She still love her ex she really don't love him and she's improving herself financially she wants someone on her level.she see's money in her future but sad to say when women get money and u average they finding a way out.
She definitely seeing the boxing coach or one of the dads at her sons gym. All her complaints about him are a direct result of comparing him to the other dude. 1. He works from home and has no ambition. The other guy works at the gym and probably tells her how he wants to open his own gym someday. 2. He’s “fat” . Other dude always in the gym, probably in really great shape as a boxing coach and she likes that. 3. He doesn’t cook. Other dude is in great shape and all about fitness and most likely does meal prep which means he’s always cooking when she’s home. 4. He doesn’t take care of her son. Other dude probably coaches her son and stepped up in that father figure role since his dad died. Remember, he said she changed once her sons dad died. That should’ve been around the time she had to pick up the responsibilities when it came to taking him to the gym for boxing. That’s when she met other dude and vented to other dude about her sons father passing. There’s no way you talk about marriage with someone for over a year and y’all plan a designated wedding then all of a sudden everything you’ve been known for years is a turn off.
She is made up beautiful, but Seems ungrateful. Why did it not work out with her deceased ex? Dude needs to move on , there are plenty more women out there, better for him than her
She's with him cause she knows he's stuck on her. But...for her he's simply isn't her type. She feels like she's too good for him. She's comparing him to her ex. Let her go...
It’s not just him. They both can’t give what each other need at this point. And it’s okay. They probably need to go there separate ways. If they find each other alone the journey again and they’re both in a good place then they can try to reconnect.
Hooo 😮 he is a 4 and she is a 12 that why he doesn’t want to let her go. And the worst part is that he knows it. Never feel sorry for any man. Remember Adam wasn’t fooled but Eve was 1 Timothy 2:14 Adam was not deceived, but the woman was thoroughly deceived and became a transgressor.
She hasn’t said one kind or affectionate thing about him. How many ways does she need to tell this man she don’t want him. He needs to wake up and find someone else.
He won’t leave easily, when people are in a bad relationship be it man or woman, they never want to leave, they hang on to the bitter end, and man it does get bitter.😞
@@beverlyrhame3692 Deep down he knows.....that's the best he can get right now. He gotta take the L as a man, and use that energy to better himself where the woman will be on her knees begging for him.
She definitely doesn’t want him. She is still in love with the son’s dad, whether they were still together or not fully prior to his demise. She has not said 1 positive word about him. Run young man, she will miss out on ‘a help mate’
This man will soon learn that he will never be enough, good or right for the wrong person. The fact she is calling him names means that she is using him as an emotional punching bag. Let us call it as it is- ABUSE. He needs to leave her alone. She is a broken women who if does not get the healing she needs, will continue to break good men along her way.
He doesn't know that she is not emotionally intelligent. She is in love with a dead man and being in love with a dead man shows that you are unstable in your ways. One can never compete or rise to the level of a supernatural ghost, it's earthly impossible.
This was hard to watch. He’s fighting for the relationship with a ring. She doesn’t want the relationship so she’s fighting with him about everything else.
How much y’all wanna bet the baby daddy was nowhere near as nice but she was all in with him!! She’s settling with him because she lost the other guy. However, him getting mad over family photos is taking it too far! The boy deserves to know who his dad was.
I'm interested in knowing if the photo was there prior to the Dad's death...The father was equally important alive. Also, I would not have a family pic in my kids room if I have a new man. It would be a pic of my child and his father without me. I think she's lost a good one with this guy. But he dodged a bullet with her and her mean, disrespectful family. Run playa!
Exactly...right..and there are reasons you are removed from peoples lives..she better thank God for that!..idk why the BD died or how..but it.was not meant for.her to be with him..she needs counseling and this guy is just not her type..I think she was just settling cause she was still in love with the EX..
Didnt dude say he came back into her life. Meaning he wasn't there the whole time. So I'm venturing she wanted to be with him and when that didn't work out she settled.
WHILE HE IS living in her house, paying MORE bills than she is, taking care of her son, still not meeting her standard, not being progressive enough ..........
Thank you ladies. I love what I do! I actually care about people and want them to be the best individuals they can be so they can bring their whole selves to a relationship. That’s what makes for true happiness! 🥰
Because he doesn’t realize that he is in a abusive relationship and doesn’t know his worth. The problem is she’s going to keep repeating the cycle she ain’t shit. Ugly on the inside and out
If it don’t fit, don’t force it. If she doesn’t want him she has right to not jump into marriage. They need to step away from each other and focus on themselves and she has a son that’s her priority.
That was a sad episode. He really wants to be with her. But he wasn’t hearing her. And she’s just not in the space to accept him right now. All the bickering they were doing could all easily be resolved. But if the communication isn’t there it’s not easy to move forward.
Judge Lynn once said " Do not let someone tell you they don't want you more than once". That woman doesn't want him, she is not over her deceased ex. He needs to move on, she needs to grieve and talk to someone.
If only someone found me beautiful, attractive, worthy enough to take me out, talking about family, marriage, etc. I don’t understand how people can’t appreciate their partners that actually treat them right. It is something rare, very hard to come by.
@@JayloveTheFoodguy he's forcing it. He's low key feeling threatened by the fact that her son has pics of his dad in his room, so he's doing all this to prove he can be the great man and dad he can be. No one is disputing that he can, but he is focusing on what HE wants in the relationship and not so much on what she wants. No one is saying he's at fault. However, he can't make someone want the same thing he wants, and that's what he's trying to do.
@@JayloveTheFoodguy not about fault, it's about facts. The fact of the matter is the harder he tries the further he pushes her away...a mature and secure adult would see this and adjust their behavior and aspirations
@@sweetsweet81 no doubt but the fact is she flat out of line... If she didn't want to be with him just leave...That's a fact... He has accountability in this as well but let's called a spade a spade this woman has no respect for this man...
@@worldhealthrn You are correct regarding moving on for sure... But we can't just remove accountability from the woman and her behavior... She was wrong on so many levels an we just can't count it up as because he wanted her... She moved EX in their home if that ain't disrespectful I don't know what... The weird thing to me is that he still wants to be with her that's on him...
She is such a beautiful girl. But her attitude is not okay. Fat shaming him is absolutely disgusting. Because if it was the other way round the double standards. Men are also insecure about their weight. Star Jones verdict was one sided. I was very disappointed with this one. As great as I think she is. This was a bit disappointing she could’ve been firmer with the girl. Because it’s not acceptable. He will find someone better than her. She will regret it, he’s a good guy. I hope she can get the grieving counselling, she needs to heal from her late boyfriend. That’s something she’s going to have to do alone, she’s going to be single for a long time, with that bad attitude. 👀🙄🙏🏿
So glad you said that. I think she could have been way firmer on her too. I get that she lost someone but her attitude is a little disturbing to say the least
Judge Stars advice and words of wisdom during this case just solidifies why she is a great addition and asset to Divorce Court. Loved Judge Lynn Toler and Judge Faith but Im enjoying Judge Star Jones also!! To add, her outfits, hairstyles and makeup beat are EVERYTHING!! 🙌🏽🔥🔥❤
He needs to go where he’s appreciated. There’s so many women who would be so grateful to have him as a significant other. I feel like she definitely used him as a rebound.
This is her 2nd relationship after her baby daddy. She needs to stay single and focus on herself. She's looking for love and support with men. And that's the last thing she should be doing.
Love this judge! Everyone coming at the lady is doing the MOST. That man is clueless and forced everything. They were not speaking the same language. They both deserve what they want
The bottom line.... She's not into you". When her baby's father passed, she didn't grieve enough, and something tells me she just latched on to this guy knowing full well she wasn't ready emotionally. Whatever her previous guy did in regards to being on her level, per say, this current boyfriend isn't good enough in her eyes. The name calling, trying to emasculate his manhood, she's taking it to far. He should leave her, get his career going and finish his book, move on and find someone that will love him, and appreciate all the love he has to give. I guarantee, she will regret losing this guy.
I was thinking the same thing 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ This Brotha need to move on she doesn’t want him. He need to be someone that’s going appreciate him and loving.
I love the way judge Star works in here, I love the way she treats every story with calm, understanding and Wisdom. About this couple, man you got to let her be, when a woman doesn't love you, there's nothing you can do to change her mind, absolutely nothing. She's still greeving her lost, she's not ready and she's using him to be OK but that doesn't work.
I feel like the judge can see that she doesn’t want him but don’t wanna say it and she still hung up on her baby daddy..he chasing her when she clearly doesn’t want to be with him anymore 😩she showed more emotion about someone who is dead and gone then someone showing her he loves her and is trying to work stuff out..he jus need to pack it up and leaveeeee
I gurantee the sons father was rough around the edges. He is wayyy too soft for her. Nothing wrong with it but he’s just not meant for her. && that’s fine. He is wayyyy to in to her mainly bc of her beauty & he’s stuck on that. He’s a simp when he got on the floor to propose. Sir get up & grow some balls.
I dont think he is soft, I just think that he is different from other men in her past relationships and that is her guilt, her idea of having fun is different from his I bet
Sadly, this man will not be good enough for her because she is not happy with herself. I can clearly see he loves her, she's being rigid. I hope she realizes it's cold out here before she loses a man that truly loves her.
Judge Toler's advice was don't ever let anyone have to tell you that they don't want you twice. She does not care for him at all. No kindness. No affection.
I don't think it's a matter of giving her time to grieve. She didn't want this man when the son's father was alive, you can tell. He's not her type. She doesn't want him at all.
She doesn't want him because he is pushy. She just told him she needed time. Then he pulled a ring out. He doesn't listen. This lady needs counseling. She is not mean or nasty she is just broken.
She wants the baby daddy, still caught up with him. No one can compete with a memory. She started complaining and so on when she realized her back up was gone. Young man needs to leave an find someone who will love him.
This was a good case. Modern issues with some reversed roles. She could still be mourning the passing of her ex and the defendant doesn't recognize that it's not as much him as it is her that needs to make an effort
I didn't know men tolerate this toxic behavior. I hope this doesn't make him bitter once he gains self-esteem and self-love. Im so disgusted by her behavior I could puke.
She seems level headed to me. He is living in la-la land and she is seeing things as they are. She probably shouldn't have entered into this relationship. It doesn't seem like she is ready.
I agree. I see majority of the comments bashing her but it sounds like she's approaching the relationship with logic and he'd stuck with his head in the clouds. He seems like he's very impulsive and for a woman that already has children from another relationship, I can understand why she'd vet her potential partners with even more caution. Cause as she rightfully said, love is not enough. It is what is is. I wish them both the best though
This is clearly not about her sons father being deceased. That’s her excuse for justifying why she’s no longer in love with him. She’s acting like she just found out he works from home and doesn’t feed her son. They talked about marriage for over a year and even planned it. Now all of a sudden everything about him isn’t good enough? Yeah, she found someone else and she’s comparing him to the other guy. The other guy doesn’t work from home, he comes home after long shifts. He has goals. He cooks. He pays all his bills. And he MIGHT have a good relationship with her son already. She said it herself, she takes her son to his boxing matches and the gym. She definitely met someone at the gym that also has a son or is coaching the kids. She lost her child’s father and all the men in the gym, Especially the coach, probably stepped up in that father figure role for him and she’s feelin dude for that. Run my brother. She’s on her way out.
She was never really into him. She has been comparing him to her deceased ex probably before his passing. This relationship shouldn't have continued fir so long.
Bruh! Leave this woman alone. Let her go out and "find better" that she is so sure is out there. And if she doesn't find that "better," Bruh don't you dare take her back and be her leftovers! You're competing with a dead man's swag. There are good women out there who will appreciate you. From a Sista from Brooklyn, NY
Being a man IS sometimes about courage. Bé courageous let her go, don't cling anymore. She 's strong, confident and have some standards and requirements. Maybe You can't reach thèm by now. Work on yourself , become a more valable man than you are now and you 'll find your one, someone who won't call you names. Don't bé delusional . Bé brave.
This isn’t about strength, courage or any of that. This is a woman blaming the man she chose to be with for the death of her baby father. She’s blaming him by giving him all of her grief and not being woman enough to admit she’s having a problem. That’s not confidence, that’s childish. He was everything she complained about prior to her baby father passing and they stayed together. This isn’t about him having goals for their relationship, this is about him being good enough to fill another man’s shoes and that’s a horrible thing to request of anybody. He shouldn’t have to be good enough to compensate for her grieving another man. That’s an ever moving goal post
She knew she wasn't ready and she kept on with him the whole time. You steady saying he don't take care of your son but who does he go home to? Some women are just looking for business partners with benefits. He's working he's home and supports you. Loves your son and wants to see you thrive. He didn't have a list of complaints he was saying what he does that you don't recognize as help. Truth is you are broken that your child's father is deceased and it's possible that she was starting to rekindle a relationship with her child's father then he passed and she feels like she settled. Let that man go be great beloved.
She said it “they are here today, gone tomorrow”. She is just there until she finds the guy she really wants, she wants a true hustler and he is comfortable. Also it shows weakness when he is confessing his love for her and she isn’t reciprocating that but he still wants her. It’s pathetic
That guy's a fool for dating a woman with Pookie and Ray Ray's kid's. The problem is , he's more into her, than she's into him. She's bored with him because too nice , needy , passive, and predictable.
Never let someone tell you they don’t want you more than once. She just doesn’t want him.
BAbyyyyyy.. I was just saying this is a classic one where you can tell who's more invested emotionally and he is. He WANTS X, Y,Z and she's doesn't.
Judge Lynn
He already lost
It's obvious she's not over her baby's father
She still love her ex she really don't love him and she's improving herself financially she wants someone on her level.she see's money in her future but sad to say when women get money and u average they finding a way out.
this girl clearly don't want this man. nothing he does is good enough.
Exactly and he’s helping her support and take care of HER child
Yea she don’t want him.
Right! She could’ve just said that too instead of beating around the bush. 🙄
She definitely seeing the boxing coach or one of the dads at her sons gym. All her complaints about him are a direct result of comparing him to the other dude.
1. He works from home and has no ambition. The other guy works at the gym and probably tells her how he wants to open his own gym someday.
2. He’s “fat” . Other dude always in the gym, probably in really great shape as a boxing coach and she likes that.
3. He doesn’t cook. Other dude is in great shape and all about fitness and most likely does meal prep which means he’s always cooking when she’s home.
4. He doesn’t take care of her son. Other dude probably coaches her son and stepped up in that father figure role since his dad died.
Remember, he said she changed once her sons dad died. That should’ve been around the time she had to pick up the responsibilities when it came to taking him to the gym for boxing. That’s when she met other dude and vented to other dude about her sons father passing.
There’s no way you talk about marriage with someone for over a year and y’all plan a designated wedding then all of a sudden everything you’ve been known for years is a turn off.
They always think the grass is greener baby. That’s a good man.
Whoever is designing Judge Star's wardrobe, deserves a raise, she be bringing straight heat on each and every episode💯
Makeup. Everything 🎯
Everything!!!!
Including her hair stylist! Always beautiful
Yess
Straight on and I wish I could copy that
Amazing how she completely discounted how he takes care of HER son!
She doesn't love him.
Everyyyyy time she did it smh unbelievable
He takes care of her son but she has to pick him you, drop him off and get them food. Like a 12 year old babysitter.
Its because she wanna be so independent she can't admit he helping her.
U can't forget or dismiss the folks who help u so u can get to that independent place to having ur success. But sounds like he was just a babysitter
She is made up beautiful, but Seems ungrateful. Why did it not work out with her deceased ex? Dude needs to move on , there are plenty more women out there, better for him than her
King don’t be blinded by pretty. Pretty doesn’t equal beautiful. You deserve a beautiful person to love you.
Yea
She thinking and want Dead man🤷🏽♀️
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Preach
QUEEN 👑 EXACTLY , & LOVE HOW U AFFIRMING THE KINGS ...WE ( MEANING US QUEENS) NEED 2 DOING MORE OF THIS ❤❤❤❤❤
He looks likes he’s about to cry and she is completely unbothered.
Man he needs to let her go she doesn’t want him
She's with him cause she knows he's stuck on her. But...for her he's simply isn't her type. She feels like she's too good for him. She's comparing him to her ex. Let her go...
One of the lady’s of the virtual jury may want her spot!😇
Right she's not attracted to him
Who was her ex? And how he died?
@@rodneymack4170 She never said, unfortunately.
Let her go. Period
This man deserves better, I feel bad for him
It’s not just him. They both can’t give what each other need at this point. And it’s okay. They probably need to go there separate ways. If they find each other alone the journey again and they’re both in a good place then they can try to reconnect.
Hooo 😮 he is a 4 and she is a 12 that why he doesn’t want to let her go. And the worst part is that he knows it. Never feel sorry for any man. Remember Adam wasn’t fooled but Eve was 1 Timothy 2:14 Adam was not deceived, but the woman was thoroughly deceived and became a transgressor.
She hasn’t said one kind or affectionate thing about him. How many ways does she need to tell this man she don’t want him. He needs to wake up and find someone else.
He won’t leave easily, when people are in a bad relationship be it man or woman, they never want to leave, they hang on to the bitter end, and man it does get bitter.😞
@@beverlyrhame3692 Deep down he knows.....that's the best he can get right now.
He gotta take the L as a man, and use that energy to better himself where the woman will be on her knees begging for him.
She definitely doesn’t want him. She is still in love with the son’s dad, whether they were still together or not fully prior to his demise. She has not said 1 positive word about him. Run young man, she will miss out on ‘a help mate’
Right. She never said she didn’t want anyone, just that she doesn’t want him. It’s more than the grieving piece
This man will soon learn that he will never be enough, good or right for the wrong person. The fact she is calling him names means that she is using him as an emotional punching bag. Let us call it as it is- ABUSE. He needs to leave her alone. She is a broken women who if does not get the healing she needs, will continue to break good men along her way.
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This is all I’ve been thinking
He doesn't know that she is not emotionally intelligent. She is in love with a dead man and being in love with a dead man shows that you are unstable in your ways. One can never compete or rise to the level of a supernatural ghost, it's earthly impossible.
Damn. Let's see how great you are after your child loses a parent. That was harsh.
This was hard to watch. He’s fighting for the relationship with a ring. She doesn’t want the relationship so she’s fighting with him about everything else.
Yes that’s exactly what was doing. Her complaints about him were so irrelevant. It’s almost like she doesn’t even want the man to breath.
Just hearing about her child's father will make her cry but the man that's currently in love with her, close to crying, doesn't phase you.
Something is very off with this relationship.👀
This!
She is crying because she loves her son father , why else would she wish she was there with him
Boy 🏃🏽 Run
She do not want you🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽🏃🏽
She isn't being nice to him and he doesn't deserve the disrespectful. She isn't ready at all. Run man!!! 🏃♂️ RUN
@imperfect woman exactly she ain't no good for him
Well I knew she was shit when she said for him to get on her level. No a real woman gets on the same page as her man/husband. She thinks she the man.
And don’t look bad
He doesn’t have to do anything for her or that Baby, sir please leave she’s very ungrateful
How much y’all wanna bet the baby daddy was nowhere near as nice but she was all in with him!! She’s settling with him because she lost the other guy. However, him getting mad over family photos is taking it too far! The boy deserves to know who his dad was.
How much you want to bet that her baby daddy left her and didn't want her
I'm interested in knowing if the photo was there prior to the Dad's death...The father was equally important alive. Also, I would not have a family pic in my kids room if I have a new man. It would be a pic of my child and his father without me. I think she's lost a good one with this guy. But he dodged a bullet with her and her mean, disrespectful family. Run playa!
Exactly...right..and there are reasons you are removed from peoples lives..she better thank God for that!..idk why the BD died or how..but it.was not meant for.her to be with him..she needs counseling and this guy is just not her type..I think she was just settling cause she was still in love with the EX..
Didnt dude say he came back into her life. Meaning he wasn't there the whole time. So I'm venturing she wanted to be with him and when that didn't work out she settled.
@@skylarjaxx2399 Bingo!
He needs to let her go. She wants the dead man....
When I heard love is not enough, I said let me come in the comment section.... SMH
@@Learningalphabetandnumbers Right..She didn't have no real complaints.. just mean and unappreciative...
Exactly
Right!! A man she wasn't even with at the time he died!!
The dead man who didn't want her
She is/was wrong for using him knowing she don't/didn't love him. Now she has introduced a man to her child for no reason. Wow just Wow.
WHILE HE IS living in her house, paying MORE bills than she is, taking care of her son, still not meeting her standard, not being progressive enough ..........
Judge Star was created for this role. I've watched a few new episodes and she is walking in her element and it's dope to see.
it's really good
I concur!
She is bringing the show back!!!
She is! It’s always great to see someone doing something that they were obviously meant to do.
Thank you ladies. I love what I do! I actually care about people and want them to be the best individuals they can be so they can bring their whole selves to a relationship. That’s what makes for true happiness! 🥰
She said she wasn't ready. Why did he walk over there and propose? 🤔
He don't listen
Desperate
Simping
Because he doesn’t realize that he is in a abusive relationship and doesn’t know his worth. The problem is she’s going to keep repeating the cycle she ain’t shit. Ugly on the inside and out
I don't know what it will take for some men to get the point. She has told him verbally and in her actions she don't want him. Sir don't be a doormat.
If it don’t fit, don’t force it. If she doesn’t want him she has right to not jump into marriage. They need to step away from each other and focus on themselves and she has a son that’s her priority.
She’s ungrateful girl bye he does WATCH your son that’s your child not his. I know single mothers that get a baby sitter I did 🤦🏾♀️
She never loved him. She is still in love with your baby daddy.
He loves her, but she doesn't love him.
She's not over her ex point blank period. Just walk away leave this man be, he'll find another woman eventually who'll love him wholeheartedly
Maybe she needs to first heal before they reconnect, consider whether they should be in a relationship
That's not it. She's just sad that he died and her son has lost his father. Plus, he wasn't supportive AT ALL but jealous of him.
Just leave her alone and find someone that will appreciate you
That was a sad episode. He really wants to be with her. But he wasn’t hearing her. And she’s just not in the space to accept him right now. All the bickering they were doing could all easily be resolved. But if the communication isn’t there it’s not easy to move forward.
This girl is gonna regret how she treated this man trust me
Judge Lynn once said " Do not let someone tell you they don't want you more than once".
That woman doesn't want him, she is not over her deceased ex. He needs to move on, she needs to grieve and talk to someone.
If I was in his shoes I’d walk away
If only someone found me beautiful, attractive, worthy enough to take me out, talking about family, marriage, etc. I don’t understand how people can’t appreciate their partners that actually treat them right. It is something rare, very hard to come by.
Thats so true. I'm so happy I found my husband after dating so many terrible people.
You will
The harder he tries the further he pushes her away
So this is his fault for trying to properly love her? How about just calling her ungrateful and disrespectful flat out... Because that what she is...
@@JayloveTheFoodguy he's forcing it. He's low key feeling threatened by the fact that her son has pics of his dad in his room, so he's doing all this to prove he can be the great man and dad he can be. No one is disputing that he can, but he is focusing on what HE wants in the relationship and not so much on what she wants.
No one is saying he's at fault. However, he can't make someone want the same thing he wants, and that's what he's trying to do.
@@JayloveTheFoodguy not about fault, it's about facts. The fact of the matter is the harder he tries the further he pushes her away...a mature and secure adult would see this and adjust their behavior and aspirations
@@sweetsweet81 no doubt but the fact is she flat out of line... If she didn't want to be with him just leave...That's a fact... He has accountability in this as well but let's called a spade a spade this woman has no respect for this man...
@@worldhealthrn You are correct regarding moving on for sure... But we can't just remove accountability from the woman and her behavior... She was wrong on so many levels an we just can't count it up as because he wanted her... She moved EX in their home if that ain't disrespectful I don't know what...
The weird thing to me is that he still wants to be with her that's on him...
She's saying that he thinks it's a joke She's the one whose thinking it's a joke
Exactly she’s a user it seems like she just needed a babysitter and someone to go half on the bills
Girl please. Stop using him and blaming him.
She is such a beautiful girl. But her attitude is not okay. Fat shaming him is absolutely disgusting. Because if it was the other way round the double standards. Men are also insecure about their weight. Star Jones verdict was one sided. I was very disappointed with this one. As great as I think she is. This was a bit disappointing she could’ve been firmer with the girl. Because it’s not acceptable. He will find someone better than her. She will regret it, he’s a good guy. I hope she can get the grieving counselling, she needs to heal from her late boyfriend. That’s something she’s going to have to do alone, she’s going to be single for a long time, with that bad attitude. 👀🙄🙏🏿
When she had that ugly look on her face and said love is not enough. I am so sad for him.
Where is she beautiful?!!? Not with all that makeup on and those pouty lips and that resting face she has….
But they were both calling each other fat lol
Judge Lynn Toler would have set her straight. This man is pretty decent.
So glad you said that. I think she could have been way firmer on her too. I get that she lost someone but her attitude is a little disturbing to say the least
Judge Stars advice and words of wisdom during this case just solidifies why she is a great addition and asset to Divorce Court. Loved Judge Lynn Toler and Judge Faith but Im enjoying Judge Star Jones also!! To add, her outfits, hairstyles and makeup beat are EVERYTHING!! 🙌🏽🔥🔥❤
It wasn’t a pocket dial!! She wanted to know if he still wanted her.
She literally said she was over the relationship...why propose. She doesn't need time, he's just not the man she wants.
I feel like she’s still grieving. She isn’t over the death of her former lover. You can see it. She isn’t ready for him.
She was with him when her baby’s father passed. But she feels guilty for not being with her former person when he died.
Star is rocking this show!
Most Def…she calls them Out!
He needs to go where he’s appreciated. There’s so many women who would be so grateful to have him as a significant other. I feel like she definitely used him as a rebound.
This is her 2nd relationship after her baby daddy. She needs to stay single and focus on herself. She's looking for love and support with men. And that's the last thing she should be doing.
He needs to let that go.
Exactly I agreeeeee
Poor baby, she doesn’t want him. Let him go. I have some beautiful single cousins. She thinks too much of herself.
Judge Star is spot on! Loved her verdict. She's doing amazing.
Don't settle for second best bro. You got this!
Love this judge! Everyone coming at the lady is doing the MOST. That man is clueless and forced everything. They were not speaking the same language. They both deserve what they want
I agree.
Omg exactly. That proposal was just an example of him completely not listening or trying to understand her feelings.
The bottom line.... She's not into you". When her baby's father passed, she didn't grieve enough, and something tells me she just latched on to this guy knowing full well she wasn't ready emotionally. Whatever her previous guy did in regards to being on her level, per say, this current boyfriend isn't good enough in her eyes. The name calling, trying to emasculate his manhood, she's taking it to far. He should leave her, get his career going and finish his book, move on and find someone that will love him, and appreciate all the love he has to give. I guarantee, she will regret losing this guy.
Why this deep grief for a man who you was no longer with?
@@avispajotte8535 they were still messing around from the way she went ghost or I might be tripping
Poor guy; she’s clearly not ready to be in a relationship. She was never over her baby’s father
I am truly enjoying Judge Star👌🏾
This poor guy is so caring and sincere
Exactly I agreeeee I would away if I was in his shoes
Sounds like she is still in love with her baby daddy.
They weren't even together at the time he died tho!! She's gonna regret this!
I was thinking the same thing 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ This Brotha need to move on she doesn’t want him. He need to be someone that’s going appreciate him and loving.
I love the way judge Star works in here, I love the way she treats every story with calm, understanding and Wisdom. About this couple, man you got to let her be, when a woman doesn't love you, there's nothing you can do to change her mind, absolutely nothing. She's still greeving her lost, she's not ready and she's using him to be OK but that doesn't work.
This is such a breath of fresh air watching Star ⭐️ She’s bringing the wisdom and the sass needed!!!! I’m loving this 😊
I feel like the judge can see that she doesn’t want him but don’t wanna say it and she still hung up on her baby daddy..he chasing her when she clearly doesn’t want to be with him anymore 😩she showed more emotion about someone who is dead and gone then someone showing her he loves her and is trying to work stuff out..he jus need to pack it up and leaveeeee
I think he is so sincere and I think she doesn't appreciate him or what he does. I hope he moves on
I feel like he is just too “soft” for her. She wants a rough neck 😂
Exactly!
I gurantee the sons father was rough around the edges. He is wayyy too soft for her. Nothing wrong with it but he’s just not meant for her. && that’s fine. He is wayyyy to in to her mainly bc of her beauty & he’s stuck on that. He’s a simp when he got on the floor to propose. Sir get up & grow some balls.
I dont think he is soft, I just think that he is different from other men in her past relationships and that is her guilt, her idea of having fun is different from his I bet
SMH give me him cause she playing games 😂
I don’t understand why she would be in a relationship so early after a death so close to her it’s not fair to her or the other person.
Just let her go. Let her heal, but I feel in the long run I feel she's going to regret her decision.
SHE CLEARLY DOES NOT LOVE HIM!!!!! RUN NOW WHILE YOU CAN
Sadly, this man will not be good enough for her because she is not happy with herself. I can clearly see he loves her, she's being rigid. I hope she realizes it's cold out here before she loses a man that truly loves her.
😥😥 broke my heart him getting on one knee to be rejected on television
Judge Toler's advice was don't ever let anyone have to tell you that they don't want you twice. She does not care for him at all. No kindness. No affection.
Such a great guy , he deserve better as well.
he deserve better, she don't want that man he really seem like one of the good ones... i really hope he moved on after this .
She called him a drama king and clearly doesn't have any respect for what he is doing...
I don't think it's a matter of giving her time to grieve. She didn't want this man when the son's father was alive, you can tell. He's not her type. She doesn't want him at all.
They are not a match! She’s checked out it seems like she was never checked in… poor guy
I miss the updates on the couples at the end of each episode. Bring that back
She's not serious
She doesn't want him because he is pushy. She just told him she needed time. Then he pulled a ring out. He doesn't listen. This lady needs counseling. She is not mean or nasty she is just broken.
She wants the baby daddy, still caught up with him. No one can compete with a memory. She started complaining and so on when she realized her back up was gone. Young man needs to leave an find someone who will love him.
That guy was accepted by that lady just to spite the baby dad. Now he is gone, there is no need to keep him.
This was a good case. Modern issues with some reversed roles. She could still be mourning the passing of her ex and the defendant doesn't recognize that it's not as much him as it is her that needs to make an effort
Bro. Runnnnnnn. She's not the one. You will never get from her what you need or want.
She will always be looking to upgrade.
He needs to move on. There’s someone else out there who’s going to love and appreciate him.
She is so cold to him.
As everyone else here has said, he is no longer appealing (desirable) to her. Nothing can be said to fix this. I agree with Judge Star's advice.
I didn't know men tolerate this toxic behavior. I hope this doesn't make him bitter once he gains self-esteem and self-love. Im so disgusted by her behavior I could puke.
She seems level headed to me. He is living in la-la land and she is seeing things as they are. She probably shouldn't have entered into this relationship. It doesn't seem like she is ready.
You call being ungrateful and a bully and fat shaming level- headed interesting 🧐.
@@rebelhenz I know right...the nerve..
I agree. I see majority of the comments bashing her but it sounds like she's approaching the relationship with logic and he'd stuck with his head in the clouds. He seems like he's very impulsive and for a woman that already has children from another relationship, I can understand why she'd vet her potential partners with even more caution. Cause as she rightfully said, love is not enough. It is what is is. I wish them both the best though
Star Jones you ROCK! You have full discernment when it comes to people and that is a gift from God!
Bruh come on she told you her kid comes 1st and she still in a emotional relationship with her BD leave her ass!
It's the glam for me! Judge Star's wardrobe is ALWAYS on point! And auntie's mug is BEAT, DO YOU HEAR ME????
This is clearly not about her sons father being deceased. That’s her excuse for justifying why she’s no longer in love with him. She’s acting like she just found out he works from home and doesn’t feed her son. They talked about marriage for over a year and even planned it. Now all of a sudden everything about him isn’t good enough?
Yeah, she found someone else and she’s comparing him to the other guy. The other guy doesn’t work from home, he comes home after long shifts. He has goals. He cooks. He pays all his bills. And he MIGHT have a good relationship with her son already. She said it herself, she takes her son to his boxing matches and the gym. She definitely met someone at the gym that also has a son or is coaching the kids. She lost her child’s father and all the men in the gym,
Especially the coach, probably stepped up in that father figure role for him and she’s feelin dude for that.
Run my brother. She’s on her way out.
Love alone is NOT enough. If it is why are people in Divorce Court every day fighting about finances, fidelity and trust issues?
On a side note Star Jones looks amazing. She has not aged 🥰
She was never really into him. She has been comparing him to her deceased ex probably before his passing. This relationship shouldn't have continued fir so long.
Bruh! Leave this woman alone. Let her go out and "find better" that she is so sure is out there. And if she doesn't find that "better," Bruh don't you dare take her back and be her leftovers! You're competing with a dead man's swag. There are good women out there who will appreciate you.
From a Sista from Brooklyn, NY
Judge Star is the total package, make-up, hair, clothes, advice...SHE IS SPOT ON!!!
I see the pain in her eyes. She may love him but she’s not in love with him!
Every time Robert mentions his wife I'm so happy for him but my heart breaks a little inside 😂😂
I was hesitant but am really
loving Judge Star. I hope she stays in the show ❤
16:07 I’m actually more on her side with this one. They’re just two different types of people. And proposing publicly like that manipulative.
She says he child comes first... that's a red flag to me...
SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU, THE BABY FATHER IS A EXCUSE.. MOVE ON..
Being a man IS sometimes about courage. Bé courageous let her go, don't cling anymore.
She 's strong, confident and have some standards and requirements. Maybe You can't reach thèm by now. Work on yourself , become a more valable man than you are now and you 'll find your one, someone who won't call you names. Don't bé delusional . Bé brave.
This isn’t about strength, courage or any of that. This is a woman blaming the man she chose to be with for the death of her baby father. She’s blaming him by giving him all of her grief and not being woman enough to admit she’s having a problem. That’s not confidence, that’s childish. He was everything she complained about prior to her baby father passing and they stayed together. This isn’t about him having goals for their relationship, this is about him being good enough to fill another man’s shoes and that’s a horrible thing to request of anybody. He shouldn’t have to be good enough to compensate for her grieving another man. That’s an ever moving goal post
Wonderful, powerful advice from the judge.
She knew she wasn't ready and she kept on with him the whole time. You steady saying he don't take care of your son but who does he go home to? Some women are just looking for business partners with benefits. He's working he's home and supports you. Loves your son and wants to see you thrive. He didn't have a list of complaints he was saying what he does that you don't recognize as help. Truth is you are broken that your child's father is deceased and it's possible that she was starting to rekindle a relationship with her child's father then he passed and she feels like she settled. Let that man go be great beloved.
Sis don’t want him. They aren’t compatible and she needs to leave him to allow him to find someone who does.
PLEASE bring back the live audience. Screens are so 2020.
COVID still exist, and Monkey pox as well.. 🙄🙄
Judge Mathis has a live audience even with covid and monkey pox.
She said it “they are here today, gone tomorrow”.
She is just there until she finds the guy she really wants, she wants a true hustler and he is comfortable. Also it shows weakness when he is confessing his love for her and she isn’t reciprocating that but he still wants her.
It’s pathetic
That guy's a fool for dating a woman with Pookie and Ray Ray's kid's. The problem is , he's more into her, than she's into him. She's bored with him because too nice , needy , passive, and predictable.
And she's a fool for not seeing what she has.
I was thinking same thing, maybe this brother will wake up sooner than later.
She’s not ready and she’s not the one for him