Cut her off if she does these during the 'talking stage' of dating

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
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    00:00 - intro
    00:49 - Number 1
    01:30 - Number 2
    02:20 - Number 3
    02:53 - Number 4
    03:28 - Number 5
    04:24 - Number 6
    05:27 - Number 7
    06:37 - Number 8
    07:22 - Number 9
    08:3` - Conclusion

Комментарии • 211

  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Год назад +58

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

    • @zidor
      @zidor Год назад

      Thank you Mom 🙏🏻

    • @cenycompanylimited2740
      @cenycompanylimited2740 Год назад +1

      Thanks

    • @feargodkojo6121
      @feargodkojo6121 Год назад +1

      Noted.
      Your tips are very educative and informative
      I regularly download your videos.
      Super Duper!

  • @FedUpCanuck
    @FedUpCanuck Год назад +165

    Started dating my neighbor. We seemed to be very compatible. But soon found out she would constantly come to my door just if she conviently ran out of something or wanted something fixed. Got tired of being her supermarket or free repairs. Lasted 3 weeks

    • @rosyfx8263
      @rosyfx8263 Год назад +3

      Mmmmm

    • @omoniyiemmanuelseun2286
      @omoniyiemmanuelseun2286 Год назад +16

      She's just using you.

    • @FedUpCanuck
      @FedUpCanuck Год назад +21

      @@omoniyiemmanuelseun2286 exactly right that's why I got rid of her after 3 weeks

    • @franklynojong8729
      @franklynojong8729 Год назад +15

      I’m glad you were smart to notice that right on time . Always put your observing signals on

    • @FedUpCanuck
      @FedUpCanuck Год назад +9

      @@franklynojong8729 i know the signs and I usually give it a months time. Human nature and be observant.

  • @Thulanizar
    @Thulanizar Год назад +33

    Thanks ❤️. I ended my relationship because I wanted to focus on my career. This channel has been adding value even in my season of singleness

  • @kenneycooper6199
    @kenneycooper6199 Год назад +40

    I’m one of those real men who treats and respects a woman and very kind, it’s in my nature. But I’m often looked over or judged and turned down because they think I’m up to something. It’s just me and who I am. Gets frustrating sometimes. Thank you for the video.

    • @ClemDozzy212
      @ClemDozzy212 Год назад +8

      Stop being a nice guy. It's a turn off for women. Jessica has a clip on that

    • @kenneycooper6199
      @kenneycooper6199 Год назад +4

      @@ClemDozzy212 I’ll have to look for it.

    • @kenneycooper6199
      @kenneycooper6199 Год назад +1

      @@vinsteel3342 I agree because from experience, it happened exactly like you said it. These modern women, especially black women don’t have a clue.

    • @mr.fettesq.7705
      @mr.fettesq.7705 Год назад +2

      @@kenneycooper6199 it's a sad truth brother. It's only when she thinks you don't really care that they want u more. If she thinks u have options then she will want to be your main option. Women just love to be treated poorly rather then like a queen

    • @theworldisimmense
      @theworldisimmense Год назад

      @Vin Steel wrong

  • @emmanuelchukwu8331
    @emmanuelchukwu8331 Год назад +7

    Genius, my first date disrespected me so much, it was a quick sign to STOP!👍

  • @kolawolesamsonimoleayo1144
    @kolawolesamsonimoleayo1144 Год назад +3

    Jessica you speak with so much wisdom, am so glue to your channel as you all dish out nuggets that has and is helping my relationship with the opposite sex.

  • @optmangodsway2448
    @optmangodsway2448 Год назад +15

    Number (5). I met this lady in my post graduate class who was exceptionally intelligent, we studied together, we got along so well but she once told me not to call her before 6am, her reason was that, she meditates and plan her day between the hours of 4am to 6am. I respected that alright and kept my own side of the deal until one day I got stranded somewhere at dawn and needed her help that bad, I called her about 5 times continuously but she failed to answer or return the call or txt. When I we met her later and questioned her, she told me she doesn’t compromise her personal standards. I ended the relationship.

  • @darlingtonkabasa4291
    @darlingtonkabasa4291 Год назад +5

    I am sooo grateful Ms. Jessie for all the videos I have so far watched. However, this one is the last nail into the coffin. You just saved a life here. Thank you

  • @Simdope07
    @Simdope07 Год назад +30

    Start every relationship with a new perspective. God it! Thanks ❤

    • @Simdope07
      @Simdope07 Год назад +1

      Start every relationship with a new perspective. Got it! Thanks ❤

  • @richardsiyeni6985
    @richardsiyeni6985 Год назад +6

    I feel like you made this for me. Wow. The universe really is watching out for all of us.

  • @smilyfolk
    @smilyfolk Год назад +10

    Truly great, I am the side effect of your wisdom in a relationship I ended previously. No respect, no gratitude, constantly ignoring me for months and not replying to my text, ever asking for money and only she shared with me are her troubles. She passed through but I kinda regret being 'good' when love isn't being good. She did all sought to end up with me including faking to be in relationship with her one male relative. And living me to go through the pain only to tell me later it was her relative. I have quited today and I accept I can't play the role of God in people's lives

  • @joesillamanrs7189
    @joesillamanrs7189 Год назад +9

    Jess does a great job of breaking these things down

  • @peterhewitson2669
    @peterhewitson2669 Год назад +5

    Hi Jessica, this is the first of your videos I have watched, and really like your clear concise presentation. Thank you for what you do😍

  • @angelbwalyachate
    @angelbwalyachate Год назад +7

    Very important for a relationship 🙏 thanks Jessica

  • @basilreid9924
    @basilreid9924 Год назад +7

    I always enjoy watching your views on relationships thank you so much 😊

  • @thurespottke3795
    @thurespottke3795 Год назад +8

    This is video is like a prayer of mine gone real, been dating a girl for like 6 weeks and everything looked good and we were in this state where we dont know if we are still dating or together. But two weeks ago she started to need like 2 or 3 days to answer and never had time to meet up and she only said she is learning for school as a reason.

  • @princejohn3108
    @princejohn3108 Год назад +2

    You are always on point Jessica. I like the way you see things.

  • @yxngdarich9056
    @yxngdarich9056 Год назад +4

    Thank you Jessica for changing my dating life! You're so cute and gentle ☺️

  • @preciousaweh8521
    @preciousaweh8521 Год назад +6

    I shared this video with my Girlfriend. I assume I won’t have a relationship anymore after this. I feel like I am expending so much energy into this the relationship and I am not getting back the same energy. The relationship feels onesided.

  • @dots560
    @dots560 Год назад +3

    Straight to the point. Thanks for sharing.

  • @deleteexistence6175
    @deleteexistence6175 Год назад +4

    I met a girl last week, bought her lunch and she seemed nice.
    Later on that night she called me with the sniffles begging me for money for 'gambling' 😔

    • @Burrburrcloud
      @Burrburrcloud 8 дней назад

      Did you give her? 😂😂

    • @deleteexistence6175
      @deleteexistence6175 8 дней назад

      @@Burrburrcloud Nah because I knew it was for drugs 🤣

    • @Burrburrcloud
      @Burrburrcloud 8 дней назад

      @@deleteexistence6175 😳 I wouldn't have known and I would've given her! 😥

  • @robertsmith1153
    @robertsmith1153 Год назад +5

    Thank you Jessica you answer all the questions I have in my head about this young lady LOL 💗⚘💗

  • @joebuegar876
    @joebuegar876 Год назад +3

    Thanks for your kindness to Humanity 🙏🙏

  • @stuartwilkie4887
    @stuartwilkie4887 Год назад +3

    Thanks for the video, and for countless others. You struck a chord with me over the stereotyping and trust issues. It's an issue that can branch out into any male vs female interaction. For example, I've had interviews or worked with women who say "I need to verify that" constantly. I think most men instinctively know that women have had past lives and experiences, but if they stereotype you in a bad way, or marginalize you - do as Jessica says, get her gone.

  • @lempiezoangula9552
    @lempiezoangula9552 Год назад +3

    Well said, thanks for opening my eyes🙏

  • @Nwannebuike
    @Nwannebuike Год назад +2

    This episode was very wonderful and guiding. Thanks Jessica.

  • @sparkling_vevo
    @sparkling_vevo Год назад +2

    I don't mind watching ur videos the whole day becos you always spit facts
    You're loved ❤

  • @georgearieldreams-king3186
    @georgearieldreams-king3186 Год назад +1

    You're spot on!!

  • @sagarkhupsare2782
    @sagarkhupsare2782 Год назад

    Hey Jessica,
    I watched a few videos of yours and could relate to each and every vowel and consonant of the scripts. You are awesome…

  • @richardsiyeni6985
    @richardsiyeni6985 Год назад +31

    Oh My God!! You wouldn't believe me if I told you this has been bothering me for days, was so confused, and I've been asking my friends so I could at least see through the situation. Thank you Jessica for making this video. I just literary finished a conversation about this just an hour ago. Thanks again. To be honest, I'm kind of not really a smarty pants when it comes to relationship stuff, and ever since I was introduced to your video by this other friend of mind, I'm getting to be one. Anyways thanks again.

  • @craigkanyemba
    @craigkanyemba Год назад +1

    Jessica, you are becoming the immortal one, plus sound at the back makes everything cooler

  • @franklynojong8729
    @franklynojong8729 Год назад +5

    Thanks Jessica for your valid contents always👏

  • @nocternalogya4440
    @nocternalogya4440 Год назад +3

    Points well articulated...

  • @manyuhahulisani2091
    @manyuhahulisani2091 Год назад +2

    I have a long way to go😢😢 .... its so hard to find someone out here because they’re all taken, mind you I’m still looking for my first relationship😭😢

  • @adolphustaylor2898
    @adolphustaylor2898 Год назад +3

    Very informative video, thank you always Jessica.

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 Год назад +3

    Awesome video with wisdom nuggets Jessica💯🎯

  • @mouctardiallo9062
    @mouctardiallo9062 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing this wisdom Mrs Jessica

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Год назад +10

    Wise words of wisdom, substance over rules nicely said, if you have been burnt one too many times then you would know most of the red flags to look out for in a woman, let her show her true self which would eventually come out to show itself for us all to see. Thanks for sharing Jessica you rock as always

    • @eaa8529
      @eaa8529 Год назад

      Gosh! Men need to hear women like you. I can just imagine how many women out there hates you for exposing them. But don't worry about them one bit because we men love and appreciate you. Keep up the good work and thanks. Love you and your channel so much..💓

  • @abdirazakali58
    @abdirazakali58 Год назад +5

    Dear Jessica. Thanks for sharing this video with us but things are not as easy as you think. Early stages of any relationship is far more difficult than we expected and that’s human nature.

  • @adewaleakitoye7926
    @adewaleakitoye7926 Год назад

    This particular hammer really hit all the nails on the head. Thanks for sharing. It has addressed many unanswered questions...

  • @universalcoverage1681
    @universalcoverage1681 Год назад +4

    Thanks to you Jessica. You have been a source of knowledge to many of us. Keeping relationship these days is not easy but we keep listening to you in order to learn more and grow. God bless you.

  • @Bokai1.3
    @Bokai1.3 Год назад +1

    This makes alot of sense.thank you

  • @ofosuzerubbabel9452
    @ofosuzerubbabel9452 Год назад +2

    Thanks Jess for this video 😊

  • @matthewamos8591
    @matthewamos8591 Год назад

    You've been saving relationships and lives since the '80s!

  • @Imohjohnnie
    @Imohjohnnie Год назад +1

    Thank you Jessica.

  • @malineli3266
    @malineli3266 Год назад +2

    Pleasant weekend to you Jess🙏🏽🇧🇧

  • @alainsergile6808
    @alainsergile6808 Год назад +6

    Just watched this video today Dec. 1st 2022 when it came to my notifications. First time I am actually commenting on your videos. This one hits home as I just break up with a women due to some of the very first few things you mentioned. she repeated she liked me, but her actions were not saying the same. reasons why I left was exactly due to some of the first few things you mentioned. needless to say, this video confirms what I originally thought as to why I left her. for her part, she refused to understand why I left her....thanks for the video! was VERY substantive.

    • @seyeadenle7189
      @seyeadenle7189 Год назад +1

      Let her know why you left.It’s important

    • @habeeboyeniyi430
      @habeeboyeniyi430 Год назад +1

      @@seyeadenle7189 yeah.... it's very important

  • @LoveCommissioner
    @LoveCommissioner Год назад +2

    Wow! This is very insightful.

  • @hawadeallaale4093
    @hawadeallaale4093 Год назад +2

    More thanks Jessica

  • @Johnpobeh
    @Johnpobeh Год назад

    Thank you for this video. Very helpful.

  • @ShalomMan2095
    @ShalomMan2095 2 месяца назад +1

    Shalom Greetings from Zimbabwe
    You are speaking good. Blessings to you, and all that matters to you.

  • @preciousaweh8521
    @preciousaweh8521 Год назад +2

    I want to send this video to my Girlfriend. She say I am always overreacting because I think she does not communicate or isn’t interested. The relationship feels so one-sided.

  • @Prof_Julius_K_Nyerere
    @Prof_Julius_K_Nyerere Год назад

    You've nailed it 💯.

  • @daviddalton2420
    @daviddalton2420 Год назад +2

    Just loved the conclusion

  • @dhanrajmohan701
    @dhanrajmohan701 Год назад

    Public comment. Ms Jessica you are a gem 💎. Great message. You understand the principles of life and its journey reflects in words and taught or deeds. Ms Jessica thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and inspiration with us.

  • @kawleystanley5368
    @kawleystanley5368 Год назад +1

    True, thanks u Jessica

  • @caragous
    @caragous Год назад +1

    I needed this

  • @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
    @beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 Год назад +4

    You are good at what you do.

  • @timecoroyal1658
    @timecoroyal1658 Год назад +4

    This applies to him and her in all fairness

  • @johnmatthew8596
    @johnmatthew8596 Год назад +1

    Thank You so much. I am blessed ❤ 💝 💐 🎊 🌹

  • @joguns8257
    @joguns8257 Год назад +3

    So accurate, pin-point accuracy. Thank you for these points.

  • @thokokenedyjossen
    @thokokenedyjossen Год назад

    I wont not stopping watching

  • @attahpayne
    @attahpayne Год назад +2

    Thanks so much

  • @Cccc-hf8fv
    @Cccc-hf8fv Год назад

    Hello jesssi
    This is one of the best from u. Big up .

  • @godofallgodswithnoothernam920
    @godofallgodswithnoothernam920 Год назад

    Thank you jessica thank you

  • @pipoune91
    @pipoune91 Год назад

    Thanks Jessica

  • @eustacekalabamibenge8019
    @eustacekalabamibenge8019 Год назад

    Thanks so much Mrs Jessica continue with your work . your teachings has helped me a lot . especially that it's when am preparing for my future and I m still searching for a serious lady to get married with .am now almost 42 years in February 2023 .on 6th 02 .1981

  • @folakolmedia
    @folakolmedia Год назад +2

    Miss your content Jessica. Your content amongst others have really influenced and improved my dating skills. Hopefully, I get to meet you someday!
    🤗

  • @balance9300
    @balance9300 Год назад

    True say thank you for this

  • @CoastingKT
    @CoastingKT Год назад +4

    Most recently I've been going through Numbers 1, 2, 3 with someone in a casual relationship. It sucks because I do care for them but seems like it'll have to cut them off so I can feel better about myself. I wonder what's the best way to bring up these issues?
    Thank you for putting out this type of content!

  • @Chadvilletv
    @Chadvilletv Год назад

    Thank you ❤❤

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. Год назад

    Love ur content keep being amazing 😍🤜👏

  • @zacharymitchell3986
    @zacharymitchell3986 Год назад +3

    Agree to everything she mentioned

  • @henryifeanyi1775
    @henryifeanyi1775 Год назад

    You are amazing.

  • @nickye9808
    @nickye9808 Год назад +2

    You always make sense. L LOVE YOU A LOT.Keep up the good work!!🥰

  • @hawadeallaale4093
    @hawadeallaale4093 Год назад

    (Teach poeple how they treat you )
    Thanks Jessica 🙏

  • @sylviamugara4474
    @sylviamugara4474 Год назад

    I love you Jessica.

  • @johndcruz8744
    @johndcruz8744 Год назад +5

    Great content. Hope guys take this advice seriously 😉

  • @micahjohnlive
    @micahjohnlive Год назад

    You are really an Angel

  • @mxolisitsabedze6877
    @mxolisitsabedze6877 Год назад +3

    I just ended my relationship because of this

  • @tombless6596
    @tombless6596 Год назад

    You're the best.

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 Год назад +1

    Plays with her cell phone while you're on a date! 😆

  • @irs686
    @irs686 Год назад

    Wow,thanks

  • @jerryhall5410
    @jerryhall5410 Год назад

    Jessica this is TALIB AMIN ABDULLAH thank you for giving me a lot of insight because I knew a woman for 14 years and all the sudden she telling me that I'm the for her and another point that you put out she do want me to pay everything sometimes even if it's little and she haven't got over her baby daddy SHE HAD A SON AND A DAUGHTER BY HIM I know that and she been lying about what she were at the time she never answer my call one whole day next time she actually my phone the next talking about she on her way to my house when I haven't talked to her yet to tell her to come over she was a friend off and on it might be time for me to Let her I thank you for giving me some info on this situation with women ☝🏾👳🏾‍♀️🤲😘 keep up the good work JESSICA HELP US MEN TO FOUND OUT WHO WE DEALING WITH.

  • @sserunjogiahmed7974
    @sserunjogiahmed7974 Год назад +3

    Am the second one to comment here. Best relationship coach world over. Ahmed Qatar

  • @jukett85
    @jukett85 Год назад +3

    Hi Jessica, I love your content so much. I have a humble suggestion though.
    Are u a licensed relationship expert/coach? If yes please state that for the record. If no I'll suggest that you put out a disclaimer or reference your source of information to avoid plagerism or any potential litigation. Thanks

  • @adenijibamidele3760
    @adenijibamidele3760 Год назад +1

    Wish i had known all this 2 years ago.

  • @augustinefrimpong5363
    @augustinefrimpong5363 Год назад

    Nice one

  • @daviddalton2420
    @daviddalton2420 Год назад +5

    Am really loving these facts. Men are hunters and are supposed to make the first move naturally. But women reception really gives you a green or red flag.
    Wow, Jessica u really hit it truthfully. The pleasure is mine watching you.
    Its David Dalton from Uganda.

  • @nelsons.m683
    @nelsons.m683 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing #jessica

  • @IMMANUELNIIBOBOOBORTEY
    @IMMANUELNIIBOBOOBORTEY Год назад

    Please the background instrumentals was great
    Can you send the link to that 🙏🏻

  • @obinnaoji869
    @obinnaoji869 Год назад

    It's really sweet the way Jessica speaks up for the guys. This is why I love tomboys.😁
    P.s: I ain't got that shit erotomania.

  • @chishimbabc4004
    @chishimbabc4004 Год назад

    Favorite 🙌

  • @pablodante7623
    @pablodante7623 Год назад

    I am talking to this girl and I’ve made my intentions known to her but she always say she will think about it. It’s been so long but she’s still not said anything. Onetime she said she will be my gf and some days later she said she feels she is not ready and that she’s not in love with me but I should hang out maybe something might come up as we get along. I don’t know what to do now, I am so confused.

  • @husseindjumida6568
    @husseindjumida6568 Год назад

    I really wish i loved this woman. I like her so much.

  • @tiagoalaves9120
    @tiagoalaves9120 Год назад

    Happy to be top 5 here

  • @Jules-740
    @Jules-740 7 месяцев назад

    Oops i did a red flag on a guy i really like ALOT. i did not contact him consistently. But i was really busy and also I was a little intimidated by him.

  • @Truthbetolddd
    @Truthbetolddd Год назад +1

    "IF YOU HAVE the means, go ahead" 8:23( and cater to her financially ), I disagree. Even if you do have the means, it is not wise to constantly treat a woman that you are dating. For what? What am I rewarding her for? It leads to expectations and spoils her. Go on moneyless dates like a walk at the lake or trails where you can get to know one another and talk more without eating (which limits conversation). I'm not catering to any woman, especially during dating stages, nope, not I.

  • @Highlyblessed_favored
    @Highlyblessed_favored Год назад

    What does it mean when people say communication in a relationship? Genuinely want to know

  • @oladapojoda4983
    @oladapojoda4983 Год назад +4

    So, it started really well and it was good and fun for 2 months plus. She started working and it seems she forgets I exist. She reaches out from time to time, adjusts when I complain but only for a while. She literally doesn't bring up any conversations anymore, I have to initiate and she struggles to flow. She claims its mental stress from work, financial strain cos she's just starting (I help out as much as I can though) and duty to family cos she still stays with them. But I work too and have responsibilities and still I make space and time for her! I really want to be patient and hope she finds balance but its going on 2 months since she started work and its getting worse. When I complain, she tries to adjust after saying I'm not patient and considerate. We have only been spent time together once in 4 months (that's largely due to her work schedule) What do I do?

    • @chidiebereudeokechukwu3959
      @chidiebereudeokechukwu3959 Год назад +6

      Cut her off.
      Please don't Simp for her by showing her that you need the relationship more than her. You're the prize and not her.
      If she's really into you, she'd make out time for you.
      It's that simple.
      End.

    • @FedUpCanuck
      @FedUpCanuck Год назад +1

      Dude she is using you dumpster time