Yup!!! Dunno why anyone wants to be with a player. Its dangerous to preach that toxic shit. You should want someone more mature. Players are called players for several solid reasons
A player will always cheat down the line, you can act like an interesting mysterious queen and have them fall in love but its the nature of the beast, their ego will still want attention from other women.
@@Nimeshaa Why bother changing for him to fall in love with you if you know he is a player? Why waste your time! Just move on and find someone that is respectable.
Trust me you do NOT want a player to fall in love with you. Once that initial high wears off for him, he will play you. Chasing women is something much much deeper than you and his love for you. If you come across a player, do yourself a favor and save years of your life by moving on. It’s not worth it at all, doesn’t matter how attractive or any good qualities you see in him. Your self respect, mental health and physical health (he can literally give you an STI) is worth 1000x more.
I'm gonna be that person and say: don't waste your time or breath chasing after a player. I dealt with them my whole life. Not worth you dating or being in relationship with 😊
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My mindset was just like you I dated him and played as he played with me but I was all drained mentally and emotionally injured. Later I manifested a mature guy who now respect me and very loving. You become what you think. So stop playing around instead focus on gour growth and loving yourself.
You spoke well... Game damage mental health to the both.. Game is an invented way in which ones with interior motive use in getting what they want.. Desist from those relationships
Can't believe I did all of that unintentionally😂without anyone telling me all of this cause I used to be too busy studying and being indulged with my other work and hobbies... it's all about being YOU and focusing on YOU.
Players are weak, low, vibrational, and negative energy if its easy, you should not want its gross that is childish and immature A balanced, high vibrational man is a manogomous man who will say no and stay respectful and has manors husband material or manogomous relationship material
If you play player, you will became player. And you can play for rest of his life. I guess that this work just for People who wants to be actors. I am not interested in players and they still love me and want me. Because best way is ignoring them.❤😂
I found it interesting that she said " this is about players and NOT good men"... Ladies, why is anyone interested in a man who you can clearly tell is not a good man? The world is full of narcissists and psychopaths and if one can identify them early then the best policy is to avoid them.. What is the end goal of this game?
Exactly my thoughts. The moment I notice he is a player I block them altogether. No explanations, nothing (don't need to prove who I am to someone who is interested to play with me) I don't want to waste time and energy on them even if it is to taste their own medicine. I don't want to have such people part of my reality. I am interested in finding a good man, that's my focus.
I think we should play the player because once a while a player came into my life and he played with my feelings I was so innocent to understand these minds game at that time but after getting hurt break I realized I was played and he just wants to use me And now I faded feelings for him in my heart but I also play and now he treats me better way and respects me more than before.. I'm enjoying this
In my most recent case - he had that rizz and that energy that just sucked me in and drained my DRY! I could see it and knew what was happening, but I couldn't do ANYTHING about it. And when he got tired of playing with me, he dumped me - and here I am, once again, in shattered pieces! Yep, I know my value and my worth and all of that. Typically, decent self esteem. I don't know wtf happened!
@@SB-tc2jr Trauma Bonding and you probably have CPTSD like many of us if this is a pattern. These people are predators and they use a common play book. Sometimes you have to tell your heart that the brain is in charge. Its hard as they are charming devils.
@@bethaminkhan4951 CPTSD... I knew about PTSD, but not complex. So, ya. That probably fits! And you are absolutely right "charming devil"... TRUTH! Thing about it is, I KNEW things - but it's like I couldn't make myself make right choices! I felt like I was under a damn spell !!! Seriously!!!
honey move on and heal . you will attract a good man . in my pov this is the perfect mindset for women who waana attract players only. No hate to nimeeshaaa i adore her.
Truly, all that she says is very tiring. Literally, just leave him. What she does is reverse desperation because she is still spending all of her energy pretending to be a "boss bitch." At the end of the day.....she still doesn't have a good man. Lol! I wouldn't even ever give "players" the time of day to "play" with me to begin with. Only women who want to "play a game" do all of this extra stuff which still requires a lot of energy....which also has a sense of desperation to it.
Ladies don't play the players don't waste your time, life is short,make good with the worthy one, i would strongly say don't settle for players in your lives, life is beautiful when you get a man who is decent yet full of values, love, care and respect. Decent men are the most attractive cuz they are not playing with people's hearts❤ and who plays hence called as player so decide would you fall for such player who lacks value system and life !??
Girl yes...the satisfaction of hurting a player was sooo good! I did exactly everything he did to me...became busy and treated him hot and cold. I didn't give him any validations (act like whatever and was not impressed) Kept the conversation short and went on for days without replying back. Well he came back a year later....chased me at a grocery store for my number again. Texted me and I left him on read did not even bother replying back 😂 he will forever be in the nas line. He thought he got me again but nope he will never get that chance ever again hahaha
If the guy is a player and you drag a date and you try to make him jelous his idea of you is going to change and since is a player he will move on as easy as 1234
If a man is acting like a player towards you he doesn’t want you. Women can come up with a full list on “how to play a player” but can’t use common sense/discernment to move on from a man that doesn’t like you like that so you don’t get your feelings hurt. People need to heal before they date others so this man vs. women bs can end. Enough is enough already.
Players are insecure . Becoming a player to play a player , to prove a point, is insecure . If someone plays you , draw it up to experience , explore how you played a part in it , for example not having strong boundaries, jumping in too soon and use the experience to grow and learn from . Good luck ladies , players gonna play but you can learn to identify them and run the fuck away 😉
Is not all about playing someone , it also taught me to be hard to get not just seem Hard to get... respect yourself and be busy building your personality and your life not just play like your busy
Ladies, this video applies to most men that you are interested in. Not just players. Sadly we do have to do all this stuff to a certain degree for most men in the early stages especially
I did this to one boy but now he is playing back.. i didn't intentionally did it. I was not so sure of his feelings towards me.. finally im fallen into tht i think now i deserve better than him in all ways and he deserve better than me too so im trying my best to move on soon.. sumtimes i cant resist the urge to talk with him.. i must prioritize my self respect self dignity self discipline self love for which he was obsessed towards me..
❤Honestly, playing a player is foolsgold, because somewhere along the line their wanderlust sparks a flame and they'll be cheating on you. You cannot hold onto a player, even when they purport to love you.
Nimesha plz start making vidios on how to be high value women , Mostly young girls dont know what to do or what not to do how to present herself in front , so they can understand by your experience because you explain so good
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The video didn't ask u to date honey leave and don't watch. Sometimes avoiding doesn't work for ppl if it works for u, good for u, u may not watch the vid bye
Not good content for young girls. Once you HEAL and cultivate self love you won’t DARE want to deals with a player, seek his love or validation. You’d have too much self respect to tolerate it. Move on
i hve always gotten played by many so called MEN bcuz of my caring nature. So, tq for this i just got played a few days back again. SO TQSM for this Nimesha.
it feels so horrible... especially bc you have good intentions with them and see who they are behind that facade they put up. But don't be sad queen! good people attract good people, i bet there's someone who will know how to cherish you right from the start
I hope this works ! 😭 I feel like I'm too nice for my own good sometimes and want to be sexy & more mysterious, not look desperate. Thanks for the tips ;)
This video just shows how out of egocentrism You Are interested in the player You are always being played by being interested in "beating him" That's what happens when to narcissistic people meet...you and him❤
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Looks like lot of hard work for just a guy (who is a player). I would ignore him and be with a normal man and focus on my work. Nobody can play this game for more than a year or 2.
The thing is that the handsome ones always turns out to be players...😂BTW loved your video..these are real life tricks as we all have been once through it..and you were so accurate that I went back in my memory lane and discovered that I was really being played 😂...but still you know man come man go ...what stays is us and our beloved Nimesha❤
I don't really understand with these girls in the comment section . I mean like bro u searched for this literally and u got it! 😂 Listen to this and leave but they are like oh no ! Im not like that or blah blah ! No body cares !!! I REPEAT NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS GURLL ! So just play them back and chill man ! 💅 This gurl right here in the video is giving u some real good life advice bro so take it !❤
It's funny I do all this stuff naturally. I'm not a player though, just highly selective. And I humble men and if I spot a player, I do these things out of self-protection. They always end up thinking I'm playing "hard to get" not realizing there's no game. I am hard to get. If I spot bullshit, you can't have me. I had one guy write all over the front of my apartment sidewalk. Guys have cried to me, over me, I've gotten love letters, one guy wrote me a song and put it on youtube. Guess what? If you're a player, no thank you 🙏🏽 The pulling away is very real, not a mind game.
If Your not emotionally attached with the guy and wana play games, mirror his actions. Other only best option would be be busy in life, make yourself a priority, have a hobby. If he comes back dont give him that 2nd chance .
A player always have a pretty big ego and they always think they can get anyone they want and they become furious if they face rejection of any kind . Most of them become obsessed when they're interested but you don't give in (most of them like to chase) . Once you know they're obsessed and confess their feelings for you turn them down in the sweetest way (in a way they can't spread s*it bout you nor they can blame you . If they guilt drip you do it back to them in an innocent way so that they won't feel like they succeeded. Just act like you dk anything what they mean and look at how they turn out 🤭 and darling don't make the mistake of falling for a player because once a player is always a player. Take care pookies ❤️
Really good content and it works on boys, boys who are on social media (Instagram etc). This doesn't work on a man who has emotional intelligence. Let me tell you this as a psychologist: This is the type of behaviour which leads to break up even in an healthy relationship. The best way to deal with those boys is to not give attention (if you are not in a relationship) because they are clearly there on a mission. If you are in a relationship please dont use the ignoring method. Unless you want them walking away from you, making you feel like you are being abandoned. Instead set boundaries, talk it out and make it clear that you can choose to not deal with their shit anytime, remind them of their actions and let them know you are aware of it and the decision remains in your hand. Lastly learn to say no to things which you dont like and ASK QUESTIONS IF ANYTHING DOESN'T MAKES SENSE BUT YET YOU ARE STARTING TO BELIEVE IT!!!. They hate being exposed and getting caught, ask the right questions calmly you will watch them giving explanation even before you ask them to. Good luck stay safe out there, peace out
With The Rest She Said I Agree, But Need To Be Naturally Not Faked, And I Would Change The Focus Point To: Ppl Don’t Understand How It Fees Until It’s Done Ro Them, Ask Your “Player” How It Feels? Do You Like The Feeling? NO.. So Don’t Do It! Because I’m Just Following The Rules Of Your Game! So Example: If He Date More Woman You Date Amore Man, If He Don’t Like It Let Him Know He Is Setting Up The Rules, Tell Him, Well Then If I Can’t You Can’t, If You Can I Can. Simple As That. I Always Add: I’m Not A Player, So Soon Or Later This Is Going To Be Over, So If You Want Me Start Changing Or Move From My Way! With A Very Sweet Voice And A Smile.
I find some value in this even if I would avoid saying that I want to go back to hurt people who hurt me (cause sometimes it's not worth it) BUT, these are tools of protection, as well. People in the comments like "I won't waste my time playing with a player"... yeah yeah, really? So many times you'll run into these fuckers and won't even notice how attracted you are to them until you're already lost. If you never think on how to respond to these kind of men you'll probably just get run over by them. Humbling these people is GREAT. Not to get them. Not to date them. Most of this is just very much needed protection from men who just don't care about you at all. Just DON'T do it to get love. Learn some tools for when you realize they're trying to do it to you and don't waste too much time. Don't get fooled. Learn.
This woman gives the perfect reason for why the dating gets even more f*** up. Why keep playing games, giving revenge to the fuckboy etc, instead of using your time wisely and looking for a man that treats you good? Think twice before you listen to that woman.
great advice. love you. this has always worked for me. i am naturally detached and mysterious. hard to get rid of them. with that being said why work so hard to win the heaet of a player. i think bre yourself so the right one will stop by you and hold your hand.
Omg what you said was legit and so true, and you are so beautiful and inspiring btw, thanks for posting this video for the all of us to watch, this honestly truly helpful and really good advice! ❤️
It makes one chase unless/until that one gets tired or bored with the chase and it does happen regardless to how handsome the guy is or how long you've had a crush...feelings change.
When you know they like you and they are a player ,throw them on the back burner and let them work for your attention. Be indifferent. They are on your time not the other way around. Takes a lot of confidence and self awareness to deal with these players . You don't need their validation, they need yours. Good video ❤
Well for me.,a player has also a chance to be a better person when they've met a good and a unique woman in their lives to inspire and motivate them because,a player or a narcissist man is able to change their behaviour by a empath woman. Because, they are lack of empathy in their childhood maybe from their parents or family member, which is they're finding someone who can understand and love them unconditionally. that's why they're behaving like this.. perhaps,if they were met someone who suitable for them, they'll be grateful towards that someone as well as their partners in life for good.
What a waste of time - life is too short to play stupid games. Walk away and reconsider the type of man you go for. Cheaters will cheat until they are too incapacitated to do so.
This video 😂😂😂is so real.Some to soft in the field that's way you keep getting 🏑. Take a breath and hold deep every time you think you are being submissive 🧐😏😂❤🎉
Omg girl you are too right.. before watching this video i understand 3-4 things about players and now i know it all .. can't thank you enough for this. Take love ❤
The saddest thing is WE PLAY OURSELVES. We know from the get go THEY’RE PLAYERS but we invest ourselves. I got tired and blocked him, I know he didn’t expect it, he thought I would always be there and he could do whatever the f*ck he wanted.
I always do this NOT on purpose. It is true they fall. But it is because I have disorganized attachment style. I am always hot and cold. Still I have been played too.
Theyll waste their time and effort with players instead of moving on and putting time and effort on good men. Ladies, move on and dont waste your time on the players unless that is your intention of spending time playing games and trying to outplay a player. Spend your time wisely
I always play with boy in my life. Trust me it is so fun ! There is nothing wrong here ! Why man can play with us so why not us ? I alway ignore them and don't even give them my attention. I just focus on me not them . I let them know my door will always open if they want to walk away. Sadly none of them want to leave. Some time I out grow them after a while. I am the one who let go as I realised my self worth. Great video ❤❤❤
I do this unintentionally, i don't knows how it works, Now I understand that why this popular guy in my class only wants me and ignoring other girls who are always try to be near him.
It's absolutely funny how each time players came to play n left with tears without me fighting even 😅😅, okay, the other way, I left them crying at their corners 😢😢😂.... serves these aholes right... but my advice: if u aren't a player like I'm not, make them feel how u can change from the most vulnerable n loving to the strongest n coldest woman they have ever known, show them their mirror in the most sophisticated way, tell them they don't worth you n just leave (subtly they know its kicking their a** because they chose the wrong woman to mess with) ........ Nothing hurts these players more than to be dropped like a hot cake n trust me, either u want them or not, they will try all means to get u back n 'sometimes' realizing their mistakes taking actions to make things better ......
Creating Illusions might get him but it wont keep him. Respectfully and calmly call out red flags. Being aggressive will cause him to become defensive and he wont hear your message. Relationships need to be 50/50. If he runs or continues move TF on!!
Oh my gosh... I'm a thousand years old and you're only five! But girl - I love your style! I wish I'd seen this video a couple months ago - could have saved me a lot of agony! WHERE WERE YOU! lol... I really needed this then, but duly noted for future which I pray I never need it... but if I doooooo.... lol
Yes!! I’m agree!! You should be completely to yourself…you are whole by yourself for no one can’t play you! You can play them hardly 😂😂 that’s why I got the ring 💍 he’s Fallin inlove madly deeply to me❤️
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Best thing to do when meeting player is step away, cut contact and move on to find true love where theres no games.
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There is nothing like true love honey
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You not gonna know who a player is a who a lover boy is honey 😂
@@kareemakeshwaniYou can bc just like men, women also see patterns.
My mental health is more important than dealing with a player if i spot u.
Yup!!! Dunno why anyone wants to be with a player. Its dangerous to preach that toxic shit. You should want someone more mature. Players are called players for several solid reasons
Exactly, this chick is a psychopath playing with fire. Just don’t date players ……
Bravo ❤
I agree @@saijanaswamy7210
The purpose behind this video is to show how you can play them so they can get a taste of their own medicine. Its not for you to date them lol.
A player will always cheat down the line, you can act like an interesting mysterious queen and have them fall in love but its the nature of the beast, their ego will still want attention from other women.
Exactly 👏🏽
That’s why the the video is titled PLAY the player, not MARRY the player.
@@Nimeshaa Why bother changing for him to fall in love with you if you know he is a player? Why waste your time! Just move on and find someone that is respectable.
@@danielle912but they say men are only as faithful as their options so unless they are very unattractive they all cheat.
@@peekaboots01 Who are they? I never heard of this. its not true whoever made that one up.
Trust me you do NOT want a player to fall in love with you. Once that initial high wears off for him, he will play you. Chasing women is something much much deeper than you and his love for you. If you come across a player, do yourself a favor and save years of your life by moving on. It’s not worth it at all, doesn’t matter how attractive or any good qualities you see in him. Your self respect, mental health and physical health (he can literally give you an STI) is worth 1000x more.
The player is not worth the energy. Just ignore him, and forget about him.
True. Its really rade for him to change unless he sees some value or like the girl a lot. There must be some spark.
@nikolinajakic9037 Why even try to change someone? Just focus on the ones that act properly.
I'm gonna be that person and say: don't waste your time or breath chasing after a player. I dealt with them my whole life. Not worth you dating or being in relationship with 😊
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My mindset was just like you I dated him and played as he played with me but I was all drained mentally and emotionally injured. Later I manifested a mature guy who now respect me and very loving. You become what you think. So stop playing around instead focus on gour growth and loving yourself.
You spoke well... Game damage mental health to the both.. Game is an invented way in which ones with interior motive use in getting what they want.. Desist from those relationships
My mental health is more important
i agree whole heartedly, but you didnt manifest a better guy. you just chose to date him instead of a player.
Can't believe I did all of that unintentionally😂without anyone telling me all of this cause I used to be too busy studying and being indulged with my other work and hobbies... it's all about being YOU and focusing on YOU.
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Yes! Be open but not pressed. If a guy suggests a date that doesn’t interest you, stay home.
Exactly ❤️❤️❤️
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Yes😂 Exactly that's me🙌
Players only love you when they’re playing. Players bore too easily because they themselves are boring. Stop wasting your time with these boy toys.
Players are weak, low, vibrational, and negative energy if its easy, you should not want its gross that is childish and immature A balanced, high vibrational man is a manogomous man who will say no and stay respectful and has manors husband material or manogomous relationship material
That’s right it’s always very dense energy when games are involved…
Totally wasted of time a pure toddler.
absolutely.
If you play player, you will became player. And you can play for rest of his life. I guess that this work just for People who wants to be actors. I am not interested in players and they still love me and want me. Because best way is ignoring them.❤😂
I found it interesting that she said " this is about players and NOT good men"... Ladies, why is anyone interested in a man who you can clearly tell is not a good man? The world is full of narcissists and psychopaths and if one can identify them early then the best policy is to avoid them.. What is the end goal of this game?
Exactly my thoughts. The moment I notice he is a player I block them altogether. No explanations, nothing (don't need to prove who I am to someone who is interested to play with me) I don't want to waste time and energy on them even if it is to taste their own medicine. I don't want to have such people part of my reality.
I am interested in finding a good man, that's my focus.
I think we should play the player because once a while a player came into my life and he played with my feelings I was so innocent to understand these minds game at that time but after getting hurt break I realized I was played and he just wants to use me
And now I faded feelings for him in my heart but I also play and now he treats me better way and respects me more than before.. I'm enjoying this
In my most recent case - he had that rizz and that energy that just sucked me in and drained my DRY! I could see it and knew what was happening, but I couldn't do ANYTHING about it. And when he got tired of playing with me, he dumped me - and here I am, once again, in shattered pieces! Yep, I know my value and my worth and all of that. Typically, decent self esteem. I don't know wtf happened!
@@SB-tc2jr Trauma Bonding and you probably have CPTSD like many of us if this is a pattern. These people are predators and they use a common play book. Sometimes you have to tell your heart that the brain is in charge. Its hard as they are charming devils.
@@bethaminkhan4951 CPTSD... I knew about PTSD, but not complex. So, ya. That probably fits! And you are absolutely right "charming devil"... TRUTH! Thing about it is, I KNEW things - but it's like I couldn't make myself make right choices! I felt like I was under a damn spell !!! Seriously!!!
honey move on and heal . you will attract a good man . in my pov this is the perfect mindset for women who waana attract players only. No hate to nimeeshaaa i adore her.
Truly, all that she says is very tiring. Literally, just leave him. What she does is reverse desperation because she is still spending all of her energy pretending to be a "boss bitch." At the end of the day.....she still doesn't have a good man. Lol! I wouldn't even ever give "players" the time of day to "play" with me to begin with. Only women who want to "play a game" do all of this extra stuff which still requires a lot of energy....which also has a sense of desperation to it.
Ladies don't play the players don't waste your time, life is short,make good with the worthy one, i would strongly say don't settle for players in your lives, life is beautiful when you get a man who is decent yet full of values, love, care and respect. Decent men are the most attractive cuz they are not playing with people's hearts❤ and who plays hence called as player so decide would you fall for such player who lacks value system and life !??
Girl yes...the satisfaction of hurting a player was sooo good! I did exactly everything he did to me...became busy and treated him hot and cold. I didn't give him any validations (act like whatever and was not impressed) Kept the conversation short and went on for days without replying back. Well he came back a year later....chased me at a grocery store for my number again. Texted me and I left him on read did not even bother replying back 😂 he will forever be in the nas line. He thought he got me again but nope he will never get that chance ever again hahaha
Luv that for you!
Hahahahahahah girlll i did the same and he is super angry at me now
What was his reaction?
😅😅😅😅 love this
If the guy is a player and you drag a date and you try to make him jelous his idea of you is going to change and since is a player he will move on as easy as 1234
If a man is acting like a player towards you he doesn’t want you. Women can come up with a full list on “how to play a player” but can’t use common sense/discernment to move on from a man that doesn’t like you like that so you don’t get your feelings hurt. People need to heal before they date others so this man vs. women bs can end. Enough is enough already.
Agreed! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
you are so intelligent an grounded
Right
Players are insecure .
Becoming a player to play a player , to prove a point, is insecure .
If someone plays you , draw it up to experience , explore how you played a part in it , for example not having strong boundaries, jumping in too soon and use the experience to grow and learn from .
Good luck ladies , players gonna play but you can learn to identify them and run the fuck away 😉
I loved the way she casually carried on applying her lipstick which being a girl bestie who is ready for us to give advices.
Love you Nimeshaa.🙌💫
Is not all about playing someone , it also taught me to be hard to get not just seem Hard to get... respect yourself and be busy building your personality and your life not just play like your busy
Ladies, this video applies to most men that you are interested in. Not just players. Sadly we do have to do all this stuff to a certain degree for most men in the early stages especially
Player will never fall in love with you, save your energy and leave his playground
Agreed
I did this to one boy but now he is playing back.. i didn't intentionally did it. I was not so sure of his feelings towards me.. finally im fallen into tht i think now i deserve better than him in all ways and he deserve better than me too so im trying my best to move on soon.. sumtimes i cant resist the urge to talk with him.. i must prioritize my self respect self dignity self discipline self love for which he was obsessed towards me..
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Good girl
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❤Honestly, playing a player is foolsgold, because somewhere along the line their wanderlust sparks a flame and they'll be cheating on you. You cannot hold onto a player, even when they purport to love you.
Nimesha plz start making vidios on how to be high value women , Mostly young girls dont know what to do or what not to do how to present herself in front , so they can understand by your experience because you explain so good
Gurl, don't worry I've got you!
You go to the search bar and type , "How to really be high valued women by tam kaur". Trust me on this, she's like an elder sister who's helping us. Her videos are the best!
You don't play a player, you avoid them.
The video didn't ask u to date honey leave and don't watch. Sometimes avoiding doesn't work for ppl if it works for u, good for u, u may not watch the vid bye
Amazing comment. They are usually selfish master manipulators. Like 99% of the time.
Is true. Just ghost them and no contact. They worry and cannot wait to see you.
Not good content for young girls. Once you HEAL and cultivate self love you won’t DARE want to deals with a player, seek his love or validation. You’d have too much self respect to tolerate it. Move on
Thank you
This is true ❤
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Totally agree. This title made me sick to my stomach
A player like this will end up alone for sure ....a true lover
doesn't understand and tolerate such nonsense
i hve always gotten played by many so called MEN bcuz of my caring nature. So, tq for this i just got played a few days back again. SO TQSM for this Nimesha.
it feels so horrible... especially bc you have good intentions with them and see who they are behind that facade they put up. But don't be sad queen! good people attract good people, i bet there's someone who will know how to cherish you right from the start
I hope this works ! 😭 I feel like I'm too nice for my own good sometimes and want to be sexy & more mysterious, not look desperate. Thanks for the tips ;)
This video just shows how out of egocentrism You Are interested in the player
You are always being played by being interested in "beating him"
That's what happens when to narcissistic people meet...you and him❤
😂 true
Yoooo...your videos are frr a source of practicality which we need to survive in this harsh world...since many days due to final exams I was unable to watch your videos but Imma binge all after my exams hehe...lovee uhhh frrr
Looks like lot of hard work for just a guy (who is a player). I would ignore him and be with a normal man and focus on my work. Nobody can play this game for more than a year or 2.
It just happened to me and I am no spring chicken - he has been doing this for 25 years.
Gurl, u should start a podcast ❤🎉
girl is so beautiful, following you since 2020 and i love growing with you and seeing you glowup and get more beautiful everydayy ❤
You young girls need to understand that following this advice will only strip away your mental well-being. Don't play the games. Find mature love.
The thing is that the handsome ones always turns out to be players...😂BTW loved your video..these are real life tricks as we all have been once through it..and you were so accurate that I went back in my memory lane and discovered that I was really being played 😂...but still you know man come man go ...what stays is us and our beloved Nimesha❤
What about rule no. 6 don’t sleep with him too early in the relationship. Don’t give up the goods fast!!
Or do
He’s not worth a relationship
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as a player myself. She’s get it
I need this topic a one video for every week nimesha because you are only healed me for played by every boy 😢😢😢
I was doing at first then become emotional now back to me again. ❤
No more played by anyone, prevention is better than cure. 😊
Playing the player to fall in love with you only makes then want to get close to you to understand your charm not to genuinely love you.
I don't really understand with these girls in the comment section . I mean like bro u searched for this literally and u got it! 😂 Listen to this and leave but they are like oh no ! Im not like that or blah blah ! No body cares !!! I REPEAT NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS GURLL ! So just play them back and chill man ! 💅 This gurl right here in the video is giving u some real good life advice bro so take it !❤
It's funny I do all this stuff naturally. I'm not a player though, just highly selective.
And I humble men and if I spot a player, I do these things out of self-protection.
They always end up thinking I'm playing "hard to get" not realizing there's no game. I am hard to get.
If I spot bullshit, you can't have me.
I had one guy write all over the front of my apartment sidewalk. Guys have cried to me, over me, I've gotten love letters, one guy wrote me a song and put it on youtube.
Guess what? If you're a player, no thank you 🙏🏽
The pulling away is very real, not a mind game.
A player can't fall for you. It's a player. A player playing with another player will give you a game.
Remove yourself from the game....then there's no game. It takes two to play..
@@priyamadhoo7266 Don't worry for me, I am neither masochist nor stupid. I don't feel concerned by this video.
Yes girl u spot on right. And I love ur hair
Ladies it applies for all men even the one you’re saying healthy and mature. Trust me the moment you’re too available he’s gone.
If you concerned about playing the player then you have to discover maturity.
No desperate energy
Be interesting and mysterious
Do not be overly available.. Just drag him
Humble game
Hot nd cold behaviour
If Your not emotionally attached with the guy and wana play games, mirror his actions.
Other only best option would be be busy in life, make yourself a priority, have a hobby.
If he comes back dont give him that 2nd chance .
A player always have a pretty big ego and they always think they can get anyone they want and they become furious if they face rejection of any kind . Most of them become obsessed when they're interested but you don't give in (most of them like to chase) . Once you know they're obsessed and confess their feelings for you turn them down in the sweetest way (in a way they can't spread s*it bout you nor they can blame you . If they guilt drip you do it back to them in an innocent way so that they won't feel like they succeeded. Just act like you dk anything what they mean and look at how they turn out 🤭 and darling don't make the mistake of falling for a player because once a player is always a player. Take care pookies ❤️
Really good content and it works on boys, boys who are on social media (Instagram etc). This doesn't work on a man who has emotional intelligence.
Let me tell you this as a psychologist: This is the type of behaviour which leads to break up even in an healthy relationship.
The best way to deal with those boys is to not give attention (if you are not in a relationship) because they are clearly there on a mission.
If you are in a relationship please dont use the ignoring method. Unless you want them walking away from you, making you feel like you are being abandoned. Instead set boundaries, talk it out and make it clear that you can choose to not deal with their shit anytime, remind them of their actions and let them know you are aware of it and the decision remains in your hand.
Lastly learn to say no to things which you dont like and ASK QUESTIONS IF ANYTHING DOESN'T MAKES SENSE BUT YET YOU ARE STARTING TO BELIEVE IT!!!.
They hate being exposed and getting caught, ask the right questions calmly you will watch them giving explanation even before you ask them to.
Good luck stay safe out there, peace out
ı really feel like playing hot and cold is toxic
With The Rest She Said I Agree, But Need To Be Naturally Not Faked, And I Would Change The Focus Point To: Ppl Don’t Understand How It Fees Until It’s Done Ro Them, Ask Your “Player” How It Feels? Do You Like The Feeling? NO.. So Don’t Do It! Because I’m Just Following The Rules Of Your Game! So Example: If He Date More Woman You Date Amore Man, If He Don’t Like It Let Him Know He Is Setting Up The Rules, Tell Him, Well Then If I Can’t You Can’t, If You Can I Can. Simple As That. I Always Add: I’m Not A Player, So Soon Or Later This Is Going To Be Over, So If You Want Me Start Changing Or Move From My Way! With A Very Sweet Voice And A Smile.
you’re like the older sister I’ve always wanted ❤️
I find some value in this even if I would avoid saying that I want to go back to hurt people who hurt me (cause sometimes it's not worth it) BUT, these are tools of protection, as well. People in the comments like "I won't waste my time playing with a player"... yeah yeah, really? So many times you'll run into these fuckers and won't even notice how attracted you are to them until you're already lost. If you never think on how to respond to these kind of men you'll probably just get run over by them. Humbling these people is GREAT. Not to get them. Not to date them. Most of this is just very much needed protection from men who just don't care about you at all. Just DON'T do it to get love. Learn some tools for when you realize they're trying to do it to you and don't waste too much time. Don't get fooled. Learn.
everything ur saying its soo true, Thank you!❤
I think I needed this 😂 gotta win this game gurllll
How is your results after 7 months
Great video queen! Agree with all your points!!!!
This woman gives the perfect reason for why the dating gets even more f*** up. Why keep playing games, giving revenge to the fuckboy etc, instead of using your time wisely and looking for a man that treats you good? Think twice before you listen to that woman.
"The guy you’re thinking about right now “ 😂
great advice. love you. this has always worked for me. i am naturally detached and mysterious. hard to get rid of them. with that being said why work so hard to win the heaet of a player. i think bre yourself so the right one will stop by you and hold your hand.
tHANK YOU Nimmie.....your advise is 100% true..LOve u so much
Omg what you said was legit and so true, and you are so beautiful and inspiring btw, thanks for posting this video for the all of us to watch, this honestly truly helpful and really good advice! ❤️
Wow this is soo amazing, thankyou a whole lot Nimeshaa! Even am gonna be a smartie girl like you and have the time of my life! ❤🎉🥳😎
U looking sooo.. ahh i have no words to explain how u are lookin.. and u are literally giving so much more positive vibe todayyyyy!!!
The best way to play a player is BLOCKKKK 🛑
youre my fav youtuber!!! love ya
It makes one chase unless/until that one gets tired or bored with the chase and it does happen regardless to how handsome the guy is or how long you've had a crush...feelings change.
If you're the right person for him, he will fall in love with you. If not, he will never fall in love with you.
When you know they like you and they are a player ,throw them on the back burner and let them work for your attention. Be indifferent. They are on your time not the other way around. Takes a lot of confidence and self awareness to deal with these players . You don't need their validation, they need yours. Good video ❤
Absolutely wonderful saying and every point is so true... it's a real fact that many of them are play with girls emotion
Well for me.,a player has also a chance to be a better person when they've met a good and a unique woman in their lives to inspire and motivate them because,a player or a narcissist man is able to change their behaviour by a empath woman. Because, they are lack of empathy in their childhood maybe from their parents or family member, which is they're finding someone who can understand and love them unconditionally. that's why they're behaving like this.. perhaps,if they were met someone who suitable for them, they'll be grateful towards that someone as well as their partners in life for good.
What a waste of time - life is too short to play stupid games. Walk away and reconsider the type of man you go for. Cheaters will cheat until they are too incapacitated to do so.
This video 😂😂😂is so real.Some to soft in the field that's way you keep getting 🏑.
Take a breath and hold deep every time you think you are being submissive 🧐😏😂❤🎉
Love you! ❤️ I wish I had heard this five years ago. Yep, I got played like a Fidel.
Omg girl you are too right.. before watching this video i understand 3-4 things about players and now i know it all .. can't thank you enough for this. Take love ❤
Gurl I wish you uploaded this SOONER😭😭😭😭😭
The saddest thing is WE PLAY OURSELVES. We know from the get go THEY’RE PLAYERS but we invest ourselves. I got tired and blocked him, I know he didn’t expect it, he thought I would always be there and he could do whatever the f*ck he wanted.
I love how you specify this isn't for good men TwT yes get back at those players
I always do this NOT on purpose. It is true they fall. But it is because I have disorganized attachment style. I am always hot and cold. Still I have been played too.
that is so true...I play this all the time and they end up taking me seriously
Yeah this probably works in 90s or early 2000s times are different now they ain't chasing
Theyll waste their time and effort with players instead of moving on and putting time and effort on good men. Ladies, move on and dont waste your time on the players unless that is your intention of spending time playing games and trying to outplay a player. Spend your time wisely
I have the same mindset. I study stoicism. It has helped me beyond anything I can describe..Especially with relationships. Great content..😊
I always play with boy in my life. Trust me it is so fun ! There is nothing wrong here ! Why man can play with us so why not us ? I alway ignore them and don't even give them my attention. I just focus on me not them . I let them know my door will always open if they want to walk away. Sadly none of them want to leave. Some time I out grow them after a while. I am the one who let go as I realised my self worth. Great video ❤❤❤
I do this unintentionally, i don't knows how it works, Now I understand that why this popular guy in my class only wants me and ignoring other girls who are always try to be near him.
You are 100% right girl.They should get what thy diserve at the end.Satisfaction guaranteed!
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Player here. Be the sweetest, non drama girl and he’ll think “I found her”
You slay queen , she is a girls girl , y'all should literally stop ur negative ass comments , loveeee ur content ❤❤❤
VIDEO ON “ HOW TO FIND OUT PLAYER OR IF HE IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU “ PLEASEEEEE I BEG
Haha this was a riot! Bravo sis! 💕
It's absolutely funny how each time players came to play n left with tears without me fighting even 😅😅, okay, the other way, I left them crying at their corners 😢😢😂.... serves these aholes right... but my advice: if u aren't a player like I'm not, make them feel how u can change from the most vulnerable n loving to the strongest n coldest woman they have ever known, show them their mirror in the most sophisticated way, tell them they don't worth you n just leave (subtly they know its kicking their a** because they chose the wrong woman to mess with) ........ Nothing hurts these players more than to be dropped like a hot cake n trust me, either u want them or not, they will try all means to get u back n 'sometimes' realizing their mistakes taking actions to make things better ......
Omggg girlll this is sooo smart❤❤ please never take this down girly it help us so much❤
Creating Illusions might get him but it wont keep him.
Respectfully and calmly call out red flags. Being aggressive will cause him to become defensive and he wont hear your message. Relationships need to be 50/50. If he runs or continues move TF on!!
Oh my gosh... I'm a thousand years old and you're only five! But girl - I love your style! I wish I'd seen this video a couple months ago - could have saved me a lot of agony! WHERE WERE YOU! lol... I really needed this then, but duly noted for future which I pray I never need it... but if I doooooo.... lol
Yes!! I’m agree!! You should be completely to yourself…you are whole by yourself for no one can’t play you! You can play them hardly 😂😂 that’s why I got the ring 💍 he’s Fallin inlove madly deeply to me❤️