Dysfunction to Dynasty - Ch. 4: Al & Lisa Robertson: IS OUR MARRIAGE OVER?

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @rhondadurbyn6363
    @rhondadurbyn6363 3 года назад +161

    Forgiveness is a powerful thing and will bring you closer to Christ. God kept you both together for a reason

    • @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295
      @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 3 года назад +8

      Yes. And actually forgiveness is REQUIRED by our Lord to enter into heaven as Jesus says in Matthew 6:14-15.

    • @rhondadurbyn6363
      @rhondadurbyn6363 3 года назад +6

      @@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 so true our savior is the way the life and truth that I am second also

    • @conniehaywood7287
      @conniehaywood7287 2 года назад

      Sorry.
      I meant tear jerker.
      Blessings 🙏

    • @isaiahhoffer9507
      @isaiahhoffer9507 Год назад

      Amen

    • @aaronborza7217
      @aaronborza7217 Год назад

      This is horseshit! He is still damaged by this he was crying while talking about it how many years later???

  • @MamaBoots007
    @MamaBoots007 3 года назад +67

    I watched Phyllis video and was brought to tears over her telling about when she was met at the airport.....it was Lisa who made her feel welcome & calmed her fear that she might not be accepted.
    Tears from me writting this, so I can only imagine how it makes Phyllis feel every time she sees Lisa, or thinks about it. God bless Lisa for that one special moment ❤

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 года назад +1

      How are you doing 😊😊👋👋

  • @rhondadurbyn6363
    @rhondadurbyn6363 3 года назад +90

    That's what you call true love to stand by each other no matter what because we all make mistakes

    • @IAm2nd
      @IAm2nd  3 года назад +7

      Thanks for watching Rhonda

    • @Bobboberson1234
      @Bobboberson1234 3 года назад +1

      @@IAm2nd If only more would

    • @nerdymoose1348
      @nerdymoose1348 Год назад +1

      Amen.

    • @ugabuga1361
      @ugabuga1361 Год назад

      A guy cheats on a girl for sex…. Only sex
      A girl cheats on a guy to replace them. Actual betrayal…

    • @johngarvin8888
      @johngarvin8888 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@IAm2nd❤

  • @rebekahguilder602
    @rebekahguilder602 3 года назад +110

    She hit the nail on the head when she said she had her husband on the throne instead of God. The tragic part is many women commit the sin of idolatry, putting their husband on a pedestal. Then when their husbands fail, they look to replace them with another idol. Put Christ on the throne ladies!

    • @mickeytollison
      @mickeytollison 2 года назад +10

      That excuse is nonsense. If she is honest she had the other man on a pedestal and her husband tucked away in a closet. She wanted to pursue lust and that had nothing to do with where she placed Al. We all have sin and we have to admit its origin and deal with the root cause.

    • @rebekahguilder602
      @rebekahguilder602 2 года назад +1

      @@mickeytollison idolatry is sin.

    • @mickeytollison
      @mickeytollison 2 года назад +4

      @@rebekahguilder602 And who said it wasn't? Your comment has absolutely nothing to do with the point I made.

    • @rebekahguilder602
      @rebekahguilder602 2 года назад +2

      @@mickeytollison you said she was making excuses for her sin. She wasn't, she was saying the sin of idolatry was the first sin that led to her other sins.

    • @mickeytollison
      @mickeytollison 2 года назад +5

      @@rebekahguilder602 And again, her sin wasn’t idolatry of her husband. Her sin was idolatry of another man.

  • @jessevaught7994
    @jessevaught7994 2 года назад +12

    I went thru my wife been unfaithful... I was having male dysfunctional issues at the time because of medication I was on...I didn't communicate that to my wife because I felt embarrassed by it...I know it didn't give her the right to cheat...we didn't communicate very well before it happened, but we communicate very well now and our marriage is something we strive to make better everyday...I was just like Alan I thought I was going crazy losing my mind...

  • @tracy85777
    @tracy85777 Год назад +4

    It's incredibly painful when your spouse cheats... and cheats and cheats.

  • @erichernandez7687
    @erichernandez7687 3 года назад +42

    This is so powerful I am sitting in a McDonald’s drive thru crying

  • @KS-un3pi
    @KS-un3pi 3 года назад +46

    It is comforting seeing another couple go through serious trials and choose to love each other through it. My marriage also went through a similar situation. Through that we found our short comings and have persevered and have two wonderful boys and a busy life. I praise God for the grace, mercy, and forgiveness. And to my husband for finding his faith when I had lost my own(while I was so lost).

    • @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295
      @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 3 года назад

      Wow. I wish you could talk to my wife who divorced me and still harbors unforgiveness Twd me 2 years later. (There wasn't any unfaithfulness, just alot of bitterness and stubbornness that led to our divorce) Seems like you've come to the Lord the way she needs to

    • @KS-un3pi
      @KS-un3pi 3 года назад

      @@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 it wasn't an easy or overnight fix. I was previously the one that pushed to go to church and things. But when I lost my way my BIL helped my husband find his faith. Not that my husband is an active person in the church. But he goes because it is important to me. Don't get me wrong, his father was trying to get him to get a PI and he was researching ways to keep our son that I was pregnant with at the time. And I'm so glad we worked it out. Because he loves me and we both re-prioritized our lives and I now guard my heart. I didn't know the dangers of that before this happened. I was always very open and forth coming, which I still am to an extent. But I don't have close guy friends like that, etc. I have no doubt by husband would act the same if we weren't to end up together down the road. That is the example he had from his father. And I would want to be friends and make friends with the next wife. But once he is burned he has a hard time mending that fence. Best of luck! And pray for her heart and pray about bettering your heart and showing God's love to others. :)

  • @Dreamerwriter
    @Dreamerwriter 3 года назад +71

    This one needs more time. People need to know the process of forgiveness and reconciliation in a betrayal situation. I love this story but I do recommend more on them. Having been in a marriage that went This, I know so many would benefit from the full story.

    • @far22186
      @far22186 3 года назад +8

      They did an episode where she was on the podcast with them and they talked about it a month or two ago
      Episode 195

    • @strwbrryswisher420
      @strwbrryswisher420 3 года назад +6

      If I could give this comment more than 1 thumbs up I would. I wholeheartedly agree that countless people in this same situation could benefit from hearing more.

    • @debbiedoestinyliving85
      @debbiedoestinyliving85 3 года назад +8

      How to forgive what you can't forget by Lysa Terkeurst is a great resource. She too found the strength to forgive infidelity but it teaches a process applicable to all brokenness

    • @strangertobluewater
      @strangertobluewater 2 года назад

      They’ve written a couple of books on it. That may be what you are looking for.

    • @VickiSmith-eg9oo
      @VickiSmith-eg9oo Год назад

      @@debbiedoestinyliving85 And then they got divorved because he wasn't sincere about repentence and accountability.

  • @Sheraleeable
    @Sheraleeable 3 года назад +23

    We are never more Christlike than when we forgive❤️

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 года назад

      Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️

  • @sfslady1
    @sfslady1 3 года назад +15

    The real life story of Hosea. Great testimony Al and Lisa.

  • @tigercap100
    @tigercap100 3 года назад +15

    I watch all Robertson videos and relate to Al the most. He is my inspiration

  • @boardkal
    @boardkal 3 года назад +54

    I’m actually going through a similar situation , but I’m the one at fault. I wasn’t cheating physically but cheating by lusting over other women . Wife kicked me out , still allows me to see our two kids . I hope God can heal my wife’s heart and I Hope God can heal me from my sins . It’s day 6 and it’s rough .

    • @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295
      @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 3 года назад +17

      Brother confess your sins to her and ask her forgiveness. (James 5:16) Then share these marital scripture Truths with her:
      Genesis 2:24
      Mark 10:7-12
      Romans 7:39
      1 Corinthians 7:10-11
      1 Corinthians 7:39
      Ephesians 5:31-33.
      And read Ephesians 5:20-33 yourself. Then LOVE your wife from here on out as it instructs us as husbands in that passage. God bless, will be praying for you 🙏

    • @forwardobserver6441
      @forwardobserver6441 3 года назад +6

      Praying for you. I’ve been there and back. I was the one who stepped out also. It’s taken my wife and I 3 years or so to get back to how we were before.

    • @rebekahguilder602
      @rebekahguilder602 3 года назад +5

      I'm praying for you brother.

    • @boardkal
      @boardkal 3 года назад

      @Aaron Morgan thanks for your words of inspiration

    • @mr.j4347
      @mr.j4347 3 года назад +3

      Put it in GOD'S hands

  • @parysethibodeau9474
    @parysethibodeau9474 3 года назад +32

    praise God!! May He bless your marriage & family forever

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 года назад

      Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊☺️

  • @r.peebles3290
    @r.peebles3290 3 года назад +11

    Al, I felt that. I felt your pain. Such humility in a man is unbelievably rare and yours is truly Christlike. I didn't know what to expect from your wife but I can see that she has suffered, too, every time she has thought about those daughters and granddaughters. I don't know what to say except God bless you both. Sincerely in awe of you, brother AL. God is good.

  • @daleclark8872
    @daleclark8872 3 года назад +43

    Such an amazing testimony. Such heartache…but such joy. In the end. ❤️🙏🙏

    • @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295
      @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 3 года назад

      Yes. The marital Covenant is for life and they honored that
      Genesis 2:24
      Romans 7:1-3
      1 Corinthians 7:39
      Mark 10:2-12
      Luke 16:18

  • @lindajackson618
    @lindajackson618 3 года назад +6

    Man still carrying pain. I agree having gone through it many times that even with forgiveness the ugly is always there, nor far from the tears.

  • @monicawilson896
    @monicawilson896 2 года назад +2

    God truly heals and restores the humble.

  • @Makersimagestudio
    @Makersimagestudio 3 года назад +19

    Thank you for being open and honest. Being real with others. It helps us to see that God can change everything and that we all have real issues in life but that doesn’t mean we are alone or unworthy of God’s love. Jesus can help us through the good, bad and the ugly. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jodifinnegan4453
    @jodifinnegan4453 3 года назад +8

    My heart broke for Al. I'm so happy things worked out.

  • @shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657
    @shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657 4 месяца назад

    So good ro see Mr. Al come over and kneel at Miss Lisa seat. This is a tear jerker

  • @bonnieanderson429
    @bonnieanderson429 3 года назад +5

    What a POWERFUL story! God took something that satan intended to be bad and made something wonderful out of it! God bless you both!

  • @charissa6648
    @charissa6648 3 года назад +23

    Thank you for walking in such humility and vulnerability! I know it's not always easy to tell others about the most ugly parts of your life even if your in Christ, but the Lord Jesus has used your testimony to soften my heart! Even if I am the only one who is changed; this testimony deeply touched my spirit. Be encouraged as it was worth it! Thank you!

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 года назад +1

      Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊☺️

    • @charissa6648
      @charissa6648 3 года назад

      @@jasonbryan9056 Hey! I am good; how are you?

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 года назад

      @@charissa6648 I'm doing great where are you from if i may ask?

  • @angeldogs4ellie
    @angeldogs4ellie 3 года назад +3

    Every time I hear this beautiful story of forgiveness and redemption between Lisa and Al I cry. Nothing is impossible with God. Forgiveness can be so difficult, but it's so important. I dearly love these two, from my heart. ✝️🙌❤

  • @ellamarie9709
    @ellamarie9709 3 года назад +9

    I loved that he forgave her because she was truly sorry for her sins against their marriage and Christ. Now, y’all have a beautiful life and a beautiful future together. ❤️ This is such a great testimony. “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result, to preserve many people alive.” - Genesis 50:20 NASB In other words, Satan lost!!!!

  • @tylerhenley7848
    @tylerhenley7848 3 года назад +5

    Al, I was in very similar shoes for years and have yet to forgive her. Although we’ve been apart more than two years now and don’t speak, I miss her two boys terribly, the youngest one I even helped raise from birth.
    I need to find this forgiveness, even knowing we (definitely) aren’t getting back together.
    Thanks for sharing this story.

  • @jolenebauser408
    @jolenebauser408 3 года назад +28

    What an amazing testimony! God bless you both!

  • @GreenMan-em2jd
    @GreenMan-em2jd Год назад +7

    I was the cheater. My wife and I are going through this. I didn’t cheat recently it was many years ago but she forgave me without actually forgiving me like he spoke about.
    We are currently living separately. I just started serving God a few weeks ago and it’s been a lot, but I will not stop serving Him no matter what! I don’t know why I’m going through this but I pray He heals my wife even if we don’t get back together. She served God and hates Him now because He took too long to answer her prayers for me to change. God is never too late for a breakthrough and I ask anyone reading this pray for my wife and our marriage.

  • @carmenhannah5652
    @carmenhannah5652 3 года назад +1

    Wow, Lisa thought she “knew” the Lord but actually didn’t and she was a Pastors wife! This reminds me of the scripture where the people said, “in Your Name we have cast out devils” and the Lord replies “Depart from Me, I never knew (had an intimate relationship with) you”. There will be a lot of tears on the day we stand before the Lord. Just going to Church or going through the motions does not make you a Christian. It is about accepting Jesus as your Savior and knowing him intimately in relationship!
    I love their testimony! And all their families. They are showing the gospel to us in their own personal lives. Thank you Robertson’s!

  • @CountryStrong2309
    @CountryStrong2309 2 года назад +1

    This is very humbling. I don't like to see a grown man cry and hurt like this

  • @Ateyaaa
    @Ateyaaa 3 года назад +24

    WOW.....I am happy for them...

  • @michealhudson4515
    @michealhudson4515 3 года назад +1

    True forgiveness is hard. But I'll admit now that I'm older I understand forgiveness isn't weakness it truly sets you free

  • @garypeterson76
    @garypeterson76 3 года назад +6

    SOOOOOOOOOOOOO POWERFUL!! God bless you all. My name is Gary Peterson from Abilene Texas and I am second!! Thank you God for loving me.

    • @IAm2nd
      @IAm2nd  3 года назад +1

      Yes you are!

    • @angier6118
      @angier6118 3 года назад

      Gary Peterson from Abilene, Texas... I'm Angela from New Zealand. If you are the 'Gary Peterson' I think you are, once upon a time I knew you :)

  • @ruready4adventure743
    @ruready4adventure743 3 года назад +6

    Thank you for your transparency & vulnerability.
    Healing can come after one exposes, forgives ones self and others.
    Thank the Lord for His Mercy & Grace.

  • @potridge
    @potridge 3 года назад +2

    Their story is my story. My husband put me through hell. We have stayed together for 44 years, but I have not yet gotten to the point where I can forgive him, and our marriage has suffered because of it. I’m glad they have found their way.

  • @timberman1206
    @timberman1206 Год назад +1

    I’ve lived both sides of this . Saying I’m sorry and meaning it is one of the hardest things .

  • @kathyrogowski1512
    @kathyrogowski1512 3 года назад +16

    Yep it’s horrible when your spouse won’t admit it.

    • @jacobs1447
      @jacobs1447 3 года назад

      Yeah, it usually feels much better when they're brutally honest about cheating on you. lol

  • @antonego7950
    @antonego7950 Год назад +3

    I’m surprised miss Kay didn’t want y’all to stay together

  • @lowlightevangelist9431
    @lowlightevangelist9431 3 года назад +3

    Praise God in Christ! Thank you Al, for staying the course in your faith and doing these podcasts.

    • @lynnharris6877
      @lynnharris6877 3 года назад +1

      I haven't seen anything from AL to admit his short comings that may have been a part of the problem.

  • @Jojoba25
    @Jojoba25 3 года назад +5

    I absolutely love this. To see what people are capable of thru Jesus and the willingness to. Thank you for sharing the raw truth and the journey of healing. We CAN forgive and heal.

  • @bethanywilhelm4451
    @bethanywilhelm4451 3 года назад +2

    This has about made me cry..I see myself and my own husband in y’all. I’ve been on the brink of staying or leaving. And God has not revealed a clear answer to me.
    I can see y’all’s love for each other. And y’all stuck it out. Just like Miss Kay says “one man, one woman for one life”. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼☝🏼

  • @kevinthorrington2131
    @kevinthorrington2131 Год назад

    The power of forgiveness god gave us. If we can forgive nothing will destroy us.

  • @rendalee6168
    @rendalee6168 2 года назад +1

    My youngest son had no Father to teach him to hunt. I got lost in drugs and alcohol too Jep. Thank you for telling the truth. 💘

  • @MsMcCoolio1221
    @MsMcCoolio1221 3 года назад +6

    WOW, after my husband cheated on me, I was not able to forgive him for many years, however he left and never came back..... So glad you were able to do that and thank you for your honesty. 💕

    • @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295
      @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 3 года назад +1

      If he is you 1st, original Covenant husband then I'd urge you to reach out to him as you are both STILL MARRIED in God's eyes. The churches have Lied about this and followed the devil in the false doctrine of divorce (and remarriage) but The Holy Word of God says otherwise...
      Matthew 19:5-6
      Mark 10:2-12
      Luke 16:18
      Romans 7:1-3
      1 Corinthians 7:39
      Ephesians 5:25-33
      The marriage Covenant is indeed for life and Only death breaks it

    • @MsMcCoolio1221
      @MsMcCoolio1221 3 года назад +1

      @@philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 unfortunately I am not able too, he passed away 9 years ago, thank God we were able to talk and openly and honestly forgive each other and were friendly a few years before he died.

    • @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295
      @philarevolutionarywarriorp8295 3 года назад +1

      @@MsMcCoolio1221 Amen Sister. That's great to hear. Hopefully you find a new husband (if you so choose) as you are free to do so in the Lord as a widow
      [1 Corinthians 7:39]

  • @alchemenergyacademy6231
    @alchemenergyacademy6231 2 года назад +1

    I love the authenticity and transparency of your family. I worked with thousands and there is nothing more inspiring. With Christ, nothing can't be fixed. You all are my hero's.

  • @RealityChick77
    @RealityChick77 3 года назад +1

    Out of all of them, I relate to Lisa the most. I just feel connected to her testimony down to my soul

  • @user-by6yc8yl7v
    @user-by6yc8yl7v 3 года назад +19

    I would never be able to forgive/forget that level of betrayal.
    Hes a stronger man than I am.

    • @kylecody1948
      @kylecody1948 3 года назад +3

      Totally agree! More power to him but hell no!

    • @pawrestlingchamp
      @pawrestlingchamp 3 года назад

      I feel the same way, and I don’t know if this is a situation where forgiveness is the right thing. Obviously live your life how you see fit, but personally I don’t think betrayal is something I could forgive and love that person again.

    • @debbiedoestinyliving85
      @debbiedoestinyliving85 3 года назад +6

      You can do all things through Christ who will strengthen you.

    • @Scott81
      @Scott81 8 месяцев назад +2

      Better be glad the Lord don’t think like you do or you would never be able to be saved.

  • @calvinmoore4040
    @calvinmoore4040 3 года назад +16

    The production is perfect and these scenes are so intriguing but subtle like a homicide show 🤣sorry but love it

    • @brunetteone4082
      @brunetteone4082 3 года назад

      Haha I was thinking the same. Its great and I'm able to take it seriously.

  • @francampbell9356
    @francampbell9356 3 года назад +10

    Absolutely beautiful testimony, and I can relate!

  • @Bazerkly
    @Bazerkly 3 года назад +5

    "forgive but never forget"

  • @ImTheGripper
    @ImTheGripper 3 года назад +3

    I'm so thankful for their honesty because I've dealt exactly with this myself. I remember feeling exactly like he said. I'm now just grateful for God being right by my side through it all, even if it's silent.

  • @trinastokes8282
    @trinastokes8282 3 года назад +2

    Thank you! So beautiful, the Lord's restoration.

  • @jerryaelvoet72
    @jerryaelvoet72 3 года назад +3

    What an AWESOME account of Forgiveness! Jesus is LORD!!

  • @sunshinydayz1
    @sunshinydayz1 3 года назад

    I love how he whispers to her in the end. That is so beautiful. He really was a humble disciple of God to do this very very hard thing. Thank you so much for sharing this intimate forgiveness.

  • @carykain6047
    @carykain6047 3 года назад

    If humility is power under control then these two have been given power in selflessness towards Christ first and then each other. All the kids want to be radical today. Listen to this story, this is radical. It defies personal happiness and fulfillment. It is one of surrender. They are Second and so am I.

  • @rianaconklin6954
    @rianaconklin6954 3 года назад +1

    My husband and I just celebrated our 13 year wedding anniversary and we have been together for almost 16 years, and we had a lot of the same issues at the beginning of our relationship, so hearing and seeing another couple make it through that is so heartwarming and just really makes my faith stronger, thank you for sharing your story, especially knowing just how hard it must have been. I wish your family many many years of happiness ❤❤

  • @kristyhanna8476
    @kristyhanna8476 3 года назад +7

    Thank y'all for your transparency!! ❤️

    • @jasonbryan9056
      @jasonbryan9056 3 года назад

      Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️😊

  • @utterlynice1
    @utterlynice1 3 года назад

    i weep as i hear your testimony and see how good God is! So glad you didn’t listen to the negative voices telling you to give up on your marriage or your wife! If only more men and women would fight for their own marriages today and allow the Lord to help them forgive and to become one together to be stronger and help others. Thank you and God bless you!

  • @melissaculpepper7663
    @melissaculpepper7663 3 года назад +3

    God, You’re so good and amazing! Praise God for this testimony!

  • @robertpaz4299
    @robertpaz4299 3 года назад +1

    Alan is a wise man. WOW! Looks like his Mom taught him a lot about God. And honesty is always best.

  • @margaretmcfall9746
    @margaretmcfall9746 Год назад

    I'm crying. A beautiful ending ...a new beginning ❤

  • @alan93
    @alan93 11 месяцев назад

    Forgiveness is the bridge we cross over into heaven. Pity those who leave their spouses for much much less and don't forgive.

  • @donniemiracle850
    @donniemiracle850 3 года назад

    Hi Al my name is Donnie Miracle from Middlesboro Ky I have stage 4 cancer i just wNt to tell you guys how much I appreciate you all im a deacon at my church Dunlap Baptist Church they haven't give me long but we know the good lord is the one who has the final say I love to hear your dad speak all you guys I would love to maybe get some you old Bible and study s you may no use no morejust so I could study but all the most keep me and my family in your prayers

  • @elijah2078
    @elijah2078 Год назад

    I love the brutal honesty these guys reveal. Jesus Christ is LORD!!!!!!

  • @seniortips1196
    @seniortips1196 3 года назад

    That was an awesome testament! Thank you Jesus for your Grace and Mercy for this wonderful couple! There is none like you!!!!!🙏🏻😊

  • @bethking1446
    @bethking1446 Год назад

    I have heard Lisa's testimony before and she always brings me to tears. Love how she has been able to help so many, just telling what she went through. Very happy that they both give testimony together.

  • @shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657
    @shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657 4 месяца назад

    What a beautiful testimony

  • @jdfleblanc
    @jdfleblanc 3 года назад +4

    This is so freaking awesome.

  • @mirrorvoices2739
    @mirrorvoices2739 8 месяцев назад

    I personally believe Forgiveness is the lord’s wisdom but one should remember the lesson in what had happened so it won’t repeat without becoming bitter, be patient because every struggle is a lesson and opportunity from god and confront problems with wisdom instead of malice its hard by is far more rewarding than the alternative. Thank you for this insightful story to study from

  • @laurenbytlupian5256
    @laurenbytlupian5256 5 месяцев назад

    Them Robertson Men are all so dang HANDSOME❤❤❤

  • @davidchlarson5136
    @davidchlarson5136 3 года назад

    I want to say Thank you...Thank you for sharing such a private and special story. As your story is symbolic to mine and I am sure to so many others I would like to share the following. I have found that any 2 people can persevere though any trial as long as one of those 2 people is our Heavenly Father. The above story shows this to be true. Life challenges can test us to our very core. Wanting us to end anything that can bring joy to our lives. The key is to allow our Heavenly Father to guide our life and allow our Faith to be within him 100% in our thoughts, actions and daily lives. Trials can be so difficult and make us want to give up. But despite our trial, we can overcome any obstacle that is placed before us by exercising our Faith in our Heavenly Father. This doesn't mean that life will be a walk in the park. It will still have its ups and downs. But I am here to promise each of you that on our Heavenly Fathers watch your trial will pass and you will eventually see the Joy that was meant for you and each of us. God Bless You All

  • @hat3weaver
    @hat3weaver 3 года назад

    Such a beautiful story.... thanks for sharing.
    As a husband - super hard for me not to have a hard edge on this. I sure hope I never have to walk his path.... I think it would end in a manslaughter charge.

  • @RevolutioXxNx
    @RevolutioXxNx 3 года назад +8

    I caused distrust in my marriage and was so ashamed to allow the devil to come into my life. My husband didn't want to end our marriage and we're still together today, thank you Lord. I have Jesus on my side now and the devil has no chance. For something bad there is more good that come out of it. I'm more into God and Jesus, I read my Bible and pray no telling how many times a day. Thank you Lord for rescuing me from sin. God bless everyone

    • @sarahlaslett3279
      @sarahlaslett3279 3 года назад

      "He who has been forgiven much , loves much'

  • @richardcampbell5762
    @richardcampbell5762 3 года назад

    This put a big smile on my face, to be that strong, and to put all that Hardship to the side is a testament of its own. Thank you both for sharing your story.
    From New Mexico, Stay safe and stay blessed my friend's. 👍🇺🇲🇺🇲✌🙏

  • @pjfetts893
    @pjfetts893 3 года назад

    "There's was no truth" I have been there - not with a husband but children. It will drive you crazy. I had never put it in those words before. Thank you!! Now I will try to find the truth - instead of letting all the surmising drive me insane.

  • @christiabreeden7777
    @christiabreeden7777 3 года назад +3

    I'm excited about this mini series!

  • @elliottmaryme
    @elliottmaryme 3 года назад +1

    Im so glad y'all shared this! God bless!!!

  • @upliftsignncrane3525
    @upliftsignncrane3525 3 года назад

    Wow! What courage you both have telling your story to the world. What hope you give to couples around the world. Thank you. Sincerely

  • @serenitybingham4793
    @serenitybingham4793 3 года назад +1

    This is my favorite family and I am enjoying there I am second videos thanks a lot this one is one of my favorites

  • @lonnien.clifton1113
    @lonnien.clifton1113 3 года назад +2

    You did the right thing Al

  • @mikewitfoth9255
    @mikewitfoth9255 3 года назад +5

    Awesome job y’all!!!

    • @IAm2nd
      @IAm2nd  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching

  • @Brian-rj1un
    @Brian-rj1un 3 года назад +1

    I don’t think I would be able to forgive somebody if they cheated on me

  • @christiabreeden7777
    @christiabreeden7777 3 года назад +2

    I so appreciate yalls openess

  • @lindabroussard2564
    @lindabroussard2564 Год назад

    I did the same life my husband was not in faith and I was trying to hold my family together I used no counsel but prayed If only he had told me the truth All the women he went through I knew one name. gayla and I won’t put the last name I will carry that name in my mind. I won’t put that thought for my daughter to carry

  • @sonshinethomas7986
    @sonshinethomas7986 3 года назад

    My exs messed around on me then beat me I was done. Bless them and my brothers family for being a strong marrage bond some don't have that.

  • @scottsmith966
    @scottsmith966 3 года назад

    I've herd them talk about this before, I went through the same thing but it didn't work out for me. I'm sure she's sorry but at the same time she probably don't want to keep living this.
    One God forgives you it is forgotten, why can't we be the same? God bless you both🙏🙏🙏

  • @paulbegansky5650
    @paulbegansky5650 3 года назад

    I am glad you made it through. I was not, evil got to my ex wife. I saw the change and realized there was nothing I could do. More like a car crash that you have no control over. Her lies and deceit were everyday. There was no way I could forgive her or get her to see what she had done.

  • @PlumbingArkansas
    @PlumbingArkansas 2 месяца назад

    Airing out your baggage like this has to be extremely difficult. I don’t think I’d have the courage.

  • @veronicaziegler63
    @veronicaziegler63 Год назад

    Thru pain God can help our marriages

  • @bonniedios2530
    @bonniedios2530 3 года назад +1

    So powerful!! Thank you for sharing your stories

    • @IAm2nd
      @IAm2nd  3 года назад

      You are so welcome

  • @shywatz
    @shywatz 3 года назад

    Lisa, I have read enough about you to know your story. My childhood dysfunction follows me. I haven't watched your videos because I am afraid of the feelings that I have buried but not very well. I was a PK and knew better but feel a wall in my ministry and marriage now. It may well be my own shame. I desire to get to the other side of all of this. I need to see you smile more and speak more - not of your testimony but of your joys now. how has God & Alan restored you (today) and how do you receive it?

  • @gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042
    @gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042 3 года назад +1

    Powerful TESTIMONY

  • @patriciajudkins8961
    @patriciajudkins8961 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing that.

  • @logspeck
    @logspeck 3 года назад +1

    Powerful. Thank you LORD

  • @MamaBoots007
    @MamaBoots007 3 года назад +5

    Waiting patiently.....
    Love these two 💛

    • @IAm2nd
      @IAm2nd  3 года назад +4

      Us too! 7:00, It's gonna be good!

    • @wv_mom33
      @wv_mom33 3 года назад +1

      @@IAm2nd can hardly wait.
      8:00-our time. 😊

    • @MamaBoots007
      @MamaBoots007 3 года назад +2

      @@wv_mom33 do you watch the Unashamed podcasts?

    • @MamaBoots007
      @MamaBoots007 3 года назад

      @@IAm2nd 💛

    • @wv_mom33
      @wv_mom33 3 года назад +2

      @@MamaBoots007 YES!!!
      Sunday, Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.
      I AM UNASHAMED!

  • @Elmo_Fuddleputt
    @Elmo_Fuddleputt 3 года назад

    Wow. Powerful, powerful testimony.

  • @sheresejames-grow1779
    @sheresejames-grow1779 2 года назад

    Awww....so sweet! God bless them! May God keep them until....🙌🏾

  • @isaiahhoffer9507
    @isaiahhoffer9507 Год назад

    Beautiful story I am second.

  • @annettedorman7377
    @annettedorman7377 3 года назад

    Thank you both for your testimony, your courage is inspiring, God makes all things possible

  • @vrcarlos6955
    @vrcarlos6955 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing and allowing others to learn from you and have hope. Hope in our risen Lord.