A Song For My Ex

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  • Опубликовано: 10 янв 2023
  • We ended quite a while ago
    We said that we’d be friends
    Continued hugging, kissing, sleeping
    Together in the same bed
    You said that you’re not into commitment
    Or relationships
    But you enjoyed having those moments with me
    Without the consequences
    I tried forgetting the feelings
    That I still had for you
    Went out on dates and met new people
    But I’d always be thinking of you
    You got jealous and possessif
    Because you were scared to lose
    The things that you could have with me
    If I found someone new
    I finally let you go
    Wasn’t easy
    But deep down I know
    That this is the only way I can move on
    Maybe one day, I’ll find someone
    Who truly wants me, really loves me
    And would never want to let me go
    Somebody who doesn’t only like the idea of me
    I’m not saying I was perfect
    I did and said many things wrong
    But I don’t know why I stayed by your side
    Wishing you’d want me for so long
    I got angry and frustrated
    Got sad and I got mean
    But we were never really friends
    You just didn’t want to lose me
    Chorus
    You left me once
    You left me twice
    Yet for some reason
    I stayed by your side
    I would’ve then
    But I wouldn’t now
    Let you leave me again
    And break my heart a third time
    Chorus
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Комментарии • 178

  • @paolazulli4168
    @paolazulli4168 Год назад +102

    I feel like you're a person who actually understand how I feel. It feels like everybody leaves us because we are "too much" we have intense feelings and no one could ever understand them, so they leave. And all that remains everytime someone is gone, are the scars and traumas. I hope one day we'll find somebody who will understand our feelings and stay instead of leaving us with more traumas.... I hope you are well. I always loved your songs and I kinda love you even though we never met and you live in another continent... hope you feel like you're not alone with this message. I love you. You are worth it.

    • @totallynotacultleader
      @totallynotacultleader Год назад +10

      This comment is so real. I hope you find a love like that one day

    • @miahvg85
      @miahvg85 Год назад +1

      @paolazulli4168 i know exactly how you feel.. i just want to be with someone who thinks like you.

  • @Miss_Enigma
    @Miss_Enigma Год назад +102

    I can’t even begin to express how much I love this song. Seeing you sit in contemplation with your emotions in a dark room *without* your ukulele was strange at first. But as the song went on, I saw how well your body language matched the tone of your voice and your overall thoughts toward your ex-lover. The single ray of light illuminating the dark room towards the end was the cherry on top. I take it as a sign of hope that you will continue to carry on on your path of acceptance. Happy new year, Abbey, and may the next person you love be as sweet and wonderful as you ❤️

    • @konstantinvanoyan4110
      @konstantinvanoyan4110 Год назад

      Как хорошо сказано, вряд-ли бы я смог лучше. Так что лишь соглашусь с каждым словом и присоединюсь к пожеланиям:)
      Исполнение реально потрясающее и эмоциональное. Продолжайте и дальше радовать нас своим творчеством.
      P. S. Да - пишу на русском, а не английском языке. И да - я не столь хорош в этом, чтобы ответить на том же языке без помощи переводчика, которым сложновато пользоваться на моём телефоне. Так что прошу простить и понять 🙄

  • @BeatrizMartins-hz7vm
    @BeatrizMartins-hz7vm Год назад +77

    your songs have calmed me so many times when i was crying. Thank you abbey

  • @daviemanuel688
    @daviemanuel688 Год назад +180

    Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

    • @DailamiPuang
      @DailamiPuang Год назад

      amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

    • @daviemanuel688
      @daviemanuel688 Год назад

      @@DailamiPuang well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @DailamiPuang
      @DailamiPuang Год назад

      @@daviemanuel688 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @daviemanuel688
      @daviemanuel688 Год назад

      @@DailamiPuang her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @daviemanuel688
      @daviemanuel688 Год назад

      you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

  • @totallynotacultleader
    @totallynotacultleader Год назад +17

    It's crazy how these are so close to the exact feelings I have about my ex. The chorus especially really resonates, lately I've been hoping and putting faith in that one day I might find someone who really does actually love me and does not want to lose me. I've been recognizing how my needs were not met and I was never prioritized. I also acknowledge my imperfections and how I "did and said many things wrong", and how I want to be better for the next person. I think I am finally moving on and learning from the experience.
    Still, I had a really hard day today for some reason. It's been a a year and a half, and I'm still healing. Basically, I'm thankful this song found me tonight, so thank you.

    • @kiwimiwi5452
      @kiwimiwi5452 Год назад +1

      I really hope you'll find the person that matches you.
      someone to spend time with in a way both of you can enjoy, someone that gets you, somebody that doesn't complete you, but is an extension of you.
      and I hope you will be to that person what that person is to you.
      I don't know what happened in your past relationship, but I know it seems to still be hurting, all that time later.
      And I know you deserve a beautiful relationship that fullfills both of your needs.
      and if all that doesn't work out, you may end up realizing that this other person you needed was also you.

  • @Just_Froggie
    @Just_Froggie Год назад +23

    I writing this comment while listening this song and wow. Abbey this is what I needed today. My previous relationships wasnt good but this song really gave me power. Thank u for art that u making.

  • @pedrtuty
    @pedrtuty Год назад +22

    you deserve so much more recognition :(

  • @catherinemylett7536
    @catherinemylett7536 Год назад +5

    I just broke up with my partner of 3 years. Thank you for this song.

  • @mailinsz
    @mailinsz Год назад +6

    This is exactly what I've been going through the past two years. Thank you for such a beautiful song.

  • @adriellyvitoria2816
    @adriellyvitoria2816 Год назад +7

    Mano, a voz dela >>>>
    Love u, girl ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @liamr3362
    @liamr3362 Год назад +3

    I relate to this song, but not as exes but as friends. When I went to college I had no one. I was alone. But then I met my friend, we had the same interests, same beliefs, same ideas, etc. We shared our trauma with each other.
    But then he put my aside when he got into a relationship with someone that I introduced to him. Once I came back from Thanksgiving break we talked at most 3 times before winter break (all over text). We only hung out once and his boyfriend was with us.
    I told him I wasn't returning to college for at least second semester, which was the only reason we hung out. We hung out as a going away thing. Yet all we did was what his boyfriend wanted to do. I was just sitting there doing nothing while they were talking. Whenever I joined in it was nothing but awkwardness or his boyfriend insulting/judging me. But I guess from the outside it was probably seen as just jokes.
    My friend and I had planned to move in together during fall for college. But the first text after about two weeks of not talking that I got from him after I left was telling me that he was going to move in with his boyfriend, but that I could always come over to visit. Now he just keeps coming back into my life and then leaving again. He will randomly message me, but then leave again. What is funny is seeing how much someone can just leave and not care. Which sucks, because he was my one only actual friend there, I'm not going to move in somewhere that I won't know that person. I already had a roommate and I hated it, because we were just too different and she made a threat to me instead of simply talking it out.
    I regret introducing him to his boyfriend. I miss the time we had. I miss being friends, talking, and hanging out. It isn't the same anymore. He pushed me aside the moment his boyfriend stepped in. It is clear that his boyfriend doesn't like me. So I'm just stuck. I don't have any actual friends who are there for me, yes I have some people who would be considered my friends. But we don't hang out or talk when something is wrong, we are there for each other (or at least me, I'm the therapist friend).
    I just have to accept that no one will ever be my friend or care that much about me. No matter how much I care and want to help them, they will just end up leaving me. So I guess I will just give up on friendships. It isn't like they are that important right?

  • @thatalienfreak
    @thatalienfreak Год назад +2

    this made me emotional as all your songs do. But this one hit close to home

  • @doublewhopper8494
    @doublewhopper8494 Год назад +1

    I am Angry when your sad , Sad when your sad , Happy when your sad because we get to hear your all emotional music we love . Always that voice amazing... ❤️U

  • @gabrielanoemicalderon6960
    @gabrielanoemicalderon6960 Год назад +5

    thank you for making music, you are art

  • @ssevendaysrain
    @ssevendaysrain Год назад +3

    It's so sensual, such deep words... It's so like me, I would have burst into tears if I had heard this song a little earlier. If I were writing about my ex, it would sound similar. Thanks for this song ♥

  • @imnotwill_r3252
    @imnotwill_r3252 Год назад +2

    Abbey…te cuento que justo hoy fue un día de esos en donde pensaba en mi ex, de hecho soñé que nos casábamos…nada, solo un poco de melancolía quise compartir contigo que me acompañas en estos días. Cariños desde 🇨🇱 como siempre.

  • @orel8680
    @orel8680 Год назад +5

    I love you so much❤, keep making music! You’re the reason I started to learn ukulele! Love you!

  • @irisvilaa
    @irisvilaa Год назад +1

    perfect timing oh dear... i was crying about my recent breakup with the person i love so much but had to let it all go

  • @leachevrier4358
    @leachevrier4358 Год назад +4

    fell on this by accident and i just want to tell you that is exactly what i needed to hear tonight. you have a real talent like really!

  • @damnbro3386
    @damnbro3386 Год назад

    been listening to this everyday for 6 days since it came out. when i saw that this song was out i didnt think much of it and i knew you made great songs but when i listened to it i remembered everything that happened between me and the person i was with and i ended up just sitting down in my chair listening to this. knowing that they knew what they were doing but still made me feel like i was safe and loved. but they werent into me, only the thought of being with me.

  • @OPTCG_HUNTER
    @OPTCG_HUNTER Год назад +7

    HEYYYY ABBBEEEYYY, So happy to hear another song with that beautiful voice of yours!

  • @ur_local_astronaut
    @ur_local_astronaut Год назад +5

    wow, this is beautiful!! i will always love your music. i can hear the pain/love in your voice 🫶🏻

  • @B0X_B0Y
    @B0X_B0Y Год назад +7

    Abbey, you obviously don’t know me but I’ve been following your journey for quite awhile now and I just want you to know that I am so so proud of you and everything you’ve become, the challenges and mental mountains that you have had to climb are some of the toughest out there, and as I grow you are one of my biggest role models, you helped me all the way through secondary school and you continue to help me through college, thank you so so much my lovely, I just hope you have someone who inspires you as much as you do for me, i know you was probably really anxious releasing this song in particular and I promise you it’s going to be okay, it might not feel like it but it truly will be just hang in there, just keep using music as a release for all that mental strain.

  • @Sketchymisty
    @Sketchymisty Год назад +1

    My boyfriend left me today and this really help.. I needed to hear this, thank you, this was really beautiful...

  • @biancawetherington6777
    @biancawetherington6777 Год назад +3

    Your music has comfort me more times thst I can count and has also helped me during really bad relationships so thank you for you're art music and letting us in on also your hurt and feeling better bc it helps us as it helps you too so thank you so much and please keep being you and doing you 😊

  • @avarich2222
    @avarich2222 Год назад +2

    Hey Abbey! You are the reason why my boyfriend and I of almost 3 years on February 20th got together. We bonded over your music. Thank you.

  • @TheCreepyLantern
    @TheCreepyLantern Год назад +1

    Beautiful work!!

  • @shugo5130
    @shugo5130 Год назад +6

    What a coincidence, we love to see you on a day that our hearts are filled with gloom, hope you get well soon! We’ll all get through it together.

  • @libertyjones1451
    @libertyjones1451 Год назад +1

    Another smash hit from angelic Abbey. ❤️ U always dear.

  • @metamorchoses
    @metamorchoses Год назад +1

    After falling for *the closeted bi girl*, i feel you... Remember this has teached you to stand for yourself, set boundaries, and say out loud : i deserve to be loved, wanted, and cherished. And you do ✨ Take this moment as a chance to start loving yourself...

  • @GlamGoreChaosQueen
    @GlamGoreChaosQueen Год назад +2

    Oh I love this. I love all of your music, and this one is interesting because it's so different from the rest of your songs. A totally different sound. It's cool to watch people evolve as artists over time.

  • @centipede.k33f
    @centipede.k33f Год назад +1

    This happened to me too, but it took me three times to learn my lesson, can't break my heart for the fourth time I guess :/

  • @megtheimp7000
    @megtheimp7000 Год назад

    Gods, it's perfect. Every song fits. Had been with my ex almost 4 years and this song fits perfectly where my heart is supposed to be whole.

  • @sotz-sideko4772
    @sotz-sideko4772 Год назад +1

    Thanks you for express those feeling in a singing way, Today even after i started to grew up and became more mature, i realise there certains things that could've been done, to make this past brighten, even tho i wasn't the only one who needed to work on myself, today i'm watching our shadow, my memories start becoming unrelatable, cause i don't know how this person grew up and i don't like the idea of liking a person the way she were, i liked the idea to love her every day while she was blooming.

  • @shaynabreeden6800
    @shaynabreeden6800 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this. Your songs hit me so hard in my emotions. I've experienced the very same thing. The fact that you can put it into a song and share it with others is quite amazing. I know you've made alot of people not feel alone with your music. I love you and your music. Please keep going and sharing your songs.

  • @mysticmack6323
    @mysticmack6323 Год назад +1

    Your music is so powerful I feel my brain go still when I listen

  • @thenakedlady2293
    @thenakedlady2293 Год назад

    its really great that you try to feel your emotions. Its the only way to heal

  • @jaquepoeta5595
    @jaquepoeta5595 Год назад

    Voz linda! Brasil te ouve e se encanta! 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

  • @bford3854
    @bford3854 Год назад +1

    this is so beautiful

  • @MandyLucky0
    @MandyLucky0 Год назад

    Your voice is so calming, i loved the song, very touching

  • @flocks3854
    @flocks3854 Год назад +3

    It has been a while and what a coincidence, this is a signal
    I dont want to lose me again
    Thank u Abbey ♡

  • @cholburap
    @cholburap Год назад +1

    Foda bro, salve do brasil 🤪🙋‍♂️😁

  • @placo999
    @placo999 Год назад

    I feel your pain from here. Keep up the good work.

  • @sncedits19
    @sncedits19 Год назад

    right now im on a good relantionship and this song hits hard when i remember what my other ex did to me. good job abbey, i love u

  • @taraelise1805
    @taraelise1805 Год назад +1

    this is absolutely stunning, wow

  • @ilaydasenocak5239
    @ilaydasenocak5239 Год назад +3

    so good abby ♥️♥️

  • @jeliannysmalpica2185
    @jeliannysmalpica2185 Год назад

    Mn que som bonito muito bonito juro kakkakaka gostei agora vou botar na playlist para escutar todo dia

  • @guiguifaitlcon2598
    @guiguifaitlcon2598 Год назад +1

    Marvelous Abbey, like always, really touching

  • @p.fgar_
    @p.fgar_ Год назад +1

    This is pure beauty, as always. I'm so proud of you Abbey, I know it's really hard, I've been following your story since I watch your live videos on instagram, and your strength is truly incredible. The situations you had to go through are really awful, but I deeply believe this is the end of the pain, I know you'll be ok, trust me :)) I send you lots of hugs and love💖💖💖

  • @yoksnod
    @yoksnod Год назад +2

    those lyrics. those vocals. ugh. 💚
    i sure hope you can release more music this year. BIG fan of the bathtub sessions and everybody leaves.
    in the meantime i'll look forward to more of you on youtube.

  • @c0kec0bain
    @c0kec0bain Год назад +1

    i wish you would upload all your songs to spotify

  • @alexwinchester6584
    @alexwinchester6584 Год назад +1

    You are so strong, thank for this song. You deserve so much better. I feel your pain. And wish you only great things. Thank you for this masterpiece. I believe you are a great person, truly wonderful and exceptional.

  • @avenfae
    @avenfae Год назад +1

    I love your music, such raw emotions

  • @badkarmasucks
    @badkarmasucks Год назад +2

    Absolutely Stunning as always :)

  • @brianluhm4501
    @brianluhm4501 Год назад +1

    Gorgeous, as always.

  • @maeghanrose255
    @maeghanrose255 10 месяцев назад

    I cant even begin to explain how amazing yet heartwrenching it feels to know I am not the only person who feels this exact way. I am currently in a situation that is whole heartedly explained by every word in this song. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @mohamedbk03
    @mohamedbk03 Год назад +1

    I freaking love u.. u always touch my heart with your songs and your lovely voice

  • @blxckninjx
    @blxckninjx Год назад +2

    your voice and your songs sound and feel so genuine and magical 💖 they always move something inside of me 🌱
    this sounds weird but what i'm trying to say is that your songs are great and so are you and i hope you haave a great life honestly 🌞

  • @manonrosano7116
    @manonrosano7116 Год назад

    I just can’t understand how you’re always so right
    This is the exact situation I had with my ex
    Thank you for putting words and melody on our feelings ❤

  • @wallflower_365
    @wallflower_365 Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, getting over someone like that is never easy, stay strong Abbey

  • @nwocheckers
    @nwocheckers Год назад +2

    i know its hard to let go im proud of you❤️

  • @bford3854
    @bford3854 Год назад

    pleasee keep uploading I need ur music n my life again

  • @nataliewallace8250
    @nataliewallace8250 Год назад

    How are you not in the charts. I love your voice ❤

  • @elcholo4445
    @elcholo4445 Год назад

    While looking for a new kind of music, I found you. I never thought I'd be addicted to your covers, and I really love this one (Listened to it like 20 times lol). I wish you the best ❤

  • @harpeowl
    @harpeowl Год назад

    I have chills I love this so much

  • @joshuasartain2991
    @joshuasartain2991 Год назад

    Your music is amazing

  • @jaysondean9429
    @jaysondean9429 Год назад +1

    I've not seen you or heard your music in ages! We used to chat in your live streams, I'm glad to see you're still around! Stay strong, and keep going, you got this Abbey

  • @hallway2104
    @hallway2104 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️ always get chills listen to you, keep doing you and stay safe and healthy! ❤️

  • @mariajosehenao5705
    @mariajosehenao5705 Год назад +1

    Hey, I admire you a lot, you're very strong, and your music makes me forget loneliness.

  • @doublewhopper8494
    @doublewhopper8494 Год назад +1

    You have one million people fall for you when you put up a video , that's 1 million hugs everytime you sing ..... 😭

  • @juliegamichou8617
    @juliegamichou8617 Год назад

    Omg another song to cry on thx u abbey

  • @BubblegumH3ad
    @BubblegumH3ad Год назад

    i love your music, i love you're back

  • @mothsnail816
    @mothsnail816 Год назад

    Sounds dope 💜

  • @MrsAllieSherman
    @MrsAllieSherman Год назад +1

    so relateable, as always. 🖤

  • @willian7528
    @willian7528 Год назад +1

    My God Abbey, I needed this...

  • @Libby_izzy
    @Libby_izzy Год назад +1

    Abbey your songs are so lovely and your voice is like a delicate pixie. its all so dreamy and perfect.

  • @paulinazeleznik9180
    @paulinazeleznik9180 Год назад

    You are sooo amazing ❤

  • @lAdrianl
    @lAdrianl Год назад +1

    This was so beautiful. Thank you abbey 💜

  • @nick.638
    @nick.638 Год назад +1

    I love this girl's voice 😻

  • @alainawaina
    @alainawaina Год назад +1

    love it

  • @hylderreck1090
    @hylderreck1090 Год назад +1

    All these other lovely people wrote what I feel aswell when I listen to your music, so I guess theres not much left to say beside thank you, truly

  • @kittysmelody
    @kittysmelody Год назад +1

    This hits hard.

  • @alexlistratov
    @alexlistratov Год назад +2

    спасибо за твое творчество.

  • @kaylaleeann8141
    @kaylaleeann8141 Год назад +1

    You are so beautiful and so is your music you deserve the deepest of love and one day it will find you 🖤

  • @raykotyan
    @raykotyan Год назад

    theres nothing that sounds more beautiful than feelings

  • @Haily2151
    @Haily2151 Год назад

    Are you on Spotify? Please posts your songs on there ❤they’re amazing

  • @_kimchiandblueberry_
    @_kimchiandblueberry_ Год назад +2

    Missed your voice…

  • @lili-fe3ew
    @lili-fe3ew Год назад

    I support you I am an Arab, I love your voice don't give up you are not alone you are great and this is what makes the weak people leave you (In other words, he can't bear to stay next to a wonderful person like you, They feel lacking and try to throw their scattered feelings at you and make you feel guilty) You need a great person to be suitable for you because you always deserve the best Abby... I love you ❤️❤️

  • @bubbmorita
    @bubbmorita Год назад

    years can go by and I'll still be in love with your talent 🤍

  • @sheilaselengomez
    @sheilaselengomez Год назад

    lo siento...
    deseo esté súper bien... y que comas muchísisimo y que su corazón se esté sintiendo tranquilo.

  • @Nami20_04
    @Nami20_04 Год назад +1

    I hope you feel even better every day, I love you Abbey 💜

  • @sylwiaagatarita8262
    @sylwiaagatarita8262 Год назад

    Your voice 🥺💗

  • @Shmelovskaya
    @Shmelovskaya Год назад +2

    Я русская, не поняла не одного слова, но ваш голос и музыка, манера песни, мне очень нравится 💗

    • @ssevendaysrain
      @ssevendaysrain Год назад

      Слова тоже шикарные, прогоните их через переводчик, я чуть не плакала, когда читала и слушала

  • @tobithangjam6980
    @tobithangjam6980 Год назад

    Recently broke up with my bf of 7yrs
    And feels like my soul somehow slowly drains from my body
    Everything becomes unreal, tasteless unwavering
    Life rewound and everything's lost and becomes senseless and numb
    What remains is empty
    Like Unwinding this life that has been through a lot
    We sensed every beauty but at the end we lost it somehow
    What remains is this bittersweet memories
    Next day I've been woken up to another incomplete day
    Seems like this is my home spending time in this seclusion
    I've been trapped in this.
    At the end Unlearn the learnt
    Unlove the loved
    That's how the life should be

  • @fanuelmagadan3734
    @fanuelmagadan3734 Год назад

    Omg!✨

  • @ErickRodriguez-qz8ge
    @ErickRodriguez-qz8ge Год назад

    Lately I am adding to your music and I like one more than another because you sing it with all your heart, thanks for existing, you make me very happy, take care of yourself!

  • @stayoutofthecitys
    @stayoutofthecitys Год назад

    Stay . I'm sending you some hugs hope all is well. Never give up , never give in.

  • @ILoveYouAlejandra
    @ILoveYouAlejandra Год назад +1

    Literally Crying Right now...
    This is So Sad..
    I know I did The Woman I Love,,,wrong..
    But I Never Cheated or Used Her🍃 I Should have Always Been There For Her🍃I am So God...
    But You know the Truth of All
    🍃🙏🏼🍃
    I LOVE YOU
    🍃ALEJANDRA PRINCESA🍃

  • @W11t0r1a
    @W11t0r1a Год назад

    i love it

  • @lilsl33py_
    @lilsl33py_ 7 месяцев назад

    I found this video and i feel much things, my new fav singer, you deserve so much more recognition❤❤