Break Up to Make Up: Victoria Golden v Freddie Lind

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • Victoria says her husband, Freddie, is a manchild who dresses like a teenager and won’t find a steady job. Freddie says Victoria is a “know it all” who loves to embarrass him in public.
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Комментарии • 126

  • @MyshanaDioniaMUA
    @MyshanaDioniaMUA 10 месяцев назад +130

    Let him take the lead?. He gone lead you of a cliff sis. Her expectations honestly weren't that high she was asking for bare minimum

    • @idkausername4035
      @idkausername4035 10 месяцев назад +5

      I agree however there were a little things that she kept saying that show you she really is kind of a nasty person she did not have to bring up his weight the way he dresses she belittled him multiple times sounds like she got with kind of a loser and then got mad at him for being a loser she ignored the red flags and made it his problem and beat the dude down

    • @ShirleyKoelle
      @ShirleyKoelle 9 месяцев назад

      I'm her sister and both her and Freddie are liars. Met as addicts, abused each other, I can't even believe this was TV worthy without anyone legal paralegal doing homework on them both.

    • @annetterichard7425
      @annetterichard7425 3 месяца назад +1

      Mrs. Golden deserves better. She shouldn't have to beg this man gir affection. He ain't paying nothing, so you are a child she has to care for. Victoria, you deserve better and can do better . Judge Star love you, but I don't agree with your verdict on this one. The man is a loser.

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 10 месяцев назад +71

    The judge called it exactly what it was. They're on two different pages. In fact, they aren't even in the same book.

    • @ShirleyKoelle
      @ShirleyKoelle 9 месяцев назад +1

      Judge was clueless . A puppet by both of them in her own court room . BTW I'm her sister

    • @abbieconnie2012
      @abbieconnie2012 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ShirleyKoelle are they still together?

  • @6Summerville
    @6Summerville 10 месяцев назад +53

    He has nothing but excuses and wants to do the bare minimum while being praised as a provider. She needs to move on with her life, he will NEVER be the man she desires.

    • @Trinidad679
      @Trinidad679 10 месяцев назад +4

      She's constantly belittling and disrespecting him

    • @ashleyj7011
      @ashleyj7011 10 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Trinidad679Exactly 💯💯💯

  • @justhereyeah1112
    @justhereyeah1112 10 месяцев назад +47

    I think this is an example of why they say addicts should not date each other

  • @DVWMT96
    @DVWMT96 10 месяцев назад +49

    The only thing I can see is her ponytail moving back and forth about affection 😂😂😂 She’s passionate ❤

  • @FinDom1
    @FinDom1 10 месяцев назад +13

    He isn’t very proactive but she is very overbearing. She won’t even let him speak.

  • @sug8415
    @sug8415 10 месяцев назад +41

    Dude too old to be acting this way but those years of drug use got him stuck in time

  • @ElaineLoyd
    @ElaineLoyd 10 месяцев назад +27

    Men be like "let me lead" but they need you to take care of them.

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 10 месяцев назад +2

      😂 I suppose we could say the same thing about women "treat us/women like an equal but I want you as the man to pay for everything..."...the audacity, hypocrisy and double standards....lol

    • @d820m
      @d820m 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@zulu3274and then try to complain that men don't protect them...protect them from what, exactly?😂😂😂

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@d820m 😅 honestly nothing... But if you are in danger that often, you need to take time to analyze your life... lol

  • @spunkyspinelli
    @spunkyspinelli 10 месяцев назад +7

    She makes no sense at first she said she wanted him to put in effort because she shouldn’t be doing all the work , then she said she wants him home with her and living off disability …which one is it

  • @tib1632
    @tib1632 10 месяцев назад +29

    All men can’t lead. He’s one.

  • @justsayin5177
    @justsayin5177 10 месяцев назад +22

    No Star... this guy is immature. He's a boy in a man's body. He has no goals or focus. She should have dropped him a while ago and not settle. He needs to grow up.

    • @annetterichard7425
      @annetterichard7425 3 месяца назад +1

      Agree. Judge surprised me with this one. He's a grown man, 45 years old with no direction.

  • @khaotickhay7598
    @khaotickhay7598 10 месяцев назад +8

    She was putting him on full blast, she's sick of him! 😂😂😂😂

  • @nancysimone1021
    @nancysimone1021 10 месяцев назад +30

    Judge Star is up there with Judge Lynn Toler - great performer, great advice and insight, and she slays

    • @oceanpoint7692
      @oceanpoint7692 10 месяцев назад +5

      Never up there with judge Lynn but she's doing a good job

  • @lakeofalltrades
    @lakeofalltrades 10 месяцев назад +36

    I think the drugs hit him different. He’s no longer mentally capable. She needs to move on. Awww she loves him but it’s over. He will find someone on his level.

  • @tpoppy9303
    @tpoppy9303 10 месяцев назад +21

    She should leave him to find himself.

  • @bidah007
    @bidah007 10 месяцев назад +46

    People who are financially unstable are often mentally unstable too. This man shouldn’t seek a relationship but instead a therapist.

    • @margokyler-knight9428
      @margokyler-knight9428 10 месяцев назад +4

      You are so out left field. Having financial issues is not indicative of mental instabilities

    • @bidah007
      @bidah007 10 месяцев назад +7

      @@margokyler-knight9428 If you got triggered by my comment I invite you to talk to a professional. By the way , I’ve been working in the medical field for more than 20 years specifically with adults.

    • @Play4keeks
      @Play4keeks 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@margokyler-knight9428but poor mental health is indicative of poor financials a lot of the time.

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 10 месяцев назад +2

      I'm mentally unstable but not financially unstable. Unless you call making $27 an hour working full-time and recently purchasing a townhome being financially unstable. 😂

    • @bidah007
      @bidah007 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@BREEZYM6015 I hope you’re seeking the help that you need because buying a house with your mental instability might become a high stressor. Take your meds.

  • @deemarshall995
    @deemarshall995 9 месяцев назад +5

    His self-esteem is very low because she is like a dripping faucet. It's hard to be affectionate with someone if emotionally you are hurting.

  • @mmmfun77
    @mmmfun77 10 месяцев назад +5

    He has every excuse in the book. Arrested development comes to mind. This was so painful to watch. She needs to let him go once and for all….

  • @siarrahperryman5790
    @siarrahperryman5790 10 месяцев назад +7

    Him using COVID as an excuse is CRAZY because they were almost pushing people through programs because we needed medical personnel that badly. They even allowed us to hire people not qualified, just so companies could at least have one driver and one EMT on a unit. This man is just lazy

  • @marilaucher9989
    @marilaucher9989 10 месяцев назад +37

    She fell in love with a drug addict who was a different person obviously a more charming person because he was high all the time so now she's confronted with the real person and she's disappointed. Both of them spent what should have been their college years getting high instead of learning . Why is she just getting disability and staying home and wanting to be flattered? Why isn't she taking some courses online and learning a skill because often people who are handicapped can have careers. Both a case of arrested development.

    • @Sabrewood13
      @Sabrewood13 10 месяцев назад +5

      We do not know her disability, if it’s so serious she’s being payed enough to live on, it probably prevents her from working

    • @ashleyj7011
      @ashleyj7011 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Sabrewood13💯💯💯

    • @iSaidGoodDay
      @iSaidGoodDay 10 месяцев назад

      @marilaucher9989 🎯🎯🎯

  • @dlovely22
    @dlovely22 10 месяцев назад +7

    He's so not into her and this was so sad to see. You should never have to BEG for affection from your partner. She's a good woman hopefully she finds someone on her level because.... this ain't it

    • @annetterichard7425
      @annetterichard7425 3 месяца назад

      Agree. The judge, afterwords with Robert, really surprised me. This guy is living in a fantasy world. He may still be using.

  • @ninadavis5517
    @ninadavis5517 10 месяцев назад +16

    He's able bodied and needs to be productive and have a purpose. She wants to be catered to if he doesn't work. They need to part ways.

  • @mboyd692
    @mboyd692 10 месяцев назад +9

    He’s a bum. She knew he was a loser. She thought she could “change” him. You can’t change the bum.

    • @Trinidad679
      @Trinidad679 10 месяцев назад

      She's condescending towards him though. It's obvious he's going through something

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 10 месяцев назад +3

    She’s way over the top, she needs to move on and let that man evolve, they have been through a lot but maybe this is the end of the road for them. They have truly outgrown each other. Neither one of them can get to the next level with each other. Yes, she is constantly berating him. She needs to GO!!!!

  • @jayPecentage
    @jayPecentage 10 месяцев назад +8

    She was putting the guy down too much. I understand why he checked out.

    • @Kayjames44
      @Kayjames44 10 месяцев назад +3

      Checking out is ok. At least be honest about it. Then everyone can go be happy🙏🏾

  • @monie2514
    @monie2514 10 месяцев назад +8

    The man is tired of having somebody down talk him bully him acting overly sexually pressed.🤬🤦🏻‍♀️👎🏼 and I think it's just time for them to go their separate

  • @jasonleman1396
    @jasonleman1396 10 месяцев назад +9

    She needs to lighten up, and why would he want to be with her when he is always putting him down!

  • @johnnyb6151
    @johnnyb6151 10 месяцев назад +4

    Judge, I respectfully disagree. Hes not saying lighten up. Hes saying im not attracted to you. I like the fact that you provide. But Im not attracted to you physically. Ray Charles could see that. Lastly, if you know your a man and youre stepping up like a man then no matter what anyone says they can't take that away. Im tired of these simps saying she don't talk to me, treat me and respect me like a man. If you allowed it then you werent a man to begin with.

  • @iSaidGoodDay
    @iSaidGoodDay 10 месяцев назад +4

    He is trying to find his way after addiction. I can imagine it’s a terrible struggle. She’s a lot…incorrigible, in fact. And not only does it disrupt his delicate process, but it harms him. At one point she says she doesn’t mind taking care of them, then she says she’s tired of supporting a grown man. She needs to be alone or with someone who respectfully encourages her to stfu.

  • @melaninandaura9713
    @melaninandaura9713 10 месяцев назад +13

    “When I look at her I know I want to be with her” that was pitiful imo. I was looking for him to say “I see my future or I see all of the joy and love I have for her or her beautiful soul… something maybe I’m just being picky cuz I’m a poet though. Lol

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 10 месяцев назад +1

      😂 who wants to be romantic with somebody that just got through openly calling them overweight yet if he would have did that to her all hell would have broke loose even though she is a fatty too.... lol
      I like poetry too 😅

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@zulu3274to answer your question no one. But in that same breath who can tolerate providing for someone who lays up watching anime, while you take care of them like they’re a child?

    • @user-us8dm5zl3r
      @user-us8dm5zl3r 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@zulu3274😅

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 10 месяцев назад +4

    She won't shut up. She's insulting. Why would he want to kiss her.

  • @lovemealways7
    @lovemealways7 10 месяцев назад +7

    This was so heartbreaking

  • @zoelife7272
    @zoelife7272 5 месяцев назад +1

    DRAINED my spirit through the tv. enough already!!!!!!!!

  • @jerez81777
    @jerez81777 9 месяцев назад +4

    If you're so frustrated and tired of not getting what you need LEAVE him. Why do you keep nagging? He's not the one for you. This man is lazy. He's with her because she provides financially and he has a place to stay. He's got no motivation to finish anything no one else is going to put up with it. I think besides the previous drug problem he should get evaluated by a professional. She needs to send him back to his family let them deal with him and move on with her life.

  • @coachbert850
    @coachbert850 10 месяцев назад +6

    Terrible advice. SMH

    • @bria7379
      @bria7379 10 месяцев назад +1

      Really? They should break up and go find other people, no? :O

  • @queshebalittle6023
    @queshebalittle6023 10 месяцев назад +4

    He made things the way it is by not being a man in the beginning, but also Wat comes around goes around she was married to someone and stepped back so it is Wat it is

  • @derrickstingley6895
    @derrickstingley6895 10 месяцев назад +7

    My relationship is going bad

    • @justhereyeah1112
      @justhereyeah1112 10 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry to hear that, praying for recovery in your relationship

  • @moussabby
    @moussabby 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sound ruling. They are both better off away from each other. They've grown out of their addiction differently and are not a good fit any longer.

  • @loudandnerdygames5986
    @loudandnerdygames5986 10 месяцев назад +5

    I love anime and indulge in cartoons but still work a full-time, decent job. I'm saving up for a house right now. He just needs to shift his priorties. He is freeloading and her nagging isn't helping. She needs to kick him out and let him drown to motivate him to do better. Both of them are toxic to each other right now and some distance could help. Maybe they could be friends after a while but for now they should just leave each other.

  • @Vincent-um9pi
    @Vincent-um9pi 10 месяцев назад +3

    Mr Lind needs to be honest with himself

  • @zoelife7272
    @zoelife7272 5 месяцев назад +1

    judge judy would send this recording to the authorities. "stay home and we will live off of my disability." wow

  • @pepperschild9941
    @pepperschild9941 10 месяцев назад +1

    Well he told her today, No! U told her Star

  • @nomsantuli6023
    @nomsantuli6023 10 месяцев назад +2

    Dump him and move on he doesn't want you anymore

  • @user-ds4wq6bb3u
    @user-ds4wq6bb3u 10 месяцев назад +1

    the skittles part way beyond unhinged

  • @amymorale1379
    @amymorale1379 10 месяцев назад +1

    no other woman needs this type of male

  • @franromany8096
    @franromany8096 10 месяцев назад +12

    I feel sorry for him. You can see he's trying hard. She needs to lighten up becuase her relationship goals has not been met.

  • @ANGELAKCLAY
    @ANGELAKCLAY 4 месяца назад +1

    Tell His Behind GOOD BYE!❤🙏☝🏿🙌

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 10 месяцев назад +3

    Both needs break up and move on

  • @janashockley8263
    @janashockley8263 3 месяца назад

    She just said he can stay home & give her attention she can afford it~ then she just turned around & said she does not want to take care of a 40 something year old man! Make her make sense 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @derrickstingley6895
    @derrickstingley6895 10 месяцев назад +2

    Birds of a feather flock together

  • @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
    @shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 10 месяцев назад +1

    What type of disability does she get that she can take care of both of them all these other social security recipients are struggling

  • @5822huron
    @5822huron 10 месяцев назад +6

    Hes 45?????

    • @bidah007
      @bidah007 10 месяцев назад +5

      He looks at least 10 years older it’s the effect of drugs and poor dental maintenance.

  • @botaktatasumo
    @botaktatasumo 10 месяцев назад

    the lady on the screen behind Victoria, on the bottom left............ain't that the "Microwaving fish" lady??????🤣🤣

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 10 месяцев назад +1

    TRAUMA BOND. 😊

  • @queshebalittle6023
    @queshebalittle6023 10 месяцев назад +2

    He's jus not motivated

  • @MishasMama
    @MishasMama 10 месяцев назад +1

    This episode seemed so... disjointed

  • @jonquis07
    @jonquis07 10 месяцев назад

    So she want him to lead but doesn't care if he work. He wants to work, but bc he isn't good at it she has a problem??? I am confused.

  • @zulu3274
    @zulu3274 10 месяцев назад +6

    😂 who wants to be romantic with somebody that just got through openly calling them overweight and constantly disrespectful yet if he would have did that to her all hell would have broke loose even though she is a fatty too... I bet at one point he was holding her down for a very long time but now that the so called roles have reversed she wants to haul ass... No loyalty...lol

    • @d820m
      @d820m 10 месяцев назад +2

      @zulu3274 that's a lotta ass to haul 🤣🤣

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 10 месяцев назад

      @@d820m 😅 yes it is ..lol

    • @d820m
      @d820m 10 месяцев назад

      @@zulu3274 when she hauls ass she gotta make two trips 🤣🤣🤣

  • @synoviaridley3229
    @synoviaridley3229 10 месяцев назад +5

    What about the missing tooth in the front of his mouth?😳

    • @dimesdeath
      @dimesdeath 10 месяцев назад +2

      The Skittles happened 😂😂

    • @gracedwithmission8644
      @gracedwithmission8644 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@dimesdeath 😂😂😂😂😂😂 no you didn't. Not the skittles 😂 hmm but perhaps things happened from being an addict. The heavy substance use usually affects dental health.

  • @viviancoleman8109
    @viviancoleman8109 5 месяцев назад

    Lady hush oh my goodness 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽

  • @tiffanyoliver91
    @tiffanyoliver91 8 месяцев назад +1

    I find that Starr just talks sooo much. Give advice but she consistently is over opinionated. I find since Judge Toler left, no one listens to the couples. Lynn listened and asked questions. Starr Jones is always trying to act like the Aunt or she is always talking more than the couples. I always watch the old episodes from Judge Toler and Mabeline. Because it's more realistic. I find Divorce court since Toler left is for theatrics! STARR JUST TALKS SOOO MUCH! I want to hear the story and the problem! Like this tag your it. She says it all the time. What is this??? SMH

  • @eternal1blue
    @eternal1blue 10 месяцев назад

    Some people checked an left out and the other person thinks it ain't over like please

  • @Animelover-fb2lg
    @Animelover-fb2lg 10 месяцев назад

    She called anime, catoons? NO!!!

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 10 месяцев назад

    Do you really want this man delivering your food lol co dependency is real !! He in his midlife crisis 😅 he don’t want you

  • @Sharon-p9f
    @Sharon-p9f Месяц назад

    Move on both of you man check out.she was tried of him.😮 wow.

  • @dukeyoungsworkout513
    @dukeyoungsworkout513 10 месяцев назад

    She's annoying. If you going to do all that nagging and complaining then it's best that she leave. Leave on amicable terms. Don't wait til you become enemies

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 10 месяцев назад

    You tell she too bossy that just rude and ssi not make that much money to hold down two people

  • @jonathantyner171
    @jonathantyner171 10 месяцев назад

    18:59

  • @bettywhite7795
    @bettywhite7795 10 месяцев назад

    😢

  • @tosha0508
    @tosha0508 10 месяцев назад +2

    Honey, he's clearly autistic. Some things he's just not able to do. Either Love him where he is or move on with your life

    • @eternal1blue
      @eternal1blue 10 месяцев назад

      Darling and ur an crude evil woman who wants take control and be possive over people you want control it's your way or the highway hit the road baby😅

  • @user-iv1yi6cz7o
    @user-iv1yi6cz7o 10 месяцев назад

    DIVORCE IS NOT THE ANSWER .JESUS CHRIST IS THE ANSWER. NEVER IN THE EQUATION..JUST QUIT AND GO GET ANOTHER ONE..😢

  • @jaredfrazier862
    @jaredfrazier862 10 месяцев назад

    First

  • @tommyGrayRT100
    @tommyGrayRT100 10 месяцев назад +1

    Not only him she need to change her clingy ass ways