"Intimacy is about daring to be increasingly and bravely weird with someone else and finding out that's OK with them." Best line from this video. When you get older and really want to settle down, it's no longer those fiery explosive relationship that you truly crave but the relationship that gives you peace, comfort and put you at ease. There's a Chinese saying like 'Instead of the fireworks in the night sky, I much appreciate the good ol' reliable street light by your window.'
@@margo3367 It really depends on your definition of fireworks. I mean, much can be accomplished by the light of a street lamp, especially if you have the will.
@@dierdrecole8027 Soulmates = work. Good work - but there is no magic, no found, no skipping until the end. Good relationships take work and love and communication and forgiveness and the best of you that you have, day after day. Like everything good, there are no shortcuts.
I once read somewhere that when we break up, regardless of whether it was consensual or initiated by one of the two parties, we enter a mourning phase. And what we mourn is not the loss of our lover per se, but the inside jokes, the intimacy, the memories, the whole world that existed within that relationship. Okay, I'm not explaining myself well, but I hope you get the gist of what I'm trying to convey. Which relates to your original comment.
@@marilember The idea that not having a romantic relationship has to mean not having any relationship at all is just vile and beastly. I still miss the communication I had with my ex, while she decided that I don't exist anymore because I'm not ''the one''.
I think most people just have a hard time never being able to be serious. Romance basically just taking your love for each other seriously, and treating it like it's sacred. I've had partners before where I've had to give them more serious moments in order for them to feel comfortable being silly with me. Compromise was important to them. I hope they're doing well.
I find my coworkers and I also do this, since we're in each other's company for such long hours day after day. We know the ins and outs of each other's lives. And we share our internal monologues aloud often. We love to be silly together
I talk this way to myself. And I am alone on Christmas. I think the banana grows that way in bunches because some part of the plant grows up toward the sun. And some bananas in the middle are very straight. It’s very neat. And I think it’s dinner time. I love you, you handsome dude.
I am alone, but not lonely on Xmas. I have been with myself, finding joy in the most skurril thoughts and making myself dinner, too. It has been wonderful and peaceful. Merry Christmas!
This is why the failure of communication in a relationship can be so hard. When you no longer have that person in your life, even if you are still legally together, it feels extremely isolating. It's almost living in a kind of exile. 😢
I think for many people this is true, however, I find that only with my partner do I almost mindlessly talk about anything, be it intense recollections of childhood experiences and their impacts, or something as simple as asking how any bag of candy could possibly cost more than a lamp. We don't really do much of the "pointless" chatter, but we talk about anything that comes to mind regardless of topic importance. Even the most serious of topics are discussed as easily and calmly as more mundane things like the growth of a banana. It's incredibly rewarding to have such a connection with someone who is willing to entertain any topic of conversation, and it is met both ways. The random flow of conversations is such an interesting and delightful side of relationships that not everyone forms with partners sadly. These types of conversations are one of the more rewarding parts of a relationship and I couldn't ever settle without it now that I've experienced it.
I miss all these things so much since my fiancé died. So much good silliness and laughs. So much peace and healing together. Much peace to everyone. 💜✨
I want both. Some of the first and a lot of the second. I love being me, but I've made the mistake of giving the wrong person the privilege of that. I'd rather stay alone than to be inauthentic with anyone.
To have someone you can talk anything under the sun without judgement is a blessing. When a relationship ends and you find yourself without it, you realize you miss this more than anything.
I’ve always had this kind of connection with my boyfriend, but I always assumed we were just weird or maybe immature. Hearing it put this way makes so much more sense. This made me smile. Thank you for this video :)
My partner and I talk gibberish to each other on a daily basis. We refer to it as mouse speak. "Meep meep" and so on. Some words have found established meanings, such as 'cat', 'yes' and 'yippee'.
I have this tic where I say "There are worms in the soup!". I just love the way I say it lol and it can be a jingle sometimes "There are worms in the soup! There are worms in the soup! There are worms!" and my boyfriend would be like "Soup worms!"
I find myself making strange noises when I am just sitting with my husband. It's not that long ago that i discovered that it was because I am comfortable with him. 😊❤ I can be completely me and i have let my guard completely down with him. My intrusive thoughts come out without a second thought and like the video said-- it allows him to know me better 😊
Being able to freely express the wonders of the mind without judgement and then expounded into something profound that both of you are satisfied. It's a closeness a relationship found in acceptance of whom they're with❤
Every healthy couple I have known, from teenagers to elders, will tell you the importance of keeping play, laughter and goofiness as a crucial part of staying in love.
This made me cry 😢 I have never experienced this. I was married to an (I realise now) neurodivergent man for 21 years, who I could never have an easy intimacy with. I wish everyone could experience such a happy connection as depicted in this short video 💖 from Australia xx
That's sad 😢; but everyone is different. Many neurodiverse people are the most at ease with this way of communicating - and the funniest comedians. ❤😊❤
Being weird means to be outside someone’s normal. To be weird is to be normal, and when you find that person with the pure intentions of letting them get to know you and vise versa, then it is a moment of realism. Being real is not weird, being yourself is what matters most of all. I found my partner with this building philosophy of mine and our marriage is newly fresh, fun, and meaningful to the ends of the earth. 🤗🎵
In a weird way this video is really helpful for me being neurodivergent because it made me realize that people _don’t_ normally do this and one of the reasons I’m perceived as immature even when I talk about things in a mature and reasonable way is because I don’t force myself to be “serious” when there’s no reason to
I'm a master of nonsense talk. My kids, after 16 yrs, are just starting to embrace my twisting of reality. They've realized I'm saying, hey, sometimes what you think is true, ie black and white, is rarely so.
My boyfriend sent me this and this is on point lmao. I love making weird noises or jingles with him and how we both can just be stupid like we're the same entity. It's nice having that connection. Very hard to have.
It reminds me of that passage from Crime and Punishment where Razumikhin says he loves when people talk nonsense. It has this sentence in it: "To talk nonsense in one's own way is almost better than to talk a truth that's someone else's; in the first instance you behave like a human being, while in the second you are merely being a parrot!". This is from the McDuff translation.
My ex husband and I had some of the best conversations and laughs, especially the ones that took place while one of us was sitting on the toilet lol. It’s definitely golden to have this with someone, and in spite of the things that drove us apart, I do miss our friendship.
This one time I burped with a rhythm that felt like the starting of a Metallica song. I recorded it and sent it to my girlfriend. She sounded impressed and laughed at it. I know she’s the one.
Happy Christmas, everyone! It's great to have a conversation which sounds odd to everyone else, but to you and your loved ones, it's perfectly delightful.
Sir one thing I always wanted to say is your accent is sometimes difficult to understand for non native like me but yet it's something that makes you stand out. I hope I will get better n i'll be able to understand better.
I have been dating my partner for two and a half years now. Love them to death, and I know they feel the same. This morning we made a joke about it being the Black Ops 2 year while I was on the toilet. It went on for about 20 minutes. We talk serious topics sometimes. But yeah, we just kinda do weird things with each other, because serious is always available elsewhere. And I gotta say, I hope everyone finds the joys of love one day, because nothing compares.
Tbh, no one is “normal” and no one is “boring” if we get to know them in depth. Everyone has their own quirks and weird stories to share, it’s just a matter of meeting the people we can be silly with. The most boring person to us can be the most interesting to someone else
Damn, I see now, no wonder I often think vulnerability is an important thing in any relationship. I just never knew that this is wat it meant. Wow, this wad really insightful🙂👍🏿
That is very accurate portrayal of relationships But some of us don't have anyone left who love us 😭😭 Still we must continue to exist 😑😑 Merry Christmas and Happy New year to y'all
One of our favourite things to say with my boyfriend is "CAILLOU" (a small rock), and "LA T" (the T). Sometimes we talk like the philosopher dog, "habagabah", sometimes we just don't say anything and it all is the most beautiful thing i've ever seen.
My wife and I talk in quotes based on our son and our nieces and nephews. I ask if she would like to eat some “cubumber sammiches”. When we hang up, we say “dubba luh yee” (double love you).
I had a friend in high school. We would hang out together and talk non sense to each other. Despite how stupid we looked, I felt genuinely happy. No wonder why I feel so empty in my adulthood now.
I had the same connection with my long time friend. She was the first person in my life to have that weird noises/nonsense kind of connection. Sometimes, we would be sitting there in silence doing nothing and it was great. She was like a soul mate to me because we had the same-interests, humor-everything. Unfortunately, I had to cut her off this year (very personal reasons) but I will always cherish those memories and the bond we shared together. I have hope that someday, we will reconnect and be dumb together again.
This is why I'm done with dating. I can't keep getting emotional attachments and losing them. The inside jokes, the comfort it takes me months to build with them (I don't care to be touched). Knowing little things about them and they know about me. It's all so painful to keep losing. Even a store keeper can only open his shop so many times after he keeps getting robbed or having no customers. After that he just closes up and moves on.
Being progressively weird with my partner is something that comes natural to me but this vid made me realise why i dislike my brother's fiancee so much He was always a joker and liked to fool around for no reason other than just fun of it Like this year he wanted to fix their christmas tree to the ceiling and decorate it like that And their kids obviously love him to bits, he plays with them like he was a kid himself, best buddy But man that woman tries to shut down every bit of fun he's trying to have. "Stop fooling around, be serious" - As if he wasn't already carrying his own business on his shoulders AND her business which was failing before they got together as well as a family with three kids. Men are serious enough day to day. Never shame a guy for being goofy, especially if he's your partner. And absolutely never shame your lady for being goofy or "too comfortable" around you, don't be surprised that they're human too.
Me and my wife constantly have this back and forth after acting like goobers: "Why are we like this?" "Dunno, but I'm happy we're like this together ❤"
One of the main reasons why I miss my ex is because we could have talked about profound nonsense with each other. It was out of this world, let me tell you.
It usually is trauma from early childhood experience with parents, ..being neglected, ignored, not seen, heard as a child. So we lose sense of self, self worth.. Healing inner child can break those blocks and help feel safe to express oneself. Its a process it takes time, .. we need reparent ourselves
Me and my brother about to talk about the most cursed shit in existence: Our mom in the back seat: “I learned more about my sons in that two hour conversation than four years of raising them.”
I can only talk about nothing with people who I know could meet me at or close to my own level. Otherwise I can't talk to them for long. There's no point letting someone know you who cannot understand you because you will only be surrounded by empty relationships.
This is one thing I miss about my first girlfriend. We did some weird shit together (not sexual). Things that would make anyone else cringe their eyes out, but to us were the silliest and funniest things ever. I never had such a deep connection like that with anyone since.
I have a friend (formerly with benefits) with whom we have chemistry AND a strong intellectual connection, but because I can't fully mentally relax or talk nonsense with him, that's how I know we should not date.
"Intimacy is about daring to be increasingly and bravely weird with someone else and finding out that's OK with them."
Best line from this video.
When you get older and really want to settle down, it's no longer those fiery explosive relationship that you truly crave but the relationship that gives you peace, comfort and put you at ease.
There's a Chinese saying like 'Instead of the fireworks in the night sky, I much appreciate the good ol' reliable street light by your window.'
Can’t you have both the fireworks and the comfort? Sounds extremely boring, the thing you want.
@@margo3367 It really depends on your definition of fireworks. I mean, much can be accomplished by the light of a street lamp, especially if you have the will.
I wanted this from a young age. Fuck waiting til older. Thank God I got my soulmate and skipped the stupid b.s. that most people struggle through.
@@dierdrecole8027 Soulmates = work. Good work - but there is no magic, no found, no skipping until the end. Good relationships take work and love and communication and forgiveness and the best of you that you have, day after day. Like everything good, there are no shortcuts.
Perhaps the hardest thing about breaking up with someone is losing this connection.
I once read somewhere that when we break up, regardless of whether it was consensual or initiated by one of the two parties, we enter a mourning phase. And what we mourn is not the loss of our lover per se, but the inside jokes, the intimacy, the memories, the whole world that existed within that relationship.
Okay, I'm not explaining myself well, but I hope you get the gist of what I'm trying to convey. Which relates to your original comment.
It's like losing a tons of XP points
And that's why I've put my ego aside to stay friends with my latest ex. The shared connection runs too deep to just throw it all away 😊❤
@@marilember The idea that not having a romantic relationship has to mean not having any relationship at all is just vile and beastly. I still miss the communication I had with my ex, while she decided that I don't exist anymore because I'm not ''the one''.
My ex told me "I miss our jokes"
When I hug my partner, he will exhale, but while exhaling, I'll squeeze him gently to make his exhales into short little bursts, and then we laugh lol
This is so cute 😂
Daaamn cuteee😂
I do the same thing lmao
Hahaha.. I do this with my wife and the sound she makes is too funny... :D
literally made him into one of those rubber chickens lol
Small talk and nonsense yap sessions with people i love is genuinely one of my favorite hobbies
Me too, I love yapping and laughing my butt off with my favourite people
Same
Yeah true, it helps me feel closer to them.
i wish i could experience it, everytime i remember this wish i pray ill fulfill it iin heaven
This is exactly my love language. Sadly people take it for being immature and weird but this is what it all comes down to at the end.
I think most people just have a hard time never being able to be serious. Romance basically just taking your love for each other seriously, and treating it like it's sacred. I've had partners before where I've had to give them more serious moments in order for them to feel comfortable being silly with me. Compromise was important to them. I hope they're doing well.
You're not supposed to open with it. It grows naturally over time.
If someone heard the dialog between my wife and me they would certainly think we're weird. We talk so weird it causes us to laugh 😃.
Same! ❤ we're constantly bonding through weirdness and silliness
That's me and my co workers, if anyone would walk up on the office on one of those random moments they would think we were all high😂😂
I think the FBI have absolutely listened to our conversations lmao
I find my coworkers and I also do this, since we're in each other's company for such long hours day after day. We know the ins and outs of each other's lives. And we share our internal monologues aloud often. We love to be silly together
The BEST work environment! I love my work family and I'm thankful for them
same here! we love being silly. my approach to interactions is to have fun and create enjoyment. spread the silliness and joy and laughter!
I talk this way to myself. And I am alone on Christmas. I think the banana grows that way in bunches because some part of the plant grows up toward the sun. And some bananas in the middle are very straight. It’s very neat. And I think it’s dinner time. I love you, you handsome dude.
I am alone on Xmas as well and I believe that creative spark that makes us do silly things is what life is worth living for!
I think I shall have salad for dinner. I probably need the fiber.
Merry Christmas!
Merry Christmas!
I am alone, but not lonely on Xmas. I have been with myself, finding joy in the most skurril thoughts and making myself dinner, too. It has been wonderful and peaceful. Merry Christmas!
This is why the failure of communication in a relationship can be so hard. When you no longer have that person in your life, even if you are still legally together, it feels extremely isolating. It's almost living in a kind of exile. 😢
exile by Taylor swift
You’re not my home town anymore
@@SquishyMochi514 so I'm leaving out the side door
This is why I try to be as authentic to myself as possible, so I don't need that person to be open with the world.
"They talk sheeeiiitt..." 😂 always funny to hear an eloquent voice swear.
I didn't know our family had the deepest connection. According to this video and the amount of crap we talk.
❤️
My exgirlfriend: “eyebrows are just muscles with hair on them,” she said as if stumbling upon something philosophically groundbreaking.
May she RIP…
Oof
I’m sorry for your loss
@@mildlymarvelous thank you.
Intimacy is about being able to trust one another and tolerate their bs every now and then
I think for many people this is true, however, I find that only with my partner do I almost mindlessly talk about anything, be it intense recollections of childhood experiences and their impacts, or something as simple as asking how any bag of candy could possibly cost more than a lamp. We don't really do much of the "pointless" chatter, but we talk about anything that comes to mind regardless of topic importance. Even the most serious of topics are discussed as easily and calmly as more mundane things like the growth of a banana. It's incredibly rewarding to have such a connection with someone who is willing to entertain any topic of conversation, and it is met both ways. The random flow of conversations is such an interesting and delightful side of relationships that not everyone forms with partners sadly. These types of conversations are one of the more rewarding parts of a relationship and I couldn't ever settle without it now that I've experienced it.
I miss all these things so much since my fiancé died. So much good silliness and laughs. So much peace and healing together. Much peace to everyone. 💜✨
Sorry for your loss. I hope that the memories comfort you
I want both. Some of the first and a lot of the second. I love being me, but I've made the mistake of giving the wrong person the privilege of that. I'd rather stay alone than to be inauthentic with anyone.
To have someone you can talk anything under the sun without judgement is a blessing. When a relationship ends and you find yourself without it, you realize you miss this more than anything.
I’ve always had this kind of connection with my boyfriend, but I always assumed we were just weird or maybe immature. Hearing it put this way makes so much more sense. This made me smile. Thank you for this video :)
THE ANIMATION IS GREAT! well done
I normally like your line drawings best,
But this hit it out of the park. KUDOS!
My partner and I talk gibberish to each other on a daily basis. We refer to it as mouse speak. "Meep meep" and so on. Some words have found established meanings, such as 'cat', 'yes' and 'yippee'.
I have this tic where I say "There are worms in the soup!". I just love the way I say it lol and it can be a jingle sometimes "There are worms in the soup! There are worms in the soup! There are worms!" and my boyfriend would be like "Soup worms!"
does it happen to be the very specific "YIPPEE!" audio?
I find myself making strange noises when I am just sitting with my husband. It's not that long ago that i discovered that it was because I am comfortable with him. 😊❤
I can be completely me and i have let my guard completely down with him. My intrusive thoughts come out without a second thought and like the video said-- it allows him to know me better 😊
Haha like quaaak quaaak meeeaaaw piyoooo 😂
Awaaa :3
I'm ADHD.
All my conversations are like this.
Tangents, tangents everywhere.
youre a very cool person !! damn i wish i could be open about myself like you again, thats a great thing in my opinion
@annax_lmao I can't tell if this is sarcasm. Anyway, it is easy to admit to things as a stranger on the internet.
Relatable
Being able to freely express the wonders of the mind without judgement and then expounded into something profound that both of you are satisfied. It's a closeness a relationship found in acceptance of whom they're with❤
Every healthy couple I have known, from teenagers to elders, will tell you the importance of keeping play, laughter and goofiness as a crucial part of staying in love.
This made me cry 😢
I have never experienced this.
I was married to an (I realise now) neurodivergent man for 21 years, who I could never have an easy intimacy with.
I wish everyone could experience such a happy connection as depicted in this short video 💖 from Australia xx
That's sad 😢; but everyone is different. Many neurodiverse people are the most at ease with this way of communicating - and the funniest comedians. ❤😊❤
I’ve been there…!!! I hope you find someone who you can be silly with, regardless of the type of relationship
Yap is the highest form of affection, noted!
Being weird means to be outside someone’s normal. To be weird is to be normal, and when you find that person with the pure intentions of letting them get to know you and vise versa, then it is a moment of realism. Being real is not weird, being yourself is what matters most of all. I found my partner with this building philosophy of mine and our marriage is newly fresh, fun, and meaningful to the ends of the earth. 🤗🎵
In a weird way this video is really helpful for me being neurodivergent because it made me realize that people _don’t_ normally do this and one of the reasons I’m perceived as immature even when I talk about things in a mature and reasonable way is because I don’t force myself to be “serious” when there’s no reason to
I'm a master of nonsense talk. My kids, after 16 yrs, are just starting to embrace my twisting of reality. They've realized I'm saying, hey, sometimes what you think is true, ie black and white, is rarely so.
My boyfriend sent me this and this is on point lmao. I love making weird noises or jingles with him and how we both can just be stupid like we're the same entity. It's nice having that connection. Very hard to have.
I want to talk with my partner / lover regardless of topic, even nonsense because ıt is always good.
It reminds me of that passage from Crime and Punishment where Razumikhin says he loves when people talk nonsense. It has this sentence in it: "To talk nonsense in one's own way is almost better than to talk a truth that's someone else's; in the first instance you behave like a human being, while in the second you are merely being a parrot!". This is from the McDuff translation.
We are constantly joking and roasting random people, live love and laugh people. This is what we came for.
Singles attendance
Aye aye
*deeper thinking singles attendance
Aye Aye, Captain
Ho! Ho! Ho!🎅
Here’s to another year of spending Christmas alone 🎉
EveryTime I am pleasantly surprised by the quality and creativity of the animation. Always great content in here❤️
This video made me so happy, because it's how I can finally be around my boyfriend, after never being that way around anyone else. Xx
My ex husband and I had some of the best conversations and laughs, especially the ones that took place while one of us was sitting on the toilet lol. It’s definitely golden to have this with someone, and in spite of the things that drove us apart, I do miss our friendship.
Awww. I am so sorry that you both could not work it out.😢
@ thank you
To know and be known, and to be accepted for all those parts. It’s a hell of a thing to have and good god do I miss it dearly.
My imaginary friend argues with me constantly
Have you tried cooking for them? And if they don't like the food, throw the spaghetti in their face?
Beautifully said 😊 that is peak love to give and receive from those special ones ❤️
This one time I burped with a rhythm that felt like the starting of a Metallica song. I recorded it and sent it to my girlfriend. She sounded impressed and laughed at it.
I know she’s the one.
I split when I realize this exchange stopped in our couple... Still cannot say if it was a cause or an effect, though.
I love these shared moments ❤❤❤ it makes everyday life feels happier!
Happy Christmas, everyone! It's great to have a conversation which sounds odd to everyone else, but to you and your loved ones, it's perfectly delightful.
So true ❤ i also am fully myself with my child. More than with my parents.
My gods, yes! _YES!_
I want some of both sides. I just want someone to be with while I am my own self. I want someone to love me for me.
I have never been in a relationship but I talk absurd with my mom she scold me like in a cool manner but puts a smile 😁 on my face
Amazing work and amazing timing
In that case my family is at Olympic level intimacy, gold medal bullshit spoken here! 😁
Shooting debris gold medalist 😅
Oh this was wonderful, i felt like someone put into words what I would love to experience.
beautiful ! i don't know why i felt the need to watch this even if i never thought of it before but it was full of love
From lovers to yappers. Based.
I was dying when the duck started randomly dancing cause thats my bf right there..
Beautiful Camille Claudel sculpture in the beginning ❤️
Beautifully done video. Bravo.
I love talking to my dad about random stuff so much :] ❤
Talk about what makes you feel good.... a texture, a pleasant noice... something you enjoy... there doesn't have to be any reason it is enjoyable
He's not here to listen to my nonsense anymore, I love him, I don't care if it's not romantic, I love him.
Can relate to this deeply, this video was like a therapy❤
Nearly 30 and never been in a relationship... can't relate
some of us are in relationships and still can’t relate 🤷♀️
@FringePrincess lol i guess thats also sad
Sir one thing I always wanted to say is your accent is sometimes difficult to understand for non native like me but yet it's something that makes you stand out.
I hope I will get better n i'll be able to understand better.
You won’t find a better version of a well spoken true English accent. If you master speaking like Alain, you cannot do much better.
My wife and I love being goofy with each other.
I have been dating my partner for two and a half years now. Love them to death, and I know they feel the same. This morning we made a joke about it being the Black Ops 2 year while I was on the toilet. It went on for about 20 minutes. We talk serious topics sometimes. But yeah, we just kinda do weird things with each other, because serious is always available elsewhere. And I gotta say, I hope everyone finds the joys of love one day, because nothing compares.
This comes just at time. Thank you.
I loooove the school of life! They produce the best things ❤
Tbh, no one is “normal” and no one is “boring” if we get to know them in depth. Everyone has their own quirks and weird stories to share, it’s just a matter of meeting the people we can be silly with. The most boring person to us can be the most interesting to someone else
I confirm 😊
love the wooden stick duckpeople here. levity of love.
Damn, I see now, no wonder I often think vulnerability is an important thing in any relationship. I just never knew that this is wat it meant. Wow, this wad really insightful🙂👍🏿
That is very accurate portrayal of relationships
But some of us don't have anyone left who love us 😭😭
Still we must continue to exist 😑😑
Merry Christmas and Happy New year to y'all
Talking nonsense is my game 💚🕊️💚 Thanks for making it a thing lol
That's a point
One of our favourite things to say with my boyfriend is "CAILLOU" (a small rock), and "LA T" (the T). Sometimes we talk like the philosopher dog, "habagabah", sometimes we just don't say anything and it all is the most beautiful thing i've ever seen.
Thank you!
My wife and I talk in quotes based on our son and our nieces and nephews.
I ask if she would like to eat some “cubumber sammiches”.
When we hang up, we say “dubba luh yee” (double love you).
I had a friend in high school. We would hang out together and talk non sense to each other. Despite how stupid we looked, I felt genuinely happy. No wonder why I feel so empty in my adulthood now.
I had the same connection with my long time friend. She was the first person in my life to have that weird noises/nonsense kind of connection. Sometimes, we would be sitting there in silence doing nothing and it was great. She was like a soul mate to me because we had the same-interests, humor-everything. Unfortunately, I had to cut her off this year (very personal reasons) but I will always cherish those memories and the bond we shared together. I have hope that someday, we will reconnect and be dumb together again.
This is why I'm done with dating. I can't keep getting emotional attachments and losing them. The inside jokes, the comfort it takes me months to build with them (I don't care to be touched). Knowing little things about them and they know about me. It's all so painful to keep losing. Even a store keeper can only open his shop so many times after he keeps getting robbed or having no customers. After that he just closes up and moves on.
can confirm!!! i love us sm
Where can we find such ppl ??... everyone wants u to be a certain way... upto their level...!!
God i love this channel. Thank you for these videos ❤
Being progressively weird with my partner is something that comes natural to me but this vid made me realise why i dislike my brother's fiancee so much
He was always a joker and liked to fool around for no reason other than just fun of it
Like this year he wanted to fix their christmas tree to the ceiling and decorate it like that
And their kids obviously love him to bits, he plays with them like he was a kid himself, best buddy
But man that woman tries to shut down every bit of fun he's trying to have. "Stop fooling around, be serious" - As if he wasn't already carrying his own business on his shoulders AND her business which was failing before they got together as well as a family with three kids.
Men are serious enough day to day. Never shame a guy for being goofy, especially if he's your partner.
And absolutely never shame your lady for being goofy or "too comfortable" around you, don't be surprised that they're human too.
I've always said that I want to find a smart person I can talk about dumb things with, rather than a dumb person to talk about smart things with.
Thanks for sharing!
Me and my wife constantly have this back and forth after acting like goobers:
"Why are we like this?"
"Dunno, but I'm happy we're like this together ❤"
One of the main reasons why I miss my ex is because we could have talked about profound nonsense with each other. It was out of this world, let me tell you.
I feel like a burden whenever I try to talk about random things. Like what I have to say isn't important enough to repeat or talk about.
Same. This holds me back from having funny conversations and show them my goofy side. Ruined many k
Potential connections for me.
It usually is trauma from early childhood experience with parents, ..being neglected, ignored, not seen, heard as a child. So we lose sense of self, self worth.. Healing inner child can break those blocks and help feel safe to express oneself. Its a process it takes time, .. we need reparent ourselves
I miss them
Me and my brother about to talk about the most cursed shit in existence:
Our mom in the back seat:
“I learned more about my sons in that two hour conversation than four years of raising them.”
I've been married for years. But I've never had an experience like this. It sounds tempting.
I can only talk about nothing with people who I know could meet me at or close to my own level. Otherwise I can't talk to them for long.
There's no point letting someone know you who cannot understand you because you will only be surrounded by empty relationships.
I love you❤
Beautiful ❤
Sometimes my girlfriend yapps for hours and even though I zone out I still appreciate it because it means she feels comfortable with me
This is one thing I miss about my first girlfriend. We did some weird shit together (not sexual). Things that would make anyone else cringe their eyes out, but to us were the silliest and funniest things ever. I never had such a deep connection like that with anyone since.
I love this animation!
Thank you 🙏
Can I ask for more videos about history and philosophy?
I love this video. I can only IMAGINE how goofy I will get. Inside jokes 24/7 lol
I have a friend (formerly with benefits) with whom we have chemistry AND a strong intellectual connection, but because I can't fully mentally relax or talk nonsense with him, that's how I know we should not date.