving is also impossible. I live on the bare minimum. Wants are non existent and survival is necessary. Very depressing life, but that's how I grew up and continued on.
Please explain to me where at ANY POINT I was ungrateful? Or suggested that people who are only just making ends meet is because they buy too much? I did not. Ever. Nor would I. I also didn’t explain what income I had left after paying basic bills, $400 is a lot to spend a month on toilet paper and body wash.
Can you not appreciate that we live in a society where many spend more than they earn and we have debt burdens higher than ever before - could you not take a moment to understand that I’m promoting that you can make a different choice? You don’t have to keep up with the Jones’s and you can utilise what funds you do have in better ways. I hardly think that’s a bad thing, but clearly you had decided I was a laughing stock without even thinking at all.
I see you have edited to add further insults. Where exactly did I suggest it was a secret, or magic? Everyone knows you need to spend less than you earn, your sarcasm and nastiness is misplaced. At no point did I ever pass judgement or comment on those who live in poverty. I have nothing but consideration for those people, how could I donate to such causes without saving money and not spending it on unnecessary items. You clearly decided I’m just a bad person through a lens of your situation which I appreciate is hard - but I haven’t done you wrong and this is completely unnecessary and RUDE.
As it happens after redundancy and the industry I was in shrinking considerably post covid I had to take a job that doesn’t even cover my basic bills. Much of my other expenses come out of my savings so you are actually better off than myself month to month right now.