30 Years Ruined: Yvette Maddux v "Tony" Maddux S24 E4

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 2 года назад +227

    This lady needs to get a job. You need your own money ma’am. He’s coming and going. You can’t rely on unreliable.

  • @paigejohnson71
    @paigejohnson71 2 года назад +252

    I can actually say, I am loving Star Jones in this role. She is awesome and has credibility. I like her boldness and honesty. Okaaaay Git it Judge Star!!

  • @Shirleyowens383
    @Shirleyowens383 2 года назад +178

    She said I don’t want a good guy I want a bad guy, Be careful what you ask for, Now you surprised that he’s bad💁🏾

    • @VerdeLane
      @VerdeLane Год назад +5

      She was 15!

    • @selfishgirlsgofirst
      @selfishgirlsgofirst Год назад +4

      she was à 15 years old. He's à predator and took davantage of that girl

    • @mrsjayhoward
      @mrsjayhoward Год назад +9

      When I was 15 I knew better we got to stop giving that pass. She was fast and wanted a grown ass man.

    • @papagrande2006
      @papagrande2006 10 месяцев назад

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @papagrande2006
      @papagrande2006 10 месяцев назад

      🎯🎯🎯@@mrsjayhoward

  • @sylvia5459
    @sylvia5459 2 года назад +232

    I was married for 21 yrs and was completely dependent on my husband with 3 young children. Divorcing him was the best thing I could’ve ever done for myself and the kids. Yes it was painfully hard, a very rough transition. But I found myself and I grew strong on my own and found my self worth. You don’t need a man to support you or depend on like your life depends on it. Growth is a beautiful thing. I hope she can find her strength and self worth.

  • @amberlawrence1647
    @amberlawrence1647 2 года назад +78

    Why would you beg to be with someone who repeatedly told you he didn’t want to be married to you. Bye bye!

  • @preciousjemstone2816
    @preciousjemstone2816 2 года назад +205

    She needs to let this marriage go. He keeps saying he loves her, but his actions and his disregard for her feelings doesn't show it.

    • @momonie4
      @momonie4 2 года назад +9

      What marriage?????? She needs to let that FOOL GO!!!!! She also should have worked, had a business or something to produce income. OMG she chased this idiot at 15 & couldn't wait to have his baby...That's all she wanted outta life SMFH

    • @anitadell9407
      @anitadell9407 2 года назад +1

      @@momonie4 not everyone gets the guidance they need in this life, u don't know her background, but thk God this her 1st step

    • @DominiqueHarris-xg9rj
      @DominiqueHarris-xg9rj 3 месяца назад

      I know that's right

  • @sharlene67
    @sharlene67 2 года назад +58

    A perfect instance of “be careful what you wish for”.

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 2 года назад +339

    This is a PRIME EXAMPLE OF WHY GIRLS/LADIES need to be Financially and MENTALITY Secure 1st.Before Entering ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP!!! MAKE AND HAVE YOUR OWN!!!

    • @meanlene4823
      @meanlene4823 2 года назад +3

      Yup! And don't listen to the Late KS! This is where your daughters will end up! 🤨

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 2 года назад +23

      Billi Holiday said it best…God bless the child that’s got his own

    • @ybshadyii4375
      @ybshadyii4375 2 года назад +5

      @@Mrs.Adrian Amen!!!

    • @fee179
      @fee179 2 года назад +20

      This is pissing me off!! Hard to watch.
      She needs to leave him because he doesn’t want her.

    • @ybshadyii4375
      @ybshadyii4375 2 года назад +19

      @@fee179 NEVER LET SOMEONE TELL YOU MORE THAN ONCE - THAT THEY DON'T WANT YOU NOR TO BE WITH YOU!!! NEXT!!!

  • @namea99
    @namea99 2 года назад +271

    I'm sorry but when people tell you who they are the first time *believe them* . He never lied about his character he flat out admitted he was a bad man. She fell in lust at first sight and wanted to have him regardless of the warnings. I do give her a lot more leeway because she was 15 though.

    • @lzl3lol
      @lzl3lol 2 года назад +12

      I give no leeway personally

    • @perseveranceofkeisha8792
      @perseveranceofkeisha8792 2 года назад +6

      Yea, leeway gains you nothin.

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri 2 года назад +23

      Namea, I agree. Fifteen is still a kid. Acting grown doesn't make anyone grown.

    • @inn2beauty10
      @inn2beauty10 2 года назад +9

      Thank you @Namea! He told her he was a bad guy and she ran to him. Listening to her go on about him being “a bad guy” was annoying me as much as it’s annoyed him all those years! 👏🏽He 👏🏽told 👏🏽you 👏🏽day 👏🏽one 👏🏽ma’am!!! I don’t have patience for stupidity and people not believing 💩 stinks. He told her how smelly it would be and she laid in it, rolled around, popped out some kids and then smeared it on them. Deplorable!

    • @userNOTfound1-3
      @userNOTfound1-3 2 года назад

      @@inn2beauty10 Amen

  • @moussabby
    @moussabby 2 года назад +262

    Please keep those episodes coming. I'm devouring them! Judge Star is great!!!

    • @AngaVt
      @AngaVt 2 года назад +7

      Hey Moussabby, makes two of us Gal!🤩💞

    • @royalzennrelax
      @royalzennrelax 2 года назад +6

      Yes I loving it .again .

    • @nastyyella300
      @nastyyella300 2 года назад +2

      She ok the last judge was better

    • @moussabby
      @moussabby 2 года назад +3

      @@nastyyella300 They're all good in what they do. :)

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 года назад +2

      I've always enjoyed seeing Star Jones on T.V. as well.

  • @evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770
    @evangdeborahmiddlebrook5770 2 года назад +150

    The reason this husband doesn’t want a divorce, and just a separation is because if things don’t work out between the woman, he’s been with he can “always return back to his house.” He’s left her ( 5 ), times and he doesn’t even have remorse and not an ounce of feeling.

    • @mlm1916
      @mlm1916 2 года назад +13

      'Cos she puts up with it.
      She's lost all of her self-confidence.
      She needs a job. He knows that she is dependent financially.

    • @cynthiasaracino7114
      @cynthiasaracino7114 2 года назад +12

      He is not a man. He's a manipulative man child.

    • @elainepinnock2933
      @elainepinnock2933 2 года назад +5

      Omg thank god I see this give me more courage n glad I get rid of my ex

    • @bmore8338
      @bmore8338 2 года назад +2

      Because she keeps taking him back

    • @d820m
      @d820m 2 года назад +5

      and she took him back five times, there will be a 6th, 7th and 8th time coming...I'm calling it right now🤣

  • @jasminasinanbegovic6225
    @jasminasinanbegovic6225 2 года назад +135

    He is honest and was honest from the first sentence they exchanged...she took her role of victim and stood next to him whatever he would do for 30 years...no time she meant serious enough to leave. Learn to love yourself, don't go out in looking for love. Nobody can give it to you if you got no love to offer, and therefore love yourself first

    • @sharonbosley6028
      @sharonbosley6028 2 года назад +5

      My mother always told me that I have to learn how to like myself before I can asked someone to love me.

    • @mrsaunders9989
      @mrsaunders9989 2 года назад +4

      Ty…accountability

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 2 года назад +2

      Sure nuff

    • @kilos4058
      @kilos4058 2 года назад +2

      Period! Best comment I heard so far ❤

    • @selfishgirlsgofirst
      @selfishgirlsgofirst Год назад +1

      she was à 15 year old. He was an old guy. She's a victim.

  • @shenquejames7598
    @shenquejames7598 2 года назад +54

    You cannot be a doormat unless you allow people to walk all over you! Million dollar advice.

  • @malenkadivine
    @malenkadivine 2 года назад +45

    Miss lady, please don’t waste anymore of your precious time and energy! It’s been 30 years….HE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE. WALK AWAY!!!!!

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 2 года назад +103

    Why does she even want to be with him?ugh..🤮

    • @peacefreedom4930
      @peacefreedom4930 2 года назад +11

      Trauma bonded to him

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 года назад +2

      @@peacefreedom4930 nope she just the oldest living fool in love but she’s the only one in love…

    • @chrissb3979
      @chrissb3979 2 года назад +3

      Because she wanted a bad man...your tongue is powerful. Now she's all shocked😲

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 2 года назад +81

    I love Judge Stars honesty 👏🏿 👩🏿‍⚖️ And now we’re seeing real married couples 🙌🏿

  • @kenyak2959
    @kenyak2959 2 года назад +57

    The boy is probably acting up because he sees how mean he is to his mom! Boys don’t play about their mommas!

    • @LLStark
      @LLStark 2 года назад +1

      He street. He's a street neg and I believe something spiritual has to happen in order for him to change other than that he's not going to change. Not only that, the man doesn't love her like "a man loves a woman". The love is over with him.

  • @xandrafrancois
    @xandrafrancois 2 года назад +24

    The pain of staying is often worse than the pain of being alone. I hope she understands that the pain will go away.

  • @sheilataylor7497
    @sheilataylor7497 2 года назад +29

    You wanted a "bad guy", you got him.

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 2 года назад +29

    She doesn't need to be married to anyone until she gets herself together.

  • @SamoreIntuitiveChats
    @SamoreIntuitiveChats 2 года назад +32

    Exactly stop abusing these kids smh. All it does is lead to a new generation of traumatized adults

    • @melim3l130
      @melim3l130 Год назад +2

      It’s a fact.

    • @lamaridelbridge9601
      @lamaridelbridge9601 9 месяцев назад +1

      These kids today are soft as hell and fast to pick up a gun and go jail. I'm a 80s baby that got the belt from my parents. Fast forward I'm 37 and never been in trouble with the law and tough mentally. Giving kids timeout and punishment not working for hard headed kids. That's why most of them are in jail or with a onlyfans page lol

  • @Shewins23
    @Shewins23 2 года назад +55

    He told her who he was in the Beginning. He straight up told her “ I’m a bad guy”As judge Toler would say don’t let him tell you more than once. She let him tell her for 30 years

  • @aw8119
    @aw8119 2 года назад +25

    Seeing these older couples and the things that they have been through and are going through is educational and helpful to everyone.

  • @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548
    @TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 2 года назад +38

    Let this be a lesson ladies, NEVER EVER!!!! become completely dependent on a man (husband). You may end up dealing with emotional, mental, physical and financial abuse. The person who holds the purse usually makes all the rules regarding your life. No way in hell you get to leave me once with kids and think a divorce is not coming. They both need individual therapy. They are both broken people ☹️.

    • @bestdarky19
      @bestdarky19 Год назад

      Yea but sometimes the husband alone work in marriage bc for my case I make twins, daycare very expensive and grandparents past away early so I have no one to watch them so therefore I had to agree wit my husband to be a stay at home wife. But watching things like these is like dame I would pray I never end up like this bc your you will be abuse in all those ways you mentioned in true. .

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 2 года назад +53

    She needs to leave. He doesn't give a damn about her or his children. She needs to find a job to build her stability and confidence, because right now, he's all she has and she's clinging to him for that reason.
    She's afraid she won't make it on her own. Whew!!! Been there...and proved to myself that I could.

    • @VClary
      @VClary 2 года назад +5

      Purchased a Compaq computer in the 90s self taught and never depended on someone ever again.

    • @triciabrown2605
      @triciabrown2605 2 года назад +2

      She needs to go look a job because he doing this to her because she doesn't independent on her own she needs to get a job talk true judge she doesn't a family find something to do

    • @tyronzasmith3735
      @tyronzasmith3735 2 года назад +2

      Yes, trust God He'll always make a way. People will block your blessings. I gained more in life once I left the toxic relationship.

    • @kishablessed5397
      @kishablessed5397 Год назад

      @@triciabrown2605huh 🤔🤯 I tried to read your comment 3 times now I feel dyslexic 😖

    • @kishablessed5397
      @kishablessed5397 Год назад

      @@triciabrown2605huh 🤔🤯 I tried to read your comment 3 times now I feel dyslexic 😖

  • @sabrina21clark
    @sabrina21clark 2 года назад +49

    WOW! He's a narcissist and her pain is an inconvenience to him.

    • @reeboo43
      @reeboo43 2 года назад +2

      perfectly said!

    • @vergilsdisciple3057
      @vergilsdisciple3057 2 года назад

      She chose her bed of shii now she gotta lay in it. Ion fee bad

  • @andreawashington5430
    @andreawashington5430 2 года назад +63

    Hey Everybody Nah, Judge Star when you put beating (whipping) into the analogy to slavery you really made me look at it differently…Because I was whipped as a child because of the wrong I done, but it wasn’t abuse I’ll admit and yes I didn’t do it again but I do see your point and it’s always another way of displaying discipline 💯💯

    • @lifenfavor2013
      @lifenfavor2013 2 года назад +13

      Same here…She really made me realize whippings with belts was a strong correlation to slavery.

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda 2 года назад +5

      @@lifenfavor2013 yuppp which is why I won’t physically or emotionally abuse my future children. They will get timeout and stuff like that but I refuse to do them like that .

    • @imred357
      @imred357 Год назад

      The way I've been saying this for five years now and I was looked at crazy
      I'm so glad the message is getting out there.

    • @d820m
      @d820m Год назад

      @@Sandrinarhonda Time out? Why, so them brats can PLAN other evil shit to do? Take time out of your busy day to whup that ass!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @minkki5656
    @minkki5656 2 года назад +125

    This is just sad. The wife has become so dependent on this man, and even though she knows the relationship is toxic, she's willing to stay with him. You can put that under low self esteem. I think she has came from trauma, due to the fact when she spoke about at 15, going after this older guy. She also stated she was beaten when she was younger. That says a whole lot as to why she's conditioned to be in toxicity, and not willing to escape it. This guy is from the streets, he told her he was bad at the beginning. I have learned that when a man tells you something about himself, women, we need to listen. He can't stand noises. He can't stand when people raise their voices, he has issues with authority figures. At his age of 59, you would think he would have learned something over the years. He's seems to still have that street ang gang mentality. She's not divorcing him. She will continue to stay, and show her kids that this is the way to live. Last but not least, she need a damn job!!! Whining because he left her without anything? Stop depending on a trifling man, and get off your butt and take care of your kids. They are to damn old for these types of shenanigans.

    • @sexytrinny52
      @sexytrinny52 2 года назад +9

      Baby you said whole table full.

    • @d820m
      @d820m 2 года назад

      I mentioned before that this man's "give a damn" gave out about 20 years ago, but damn she's annoying as fuck🤣

    • @nastyyella300
      @nastyyella300 2 года назад +1

      What did he say or do that displayed a street mentality?

    • @chocolateangel8743
      @chocolateangel8743 2 года назад +8

      @@nastyyella300 You clearly weren't listening. He, himself, said he was from the streets and a bad guy and that she shouldn't pursue him from the time they met. Heck, even the modern-day research says that BM don't make good partners for anyone (based on their inability to provide, the fact that they don't engage in the lives of their children, the fact they don't build or invest in their own community and more).

    • @sholondaflynn6483
      @sholondaflynn6483 2 года назад +3

      Baby, this!👆 If I could like your comment a 100x I would.

  • @TatiBak
    @TatiBak 2 года назад +82

    Wow it look me a GOOD minute to fall in love with Judge Faith but sheeeeesh it only took 3 episodes for me to enjoy Judge Star very damn much! I thought I was done with this show but I guess I’ll stay tuned in 😌

    • @starjones9147
      @starjones9147 2 года назад +14

      I'm so glad you gave me a chance!😀

    • @filmfestivalradio1
      @filmfestivalradio1 2 года назад +5

      Judge Star looks just fabulous every single day! I love the beautiful n colorful wardrobe her stylists select for her. And the hair and makeup re both just so on point!

  • @thewise2443
    @thewise2443 2 года назад +29

    the 1st mistake was when he told you he was a bad guy and before you pursued him again you should've took your time before having that baby. you should've seen was he really a great man ... when the judge asked was there any romantic times, she only said yea this 1 one time and then still talked negatively... just because someone has been together for a long time doesn't mean it was good... its quality of quantity

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 года назад +2

      I think she continued to have babies to keep him home so he would stop leaving her for other women!!!

  • @98rastafarian
    @98rastafarian 2 года назад +53

    Judge Star 💫 No Filter & Straight Up & Old School. I love it ❤️🖤

    • @livinmabestlife
      @livinmabestlife 2 года назад

      But she aint a real judge

    • @ShaqC
      @ShaqC 2 года назад +5

      @@livinmabestlife Jerry Springer wasn't a real judge either and he did a show.

  • @Passion85031
    @Passion85031 2 года назад +88

    I know it’s easier said then done but I think she needs to leave. I’ve been in a relationship and have felt the same way. I depended on my kids dad and was disappointed. I know it’s been 30 years but sometimes you just have to let go. I know the kids are afraid and confused. Beating a child doesn’t help. And Mrs Jones is correct it’s not right. Sis you can’t make him love you I tried for my babies too it just caused more trauma. The kids deserve to see a happy mom not one that has to wear a mask of fake happiness

  • @jazzjames1688
    @jazzjames1688 2 года назад +13

    Loving what Judge Star is bringing to this show. She’s saying what people need to hear!

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 2 года назад +16

    I never wanna get married and have been single 11yrs.

  • @ayefo7800
    @ayefo7800 2 года назад +15

    Ladies, we gotra stop giving these miserable, emotionally immature men our time, our bodies, amd our hearts. They are never going to respect you!!!

  • @kiarussell6914
    @kiarussell6914 2 года назад +32

    His heart is hardened so bad he needs to seek The Lord for help and she needs The Lord for healing and comfort 🙏

  • @miloperrault2614
    @miloperrault2614 2 года назад +29

    Star, I wasn't sure when hearing you were going to be the new judge. I am totally sure now and this is the third episode. You are telling like it I.S. is and I'm here for it, great job. Keep it coming!

  • @nikkibankhead6759
    @nikkibankhead6759 2 года назад +20

    So did he leave because the gangs were on his neck or because of the responsibility that his family brought??!

    • @junkienikki3
      @junkienikki3 8 месяцев назад

      He was in danger so he left

  • @RainWalking
    @RainWalking 2 года назад +54

    Woman wants bad man, gets bad man, gets treated badly. Then complains about it and stays.
    When you could have had a good man and better.

    • @DB-tv9jp
      @DB-tv9jp 2 года назад +3

      💯💯💯💯 Facts

  • @mimineren8787
    @mimineren8787 2 года назад +17

    I don’t feel sorry for her. She chased him and got what she chased !

  • @jacobpaulk8404
    @jacobpaulk8404 2 года назад +10

    Great job, Judge Starr. I’m looking forward to more episodes with your sound advice.

  • @MaleBlackExpat
    @MaleBlackExpat 2 года назад +4

    This was actually better than expected! Enjoyed it thoroughly.

  • @yes2768
    @yes2768 2 года назад +20

    i’m loving Star Jones she gives great advice❤

  • @oceanlady66
    @oceanlady66 2 года назад +14

    Judge Starr is rocking this court show !

  • @Imbugoy
    @Imbugoy 2 года назад +14

    that guy is a narcissist. run lady cry no more

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 2 года назад +6

    Ma’am, you can save those tears, heartache, and anguish…
    Even your very own mother told you to leave that grown man alone.
    HE told you to leave him alone & that he was a bad guy…
    YOU chose that man. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes…..

  • @tharris9074
    @tharris9074 2 года назад +13

    She was “tired of being the good girl” and been getting played every since. If you going to be a bad girl know how to play the game love.

    • @danielleadams6609
      @danielleadams6609 2 года назад +1

      She was 15, she didn't really get a chance to be any kind of girl...

    • @vergilsdisciple3057
      @vergilsdisciple3057 2 года назад +3

      @@danielleadams6609 She 45 now. Whats her excuse?

  • @d820m
    @d820m 2 года назад +63

    she was tired of being "the good girl?" sounds to me she brought all that misery on herself 🤣

    • @Imbugoy
      @Imbugoy 2 года назад +18

      she was only 15 back then, and she became the supply for the narcissist. so sad

    • @Remember_Eden
      @Remember_Eden 2 года назад +9

      And she stayed for 30 years, to boot. At some point being the victim becomes a drag. She seems to like it.

    • @DB-tv9jp
      @DB-tv9jp 2 года назад +4

      Facts she chose a man that was not good for her from the beginning & now she's upset make it make sense & he told you from day 1 he wasn't shit he told her! SMFH

    • @nadejel7060
      @nadejel7060 2 года назад

      @@Imbugoy Thank you! These guys make no sense.. exactly why children need parents, to help guide them.

    • @MochaMadness74
      @MochaMadness74 2 года назад +1

      @@Imbugoy nope she married him at 20 so she knew better especially after he left her and the kids to go live it up with other women… she doesn’t get a pass..she’s not a victim!!!

  • @TheSowUnique
    @TheSowUnique 2 года назад +3

    STOP telling a man he can not disciplline his kids....and this is why the kids are OUT OF CONTROL!!!!!

  • @TwiceSmittenOnceShy
    @TwiceSmittenOnceShy 2 года назад +47

    Gatta love when these women say they want a “bad boy” and then when they get what they wanted they act like the narrative was supposed to be something else.. Don’t get me wrong, it’s still tragic, but is this what you wanted or what you thought you wanted?

    • @JayBerri92
      @JayBerri92 2 года назад +7

      I wonder if the women ever realizes where it all started. “Wanting a bad boy” & then getting one

    • @TwiceSmittenOnceShy
      @TwiceSmittenOnceShy 2 года назад

      @Nolo Contendere Preach 🙌🏾

  • @briggsneal1016
    @briggsneal1016 2 года назад +7

    We need to start taking responsibility for our own actions. There's not 24yrs of "he did this to me". At some point it's "I let".

  • @natnat0576
    @natnat0576 2 года назад +10

    Yeah all that meaness is inside him..He is done and not emotionally there..Lady get on your feet and leave him alone...I know its easier said than done these days...He is outta there

  • @kevinblackmon7982
    @kevinblackmon7982 2 года назад +4

    He's narc he looks much older & he's not.
    She surely needs me. He can't see beauty
    cause he's blinded by his ugliness

  • @DdShevanii
    @DdShevanii 2 года назад +14

    This is sad, he doesn't deserve her love and devotion. Please get out of this relationship, make room for a better man. It's not too late to get a job and live on your own for you and your kids. He's so pathetic

    • @d820m
      @d820m Год назад

      who's gonna want her annoying ass and her baggage, what SANE man is signing up for that BS🤣🤣

  • @azebenoit8842
    @azebenoit8842 2 года назад +10

    This relationship is toxic even the children want to run away from him the mother should run with them n don't look back !!!

  • @worldhealthrn
    @worldhealthrn Год назад +2

    I know she ain't bringing this man on national TV crying about some flowers for Valentine's Day

  • @stamp211xxoo
    @stamp211xxoo 2 года назад +7

    This new version of Divorce Court reminds me more of Relationship Court. There needs to be a title change in my opinion.

  • @d820m
    @d820m 2 года назад +7

    safe to say that "his give a damn" gave out a long time ago😂😂😂

  • @martineterrell1798
    @martineterrell1798 2 года назад +7

    I am so excited to see Judge Star Jones, love you lady...You're the best!!!!

  • @chase395
    @chase395 2 года назад +3

    Narcissists can't see fault within themselves

  • @JayBerri92
    @JayBerri92 2 года назад +7

    One thing Mrs Star gone do is point out accountability 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @alfredthomas4006
    @alfredthomas4006 2 года назад +14

    She said she wanted a bad boy!!!!!!!!

  • @irene27206
    @irene27206 2 года назад +6

    Why build a family with someone who told you they are not good? Women, women please do better so that your children can learn from you

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 2 года назад +11

    He told me, “ you don’t want me. I’m a bad guy “
    I told him “ I want a bad guy “.
    Uh ma’am you got exactly what you wanted. Why are we here today?

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 2 года назад +5

    He said he would do anything for her yet he wouldn’t do the one thing she asked for, apologize.

  • @radrew684
    @radrew684 2 года назад +8

    That's the man she chose

  • @opulence_prime
    @opulence_prime 2 года назад +26

    I don’t agree with physically disciplining kids either. Stars is on point!

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 2 года назад +9

    I like this. I like Judge Jones!!

  • @sunshinebutterfly4654
    @sunshinebutterfly4654 2 года назад +18

    This is a sad situation...good example of why a wife should be financially stable on her own so that she can move on out of a toxic relationship. She is probaby still with him getting the abuse.

    • @DB-tv9jp
      @DB-tv9jp 2 года назад +5

      How about when a man tells you he ain't shit from day 1 believe him & go find better. It's ok to work & build with a decent man but you ladies loves the bad boys as she said she didn't want good she wanted bad man & that's what she got dont cry now

  • @Regalem3
    @Regalem3 2 года назад +5

    I feel for her, but he told he he wasn't any good from the beginning. If you're sick of being hurt, let him go.

  • @kerrywhite5253
    @kerrywhite5253 2 года назад +14

    He warned her from the beginning and she was interested in his sexy.

    • @d820m
      @d820m 2 года назад +4

      that's what I said, she brought that misery on herself from the get-go, even after she was repeatedly warned, and now she wants to cry about it?😕

    • @delilahspivey1093
      @delilahspivey1093 2 года назад +2

      exactly

  • @savtrill333
    @savtrill333 2 года назад +1

    I'm about tired of these people swapping judges😂 gahlee

  • @Lincolnberries
    @Lincolnberries 2 года назад +8

    Plaintiff bought this on herself.

  • @zipporahcooper400
    @zipporahcooper400 2 года назад +2

    When she first met him he said Honestly you don't want mess with me I'm I'm a bad dude she said well I'm tired of good I want be bad. And that's why first impressions matters to me

  • @shaybutter3403
    @shaybutter3403 2 года назад +12

    all that whining was def annoying... Lowkey.. Nails on a chalk board.
    I feel bad for her but she kind of purposely signed up for it... She even admitted it...

  • @LinCarlock
    @LinCarlock 6 месяцев назад +1

    He said you don't want to be with me. I'm a bad guy. He told her the truth. I can respect his honesty. She chose that life with him

  • @justrirakkusu8952
    @justrirakkusu8952 2 года назад +10

    I'm so glad Star is the new judge!!

  • @dallasnicole295
    @dallasnicole295 Год назад +1

    Dealing with a older guy I had the same issue just emotionally not there and only want their needs satisfied and would leave their whole family over selfishness

  • @Bedstuy4lyfe
    @Bedstuy4lyfe 2 года назад +4

    This is BS. They grew up together as children in there teens. No experience with other people. They still had to find themselves. 30 years and counting, still wanna save their marriage.

  • @xandrafrancois
    @xandrafrancois 2 года назад +2

    Hé said hé loves her. None of his actions show love. Hé is a narcisist. Selfish. This is no marriage.

  • @Arron413
    @Arron413 2 года назад +1

    I respect his honesty. He is keeping real. He has laid out his feelings before the world. Who dares to deny this fact?

  • @xXLilSmurthXx
    @xXLilSmurthXx 2 года назад +2

    Mr. Maddox was brutally honest, but honest all the same and kept it 100 about what he desires. If Mrs. Maddox continues to be around him, then she is choosing that life as Mr. Maddox's words and actions are saying the same thing. That is, he doesn't want to be with her.

  • @VeronicaGillispie
    @VeronicaGillispie 2 года назад +4

    This wife has done nothing but complain about this man but yet she wants to stay with him which is crazy and bipolar marriage. This man has not yet shown no love for this woman nor concern to her crying and break down. She's just wanting an apology that she will NEVER get. She might not think this was her best now believe me you're going to be thankful for saving yourself from a grand disappointment, potential STD that you can't get rid of, and hurt/ killed trusting the wrong people that you thought they had your best interest) at heart. SAD BUT TRUE

  • @SamoreIntuitiveChats
    @SamoreIntuitiveChats 2 года назад +7

    Sounds like he has ODD. Also a few other things
    . He needs therapy to get your root of his issues.

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime 2 года назад

      I had to google it but I can see it.

  • @tashab1628
    @tashab1628 2 года назад +5

    May God heal this woman. I think it starts from childhood. Fathers need to teach their daughters what real love is and how men should treat them. So sad. I hope this man looks back at this video and sees how horrible he is to her. I hope that no other woman gets hurt by him again.

  • @iBlindAssassin
    @iBlindAssassin 2 года назад +2

    She wanted a bad guy, & she got him!

  • @dowardwashington9958
    @dowardwashington9958 2 года назад +8

    🤔 Idk.....She really needs to find her own job/ sources of income. You can't complain he's cheap, he's this, he's that.....And you don't have your own

  • @daniellehoreau7721
    @daniellehoreau7721 2 года назад +4

    You would think she'd tired of being sick and tired? Even if she has a lot of trauma how can she put up with 30 years of sadness, disappointment, and lies?!

    • @Lb2Shay
      @Lb2Shay 2 года назад +1

      Yea idk what to say. She's still not even tired enough.

  • @vikatikoisolomone9722
    @vikatikoisolomone9722 2 года назад +4

    Jeez, at 15 I was still climbing trees around my house and all the boys were either friend and cousins 🤦‍♀️

  • @barbararedmond5179
    @barbararedmond5179 Год назад

    Judge Star... is the epitome of excellence for "divorce court."
    She has a way of making the litigants THINK about why they are in her courtroom. Judge Star, you ARE truly the right pick for this program! Thank you for accepting the assignment!

  • @marcyhodge7862
    @marcyhodge7862 2 года назад +2

    Words from the wise...(Judge Lynn Toler) " Never let a man tells you he doesn't want you more than once."

  • @lorimcbrayer8431
    @lorimcbrayer8431 2 года назад +3

    Single or married ALL women need their own money.

  • @MzFine1
    @MzFine1 2 года назад +2

    She’s too old to be begging a man to love her! Ridiculous

  • @zulu3274
    @zulu3274 2 года назад +10

    🤨 HIM - I'm a bad boy. You DON'T want me, STAY AWAY FROM ME !!!....
    😍 HER - I LOVE bad boys, I want you and WE going to be TOGETHER...
    🙄 ME - She gets mad when a bad boy does BAD BOY STUFF... It's like getting mad at a snake🐍 for being a snake🐍...
    Make it MAKE SENSE...
    🙂I'm not a woman hater by any means. I just have a low tolerance for people that can't take accountability for their part within why things go wrong... Be careful Judge Star. You seem to be leaning towards the man can't do anything right and the woman is NEVER wrong side of things... Stay fair or neutral because we are in the age of EQUALITY and society is watching...😉
    RIP - Kevin Samuels

  • @CandyCoated96
    @CandyCoated96 2 года назад +6

    Gonna Miss Judge Faith 💗 Loved her, but excited to also see STAR representing Divorce Court. 🙌

  • @evonjohnson4078
    @evonjohnson4078 Год назад +1

    That man is not human. He was assembled by an intoxicated person using used parts. He is really "BAD"

  • @a.8774
    @a.8774 2 года назад +3

    He's also passive aggressive and that's a behavior issue that comes from a controlling parent, caretaker or partner. Controlling people causes their object to be passive aggressive

  • @DJWakening
    @DJWakening 2 года назад +1

    He said he's from the streets and indicated he had a tough childhood, he was honest, he is what he is

  • @Bear4196
    @Bear4196 2 года назад +4

    She’s a doormat and loves it. He’s a narcissist.

  • @bruhservices225
    @bruhservices225 Год назад +1

    He did say he was a bad man I’m the beginning😂