I would have respected it more if she told me upfront and to my face, but she's not the type to be direct or take accountability for ANYTHING. She's a very secretive person.
I feel so fucking stupid for not seeing all of this coming, fuck me man. This was my very first relationship. 5 years into the fucking trash bin. At least I get this information at age 25. Love your videos, thanks for the work.
great video gave it a like and subbed...not here because im beong monkey branched but because i have 2 different girls at work tryna monkey branch too me...they used too be friends now they're very passive aggressive and fake nice too each other its fancinating too watch
Good advice Mr Christian. It happened to me too. I would like to add a few more signs to help out the people here based on my experiences. Some of it are signs she's ready to find your replacement to monkey branching. 1. Her lovey dovey messages, voice messages & calls are getting lesser & lesser. 2. She doesn't reply your messages for a very long time & doesn't call you back. 3. When out of a sudden she posted messages in her social media lamenting she's not good enough for anyone or destined to be alone. 4. When she out of sudden doesn't want you to call her darling, honey, wife etc. 5. When she posted lots of sexy & sluttish selfies in her social media & lots of beta simp orbiters complimenting, liking & validating it. Hope it helps!
This is so accurate. That part that spoke to me the most was the disappearing. Guys me and my ex LITERALLY live across the street from each other, and i mean right across but adjacent. No longer than a 20 second walk. I noticed she became distant out of nowhere and her daily pattern changed. We'd go days sometimes weeks without spending time. We both had jobs and everything like that but if you live that close to your partner there's no way you go that long without spending quality time. It just doesn't make sense. Come to find out she was with some other dude the entire time cheating on me. I started to get frustrated with her absence and lashed out, even stopped texting her for a few days. She was chasing and still texting me but my spirit new something wasnt right, she's hiding something. She called me one day calmly trying to talk regularly but my rage couldn't let me play the fool any longer. I told her i wasn't her out my life and to never speak again. She told me thank you for the closure and that she'd always love me. That raised my antennas. After i blew up on her it seemed like she took it too easily. She was hurt but at the same time she Already had been messing with another guy. A few weeks no contact because i was training for another job and she uploads a profile pic which looks like her upper body is naked and her eyes are covered with a filter that said " i don't care". It was then i knew. How could you be angry at someone for breaking up with you yet you were cheating for months. Then you try to blame it on me by bringing up things i did years ago and we already discussed and made peace with. I now know that was just her projecting and making an excuse.
It sucks. My ex(29F) was a great person. Trustable, merciful, loving, caring, giving, so many more good qualities. It was my fault that she didnt get enough support, attention and future guarantee from me. Last week we had intimacy, she was even sending me news and we had a last fight then few days later she told me she met with other guy and left me. They soon started living together, she posted stories which she never did with me. It has been a month since breakup. I dont think she slept with him before breaking up with me but again it happened so fast that we didn't have a second chance.
yup... in my case, she starts claiming working late, team events etc... after that, she pulls away and saying she wants to spend time with her kids, tired and want to stay home. And when i call or text during this stage, she doesn't pick up, or took a few hours to respond. She then breaks up with me, and refuse to seek professional help or even talk about our relationship. I kept pressuring, then she finally confessed. Turns out to be a coworker of hers, who she's been expressing her relationship issues with for months, and monkey branched onto him. I'll see you an update through email Christian!
I was with my ex for 6 1/2 years and she did this to me in November 2022. I was totally blindsided lol. A week after she broke up with me, she called me and told me she is seeing someone else. The new guy got out of prison after 11 years and she bailed on me for him 3 months after his release. I have never experienced such mental lows in my 45 years of life.
Just happened to me too mate. Over 2 years together and I know it sounds stupid but we got on great together and both loved each other lots. Then one night she goes out with her friends and gets a guys number and the next day she told me to move out. She didn’t even know the guy 12 hours. I found out when she was slyly texting away to him and when I saw the messages from behind her I instantly walked out. No explanation. No goodbye. Nothing. Cut the branch straight away and let her fall. Not spoke to her or seen her since.
I have a question: How can we know if the girl we meet is not going to do that?My ex was adopted but have really good and loving adoptive parents. She was single for some time before meeting me. I never thought she’d be able to monkey branch on me, I though she was crazy in love with me… yet she jumped to a co-worker a couple of days after she dumped me out of the blue. Not only was I confused and hurt, but I could never imagine that SHE could to that. I thought she had values..! Thank you
The only way to avoid such women is by filling in your knowledge gap regarding red flags & understanding that it’s always rooted in unrepentant sin & unresolved trauma. Throughout my Relationship Mastery course ( 12 week course) I teach you everything regarding courtship, relationship & marriage. In week 4; I cover around 17+ hours worth of video lessons all about Red flag awareness to fill in your knowledge gap. if you’d like to learn more or want free access to the first 2 weeks of the course; then join my free program here: www.skool.com/relearning-relationships-7910?invite=36a9fd15fbf24e94ade10ecd4821f1ef
I left her before she could do that. I saw the signs and I walked away and got another chick the next week. Walking away is the best thing you can do because that's showing her your not a sucker.
Does the same apply to men monkey branching? I think my boyfriend may have, but if there were signs, I didn't see them at all. He broke up with me completely out of the blue- I was blindsided after taking marriage, kids, and looking at houses together. 2 weeks later he was in fb in a relationship 💔
I would have respected it more if she told me upfront and to my face, but she's not the type to be direct or take accountability for ANYTHING. She's a very secretive person.
I feel so fucking stupid for not seeing all of this coming, fuck me man.
This was my very first relationship. 5 years into the fucking trash bin.
At least I get this information at age 25.
Love your videos, thanks for the work.
Happened to me at 38 smh
great video gave it a like and subbed...not here because im beong monkey branched but because i have 2 different girls at work tryna monkey branch too me...they used too be friends now they're very passive aggressive and fake nice too each other its fancinating too watch
similar thing happened with me and this guy helped me with mails and voice recordings. i am feeling better and thankful 🙏🏻
Thanks for your kind words anshul! I hope you’re doing well
Good advice Mr Christian. It happened to me too. I would like to add a few more signs to help out the people here based on my experiences. Some of it are signs she's ready to find your replacement to monkey branching.
1. Her lovey dovey messages, voice messages & calls are getting lesser & lesser.
2. She doesn't reply your messages for a very long time & doesn't call you back.
3. When out of a sudden she posted messages in her social media lamenting she's not good enough for anyone or destined to be alone.
4. When she out of sudden doesn't want you to call her darling, honey, wife etc.
5. When she posted lots of sexy & sluttish selfies in her social media & lots of beta simp orbiters complimenting, liking & validating it.
Hope it helps!
Very well said Terry!
@@RelearningRelationships Thanks Mr Christian. Just want to help other people so they don't have to go through of what I had experienced.
I hope you’re doing better now!
@@RelearningRelationships I'm doing fine here Mr Christian. Hope you are fine there too.
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This is so accurate. That part that spoke to me the most was the disappearing. Guys me and my ex LITERALLY live across the street from each other, and i mean right across but adjacent. No longer than a 20 second walk. I noticed she became distant out of nowhere and her daily pattern changed. We'd go days sometimes weeks without spending time. We both had jobs and everything like that but if you live that close to your partner there's no way you go that long without spending quality time. It just doesn't make sense. Come to find out she was with some other dude the entire time cheating on me. I started to get frustrated with her absence and lashed out, even stopped texting her for a few days. She was chasing and still texting me but my spirit new something wasnt right, she's hiding something. She called me one day calmly trying to talk regularly but my rage couldn't let me play the fool any longer. I told her i wasn't her out my life and to never speak again. She told me thank you for the closure and that she'd always love me. That raised my antennas. After i blew up on her it seemed like she took it too easily. She was hurt but at the same time she Already had been messing with another guy. A few weeks no contact because i was training for another job and she uploads a profile pic which looks like her upper body is naked and her eyes are covered with a filter that said " i don't care". It was then i knew. How could you be angry at someone for breaking up with you yet you were cheating for months. Then you try to blame it on me by bringing up things i did years ago and we already discussed and made peace with. I now know that was just her projecting and making an excuse.
its fascinating to me what lengths they go too dodge accountability
You shold do a follow up video on the dynamic of monkey branched relationships and if they even last
I’ll definitely talk about this topic. Thanks for the suggestion
It sucks. My ex(29F) was a great person. Trustable, merciful, loving, caring, giving, so many more good qualities. It was my fault that she didnt get enough support, attention and future guarantee from me. Last week we had intimacy, she was even sending me news and we had a last fight then few days later she told me she met with other guy and left me. They soon started living together, she posted stories which she never did with me. It has been a month since breakup. I dont think she slept with him before breaking up with me but again it happened so fast that we didn't have a second chance.
yup... in my case, she starts claiming working late, team events etc... after that, she pulls away and saying she wants to spend time with her kids, tired and want to stay home. And when i call or text during this stage, she doesn't pick up, or took a few hours to respond. She then breaks up with me, and refuse to seek professional help or even talk about our relationship. I kept pressuring, then she finally confessed. Turns out to be a coworker of hers, who she's been expressing her relationship issues with for months, and monkey branched onto him. I'll see you an update through email Christian!
Very true!!! Looking forward to your email!
I was with my ex for 6 1/2 years and she did this to me in November 2022. I was totally blindsided lol. A week after she broke up with me, she called me and told me she is seeing someone else. The new guy got out of prison after 11 years and she bailed on me for him 3 months after his release. I have never experienced such mental lows in my 45 years of life.
Just happened to me too mate. Over 2 years together and I know it sounds stupid but we got on great together and both loved each other lots. Then one night she goes out with her friends and gets a guys number and the next day she told me to move out. She didn’t even know the guy 12 hours. I found out when she was slyly texting away to him and when I saw the messages from behind her I instantly walked out. No explanation. No goodbye. Nothing. Cut the branch straight away and let her fall. Not spoke to her or seen her since.
I have a question: How can we know if the girl we meet is not going to do that?My ex was adopted but have really good and loving adoptive parents. She was single for some time before meeting me. I never thought she’d be able to monkey branch on me, I though she was crazy in love with me… yet she jumped to a co-worker a couple of days after she dumped me out of the blue. Not only was I confused and hurt, but I could never imagine that SHE could to that. I thought she had values..! Thank you
The only way to avoid such women is by filling in your knowledge gap regarding red flags & understanding that it’s always rooted in unrepentant sin & unresolved trauma. Throughout my Relationship Mastery course ( 12 week course) I teach you everything regarding courtship, relationship & marriage. In week 4; I cover around 17+ hours worth of video lessons all about Red flag awareness to fill in your knowledge gap. if you’d like to learn more or want free access to the first 2 weeks of the course; then join my free program here: www.skool.com/relearning-relationships-7910?invite=36a9fd15fbf24e94ade10ecd4821f1ef
Thank you
I left her before she could do that. I saw the signs and I walked away and got another chick the next week. Walking away is the best thing you can do because that's showing her your not a sucker.
You did the right thing. She’s for the streets!
Really helpful here..
Does the same apply to men monkey branching? I think my boyfriend may have, but if there were signs, I didn't see them at all. He broke up with me completely out of the blue- I was blindsided after taking marriage, kids, and looking at houses together. 2 weeks later he was in fb in a relationship 💔
Goes both ways! Be careful of the man you choose.
Too quiet...barely hear him.
Volume up