Hey dude cool video, thanks for the inspiration. I especially enjoyed point 4. I wonder if there might be also a way to make the whole journey a little bit more fun. "God would not want that" as well as point three in my ears sound both really good, but also a bit like suppression of your needs. Or that is at least, how probably quite a few of the people on this channel are understanding it that way (cause if their self esteem is low, they tend to castigate themselves). Might there be a way for those guys to find something else - may it be god, meditation, a passionate hobby or finding out what their emotional wishes are - which could be the "quencher"? Instead of suppressing their feelings of attraction to hot women...
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
1:35 | 1. Cut all dirty websites 3:15 | 2. Stop lusting for women 5:40 | 3. Learn how to appreciate a woman's beauty without losing control 7:00 | 4. Understand that your thirst is not quenchable 8:35 | 5. Step into the calling you have as a man
So true 💯💯 Tbh not lusting after women in my 20s was just about the hardest thing I could do. But at 40 it’s so freeing when you realize a woman’s body is only a small piece of her and actually getting to know her is where you’ll find the true value. Especially nowadays when sex is rampant it’s so important to look for the inner beauty. So many men fall victim to looks and spend the rest of their lives regretting it! Women know this is a man’s weakness and many use it to their advantage.
00:01 Desexualize your brain to increase natural attraction 01:22 Cut out dirty websites to increase natural attraction and connection with women. 02:38 Cutting out pleasure leads to self-control and discipline. 03:53 Implement positive affirmation to resist temptations and stay strong 05:09 Appreciate a woman's beauty without seeking intimacy 06:20 Avoid letting pleasure lead to pain by being wise and objective in evaluating habits. 07:44 Understanding that pleasure will not lead to happiness 08:56 Stepping into your calling as a man leads to profound changes in confidence and fulfillment. Crafted by YO BOII
Never has a statement hit home with me more than “God would not like that.” So true. If you live to give Him pleasure instead of yourself, life is amazing.
He’s correct. As soon as the woman senses thirst, you can disqualify yourself. Make her chase you, you’re the prize. Not her! There are a million beautiful women out there. If you make above average income, make your health & family/friends relationships a priority…. That’s her loss if she wants to overlook u.
"To gravitate towards worldly pleasures is identical to drinking sea water.... as they get thirsty, they drink it... as they drink, they get thirsty.." Ibn-Arabi Islamic principles have already taught this for centuries and I am glad smart people ended up discovering through experience that It's the right path.
When you practice fasting it’ll lead to God and retaining your nut. I was practicing this towards the end of my relationship now that I’m a lone wolf again I’m going all in.💪🏽🗡️ God first then your purpose. Everything else will come to you.
Think about the typical single guy. He spends probably 80% of the time doing stuff to attract women or to try to get sex, instead of doing a million other things that provide real happiness. Instead, he could be travelling the world, building a six figure income, spending time with interesting people, build the best body he could possibly have, etc.
Dude! Thats 100% acurare. Happiness comes from the inside. Not from outside sources. Women, and food, and drinking... this is bullshit. Never felt happy chasing this stuff. I feel happy after reading a book, after a cold shower, after gym, after taking the trash out...
The only purpose of a man is to bring heaven to earth. To bring the energy of the mind to the body (matter). Free will to command the mind of Father. He watches you learn or not learn the power of HIS mind.
My parents still alive, im above average in terms of health good looking guy. I work 11hours a day 6 days a week. I got a chick, had car s3x two days ago. In two days we are going to pick up strawberries. No porn, i run everyday when free in the afternoon (5days average/week). I feel sore every single day, pain is real. I even admire myself when i put it in this context. Its true but as a 23yo male working in germany. Guys no matter what beauty and what kind of succes happends from day to day. Most of the time i feel like crying before bed. How much work, how much time is needed to actually make little progress. Life is so fast and im sorry. I date to marry. I run cuz i hate it, i work cuz i have to make something. But when i lose my parents, my job, my money, my health, is it even gonna be worth living? Since its so hard now when im winning and suffering at the same time what about when i lose everything? Im open about this, i feel like i aint alone am I?
You sound like you are very purposeful with your life, and this is good. If I may, I would ask you to check out some old-time Missionary Baptist churches in Tennessee (mine is Rocky Mound M.B. Church, we have a website) that preach the old hell fire and brimstone sermons. You can know God personally, but you have to first believe the story of Christ, and then (and this is the hard part) realize your worthlessness before God, and understand that as a human from the seed of Adam, that you are condemned already, and you are just awaiting the sentencing (hell). You have to start seeking God (on your knees with fear and trembling) and when your spirit is broken, and you can come to Him as one who is guilty and begging for mercy, and believing on him COMPLETELY (this is the other hard part), he will save your soul. It is so real that it is almost a physical sensation. You will feel absolute peace like you have never known. That indwelling Spirit never leaves you, and then you can face all the trials that life can present to you with the most powerful advocate at your side. It is then that you can put earthly things in their proper place.
This a real life cheat code.. like yes as men we look. But don’t break yo neck for every girl just make your reality about you. I purposely don’t check out women on an everyday basis. That needy energy gonna expose your vulnerability/weakness for women’s beauty. So master your own energy. You don’t EVER force a vibe.. you don’t carry convo. Just vibe. Ask questions to let her talk if anything. Women loveee to talk 😂💯
Eh I just did 151 days right after 109 days. Ive been having sex for the last 40 days of that 150. Bagged a dime so she got a face full of it. I feel no different. My meditation is still dialled. I'm still strong as fuck. My focus is no different. Make of that what you will.
I disagree to a degree.....I can only go 3 months max then it comes out on it's own, empty out once in a while w/o any internet but be in control, deffo not every day......get it down to once per week then aim for longer, suppression of sexuality is dangerous...........Bless..........
@@headbandassasinThis is true. After 1-2 weeks your just going to flatline your sex drive and start to have low energy. Having sex once a week or twice is needed for high testosterone males
This becomes much easier when you're 35+, thanks to the natural decrease in testosterone, albeit very little in the next 10-20 years, it's enough to make changes in your mental state. Not low, which would be unhealthy, but just a little lower than in your 20s. This is one reason many women prefer and connect better with men aged 35-50. Losing that intense drive and thirst feels like a significant weight has been lifted off your shoulders. This is one of the advantages of having lower, not low, just slightly lower testosterone levels as you age, without affecting performance, desire or anything, at least not for me. Now, when I go on dates and talk to women, I don't even worry about what comes next. Of course, sometimes the drive returns and I feel like I'm 20 again, but overall, this change has been a blessing in disguise. I'm not even sure I want to go on TRT later in life, maybe after 50.
This is why I HATE being in my early 20's. Fuckin hate this shit. I always knew that the minute I turn into my 30's I'll lose my super huge desire to smash hoaz. Once I can get rid of that desire so much that I'd try to always smash women, my life would be TEN FOLD better than it is now. I've calmed down on it now that I just turned 24 and relaxing on it but I hate the fact it took this long for me to FINALLY quit the shit.
@@cornstar1253 So do I, maybe I didn't get my point across. I'm saying that a slight decrease in testosterone as you age does make a difference in the mental state and being thirsty IF you also eliminate p*rn.
@@pungisotu It starts to SLOWLY decrease little by little after 35/40 and that slow decrease coupled by eliminating p*rn does improve this mental state where you are not thirsty.
The God Given Calling thing is extremely important, too. I used to work in investment banking and made a shitload of money, but hated my work and life. I was depressed at work and depressed at home. My real calling was writing, and after I became a much lower paid author of books and articles about finance, every minute of my life has improved massively.
This is what I learned at Catholic school, no masturbation or porn allowed. It's made me a lot stronger. Great video, I see a lot of guys still give into masturbation, but it's bad to do.
Casey it has taken me 66 years to figure this out! I hope the young people are listening. I am closer to God and have a much better life because of everything you say here. It is also much easier to focus on my purpose. Maybe the best video I’ve ever heard. Thanks 🙏
In practice, as I experienced it, at least ... you have to have a non-romantic, and even non-social passion or interest you can throw yourself into for hours on in, to the point where you even forget sex itself exists. For me, it was astronomy, history, geography, and (sometimes) music; but most of all it was speculating about the great issues of our time (i.e., critical thinking and philosophy, purpose, meaning, and so forth). Pursue all those with a passion, forget about even a social life in general (not to mention forget about women), then you'll clear out so much bullshit from your mind like you won't even believe possible. Usually this has to be reacquainting yourself with passions you had pre-puberty. That's what worked for me.....(continued)... And you know what? I'm very much fine without much of a social life (I do have some, but not that much of one). My passions and interests are my partner, always showing me something new. Philosophy (or at least my vivid imagination and speculations) are my best friend. It's definitely liberating and helped free my mind in every way imaginable. And I'm happy alone.
"god is watching" isn't really useful for atheists, but this is more true: "what you think of others and yourself, they already know" even if it's unconscious.
When you see a good-looking woman, look the other way; don't let your mind dwell on the beauty of any woman who is not your wife. Many men have been led astray by a woman's beauty. It kindles passion as if it were fire. Sirach 9:8
QURAN (24:30) "O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do." This quran verse is perfect for this video! Allah told us to lower our gaze and not even look or check out women! Unless she is your wife.
This video is more about addiction. I don’t entirely agree. I stopped whacking and watching porn many years ago. I hit my 40s and things stopped working as well as they used to. Now i have to watch porn and spank just to wake the thing up rather than using pills. If you do that all the time you become desensitized but on occasion it’s perfectly fine. Masculinity and manliness is fading with every generation. You can still fall in love and having meaningful relationships with mitigation. Like anything else, dont abuse it; use it as a tool. Ill bet one of three things, either: 1- you are religious 2-you had a serious porn addiction or 3- you are a therapist of some sort. And if its non of the above then you have no business speaking on the subject In today’s culture there is almost no such thing as dopamine detox. Phones are a prime example. Food is another. Sugar, is 8x more addictive than cocaine and we give it to our kids as a reward. That mentality lasts your whole life. Fast food give your brain a dopamine rush. TV. It’s inescapable otherwise we’d all be bored out of our minds like monks. Self control is key, but a little bit of almost anything wont hurt you.
This is so true on a whole new level and don't think it will go unnoticed. Women notice shit even if they don't know what they're noticing and now the word effortless Is energy. It's the shit. It's weird but hey the universe always has something new to learn. No sticks no stems no stress. Some of that real sticky icky. I might even need a bat now to beet em off me. It's a new stress and I'm having fun. Thanks C
Casey, genuine question here. Do you just not believe love exists and that it’s just Disney programming and basically all people are superficial? It’s certainly the way I’m starting to lean.
Certainly statics indicate so. More than half of all marriages end in divorce. 70+80% of all divorces are initiated by the wife. 90+% If she's college educated. Men still continue to get screwed over in court financially and emotionally especially with children are involved. Women have a higher percentage of cheating than men and will monkey branch from one man to the next and think little of it while collecting as much from a man's resources as possible. Men give and women take. The only woman who doesn't take from a man is his mother, she's a giver too. Unfortunately men think love and woman's love is about giving, it's not. Ultimately with women, it's about a man's tangible resources that she desires. It's built-in their DNA. It also means a man has to earn their desirability while a woman doesn't. Her desirability comes from her looks which she's born with. It's a dog eat dog world out there.
I have the same relationship with food!!! Best way for me to control it is to have one cheat day/week. I’ll fast the entire day and make that my only meal of the day. Yesterday I was craving junk food so I hit up the gas station for chips, trail mix & gummy bears. Got the craving out of my system and eating clean for rest of week now!
Lust means desire, I lust to eat a sandwich. You are correct. We're not supposed to desire ANOTHER MAN'S "gynaika". The church has absolutely brainwashed nonsense in this area.
In addition you're activating and feeding a primal demon you have no idea how powerful and infinitely hungry it is, that will drag you down a rabbit hole into an abyss that the older you get the harder it is to climb out of, you want to TOTALLY phase self pleasure out in your early 20s because your life is moving fast. School work partying ect. Cause when you get older you don't have these distractions around to fight it and naturally forget it.
The male sex drive is heat energy onto cold energy. Heat is the action of the mind (Mind the father) slowing down to feel formation (body) Cold. Your heat energy (focus) is the prize that fuels reality.
God/Father wants company so he had sons. Real connections is to connect with the Mind. She can only submit to the Mind and then she can birth emotions.
Don't gotta dopamine detox u need to delay gratification so when u feel like eating chips postpone it and lift some weights then eat the chips or don't eat them at all.
I am trying to get rid of multiple addictions and this video appeared in the right moment. I wish I could believe in God but that's not going to work for me. I just need to think that I am letting myself and my ancestors down if I keep falling to my addictions.
Bro I bought Pinkbox donuts to refill my glycogen after my workout. I ordered a 4x4 Flying Dutchman from In-n-out and passed out after. I overslept my eating window and couldn’t eat my donuts. Self discipline! Same applies to turning away from lust and porn. #Lifeexperience
often if you are going to indulge in pleasures both when you want it and don't want it the reason for me has often been a sense of meaninglessness and seeking to remove negative emotions I would highly recommend everyone ask themselves okay I don't actually want this am I using this as a way to escape a negative emotion or do i feel like I have a lack of meaning that's triggering these actions and pleasure seeking. I ask my self this and then I accept and learn to live with those emotions so I could let go hope this helps
I'm curious about what you believe about God. I grew up with evangelical Christianity but have deconstructed from it. What kind of a God do you believe in?
Very good virtuous video. Modesty countenance chastity LONG SUFFERING. The more one follows such precepts more is added and given. The energy wants to be shot out be it lower expressions at the base or when channelled upward to the crown. The energy can be directed via controlled breathing and learning to control the sacral pump with the throat. It is extremely powerful and one must be physically fit to begin attempting this. Not for those pursuing family life or the weakened bodied or weak minded.
I agree with 98% of your stuff but I have a few problems with some of your conclusions on this one. Why would God not like masturbation but He would like fornication? Fornication is having sex with a woman that you're not married to. So it doesn't make sense. I think God would rather have us masturbate than sleep with a woman and risk her being pregnant and getting STD's and becoming one with the temple of her body. All your steps should be to attract a woman. But if you can't have a successful marriage through love then God set up an unwinnable situation and we should quit. But God believes in love and marriage as in Song of Songs. There IS love and marriage and God doesn't want us sleeping around. Hypergamy and love must be "married" together or we have an insufficient conclusion of how God designed it. Your teachings though are excellent and 90% there imho. I still am trying to figure this all out and have learned a ton from you. Next, why is it OK for a man who's married to have sex and have pleasure but a single man has to completely withdraw from pleasure? Is a married sexually active man weak? No. So why is a single man have to retain his seed at all costs? Yes, there is pain with pleasure but the flip side of masterbating is not the end of the world. Otherwise it would have to apply to married men when they have sex with their wives. And sex in marriage is highly encouraged by God. The reason why no fap is good for single guys as they should have their penis in off-mode because masterbating and fornicating is a sin. But we shouldn't villianize single guys when married guys can sow their seed anytime they want. Its about self control not total extreme denial. Married guys should have control and so should single guys but the women dont pick up on total extreme denial as much as self control in general. Otherwise they would want guys that never thought about sex ever and the human race would be terminated. Just some thoughts.
Title: 'desexualize your brain', then has a whole array of videos with click bait images sexualizing women. Content is good no doubt, but some I'm sure are being played.
It may work in a completely unexpected way. You may lose interest to women. And they finnaly will lose interest towards you… if there was interest in the first place. You may find youself in a state “you dont give a shit about them - they dont give a shit about you”. Draw. But there is a big BUT. It’s way better than fruitlessly chaising them for years.
While being a porn addict I had to take a full sleep at night and I used to wake up very late. I also had to take rest in the afternoon which affected my capability to work effectively. After quitting porn and corn...yes I hate corn...now I am fully active...I get adequate sleep in the night and full of energy even in the afternoon. I rest a lot less and able to complete my tasks well on time.
I call bullshit on the that work doesn't feel like work no matter how many hours you work. I've worked days and nights much of my life and it has taken its toll. So what job is my higher calling?
There are some people who have a discipline problem and other people who have a socialization problem. You could cut me off from porn for 20 years and I'll still never go on a date if I don't have the social skills to assert my desires to women. This is not a discipline issue for me. I don't struggle with self control or addictions. While women may not like the thirsty guys, the man who plays it so cool he is cold is even less likely to connect with her. I lack social intelligence and experience to effectively pursue my desires.
Not going to lie, your video frusrates me. No disrespect, Casey, but I wanted to watch this video to attract women. But now youre telling me that im supposed to stop pursuing? If thats the case, should i just give up? Why bother approaching them? And to be honest, the reason why i have to have adult content is because im always alone. And now youre telling me to give it up. AND you even God into the picture which makes me more guilty and more crappy. What gives, dude?
He right i just got over dirty web sites years ago and it make sex so much better. For me and the other person. Yea it can be sexually frustrating but you body will make it happen if it needs to i didnt even know what a wet dream was untill i went that route lol. Lucky it wasnt a challange for me i just got over it and out grew it. What really fucked it up for me as one time I had a thought that what if somebody walked by and saw me doing this through the window this would look fucking stupid haha. And ever since then if I was about to go that route, I would stop myself in the middle of it and be like nah I prefer the real thing. The benefit definitely out Ways the short term gratification you think you’re getting.
hi, i stopped watching the dirty websites years ago but i started seeing escorts(real women) about once every week or two, what are your thoughts on this?
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This is real wisdom here.
And... it is causing me to deeply reflect... yet again.
Thank you.
Hey dude cool video, thanks for the inspiration. I especially enjoyed point 4. I wonder if there might be also a way to make the whole journey a little bit more fun. "God would not want that" as well as point three in my ears sound both really good, but also a bit like suppression of your needs. Or that is at least, how probably quite a few of the people on this channel are understanding it that way (cause if their self esteem is low, they tend to castigate themselves). Might there be a way for those guys to find something else - may it be god, meditation, a passionate hobby or finding out what their emotional wishes are - which could be the "quencher"? Instead of suppressing their feelings of attraction to hot women...
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A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
1:35 | 1. Cut all dirty websites
3:15 | 2. Stop lusting for women
5:40 | 3. Learn how to appreciate a woman's beauty without losing control
7:00 | 4. Understand that your thirst is not quenchable
8:35 | 5. Step into the calling you have as a man
It doesn't matter if you're 25 or 50, all these concepts still apply. I'm 50+ and trust me, they all still apply.
DAMN!!
Yep! 💯
So true 💯💯 Tbh not lusting after women in my 20s was just about the hardest thing I could do. But at 40 it’s so freeing when you realize a woman’s body is only a small piece of her and actually getting to know her is where you’ll find the true value. Especially nowadays when sex is rampant it’s so important to look for the inner beauty. So many men fall victim to looks and spend the rest of their lives regretting it! Women know this is a man’s weakness and many use it to their advantage.
Did women start chasing you after getting rid of them?
@@mikea.4477 true ting!! Dads to take time to explain this to their sons, especially in this day and age
00:01 Desexualize your brain to increase natural attraction
01:22 Cut out dirty websites to increase natural attraction and connection with women.
02:38 Cutting out pleasure leads to self-control and discipline.
03:53 Implement positive affirmation to resist temptations and stay strong
05:09 Appreciate a woman's beauty without seeking intimacy
06:20 Avoid letting pleasure lead to pain by being wise and objective in evaluating habits.
07:44 Understanding that pleasure will not lead to happiness
08:56 Stepping into your calling as a man leads to profound changes in confidence and fulfillment.
Crafted by YO BOII
Never has a statement hit home with me more than “God would not like that.” So true. If you live to give Him pleasure instead of yourself, life is amazing.
Yep - I am adopting that one too
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What is God? What do you mean by Him ?
@@buncey2536 do your research brother, pick up a bible or look online. If ur serious, I hope ur comment wasn’t sarcastic.
@@buncey2536He is an old man in the sky that you pleasure, duh
This episode should have disclaimer at the beginning "this is the most important episode I have ever created".
I agree I gave him a $10 tip I needed to hear this
Wow. Never thought the dating advice guy I listen to on RUclips would end up brining me closer to God. But I’m glad it did. Thanks Casey
He’s correct. As soon as the woman senses thirst, you can disqualify yourself. Make her chase you, you’re the prize. Not her! There are a million beautiful women out there. If you make above average income, make your health & family/friends relationships a priority…. That’s her loss if she wants to overlook u.
Women should never chase.
Thirst is necessary. Don't suppress your desires. Women are not attracted to monks and nerds. They like dirty stuff more than you will ever know
@@passionfruitpassionfruit2034they shouldn't chase the men they want? The men they want aren't thirsty, so the men shouldn't chase either.
In your older videos from 2020 and 2021 you always said that "what feels good is not necessarily good for you"..... I always live by this as a man
"To gravitate towards worldly pleasures is identical to drinking sea water.... as they get thirsty, they drink it... as they drink, they get thirsty.."
Ibn-Arabi
Islamic principles have already taught this for centuries and I am glad smart people ended up discovering through experience that It's the right path.
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Amen brother
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When you practice fasting it’ll lead to God and retaining your nut. I was practicing this towards the end of my relationship now that I’m a lone wolf again I’m going all in.💪🏽🗡️ God first then your purpose. Everything else will come to you.
Best video yet. Keep changing lives Casey Zander
This is totally true. Women also do not feel safe around a super thirsty guy.
Think about the typical single guy. He spends probably 80% of the time doing stuff to attract women or to try to get sex, instead of doing a million other things that provide real happiness. Instead, he could be travelling the world, building a six figure income, spending time with interesting people, build the best body he could possibly have, etc.
Dude! Thats 100% acurare. Happiness comes from the inside. Not from outside sources. Women, and food, and drinking... this is bullshit. Never felt happy chasing this stuff. I feel happy after reading a book, after a cold shower, after gym, after taking the trash out...
@@LuizFelipe-wo9hx For me, hiking in the mountains makes me happier than any date I have ever had.
The only purpose of a man is to bring heaven to earth. To bring the energy of the mind to the body (matter). Free will to command the mind of Father. He watches you learn or not learn the power of HIS mind.
My parents still alive, im above average in terms of health good looking guy. I work 11hours a day 6 days a week. I got a chick, had car s3x two days ago. In two days we are going to pick up strawberries.
No porn, i run everyday when free in the afternoon (5days average/week). I feel sore every single day, pain is real. I even admire myself when i put it in this context. Its true but as a 23yo male working in germany.
Guys no matter what beauty and what kind of succes happends from day to day. Most of the time i feel like crying before bed. How much work, how much time is needed to actually make little progress. Life is so fast and im sorry.
I date to marry. I run cuz i hate it, i work cuz i have to make something.
But when i lose my parents, my job, my money, my health, is it even gonna be worth living? Since its so hard now when im winning and suffering at the same time what about when i lose everything?
Im open about this, i feel like i aint alone am I?
You sound like you are very purposeful with your life, and this is good. If I may, I would ask you to check out some old-time Missionary Baptist churches in Tennessee (mine is Rocky Mound M.B. Church, we have a website) that preach the old hell fire and brimstone sermons. You can know God personally, but you have to first believe the story of Christ, and then (and this is the hard part) realize your worthlessness before God, and understand that as a human from the seed of Adam, that you are condemned already, and you are just awaiting the sentencing (hell). You have to start seeking God (on your knees with fear and trembling) and when your spirit is broken, and you can come to Him as one who is guilty and begging for mercy, and believing on him COMPLETELY (this is the other hard part), he will save your soul. It is so real that it is almost a physical sensation. You will feel absolute peace like you have never known. That indwelling Spirit never leaves you, and then you can face all the trials that life can present to you with the most powerful advocate at your side. It is then that you can put earthly things in their proper place.
Absolutely. We need a mature culture instead of this sexually focused quagmire.
This a real life cheat code.. like yes as men we look. But don’t break yo neck for every girl just make your reality about you. I purposely don’t check out women on an everyday basis. That needy energy gonna expose your vulnerability/weakness for women’s beauty. So master your own energy. You don’t EVER force a vibe.. you don’t carry convo. Just vibe. Ask questions to let her talk if anything. Women loveee to talk 😂💯
NoFap/Semen Retention in conjunction is the natural state of man
VolCels ftw.
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Eh I just did 151 days right after 109 days. Ive been having sex for the last 40 days of that 150. Bagged a dime so she got a face full of it. I feel no different. My meditation is still dialled. I'm still strong as fuck. My focus is no different. Make of that what you will.
I disagree to a degree.....I can only go 3 months max then it comes out on it's own, empty out once in a while w/o any internet but be in control, deffo not every day......get it down to once per week then aim for longer, suppression of sexuality is dangerous...........Bless..........
@@headbandassasinThis is true. After 1-2 weeks your just going to flatline your sex drive and start to have low energy. Having sex once a week or twice is needed for high testosterone males
This becomes much easier when you're 35+, thanks to the natural decrease in testosterone, albeit very little in the next 10-20 years, it's enough to make changes in your mental state. Not low, which would be unhealthy, but just a little lower than in your 20s. This is one reason many women prefer and connect better with men aged 35-50. Losing that intense drive and thirst feels like a significant weight has been lifted off your shoulders. This is one of the advantages of having lower, not low, just slightly lower testosterone levels as you age, without affecting performance, desire or anything, at least not for me. Now, when I go on dates and talk to women, I don't even worry about what comes next. Of course, sometimes the drive returns and I feel like I'm 20 again, but overall, this change has been a blessing in disguise. I'm not even sure I want to go on TRT later in life, maybe after 50.
Nah. I'm 57 and still wake up hard
This is why I HATE being in my early 20's. Fuckin hate this shit. I always knew that the minute I turn into my 30's I'll lose my super huge desire to smash hoaz. Once I can get rid of that desire so much that I'd try to always smash women, my life would be TEN FOLD better than it is now. I've calmed down on it now that I just turned 24 and relaxing on it but I hate the fact it took this long for me to FINALLY quit the shit.
Men’s T doesn’t significantly drop until well into their 70’s. If it does they are unhealthy and have other problems.
@@cornstar1253 So do I, maybe I didn't get my point across. I'm saying that a slight decrease in testosterone as you age does make a difference in the mental state and being thirsty IF you also eliminate p*rn.
@@pungisotu It starts to SLOWLY decrease little by little after 35/40 and that slow decrease coupled by eliminating p*rn does improve this mental state where you are not thirsty.
The God Given Calling thing is extremely important, too. I used to work in investment banking and made a shitload of money, but hated my work and life. I was depressed at work and depressed at home. My real calling was writing, and after I became a much lower paid author of books and articles about finance, every minute of my life has improved massively.
This is what I learned at Catholic school, no masturbation or porn allowed. It's made me a lot stronger. Great video, I see a lot of guys still give into masturbation, but it's bad to do.
Porn is a losing game. There’s no doubt about that.
Casey it has taken me 66 years to figure this out! I hope the young people are listening. I am closer to God and have a much better life because of everything you say here. It is also much easier to focus on my purpose. Maybe the best video I’ve ever heard. Thanks 🙏
In practice, as I experienced it, at least ... you have to have a non-romantic, and even non-social passion or interest you can throw yourself into for hours on in, to the point where you even forget sex itself exists. For me, it was astronomy, history, geography, and (sometimes) music; but most of all it was speculating about the great issues of our time (i.e., critical thinking and philosophy, purpose, meaning, and so forth). Pursue all those with a passion, forget about even a social life in general (not to mention forget about women), then you'll clear out so much bullshit from your mind like you won't even believe possible. Usually this has to be reacquainting yourself with passions you had pre-puberty. That's what worked for me.....(continued)...
And you know what? I'm very much fine without much of a social life (I do have some, but not that much of one). My passions and interests are my partner, always showing me something new. Philosophy (or at least my vivid imagination and speculations) are my best friend. It's definitely liberating and helped free my mind in every way imaginable. And I'm happy alone.
well, that's what you are trying to convince yourself, this is a channel how to deal with women
"god is watching" isn't really useful for atheists, but this is more true:
"what you think of others and yourself, they already know" even if it's unconscious.
When you see a good-looking woman, look the other way; don't let your mind dwell on the beauty of any woman who is not your wife. Many men have been led astray by a woman's beauty. It kindles passion as if it were fire.
Sirach 9:8
this is seriously next level type of wisdom.
No, it is all in Bible
@@Katarzyna-h2z so yes?
@@Katarzyna-h2zthat is true bro but this is in depth and helpful video
Yes it's called following your conscience..his wordless word inside us all..many shut it out with drugs sex alcohol pleasures..
Casey Z one of the few keeping it real and consistent in the manosphere. Listen up fellas
QURAN (24:30) "O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do." This quran verse is perfect for this video! Allah told us to lower our gaze and not even look or check out women! Unless she is your wife.
This video is more about addiction. I don’t entirely agree. I stopped whacking and watching porn many years ago. I hit my 40s and things stopped working as well as they used to. Now i have to watch porn and spank just to wake the thing up rather than using pills. If you do that all the time you become desensitized but on occasion it’s perfectly fine. Masculinity and manliness is fading with every generation. You can still fall in love and having meaningful relationships with mitigation. Like anything else, dont abuse it; use it as a tool.
Ill bet one of three things, either:
1- you are religious
2-you had a serious porn addiction or
3- you are a therapist of some sort.
And if its non of the above then you have no business speaking on the subject
In today’s culture there is almost no such thing as dopamine detox. Phones are a prime example. Food is another. Sugar, is 8x more addictive than cocaine and we give it to our kids as a reward. That mentality lasts your whole life. Fast food give your brain a dopamine rush. TV. It’s inescapable otherwise we’d all be bored out of our minds like monks.
Self control is key, but a little bit of almost anything wont hurt you.
This is so true on a whole new level and don't think it will go unnoticed. Women notice shit even if they don't know what they're noticing and now the word effortless Is energy. It's the shit. It's weird but hey the universe always has something new to learn. No sticks no stems no stress. Some of that real sticky icky. I might even need a bat now to beet em off me. It's a new stress and I'm having fun. Thanks C
Casey, genuine question here. Do you just not believe love exists and that it’s just Disney programming and basically all people are superficial? It’s certainly the way I’m starting to lean.
Certainly statics indicate so. More than half of all marriages end in divorce. 70+80% of all divorces are initiated by the wife. 90+% If she's college educated. Men still continue to get screwed over in court financially and emotionally especially with children are involved. Women have a higher percentage of cheating than men and will monkey branch from one man to the next and think little of it while collecting as much from a man's resources as possible. Men give and women take. The only woman who doesn't take from a man is his mother, she's a giver too. Unfortunately men think love and woman's love is about giving, it's not. Ultimately with women, it's about a man's tangible resources that she desires. It's built-in their DNA. It also means a man has to earn their desirability while a woman doesn't. Her desirability comes from her looks which she's born with. It's a dog eat dog world out there.
@@BobSebringscary stats those. Marriage is not viable in the 21st century.
You are awakening to the truth
If you notice, all romantic comedies are simps.
I have the same relationship with food!!! Best way for me to control it is to have one cheat day/week. I’ll fast the entire day and make that my only meal of the day. Yesterday I was craving junk food so I hit up the gas station for chips, trail mix & gummy bears. Got the craving out of my system and eating clean for rest of week now!
but God told us to go forth and multiply and he instilled lust into us as the driving force. didnt he?
Lust means desire, I lust to eat a sandwich. You are correct. We're not supposed to desire ANOTHER MAN'S "gynaika". The church has absolutely brainwashed nonsense in this area.
In addition you're activating and feeding a primal demon you have no idea how powerful and infinitely hungry it is, that will drag you down a rabbit hole into an abyss that the older you get the harder it is to climb out of, you want to TOTALLY phase self pleasure out in your early 20s because your life is moving fast. School work partying ect. Cause when you get older you don't have these distractions around to fight it and naturally forget it.
Let’s go Casey!!!! Thank you Jesus!
The male sex drive is heat energy onto cold energy. Heat is the action of the mind (Mind the father) slowing down to feel formation (body) Cold. Your heat energy (focus) is the prize that fuels reality.
God/Father wants company so he had sons. Real connections is to connect with the Mind. She can only submit to the Mind and then she can birth emotions.
5:00 God made me this way and He wouldn't like me to do this??
You are 100% right
This is the advise i give to my friends
don't date a guy who
is in pornography,he is sick
Don't gotta dopamine detox u need to delay gratification so when u feel like eating chips postpone it and lift some weights then eat the chips or don't eat them at all.
Magenta light is a symbol of the creeps, dude.
Lust is a sin. Men that give in to lust are weak by definition.
How exactly do you figure out your ‘God given calling’?
This is Wizard level wisdom.
Damn I needed to hear this at this very moment in my life
Jesus is King
I am trying to get rid of multiple addictions and this video appeared in the right moment. I wish I could believe in God but that's not going to work for me. I just need to think that I am letting myself and my ancestors down if I keep falling to my addictions.
Amen! Couldn’t be any more true! Thank you Casey
Bro I bought Pinkbox donuts to refill my glycogen after my workout. I ordered a 4x4 Flying Dutchman from In-n-out and passed out after. I overslept my eating window and couldn’t eat my donuts. Self discipline! Same applies to turning away from lust and porn. #Lifeexperience
often if you are going to indulge in pleasures both when you want it and don't want it the reason for me has often been a sense of meaninglessness and seeking to remove negative emotions I would highly recommend everyone ask themselves okay I don't actually want this am I using this as a way to escape a negative emotion or do i feel like I have a lack of meaning that's triggering these actions and pleasure seeking. I ask my self this and then I accept and learn to live with those emotions so I could let go hope this helps
God would not like that. Amen
I'm curious about what you believe about God. I grew up with evangelical Christianity but have deconstructed from it. What kind of a God do you believe in?
OK you need to buy vibe digital whiteboard That stores all your stuff
Uncle C,
This is The best video You've made till date.
Thanks,
Your Nephew.
Very good virtuous video. Modesty countenance chastity LONG SUFFERING. The more one follows such precepts more is added and given. The energy wants to be shot out be it lower expressions at the base or when channelled upward to the crown. The energy can be directed via controlled breathing and learning to control the sacral pump with the throat. It is extremely powerful and one must be physically fit to begin attempting this. Not for those pursuing family life or the weakened bodied or weak minded.
I agree with 98% of your stuff but I have a few problems with some of your conclusions on this one. Why would God not like masturbation but He would like fornication? Fornication is having sex with a woman that you're not married to. So it doesn't make sense. I think God would rather have us masturbate than sleep with a woman and risk her being pregnant and getting STD's and becoming one with the temple of her body. All your steps should be to attract a woman. But if you can't have a successful marriage through love then God set up an unwinnable situation and we should quit. But God believes in love and marriage as in Song of Songs. There IS love and marriage and God doesn't want us sleeping around. Hypergamy and love must be "married" together or we have an insufficient conclusion of how God designed it. Your teachings though are excellent and 90% there imho. I still am trying to figure this all out and have learned a ton from you.
Next, why is it OK for a man who's married to have sex and have pleasure but a single man has to completely withdraw from pleasure? Is a married sexually active man weak? No. So why is a single man have to retain his seed at all costs? Yes, there is pain with pleasure but the flip side of masterbating is not the end of the world. Otherwise it would have to apply to married men when they have sex with their wives. And sex in marriage is highly encouraged by God. The reason why no fap is good for single guys as they should have their penis in off-mode because masterbating and fornicating is a sin. But we shouldn't villianize single guys when married guys can sow their seed anytime they want. Its about self control not total extreme denial. Married guys should have control and so should single guys but the women dont pick up on total extreme denial as much as self control in general. Otherwise they would want guys that never thought about sex ever and the human race would be terminated. Just some thoughts.
Title: 'desexualize your brain', then has a whole array of videos with click bait images sexualizing women. Content is good no doubt, but some I'm sure are being played.
It may work in a completely unexpected way. You may lose interest to women. And they finnaly will lose interest towards you… if there was interest in the first place. You may find youself in a state “you dont give a shit about them - they dont give a shit about you”. Draw. But there is a big BUT. It’s way better than fruitlessly chaising them for years.
Not an excuse of course, but I am on TRT and man... it is hard to restrain... actually you have to become "asexual" for a while, right?
So God's into voyeurism? Makes sense because he's always watching.
While being a porn addict I had to take a full sleep at night and I used to wake up very late. I also had to take rest in the afternoon which affected my capability to work effectively. After quitting porn and corn...yes I hate corn...now I am fully active...I get adequate sleep in the night and full of energy even in the afternoon. I rest a lot less and able to complete my tasks well on time.
I follow what you say but this is BS I changed my life by just getting high Testosterone! And you do whatever it takes.
I call bullshit on the that work doesn't feel like work no matter how many hours you work. I've worked days and nights much of my life and it has taken its toll. So what job is my higher calling?
There are some people who have a discipline problem and other people who have a socialization problem. You could cut me off from porn for 20 years and I'll still never go on a date if I don't have the social skills to assert my desires to women. This is not a discipline issue for me. I don't struggle with self control or addictions. While women may not like the thirsty guys, the man who plays it so cool he is cold is even less likely to connect with her. I lack social intelligence and experience to effectively pursue my desires.
This ie called jihad in Islam it means to strive or struggle to fight against their desires you speak just like a practising muslim would.
Not going to lie, your video frusrates me. No disrespect, Casey, but I wanted to watch this video to attract women. But now youre telling me that im supposed to stop pursuing? If thats the case, should i just give up? Why bother approaching them? And to be honest, the reason why i have to have adult content is because im always alone. And now youre telling me to give it up. AND you even God into the picture which makes me more guilty and more crappy. What gives, dude?
100 💯 I posted and IG with the scripture references in the HM private group.
When life isn’t going your way
You MUST tap in! Life is a game your life isn’t going to change unless you do the inner work!
He right i just got over dirty web sites years ago and it make sex so much better. For me and the other person. Yea it can be sexually frustrating but you body will make it happen if it needs to i didnt even know what a wet dream was untill i went that route lol. Lucky it wasnt a challange for me i just got over it and out grew it. What really fucked it up for me as one time I had a thought that what if somebody walked by and saw me doing this through the window this would look fucking stupid haha. And ever since then if I was about to go that route, I would stop myself in the middle of it and be like nah I prefer the real thing. The benefit definitely out Ways the short term gratification you think you’re getting.
A pure gem of a video
sounds logic and true. however if one is not supposed to look at a charming pretty woman, how should one interact with her, if he is interested?
hi, i stopped watching the dirty websites years ago but i started seeing escorts(real women) about once every week or two, what are your thoughts on this?
God Bless you Uncle C🫡✝️🙏
This is one complete and perfect clip!!💥
Not not to toot my own horn.But it sounds like you're describing me 😎😅🔥
MAC MILLER is a dopamine guru.....
So if you win the lottery guys you won’t be happy 😂😂😂😂😂
First Hey Casey your videos have completely changed my life and it's perspective looking forward to purchase your course next month with my first Salary next month Thanks a lot brother!!!
That was a mighty, MIGHTY video!👏🏾
Shit. Pleasure is part of the happiness that's my life.
This is probably the worst video you have ever made.
Thanks for all videos😊
AlAnon steps might have some parallels.
Guys need to learn. Guys need training.
This is true Alpha philosophy💯💯💯💯
this was actually a great video 💯👑.
Another Snake Oil Salesman...
He tells no lies here. I know from experience
Right on. One is too many and a 1000 never enough.
I feel like you stole this from mantalks
Im a atheist o say dont do its wrong be a better man
Thank you Casey you’re a good man
God will not like that. I like that
"When you pleasure yourself artificially...." ugh that even sounds vile.....thanks for the paradigm shift!
5:20 wow he's in the friendzone