Dysfunction to Dynasty - Ch. 4: Al & Lisa Robertson: IS OUR MARRIAGE OVER?
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- Опубликовано: 17 май 2021
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The Firstborn - Just like his parents before, Al and his wife Lisa hit a low point in their marriage where they had to question… is the marriage over?
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This is so powerful I am sitting in a McDonald’s drive thru crying
I watched Phyllis video and was brought to tears over her telling about when she was met at the airport.....it was Lisa who made her feel welcome & calmed her fear that she might not be accepted.
Tears from me writting this, so I can only imagine how it makes Phyllis feel every time she sees Lisa, or thinks about it. God bless Lisa for that one special moment ❤
How are you doing 😊😊👋👋
Forgiveness is a powerful thing and will bring you closer to Christ. God kept you both together for a reason
Yes. And actually forgiveness is REQUIRED by our Lord to enter into heaven as Jesus says in Matthew 6:14-15.
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 so true our savior is the way the life and truth that I am second also
Sorry.
I meant tear jerker.
Blessings 🙏
Amen
This is horseshit! He is still damaged by this he was crying while talking about it how many years later???
I went thru my wife been unfaithful... I was having male dysfunctional issues at the time because of medication I was on...I didn't communicate that to my wife because I felt embarrassed by it...I know it didn't give her the right to cheat...we didn't communicate very well before it happened, but we communicate very well now and our marriage is something we strive to make better everyday...I was just like Alan I thought I was going crazy losing my mind...
She hit the nail on the head when she said she had her husband on the throne instead of God. The tragic part is many women commit the sin of idolatry, putting their husband on a pedestal. Then when their husbands fail, they look to replace them with another idol. Put Christ on the throne ladies!
That excuse is nonsense. If she is honest she had the other man on a pedestal and her husband tucked away in a closet. She wanted to pursue lust and that had nothing to do with where she placed Al. We all have sin and we have to admit its origin and deal with the root cause.
@@mickeytollison idolatry is sin.
@@rebekahguilder602 And who said it wasn't? Your comment has absolutely nothing to do with the point I made.
@@mickeytollison you said she was making excuses for her sin. She wasn't, she was saying the sin of idolatry was the first sin that led to her other sins.
@@rebekahguilder602 And again, her sin wasn’t idolatry of her husband. Her sin was idolatry of another man.
It's incredibly painful when your spouse cheats... and cheats and cheats.
That's what you call true love to stand by each other no matter what because we all make mistakes
Thanks for watching Rhonda
@@IAm2nd If only more would
Amen.
A guy cheats on a girl for sex…. Only sex
A girl cheats on a guy to replace them. Actual betrayal…
@@IAm2nd❤
It is comforting seeing another couple go through serious trials and choose to love each other through it. My marriage also went through a similar situation. Through that we found our short comings and have persevered and have two wonderful boys and a busy life. I praise God for the grace, mercy, and forgiveness. And to my husband for finding his faith when I had lost my own(while I was so lost).
Wow. I wish you could talk to my wife who divorced me and still harbors unforgiveness Twd me 2 years later. (There wasn't any unfaithfulness, just alot of bitterness and stubbornness that led to our divorce) Seems like you've come to the Lord the way she needs to
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 it wasn't an easy or overnight fix. I was previously the one that pushed to go to church and things. But when I lost my way my BIL helped my husband find his faith. Not that my husband is an active person in the church. But he goes because it is important to me. Don't get me wrong, his father was trying to get him to get a PI and he was researching ways to keep our son that I was pregnant with at the time. And I'm so glad we worked it out. Because he loves me and we both re-prioritized our lives and I now guard my heart. I didn't know the dangers of that before this happened. I was always very open and forth coming, which I still am to an extent. But I don't have close guy friends like that, etc. I have no doubt by husband would act the same if we weren't to end up together down the road. That is the example he had from his father. And I would want to be friends and make friends with the next wife. But once he is burned he has a hard time mending that fence. Best of luck! And pray for her heart and pray about bettering your heart and showing God's love to others. :)
We are never more Christlike than when we forgive❤️
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️
Thank you so much for opening up about this. "You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you.” “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
I loved that he forgave her because she was truly sorry for her sins against their marriage and Christ. Now, y’all have a beautiful life and a beautiful future together. ❤️ This is such a great testimony. “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result, to preserve many people alive.” - Genesis 50:20 NASB In other words, Satan lost!!!!
My heart broke for Al. I'm so happy things worked out.
The real life story of Hosea. Great testimony Al and Lisa.
This one needs more time. People need to know the process of forgiveness and reconciliation in a betrayal situation. I love this story but I do recommend more on them. Having been in a marriage that went This, I know so many would benefit from the full story.
They did an episode where she was on the podcast with them and they talked about it a month or two ago
Episode 195
If I could give this comment more than 1 thumbs up I would. I wholeheartedly agree that countless people in this same situation could benefit from hearing more.
How to forgive what you can't forget by Lysa Terkeurst is a great resource. She too found the strength to forgive infidelity but it teaches a process applicable to all brokenness
They’ve written a couple of books on it. That may be what you are looking for.
@@debbiedoestinyliving85 And then they got divorved because he wasn't sincere about repentence and accountability.
Man still carrying pain. I agree having gone through it many times that even with forgiveness the ugly is always there, nor far from the tears.
Such an amazing testimony. Such heartache…but such joy. In the end. ❤️🙏🙏
Yes. The marital Covenant is for life and they honored that
Genesis 2:24
Romans 7:1-3
1 Corinthians 7:39
Mark 10:2-12
Luke 16:18
I’m actually going through a similar situation , but I’m the one at fault. I wasn’t cheating physically but cheating by lusting over other women . Wife kicked me out , still allows me to see our two kids . I hope God can heal my wife’s heart and I Hope God can heal me from my sins . It’s day 6 and it’s rough .
Brother confess your sins to her and ask her forgiveness. (James 5:16) Then share these marital scripture Truths with her:
Genesis 2:24
Mark 10:7-12
Romans 7:39
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
1 Corinthians 7:39
Ephesians 5:31-33.
And read Ephesians 5:20-33 yourself. Then LOVE your wife from here on out as it instructs us as husbands in that passage. God bless, will be praying for you 🙏
Praying for you. I’ve been there and back. I was the one who stepped out also. It’s taken my wife and I 3 years or so to get back to how we were before.
I'm praying for you brother.
@Aaron Morgan thanks for your words of inspiration
Put it in GOD'S hands
praise God!! May He bless your marriage & family forever
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊☺️
I watch all Robertson videos and relate to Al the most. He is my inspiration
Thank you for being open and honest. Being real with others. It helps us to see that God can change everything and that we all have real issues in life but that doesn’t mean we are alone or unworthy of God’s love. Jesus can help us through the good, bad and the ugly. ❤️❤️❤️
WOW.....I am happy for them...
Al, I was in very similar shoes for years and have yet to forgive her. Although we’ve been apart more than two years now and don’t speak, I miss her two boys terribly, the youngest one I even helped raise from birth.
I need to find this forgiveness, even knowing we (definitely) aren’t getting back together.
Thanks for sharing this story.
Al, I felt that. I felt your pain. Such humility in a man is unbelievably rare and yours is truly Christlike. I didn't know what to expect from your wife but I can see that she has suffered, too, every time she has thought about those daughters and granddaughters. I don't know what to say except God bless you both. Sincerely in awe of you, brother AL. God is good.
What an amazing testimony! God bless you both!
Yep it’s horrible when your spouse won’t admit it.
Yeah, it usually feels much better when they're brutally honest about cheating on you. lol
What a POWERFUL story! God took something that satan intended to be bad and made something wonderful out of it! God bless you both!
Thank you for walking in such humility and vulnerability! I know it's not always easy to tell others about the most ugly parts of your life even if your in Christ, but the Lord Jesus has used your testimony to soften my heart! Even if I am the only one who is changed; this testimony deeply touched my spirit. Be encouraged as it was worth it! Thank you!
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊☺️
@@jasonbryan9056 Hey! I am good; how are you?
@@charissa6648 I'm doing great where are you from if i may ask?
I was the cheater. My wife and I are going through this. I didn’t cheat recently it was many years ago but she forgave me without actually forgiving me like he spoke about.
We are currently living separately. I just started serving God a few weeks ago and it’s been a lot, but I will not stop serving Him no matter what! I don’t know why I’m going through this but I pray He heals my wife even if we don’t get back together. She served God and hates Him now because He took too long to answer her prayers for me to change. God is never too late for a breakthrough and I ask anyone reading this pray for my wife and our marriage.
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Every time I hear this beautiful story of forgiveness and redemption between Lisa and Al I cry. Nothing is impossible with God. Forgiveness can be so difficult, but it's so important. I dearly love these two, from my heart. ✝️🙌❤
The production is perfect and these scenes are so intriguing but subtle like a homicide show 🤣sorry but love it
Haha I was thinking the same. Its great and I'm able to take it seriously.
Wow, Lisa thought she “knew” the Lord but actually didn’t and she was a Pastors wife! This reminds me of the scripture where the people said, “in Your Name we have cast out devils” and the Lord replies “Depart from Me, I never knew (had an intimate relationship with) you”. There will be a lot of tears on the day we stand before the Lord. Just going to Church or going through the motions does not make you a Christian. It is about accepting Jesus as your Savior and knowing him intimately in relationship!
I love their testimony! And all their families. They are showing the gospel to us in their own personal lives. Thank you Robertson’s!
Thank you for your transparency & vulnerability.
Healing can come after one exposes, forgives ones self and others.
Thank the Lord for His Mercy & Grace.
So good ro see Mr. Al come over and kneel at Miss Lisa seat. This is a tear jerker
True forgiveness is hard. But I'll admit now that I'm older I understand forgiveness isn't weakness it truly sets you free
I’m surprised miss Kay didn’t want y’all to stay together
God truly heals and restores the humble.
I absolutely love this. To see what people are capable of thru Jesus and the willingness to. Thank you for sharing the raw truth and the journey of healing. We CAN forgive and heal.
Absolutely beautiful testimony, and I can relate!
This is very humbling. I don't like to see a grown man cry and hurt like this
This has about made me cry..I see myself and my own husband in y’all. I’ve been on the brink of staying or leaving. And God has not revealed a clear answer to me.
I can see y’all’s love for each other. And y’all stuck it out. Just like Miss Kay says “one man, one woman for one life”. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼☝🏼
SOOOOOOOOOOOOO POWERFUL!! God bless you all. My name is Gary Peterson from Abilene Texas and I am second!! Thank you God for loving me.
Yes you are!
Gary Peterson from Abilene, Texas... I'm Angela from New Zealand. If you are the 'Gary Peterson' I think you are, once upon a time I knew you :)
Their story is my story. My husband put me through hell. We have stayed together for 44 years, but I have not yet gotten to the point where I can forgive him, and our marriage has suffered because of it. I’m glad they have found their way.
You will find your way, pray about it
"forgive but never forget"
I so appreciate yalls openess
Im so glad y'all shared this! God bless!!!
Unbelievably powerful!
This is so freaking awesome.
What a beautiful testimony. Thank you for sharing it.
I'm excited about this mini series!
I'm so thankful for their honesty because I've dealt exactly with this myself. I remember feeling exactly like he said. I'm now just grateful for God being right by my side through it all, even if it's silent.
Awesome program! Amen!
WOW, after my husband cheated on me, I was not able to forgive him for many years, however he left and never came back..... So glad you were able to do that and thank you for your honesty. 💕
If he is you 1st, original Covenant husband then I'd urge you to reach out to him as you are both STILL MARRIED in God's eyes. The churches have Lied about this and followed the devil in the false doctrine of divorce (and remarriage) but The Holy Word of God says otherwise...
Matthew 19:5-6
Mark 10:2-12
Luke 16:18
Romans 7:1-3
1 Corinthians 7:39
Ephesians 5:25-33
The marriage Covenant is indeed for life and Only death breaks it
@@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 unfortunately I am not able too, he passed away 9 years ago, thank God we were able to talk and openly and honestly forgive each other and were friendly a few years before he died.
@@stefaniekay8699 Amen Sister. That's great to hear. Hopefully you find a new husband (if you so choose) as you are free to do so in the Lord as a widow
[1 Corinthians 7:39]
Thank you for sharing that.
Wow! What courage you both have telling your story to the world. What hope you give to couples around the world. Thank you. Sincerely
Thank you both for your testimony, your courage is inspiring, God makes all things possible
I have heard Lisa's testimony before and she always brings me to tears. Love how she has been able to help so many, just telling what she went through. Very happy that they both give testimony together.
This put a big smile on my face, to be that strong, and to put all that Hardship to the side is a testament of its own. Thank you both for sharing your story.
From New Mexico, Stay safe and stay blessed my friend's. 👍🇺🇲🇺🇲✌🙏
VERY powerful!!
What a beautiful testimony
This is my favorite family and I am enjoying there I am second videos thanks a lot this one is one of my favorites
God, You’re so good and amazing! Praise God for this testimony!
Wow. Powerful, powerful testimony.
I love the authenticity and transparency of your family. I worked with thousands and there is nothing more inspiring. With Christ, nothing can't be fixed. You all are my hero's.
Praise God in Christ! Thank you Al, for staying the course in your faith and doing these podcasts.
I haven't seen anything from AL to admit his short comings that may have been a part of the problem.
I'm crying. A beautiful ending ...a new beginning ❤
What an AWESOME account of Forgiveness! Jesus is LORD!!
So powerful!! Thank you for sharing your stories
You are so welcome
I love how he whispers to her in the end. That is so beautiful. He really was a humble disciple of God to do this very very hard thing. Thank you so much for sharing this intimate forgiveness.
Thanks for sharing and allowing others to learn from you and have hope. Hope in our risen Lord.
Awesome job y’all!!!
Thanks for watching
My youngest son had no Father to teach him to hunt. I got lost in drugs and alcohol too Jep. Thank you for telling the truth. 💘
Thank y'all for your transparency!! ❤️
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️😊
I would never be able to forgive/forget that level of betrayal.
Hes a stronger man than I am.
Totally agree! More power to him but hell no!
I feel the same way, and I don’t know if this is a situation where forgiveness is the right thing. Obviously live your life how you see fit, but personally I don’t think betrayal is something I could forgive and love that person again.
You can do all things through Christ who will strengthen you.
Better be glad the Lord don’t think like you do or you would never be able to be saved.
Wow
Magical moment
Thank You for sharing
God bless you both 😘🙏😘🙏
Out of all of them, I relate to Lisa the most. I just feel connected to her testimony down to my soul
That was awesome!
Glad you liked it!
Alan is a wise man. WOW! Looks like his Mom taught him a lot about God. And honesty is always best.
That was an awesome testament! Thank you Jesus for your Grace and Mercy for this wonderful couple! There is none like you!!!!!🙏🏻😊
My husband and I just celebrated our 13 year wedding anniversary and we have been together for almost 16 years, and we had a lot of the same issues at the beginning of our relationship, so hearing and seeing another couple make it through that is so heartwarming and just really makes my faith stronger, thank you for sharing your story, especially knowing just how hard it must have been. I wish your family many many years of happiness ❤❤
i weep as i hear your testimony and see how good God is! So glad you didn’t listen to the negative voices telling you to give up on your marriage or your wife! If only more men and women would fight for their own marriages today and allow the Lord to help them forgive and to become one together to be stronger and help others. Thank you and God bless you!
Glory to God. Thank you so much. God Bless you and your Family
I love your story My Gosh i wish other could be that honest. Wonderful wonderful
"There's was no truth" I have been there - not with a husband but children. It will drive you crazy. I had never put it in those words before. Thank you!! Now I will try to find the truth - instead of letting all the surmising drive me insane.
Thank you! So beautiful, the Lord's restoration.
I’ve lived both sides of this . Saying I’m sorry and meaning it is one of the hardest things .
Such a beautiful story.... thanks for sharing.
As a husband - super hard for me not to have a hard edge on this. I sure hope I never have to walk his path.... I think it would end in a manslaughter charge.
Hey AL thanks for sharing you just helped me put everything into prospective thanks AL
I caused distrust in my marriage and was so ashamed to allow the devil to come into my life. My husband didn't want to end our marriage and we're still together today, thank you Lord. I have Jesus on my side now and the devil has no chance. For something bad there is more good that come out of it. I'm more into God and Jesus, I read my Bible and pray no telling how many times a day. Thank you Lord for rescuing me from sin. God bless everyone
"He who has been forgiven much , loves much'
Amazing
I want to say Thank you...Thank you for sharing such a private and special story. As your story is symbolic to mine and I am sure to so many others I would like to share the following. I have found that any 2 people can persevere though any trial as long as one of those 2 people is our Heavenly Father. The above story shows this to be true. Life challenges can test us to our very core. Wanting us to end anything that can bring joy to our lives. The key is to allow our Heavenly Father to guide our life and allow our Faith to be within him 100% in our thoughts, actions and daily lives. Trials can be so difficult and make us want to give up. But despite our trial, we can overcome any obstacle that is placed before us by exercising our Faith in our Heavenly Father. This doesn't mean that life will be a walk in the park. It will still have its ups and downs. But I am here to promise each of you that on our Heavenly Fathers watch your trial will pass and you will eventually see the Joy that was meant for you and each of us. God Bless You All
Beautiful story I am second.
Powerful TESTIMONY
God bless you two❤
Awe bless your hearts ❤️
Wow,This is hitting home for me
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊😊
Powerful. Thank you LORD
Beautiful💖
Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊😊
Awww....so sweet! God bless them! May God keep them until....🙌🏾
You are a good man
The power of forgiveness god gave us. If we can forgive nothing will destroy us.