What a lovely, dignified lady Aletta Hodges is. As for Jermaine Warren... the expression on his face at the beginning, when his fiancee was talking about his behaviour, said it all. He's just a scammer. I hope Aletta finds happiness one way or another.
This woman is so calm and compose explaining all this mess he has done. And yet I question, how do you stay so long to have ALLLL these stories about his infidelity? Love is a crazy drug! 🤦🏽♀️
@gervonniejones4045 the best answer😂😂😂,women just love drama and we think we cannot live without a man, I wouldn't go in front of a judge with this because she know he's not good so leave him
😂 let that man make it...there have been plenty of low down women that judge starr and toler has took it easy on... The man don't have no room to mess up smh...lol
This man is in his 50’s his behavior and character are set. He clearly doesn’t see anything wrong with taking money from women AND taking taking money from women while he is in a relationship. He is a scumbag and it’s likely things won’t change. If he wanted to be different he would be…it wouldn’t take for his fiancé to bring him to DV court for him to change. Run sis, run!
I'm confused! There's absolutely no reason for this lady to bring this man on Divorce Court to know he ain't no good! She's a fool to still be hanging around.
That's why I don't understand..... Is it that dry out there and does she feel that hard up that she would stay with someone like this? I just don't get it
I love the bailiff. A man of principles and moral standards. And his wisdom nuggets at the end of the episodes are worth the wait👏👏 Respects to his wife
If he’s cheating and lying and you can’t trust him. WHY ARE YOU STILL THERE lady? There are plenty of men out there, you don’t need this at all. Free yourself
I have been single all my life and raised two boys. I like being single. Stop thinking you need a man. You have a family. Focus on them and they will focus on you.
He has shown zero redeeming qualities. Throw all of him away and start all over, and with someone that is nothing like him. Do NOT give him any more chances, AT ALL!!! And all other women & people beware of this scummy man!!
I'm not even sure how she dated this man for 3 years let alone got engaged to him when he has been engaging in this behavior. Its giving low self value, ma'am you should have been gone. I hope she actually stands by that decision and doesn't go back to him talking about some "forgiveness" 🤦🏾♀️
Smh..I once dated a guy like this. He didn't know how to have a platonic friendship with a woman, he was a habitual boundary crosser..inappropriate jokes, innuendo, and part of it was because he liked the attention he received when he led these women on!!! RUN!! They do not get better, they are broken somewhere and insecure and need attention from every woman they see..might be mommy issues.
It's crucial that we start properly vetting people from the beginning to avoid heartache and headaches later on. We need to do better because they keep playing the same exhausted games.
I am glad she had enough self esteem to walk away before marriage. Because it would only get worse. What I don't get is the other women/ or man who messages wives and girlfriends. Its as if to throw it in the woman's face that their boyfriend/husband's messing around...that screams low self esteem. 1st off, it should of been a slap in the face for any man to come to you and even consider that you would be the type to play a side position in his life. Secondly if you have to compete and prove anything, your already are in the losing position. Nobody wins with someone who doesn't value the hearts and humanity of those they make commitments to and lay down with. I will never understand. I would never entertain a man who would mistreat his own woman and sneak behind her back. It is very sad how low some have fallen to consider it a privilege to be used,,, just to feel chosen. I wish this lady all the best, walking away wiser. Don't make the same mistake twice.
You don’t have sex with a friend. With a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a spouse or a lover, YES! BUT NEVER WITH A FRIEND! Having sex with a friend change the whole dynamic of the relationship.
I don't feel she left this man at all it should have not taken her to go on Divorce Court to leave this man everything was right in front of her face. Always know your self worth and leave when you see these red flags...
She led him to make a total spectacular of himself to the WHOLE WORLD. Ladies take notes. Remember that face. Those kinda ways and RUN in the OPPOSITE direction.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
If I’m honest; typically that means she checked out longggg ago. U should have perused her when u still had her, when she was “nagging” u should have noticed it was actually a cry for change. U lost her long ago. Now u get to feel what she’s felt for a long time. She’s already left & mourned the loss of u long ago. She’s not coming back.
If he didn't have anything for her to find on his social media, he shouldn't care what she looks for. 50+.. he's for the streets all day! Sister girl needs to grab back her esteem and move on.
Why do these women bring a Laundry list of things he has done?, Trying to make him look bad...When they look Bad for continuing to stay! Come on Ladies!
She is 47 years old and she is dealing with that kind of drama. She deserves better … someone thrusting, that loves and respects her. You will be happier leaving this baggage out of your life. Move on!!!
She has all this evidence and she’s stayed, WHY? She knows EXACTLY what’s going on and she decided to continue on. Everything that happens from her on his her fault.
If he was scamming and taking money from other women and she knew she was a part of it. She aint squeaky clean she just mad cause he cheating. She stayed cause the scamming was good but was mad cause the cheating was with a lotta women.
Shame on her. This woman are out there with this dog boyfriend, dog fiance, and has the nerve to show up asking for an ultimatum and help? Leave the dog alone, you already knew he's worth nothing, why you stay? He ashame you because you stay, you worth nothing because you choose this dog and has the nerve to complain.
Playa playa-assembling a roster of women to use for money and denying any accountability for misleading them by “charming”. Once again, WHY do we not ask HER why she stays??? Red flag after red flags…after red flag. She doesn’t realize he’s been CHARMING her. She’s listening to his words and not giving weight to his ACTIONS-which show she’s just another member of the ROSTER
My grandfather use to say a man's character holds the weight ..his character sucks n if she was to marry him he gona take her all up and through derrr👌🏾
I’ve had a man tell me that he’s use to women taken care of him… better go find them cause I ain’t the one… it’s sad but it’s wo(men) out there that don’t mind taken care of them lames
😊 I agree and there's nothing wrong with online dating either it's just another way to meet people... Hell you can meet somebody you're interested in randomly in person and it still go left...lol
The sad truth is a lot of men his age act like this. Social media really exposed a lot of childhood trauma in men. It never goes away. It gets worse as you age. That's why I hate when people say what happened as a child dont matter because it does! As we see here
Hi why she don't just get out of this relationship instead of coming to court to me she fighting to keep him can't make a decision on her own need to judge what about your father my sister,
What if she did the same thing to him ?? HE would be ready to kill her. Men and the way some of them treat the person THEY SAY THEY LOVE very DISRESPECTFUL. If she did that, what would he do ?? He knows HE is to old for THAT.
This is a mentally slow...Narcissistic...low-vibrational...male in a suit....Please Sis leave...your mental health and peace is more important than him
She wasted 3.5 years on this Pookie. At what year or month did her conscious was tripped for her to walk away? Whatever the month it was when they went to DC. It is really sad that women “settle” for men like this….
Age does not equal maturity.
Say the same for woman who use men also they exact same way
His behavior is so atrocious the bailiff chimed in. 😂😂
Love when he does that. He is showing what real men are like.
DO NOT MARRY HIM. HE WILL BRING YOU NOTHING BUT CONTINUED HEARTACHES!!!
Her life will be hell everyday
As soon as the episode began and he started smirking I knew he was an Ole dirty dog!!! Horrible!!! Run Sis run!!!
I know!! He started all wrong.
I caught that too. I just started watching, from the comments, I already feel bad for her smh
I mean he smiled every time she mentioned one of his women 😫
@@teisham4508 exactly, just dirty.
We wouldn't be in court because i would have been long gone, he has shown you who he is.
Why we don't want to believe the truth
Why would you marry drama? You need peace and tranquility in your house love and respect.
What a lovely, dignified lady Aletta Hodges is. As for Jermaine Warren... the expression on his face at the beginning, when his fiancee was talking about his behaviour, said it all. He's just a scammer. I hope Aletta finds happiness one way or another.
How? When she stayed after all that BS.
@@Josie3387she will leave him shortly after the show
@@Josie3387 on the show she dumped him: ruclips.net/video/HU13lDq9AHg/видео.html. Do you know otherwise?
Half of a century old!!
He is way too old for this.
Set him and his dye free
Apparently, he’s not too old, and he keeps pulling women they keep giving him money
They don’t think so matter of fact the older they are the worse it gets
@@wordplay6665lmaooooooo
He's clowning her like they are still in highschool. It would be disrespectful at that age, but at this age?...It's just pitiful. 😕
He's 51 talking about she's snooping on my social media.🙄 ridiculous
The audacity that these so-called men get caught up in social media. Loser 😒🙄
Girl you should be running faster than Shar! Run 🏃♀️
😂😂😂 like forest, don’t stop
This woman is so calm and compose explaining all this mess he has done. And yet I question, how do you stay so long to have ALLLL these stories about his infidelity? Love is a crazy drug! 🤦🏽♀️
It’s like they be having something to prove to stay with a dog as* dude. He is too old for this.
@@kianaannetteself7024 remember she said she writes stories like this so maybe she wanted to stay to get inspiration for her next story
@@gervonniejones4045 girl I can’t. It’s too much😂😂😂😂😂
@gervonniejones4045 the best answer😂😂😂,women just love drama and we think we cannot live without a man, I wouldn't go in front of a judge with this because she know he's not good so leave him
Judge Toler would’ve kicked him out her court room, judge Starr went too easy on him 😒
Yes I was having a whole Aunty Judge Toler melt down in my head. He thought he was so FLY UGHHH Can’t stand it!!!
But before she do that, she would tell the gf to do better n leave his stupid lil boy a$$ 😂
😂 let that man make it...there have been plenty of low down women that judge starr and toler has took it easy on... The man don't have no room to mess up smh...lol
Nope bailiff said it too....he's a damn 'ho'-band exchanging gifts for his azz..at his woulda went in on him too
Whew judge Lynn would’ve ripped him a new one and it would’ve ended 10 minutes sooner 😂
This man is in his 50’s his behavior and character are set. He clearly doesn’t see anything wrong with taking money from women AND taking taking money from women while he is in a relationship. He is a scumbag and it’s likely things won’t change. If he wanted to be different he would be…it wouldn’t take for his fiancé to bring him to DV court for him to change. Run sis, run!
Yeah, she likes the toxic behavior 🙄
I'm confused! There's absolutely no reason for this lady to bring this man on Divorce Court to know he ain't no good! She's a fool to still be hanging around.
Fact 🤦🏾♀️
When someone says you cheat and them you smirk and smile...imma need you NOT to respond like that Sir
My question is: why is she QUESTIONING whether she should marry him when she has all of the evidence?!
I don't need that much evidence at all
She is not leaving him, so why ask about marrying him🤦
That's why I don't understand..... Is it that dry out there and does she feel that hard up that she would stay with someone like this? I just don't get it
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯, it's sad that the women in 2023 are so F STUPID
@@petrinajackson8380 exactly!!
I love the bailiff. A man of principles and moral standards. And his wisdom nuggets at the end of the episodes are worth the wait👏👏 Respects to his wife
I agree! I like the end when he and judge Star re-hash the case.
If he’s cheating and lying and you can’t trust him. WHY ARE YOU STILL THERE lady? There are plenty of men out there, you don’t need this at all. Free yourself
He's Has told her over and over how less he thinks of her. I wish her well he's just trifling as can be!!!!
I have been single all my life and raised two boys. I like being single. Stop thinking you need a man. You have a family. Focus on them and they will focus on you.
Bailiff cracks me up 😂
He's a part of the show. That's why he has a mic.. Lol
The trash don't even want this man. Take him to the landfill sis and leave him there.
😂😂
He has shown zero redeeming qualities. Throw all of him away and start all over, and with someone that is nothing like him. Do NOT give him any more chances, AT ALL!!! And all other women & people beware of this scummy man!!
My Man 40 Grand- Get Yo Paper 💯
@@robbbietheim2096
More like forty bucks, if that.
Judge Star can dress!
I'm not even sure how she dated this man for 3 years let alone got engaged to him when he has been engaging in this behavior. Its giving low self value, ma'am you should have been gone. I hope she actually stands by that decision and doesn't go back to him talking about some "forgiveness" 🤦🏾♀️
She can do better than his remedial self. The way he answers to his lack of sensibility is beneath her. Glad she's getting away.
Remedial is right! 😂He could barely put a sentence together! 😂🤡
Smh..I once dated a guy like this. He didn't know how to have a platonic friendship with a woman, he was a habitual boundary crosser..inappropriate jokes, innuendo, and part of it was because he liked the attention he received when he led these women on!!! RUN!! They do not get better, they are broken somewhere and insecure and need attention from every woman they see..might be mommy issues.
Unfortunately I know all to well of this mess...and he will be 64 yrs young in 2024.... and you are absolutely correct about the Mommy issues!!!
His demise will be from the hands of a woman, believe you me💯‼️
Or one of her people.
It's crucial that we start properly vetting people from the beginning to avoid heartache and headaches later on. We need to do better because they keep playing the same exhausted games.
Vetting better and dating with a purpose....you are correct
You can't blame social media, you have to blame the people in the relationship. Social media is what you make it.
No social media is definitely a problem. I get d pics and it says all on my page I look women. You ppl don’t care
@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare I am with you; can't stand social media like FB! ugh
@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfarea site can’t be a problem it’s the *people*
Girl you betta run and run fast
I am glad she had enough self esteem to walk away before marriage. Because it would only get worse. What I don't get is the other women/ or man who messages wives and girlfriends. Its as if to throw it in the woman's face that their boyfriend/husband's messing around...that screams low self esteem. 1st off, it should of been a slap in the face for any man to come to you and even consider that you would be the type to play a side position in his life. Secondly if you have to compete and prove anything, your already are in the losing position. Nobody wins with someone who doesn't value the hearts and humanity of those they make commitments to and lay down with. I will never understand. I would never entertain a man who would mistreat his own woman and sneak behind her back. It is very sad how low some have fallen to consider it a privilege to be used,,, just to feel chosen. I wish this lady all the best, walking away wiser. Don't make the same mistake twice.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯
Good for you sis! You are beautiful!! And we are so proud of you!!!!!!!!!
She’s too old for this. And shouldn’t be happy that she didn’t give him money. He has everything else gorl
She wasn't happy...she made a statement....AND HE IS TOO OLD FOR THIS...HE LED HER ON🙄🙄
You don’t have sex with a friend. With a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a spouse or a lover, YES! BUT NEVER WITH A FRIEND! Having sex with a friend change the whole dynamic of the relationship.
Really should only have sex with your spouse but that's not the norm these days.
Hi judge I'm wondering if this woman had a father in her life 😂
I actually think relationships are better if you are friends first
@@queenteireigns6212 you are absolutely right!
All these red flags are just glaring. Question is why marry him
He is lying is ARSH off… STOP THE CAP✌🏾
😳🤣🤣😂 yes and all of the shuddering
He’s for the STREETS!
He’s for the gutter.
WHEN A PERSON SHOW YOU WHO THEY ARE - PLEASE BELIEVE THEM...💯💯💯
I don't feel she left this man at all it should have not taken her to go on Divorce Court to leave this man everything was right in front of her face. Always know your self worth and leave when you see these red flags...
She led him to make a total spectacular of himself to the WHOLE WORLD. Ladies take notes. Remember that face. Those kinda ways and RUN in the OPPOSITE direction.
She made herself look crazy bringing him here with all the proof she had to leave him.
I have been on dating sites, folks will stay on the app while you think your in a relationship with them.
Cheating is a sign of a person who needs constant validation because they have low self esteem.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
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If I’m honest; typically that means she checked out longggg ago. U should have perused her when u still had her, when she was “nagging” u should have noticed it was actually a cry for change. U lost her long ago. Now u get to feel what she’s felt for a long time. She’s already left & mourned the loss of u long ago. She’s not coming back.
I absolutely love her bailiff 😂❤
She’s not going anywhere.
That’s most likely the result…
👏👏👏
This guy is just a liar and a scammer and even if he isn’t scamming the plaintiff it’s just a matter of time before she’s burned too
She needs to be at the CLINIC not on divorce court..how can she even let yim touch her!!!
I believe he is cheating around and conning women to believe they have a connection, but I don't know about them giving him over $40,000... maybe $40!
If he didn't have anything for her to find on his social media, he shouldn't care what she looks for. 50+.. he's for the streets all day! Sister girl needs to grab back her esteem and move on.
I don’t agree with blaming social media for your lack of morality.
Why do these women bring a Laundry list of things he has done?, Trying to make him look bad...When they look Bad for continuing to stay! Come on Ladies!
I find the expression miscellaneous men/women very funny.
She posted the video and she is still with him and is not going to leave.
She is 47 years old and she is dealing with that kind of drama. She deserves better … someone thrusting, that loves and respects her. You will be happier leaving this baggage out of your life. Move on!!!
Why did she need to come on this show to know she needs to go?
This man is to damn old to be acting this ridiculous. How many women will it take for her to get that he's trash???? Girl leave, and stay gone!!
Boy, you wouldn't know the right thing if it came up and slapped you in the face!! Why do they even come on the show?
She has all this evidence and she’s stayed, WHY? She knows EXACTLY what’s going on and she decided to continue on. Everything that happens from her on his her fault.
She is desperate.
This is so childish! Ain't no way
Same way you meet them the same way you leave them... child games
If he was scamming and taking money from other women and she knew she was a part of it. She aint squeaky clean she just mad cause he cheating. She stayed cause the scamming was good but was mad cause the cheating was with a lotta women.
Shame on her.
This woman are out there with this dog boyfriend, dog fiance, and has the nerve to show up asking for an ultimatum and help?
Leave the dog alone, you already knew he's worth nothing, why you stay?
He ashame you because you stay, you worth nothing because you choose this dog and has the nerve to complain.
Playa playa-assembling a roster of women to use for money and denying any accountability for misleading them by “charming”. Once again, WHY do we not ask HER why she stays??? Red flag after red flags…after red flag. She doesn’t realize he’s been CHARMING her. She’s listening to his words and not giving weight to his ACTIONS-which show she’s just another member of the ROSTER
Continues to cheat and lie🤔 ain't nothing to sort out but to leave. He thinks he is cute and he's not. Baaabyyyy, why was she still there?
This whole show was ONE SIDED he had no come backs
Run sis 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
The lady in the hat and her facial expressions are killing me 😂
😂
YOU DONT BUY A HOME WITH A "BOYFRIEND" SIS!
Thank-you. I’m not evening getting an apartment with a boyfriend, you need to marry me before we share a lease or mortgage.
“Bailiff Bae” is killing me with his smart remarks 😂
This guy is so crooked, he can't even lie straight!
My grandfather use to say a man's character holds the weight ..his character sucks n if she was to marry him he gona take her all up and through derrr👌🏾
Relationships are always great in the beginning because you don't know the person lol
Where are the other episodes as well to ?
On hulu😂
51 and still chasing women!? girl run he will NEVER change!
Hes not even boyfriend material..damn sure not worthy to be a HUSBAND...sis WHY???
I’ve had a man tell me that he’s use to women taken care of him… better go find them cause I ain’t the one… it’s sad but it’s wo(men) out there that don’t mind taken care of them lames
He's a GOLD DIGGER 🤷🏾♀️
GIRL RUN!!!!!!!!!!!
These women are to be held accountable to. They grown to. They should no better.
Social media done nothing wrong. Its your use of Social media got yall in trouble
😊 I agree and there's nothing wrong with online dating either it's just another way to meet people... Hell you can meet somebody you're interested in randomly in person and it still go left...lol
The sad truth is a lot of men his age act like this. Social media really exposed a lot of childhood trauma in men. It never goes away. It gets worse as you age. That's why I hate when people say what happened as a child dont matter because it does! As we see here
Facts!
The king of Bigen been cutting up...smh
Hi why she don't just get out of this relationship instead of coming to court to me she fighting to keep him can't make a decision on her own need to judge what about your father my sister,
Now he says it. Only because the judge had to coax him.TOO Late!!!
Not a middle aged gigolo. It’s giving never had a job (or can’t keep one). He has made lying and getting tricked off on a career.
So glad she gave the ring back. He is too old to acting like that. Just scamming women really.
So glad I’m married to a REAL man that gives me peace of mind !!!!
He sounds so stupid! She needs to run and run fast! Thar Leopard Dog is not changing his spots or behavior
His low-key defending himself is proof right there!
Why is she still with him????
Yes Judge Star! This dude is whoa! He didn’t care & still don’t
Run girl!🏃♀🏃♀🏃♂🏃♂🏃♂
Social media is not the devil but just like all things it depends on the user. The user will guide the content.
What if she did the same thing to him ?? HE would be ready to kill her. Men and the way some of them treat the person THEY SAY THEY LOVE very DISRESPECTFUL. If she did that, what would he do ?? He knows HE is to old for THAT.
Why would u marry someone u can't trust smh
This is a mentally slow...Narcissistic...low-vibrational...male in a suit....Please Sis leave...your mental health and peace is more important than him
You hit the nail on the head! 🤨
She wasted 3.5 years on this Pookie. At what year or month did her conscious was tripped for her to walk away? Whatever the month it was when they went to DC. It is really sad that women “settle” for men like this….
Anyone notice his eyes 👀 hiw they move quickly from left to right very FAST thsts a sign of a liar
Why he smiling? 1:49
Girl run!!
I mean....... why are we even here?