first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby with the baby carriage. This one nursery rhyme would save a lot of us from headaches, heartaches and pain.
She should get a job that starts as soon as he get in from work. Give him a kiss and tell to have a nice day with the kids + a list of things that she was doing while she was the one at home on that all day job.❤ l would laugh until l would cry at his dum tale.😂
She’s a grown women why can’t she get her own shoes please ladies don’t put yourself in a position like this when you can’t get your own shoes and have to walk around like this
See there he just said what alot of these guys think, at the end about because she "has his child she is now stuck with him" ladies please stop allowing these dudes to attempt imprisoning you this way, those kids will be glad you left, I PROMISE YOU SMH 😡💯
When I tell you I shouted at the screen the exact same thing: "He SAID IT! HE ADMITTED IT!" Dude bared his soul and intention with that one sentence. If Judge Lynn was still at the bench, she'd say "he installed her." And he did.
1) Judge, your hair looks goood! ❤ 2) The man didn't attend his own wedding. What other sign does the plaintiff need to accept that he's NOT the one? 3) The dude is not cute (but thinks he is), he's too short, thinks taking care of kids is easy and he thinks she's stuck with him... why does she even want him? The more I watch, the more annoyed I get. That man is no catch.
He said that "We'll See" multiple times, and I don't think they heard him the first time. And when asked what he was willing to do, he said he'd marry her, like he didn't hear what this woman clearly asked for. I am sincerely worried for her.
I don't think she got it either. So sad ... I think she is going to stay. He has no intention to support her dreams. LEAVE, GIRL‼️ 🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️
That man is not going to change because like he said “she’s stuck” (she truly isn’t.) That’s why he doesn’t want to let her get a second to herself because he knows once she starts school she will be able to survive on her own. He’s financially and emotionally abusing her to keep her thinking she’s not worth anything and that he’s the best she can do. I pray she wakes up and realizes being single is better than being with a man who makes you feel worthless.
@@christianekperecharles8760 You're seriously asking that? Didn't you watch the video. This boy...not man, is clearly an immature, misogynistic idiot. Come on!
He doesn't want a maid, because he'd have to pay a maid. A maid wouldn't need to beg him to replace her shoes that are falling apart: she'd have money to buy herself new shoes!
It's sad she had children with him because he will never allow her to live her best life!!! He is too insecure!! He wants to keep her home where no one can see her because he knows he does not measure up and she is beautiful!!
She is too beautiful to be with and inconsiderate idiot with old fashion views. Then to say she stuck is so disrespectful and he will think about it. The lack of empathy for what she does daily is just disgusting
He is selfish as hell he's very afraid that she will become successful in life . Only a insecure man is scared to see his woman grow and elevate I pray they just co-parent
Unfortunately he's going to get her a shut up ring to keep her around. And it's funny how in all their pictures he's in front of her to make him look taller😂😂
Let’s ask some real questions like “Do you really love and want to marry her” Are you just there with her because you are complacent with your life and she’s taking care of you and the children” That’s what we want to know.
I always believe in marriage before having children. With marriage less DNA test are expected, the children feel more secure and the family is more structured.
She needs to enroll those babies in Head Start. That will give her 6 hours a day to do something for herself. Go to school, get a part time job, some goals for herself. Then children get an education (they need one with these two foolish folks).
He's Definitely selfish and controlling and I don't care if he passed his test and everything judge star asked him about being supportive of his wife He's not gonna do that when they get back home and she deserves better and looks like a he can be her son
No one claps Judge Star when she’s on point. You love to hate on her when she makes an assessment that you don’t agree with, but everybody’s quiet when she eats.
She needs to move on. The defendant has mental deficiences. I think she really wants out!!! But doesnt have courage to leave. She doesnt have self-esteem.
"It's not really hard to watch kids........that's all I needed to hear from this idiot to know he wasn't about nothing. I hope all the ladies in his town see this and never get near this dude if he's ever single.
I don't feel sorry for women who stay with men that treat them like trash. Get you a darn job get day care for those kids and move the hell on. Women can get help from the government (HELP NOT LIVE ON IT) until you get on your feet. Get rid of this loser. If you keep him don't cry about it.
She better wake up quick and make some rules Or else Watch he makes sure to really "lock her down" with 2 more children. She's gonna regret not setting solid boundaries very soon. She should leave him with the babies on the weekend so he can see how easy it is to care for HIS children.
I think she would love to get rid of him. She thought she could get him by catching him cheating but he hasn’t so she had to come up with other reasons to leave him. She does not want to stay married.
No he's unlikable because he doesn't want her to have anything more than him and those 2 kids. Walking out she asked if she could build her career up and hi response was "We'll see". Only a good for nothing leprechaun with bad intentions would say such a thing.
I don't think his height is the only reason people have negative opinions about him. Personally, I’m attracted to guys of any height; I value character and emotional intelligence more. My dislike for him stems from his lack of emotional availability and immaturity. I’m sure many other women feel the same way, and some may even prefer shorter men. The main issue is how he presents himself. He comes across as unlikable, mainly due to his lack of accountability. The fact that he didn’t show up on their wedding day and showed no remorse speaks volumes. While there’s no such thing as a perfect couple, it’s clear that this relationship wasn’t meant to last. I believe it was intended to serve as a lesson for both of them; they needed to part ways. Hopefully, if she chooses to stay with him, they will learn how to treat each other better. This would help them provide their children with a healthier and more emotionally supportive environment, which is essential for building their children’s safety and confidence in themselves, their future partners, & their parents in the future. Additionally, she should work on communicating effectively, setting boundaries, and standing firm on them, as it seems he finds it easy to establish his boundaries while belittling her in the process.
What kind of man doesn’t want his wife/life partner/mother of his children to be intelligent, capable, and have a fulfilling career? The one who wants her to keep thinking he’s her only option. Girl, run!
Based on some of these comments I thought this guy was going to be a horrible person. They are honestly going through what most couples experience after having children. They need time for themselves and time for one another and I believe they can make it. He is a bit of a chauvinist and needs to understand that stay at home moms deal with a lot but he is not a bad guy.
Hes horrible trying to glue old shoes of hers instead of buying her new ones she needs, plus he gives her no break from the children. He's selfish ignorant and misogynistic.
It’s just some of the stuff he said just were used to devalue her significantly. Takes away her income to make her a stay at home mom to a man that ain’t her husband. Said she is stuck with him. That’s so controlling and probably what he tells her to try to keep her strung along. She likely doesn’t have family and he uses that to his advantage to hold finances over her. He needs to really learn the work appreciation. It’s toxic.
Another case of a modern woman marrying a traditional man forcing a square peg into a round hole, modern women should get with modern men, go 50/50 and chase their careers etc.. so they can be fulfilled, leave traditional men alone
A fool he be. Making that lady walk around with shoes that are detached. Also, why are you a stay at home mom when you aren’t married? Don’t let him get off the hook for his responsibility. This is why I don’t believe in kids before marriage. It creates these unbalanced situations.
The only thing she needs to lose is that leprechaun she came to court with.
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Yeperoni I agree 100 percent
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He said: She’s stuck we got kids. Girl if you don’t run tf away!
I agree she needs to run away as fast as she can
Classic case of baby trapping by an abusive misogynistic man who wants her to think and believe she’s trapped🙄
AT FULL SPEED
Run. Run. Run
@@phdiva453exactly!
That’s why I feel that women should ALWAYS have their own money!!!
I agree 100 percent
Agreed
No. This is why women should CONTROL THEIR FERTILITY!!!!!!!!!
Facts!!!!
Facts
first comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby with the baby carriage. This one nursery rhyme would save a lot of us from headaches, heartaches and pain.
Yeperoni
Facts
Not true. Men and women change after children. It's an adjustment. It's about having a mindset that helps get through life together
Even worse. She would be on marriage papers with him and that empty head
Absolutely 💯
As parents, we’re not “watching” our children- we’re RAISING them. And that’s why he thinks it’s not hard
She should get a job that starts as soon as he get in from work. Give him a kiss and tell to have a nice day with the kids + a list of things that she was doing while she was the one at home on that all day job.❤ l would laugh until l would cry at his dum tale.😂
She’s a grown women why can’t she get her own shoes please ladies don’t put yourself in a position like this when you can’t get your own shoes and have to walk around like this
Agreed, I'll be Damn if I have to ask a man to get me some shoe's .
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If she’s not on the bank account she needs to change that immediately!!!!
See there he just said what alot of these guys think, at the end about because she "has his child she is now stuck with him" ladies please stop allowing these dudes to attempt imprisoning you this way, those kids will be glad you left, I PROMISE YOU
SMH 😡💯
Remember girls ...with every baby.... you lose more freedom, and choice!
When I tell you I shouted at the screen the exact same thing: "He SAID IT! HE ADMITTED IT!" Dude bared his soul and intention with that one sentence. If Judge Lynn was still at the bench, she'd say "he installed her." And he did.
Please. Don't. Let. Noone. Tell. You. That. You. Cause. You. Two. Have. Kids. Together. You. Are. Stuck with. Them. Lol. That's. So. Funny. I. Almost. Forgot. To. Laugh. If. You. Stay. In. This. Environment. You. Are. Harming. The. Kids you. Say. You. Love. And. There. Is. A. Great. Risk. That the. Child. Or children. Will. Be. Took. Away. And. You. Won't. Ever see. Them. Again
1) Judge, your hair looks goood! ❤
2) The man didn't attend his own wedding. What other sign does the plaintiff need to accept that he's NOT the one?
3) The dude is not cute (but thinks he is), he's too short, thinks taking care of kids is easy and he thinks she's stuck with him... why does she even want him?
The more I watch, the more annoyed I get. That man is no catch.
Was right with you until you mentioned his height! He may not be good for her, but what does height have to do with it??
He sure isn’t………little leprechaun in blue! He’s not sleeping with anyone because no onehis funny looking butt But you
My thing is you can't be this terrible of a man, AND be short too. I mean I see no good qualities in this man other than he's working.
@@brittanyratchford3750 Thank you!
He is selfish, controlling, and inconsiderate.
You forgot immature.🚩🚩
Yeperoni 😊
Plus SHORT😂😂😂😂😂😂
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@@lynn8796🏆🏆🏆🏆
Oh my gosh I’m so tired of people thinking they have a full time job so they don’t have to contribute to anything else!
He said that "We'll See" multiple times, and I don't think they heard him the first time. And when asked what he was willing to do, he said he'd marry her, like he didn't hear what this woman clearly asked for.
I am sincerely worried for her.
I don't think she got it either. So sad ... I think she is going to stay. He has no intention to support her dreams.
LEAVE, GIRL‼️ 🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️
First of all that name is KILLING ME! I wouldn’t EVER fight for that damn last name. It took me a minute to catch on to wtf she was saying. 😂😂
That last name stole the show😂
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That man is not going to change because like he said “she’s stuck” (she truly isn’t.) That’s why he doesn’t want to let her get a second to herself because he knows once she starts school she will be able to survive on her own. He’s financially and emotionally abusing her to keep her thinking she’s not worth anything and that he’s the best she can do. I pray she wakes up and realizes being single is better than being with a man who makes you feel worthless.
Exactly and very well written! 💯
She wasn’t asking for marriage… she was asking for her feelings to be respected. And he won’t even promise that because he doesn’t intend to do so.
Girl don’t walk out the door! RUN🚩
Preach to the choir
Why?
@@christianekperecharles8760 You're seriously asking that? Didn't you watch the video. This boy...not man, is clearly an immature, misogynistic idiot. Come on!
Checkmate. That part
So you can buy weed but not your woman shoes 🤷🏽♀️ If she stays after this it's all on her!!!
And I have a feeling she will stay, which is the sad part.
She can buy her own shoes... when she gets a job.... he is working not her.
@@latoyahynson5400 He seems to be trying to prevent her from working... perhaps he's now trying to make sure she can't even leave the house.
@@esmereldaweatherwax7230she don’t wanna mf clock in stop it
Wow he only works 8 hours a day and can’t give her a break? Wow
That’s crazy!!!! Sad situation 🥺😔😔😔😔
He doesn’t like to see her cry ~ but he is the reason she is crying 🤦🏽♀️
Checkmate. That part there
@@t.bailey5043clock the tea
Leave. He’s not serious. He wants a maid, not you. Put you and your kids first and leave him. He’s still just a boy.
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He doesn't want a maid, because he'd have to pay a maid. A maid wouldn't need to beg him to replace her shoes that are falling apart: she'd have money to buy herself new shoes!
That part
Haven’t watched the whole episode and I’m done with him: “Moms don’t get a break.” 🙄
It's sad she had children with him because he will never allow her to live her best life!!! He is too insecure!! He wants to keep her home where no one can see her because he knows he does not measure up and she is beautiful!!
Could never get with no elf, he better be glad someone wanted him smh
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Even his name is elvish.
@@gailsmith836😂😂😂😂😂
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Some women will take anything.
Checkmate. That part
He’s not cheating because NOBODY else wants him! Pray she moved on!
She is too beautiful to be with and inconsiderate idiot with old fashion views. Then to say she stuck is so disrespectful and he will think about it. The lack of empathy for what she does daily is just disgusting
You teach people how to treat you by what you accept from them, point blank period!!!!
He is selfish as hell he's very afraid that she will become successful in life . Only a insecure man is scared to see his woman grow and elevate I pray they just co-parent
stood up on the wedding day? how much more does he have to say he doesnt want you! i dont believe was truthful and the lie detector is a scam!
Wow he said. " ,I'll think about it"
This is a grown man. Why is he hanging on the block like he’s in high school? He’s short and look like a kid so I guess he acts like one.
I was wondering the same thing!!!!!
Unfortunately he's going to get her a shut up ring to keep her around. And it's funny how in all their pictures he's in front of her to make him look taller😂😂
He’s not going to get her a ring. He’s too cheap.
Why are you wasting time with this fool!!
This is the reason why you don't depend on nobody to take care of you
Let’s ask some real questions like “Do you really love and want to marry her” Are you just there with her because you are complacent with your life and she’s taking care of you and the children” That’s what we want to know.
This man won't answer the question. She needs to run 🏃♀️
She will when she runs into a grown women to show her how life is with a LOVING GROWN MEN.
Having children and choosing to stay home is not work first of all it’s a responsibility that comes with choosing to bare children
I always believe in marriage before having children. With marriage less DNA test are expected, the children feel more secure and the family is more structured.
"I will think about it"
Narrrr leave it will never be different
She’s got beautiful skin.
I literally yell at my kids to sit down 24/7 constant cleaning constant everything feeding changing
Hope you get a break occasionally ❤
I hope and pray she will listen to Judge he said. WILLSEE????
I'm really tired of these stories with these people who put the cart before the horse and "now" they're unhappy 🤦🏿♂️
So grateful that my man values me staying home
It’s the I’m letting you do it part 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ pissed me off 👊🏽
She needs to enroll those babies in Head Start. That will give her 6 hours a day to do something for herself. Go to school, get a part time job, some goals for herself. Then children get an education (they need one with these two foolish folks).
He heard nothing he learned nothing
She needs to leave him
He's Definitely selfish and controlling and I don't care if he passed his test and everything judge star asked him about being supportive of his wife He's not gonna do that when they get back home and she deserves better and looks like a he can be her son
She’s not leaving
"Now she says she's not too nice...to leave him" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He said we gotta take it slow, y’all have kids already too late for taking it slow
The way he doesn’t stand up straight told me what I needed to know.
😭he so short
She definitely deserved a better pair of shoes!!🥺
Girl, leave husband ignorant behind.
That’s NOT her husband, he didn’t show up on their Wedding Day 🫣
@@1LocWonderthat's being said she needs to drop that zero
No one claps Judge Star when she’s on point. You love to hate on her when she makes an assessment that you don’t agree with, but everybody’s quiet when she eats.
True
Girl run.
He was talking about her fupa, she should’ve told him he needs to grow.
So sad, girl run
She needs to move on.
The defendant has mental deficiences.
I think she really wants out!!! But doesnt have courage to leave.
She doesnt have self-esteem.
I hope one day she watches the video an see for herself how much she is worth
Shame on dude!!
"It's not really hard to watch kids........that's all I needed to hear from this idiot to know he wasn't about nothing. I hope all the ladies in his town see this and never get near this dude if he's ever single.
She’s going no where! He’ll scare the h$ll out of her ability to stand alone. All the best girl!!
Quatlebaum wearing heels too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don't feel sorry for women who stay with men that treat them like trash. Get you a darn job get day care for those kids and move the hell on. Women can get help from the government (HELP NOT LIVE ON IT) until you get on your feet. Get rid of this loser. If you keep him don't cry about it.
Ooo my goodness please leave
He will think about it he has no say they are not married
What’s with the Coming to America shirt?
N I feel her because I just be wanting to feel free no noise non just go out like I feel her
Does she have a mother or father? This was a sad episode 😔
They are from Penn Grove NJ they are so close to my aunts house wow 😊im so shocked 😂
She better wake up quick and make some rules Or else Watch he makes sure to really "lock her down" with 2 more children. She's gonna regret not setting solid boundaries very soon. She should leave him with the babies on the weekend so he can see how easy it is to care for HIS children.
I think she would love to get rid of him. She thought she could get him by catching him cheating but he hasn’t so she had to come up with other reasons to leave him. She does not want to stay married.
Not Married, cohabiting as a family.
12-8? Pm or am. She can get her shoes superglued because she’s just a stay at home mom… that’s why you shan’t solely depend on other people 😒
Facts!!!💯👏🏾👏🏾
He passes the lie detector test. And all y’all females don’t like this man because he’s short.
No he's unlikable because he doesn't want her to have anything more than him and those 2 kids. Walking out she asked if she could build her career up and hi response was "We'll see". Only a good for nothing leprechaun with bad intentions would say such a thing.
@@ChannelSettings4truth
I don't think his height is the only reason people have negative opinions about him. Personally, I’m attracted to guys of any height; I value character and emotional intelligence more. My dislike for him stems from his lack of emotional availability and immaturity. I’m sure many other women feel the same way, and some may even prefer shorter men.
The main issue is how he presents himself. He comes across as unlikable, mainly due to his lack of accountability. The fact that he didn’t show up on their wedding day and showed no remorse speaks volumes. While there’s no such thing as a perfect couple, it’s clear that this relationship wasn’t meant to last. I believe it was intended to serve as a lesson for both of them; they needed to part ways.
Hopefully, if she chooses to stay with him, they will learn how to treat each other better. This would help them provide their children with a healthier and more emotionally supportive environment, which is essential for building their children’s safety and confidence in themselves, their future partners, & their parents in the future. Additionally, she should work on communicating effectively, setting boundaries, and standing firm on them, as it seems he finds it easy to establish his boundaries while belittling her in the process.
Just cause he work he playing over her
What kind of man doesn’t want his wife/life partner/mother of his children to be intelligent, capable, and have a fulfilling career? The one who wants her to keep thinking he’s her only option. Girl, run!
Based on some of these comments I thought this guy was going to be a horrible person. They are honestly going through what most couples experience after having children. They need time for themselves and time for one another and I believe they can make it. He is a bit of a chauvinist and needs to understand that stay at home moms deal with a lot but he is not a bad guy.
Hes horrible trying to glue old shoes of hers instead of buying her new ones she needs, plus he gives her no break from the children. He's selfish ignorant and misogynistic.
It’s just some of the stuff he said just were used to devalue her significantly. Takes away her income to make her a stay at home mom to a man that ain’t her husband. Said she is stuck with him. That’s so controlling and probably what he tells her to try to keep her strung along. She likely doesn’t have family and he uses that to his advantage to hold finances over her. He needs to really learn the work appreciation. It’s toxic.
She is going to learn what "I could do bad all by myself" really means.
Sher said LEAVE EM & THEN SHE LEFT EM run sis run🏃♀
Sis your makeup is every single thing❤
One min in and I had to turn this mess off smh
He tried to trap you with kids...
He doesn’t see her as his “wife” he sees her as a live in babysitter that you don’t have to pay.
This dude is going to KEEP thinking of you second girl, put him on child support and RUN.
He is ignorant AF.
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This is crazy. I went to college twice and worked since my youngest was in diapers this is some bs the judge is right giving the advice she gave
He is about Him..She needs to wake up and smell the 🌹 🥀. 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️
"It's not that hard to take care of the kids" says the man that wants to unwind from work before he does any child rearing.
Look at his collar and listen to his views. Is he Hebrew Isrealite?
Get star up out that sit 😂😂😂
Another case of a modern woman marrying a traditional man forcing a square peg into a round hole, modern women should get with modern men, go 50/50 and chase their careers etc.. so they can be fulfilled, leave traditional men alone
They should especially if he’s cheap and inconsiderate like this one
He is not cheating why not give him chance to improve..Such man are scarce
Right, men like him are rare. Misogynist,immature, kinda broke…she better hold on to this gem TIGHT😒
@1LocWonder Lol 😂 take it easy ☕
Wow 😮
A short King acting very INCONSIDERATE!😢 especially not showing up at the Court house to get Married!🤦🏽♀️🙄
I thought he was a paraplegic sitting in a wheelchair before I realized he's standing but just short
😂 he looks like a Quattlebaum 😂🤣🥴
A fool he be. Making that lady walk around with shoes that are detached.
Also, why are you a stay at home mom when you aren’t married? Don’t let him get off the hook for his responsibility. This is why I don’t believe in kids before marriage. It creates these unbalanced situations.
She has low self esteem. She not going anywhere because he pay all bills. He is an narcissist