She Pulled Away Then Got Angry Because You Didn't Chase Her

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024

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  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 Год назад +90

    If she wants space give her the whole world. Stay Strong and Stoic guys

    • @QuiDocetDiscit
      @QuiDocetDiscit Год назад +12

      If she wants space...put her in a rocket ship and push the blast off button.🚀

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields 4 месяца назад +1

      @@QuiDocetDiscit lol

  • @NAVEENCHAURASIYAA
    @NAVEENCHAURASIYAA Год назад +57

    Be the ONE THAT GOT AWAY

    • @Kools-gj9ec
      @Kools-gj9ec Год назад +3

      Nah Be the one that’s an alpha male

    • @anonnnnnnnnnnnn
      @anonnnnnnnnnnnn 7 месяцев назад

      typically they overlap@@Kools-gj9ec

    • @honkhonkler7732
      @honkhonkler7732 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@Kools-gj9ecAlphas get away

  • @DailamiPuang
    @DailamiPuang Год назад +219

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

    • @DailamiPuang
      @DailamiPuang Год назад +1

      @Emilio Yepez its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @m3e92ismydreamcar
      @m3e92ismydreamcar Год назад

      ​@EmilioYepez7 I wish you get her back. By the way you are talking of her it shows that you deserve her. You did the right thing by seeking professional help. Seek more! Do whatever it takes.

  • @professorlayabout4878
    @professorlayabout4878 Год назад +181

    Guys, you need to believe this. My girlfriend picked a fight last weekend and was basically threatening to leave me if I didn’t cave to her demands. After stewing for the better part of a week alone she’s back this weekend sweeter and more submissive than ever. 😉. She even said she feels incredibly safe with me, which seems odd considering she left in a huff a week ago.

    • @3SRtales
      @3SRtales Год назад +51

      It’s a trap. Everybody knows what she was doing in the meanwhile. And its just a matter of time until she repeats her behavior, knowing now that she can come and go whenever she wants and your door is always open for her.

    • @casiofx-100ms3
      @casiofx-100ms3 Год назад +15

      Her legs were on the air all this time.

    • @professorlayabout4878
      @professorlayabout4878 Год назад +3

      You guys are overly paranoid, consuming too much black pill content. Her pulling away for a few days doesn’t mean she’s getting smashed behind a dumpster somewhere.

    • @faekz
      @faekz Год назад +28

      Create drama once a week. Boredom is dangerous

    • @vivekmakwana286
      @vivekmakwana286 Год назад

      ​@@casiofx-100ms3 true

  • @gowtham5168
    @gowtham5168 Год назад +46

    I love it how this channel videos are so short and to the point .. filled with good content .

  • @cheezinhoweree
    @cheezinhoweree Год назад +28

    Make sure you're testing them to fellas .come home and tell them you lost your job and see what they do.if shes down with you ready to help out thats your girl .if she's not you were just renting

  • @christopherrothwell7958
    @christopherrothwell7958 Год назад +83

    Dating in the 21st century is like, come here! Go away! I'm not looking for anything right now, how come you're not chasing me???

    • @jonathangardner5202
      @jonathangardner5202 Год назад +1

      Facts!

    • @kombayogaigbakima3942
      @kombayogaigbakima3942 Год назад +2

      Bro's on point

    • @PaulPickle
      @PaulPickle 9 месяцев назад +3

      Im like "Aint no way, wtf is this!!! These ladies make no sense!!!" Ya either love me or ya don't. The moment she pulls that crap I am gone foe good!!! She can go find her mystery man elsewhere

  • @kongnsofranklin9496
    @kongnsofranklin9496 Год назад +82

    When she pulls away and you don't chase her she comes back when she is done with the other relationship

    • @Kools-gj9ec
      @Kools-gj9ec Год назад +23

      Dude women talk to tons of men not for relationships, it’s for attention. Responsive men turn women off so it’s good she’s talking to other guys because when she pulls away you’re a high value partner she wants to check before talking to you. Women will always talk to other guys

    • @martifrey3357
      @martifrey3357 Год назад +1

      @@Kools-gj9ec Women never test men they are genuinenly attracted to. They only do it to guys who they don't care about and want to control

    • @Kools-gj9ec
      @Kools-gj9ec Год назад

      @@martifrey3357 I responded to this already but a girl will do a pull away test guys with they’re into. If a girl isn’t into a guy she will make it known but girls pull away from a guy to see if they’re emotionally strong and are not abusive if they ignore you or back away.
      You can be the best looking guy out there but if you’re insecure and needy, she will get rid of you. If she doesn’t test you, you are a FRIEND.
      Women act on feelings not just attraction alone. If she senses you are CC&C when she does pull back it gives her a green light to move things forward. At the end of the day, a woman pulling away is always automatic no matter how interested she may be, women need to feel safe that the guy isn’t an abuser

    • @3SRtales
      @3SRtales Год назад +17

      @@Kools-gj9ec You don t have to accept it. Basically that‘s micro cheating. You just need to set clear boundaries from the start. Texting with other dudes in front of you is high level of disrespect. Me personally I would withdraw all attention.

    • @usercs_2682
      @usercs_2682 Год назад +7

      Honestly I don’t care if she talks to other men, I won’t stop her from talking to other men just like she won’t stop me talking to other women. But if she disrespected me or ignores my message not once but twice when I message her, I’m totally done with her and move on

  • @davidlee6117
    @davidlee6117 Год назад +16

    Props to you Chris for bringing us this content with your traditional format. Straight to the point!

  • @breatheliveandthrive7404
    @breatheliveandthrive7404 Год назад +9

    Once she leaves the door, it will be closed for good. Nothing in between! Stay or Leave is the only option on the table!

  • @sserunjogiahmed7974
    @sserunjogiahmed7974 Год назад +20

    Best relationship coach ever in the world. I love ur simple and precious videos. Ahmed Qatar.

  • @Kools-gj9ec
    @Kools-gj9ec Год назад +40

    Pulling away is a test to see if you’re very relationship focused. It can be any girl you’re into, they will always pull away and it’s normal! Remember gentlemen, women always talk to guys, it’s the modern world, but almost all guys are responsive on social media and chase through watching stories and sending snaps and texts, STOP DOING THAT! Pull away from her and give her space, doing that will make you stand out, take it from me when a girl I reconnected with I came off a little too strong and pulled back for 3 weeks before coming back to me. Women will always talk to other guys, don’t be a beta male orbiter and never chase her!

    • @craig8304
      @craig8304 Год назад +7

      Good points there but woman also pull away for many other reasons..
      You've shown weakness so they back away to test strength
      You've spend a bit too much time together so they get bored and disappear for a few days (subconciously they know it re-establishes attraction) Unfortunately most guy think something is wrong and go into chase mode, turning them off
      When things are new and they start to feel something strong, sometimes they get a little scared and back away to feel their emotions and talk things out with their friends.
      Another guy, or an ex is in the picture so she's confused and running hot and cold
      She's structured
      She has an avoidant attachment style
      She has an anxious attachment style and needs to feel she is wanted, so she pulls away to see if you chase (then when you do that turns her off)
      She's just completely messed up
      Lots of reasons...
      Key in all situations it just to refuse to chase her, and remain unbothered, yet continue to show interest by leading. And most importantly move on if she's structured, overly anxious, avoidant, or just messed up in general.

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor4978 Год назад +8

    In some cultures, and countries women are told by their grandmothers: Never chase a man. You are a beautiful little princess, let the man chase you. So, in some cases, they avoid chasing because it's expected of them. But I agree that in most parts of the world, this information is true.

  • @carlospita6442
    @carlospita6442 Год назад +83

    I'm sick and tired of the men always having to do the work and the more mature ones in the relationship. Women never take accountabilityity

  • @dcnetworks
    @dcnetworks Год назад +8

    True story, girl got upset because I didn’t want to go out to another bar with her after going out after work so I left. She went to the next bar alone and texted me the entire night to try to convince me to go out again but I stood my ground and ignored her.
    When she got home, she said she wants to leave me and break up. I said ok and ignore her some more. We didn’t talk the rest of the night, by next morning, she’s still upset but I didn’t care or apologize, I went to work. By lunchtime, she texted me to say hi and then I asked her if she wants to catch up for a pizza after work and she said ok. When we got together, she totally forgot about our fight the previous night and we went home afterwards had the best make up sex that evening.

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 Год назад +9

    Happy Mothers Day to all the amazing Moms all over the world, God bless you

  • @Abdiaziz48
    @Abdiaziz48 Год назад +10

    Atomic attraction remains the best red pill book for men seeking to enjoy abundance intimacy. It's a book you won't stop reading even after mastering all the crucial techniques of handling this other gender. It's a must have book for every man. Chris's work and coachings are timely and exceptional.
    Sir, recieve my greetings and appreciations from Kenya, East Africa.

  • @MikiMaki76
    @MikiMaki76 Год назад +38

    I don't agree. women test men they are somewhat attracted to, but not fully attracted to. a woman who is fully attracted to a man, is not going to risk losing him over a test. when a woman is partially attracted to a man (a part of her likes him, but another doesn't), then she test him, to decide whether she likes him or not. the test is born out of dubt. the less a woman is attracted to a man, the more she will test him.

    • @3SRtales
      @3SRtales Год назад +16

      Attraction has dynamics. When her hormones kick in or there s another dude in the picture (or DMs) or you simply turned her off by doing / saying sth, she will always pull her little sneaky tests out.

    • @MikiMaki76
      @MikiMaki76 Год назад +7

      @@3SRtales yup that is exactly what I said. as soon as she loses attraction, or if she is not fully attracted right off the bat, she start testing him. the only women who don't test a man are either woman who have no interest at all, or women who are fully in love

    • @Kools-gj9ec
      @Kools-gj9ec Год назад +12

      @@MikiMaki76 To have no interest in someone the girl will certainly make it known she’s not into him or make excuses. If a girl pulls away, this is MAJOR because she is CONSIDERING you as a potential, women act on their feelings and they also pull back to engage their feelings.
      Yes we live in the modern era and women are talking to other guys all the time but 99% of men have lost because of one thing, being RESPONSIVE!
      When a girl pulls away from you and you do the same, she will come back but sometimes it can take up to weeks or a month if you’re high value. Girls don’t want to make themselves easy and test men all the time to see if they’re emotionally strong

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Год назад +12

      I concur. If a woman wants you, she will not test you. The 2 best GFs I had never tested me. But they didn't need to. I had proven myself to be worthy of their affection. Chase excellence, not women. Doing that gets you excellence AND women. Chasing women gets you neither. This comes from a guy in his 60s.

    • @Kools-gj9ec
      @Kools-gj9ec Год назад +2

      @@Ace.0.0.0. My counter to that is with all due respect, women even though they’re all biologically wired the same, technology like the cell phone makes the modern women a lot more difficult when test! The modern woman knows how to test men through social media and more but yes focus on yourself, women will always test you regardless

  • @techkid1833
    @techkid1833 Год назад +4

    She pulled away I did the same, she ran back to me begging me to talk to her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

  • @jameslajambe
    @jameslajambe Год назад +4

    ASKED for space, 4 days later got the speech the other. Night.. she said why are you ignoring me ,😅😅😅

  • @tonydee1013
    @tonydee1013 21 день назад

    A girl who I work with was continually flirting with me.
    I told her I sent her a friend request on facebook.
    She blocked me, but denied it!
    I stopped speaking to her.
    She walks past me now, with either an angry or upset look on her face.
    She also keeps staring at me from a distance.
    Obviously, the ball is in my court, but I have lost interest.

  • @Rawuna
    @Rawuna Год назад +6

    Chase goal and woman will chase you

  • @danialmr5960
    @danialmr5960 Год назад +5

    Keep up the great work

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Год назад +1

    Great video 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @oppahadventures114
    @oppahadventures114 Год назад +1

    Thanks sensei lessons learned

  • @NomadZ3RO
    @NomadZ3RO Год назад +1

    Btw i don't if it's gonna help, i pulled back and it worked she came back and said sorry for being away from me.

  • @BoogeeChyke
    @BoogeeChyke Год назад +1

    Now I met this girl I liked at a gathering , introduced myself , got her number then I called her after a few days to say hello , she blocked me . I saw her another time , I tried to ask why she blocked me but she gave no concrete reason , then I backed out . Seen her a couple of times afterwards and I acted like I don't see her . I still like , and I want to talk to her again but then I don't know what to do ..

  • @italiancapo7
    @italiancapo7 Год назад +3

    Got dumped bc I didn’t show her cared enough. Then I demonstrated weakness by expressing I was going to change career directions. She broke up over text. I said ok. She wanted to explain and blame me. I didn’t respond to her last text. Haven’t heard from her since. That was 6 weeks ago. But she still has out pictures on social media, still has me on social media & views my IG story ever time I post something. I never view any of her stuff.

    • @adrianshaw4639
      @adrianshaw4639 Год назад +6

      She made a power move now she's seeing if you crumble without her. Stay strong and focus on yourself. Making career changes isn't weakness. It's only weakness giving in to her demands.

    • @trollhunter3944
      @trollhunter3944 Год назад +5

      And she is dealing with another guy, possibly. Move on.

    • @Kools-gj9ec
      @Kools-gj9ec Год назад +2

      @@trollhunter3944 in reality, women are always talking to other guys, it’s the modern world. Women have on average 5-10 dudes they’re talking to but guess what they’re all responsive!

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 10 месяцев назад

      Dont ever take her back, she 💯 fking with others

  • @fitnesswithwasif3995
    @fitnesswithwasif3995 Год назад +3

    Chris can you do a video on how to get her back if you have been neglecting her

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Год назад +1

      Don't chase, replace.

    • @fitnesswithwasif3995
      @fitnesswithwasif3995 Год назад +1

      Thats great if she did something bad like disrespecting or cheating . But in this case you are the one who is in the wrong. You didn't value her or the relationship.

  • @vitaminprotein
    @vitaminprotein 3 месяца назад +1

    No you are wrong..... This behavior leads to break up in my case 😭......
    She has broken up with me.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  3 месяца назад +1

      Because you’re too low value unfortunately

    • @blueflame3531
      @blueflame3531 Месяц назад

      ​@@DevelopAttraction don't say that to him, man. 😂

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist Год назад +16

    Because broads don't even understand each other, how do they expect a man to understand them? lol

    • @QuiDocetDiscit
      @QuiDocetDiscit Год назад +2

      Men and women agree on only one thing!...they both distrust women.

    • @brown_recidivist
      @brown_recidivist Год назад

      @@QuiDocetDiscit haha yup lol

  • @onaraider2007
    @onaraider2007 Год назад +2

    She ignored me for one day I mirrored and ignored her for two days then she got mad and now now no contact 😗

    • @efrencalvario
      @efrencalvario Год назад +1

      play it cool, if she contacts again as her out do not text like the other male gayfriends she has

  • @Tigers9596
    @Tigers9596 11 месяцев назад +2

    What about if your in a new relationship, you let the woman come to you at her pace, and even still she pulls away, not for a few days, but for almost two weeks? I wouldn't care as much if it was someone I was casually seeing, but this is my girlfriend (who was the one that initiated the relationship). How do I proceed if I don't hear from her soon?

    • @morohunkejiidowu1603
      @morohunkejiidowu1603 10 месяцев назад

      You still don’t have to chase her……you can definitely find another girl since the relationship is still new…maximizing your option will make you more attractive….

  • @paulmckeown8378
    @paulmckeown8378 Год назад

    Spot on.....

  • @AmirZ1
    @AmirZ1 7 месяцев назад

    Broke up on Sunday, told me to get out the house, I said alright cool. Her ex bf was always stalking her etc, once I ssid I will speak to him, she got very defensive he has a boy with his baby mama, not my girl, she was like I don't want his kid to be without a dad and suffer without one, I was like that's your choice and not your responsibility, met on Sunday night bc she left her keys in my car and I said come collect it made her travel 250 miles to come collect, started waving at me like nothing happened and said are you OK, literally kept it nonchalant and gave the keys and walked away back to my car. She hadn't blocked me on anything at all on socials, she views my story but I already went on other dates and posted them 🔥🔥... Opinions

  • @thegrinch8161
    @thegrinch8161 10 месяцев назад

    The only thing to do is if she’s not into you is is to run away

  • @stevec3892
    @stevec3892 9 месяцев назад +2

    They’re nuts

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields 4 месяца назад

      He said 30% of women have mentaI issues.

  • @m_jay5
    @m_jay5 9 месяцев назад +3

    I'm a man in my 30s now and the last thing I'm going to do is destroy the self respect I have and chase after a woman that plays hard to get, done with that!

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 9 месяцев назад

      I’m so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back❤

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 9 месяцев назад

      *@✛2347025934857👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴

    • @biancadelarosa7986
      @biancadelarosa7986 9 месяцев назад

      On What'sapp..

  • @colinjs71
    @colinjs71 Год назад +2

    Is it a test or is she an avoidant attachment style ?

    • @John-nd8bw
      @John-nd8bw Год назад +2

      Most likely a test women will want to be around u all the time if they like you

  • @Gbe349
    @Gbe349 Год назад

    Hello, Chris, my ex-girlfriend unblocked and asks me about my mother and When will my mother have surgery?. weird, Knowing that I did not pursue and chase her when she blocked me. If she doesn't want me in her life why she ask me.and why she care ???

  • @kennethem4753
    @kennethem4753 Месяц назад +1

    you know, I have been pulling away from my girlfriend because she pulled away from me, we are usually extremely sweet and I would always ask her about her day and say other sweet stuff etc etc but after she had a random thought to herself, to which she never actually told me what the problem was she became distant and she has made absolutely no effort to see me and has been going out with her friends the past 2 weeks, which is cool because I really don't care but when I ask her to spend time together she never has the time and usually she would always try to make time, we have also said I love you to each other many times but she stopped saying it to me also, now fast forward to where I am at now. She is saying that I have changed, she is getting angry, she says I seem so busy and i told her that I was busy but I would love to see her. Mind you she is the one pulling away and initiating all of this negativity haha. You know, I don't message her until she messages me, I take maybe 20mins-1hr to respond, and all the typical pull way no contact things you are suppose to do when your girl pulls away. Should I keep on doing what I am doing until she corrects her attitude? Thoughts?

  • @dhritimandas463
    @dhritimandas463 Год назад

    Hi Chris

  • @user-rx4oh9ub7j
    @user-rx4oh9ub7j 5 месяцев назад +1

    This one hasn't pulled away she has deleted my number😂

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields 4 месяца назад

      LOL nothing you can do, she probably did you a favor. Find someone else.

  • @2009Andersen
    @2009Andersen 11 месяцев назад

    How do you know if they are pulling away after a date. She wrote the day after. Thank you for a good date. Looking forward to see you again. You called them only 1 time a week later or wrote 1 message 10 days later they did not reply to? I mean i know it has not been their priority to text back or what ever, but maybe they where just busy with their kid or something else. When do you know they pulled away for sure?

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields 4 месяца назад

      This guy explained you don't wait a week to reply back in another video. The most you wait is 2 hours.

  • @DavidCartmellDJCartmell
    @DavidCartmellDJCartmell Год назад

    This happened to me. When she pulled I mirrored and she wanted to end it. Blamed me too.

  • @xFINISHxHIMx
    @xFINISHxHIMx 10 месяцев назад +1

    What yall dont understand is, that might work on 1 woman, but on the other it does not. Some just want to test out how far you'd go to get her.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  10 месяцев назад +3

      Then the guy proves how much he wants the woman then y’all lose interest

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields 4 месяца назад

      What's the alternative you reach out to her beg to get back together. I tried that and she made my life miserable. She had no respect for me and now she left with no explanation again. I'm not chasing anymore.

    • @xFINISHxHIMx
      @xFINISHxHIMx 4 месяца назад +1

      NEVER BEG

  • @kelvinoke6414
    @kelvinoke6414 Год назад

    💯💯💯

  • @jacekbil
    @jacekbil Год назад +3

    My gf did exactly, tjat i moved out for a week, she broke up with me after a week and pack my stuff, now she text me eveey evening good bye....

  • @benefactorean7150
    @benefactorean7150 7 месяцев назад

    I just watch this for fun, i do not want her back, she is dramatic as $@$##, she took me from a calm person to wanting to be something else.

  • @NewLeaf88
    @NewLeaf88 Год назад +1

    Fake it until u make it!

  • @gfsfyfy426
    @gfsfyfy426 3 месяца назад

    🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲🎲