“when somebody’s jealous of you, they don’t care about how many times you’ve been there for them” 💯💯💯 they’ll hate you even more than a stranger you never did anything for!
When someone is jealous of you. You trying to lift them up makes them hate you more because they will think you lifting them up it’s because you think you better than them.
I honestly think the Biggest tell, and this I with relatives and friends , is their Maintained relationships with people that don't like you or have hurt you bad. Smh.
It’s not always about beauty, you’re right though, when someone isn’t comfortable with how they look they’ll take it out on attractive people. But sometimes you can be average and someone will still be jealous. Jealousy is weird, it doesn’t matter what you look like or how much you have, the jealous people out there will try to destroy you
@goldfishon-steroids4946 that's true. It's just a very common occurrence that people will see someone with traits they wish they had and try to befriend them but really just are using them..
We're about to experience massive cut offs from family, friends and who we previously considered as our "safe spaces". Find authentic people and build high walls around eaxh other. Asè.
I love and care about all of my friends. They’re wonderful people. Always there for me. Always encouraging me. Always checking in on me. I’m so thankful right now.
22:10 ive tried what this lady says but even if u do that you still have to watch your back... u cant heal people...the safest way is to let them go....jealousy is dangerous.
i agree. she is giving terrible advice that’s probably stemming from a projection because perhaps she is the jealous and insecure friend at times. at the end of the day jealous friends are dangerous and like you said, you’ll always have to watch your back. i don’t expect my friends to be perfect and without any faults but i’ve learned the jealous and secretly competitive friend can’t be saved.
Here is the weird thing… don’t forget some people can have the sweetest, friendliest, bubbliest personalities and everyone LOVES them, yet if they only knew their deep, dark secrets you wouldn’t believe it. These are those covert, narcissistic women. They have everyone fooled!!! I work around one. If I were to list all the things she’s told me she’s done you’d be shocked. Her morals, values, and character do not align with mine. At one point we were friends and I disregarded some of her behavior because as I said she’s sweet, funny, can seem caring, but once she started gossiping about her “best co worker friend” I mean to the point of calling her, her enemy that was the final straw for me. It is bizarre because she goes on her lunch break with her and breaks with her and they talk outside of work, yet she comes to me to complain and gossip about her and say she has to keep her “enemy” closer. That was just WEIRD. Luckily I guess she needed someone else to gossip about her with, so she told another co worker who told me and I was like OMG SHE TOLD YOU… I was like I am so glad she told you that. It made ME feel CRAZY. Like you tell me this stuff about her, but the second she walks in the room you’re up her butt laughing and joking around like yall are best friends. It’s WEIRD!!! I can’t wrap my head around it. So yall really be careful out there cause some people can have you FOOLED! Some people can act like you’re their best friend to your face and little do you know they’re talking about you behind your back. If they tell you they’re a terrible person LISTEN. She would tell me this all the time and I’m like no you’re not and again this is because I let that funny, silly personality win me over. The more we got to know each other the more she told me and 😬 let’s just say her description of herself is THE TRUTH! When people show and tell you who they are.. BELIEVE THEM!
It’s not your job or your obligation to lift them up. In order for friendship to work it takes two so both of you should lift each other up. And compliment each other
I never had friends the ones i did have were fake and gossiped and lied but i did have this one friend she wss so envious jealous and racist she spoke bad about me and my looks and uplifted everyone else including herself she copied me dated all my exs and tried getting me fired i ended up moving and getting a different job
I feel what the 3rd beautiful lady is talking about! Had to recently let go of a 5 year friendship. My ex friend have 3 kids and haven't worked since I've known her. It's upsetting to see your close friend jealous of you for trying to better yourself... .
22:50 worse advice, EVER‼️ 1. You know she knows she’s jealous and you’re advising that she should’ve been ignored and praised for her bad behavior? Wow. Women have lost their lives from giving ppl who don’t deserve the benefit of the doubt. 2. A jealous friend should be called out on it. If they’re genuine, they’ll feel ashamed, apologize and do better. If they’re a bad friend, they’ll defend and deflect cuz you’ve “seen” them and that’s never the plan. Don’t ignore jealousy. We’ve all seen enough crime documentaries, pls.
I got evil relatives like that. Energy drainers and manipulative people. Harasser me to see the good in theor evil anyways. Hell naw, I rather be around people who don't even think about doing what they do period. My choice the end. Life is better on the other side of the bs. Then be using people they believe i might be friends or end up being friends with to manipulate me. Like I need sense talked to me behind their bs. The gossip sicking as well. Bye, No! No and No!
If You're Ever In An Altercation With "Friends" && They Ask You "You Think You're Better Than Me?" Chileee You Better CLOCK IT ⏰ Because 9 Times Out Of 10 You Don't Think That, THEY DO && Will Project It Onto You Somehow! I'm Glad I Studied Body Language - Combining It With Your Intuition Is A Deadly Combination. 🥷🏾
“when somebody’s jealous of you, they don’t care about how many times you’ve been there for them” 💯💯💯 they’ll hate you even more than a stranger you never did anything for!
@@SaskiaTheBoss painful reality!
So true!👍🏾
When someone is jealous of you. You trying to lift them up makes them hate you more because they will think you lifting them up it’s because you think you better than them.
@@MYGODMYFRIEND7 you know right
Facts! I swear this sounds like my current situation, but I've decided to let go out that friendship, silently.
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@ let God🙏🏾
I honestly think the Biggest tell, and this I with relatives and friends , is their Maintained relationships with people that don't like you or have hurt you bad. Smh.
@@gngirl1 always those closest
Yep thats why I dont talk to my family absolute joke.
This was right on time. I knew better, but went against my own intuition. No more. I’m done with them all.
@@scorpionpam intuition is your best friend don’t forget to remember!
These women are all SO beautiful it makes sense why people would be jealous of them and try to pull a fast one. Insecure people want what they have.
@@spiderfart420 that also💯
It’s not always about beauty, you’re right though, when someone isn’t comfortable with how they look they’ll take it out on attractive people. But sometimes you can be average and someone will still be jealous. Jealousy is weird, it doesn’t matter what you look like or how much you have, the jealous people out there will try to destroy you
@@goldfishon-steroids4946 people can envy your energy too
@goldfishon-steroids4946 that's true. It's just a very common occurrence that people will see someone with traits they wish they had and try to befriend them but really just are using them..
I'm an introvert and I'm proud! Less problems!😊❤
SAME..most people are annoying AF!
"If it smells like a rat, it's a rat." So true.
The Shanquella one....😤
To find out the girl paid for the trip and hotel.... gosh
@@kaybee1025 I know right
So sad.
We're about to experience massive cut offs from family, friends and who we previously considered as our "safe spaces". Find authentic people and build high walls around eaxh other. Asè.
@@nokumira asè!
Stay away from people!
Period. 😂😂😂
Facts stay away from narcs they're f*cking dangerous.
😂😂😂
I love and care about all of my friends. They’re wonderful people. Always there for me. Always encouraging me. Always checking in on me. I’m so thankful right now.
Facts I had the worst female friend in my early 20s
Thank you. I just sent this to my bestie ❤. She's too kind.
@@GirlyEnglishGamer you’re welcome❤️
22:10 ive tried what this lady says but even if u do that you still have to watch your back... u cant heal people...the safest way is to let them go....jealousy is dangerous.
@@infinite88588 exactly 👍🏾
i agree. she is giving terrible advice that’s probably stemming from a projection because perhaps she is the jealous and insecure friend at times. at the end of the day jealous friends are dangerous and like you said, you’ll always have to watch your back. i don’t expect my friends to be perfect and without any faults but i’ve learned the jealous and secretly competitive friend can’t be saved.
Yesssss!! Women are jealous of me for no reason they have mental illness. I ignore ALL narcs.
As you should!
@ 💯
I feel like this applies to sisters. Even though they’re your relative they’re still female and I’ve experienced this with 1 of my sisters.
@@cece-bt7eo could happen in family too.
Here is the weird thing… don’t forget some people can have the sweetest, friendliest, bubbliest personalities and everyone LOVES them, yet if they only knew their deep, dark secrets you wouldn’t believe it. These are those covert, narcissistic women. They have everyone fooled!!! I work around one. If I were to list all the things she’s told me she’s done you’d be shocked. Her morals, values, and character do not align with mine. At one point we were friends and I disregarded some of her behavior because as I said she’s sweet, funny, can seem caring, but once she started gossiping about her “best co worker friend” I mean to the point of calling her, her enemy that was the final straw for me. It is bizarre because she goes on her lunch break with her and breaks with her and they talk outside of work, yet she comes to me to complain and gossip about her and say she has to keep her “enemy” closer. That was just WEIRD. Luckily I guess she needed someone else to gossip about her with, so she told another co worker who told me and I was like OMG SHE TOLD YOU… I was like I am so glad she told you that. It made ME feel CRAZY. Like you tell me this stuff about her, but the second she walks in the room you’re up her butt laughing and joking around like yall are best friends. It’s WEIRD!!! I can’t wrap my head around it. So yall really be careful out there cause some people can have you FOOLED! Some people can act like you’re their best friend to your face and little do you know they’re talking about you behind your back. If they tell you they’re a terrible person LISTEN. She would tell me this all the time and I’m like no you’re not and again this is because I let that funny, silly personality win me over. The more we got to know each other the more she told me and 😬 let’s just say her description of herself is THE TRUTH! When people show and tell you who they are.. BELIEVE THEM!
@@citygirl713 such a great lesson I learned mine recently too. Thanks for sharing!
Frenemy they're all around.
Friends are like boobs. Some real some fake
@@Tess-k4o no harshness/insults here. Respect and polite communication to each other!!!
@@CisonspaceThey are 100% right though. This is wisdom.
@@DiamondsRexpensive I agree!!
but they posted a pretty harsh comment before this one and I had to remove those ones.
My cousins try that shat to gaslight me because I'm attractive and they let themselves go
@@Stagazeingviber families can be too!
i stay to myself
It’s not your job or your obligation to lift them up. In order for friendship to work it takes two so both of you should lift each other up. And compliment each other
@@MYGODMYFRIEND7 exactly 👍🏾
They are very demonic I swear.
Yes that's what I'm saying smh so sad but for me I have to stay away from those folks that's too demonic
The first one said it all
I heard no lies told from any of this advice💯
Glad it helped!!
Soo many good conversations in this video.
@@kazzuo32 thanks 🫶🏾
I never had friends the ones i did have were fake and gossiped and lied but i did have this one friend she wss so envious jealous and racist she spoke bad about me and my looks and uplifted everyone else including herself she copied me dated all my exs and tried getting me fired i ended up moving and getting a different job
@@shanika8 so bad to hear, better will come.
11:41 thats 💯
I feel what the 3rd beautiful lady is talking about! Had to recently let go of a 5 year friendship. My ex friend have 3 kids and haven't worked since I've known her. It's upsetting to see your close friend jealous of you for trying to better yourself...
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@@kimnguyen1854 glad you took the necessary steps.
22:50 worse advice, EVER‼️
1. You know she knows she’s jealous and you’re advising that she should’ve been ignored and praised for her bad behavior? Wow. Women have lost their lives from giving ppl who don’t deserve the benefit of the doubt.
2. A jealous friend should be called out on it. If they’re genuine, they’ll feel ashamed, apologize and do better. If they’re a bad friend, they’ll defend and deflect cuz you’ve “seen” them and that’s never the plan.
Don’t ignore jealousy. We’ve all seen enough crime documentaries, pls.
@@olikah4667 on point!
I stopped at bluered. What is that?
@@Jesus.is.the.onlytruth on what timestamp?
I got evil relatives like that. Energy drainers and manipulative people. Harasser me to see the good in theor evil anyways. Hell naw, I rather be around people who don't even think about doing what they do period. My choice the end. Life is better on the other side of the bs. Then be using people they believe i might be friends or end up being friends with to manipulate me. Like I need sense talked to me behind their bs. The gossip sicking as well. Bye, No! No and No!
@@AprilWalker-q3h go where you’re appreciated
@Cisonspace Your right love & not where you are disrespected. God bless you & yours sweetheart.
@@AprilWalker-q3h bless you too💕
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If You're Ever In An Altercation With "Friends" && They Ask You "You Think You're Better Than Me?" Chileee You Better CLOCK IT ⏰ Because 9 Times Out Of 10 You Don't Think That, THEY DO && Will Project It Onto You Somehow! I'm Glad I Studied Body Language - Combining It With Your Intuition Is A Deadly Combination. 🥷🏾
@@HaughtyHedonist on point!!!