3 REASONS YOU ARE STILL IN THE 'TALKING STAGE'

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2020
  • The Talking Stage has become a frustrating part of dating because it seems to go on forever no longer progressing into a relationship. I feel it's because you are spending longer than you should in the Talking Stage and in this video I will give you 3 main reasons you are still in the Talking Stage and I hope the awareness makes you do something different.
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Комментарии • 44

  • @Beth5171
    @Beth5171 2 года назад +6

    I was talking to a guy. I liked him, he liked me, but I just couldn't push play because of so many red flags from him. But he truly wanted a relationship. So I just cut it off, blocked him and changed my number. It wasn't going anywhere anyway...

  • @tharealasylum
    @tharealasylum 2 года назад +1

    Very helpful! Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @blessedgirl1428
    @blessedgirl1428 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Josh

  • @toluwasemo12
    @toluwasemo12 3 года назад +3

    Very insightful. Totally agree👌🏽

  • @tinukex6255
    @tinukex6255 3 года назад +6

    Facts upon facts! Looking forward to more videos.

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Год назад +2

    I was quiet and not acting desparate by asking. However that's how every relationship ended. After so many relationships I'm exhausted now flying solo

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  Год назад

      Take the time you need and jump back in when you’re ready

  • @nanaakosua2673
    @nanaakosua2673 Год назад +1

    God bless you, advice came on time

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 3 года назад +29

    I personally think the talking stage should be like 2-3 weeks why waste time?

  • @airickuhh8
    @airickuhh8 3 года назад +12

    This was extremely extremely helpful! Thanks, Josh!!! I think I'm having this exact problem right now.

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  3 года назад

      I'm happy to hear it. Make sure you subscribe to the channel, more videos coming

  • @joycebukeddenamata7483
    @joycebukeddenamata7483 2 года назад

    Right bro.thanks

  • @Beccaxfaith
    @Beccaxfaith Год назад

    Its been over 6 months. His reasoning for us not being together rn is because i cut him off for a week because i felt like i wasnt going anywhere. Its just cycling:( and hes moving so he said that he doesn't know how much attention ill need for long distance to work out. I feel like I'm going to crazy. I will be giving him til the end of June to figure out wtf he wants.🤦‍♀️ Thank you for the advice!

    • @---qu9uf
      @---qu9uf 4 месяца назад +1

      Update on this?😢 if it’s okay for you to share tho.

  • @nantongosali1617
    @nantongosali1617 2 года назад

    Be blessed bro I hve found my video 🙄🤔

  • @michellevanessaxo
    @michellevanessaxo 3 года назад +1

    Very informative, love your videos!

  • @unathinibe8089
    @unathinibe8089 2 года назад +4

    We have been talking for 4 years and nothing has happened.

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 года назад +7

      That’s a very long time to be talking if you want more out of the situation. Please I’d like to know what you have been talking about?

  • @overthetopwme
    @overthetopwme 2 года назад +6

    U agree set your standards 👏

  • @tyjustglo
    @tyjustglo 2 года назад +9

    Yo Josh, me and this girl are in the talking stage but I did notice that when we text, it’s a good convo and she seems talkative. But when we hangout in person, she’s really quiet. I tried to ask questions but just got one word answers and eventually ran out of questions lol. I don’t know what it is or what I should do. Do you have any advice or anything to help me? Thank you!

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 года назад +2

      Hi Ty, so it could be 2 things; it's either your questions or she's not into you.
      With your questions, make sure they are open ended (starting with What, Where, How, Why). It gets ppl to be expansive with their answers. Also make sure its about her and things she enjoy talking about. Her body language should tell you this.
      If you've been doing this and she's still not responsive, and (this is very important) if she's not asking you questions to find out about you and your interest. then she's probably not into you.
      Hope this helps, let me know how you get on. Feel free to drop me an email on
      hello@joshlovetalk.com

    • @user-mx4yz8jh7k
      @user-mx4yz8jh7k 2 года назад +3

      Wow,I have the opposite
      We don't text really much, can even don't text each other for 2 days,but during meetings we're very much talkative

    • @samikhan-hh6wg
      @samikhan-hh6wg 2 года назад

      @@user-mx4yz8jh7k bro same, what ended up happening

    • @olxxa4967
      @olxxa4967 Год назад

      I am this kind of girl. It's because I am an introvert. I am the definition of an introvert literally and I am good not at conversation .
      But when I like a guy, if he invites me to something I will come. Even if we won't have a real conversation. Just being with him is enough for me.
      Writing is much more easier for me. But I can be very talkative if I am really comfortable with a person.
      To know if she is an introvert or just not interested, make something stupid to make her comfortable. If her behavior doesn't change, it means she is not interested.

  • @unbelaneablebeautyy
    @unbelaneablebeautyy Год назад +1

    I haven’t done anything beyond kissing with this guy, haven’t bought anything for him but do find myself emotionally invested and want to stop it before it gets out of hand. How do I come back from this?

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  Год назад

      Are you stopping because he hasn’t bought anything for you or cos he is not the right person for you?

  • @ruthshitsava1291
    @ruthshitsava1291 2 года назад +1

    Josh I have a question what happens when the first week the talks flows well then after meeting up no more talking

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  2 года назад +4

      It could be that he changed his mind after meeting up. It’s worth checking up on him. If you’re not getting the right vibe, keep it moving

    • @ifejaykob1371
      @ifejaykob1371 2 года назад +1

      It's a No dearie...it can't be forced

  • @juuju18
    @juuju18 Год назад

    Wow😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @nohlandlakareber430
    @nohlandlakareber430 Год назад

    How long is the talking stage ?

  • @olxxa4967
    @olxxa4967 Год назад

    1:50

  • @khanyisilemakhubane1669
    @khanyisilemakhubane1669 3 года назад

    How much is too much too soon?

    • @Josh_LoveTalk
      @Josh_LoveTalk  3 года назад +10

      For me, it’s when you are giving above the commitment level they are giving you. For example, you’re doing gf stuffs when they are doing the bare minimum at dating level

    • @olxxa4967
      @olxxa4967 Год назад +1

      @@Josh_LoveTalk like a prepared a lot of things for his birthday, but then on my birthday he just said "happy birthday" and nothing else.

  • @Testrun-eq3db
    @Testrun-eq3db 2 месяца назад

    Na you are not married yet

  • @prispris7387
    @prispris7387 Год назад

    Great video. Please loose the accent. Sounds fake.

  • @dmvangel23_
    @dmvangel23_ Год назад

    We in the talking stage for more than a month she fw and all wants to sleep on ft we got each other location but she said she don’t want to get hurt and really want to kno me but I feel like it’s too long buh she a 10 idk if I’m wasting time