Yup!!! Dunno why anyone wants to be with a player. Its dangerous to preach that toxic shit. You should want someone more mature. Players are called players for several solid reasons
A player will always cheat down the line, you can act like an interesting mysterious queen and have them fall in love but its the nature of the beast, their ego will still want attention from other women.
@@Nimeshaa Why bother changing for him to fall in love with you if you know he is a player? Why waste your time! Just move on and find someone that is respectable.
Trust me you do NOT want a player to fall in love with you. Once that initial high wears off for him, he will play you. Chasing women is something much much deeper than you and his love for you. If you come across a player, do yourself a favor and save years of your life by moving on. It’s not worth it at all, doesn’t matter how attractive or any good qualities you see in him. Your self respect, mental health and physical health (he can literally give you an STI) is worth 1000x more.
Can't believe I did all of that unintentionally😂without anyone telling me all of this cause I used to be too busy studying and being indulged with my other work and hobbies... it's all about being YOU and focusing on YOU.
My mindset was just like you I dated him and played as he played with me but I was all drained mentally and emotionally injured. Later I manifested a mature guy who now respect me and very loving. You become what you think. So stop playing around instead focus on gour growth and loving yourself.
You spoke well... Game damage mental health to the both.. Game is an invented way in which ones with interior motive use in getting what they want.. Desist from those relationships
Players are weak, low, vibrational, and negative energy if its easy, you should not want its gross that is childish and immature A balanced, high vibrational man is a manogomous man who will say no and stay respectful and has manors husband material or manogomous relationship material
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I'm gonna be that person and say: don't waste your time or breath chasing after a player. I dealt with them my whole life. Not worth you dating or being in relationship with 😊
I found it interesting that she said " this is about players and NOT good men"... Ladies, why is anyone interested in a man who you can clearly tell is not a good man? The world is full of narcissists and psychopaths and if one can identify them early then the best policy is to avoid them.. What is the end goal of this game?
Exactly my thoughts. The moment I notice he is a player I block them altogether. No explanations, nothing (don't need to prove who I am to someone who is interested to play with me) I don't want to waste time and energy on them even if it is to taste their own medicine. I don't want to have such people part of my reality. I am interested in finding a good man, that's my focus.
I think we should play the player because once a while a player came into my life and he played with my feelings I was so innocent to understand these minds game at that time but after getting hurt break I realized I was played and he just wants to use me And now I faded feelings for him in my heart but I also play and now he treats me better way and respects me more than before.. I'm enjoying this
In my most recent case - he had that rizz and that energy that just sucked me in and drained my DRY! I could see it and knew what was happening, but I couldn't do ANYTHING about it. And when he got tired of playing with me, he dumped me - and here I am, once again, in shattered pieces! Yep, I know my value and my worth and all of that. Typically, decent self esteem. I don't know wtf happened!
@@SB-tc2jr Trauma Bonding and you probably have CPTSD like many of us if this is a pattern. These people are predators and they use a common play book. Sometimes you have to tell your heart that the brain is in charge. Its hard as they are charming devils.
@@bethaminkhan4951 CPTSD... I knew about PTSD, but not complex. So, ya. That probably fits! And you are absolutely right "charming devil"... TRUTH! Thing about it is, I KNEW things - but it's like I couldn't make myself make right choices! I felt like I was under a damn spell !!! Seriously!!!
The video didn't ask u to date honey leave and don't watch. Sometimes avoiding doesn't work for ppl if it works for u, good for u, u may not watch the vid bye
If a man is acting like a player towards you he doesn’t want you. Women can come up with a full list on “how to play a player” but can’t use common sense/discernment to move on from a man that doesn’t like you like that so you don’t get your feelings hurt. People need to heal before they date others so this man vs. women bs can end. Enough is enough already.
If you play player, you will became player. And you can play for rest of his life. I guess that this work just for People who wants to be actors. I am not interested in players and they still love me and want me. Because best way is ignoring them.❤😂
Is not all about playing someone , it also taught me to be hard to get not just seem Hard to get... respect yourself and be busy building your personality and your life not just play like your busy
In my opinion, playing with a player is just a waste of your time. Girls, move on and focus on your goals, that should be your first priority😊 because a narcissist will always remain like this.
Girl yes...the satisfaction of hurting a player was sooo good! I did exactly everything he did to me...became busy and treated him hot and cold. I didn't give him any validations (act like whatever and was not impressed) Kept the conversation short and went on for days without replying back. Well he came back a year later....chased me at a grocery store for my number again. Texted me and I left him on read did not even bother replying back 😂 he will forever be in the nas line. He thought he got me again but nope he will never get that chance ever again hahaha
honey move on and heal . you will attract a good man . in my pov this is the perfect mindset for women who waana attract players only. No hate to nimeeshaaa i adore her.
Truly, all that she says is very tiring. Literally, just leave him. What she does is reverse desperation because she is still spending all of her energy pretending to be a "boss bitch." At the end of the day.....she still doesn't have a good man. Lol! I wouldn't even ever give "players" the time of day to "play" with me to begin with. Only women who want to "play a game" do all of this extra stuff which still requires a lot of energy....which also has a sense of desperation to it.
Ladies, this video applies to most men that you are interested in. Not just players. Sadly we do have to do all this stuff to a certain degree for most men in the early stages especially
Players are insecure . Becoming a player to play a player , to prove a point, is insecure . If someone plays you , draw it up to experience , explore how you played a part in it , for example not having strong boundaries, jumping in too soon and use the experience to grow and learn from . Good luck ladies , players gonna play but you can learn to identify them and run the fuck away 😉
If the guy is a player and you drag a date and you try to make him jelous his idea of you is going to change and since is a player he will move on as easy as 1234
Ladies don't play the players don't waste your time, life is short,make good with the worthy one, i would strongly say don't settle for players in your lives, life is beautiful when you get a man who is decent yet full of values, love, care and respect. Decent men are the most attractive cuz they are not playing with people's hearts❤ and who plays hence called as player so decide would you fall for such player who lacks value system and life !??
Not good content for young girls. Once you HEAL and cultivate self love you won’t DARE want to deals with a player, seek his love or validation. You’d have too much self respect to tolerate it. Move on
❤Honestly, playing a player is foolsgold, because somewhere along the line their wanderlust sparks a flame and they'll be cheating on you. You cannot hold onto a player, even when they purport to love you.
Nimesha plz start making vidios on how to be high value women , Mostly young girls dont know what to do or what not to do how to present herself in front , so they can understand by your experience because you explain so good
Gurl, don't worry I've got you! You go to the search bar and type , "How to really be high valued women by tam kaur". Trust me on this, she's like an elder sister who's helping us. Her videos are the best!
Really good content and it works on boys, boys who are on social media (Instagram etc). This doesn't work on a man who has emotional intelligence. Let me tell you this as a psychologist: This is the type of behaviour which leads to break up even in an healthy relationship. The best way to deal with those boys is to not give attention (if you are not in a relationship) because they are clearly there on a mission. If you are in a relationship please dont use the ignoring method. Unless you want them walking away from you, making you feel like you are being abandoned. Instead set boundaries, talk it out and make it clear that you can choose to not deal with their shit anytime, remind them of their actions and let them know you are aware of it and the decision remains in your hand. Lastly learn to say no to things which you dont like and ASK QUESTIONS IF ANYTHING DOESN'T MAKES SENSE BUT YET YOU ARE STARTING TO BELIEVE IT!!!. They hate being exposed and getting caught, ask the right questions calmly you will watch them giving explanation even before you ask them to. Good luck stay safe out there, peace out
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This video just shows how out of egocentrism You Are interested in the player You are always being played by being interested in "beating him" That's what happens when to narcissistic people meet...you and him❤
I did this to one boy but now he is playing back.. i didn't intentionally did it. I was not so sure of his feelings towards me.. finally im fallen into tht i think now i deserve better than him in all ways and he deserve better than me too so im trying my best to move on soon.. sumtimes i cant resist the urge to talk with him.. i must prioritize my self respect self dignity self discipline self love for which he was obsessed towards me..
I hope this works ! 😭 I feel like I'm too nice for my own good sometimes and want to be sexy & more mysterious, not look desperate. Thanks for the tips ;)
Looks like lot of hard work for just a guy (who is a player). I would ignore him and be with a normal man and focus on my work. Nobody can play this game for more than a year or 2.
The thing is that the handsome ones always turns out to be players...😂BTW loved your video..these are real life tricks as we all have been once through it..and you were so accurate that I went back in my memory lane and discovered that I was really being played 😂...but still you know man come man go ...what stays is us and our beloved Nimesha❤
i hve always gotten played by many so called MEN bcuz of my caring nature. So, tq for this i just got played a few days back again. SO TQSM for this Nimesha.
it feels so horrible... especially bc you have good intentions with them and see who they are behind that facade they put up. But don't be sad queen! good people attract good people, i bet there's someone who will know how to cherish you right from the start
I don't really understand with these girls in the comment section . I mean like bro u searched for this literally and u got it! 😂 Listen to this and leave but they are like oh no ! Im not like that or blah blah ! No body cares !!! I REPEAT NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS GURLL ! So just play them back and chill man ! 💅 This gurl right here in the video is giving u some real good life advice bro so take it !❤
Well for me.,a player has also a chance to be a better person when they've met a good and a unique woman in their lives to inspire and motivate them because,a player or a narcissist man is able to change their behaviour by a empath woman. Because, they are lack of empathy in their childhood maybe from their parents or family member, which is they're finding someone who can understand and love them unconditionally. that's why they're behaving like this.. perhaps,if they were met someone who suitable for them, they'll be grateful towards that someone as well as their partners in life for good.
It makes one chase unless/until that one gets tired or bored with the chase and it does happen regardless to how handsome the guy is or how long you've had a crush...feelings change.
If Your not emotionally attached with the guy and wana play games, mirror his actions. Other only best option would be be busy in life, make yourself a priority, have a hobby. If he comes back dont give him that 2nd chance .
Omg what you said was legit and so true, and you are so beautiful and inspiring btw, thanks for posting this video for the all of us to watch, this honestly truly helpful and really good advice! ❤️
This woman gives the perfect reason for why the dating gets even more f*** up. Why keep playing games, giving revenge to the fuckboy etc, instead of using your time wisely and looking for a man that treats you good? Think twice before you listen to that woman.
I have a different technique. I feed their ego and make him feel more wanted and needed than anyone else. I’ll worship him and also drop him at the drop of a dime. The inflated ego that I create in him can’t handle the cold sudden drop. And I mean it no games is who I am. I’ll give him my all today and tomorrow he doesn’t exist and he can’t handle.
A player always have a pretty big ego and they always think they can get anyone they want and they become furious if they face rejection of any kind . Most of them become obsessed when they're interested but you don't give in (most of them like to chase) . Once you know they're obsessed and confess their feelings for you turn them down in the sweetest way (in a way they can't spread s*it bout you nor they can blame you . If they guilt drip you do it back to them in an innocent way so that they won't feel like they succeeded. Just act like you dk anything what they mean and look at how they turn out 🤭 and darling don't make the mistake of falling for a player because once a player is always a player. Take care pookies ❤️
The saddest thing is WE PLAY OURSELVES. We know from the get go THEY’RE PLAYERS but we invest ourselves. I got tired and blocked him, I know he didn’t expect it, he thought I would always be there and he could do whatever the f*ck he wanted.
It's funny I do all this stuff naturally. I'm not a player though, just highly selective. And I humble men and if I spot a player, I do these things out of self-protection. They always end up thinking I'm playing "hard to get" not realizing there's no game. I am hard to get. If I spot bullshit, you can't have me. I had one guy write all over the front of my apartment sidewalk. Guys have cried to me, over me, I've gotten love letters, one guy wrote me a song and put it on youtube. Guess what? If you're a player, no thank you 🙏🏽 The pulling away is very real, not a mind game.
I find some value in this even if I would avoid saying that I want to go back to hurt people who hurt me (cause sometimes it's not worth it) BUT, these are tools of protection, as well. People in the comments like "I won't waste my time playing with a player"... yeah yeah, really? So many times you'll run into these fuckers and won't even notice how attracted you are to them until you're already lost. If you never think on how to respond to these kind of men you'll probably just get run over by them. Humbling these people is GREAT. Not to get them. Not to date them. Most of this is just very much needed protection from men who just don't care about you at all. Just DON'T do it to get love. Learn some tools for when you realize they're trying to do it to you and don't waste too much time. Don't get fooled. Learn.
When you know they like you and they are a player ,throw them on the back burner and let them work for your attention. Be indifferent. They are on your time not the other way around. Takes a lot of confidence and self awareness to deal with these players . You don't need their validation, they need yours. Good video ❤
I always do this NOT on purpose. It is true they fall. But it is because I have disorganized attachment style. I am always hot and cold. Still I have been played too.
You fool a player will never fall in love with you that's why he is called a player. He is always looking for more, you friendzone the really stable nice guys and then cry over a player.
With The Rest She Said I Agree, But Need To Be Naturally Not Faked, And I Would Change The Focus Point To: Ppl Don’t Understand How It Fees Until It’s Done Ro Them, Ask Your “Player” How It Feels? Do You Like The Feeling? NO.. So Don’t Do It! Because I’m Just Following The Rules Of Your Game! So Example: If He Date More Woman You Date Amore Man, If He Don’t Like It Let Him Know He Is Setting Up The Rules, Tell Him, Well Then If I Can’t You Can’t, If You Can I Can. Simple As That. I Always Add: I’m Not A Player, So Soon Or Later This Is Going To Be Over, So If You Want Me Start Changing Or Move From My Way! With A Very Sweet Voice And A Smile.
Why would you want a player in the first place? Well because that's a women's fantasy to chase a guy who can get girls but when they ''get'' him it's boring..
I do this unintentionally, i don't knows how it works, Now I understand that why this popular guy in my class only wants me and ignoring other girls who are always try to be near him.
What you, girls will say about one girl who tried to play with me. In my opinion this is sign of low-esteem cause she doesn't believe that this is possible to meet confidence and hot guys who have their own goals and own life, especially when they have girl. This is why sometimes players play in the game to make a punishment for them . They do just the same.
I loved this video coz i am always straight forward but that guy played games and started to manipulate me. It’s the worst feeling ever so I decided to play games and it really feels good to get your indignity back and to see all his self confidence breaking apart. I am still attracted to him but I feel good about myself.
great advice. love you. this has always worked for me. i am naturally detached and mysterious. hard to get rid of them. with that being said why work so hard to win the heaet of a player. i think bre yourself so the right one will stop by you and hold your hand.
What a waste of time - life is too short to play stupid games. Walk away and reconsider the type of man you go for. Cheaters will cheat until they are too incapacitated to do so.
Sorry this stuff isn’t healthy at all … ladies please respect yourself set your boundaries early on and if things get toxic get out & go no contact. It never gets better only worse
Not necessarily. I’ve seen women who are not classically attractive pull this off unintentionally all the time. The fboys thought they would be easier but they weren’t..and the confidence made them go crazy lol
Smart girl. I totally agree. I am 58. Play the player 😊 Great satisfaction and good karma. Fun and gives you energy. Don’t be a better person. Have fun.
Omg girl you are too right.. before watching this video i understand 3-4 things about players and now i know it all .. can't thank you enough for this. Take love ❤
I'm a guy and my sisters are different from the bunch. They've always acted this way with players and it's so fun to watch. Especially guys with nice cars...they're getting rejected a lot these days
Theyll waste their time and effort with players instead of moving on and putting time and effort on good men. Ladies, move on and dont waste your time on the players unless that is your intention of spending time playing games and trying to outplay a player. Spend your time wisely
My body language gives it away even if I try to be calm. I really like what you're saying. It's just a shame it even has to come to all this. It seems like a lot of work. Being myself is much easier. Lol
Creating Illusions might get him but it wont keep him. Respectfully and calmly call out red flags. Being aggressive will cause him to become defensive and he wont hear your message. Relationships need to be 50/50. If he runs or continues move TF on!!
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My mental health is more important than dealing with a player if i spot u.
Yup!!! Dunno why anyone wants to be with a player. Its dangerous to preach that toxic shit. You should want someone more mature. Players are called players for several solid reasons
Exactly, this chick is a psychopath playing with fire. Just don’t date players ……
Bravo ❤
I agree @@saijanaswamy7210
The purpose behind this video is to show how you can play them so they can get a taste of their own medicine. Its not for you to date them lol.
Best thing to do when meeting player is step away, cut contact and move on to find true love where theres no games.
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There is nothing like true love honey
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You not gonna know who a player is a who a lover boy is honey 😂
@@kareemakeshwaniYou can bc just like men, women also see patterns.
A player will always cheat down the line, you can act like an interesting mysterious queen and have them fall in love but its the nature of the beast, their ego will still want attention from other women.
Exactly 👏🏽
That’s why the the video is titled PLAY the player, not MARRY the player.
@@Nimeshaa Why bother changing for him to fall in love with you if you know he is a player? Why waste your time! Just move on and find someone that is respectable.
@@danielle912but they say men are only as faithful as their options so unless they are very unattractive they all cheat.
@@peekaboots01 Who are they? I never heard of this. its not true whoever made that one up.
The player is not worth the energy. Just ignore him, and forget about him.
True. Its really rade for him to change unless he sees some value or like the girl a lot. There must be some spark.
@nikolinajakic9037 Why even try to change someone? Just focus on the ones that act properly.
Trust me you do NOT want a player to fall in love with you. Once that initial high wears off for him, he will play you. Chasing women is something much much deeper than you and his love for you. If you come across a player, do yourself a favor and save years of your life by moving on. It’s not worth it at all, doesn’t matter how attractive or any good qualities you see in him. Your self respect, mental health and physical health (he can literally give you an STI) is worth 1000x more.
Can't believe I did all of that unintentionally😂without anyone telling me all of this cause I used to be too busy studying and being indulged with my other work and hobbies... it's all about being YOU and focusing on YOU.
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Yes! Be open but not pressed. If a guy suggests a date that doesn’t interest you, stay home.
Exactly ❤️❤️❤️
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Yes😂 Exactly that's me🙌
My mindset was just like you I dated him and played as he played with me but I was all drained mentally and emotionally injured. Later I manifested a mature guy who now respect me and very loving. You become what you think. So stop playing around instead focus on gour growth and loving yourself.
You spoke well... Game damage mental health to the both.. Game is an invented way in which ones with interior motive use in getting what they want.. Desist from those relationships
My mental health is more important
Players are weak, low, vibrational, and negative energy if its easy, you should not want its gross that is childish and immature A balanced, high vibrational man is a manogomous man who will say no and stay respectful and has manors husband material or manogomous relationship material
That’s right it’s always very dense energy when games are involved…
Totally wasted of time a pure toddler.
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I'm gonna be that person and say: don't waste your time or breath chasing after a player. I dealt with them my whole life. Not worth you dating or being in relationship with 😊
Players only love you when they’re playing. Players bore too easily because they themselves are boring. Stop wasting your time with these boy toys.
I found it interesting that she said " this is about players and NOT good men"... Ladies, why is anyone interested in a man who you can clearly tell is not a good man? The world is full of narcissists and psychopaths and if one can identify them early then the best policy is to avoid them.. What is the end goal of this game?
Exactly my thoughts. The moment I notice he is a player I block them altogether. No explanations, nothing (don't need to prove who I am to someone who is interested to play with me) I don't want to waste time and energy on them even if it is to taste their own medicine. I don't want to have such people part of my reality.
I am interested in finding a good man, that's my focus.
I think we should play the player because once a while a player came into my life and he played with my feelings I was so innocent to understand these minds game at that time but after getting hurt break I realized I was played and he just wants to use me
And now I faded feelings for him in my heart but I also play and now he treats me better way and respects me more than before.. I'm enjoying this
In my most recent case - he had that rizz and that energy that just sucked me in and drained my DRY! I could see it and knew what was happening, but I couldn't do ANYTHING about it. And when he got tired of playing with me, he dumped me - and here I am, once again, in shattered pieces! Yep, I know my value and my worth and all of that. Typically, decent self esteem. I don't know wtf happened!
@@SB-tc2jr Trauma Bonding and you probably have CPTSD like many of us if this is a pattern. These people are predators and they use a common play book. Sometimes you have to tell your heart that the brain is in charge. Its hard as they are charming devils.
@@bethaminkhan4951 CPTSD... I knew about PTSD, but not complex. So, ya. That probably fits! And you are absolutely right "charming devil"... TRUTH! Thing about it is, I KNEW things - but it's like I couldn't make myself make right choices! I felt like I was under a damn spell !!! Seriously!!!
You don't play a player, you avoid them.
The video didn't ask u to date honey leave and don't watch. Sometimes avoiding doesn't work for ppl if it works for u, good for u, u may not watch the vid bye
Amazing comment. They are usually selfish master manipulators. Like 99% of the time.
If a man is acting like a player towards you he doesn’t want you. Women can come up with a full list on “how to play a player” but can’t use common sense/discernment to move on from a man that doesn’t like you like that so you don’t get your feelings hurt. People need to heal before they date others so this man vs. women bs can end. Enough is enough already.
Agreed! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Player will never fall in love with you, save your energy and leave his playground
If you play player, you will became player. And you can play for rest of his life. I guess that this work just for People who wants to be actors. I am not interested in players and they still love me and want me. Because best way is ignoring them.❤😂
Is not all about playing someone , it also taught me to be hard to get not just seem Hard to get... respect yourself and be busy building your personality and your life not just play like your busy
In my opinion, playing with a player is just a waste of your time. Girls, move on and focus on your goals, that should be your first priority😊 because a narcissist will always remain like this.
Ladies it applies for all men even the one you’re saying healthy and mature. Trust me the moment you’re too available he’s gone.
Girl yes...the satisfaction of hurting a player was sooo good! I did exactly everything he did to me...became busy and treated him hot and cold. I didn't give him any validations (act like whatever and was not impressed) Kept the conversation short and went on for days without replying back. Well he came back a year later....chased me at a grocery store for my number again. Texted me and I left him on read did not even bother replying back 😂 he will forever be in the nas line. He thought he got me again but nope he will never get that chance ever again hahaha
Luv that for you!
Hahahahahahah girlll i did the same and he is super angry at me now
I loved the way she casually carried on applying her lipstick which being a girl bestie who is ready for us to give advices.
Love you Nimeshaa.🙌💫
honey move on and heal . you will attract a good man . in my pov this is the perfect mindset for women who waana attract players only. No hate to nimeeshaaa i adore her.
Truly, all that she says is very tiring. Literally, just leave him. What she does is reverse desperation because she is still spending all of her energy pretending to be a "boss bitch." At the end of the day.....she still doesn't have a good man. Lol! I wouldn't even ever give "players" the time of day to "play" with me to begin with. Only women who want to "play a game" do all of this extra stuff which still requires a lot of energy....which also has a sense of desperation to it.
Ladies, this video applies to most men that you are interested in. Not just players. Sadly we do have to do all this stuff to a certain degree for most men in the early stages especially
Players are insecure .
Becoming a player to play a player , to prove a point, is insecure .
If someone plays you , draw it up to experience , explore how you played a part in it , for example not having strong boundaries, jumping in too soon and use the experience to grow and learn from .
Good luck ladies , players gonna play but you can learn to identify them and run the fuck away 😉
If the guy is a player and you drag a date and you try to make him jelous his idea of you is going to change and since is a player he will move on as easy as 1234
Ladies don't play the players don't waste your time, life is short,make good with the worthy one, i would strongly say don't settle for players in your lives, life is beautiful when you get a man who is decent yet full of values, love, care and respect. Decent men are the most attractive cuz they are not playing with people's hearts❤ and who plays hence called as player so decide would you fall for such player who lacks value system and life !??
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A player can't fall for you. It's a player. A player playing with another player will give you a game.
Remove yourself from the game....then there's no game. It takes two to play..
@@priyamadhoo7266 Don't worry for me, I am neither masochist nor stupid. I don't feel concerned by this video.
Not good content for young girls. Once you HEAL and cultivate self love you won’t DARE want to deals with a player, seek his love or validation. You’d have too much self respect to tolerate it. Move on
Thank you
This is true ❤
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Totally agree. This title made me sick to my stomach
❤Honestly, playing a player is foolsgold, because somewhere along the line their wanderlust sparks a flame and they'll be cheating on you. You cannot hold onto a player, even when they purport to love you.
Nimesha plz start making vidios on how to be high value women , Mostly young girls dont know what to do or what not to do how to present herself in front , so they can understand by your experience because you explain so good
Gurl, don't worry I've got you!
You go to the search bar and type , "How to really be high valued women by tam kaur". Trust me on this, she's like an elder sister who's helping us. Her videos are the best!
Really good content and it works on boys, boys who are on social media (Instagram etc). This doesn't work on a man who has emotional intelligence.
Let me tell you this as a psychologist: This is the type of behaviour which leads to break up even in an healthy relationship.
The best way to deal with those boys is to not give attention (if you are not in a relationship) because they are clearly there on a mission.
If you are in a relationship please dont use the ignoring method. Unless you want them walking away from you, making you feel like you are being abandoned. Instead set boundaries, talk it out and make it clear that you can choose to not deal with their shit anytime, remind them of their actions and let them know you are aware of it and the decision remains in your hand.
Lastly learn to say no to things which you dont like and ASK QUESTIONS IF ANYTHING DOESN'T MAKES SENSE BUT YET YOU ARE STARTING TO BELIEVE IT!!!.
They hate being exposed and getting caught, ask the right questions calmly you will watch them giving explanation even before you ask them to.
Good luck stay safe out there, peace out
Yoooo...your videos are frr a source of practicality which we need to survive in this harsh world...since many days due to final exams I was unable to watch your videos but Imma binge all after my exams hehe...lovee uhhh frrr
Is true. Just ghost them and no contact. They worry and cannot wait to see you.
This video just shows how out of egocentrism You Are interested in the player
You are always being played by being interested in "beating him"
That's what happens when to narcissistic people meet...you and him❤
I did this to one boy but now he is playing back.. i didn't intentionally did it. I was not so sure of his feelings towards me.. finally im fallen into tht i think now i deserve better than him in all ways and he deserve better than me too so im trying my best to move on soon.. sumtimes i cant resist the urge to talk with him.. i must prioritize my self respect self dignity self discipline self love for which he was obsessed towards me..
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I hope this works ! 😭 I feel like I'm too nice for my own good sometimes and want to be sexy & more mysterious, not look desperate. Thanks for the tips ;)
What about rule no. 6 don’t sleep with him too early in the relationship. Don’t give up the goods fast!!
Or do
He’s not worth a relationship
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Looks like lot of hard work for just a guy (who is a player). I would ignore him and be with a normal man and focus on my work. Nobody can play this game for more than a year or 2.
It just happened to me and I am no spring chicken - he has been doing this for 25 years.
Playing the player to fall in love with you only makes then want to get close to you to understand your charm not to genuinely love you.
You young girls need to understand that following this advice will only strip away your mental well-being. Don't play the games. Find mature love.
girl is so beautiful, following you since 2020 and i love growing with you and seeing you glowup and get more beautiful everydayy ❤
The thing is that the handsome ones always turns out to be players...😂BTW loved your video..these are real life tricks as we all have been once through it..and you were so accurate that I went back in my memory lane and discovered that I was really being played 😂...but still you know man come man go ...what stays is us and our beloved Nimesha❤
i hve always gotten played by many so called MEN bcuz of my caring nature. So, tq for this i just got played a few days back again. SO TQSM for this Nimesha.
it feels so horrible... especially bc you have good intentions with them and see who they are behind that facade they put up. But don't be sad queen! good people attract good people, i bet there's someone who will know how to cherish you right from the start
I don't really understand with these girls in the comment section . I mean like bro u searched for this literally and u got it! 😂 Listen to this and leave but they are like oh no ! Im not like that or blah blah ! No body cares !!! I REPEAT NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS GURLL ! So just play them back and chill man ! 💅 This gurl right here in the video is giving u some real good life advice bro so take it !❤
ı really feel like playing hot and cold is toxic
Well for me.,a player has also a chance to be a better person when they've met a good and a unique woman in their lives to inspire and motivate them because,a player or a narcissist man is able to change their behaviour by a empath woman. Because, they are lack of empathy in their childhood maybe from their parents or family member, which is they're finding someone who can understand and love them unconditionally. that's why they're behaving like this.. perhaps,if they were met someone who suitable for them, they'll be grateful towards that someone as well as their partners in life for good.
A player like this will end up alone for sure ....a true lover
doesn't understand and tolerate such nonsense
as a player myself. She’s get it
I was doing at first then become emotional now back to me again. ❤
No more played by anyone, prevention is better than cure. 😊
I think I needed this 😂 gotta win this game gurllll
I need this topic a one video for every week nimesha because you are only healed me for played by every boy 😢😢😢
It makes one chase unless/until that one gets tired or bored with the chase and it does happen regardless to how handsome the guy is or how long you've had a crush...feelings change.
If Your not emotionally attached with the guy and wana play games, mirror his actions.
Other only best option would be be busy in life, make yourself a priority, have a hobby.
If he comes back dont give him that 2nd chance .
If you're the right person for him, he will fall in love with you. If not, he will never fall in love with you.
Gurl, u should start a podcast ❤🎉
Omg what you said was legit and so true, and you are so beautiful and inspiring btw, thanks for posting this video for the all of us to watch, this honestly truly helpful and really good advice! ❤️
This woman gives the perfect reason for why the dating gets even more f*** up. Why keep playing games, giving revenge to the fuckboy etc, instead of using your time wisely and looking for a man that treats you good? Think twice before you listen to that woman.
I have a different technique. I feed their ego and make him feel more wanted and needed than anyone else. I’ll worship him and also drop him at the drop of a dime. The inflated ego that I create in him can’t handle the cold sudden drop. And I mean it no games is who I am. I’ll give him my all today and tomorrow he doesn’t exist and he can’t handle.
And you are proud of doing those things.... 🤢🤮
I’ve done that before too
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A player always have a pretty big ego and they always think they can get anyone they want and they become furious if they face rejection of any kind . Most of them become obsessed when they're interested but you don't give in (most of them like to chase) . Once you know they're obsessed and confess their feelings for you turn them down in the sweetest way (in a way they can't spread s*it bout you nor they can blame you . If they guilt drip you do it back to them in an innocent way so that they won't feel like they succeeded. Just act like you dk anything what they mean and look at how they turn out 🤭 and darling don't make the mistake of falling for a player because once a player is always a player. Take care pookies ❤️
Wow this is soo amazing, thankyou a whole lot Nimeshaa! Even am gonna be a smartie girl like you and have the time of my life! ❤🎉🥳😎
everything ur saying its soo true, Thank you!❤
The saddest thing is WE PLAY OURSELVES. We know from the get go THEY’RE PLAYERS but we invest ourselves. I got tired and blocked him, I know he didn’t expect it, he thought I would always be there and he could do whatever the f*ck he wanted.
It's funny I do all this stuff naturally. I'm not a player though, just highly selective.
And I humble men and if I spot a player, I do these things out of self-protection.
They always end up thinking I'm playing "hard to get" not realizing there's no game. I am hard to get.
If I spot bullshit, you can't have me.
I had one guy write all over the front of my apartment sidewalk. Guys have cried to me, over me, I've gotten love letters, one guy wrote me a song and put it on youtube.
Guess what? If you're a player, no thank you 🙏🏽
The pulling away is very real, not a mind game.
No desperate energy
Be interesting and mysterious
Do not be overly available.. Just drag him
Humble game
Hot nd cold behaviour
you’re like the older sister I’ve always wanted ❤️
I find some value in this even if I would avoid saying that I want to go back to hurt people who hurt me (cause sometimes it's not worth it) BUT, these are tools of protection, as well. People in the comments like "I won't waste my time playing with a player"... yeah yeah, really? So many times you'll run into these fuckers and won't even notice how attracted you are to them until you're already lost. If you never think on how to respond to these kind of men you'll probably just get run over by them. Humbling these people is GREAT. Not to get them. Not to date them. Most of this is just very much needed protection from men who just don't care about you at all. Just DON'T do it to get love. Learn some tools for when you realize they're trying to do it to you and don't waste too much time. Don't get fooled. Learn.
When you know they like you and they are a player ,throw them on the back burner and let them work for your attention. Be indifferent. They are on your time not the other way around. Takes a lot of confidence and self awareness to deal with these players . You don't need their validation, they need yours. Good video ❤
I always do this NOT on purpose. It is true they fall. But it is because I have disorganized attachment style. I am always hot and cold. Still I have been played too.
You fool a player will never fall in love with you that's why he is called a player. He is always looking for more, you friendzone the really stable nice guys and then cry over a player.
Yeah .
With The Rest She Said I Agree, But Need To Be Naturally Not Faked, And I Would Change The Focus Point To: Ppl Don’t Understand How It Fees Until It’s Done Ro Them, Ask Your “Player” How It Feels? Do You Like The Feeling? NO.. So Don’t Do It! Because I’m Just Following The Rules Of Your Game! So Example: If He Date More Woman You Date Amore Man, If He Don’t Like It Let Him Know He Is Setting Up The Rules, Tell Him, Well Then If I Can’t You Can’t, If You Can I Can. Simple As That. I Always Add: I’m Not A Player, So Soon Or Later This Is Going To Be Over, So If You Want Me Start Changing Or Move From My Way! With A Very Sweet Voice And A Smile.
Why would you want a player in the first place? Well because that's a women's fantasy to chase a guy who can get girls but when they ''get'' him it's boring..
I do this unintentionally, i don't knows how it works, Now I understand that why this popular guy in my class only wants me and ignoring other girls who are always try to be near him.
What you, girls will say about one girl who tried to play with me. In my opinion this is sign of low-esteem cause she doesn't believe that this is possible to meet confidence and hot guys who have their own goals and own life, especially when they have girl. This is why sometimes players play in the game to make a punishment for them . They do just the same.
Love you! ❤️ I wish I had heard this five years ago. Yep, I got played like a Fidel.
U looking sooo.. ahh i have no words to explain how u are lookin.. and u are literally giving so much more positive vibe todayyyyy!!!
I loved this video coz i am always straight forward but that guy played games and started to manipulate me. It’s the worst feeling ever so I decided to play games and it really feels good to get your indignity back and to see all his self confidence breaking apart. I am still attracted to him but I feel good about myself.
great advice. love you. this has always worked for me. i am naturally detached and mysterious. hard to get rid of them. with that being said why work so hard to win the heaet of a player. i think bre yourself so the right one will stop by you and hold your hand.
What a waste of time - life is too short to play stupid games. Walk away and reconsider the type of man you go for. Cheaters will cheat until they are too incapacitated to do so.
youre my fav youtuber!!! love ya
Sorry this stuff isn’t healthy at all … ladies please respect yourself set your boundaries early on and if things get toxic get out & go no contact.
It never gets better only worse
Great video queen! Agree with all your points!!!!
tbh this would only work if you’re equally attractive
Not necessarily. I’ve seen women who are not classically attractive pull this off unintentionally all the time. The fboys thought they would be easier but they weren’t..and the confidence made them go crazy lol
I have the same mindset. I study stoicism. It has helped me beyond anything I can describe..Especially with relationships. Great content..😊
Hi girly, i love your videos, they've helped me so so freaking much ❤❤❤ love you, i wish you all the best🎉🎉
Players have rules that they live by. So the moment you try to play a player you have already lost. If that crap works on any guy, he's not a player.
Smart girl. I totally agree. I am 58. Play the player 😊 Great satisfaction and good karma. Fun and gives you energy. Don’t be a better person. Have fun.
Omg girl you are too right.. before watching this video i understand 3-4 things about players and now i know it all .. can't thank you enough for this. Take love ❤
Yeah this probably works in 90s or early 2000s times are different now they ain't chasing
I'm a guy and my sisters are different from the bunch. They've always acted this way with players and it's so fun to watch. Especially guys with nice cars...they're getting rejected a lot these days
Yes girl u spot on right. And I love ur hair
Theyll waste their time and effort with players instead of moving on and putting time and effort on good men. Ladies, move on and dont waste your time on the players unless that is your intention of spending time playing games and trying to outplay a player. Spend your time wisely
tHANK YOU Nimmie.....your advise is 100% true..LOve u so much
"The guy you’re thinking about right now “ 😂
My body language gives it away even if I try to be calm. I really like what you're saying. It's just a shame it even has to come to all this. It seems like a lot of work. Being myself is much easier. Lol
Players never fall inlove
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you dont want a player to chase youuuuu
Whyyyy !?
Creating Illusions might get him but it wont keep him.
Respectfully and calmly call out red flags. Being aggressive will cause him to become defensive and he wont hear your message. Relationships need to be 50/50. If he runs or continues move TF on!!
Absolutely wonderful saying and every point is so true... it's a real fact that many of them are play with girls emotion
Ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than ANYTHING you could get here in this life..
“ And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
_ Matthew 6: 27_33
“For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?
Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat:
Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.”
_Matthew 7: 8_14
"Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
_ Matthew 6:26-27