Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
@Emilio Yepez its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
This story made me furious, until i discovered the duaghters reactions to the news. That just melted my heart. I always wanted kids but never had them because i knew if their mother used them to spite me or turned them into a bargaining chip, their mother would come up missing.
LOL, WHEN I GOT MARRIED I HAD A VASECTOMEY FOR THE SAME REASON, no kids because i saw the good and bad with my wife and i was not going to get trapped with kids but i became a jehovah witness and that was my trap until i left both and never looked back, i have talked to women at work and they say the same thing, kids change a relationship big time and it takes a lot to keep it on track and most women just want the kids and then you become an ATM for them.
My 1st wife and I were together for twelve years, out of that we had, maybe, a total of eighteen months of happiness. Four kids, of which she turned two against me with the most absurd lies, but they knew they were lies, and chose her side anyway, so be it. 2nd wife and I have been together for twenty-four years, married for twenty-three, and never even had any big arguments. We're getting a bit long in the tooth now, but this time it is literally "Til Death Do Us Part".
Yeah,this is an old post but still a good one. How OPs ex threw everything away for a fling,treating OP and her kids as garbage only to crawl back when she realise her husband isn't the doormat/simp she thought he was and she could get away with anything since she was the bread winner. She deserved everything karma threw at her,OP and kids certainly not.
This woman got exactly what she deserves sir keep being a good father to your children never let that scumbag wife near you or your children without being supervised she'll never forget that she destroy her family over a sexual relations with another man good luck in all your endeavors
I heard this story a long time ago and was one of my absolute favorite stories, so glad to see there were updates and that the kids are getting better and are safe. But man karma really came after the both of those cheaters, they really got what they deserved. As for obs i had a guilty pleasure of wanting something to happen and to see they F'd I feel both satisfied and weird about it. Glad she got to do it with someone who actually cared about her as a person and not for her body, but weird for obvious reasons
Story 1: His wife was a cheater and liar and ended up getting cheated on and attacked by her AP. I'm always amazed that cheaters don't realize their APs are liars as well.
I f I found an OBS like that I would have done my utmost to be with her for all time. A woman with that kind of strength of character is one to be loved and respected.
Wifey was in an "Affair Fog" and came out of it. At Thanksgiving, she was loving and wanted her man and husband and FAMILY BACK.. Hubby should have taken her back and kept the family together
@@vlugovsky yeah, what the heck are they talking about? This is definitely a simp/doormat or doesn't understand how manipulation works, hope Stephen never gets into a toxic/affair relationship for their own safety
@@stephenstruk1734hell no. She did it once because she thought he was a simp. If he takes her back then he actually is a simp and she will do it again
Leave immediately. Your difficulties will work themselves out. They may not be in your favor, but that is what life is about. Move on, and don't look back. Good luck.
Hi Joe. Same thing. One younger employee seduces the boss, an older woman, to get promotions and better jobs opportunities. Not only women do it, Joe, men also.
It is not weird. People tend to act differently to different situations. OBS is acting out of pure emotions thus did what she did to feel in control of her situation.
I think AP purposely misled his wife into thinking that her stay at home husband was a whimp and couldnt even earn a living to support the family, and the wife's mind was slowly processing it forgetting the actual reason why he had sacrifised his job and became the stay at home husband, in order to have a free sex with her. And she bought it. The AP was the main culprit who didnt care if he would destroy other people's lives and family.
After everything said and done if I didn't want of relationship with the other woman I would go right up to her husband and be like why would you ever trade that up for my wife. Your wife f**** so much better
I don’t think that was the therapist’s place to tell the kids why their parents were splitting up. Especially without either parent’s knowledge, consent, or presence.
Storyline doesn’t add up. Inserting insignificant issues in the story outplayed the plot. Real amateur story writing. Stories are not edited and alas! The story runs it’s course and the readers get dismayed and move on.
Two years without sex with the AP's wife. Hmmm, any guy would admit that would be rough to do. Almost a bye for the AP for that part. However, none for OP's wife. She had no reason to be doing any of this. I know this is like giving advice to cheaters, but for heaven's sake, stay off the phones with that subject. Absolutely nothing in writing.
Nah, if he couldn't handle no action then that is something to talk about with his wife and see if there was a solution they could both get behind. Cheating isn't it. Certainly not after just having a kid too. To me cheating is never acceptable, because at that point it's about the breaking of trust, the betrayal. If you can't trust a partner, then there is no point in being a partner. There is always an alternative to cheating and in the worst case, that alternative is breaking up.
Two things, firstly, the part when he discovered the stuff on her phone, I would bet that it was impossible to send them to his phone. My reasoning would be that the initial shock would have paralysed him briefly and the wife seems to have returned rather quickly. Secondly, when did she and her AP spend time in their house with his girls seeing that he was a stay at home dad? These stories are complete fiction, maybe based on stories of actual betrayal.
How many times on here have we read where the cheating spouse finds out what a lowlife scumbag the AP is the hard way. She probably didn’t even know what OBS had been through and how POS AP crapped on his wife. Some of these stories the AP should be taken to the desert on a one way ride.
I think it's a bad idea when a woman starts out-earning her husband. I've never heard of a woman who would respect her husband when the typical roles are reversed. Couple that with her being alone at work susceptible to bad influences and there you go. OP's wife made him the woman of the relationship, so he fleeced her in the divorce like a scorned woman. LOL.
I don't know the acronyms and don't want to learn them. Why can't the reader read the acronyms as words and not letters. I lose a lot when listening to these stories. That's why I dislike them.
Obs= Other betrayed spouse Ap= Affair partner stbxw= Soon to be Ex Wife Ngl this Short forms confuse me everytime I had to google obs and guessed the other two
So you had a job you gave it up for her and she turned on you good lesson you the man always she got it in her head you was a fool you stoped working to be a stay at home fool look where it go you always be the man you wanted to be a good man look what it got you
Never become a house husband! Makes your wife lose respect for you and start committing adultery! Your wife is a piece of crap and has no love for you! Divorce her for adultery and get full custody of the kids. She deserves nothing!
The wife told OP to go sleep on the couch and he did and remained sleeping on that couch. This shows how much of a wimp OP is, assuring the disrespect the wife had for him. One can't have love without respect.
So his STBXW got beaten up by her AP after OBS dumped him??? These cheaters do cheat with the most repulsive people
Well you can't really say she didn't deserve it
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
@Emilio Yepez its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@Emilio Yepez simp
Women generally can't give what they take... Don't quit your job... Women won't take care of you long term.
Old story, but update 7 is new for me, 10x for updating.
This story made me furious, until i discovered the duaghters reactions to the news. That just melted my heart.
I always wanted kids but never had them because i knew if their mother used them to spite me or turned them into a bargaining chip, their mother would come up missing.
LOL, WHEN I GOT MARRIED I HAD A VASECTOMEY FOR THE SAME REASON, no kids because i saw the good and bad with my wife and i was not going to get trapped with kids but i became a jehovah witness and that was my trap until i left both and never looked back, i have talked to women at work and they say the same thing, kids change a relationship big time and it takes a lot to keep it on track and most women just want the kids and then you become an ATM for them.
@@edwardmylnychuk5774
Well, at least you know your limitations!
My 1st wife and I were together for twelve years, out of that we had, maybe, a total of eighteen months of happiness.
Four kids, of which she turned two against me with the most absurd lies, but they knew they were lies, and chose her side anyway, so be it.
2nd wife and I have been together for twenty-four years, married for twenty-three, and never even had any big arguments.
We're getting a bit long in the tooth now, but this time it is literally "Til Death Do Us Part".
Yeah,this is an old post but still a good one. How OPs ex threw everything away for a fling,treating OP and her kids as garbage only to crawl back when she realise her husband isn't the doormat/simp she thought he was and she could get away with anything since she was the bread winner.
She deserved everything karma threw at her,OP and kids certainly not.
This woman got exactly what she deserves sir keep being a good father to your children never let that scumbag wife near you or your children without being supervised she'll never forget that she destroy her family over a sexual relations with another man good luck in all your endeavors
I heard this story a long time ago and was one of my absolute favorite stories, so glad to see there were updates and that the kids are getting better and are safe. But man karma really came after the both of those cheaters, they really got what they deserved. As for obs i had a guilty pleasure of wanting something to happen and to see they F'd I feel both satisfied and weird about it. Glad she got to do it with someone who actually cared about her as a person and not for her body, but weird for obvious reasons
If a woman even thinks that she's in charge, life will get very bad for everyone else.
“When we finished we cuddled and cried” 😂😂😂
The only reason why op wife doesn’t want to loss op because the affair partner is not on op level story1
Story 1: His wife was a cheater and liar and ended up getting cheated on and attacked by her AP. I'm always amazed that cheaters don't realize their APs are liars as well.
They believed it wouldn’t happen to them because they’re special😂
I f I found an OBS like that I would have done my utmost to be with her for all time. A woman with that kind of strength of character is one to be loved and respected.
Wifey was in an "Affair Fog" and came out of it. At Thanksgiving, she was loving and wanted her man and husband and FAMILY BACK.. Hubby should have taken her back and kept the family together
@@stephenstruk1734 Hell no! She had her fun. OP didn't. He had a gut punch. She will only do iyt again but hide it better.
@@vlugovsky yeah, what the heck are they talking about? This is definitely a simp/doormat or doesn't understand how manipulation works, hope Stephen never gets into a toxic/affair relationship for their own safety
@@stephenstruk1734 what drugs are you on wake up an get real
@@stephenstruk1734hell no. She did it once because she thought he was a simp. If he takes her back then he actually is a simp and she will do it again
I cried several times. Sorry about all the girls went through.
Yeah doubt this is real, Ai story telling is pretty good
Congratulations for your new love, THE OBS.
Leave immediately. Your difficulties will work themselves out. They may not be in your favor, but that is what life is about. Move on, and don't look back. Good luck.
Can somebody bring me up to speed on all of the abbreviations being used? OBS? OP? AP? Etc.
Hi Joe. Same thing. One younger employee seduces the boss, an older woman, to get promotions and better jobs opportunities. Not only women do it, Joe, men also.
women are truly weird, OBS immediately tries to sleep with some random guy she just met after receiving terrible news like it's nothing!!! smh
A cancer survivor might have a very different perspective on living one's best life. 🤷♂️
It is not weird. People tend to act differently to different situations. OBS is acting out of pure emotions thus did what she did to feel in control of her situation.
@@abstragic6336 Yep, had a baby, then got cancer and nearly died. Lost her husband at the same time. She was probably just like eff it.
You’re not wrong, but it goes deeper than that
Pain bonding is a very real thing.
This is an old post
I think AP purposely misled his wife into thinking that her stay at home husband was a whimp and couldnt even earn a living to support the family, and the wife's mind was slowly processing it forgetting the actual reason why he had sacrifised his job and became the stay at home husband, in order to have a free sex with her. And she bought it. The AP was the main culprit who didnt care if he would destroy other people's lives and family.
As they say, her body her choice. She wasn't graped.
Damn. OP cheated on a wife fighting cancer.
Not OP. It was the AP.
Never stop working for her.
After everything said and done if I didn't want of relationship with the other woman I would go right up to her husband and be like why would you ever trade that up for my wife. Your wife f**** so much better
The guy was doomed the minute he quit his job to be a house husband.
I don’t think that was the therapist’s place to tell the kids why their parents were splitting up. Especially without either parent’s knowledge, consent, or presence.
Storyline doesn’t add up. Inserting insignificant issues in the story outplayed the plot. Real amateur story writing. Stories are not edited and alas! The story runs it’s course and the readers get dismayed and move on.
Make your letters bigger for easy reading.
No updates that sucks 😢
We’re not allowed to be stay at home parents. That’s a no no. We can also only be between jobs 3-6 months tops
So basically this guy needed to be a better lover
Two years without sex with the AP's wife. Hmmm, any guy would admit that would be rough to do. Almost a bye for the AP for that part. However, none for OP's wife. She had no reason to be doing any of this. I know this is like giving advice to cheaters, but for heaven's sake, stay off the phones with that subject. Absolutely nothing in writing.
Nah, if he couldn't handle no action then that is something to talk about with his wife and see if there was a solution they could both get behind.
Cheating isn't it.
Certainly not after just having a kid too.
To me cheating is never acceptable, because at that point it's about the breaking of trust, the betrayal. If you can't trust a partner, then there is no point in being a partner.
There is always an alternative to cheating and in the worst case, that alternative is breaking up.
@@AusExplorer Saying "almost get a bye" skipped you by, didn't it?
@@AusExplorer yup no no need to cheat you just tell her you are going on a date before leaving
This is a very very old post
I saw this post before too. But the last two updates are new ones for me.
I went back and watched the whole thing to the end this time. There are new updates thank you very much.
Two things, firstly, the part when he discovered the stuff on her phone, I would bet that it was impossible to send them to his phone. My reasoning would be that the initial shock would have paralysed him briefly and the wife seems to have returned rather quickly. Secondly, when did she and her AP spend time in their house with his girls seeing that he was a stay at home dad? These stories are complete fiction, maybe based on stories of actual betrayal.
This story may be fictional, but you will be surprised how often this happens to real people in real life.
Ok. Story might be fiction. Why are people so hung up on pointing it out?
Rerun .
Man, this wife is nuts. It's like a dog that bites you, but then wants to cuddle no way!
Said you free you call have joke money you two have
This has to be like a AI generated story or something
How many times on here have we read where the cheating spouse finds out what a lowlife scumbag the AP is the hard way. She probably didn’t even know what OBS had been through and how POS AP crapped on his wife. Some of these stories the AP should be taken to the desert on a one way ride.
DNA the kids
I think it's a bad idea when a woman starts out-earning her husband. I've never heard of a woman who would respect her husband when the typical roles are reversed. Couple that with her being alone at work susceptible to bad influences and there you go.
OP's wife made him the woman of the relationship, so he fleeced her in the divorce like a scorned woman. LOL.
I don't know the acronyms and don't want to learn them. Why can't the reader read the acronyms as words and not letters. I lose a lot when listening to these stories. That's why I dislike them.
what does obs, ap and stbxw stand for
Obs= Other betrayed spouse
Ap= Affair partner
stbxw= Soon to be Ex Wife
Ngl this Short forms confuse me everytime I had to google obs and guessed the other two
I could see this be real. Why did he have to make himself some sort of sex god with the OBS though? 😅 madw me think this might be fake
Neither had had sex in 2 years. I could see an all-night session after that.
Every person in this story sounds insufferable
Too many abbreviations. When looking up AP and OBS there are over 300 things that can mean. Just use real words.
So you had a job you gave it up for her and she turned on you good lesson you the man always she got it in her head you was a fool you stoped working to be a stay at home fool look where it go you always be the man you wanted to be a good man look what it got you
Ap?
Never become a house husband! Makes your wife lose respect for you and start committing adultery! Your wife is a piece of crap and has no love for you!
Divorce her for adultery and get full custody of the kids.
She deserves nothing!
Once upon a time an so the story goes
The wife told OP to go sleep on the couch and he did and remained sleeping on that couch. This shows how much of a wimp OP is, assuring the disrespect the wife had for him. One can't have love without respect.
Great a porn story really understand about cheating wife but come on really we don’t need to know what you done with he’s ex
I do.