I was done when she said he was in an on and off relationship before he even got with her(which should have been a huge red flag to her), he disappeared on her, and she jumped into a relationship with him a year later without asking any questions. This woman has no standards no boundaries and no expectations. Smh
She plays innocent but she knew he was with someone from the very beginning but CHOSE to deal with him regardless,she knew what was coming.And some of us need to learn to be alone cause it’s quite obvious he don’t want her
It’s the last part for me “ Some of us need to learn to be alone” yesss! I’m fine with being alone and two of my cousins would save themselves so much heartache and drama if they learn to be alone.
It's both. You can unintentionally end up in a situation that could cause you to cheat, not realizing you're developing or have feelings for someone else. But it's on you to choose to proceed in that direction or not.
This guy doesn't know what monogamy means, so why even waste the energy it takes to trust him? He's not worth it - stop hanging on to someone who doesn't really want to be with you????
I'm with judge Star, it's annoying as hell watching these women complain, and they have no ties with the guy, meaning no kids, and even if there are kids, why stay? He showed her who he was. Evidently she likes being disrespected. I blame her for continuing to be a fool for this man.
At this point I blame her because how many times does he have to show you he can’t be trusted for you to actually believe him. After the first trip he lied to me I would have been out.
😁 I couldn't agree with you more ... These guys work around hundreds of women on a regular basis who are artists and models and lets add groupies/fans too... Women like the status these guys bring/have but don't like the plentiful OPTIONS those guys have...lol
When someone deceives you, LEAVE ..... never give them an opportunity to Lie to u again.... it's clear he was not ready for any relationship from the beginning!
He's ready for a relationship just not a monogamous one... But you got to be honest about these things from the beginning with whoever you are involved with....
She wanted that man, She got that man. She got exactly what she asked for dealing with a man who was already in a relationship. Leave him, or let him cheat in peace, but please LEAVE US ALONE.
I’ve been cheated on & it hurts, but I’ve always walked away after. I’ll never understand people that stay with the person who cheated. If they don’t pick up that phone on the 2nd ring, your mind gets to wonder if they cheating again. You become a prisoner to your own madness. Cry if you must, but don’t go back. You will never look at that person the same again.
Don't say you forgive somebody for an offense but hold it over their head for the whole relationship. If you know you aren't going to be able to forgive the offense, then leave. At the same time, if you commit an offense, you need to give the person time to heal from it. You cannot expect the person to just get over it. You do what's necessary to assure the person you can be trusted again.
I think ppl ALWAYS think that they can forgive until they cannot, which is fine. Where we go wrong is, we don't put a plan in place for our EXIT once we find out the forgiveness was not warranted. You have to "ALWAYS BE READY TO STEP..." -Honorable Judge Lynn Toler
Remember he shouldn’t start anything and get someone’s hopes up. If he still dealing with his baby mama either leave the baby mama or stay with her he is in the wrong 😑
yeah she ain't going nowhere. I've seen older women like her who's been with men like him for 20, 30 years complaining about the same ol' behavior they don't like about their men. I avoid befriending women like her cuz their stories get old and annoying and they always seem to find a problem in every solutions you help them find. girl let him cheat in peace. judge Star is fabulous as usual and shout out to the bailiff seems like a cool guy
I know it’s her choice to deal with this lying loser, but I am heartbroken for her. Low self worth is like a disease amongst women many of us want love but we are clueless what that is. I hope she decides eventually to chose peace and love for self.
It’s always the P WORD. POTENTIAL that get so many women in trouble with dudes like this?!?! THIS!! Potential means not there yet! Not mature, not sincere, not truthful, NOT FAITHFUL etc a lot of NOTS!
The fact that she stayed when he cheated months in….🤦🏾♀️ it wasn’t like they were together long and she coulda left. He has the smuggest smile on his face the entire episode. He’s so gross.
Promise rings over the age of 17 is wild to me. An engagement is a promise. If you have to promise you'll make a promise eventually I don't even want it
Why can't he be with his kids ? He shouldn't have to hide that y'all take social media to far no one should have to tell you to move around some ppl like drama and some ppl do what you allow
He has more than one baby mama? Girl he will never be faithful and committed to you. This is why I don't date men with more than one baby mother. One baby mama or ex wife is enough.
Ms Taylor, I hope you in the comments seeing how majority of the people here telling you to go. Stop making yourself miserable. Is it that you think you won't find anybody else because being alone would be better than this relationship
She will NEVER trust him because she knows how SHE got him! She didn't respect the other woman and she's afraid of receiving the same disrespect that she gave!
He sounds so practiced in his answers... it drives me nuts clear sign of manipulation. The Plaintiff's skin looks too good to let dumb stress to ruin it.
Go ahead Judge Star. Keep being fly. Love that color. I'm a retired young looking woman, and I remember dressing just like you are everyday going to work, and I love your style. Your style is my style.
Seems like a lot of guys use the music industry / media to hide and enable their shenanigans. You want to be with a woman...your ACTIONS HAVE TO MATCH YOUR WORDS!!! OTHERWISE YOU'RE JUST CHEATING!
This is a no! They started off in error and misrepresentation. He has a child with another woman that apparently he's dealing with on/off, but being a daddy is forever. This girl didn't inquire about the status or extent of his relationship with the mother of his child, because she didn't care to. She was a side piece, and now she mad that he has other side pieces, make that make sense. She has moved him in, playing house, when there's no clear indication that he really wants to be there, other than the lies he speak. He and the mother of his child will continue to have relations, that's a given, and if he can have them with this fool as well so be it. This man is not trying to build with her, he just found a damn good room mate. She gets her karma, and so does he. Period
Wait! He was in a relationship when they illicitly got together. He ended that relationship and entered into a relationship with her. Subsequently, he cheated on her, and yet she is surprised that he did that. What am I missing?
"You have no reason to stay in an unhappy situation. The best part about free will... is the ability to exercise it! You need to roll!" -- Judge Star I love me some Judge Mablean and Judge Tohler, enjoyed Judge Faith... Yet Judge Star... she is shining! I'm loving it! 💗
He has shown her multiple times who he was - A LIAR AND A CHEATER!! So why does she expect him to be anything else?? Why stay with someone you cannot trust!! The answer is simple - DON'T!!!
That was her 1st mistake getting with a man that wishy-washy in and out relationship that red flags 🚩🚩🚩all day I would've deaded it right there from the start 💯
You don't marry potential. You can never change someone. They have to want to change. Never marry someone with the intent to change them. It will never work!!!
Girl. Stop wasting our time. He’s loose and you’re not going ANYWHERE. And collecting evidence, clinging to him super tight, and telling us how (you already know) he is is not going to change that. Take us out the group chat.
A breach of trust isn't so easy to move pass. And forgiving a trust breaker majority of the time ONLY Ignites a sense of self entitlement in the form of giving them permission to cheat more
😂I’m Star’s 🌟 new FAN after this Advice she gave on this case !! You go Judge!!! I’m still hollering love it!!!!!! 🤣🤣 laughing 👍🏾 I just hope she takes the advice
Cheating is not a choice and may carry some infectious diseases. She should leave him alone and let him go back to his baby mother. A cheater is like a zebra.
Once I get to a point where I have to get out of my routine to check on the other person's behavior, I will disappear! Being the person I am, I will act like they don't exist.
No woman can change a grown man. He doesn't make you happy and he's obvi cheating. DROP HIM!!! She doesn't have kids with him!!! DROP HIM and KEEP IT THAT WAY!!! And yes how you get him is how you lose him. He told you what he is when he was going in and out of a relationship. That's a clue to stay away from him! PERIOD!!!
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When a guy starts off lying and/or manipulating in the beginning, leave immediately. Be the one who got away.
I I don’t
@@creamekay It reads like you're stuttering. 😭😭
when this happens, women stay when it's something they want. end of story.
Exactly
At this point, this is all on her. She's making herself miserable. He is what he's been since day one.
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Exactly......I don't know why she is there still. Girl .....leave this is not the man for you
The judge is so correct......why is she in the relationship? JUDGE STAR WAS SO RIGHT
I was done when she said he was in an on and off relationship before he even got with her(which should have been a huge red flag to her), he disappeared on her, and she jumped into a relationship with him a year later without asking any questions. This woman has no standards no boundaries and no expectations. Smh
She plays innocent but she knew he was with someone from the very beginning but CHOSE to deal with him regardless,she knew what was coming.And some of us need to learn to be alone cause it’s quite obvious he don’t want her
facts! how you get em is how you lose em
Exactly
Preach
We all that saying loose them how u get them.
It’s the last part for me “ Some of us need to learn to be alone” yesss! I’m fine with being alone and two of my cousins would save themselves so much heartache and drama if they learn to be alone.
She’s so afraid of being alone, she’ll rather stay. Damn shame🤦🏿♂️
I think so too because he's a Cutie, and she's all right looking.
💚💫💚so sad she is gorgeous
Cheating is not a mistake. It's a choice.
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It's both. You can unintentionally end up in a situation that could cause you to cheat, not realizing you're developing or have feelings for someone else. But it's on you to choose to proceed in that direction or not.
@@quichequiche4274 it's 100% by choice
the ppl in the back didn't hear you, could you shout it out this time?
@@truthmatters7298 exactly. You can always say no.
Gurl - don't get mad. Get SINGLE!🙄😂
This guy doesn't know what monogamy means, so why even waste the energy it takes to trust him? He's not worth it - stop hanging on to someone who doesn't really want to be with you????
I’m really liking judge star… amazing balanced and beautiful
I agree she is beautiful ♥️
Her hair and makeup 🔥
Her name fits her.
STOP GOING THRU THE PHONE ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE GOING TO FIND DIRT THEN STAY, DON'T BE THE CREATOR OF YOUR OWN HELL, SMH
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Exactly
Why scroll if you ain't gone roll! Lol
Ooooh weeeee,words to the wise!!!!
Stop doing sneaky shit for the person to go through the phone in the first place
I'm with judge Star, it's annoying as hell watching these women complain, and they have no ties with the guy, meaning no kids, and even if there are kids, why stay? He showed her who he was. Evidently she likes being disrespected. I blame her for continuing to be a fool for this man.
I am at 6:05 minutes in and I feel the same way.
At this point I blame her because how many times does he have to show you he can’t be trusted for you to actually believe him. After the first trip he lied to me I would have been out.
Run 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
I’d have been out even before then 😂😂
When a person show you who they are believe them. She loves the drama.
I loved when Judge Star said he's free to be who he wants to be, but if that's not what she wants then leave! Straight truth!
Music Promoters & Rappers should be off limits ladies, how much more evidence do you need to see, THESE DUDES AIN'T IT, THEY ARE ONLY OPPORTUNIST 😁😁
THAT PART!!!!💯💯💯
😁 I couldn't agree with you more ... These guys work around hundreds of women on a regular basis who are artists and models and lets add groupies/fans too... Women like the status these guys bring/have but don't like the plentiful OPTIONS those guys have...lol
And have no health insurance or IRAs😆😆
She reminds me of me 😏🥴🥴
Fact!! Men like this are totally off limits
They kill me with all the evidence, yet you want someone to tell you to leave or stay ? #mess
Exactly 😂😂I don’t get it !!
Spend so much energy to prove that the person they’re with ain’t no good
Waisting all of the Judges wisdom and time to continue to stay with the fool
Dumb!
These are not mistakes, they are decisions, and there is a difference.
She is getting on my last nerve....building a whole case for who?? Why are yall here
When someone deceives you, LEAVE ..... never give them an opportunity to Lie to u again.... it's clear he was not ready for any relationship from the beginning!
I'm with you because you will always be suspicious.
He's ready for a relationship just not a monogamous one... But you got to be honest about these things from the beginning with whoever you are involved with....
@@vonahlee5887 Exactly !
@@zulu3274 Definitely …. Honesty is the best route!
She wanted that man, She got that man. She got exactly what she asked for dealing with a man who was already in a relationship. Leave him, or let him cheat in peace, but please LEAVE US ALONE.
For real
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂EXACTLY!
He so bad and she stays for it. Then comes to court and makes a fool of herself and admits she stays.
Tania - he's for the streets and his baby mama(s). Love yourself enough to be by yourself until someone truly deserving comes along.
When he started rolling his eyes at the judge, I started rolling!!
I’ve been cheated on & it hurts, but I’ve always walked away after. I’ll never understand people that stay with the person who cheated. If they don’t pick up that phone on the 2nd ring, your mind gets to wonder if they cheating again. You become a prisoner to your own madness. Cry if you must, but don’t go back. You will never look at that person the same again.
This the one!!!! Women or Men who does this is stupid asf.
Good advice!
She needs to just go. She’s going to make herself miserable tracking his whereabouts
Don't say you forgive somebody for an offense but hold it over their head for the whole relationship. If you know you aren't going to be able to forgive the offense, then leave.
At the same time, if you commit an offense, you need to give the person time to heal from it. You cannot expect the person to just get over it. You do what's necessary to assure the person you can be trusted again.
True that!
💯... Couldn't have said it better...
Exactly!
I think ppl ALWAYS think that they can forgive until they cannot, which is fine. Where we go wrong is, we don't put a plan in place for our EXIT once we find out the forgiveness was not warranted. You have to "ALWAYS BE READY TO STEP..."
-Honorable Judge Lynn Toler
@@quichequiche4274 ooo thats deepp! soo true! miss judge lynn., she was fav on divorce court
All i heard was....he was in and out of a relationship when we first met and i KNEW it was going downhill from there! 😂😂😂😂😫😫😫😫😬😬😬😬
All I heard, didn’t care about a thing she said after that! Didn’t care about what he was doing with anyone just like she didn’t care
She’ll do all this but LEAVE, ain’t that something
I think he needs some place to stay, and Tania is his security blanket.
Remember he shouldn’t start anything and get someone’s hopes up. If he still dealing with his baby mama either leave the baby mama or stay with her he is in the wrong 😑
yeah she ain't going nowhere. I've seen older women like her who's been with men like him for 20, 30 years complaining about the same ol' behavior they don't like about their men. I avoid befriending women like her cuz their stories get old and annoying and they always seem to find a problem in every solutions you help them find. girl let him cheat in peace. judge Star is fabulous as usual and shout out to the bailiff seems like a cool guy
Typical Dusty Behavior he never wanted her nor that he like her he needed somewhere to go and she opened the door.
Literally!!! Bum energy lmao
A typical user and hobo sexual bum with feminine energy!
If he's a "dusty", is she a "dustette" for choosing him?
@@MiguelDLewis most definitely!
@@MiguelDLewisAbsolutely! And as a woman, I'm saying that we have to take into account for our own actions!
“You need to roll” Judge Star. Need I say more 🤣😂😂
No lies detected in that statement
He's definitely not into this young lady....
She's one of his toys 😮
I know it’s her choice to deal with this lying loser, but I am heartbroken for her. Low self worth is like a disease amongst women many of us want love but we are clueless what that is. I hope she decides eventually to chose peace and love for self.
When she said he was in & outta relationships when they 1st met, DING DING! red flag!!
A promise ring?? WHAT ARE THOOOOOOOOOSE 😂
I think she came to court hoping judge star would’ve said they can fix the relationship, hopefully she can find some self love , poor thing.😞
It’s always the P WORD. POTENTIAL that get so many women in trouble with dudes like this?!?! THIS!! Potential means not there yet! Not mature, not sincere, not truthful, NOT FAITHFUL etc a lot of NOTS!
Her self esteem must be mighty low, to put up with his mess. You're never going to trust him again, so why continue the relationship?
why she come on tv just to know the same
info she knew😂😂😂😂😂😂
He don’t want you…. He’s not interested…. He doesn’t care about your feelings!! Girl leave
Sounds like a man that needs a place to live lmao
There're problem!! She has no self esteem which means he can do whatever to her because she won't leave!
"I care about him. I see the potential in him" sounds like a teacher/professor talking about a pupil she likes. Not a boyfriend. Move on lady.
He got liar tendencies!! I’m rolling… lol
RUN GIRL!! I AGREE WITH JUDGE STAR FROM THE BEGINNING
The fact that she stayed when he cheated months in….🤦🏾♀️ it wasn’t like they were together long and she coulda left. He has the smuggest smile on his face the entire episode. He’s so gross.
Promise rings over the age of 17 is wild to me. An engagement is a promise. If you have to promise you'll make a promise eventually I don't even want it
Why can't he be with his kids ? He shouldn't have to hide that y'all take social media to far no one should have to tell you to move around some ppl like drama and some ppl do what you allow
He lied if he wanted to see his kids he could’ve just told her that but he wanted to cheat too
He can but lies and sleep a with his kids mother while living with her
He has more than one baby mama? Girl he will never be faithful and committed to you. This is why I don't date men with more than one baby mother. One baby mama or ex wife is enough.
He's a grown man wearing pigtails, and she's tryna find reasons to stay???? She's not a victim, she's a volunteer.
*Communication is hard when I lie and she catches me* 🤣🤣🤣
As Cynthia G would say, she needs to gets some standards, boundaries, expectations -- and to expand her options.
Ms Taylor, I hope you in the comments seeing how majority of the people here telling you to go. Stop making yourself miserable. Is it that you think you won't find anybody else because being alone would be better than this relationship
Queen, step away..he is not ready to be faithful to you..This Is Another Love TKO..Thanks Teddy Pendergrass
Omg!! If u have to be that policeing with your mate that’s just to much work… u need to get paid for that job!!! Return to sender, we don’t want it.
She will NEVER trust him because she knows how SHE got him! She didn't respect the other woman and she's afraid of receiving the same disrespect that she gave!
Sounds like he just doesn’t WANT HER!.. actions spk louder than words!..
He sounds so practiced in his answers... it drives me nuts clear sign of manipulation. The Plaintiff's skin looks too good to let dumb stress to ruin it.
I don't think he wants her.
Right 🤦🏾♀️
Divorce court is the new couples court😩
I wonder when they gon bring that show back wit the Cutlers judges
Time to change the name of the show.
Go ahead Judge Star. Keep being fly. Love that color. I'm a retired young looking woman, and I remember dressing just like you are everyday going to work, and I love your style. Your style is my style.
Seems like a lot of guys use the music industry / media to hide and enable their shenanigans. You want to be with a woman...your ACTIONS HAVE TO MATCH YOUR WORDS!!! OTHERWISE YOU'RE JUST CHEATING!
This is a no!
They started off in error and misrepresentation. He has a child with another woman that apparently he's dealing with on/off, but being a daddy is forever.
This girl didn't inquire about the status or extent of his relationship with the mother of his child, because she didn't care to.
She was a side piece, and now she mad that he has other side pieces, make that make sense.
She has moved him in, playing house, when there's no clear indication that he really wants to be there, other than the lies he speak.
He and the mother of his child will continue to have relations, that's a given, and if he can have them with this fool as well so be it. This man is not trying to build with her, he just found a damn good room mate. She gets her karma, and so does he. Period
stop letting cheaters w/potential.. move in your home ?!!! their ex is always in the picture !!! update: she stayed and he still cheats lol
Wait! How do you know? And for some reason I can believe it
Wait! He was in a relationship when they illicitly got together. He ended that relationship and entered into a relationship with her. Subsequently, he cheated on her, and yet she is surprised that he did that. What am I missing?
"You have no reason to stay in an unhappy situation. The best part about free will... is the ability to exercise it! You need to roll!" -- Judge Star
I love me some Judge Mablean and Judge Tohler, enjoyed Judge Faith... Yet Judge Star... she is shining! I'm loving it! 💗
How much of the bills he paying😂😂😂 promoter
Nun..that’s the vibes I get 🤦🏽♀️
miss lady what's the point.. just leave him. he's for the streets.
Girl goodnight , we don’t care when you still sleeping with him
He has shown her multiple times who he was - A LIAR AND A CHEATER!! So why does she expect him to be anything else?? Why stay with someone you cannot trust!! The answer is simple - DON'T!!!
That was her 1st mistake getting with a man that wishy-washy in and out relationship that red flags 🚩🚩🚩all day I would've deaded it right there from the start 💯
You don't marry potential. You can never change someone. They have to want to change. Never marry someone with the intent to change them. It will never work!!!
He’s not into her
Low self esteem is TRAGIC!
WOW he has no empathy. You can see it in his eyes.
" what had happened was...."normally proceeds a lie
Judge ⭐⭐⭐ You are looking absolutely Gorgeous today!!Just Glowing!!!So glad that you took over!!
Star whatever ur doing keep it up, u look absolutely amazing!!!!!
She bringing in comments from tik tok...baby just let him go
I mean she was messing with him while in another relationship so ion even feel bad for her😭she was a side piece once upon a time
"I'm just in the relationship for my kids..." is not beating around the bush. It means, "I'm in a relationship."
Cheaters cheat.
Then he should live with them no her
Girl. Stop wasting our time. He’s loose and you’re not going ANYWHERE. And collecting evidence, clinging to him super tight, and telling us how (you already know) he is is not going to change that. Take us out the group chat.
U blocked??? Girl...
Yah...he is a player...just find someone else. ROLL BABY ROLL!
A breach of trust isn't so easy to move pass. And forgiving a trust breaker majority of the time ONLY Ignites a sense of self entitlement in the form of giving them permission to cheat more
😂I’m Star’s 🌟 new FAN after this Advice she gave on this case !! You go Judge!!! I’m still hollering love it!!!!!! 🤣🤣 laughing 👍🏾 I just hope she takes the advice
Either be over your baby mama or stay with her don’t waste another woman’s time
...it sounds like he put his promoter game on her and she believed it.
Repeatedly disrespected???? WHY??? HOW???
Cheating is not a choice and may carry some infectious diseases. She should leave him alone and let him go back to his baby mother. A cheater is like a zebra.
He's so self righteous!!
Judge star you always look beautiful. I also love bow you color coordinate your outfits with the flowers on the table
I just can't watch this anymore. He's a liar & she's a fool.
Once I get to a point where I have to get out of my routine to check on the other person's behavior, I will disappear! Being the person I am, I will act like they don't exist.
Something always wrong with her
People like her just scared of being alone, you gotta learn to love yourself before trying to love others.
If she has to do all that spying on him then she needs to leave and get some self esteem
It’s freaking exhausting to babysit a grown a** person
All that CSI work just to cry and stay. 🙄
Jus be glad u ain’t baby mama 3 & move on!
No woman can change a grown man. He doesn't make you happy and he's obvi cheating. DROP HIM!!! She doesn't have kids with him!!! DROP HIM and KEEP IT THAT WAY!!!
And yes how you get him is how you lose him. He told you what he is when he was going in and out of a relationship. That's a clue to stay away from him! PERIOD!!!
So she’s surprised that he cheated on her newsflash he cheated on his ex with you so what made you think that he wasn’t going to cheat on you🙄