Being a hyper independant Women | Dealing with Trauma

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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

Комментарии • 25

  • @paula718
    @paula718 Год назад +3

    I love how you explained it.
    You didn’t blame or accuse you just presented facts and your own personal experience.

  • @kyleflournoy7730
    @kyleflournoy7730 Год назад +2

    The world need more of these rants but coming from a healthy place of understanding and wanting everyone to succeed.
    If this is what your channel is I'm definitely subbing

    • @Jessica-Darwin
      @Jessica-Darwin  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you ! That is definitely what this channel is about ❤️🙏🏼. Our goal is just to be able to come together and overcome our fears and struggles.

  • @KaitlynLoveXo
    @KaitlynLoveXo 8 месяцев назад +1

    I also think that it’s good for a woman to be independent instead of having to rely on a man of course you should be able to let your guard down, but some men aren’t trustworthy and you have to be really careful

  • @ginalopez1130
    @ginalopez1130 Год назад +1

    I agree with you 1000%. Never understood women who don’t “need” a man. We need each other. Great stuff godsis. Love your Channel 🔥❤️

    • @Jessica-Darwin
      @Jessica-Darwin  Год назад +2

      Thank you ☺️ ❤ yes we do need each other! Compassion needs to be given from both ends in order for things to work for the better 🙏🏼

  • @danelysmojica2173
    @danelysmojica2173 Год назад +4

    I agree wit u 100% Jessica as we get older we get better at things & now & days u don't find a good man or a good women. So if u have a good man by ur side & good women by ur side we need 2 work together.

  • @Desiire10
    @Desiire10 Месяц назад +1

    this needs more views

  • @Stephanie.Guzman90
    @Stephanie.Guzman90 Год назад

    Amen! I think women need to heal, prior to entering into any relationship. If they feel like they can't allow a man (for arguement sake a good/quality man) lead them and allow them to be a man in their relationship, they shouldn't enter into said relationship. I feel if anyone feels like they don't need anyone, they will eventually find themselves lonely. And I completely agree with you about being a stay-at-home mom. Prior to my husband and I getting married and having kids, we had discussions about our wants/needs in the future and I told him I would love to spend at minimum the first year with my son at home, and he made that happen for me. Even though, I graduated with my degree, and can work if I want to. Before becoming a stay-at-home mom, I was nervous but when it happened, it felt so natural for me. My son will be three next month, and my second baby is 9 months still a stay-at-home mom and I never regretted the decision. Not to mention so so grateful that my husband made it a point to work hard out of the house so I could have this opportunity. ❤️

    • @Jessica-Darwin
      @Jessica-Darwin  Год назад +1

      Omg thank you so much for sharing your experience ❤ am honored 🙏🏼 . Am glad you can relate and know where my thoughts and feelings are coming from. Am so happy that you found someone who was able to compliment you and fulfill their role as a husband/ father of your kids and you were able to fulfill your role as a wife and mother that you wanted to be🙏🏼

  • @chriswalshtv
    @chriswalshtv Год назад +1

    Hey what’s up fam how y’all doing? much love

  • @isag7308
    @isag7308 Год назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @thebespokegentleman2375
    @thebespokegentleman2375 Год назад +2

    This lie that keeps getting told about independent women coming from Trama got to stop because women in the past i mean the ones who grew up in the 70's and before had Trama yet a lot of them got married do well and don't fly this garbage independent flag. women just hate accountability and want their cake and eat it to so they take all the excuses society keeps given them.

    • @ArtAbsurdist
      @ArtAbsurdist Год назад +2

      Independent women is GOOD. Hyper-independence is NOT GOOD.

    • @ArtAbsurdist
      @ArtAbsurdist Год назад +2

      She’s speaking of the HYPER independence women have from extreme trauma in their childhood. Big difference.
      An independent woman is a very healthy thing- she’s open to criticism, she’s in her feminine energy and reflects that outwards, she’s asks for help comfortably, she’s trusting of her man, etc…
      Try to understand what hyper independence is bc it’s awful for us women and it’s totally destroyed my relationships and it’s not a lie.

    • @thebespokegentleman2375
      @thebespokegentleman2375 Год назад

      @@ArtAbsurdist all these different names to avoid accountability, I’m sorry but women today have no idea of
      The hell older women went through and over came. They spend their time being worshiped and told they can do no wrong as well as envy the lives they see on social media. Also this whole
      Feminine energy thing needs to stop your a woman you don’t have to Chanel anything special to be one just be one however to act like the no accountable women today work has to be put in for that. There is no such thing as an independent woman a woman who pays her own bills is simply a responsible grown up just like a man who pays his bills.

  • @TheWhiteManSays
    @TheWhiteManSays Год назад +1

    Hyper independent sounds like a lonely

    • @Jessica-Darwin
      @Jessica-Darwin  Год назад +3

      It can be a lonely road because when we feel this way we feel like we can’t trust anybody