Yes, I loved their gentle tact. They were so kind and reasonable with him, and his 'bits and bobs'. He's taking a huge step, and I'm really glad for him that he has good people to help him make a start towards a better life.
FurnitureFan Yeh , the fact that they said "bits n bobs" was very telling, on other shows the cleaners talk down condescendingly and are very agressively to hoarder
Yep. Our hoarder shows are totally different. It's "You got 3 days to clean up this crap or you'll be evicted". But in fairness imagine having to live next door or across the street from someone like this. And he is in such denial. He refers to his hoard as "It got into a dilapidated state" like it all just walked in and left itself there.
@@catspajamas2961 yeah, during that 11 weeks he couldn't lift things his houses were inundated with things invading and taking up residence in his two houses...
Those two women are so kind, gentle & caring the way that they are understanding of his mental health & are willing to work with him to help out, made me smile to see how pure they are
What a great idea to start with the garden, then move to the cars, helps the man with his mental health before getting to the house - starting with the areas that are less personal.
@ Mwana mboka , my wife's parents live down the road where this chap lives.it is looking much much better . i hope this will upload a part 2 in a month or 2. in feb i will upload a pic so you guys can see
So impressed with their company and how they have an aftercare service. It's one thing to just get rid of all the rubbish and go but their services are so much more helpful so that hopefully he'll be able to cope with his issues and not fall back into that state again.
Depression is a curse. It handcuffs your mind and your body. If we all had caring people around us, then we wouldn’t turn to items to keep us happy. Too hard to explain.
Alexander Miltenburg I'm guessing you don't know much about mental illness. I suppose that's lucky because it means you don't have anyone in your family or friends that suffer from a mental illness. Cheers
The way the two women speak about this man, you can tell they use all their patience and are really good at waiting until they can actually help, which is nice to see. I have a cousin who is a hoarder, but he has a lot of land, so he has dozens and dozens of large sheds that have so many things in them, and his wife has the same patient, steady tone with him, even though I'd lose patience with that sort of thing.
xingcat you ever thought about going through and trying to sell any items. Your cousin might have a few things that are considered jems to others. Especially if e has a lot of land. You might find stuff you could use also.
Why on earth are these women pussyfooting around this lazy old git who has a mental health condition that effects all of his neighbors! It’s a shakeup of reality he needs not consideration
Michael John Dennis your right a good old fashioned kick up the backside!, And he is quite the old school type of person who was probably around at the end of the war so a military style approach is probably what he understands!
This team and these girls seem so much calmer and gentle than other hoard cleaners and the fact that they take their time to help encourage him onto the path he need rather than shoving like some other teams I think is really nice.
Micheal John Dennis has a completely empty account so I'm not sure if we should take him seriously. I personally am a hoarder (not as much as this man) and I've noticed the shopping got worse whenever there was more stress. I've kept my items clean, just stacked all about the place. Don't get me wrong, you can see the floor and there's no food or anything like pests, it's just very full, difficult to reach the windows, for example. I got someone to help me clean, but during one of our first meetings, she started secretly shoving items in the bin, without asking me. Turns out she felt that my sewingproject (a pair of little reindeer-ears and antlers to put on a christmas-themed-hairband) I had been working on that morning, which was nearly finished, was 'rubbish' and 'needed to go, to get the table clean." While I cried in the bathroom and tried to gather up enough courage to confront her, she was throwing away my bag of papermaché-base, just because she thought it would be a quick thing to clean up. I'm an artist, so I work with that monthly, if not weekly, papermaché is a big part of my art. When I tried to confront her, she got angry and said I was lazy. She said; 'You have to clean your junkpile' and I just stopped letting anyone speak to me about it. Anyone that spoke about the stuff, made me upset and I bought more stuff, to deal with the stress. Two years ago, however, I got a very kind and understanding person to help me. When I have an item I can't let go of, she asks me if 'writing it down on a list' would help. So I can buy a proper, clean and new item, when the time is right. She visits weekly and she helps me with other things too, but we've cleaned out 15 bags of stuff and given it to charities. There's many more bags to come, I've already gathered them near the door, it's all clean stuff to be donated. (Might be important to mention I have a tiny one-room-home, so 15 bags is a lot.) As long as people understand what's going on and try to help me, I feel empowered and strong enough to join and help out and sometimes go through stuff on my own and put large amounts in the donate-bag. Whatever happens though, never again someone like the first woman that came to 'help.' She's been fired anyway, she was no longer welcome at other client's homes (she works with kids with autism) and they'd just lock the door if she was on the doorstep. I'm very happy with my kind supporter, I understand how I got into the clutter-situation and she alerts me to the signals if I attempt to panic-buy again, without mothering or bothering me. Great technique.
@@theecologist10 Thank you. I'm very happy I did not receive any "tough love", as you called pressure and force a few minutes earlier. I hope you've also changed your mind on that now. Have a good day!
@@Widdekuu91 that woman probably needed a new profession. I wouldn’t have the patience either! That’s why I would never do something like this. Good luck and I hope you manage to organize your stuff or give the stuff you think you need away. I began collecting things myself as I’m an artist too. But then I realize it was becoming a very bad habit. My spouse’s parents are hoarders and I didn’t want to go down that route, as I saw how much garbage they collected and refuse to get rid of. I stopped myself and gave most of my rubbish away or threw it out. I will get rid of more. I would have projects that I thought I would get to later, but I never did, so out it does. In reality we really don’t need half the c r a p, it but we’ve become so attached for some reason. Recently I was going for living more minimalist. But I may be a in the closest cookbook hoarder, so that’s a fail. I’ll go through my books and give them away too. Fall cleaning is coming! Need to get rid of more stuff! Well done on the bags you gave away. Keep going! Best of luck!
@@karim-a7469 it's their job to clean, it's not their job to be patient and unendingly kind-even when they're speaking about him without him being there.
What a beautiful man and what an excellent team. The 2 woman have so much empathy. You both are exceptional. You're both are amazing. I wish all the best for you and your team and I am glad the gentlemen realized he is a hoarder as this is the first step, as you know. I would like to see if this worked and how he is going. do you have a return to the scene video to watch? good luck huys
It will never be ready. It will drag on for years until his health will nolonger allow him to live alone and then it will be sold by the council or smth to pay for his long term care.
kniefi alright but I have £100 a week spare after paying my living expenses, so how can I afford to pay for a house when I don’t have the 20% for a mortgage or 35 years to pay it back?
@@coxicat659 probably, it's genetics. Some people, even with a mountain of problems, that in his case includes a battle against cancer and a loooong hospitalization, looks great. But another, in his/her first frustration, looks broken and ageing.
Yes, I suspect he never married whereas those of us with very expensive children have much less in terms of money anyway. Hoarding is a modern problem. My family (ancestors) who lived 10 children and 2 adults in a 2 up 2 bed house in 1917 would not have had that issue. I bet people owned one set of clothes and just couldn't afford things.
@@Katzian It depends. Hoarding also happens to people who are dealing with financial hardship or dealt with a lot of loss. When he was out of work, his hoarding started (or that is how it was presented). There is a link between hoarding and poverty. Some are close to the poverty line so they keep everything because they fear they cant get it again. I know a few as well.
KatzenProductions not necessarily true, my aunty lives in a town house. They’re middle class, but every time I go into their house there’s loads of stuff spilling over the floor and walls
@@janesmith9024 hoarding is definitely not a modern problem, it was talked about it prebiblical times. People were buried with their favourite things that was the bond. Vikings buried incredible hoards they are still discovering them today. An ordinary upper class Victorian house would have be classified as a hoarders home today, they had several kinds of everything, made to an incredible standard of quality, for mildly different purposes.
This is sad a lady in my town was a hoarder her house caught fire and she couldn’t get out and died and the firefighters couldn’t get in to save her... this stuff is sooo sad
Sometimes there's not relevant, up to date evidence from all countries. I often have to site statistics and research from other countries when writing essays as not everyone can constantly research every topic
Can totally relate to him saying that he finds it so hard to accept help when he is used to always giving help as part of his job etc. sometimes in the caring or customer service role we forget ourselves and don’t realise we need to spend time on ourselves to be able to care for others
Gerard Jones I work in a nursing home facility. We have two buildings. One is assisted living and the other is Alzheimers. I have to say you have to have a lot! I mean a lot of patience to deal with people that have Alzheimer’s. I get paid well. It can be better but I have to say I do what I do because I love helping people. I believe these people care about others well being and want to help them, so this is probably why do have patience and don’t judge.
As a former hoarder myself I completely understand this man. He seems like such a gentlemanly type and is very honest. I know how the hoarder mentality works and it takes years to change. I pray that this lovely man does manage to conquer his battle and turn this house back into a home like he deserves. This team of helpers are the most compassionate and understanding that I've seen. It is so nice to see people like this giving their time to people that most others would turn away from and just assume it is their own fault due to laziness, which it isn't.
How did you overcome it ? I'm really curious because I'm the total opposite. I deep clean my flat a few times a month... my mentality is If I have not used it in a year I don't need it
It's strange that hoarders don't keep things in order... it's just piled up like it's all rubbish yet every item has so much meaning to them... You would think they would keep it neat
Its not really the case of them Keeping items for sentimental value , its more the issue of being able to throw anything away , 9/10 horders you see on these shows literally just live surrounded by old shite and rubbish
There are neat hoarders. I once met a women that had no garbage, but plastic box after plastic box labled in her house and there was just a path leading through.
The hoarding itself is a materialized way to you see and understand the brain and feelings of a hoarder. When you catch this is easy to understand that hoarding is a mental condition, nothing to do with bad behaviour ou lack of hygiene. It's much more complex.
yeaaa nah most hoarders don't attach meaning to their items, 95% of the time the reason they are not throwing something away is because "it might be useful one day". Sentimental value is a thing but not as much as its use
What a thoroughly decent group of individuals. Very understanding, patient and full of empathy for their client. I hope he gets better and I hope that team continue to help improve the quality of life for future clients who ask for their services.
The amount of money he could have had in his bank account if he didn’t collect and buy all this stuff on the ‘cheap’ is actually really expensive. Kinda sad.
These ladies have been on a video before, helping a lady and they go back checking up on them. I do hope this lovely gentleman got sorted out. He seems to have lots of company through his work etc but he didn't mention family; I'd love to do an 'adopt a grandad' thing. My teens no longer have grandparents but I bet this man is well educated as he speaks so well. I imagine my teens could learn loads from him.
Most of these people live in these conditions for years , its no wonder people are unaware of them , probably too depressed and embarrassed to even consider getting any help towards it too
I don't believe most statistics any more. The numbers get boosted to make the problem seem more widespread so it attracts attention and money. 3 million? That's 1 in 20 out of every man, women and child in the country. Nonsense.
Yh my mum is lyk dat too ..please how do you help such people? Because its definitely annoying cos you always have to clean up a whole lot of junk stuffs after coming back home after a while in college ..it's frustrating.so please how do we help those people so that they can get rid of stuffs themselves
The hoarders don't see it as an illness but other people do. I"m glad it's been given a name. I thought it was just how my mother was too. She's in a nursing home now so she can't hoard anymore. She used to fight with me for cleaning or disposing of rubbish. I was interfering with her things is how she saw it
What a shame my house is so small, I just imagine my boys living, playing and running through a house this big, it got so much light and it is so beautiful.
I would describe myself as a hoarder, although things are improving because of decreased stress and increased income, I feel much more at ease letting go of things because I dont feel like I'm in a survival situation anymore. Having insufficient time, money and social interaction can absolutely lead to acquiring materials for a sense of security. My mother is also a hoarder, my family went through some rough times after a separation from my father and our household started accumulating garbage that we were not allowed to throw out.
The mental torment of seeing your life being binned before your very eyes must be so demoralising for people who keep random stuff like that as memories
My grandmother is a hoarder & its such a strain on the family. We're just all willing to help her clean up but we've been hitting a dead end for over 20 years now. Its honestly becoming depressing watching her live like that.
My dad is and I want to help but they don't let me. I care...I want them to live an easy life after all their hard work. But dad just brings junk home every week.
Impressed at those 2 women and the way they explained his hoarding in a kind compassionate way. Gives me hope that their is people out there that are decent.
@JmeTN Noooooo we have an NHS but it would be very difficult and a long lengthy process to access any practical support and that would mostly be provided through a charity.
The Illuminati : They're so obvious too! (The panties that is.) I guess it's possible he had a wife and/or daughter living there at one time. The other thing is that he's using the excuses of time, health and finance for how this happened but first of all he has TWO houses and secondly, somehow all that stuff arrived at his 2 homes and car. A lot of it doesn't look super old, so the buying had to have been still occurring over the last several decades at least. Anyway, it's nice to see how kind but firm those ladies are with him.
NickandM Indeed. I've seen a number of these hoarder videos and there's a regular program on US TV and I always feel badly for the neighbors. I live in a city that's among the top 5 highest cost of living places in the US. We work very hard and have to do without many things in order to even find a place to live much less buy a property. We get taxed based on assessed values and one house on a block occupied by a hoarder would drag down the values of the other houses making it unnecessarily difficult for someone wanting to get away from his "contributions" and move elsewhere because they'd not get the full value to have for the purchase or even rent of a different location. Grr. I get that it is a mental illness but that doesn't mean the hoarder is the only "victim".
Anna-Lisa Girling How sad, how very sad your understanding of the human condition is so limited. We agree with everything you said about property value & taxes etc. Perhaps if neighbor such as yourself could get past the narrow view of how it only affects you personally,you could possibly extend yourself to try to help neighbors that are in difficult situations. Obviously the situation didn’t rise overnight. Fact, most elderly hoarders spent the majority of their life being micromanagers and perfectionist. Every case there’s a pivotal moment in these individuals lives where “things”did not go according to their plans. Panic and depression over not controlling one circumstances can be overwhelming.Some people sometimes are comforted by gathering objects around them.If Family,friends and neighbors,even strangers are willing to say “may I help you,what can I do”these lives may not have gotten to such a critical state. Not with the attitude that you’re there to fix or take over or tell him where he’s made huge mistakes in his life. Instead make an appointment to see them in the park or meet them at a pub or the library because these people do not want strangers to know how they are living. As they get to know you a little and trust you a little they will allow you to help them in a more practical way and have outside help assist with the problem. If you really don’t want to be living next to hoarders,be kind,have some empathy and be a good neighbor. The outcome will be beneficial to all involved.
BBT MAC Wait a minute. First you infer that I am an example of something profoundly "sad" and then you say, "We agree with everything you said about property value & taxes, etc." Make up your mind before you respond to my posting. I feel terrible aboiut the situation this man has created for himself but he has also ceated it for his neighbors. This is a British program/video so I don't know if you can get a sense of the numbers here but I live in a small 2 bedroom condo and it was assessed at $550,000.00 last fall when we all got our tax notices. That's roughly $350,000.00 more than the purchase price 16 years ago. AND, it is estimated that its "value" (after all, this is all about the flakey cycles of economics ) will go up around 9-14% next year. My spouse has 6 years to go before she will be in a good position to retire and her great job is HERE. If we had Mr. Binhouse living next door to us that assessed value would suffer--perhaps as much as $150,000.00 if the smell and vermin problem were what I suspect it is on his block. We would not want to continue living next to that--period--no matter what unfortunate state his mental and emotional health. If we moved, we'd be unable to afford a different home of a similar size and comfort within a reasonable commute distant from her job. We are in our 60's right now and not in the mood or position to get another mortgage and I'm supposed to be somehow so utterly devoid of understanding of the human condition that I might feel it's OK to suffer such personal losses due to a "human" with a "condition" that's living in my neighborhood? Well, call me a cold, indifferent, clueless and heartless cow. But, tell that to the Humane Society, Wounded Warrior Project, St. Joseph's School, Doctors Without Borders and several other charities we support. Don't you judge me for a viewpoint that seems cold but, upon closer examination, has a specific validity.
My dad is a hoarder and I and my mom are neat freaks. Living under the same roof was not easy. I moved out so I just hope my mom is able to continue keeping the inside of the house clean. I went over to visit and it was not as clean as before.
@@aprilsummers6447 They were evicted from their home of 17 years unfortunately 😔 because of the hoarding. They now live in a smaller house but my dad now keeps his junk strictly inside of the sheds in the backyard and is not allowed to bring anything else home that does not fit inside them.
@@erickvillegas8327 that's unfortunate. But at least your dad learnt. Have your parents, in particular your dad, gone to therapy/counselling? Also hard question but if your mum is such a neat freak, why did she stay with him?
I mean, I can get why people hoard stuff and I get the psychology behind becoming an obsessive hoarder. But why in the hell are some of the hoarders' homes so freaking dirty and gross??
PotterheadGeeK7 I'd guess because hoarding is a symptom of other mental health issues like depression. In my experience as a diagnosed major depressive person your will to do anything is an issue. Especially cleaning.
It is very, very difficult to clean around severe clutter, especially as one gets older. My home is crowded with too much stuff, mostly too many books and magazines, and too much of a fabric stash, but I can still clean it without difficulty - mostly because my kitchen and bathrooms are not cluttered. I also have just one cat.
I've seen a clean hoarder. He had his place crammed with stuff but the place was still clean. I'm not as much a hoarder as I am a slob but I take the trash out once or twice per week, don't have dirty dishes, and the bathroom is clean. Like if my toilet got clogged and I couldn't unclog it myself I would call a plumber and if worst case scenario I found myself without a toilet from some reason, I wouldn't hoard the used toilet paper. I have no idea why some of them do.
SepherStar if people hoard dirt, garbage etc it's signs of deep trauma and multiple mental health issues. Many of these people might find it extremely difficult to even get out of bed, and it may be an achievement to do so. It's hard to compare yourself with someone with a disability
She retracted her statement! Wow! That's an amazingly brave thing to see in the internet age. I see people time and time again go down with the sinking ship when it comes to comments they make or things they believe. There seems to be a great fear of saying things like "I've changed my mind" "I no longer believe that" or (God forbid) "I was wrong". I know this doesn't really apply to the video as a whole, but it's something that stood out.
sad. I'm a hoarder of papers, books and boxes and it does consume my life but I'm so glad I do manage to keep my home clean lol. My hoarding is not out in the open well cept the books in a bookshelf lol. My hoarding stufff is packed neatly in bags and boxes which is hidden away. I do feel overwhelmed though when looking at so much stuff I have but I put meaning into things and putting meaning into things is what prevents me from throwing them away. I do believe hoarding IS a mental problem but for me I can't pinpoint what that mental problem may be. I hope one day I can gain the mentally that will help me get rid of those meanings I put into material things, that will be a miracle for me.
NatrulyVivaciousVegan Why not download or buy any ebooks so you don’t have to have the physical book? You can save thousands of books online. I love to read myself and go to the library every week. I also own more than a hundred books so I understand. I do have a 6 month check where I go through all my books and select a boxful that I donate to the library. Doing this twice a year keeps my book shelf fresh with new books while I can get a nice tax deduction from donating.
NatrulyVivaciousVegan - I encourage u to do just 10minutes a month. I have the same problem as u. All of it is stored in waterproof boxes & it's taken me over 4years to put a serious dent in it. If something is too special to donate or throw out, then don't till u are ready. However there will be some things u can gradually let go. I just took photos of about 30 items & then threw them in the bin. I still have the memory in a photo without taking up precious living space. Plus paperwork etc attracts all sorts of creepy crawlies! Be encouraged, you can do it!
My mother-n-law and her sister passed away, we inherited their house and everything in it. My husband couldn't go in the house for 6 months. He has a hard time letting go
NatrulyVivaciousVegan impressive that you are aware you have a problem. Start paying attention to yourself, test your limits. Understand that any thought or thing that angers you is a result of your brain feeling threatened. Figure out what threatens you and figure out if you need to be threatened by it or not,
So many homeless people and he has 2 houses full of junk ..... I'm glad he's getting help. I absolutely do agree with him. It is hard to ask for help. I'm glad he got help from the right type of people
OneHappyAlien yes, he is. But just like all hoarders, he's looking to an external excuse as to why its become how it is, when actually it all comes from within himself.
His houses and cars didn't got like that in six months. And they are not dilapidated. He uses cancer as an excuse sure that nobody is going to call him out on it because cancer is of course very bad and most people wouldn't dare to contradict him after the C-word has been mentioned.
You ladies are so gentle, kind, understanding and patient. Bless you for the backbreaking work that you do and the emotional support you offer for those in distress. WELL DONE ❤️
You would think the fact that everybody could see all that crap piled up against every house window/car window would be enough to horrify the person to do something about it!!
"Pass it on" is what we say when we need to remove things we don't need. Great mental nudge to remind us that there are those who have little and can use good items. No junk though, that goes to trash man! 🙄 Hope this gentleman gets all the support he needs.
Strange how some are excellent employees, can manage other people at work and manage a business, but can't manage their own houses and life. Also shocked that the neighbors didn't do more complaining about the state of his properties.
I do too. I can't believe how cruel people are to them. They're clearly struggling with life and this is their way of coping. I mean, if someone has a broken leg, you don't say "That's never happened to me, does it hurt." You can see that it's uncomfortable. You wouldn't throw away their cast, because they need that support while they are healing.
I see a very lonely old man. I’m sure he wishes he had one person to care and to look through some of his bits and bobs and to remanence over some of them. I think all that crap somehow comforts him. I lose my mind if I can’t see my countertops!! This would make me the most depressed person on earth living in squalor like this. I wish I could adopt him. My heart just burst into a million pieces when these two ANGELS said they’d be back each month to visit. That would probably be his best therapy ever. I hope they get him out to meet someone special or introduce him to online dating!! I wish I knew how he was doing now. I’m still willing to adopt a grandpa!! All mine have passed many years ago. 🤗
I am a level 3-4 hoarder, but I am hoping to get it down to a 2. I have never had it bad enough to damage any property that I was living it and I still had a kitchen and bathroom. But as I get older it is becoming more and more dangerous for me to have so much crap everywhere and on the floors. If anyone reading this can offer professional help in the WV postcode area of England, please leave a comment. Thank you.
What a great pity that there's homeless people all over the country and here are two lovely houses somewhere in the West Midlands which can't be used. Please somebody give this man some treatment so he can sort out all his (probably unwanted) stuff and get these houses back into use. I'd love to know whether this situation is being resolved.
It is a mental health problem which may originate with some trauma in life perhaps even in childhood. Also loneliness and lack of support can cause it. Everyone needs love and a bit of help.
these ladies are really lovely, they are doing an amazing service. he seems like a very lovely man too! as a former therapist i know that it takes just as long to undo what was done as it did in the first place. no hoarder fills their house over 2 weeks, it takes years. the trauma needs to be addressed first or correspondingly with a slow process clean out. my schizophrenic brother is a hoarder, it practically destroyed my father's house, it's so hard
I was gonna comment about how bad his habit he's doing but after i learn about his worries then it occur to me that we should listen 👂first because it is the most powerful thing you could do💕
The two main cleaners having mental health expertise struck me as a compassionate and sensible way to cope with extreme hoarders.
Yes, I loved their gentle tact. They were so kind and reasonable with him, and his 'bits and bobs'. He's taking a huge step, and I'm really glad for him that he has good people to help him make a start towards a better life.
Yeah, these ladies seem very professional and compassionate.I hope the old chap is all organized by now.
FurnitureFan Yeh , the fact that they said "bits n bobs" was very telling, on other shows the cleaners talk down condescendingly and are very agressively to hoarder
Super Nova yes, they seemed completely non judgemental, if I was a hoarder I would want them to come and help me
What a awesome combination!
Man, I love throwing shit out, donating to charity, and recycling. I find it theraputic.
Not getting/buying it in the first place, perhaps?
Small steps - eventually people realize that they don't need to bring it in because they're only going to chuck it eventually. Takes time.
Ko Br true. im not a minimalist but i love not having a lot of stuff. makes cleaning easier
I'm an absolute minimalist, I love throwing things out or giving it away.
To declutter your space is to declutter your mind.
Give these two women their own series. They are amazing!
New Beginnings right
Agreed
2 legends deserve to be super stars
I think the two are dating
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UK: "When he's ready to have that help, he'll let us know."
US: "We're gonna be here for 3 days. Take it or leave it."
Yep. Our hoarder shows are totally different. It's "You got 3 days to clean up this crap or you'll be evicted". But in fairness imagine having to live next door or across the street from someone like this. And he is in such denial. He refers to his hoard as "It got into a dilapidated state" like it all just walked in and left itself there.
I'm American. It happened while he was in the hospital.
@@catspajamas2961 yeah, during that 11 weeks he couldn't lift things his houses were inundated with things invading and taking up residence in his two houses...
@@seaniesean5 Don't you hate it when that happens?
Yes sir!!!
I need these two to have their own show about helping hoarder. They're so kind and both have unique styles.
True. Might help other hoarders contact someone to get the help they need...if hoarders even watch shows about hoarding...?
Those two women are so kind, gentle & caring the way that they are understanding of his mental health & are willing to work with him to help out, made me smile to see how pure they are
Spookie they're so lovely ❤️❤️❤️
They’re wonderful.
Agreed! Nice, warm and patient people.
He’s lovely
What a great idea to start with the garden, then move to the cars, helps the man with his mental health before getting to the house - starting with the areas that are less personal.
I’m the opposite, having too much ‘stuff’ stresses me..
waynester71 same here
waynester71 I often throw out Stuff & then have to buy new because I needed it
Oh my God that's me. Actually if somebody visits me in my small appartment with many luggages i literary get sick
waynester71 to
So you’re a minimalist
I want to see the finished project.
Mualu Mombutshi
Same.
Me too!
@ Mwana mboka , my wife's parents live down the road where this chap lives.it is looking much much better . i hope this will upload a part 2 in a month or 2. in feb i will upload a pic so you guys can see
Lechiffresix six cool thanks
Probably won't ever let them clean in any meaningful way. Only after he's dead, and then they'll just have to garbage everything.
Does anyone else love it when brits say “bits and bobs”
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Yeah I caught that..
William Harrison hahahah always say that pits and bobs mate lol
hahahah always say that pits and bobs mate lol
Other people would have said “junk”, “rubbish”. They are very sympathetic.
So impressed with their company and how they have an aftercare service. It's one thing to just get rid of all the rubbish and go but their services are so much more helpful so that hopefully he'll be able to cope with his issues and not fall back into that state again.
I'm hoping they did / do a follow up video.
"It's estimated to affect 6% of Americans"
"BRITAIN’S HIDDEN HOARDERS"
That confuses me. I mean 3 million of roughly 58 million is just under 6%. 😂
Bruh I literally heard that and I was like wait a minute🙃
Fr like why do you need to add that useless info in the British shows
@@loveablekittycat1219 66 million people in the UK. Closer to 4%. Similar percent of hoarders in Canada, where I live.
@Mr MEMé?
Depression is a curse. It handcuffs your mind and your body. If we all had caring people around us, then we wouldn’t turn to items to keep us happy. Too hard to explain.
barbara timmermans or just man up.
Alexander Miltenburg what?
Exactly. Objects keep us company people do not.
Alexander Miltenburg
I'm guessing you don't know much about mental illness. I suppose that's lucky because it means you don't have anyone in your family or friends that suffer from a mental illness. Cheers
Alexander Miltenburg
I smell a troll
The way the two women speak about this man, you can tell they use all their patience and are really good at waiting until they can actually help, which is nice to see. I have a cousin who is a hoarder, but he has a lot of land, so he has dozens and dozens of large sheds that have so many things in them, and his wife has the same patient, steady tone with him, even though I'd lose patience with that sort of thing.
xingcat you ever thought about going through and trying to sell any items. Your cousin might have a few things that are considered jems to others. Especially if e has a lot of land. You might find stuff you could use also.
Why on earth are these women pussyfooting around this lazy old git who has a mental health condition that effects all of his neighbors! It’s a shakeup of reality he needs not consideration
Michael John Dennis your right a good old fashioned kick up the backside!, And he is quite the old school type of person who was probably around at the end of the war so a military style approach is probably what he understands!
That's clearly an easy tone to ignore.
When watching this I realise I should really clean up my home. Bye.
Simon Says Apple Good idea mate.
Good job did you clean it?
@@tomokokuroki7107 🤣🤣🤣
I hope you're done cleaning your home now. 😊😊😊
@@maytuyac6718 There we go. I'm done now.
This team and these girls seem so much calmer and gentle than other hoard cleaners and the fact that they take their time to help encourage him onto the path he need rather than shoving like some other teams I think is really nice.
Micheal John Dennis has a completely empty account so I'm not sure if we should take him seriously.
I personally am a hoarder (not as much as this man) and I've noticed the shopping got worse whenever there was more stress.
I've kept my items clean, just stacked all about the place. Don't get me wrong, you can see the floor and there's no food or anything like pests, it's just very full, difficult to reach the windows, for example.
I got someone to help me clean, but during one of our first meetings, she started secretly shoving items in the bin, without asking me. Turns out she felt that my sewingproject (a pair of little reindeer-ears and antlers to put on a christmas-themed-hairband) I had been working on that morning, which was nearly finished, was 'rubbish' and 'needed to go, to get the table clean."
While I cried in the bathroom and tried to gather up enough courage to confront her, she was throwing away my bag of papermaché-base, just because she thought it would be a quick thing to clean up.
I'm an artist, so I work with that monthly, if not weekly, papermaché is a big part of my art.
When I tried to confront her, she got angry and said I was lazy. She said; 'You have to clean your junkpile' and I just stopped letting anyone speak to me about it. Anyone that spoke about the stuff, made me upset and I bought more stuff, to deal with the stress.
Two years ago, however, I got a very kind and understanding person to help me. When I have an item I can't let go of, she asks me if 'writing it down on a list' would help. So I can buy a proper, clean and new item, when the time is right.
She visits weekly and she helps me with other things too, but we've cleaned out 15 bags of stuff and given it to charities. There's many more bags to come, I've already gathered them near the door, it's all clean stuff to be donated. (Might be important to mention I have a tiny one-room-home, so 15 bags is a lot.)
As long as people understand what's going on and try to help me, I feel empowered and strong enough to join and help out and sometimes go through stuff on my own and put large amounts in the donate-bag.
Whatever happens though, never again someone like the first woman that came to 'help.' She's been fired anyway, she was no longer welcome at other client's homes (she works with kids with autism) and they'd just lock the door if she was on the doorstep. I'm very happy with my kind supporter, I understand how I got into the clutter-situation and she alerts me to the signals if I attempt to panic-buy again, without mothering or bothering me. Great technique.
@@Widdekuu91 exactly, it's a mental health issue and bullying someone will only make it worse
@@Widdekuu91 I hope things are going well for you now
@@theecologist10
Thank you. I'm very happy I did not receive any "tough love", as you called pressure and force a few minutes earlier.
I hope you've also changed your mind on that now. Have a good day!
@@Widdekuu91 that woman probably needed a new profession. I wouldn’t have the patience either! That’s why I would never do something like this. Good luck and I hope you manage to organize your stuff or give the stuff you think you need away.
I began collecting things myself as I’m an artist too. But then I realize it was becoming a very bad habit. My spouse’s parents are hoarders and I didn’t want to go down that route, as I saw how much garbage they collected and refuse to get rid of. I stopped myself and gave most of my rubbish away or threw it out. I will get rid of more. I would have projects that I thought I would get to later, but I never did, so out it does. In reality we really don’t need half the c r a p, it but we’ve become so attached for some reason. Recently I was going for living more minimalist. But I may be a in the closest cookbook hoarder, so that’s a fail. I’ll go through my books and give them away too. Fall cleaning is coming! Need to get rid of more stuff!
Well done on the bags you gave away. Keep going! Best of luck!
These women are SAINTS. Clearly and undeniably.
I don't think so. I think they are normal human beings with tolerance and humanity.
... it IS their job
@@karim-a7469 it's their job to clean, it's not their job to be patient and unendingly kind-even when they're speaking about him without him being there.
Saints...DONT GET PAID FRIEND!!! BUT IM SURE THEY ARE KIND PEOPLE.
bee also, there are other types of cleaning jobs they could be doing... they’re obviously clever girls and could just do office and normal cleaning.
For a man in his 70s that has fought cancer and won he is in good physical health
The hard workers are all angels, bless them all..
Im glad hes getting help.
The only reason I’m watching this is because I’m currently cleaning my home and throwing stuff away. Gotta get some perspective
Same lol i just want to feel better about my dirtiness
Me too, it’s motivating me!!
What a beautiful man and what an excellent team. The 2 woman have so much empathy. You both are exceptional. You're both are amazing. I wish all the best for you and your team and I am glad the gentlemen realized he is a hoarder as this is the first step, as you know. I would like to see if this worked and how he is going. do you have a return to the scene video to watch? good luck huys
Please upload an update when it’s ready! What amazing work this company is doing for the poor guy. He seems so nice.
It will get condemned if he don't clean up.
It will never be ready. It will drag on for years until his health will nolonger allow him to live alone and then it will be sold by the council or smth to pay for his long term care.
After a few weeks he joined the fox family in his own home.
@@Alex-qx7jnwrong,, and stop judging the houses are much better now
How can he afford two houses when I can't afford a flat?
Don Wald probably has been working since he was 17/18 - that be 54/55 years!
More than an average "work-life"
Probably bought one and inherited the other.
Homes were cheaper before. I bet he bought them long ago.
Don Wald he’s old he’s probably bought these houses over many years
kniefi alright but I have £100 a week spare after paying my living expenses, so how can I afford to pay for a house when I don’t have the 20% for a mortgage or 35 years to pay it back?
He looks great for someone in his 70s
hen tan that was very rude and sarcastic
I agree, especially for someone who's been through cancer for an extended time.
There is Poop on my Lollipop lol you are the one thinking he looks bad.
I wonder what his secret is.
@@coxicat659 probably, it's genetics. Some people, even with a mountain of problems, that in his case includes a battle against cancer and a loooong hospitalization, looks great. But another, in his/her first frustration, looks broken and ageing.
I can tell these two ladies have a real sincere concern for this man
2 houses, a nissan micra S, a benz. And a civic. This dude is loaded.
Yes, I suspect he never married whereas those of us with very expensive children have much less in terms of money anyway.
Hoarding is a modern problem. My family (ancestors) who lived 10 children and 2 adults in a 2 up 2 bed house in 1917 would not have had that issue. I bet people owned one set of clothes and just couldn't afford things.
@@Katzian It depends. Hoarding also happens to people who are dealing with financial hardship or dealt with a lot of loss. When he was out of work, his hoarding started (or that is how it was presented).
There is a link between hoarding and poverty. Some are close to the poverty line so they keep everything because they fear they cant get it again. I know a few as well.
He inherited at least one house.
You don't have to be rich sometimes, just be the last one standing.
KatzenProductions not necessarily true, my aunty lives in a town house. They’re middle class, but every time I go into their house there’s loads of stuff spilling over the floor and walls
@@janesmith9024 hoarding is definitely not a modern problem, it was talked about it prebiblical times. People were buried with their favourite things that was the bond. Vikings buried incredible hoards they are still discovering them today. An ordinary upper class Victorian house would have be classified as a hoarders home today, they had several kinds of everything, made to an incredible standard of quality, for mildly different purposes.
This is sad a lady in my town was a hoarder her house caught fire and she couldn’t get out and died and the firefighters couldn’t get in to save her... this stuff is sooo sad
ladydede88 oh no ☹️☹️☹️😭😭😭😭
ladydede88 liar
ladydede88 tragic
damn. i guess it finally came true. ive seen a lot of comments that say "burn it down"
@@batheandrelaxinmyshit6344 thank you. I appreciate it
A video about about British hoarders, provides an American stat.
I also found that weird.
Yeah what's that about?
He provided stats for both the U.S and the U.K
Just pointing out that the u.s have issues too
Sometimes there's not relevant, up to date evidence from all countries. I often have to site statistics and research from other countries when writing essays as not everyone can constantly research every topic
What empathic, wonderful women they are to assist this person. So wonderful.
Cp4 they do this for a living and are trained in mental health care. They are lovely.
These ladies are compassionate and really care about this poor man living in his car. He owns two houses.
Presenter: This house looks ordinary from the street
No one:
House: Belongings smashed again all the windows
I live in the West Midlands what is where he is and I’ve never seen a hoarded before
Can totally relate to him saying that he finds it so hard to accept help when he is used to always giving help as part of his job etc. sometimes in the caring or customer service role we forget ourselves and don’t realise we need to spend time on ourselves to be able to care for others
I understand that ‼️
Thank you for sharing and what wonderful caring women.they are so sweet may God bless them both. the man is very kind also may God bless him.
They seem like very pleasant people.
Just watching 20 seconds of this makes me want to clean my whole apartment
These people have lots of patience to deal with something like this.
Bakhita Elias you'd have patience if you were paid enough.
Gerard Jones I work in a nursing home facility. We have two buildings. One is assisted living and the other is Alzheimers. I have to say you have to have a lot! I mean a lot of patience to deal with people that have Alzheimer’s. I get paid well. It can be better but I have to say I do what I do because I love helping people. I believe these people care about others well being and want to help them, so this is probably why do have patience and don’t judge.
I simply dont have patience to do this for others
gokarengo I don’t either
Ok but won't anyone talk about the newspaper title? "Guinea pig wins lottery".
What ⁉️⁉️i miss that 😅
As a former hoarder myself I completely understand this man. He seems like such a gentlemanly type and is very honest. I know how the hoarder mentality works and it takes years to change. I pray that this lovely man does manage to conquer his battle and turn this house back into a home like he deserves. This team of helpers are the most compassionate and understanding that I've seen. It is so nice to see people like this giving their time to people that most others would turn away from and just assume it is their own fault due to laziness, which it isn't.
How did you overcome it ? I'm really curious because I'm the total opposite. I deep clean my flat a few times a month... my mentality is If I have not used it in a year I don't need it
I feel so sad for this chap.
Why? There are people who have NOTHING, feel for them.
babyblueLEGEND I do. Which is why I work with the homeless. Why would you assume that I don't?
I made no such assumption.
Catherine Bourgeois SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
It's entirely his fault.
What amazing amazing women and their team!
Yes they are truly helping him and have genuine compassion. They are a rare breed.
What a very nice man.
He is very clean & crisp.
I'm so happy he was able to accept help. These women are AMAZING! God Bless them ALL!! ❤❤
Some of the kindest cleaners I’ve seen. These ladies were sweethearts.
This was posted 3 yrs ago. Is there an update? I want to see an "after", otherwise it's frustrating.
yes i want too..
It's strange that hoarders don't keep things in order... it's just piled up like it's all rubbish yet every item has so much meaning to them... You would think they would keep it neat
Its not really the case of them Keeping items for sentimental value , its more the issue of being able to throw anything away , 9/10 horders you see on these shows literally just live surrounded by old shite and rubbish
There are neat hoarders. I once met a women that had no garbage, but plastic box after plastic box labled in her house and there was just a path leading through.
Depression will make you to ruin things
The hoarding itself is a materialized way to you see and understand the brain and feelings of a hoarder. When you catch this is easy to understand that hoarding is a mental condition, nothing to do with bad behaviour ou lack of hygiene. It's much more complex.
yeaaa nah most hoarders don't attach meaning to their items, 95% of the time the reason they are not throwing something away is because "it might be useful one day". Sentimental value is a thing but not as much as its use
What a thoroughly decent group of individuals. Very understanding, patient and full of empathy for their client. I hope he gets better and I hope that team continue to help improve the quality of life for future clients who ask for their services.
I often watch these as motivation to go clean my house.
Me too😃
The amount of money he could have had in his bank account if he didn’t collect and buy all this stuff on the ‘cheap’ is actually really expensive. Kinda sad.
These ladies have been on a video before, helping a lady and they go back checking up on them. I do hope this lovely gentleman got sorted out. He seems to have lots of company through his work etc but he didn't mention family; I'd love to do an 'adopt a grandad' thing. My teens no longer have grandparents but I bet this man is well educated as he speaks so well. I imagine my teens could learn loads from him.
3 million people in the UK?!?!!? And 22 million in the US!?!?!?
I thought this was an odd disorder... not a freaking pandemic
LiverSpottedHunk it is rarely as severe as what you see on tv. There is a very wide spectrum that quantifies hoarding
Most of these people live in these conditions for years , its no wonder people are unaware of them , probably too depressed and embarrassed to even consider getting any help towards it too
I don't believe most statistics any more. The numbers get boosted to make the problem seem more widespread so it attracts attention and money. 3 million? That's 1 in 20 out of every man, women and child in the country. Nonsense.
I had no idea growing up that this was an illness. I thought it was only my mum living that way out of choice.
Go help your mom then
You need to go help her
Yh my mum is lyk dat too ..please how do you help such people? Because its definitely annoying cos you always have to clean up a whole lot of junk stuffs after coming back home after a while in college ..it's frustrating.so please how do we help those people so that they can get rid of stuffs themselves
@@frimpongharriet3106 she needs to see a professional.
The hoarders don't see it as an illness but other people do. I"m glad it's been given a name. I thought it was just how my mother was too. She's in a nursing home now so she can't hoard anymore. She used to fight with me for cleaning or disposing of rubbish. I was interfering with her things is how she saw it
That lady with the shaved head is sooooo beautiful.
These ladies are so compassionate, thoughtful and respectful to his hoarding. What fabulous ladies, well done to you both ❤❤
Poor guy, I hope he get the helps he needs.
I hate watching hoarder shows because they are so sad when you hear their back story on why they are hoarders
Tru Brown ...wish I knew my story 😐
Tru Brown ... btw y u have a pic of clorox bleach?
NatrulyVivaciousVegan I wonder why you have bad grammar
Kama's Queen wow that sad your that irrelevant you couldn’t comment that 2 months ago
Horde those tears away💧🥛
What a shame my house is so small, I just imagine my boys living, playing and running through a house this big, it got so much light and it is so beautiful.
One day you will have a big house God Bless
@@ignacioperez9174 Amen she will
Must be after exterminator 🤷😭
@@ignacioperez9174 Of course
Will just plop out the sky
I would describe myself as a hoarder, although things are improving because of decreased stress and increased income, I feel much more at ease letting go of things because I dont feel like I'm in a survival situation anymore. Having insufficient time, money and social interaction can absolutely lead to acquiring materials for a sense of security.
My mother is also a hoarder, my family went through some rough times after a separation from my father and our household started accumulating garbage that we were not allowed to throw out.
Y is that ⁉️y collect garage ⁉️
@@fatonyalmitchell3281 I meant it figuratively. Not literal garbage, but material posessions with no use or sentimental value.
@@AlexFlockhart got it and thanks 😊 for explaining ‼️ Eitherway best life positive WISHES 💫 continuing from Duuuuvvvvaaaalllll county Jax FL ‼️ USA 👍
The mental torment of seeing your life being binned before your very eyes must be so demoralising for people who keep random stuff like that as memories
My grandmother is a hoarder & its such a strain on the family. We're just all willing to help her clean up but we've been hitting a dead end for over 20 years now. Its honestly becoming depressing watching her live like that.
Liv Keller Is she willing to go to therapy first?
Shieka G Nope, nothing. She refuses any type of help
My dad is and I want to help but they don't let me.
I care...I want them to live an easy life after all their hard work. But dad just brings junk home every week.
Gabi Yup I know how that goes sis
She'll be dead soon and you can sell her stuff and the family can be rid of the "strain"
bless these ladies I hope their company grows from strength to strength - people need their service and TLC
Just put on a blindfold and use Fabreze. Problem solved.
Jon Singleton lol
Jon Singleton lol🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Impressed at those 2 women and the way they explained his hoarding in a kind compassionate way. Gives me hope that their is people out there that are decent.
Gwomanify 🖕
I’m curious as to how he got help, and I’m curious about who pays for the company to come and clean up this mess.
Me too...🤔
In these cases, I would guess the producers of the show.
We have a different kind of benefits which is (money ) according to your age and situations.. you will get funding from the government..
ElRoi wait, you mean all the taxpayers have to fork out for this idiot’s mess? He’s rich, he should pay it himself.
@JmeTN Noooooo we have an NHS but it would be very difficult and a long lengthy process to access any practical support and that would mostly be provided through a charity.
he doesnt appear to have a romantic partner so Who's blue "Nickers"( like the british say) are those in the windows, and why is he keeping them?
The Illuminati yep I saw em 3:09
Perhaps he used to have a partner who's since passed away or left him.
The Illuminati : They're so obvious too! (The panties that is.) I guess it's possible he had a wife and/or daughter living there at one time. The other thing is that he's using the excuses of time, health and finance for how this happened but first of all he has TWO houses and secondly, somehow all that stuff arrived at his 2 homes and car. A lot of it doesn't look super old, so the buying had to have been still occurring over the last several decades at least. Anyway, it's nice to see how kind but firm those ladies are with him.
Well I mean... he is a hoarder
That's his undies lol
*Poor neighbors.*
NickandM Indeed. I've seen a number of these hoarder videos and there's a regular program on US TV and I always feel badly for the neighbors. I live in a city that's among the top 5 highest cost of living places in the US. We work very hard and have to do without many things in order to even find a place to live much less buy a property. We get taxed based on assessed values and one house on a block occupied by a hoarder would drag down the values of the other houses making it unnecessarily difficult for someone wanting to get away from his "contributions" and move elsewhere because they'd not get the full value to have for the purchase or even rent of a different location. Grr. I get that it is a mental illness but that doesn't mean the hoarder is the only "victim".
Anna-Lisa Girling How sad, how very sad your understanding of the human condition is so limited. We agree with everything you said about property value & taxes etc. Perhaps if neighbor such as yourself could get past the narrow view of how it only affects you personally,you could possibly extend yourself to try to help neighbors that are in difficult situations. Obviously the situation didn’t rise overnight. Fact, most elderly hoarders spent the majority of their life being micromanagers and perfectionist. Every case there’s a pivotal moment in these individuals lives where “things”did not go according to their plans. Panic and depression over not controlling one circumstances can be overwhelming.Some people sometimes are comforted by gathering objects around them.If Family,friends and neighbors,even strangers are willing to say “may I help you,what can I do”these lives may not have gotten to such a critical state. Not with the attitude that you’re there to fix or take over or tell him where he’s made huge mistakes in his life. Instead make an appointment to see them in the park or meet them at a pub or the library because these people do not want strangers to know how they are living. As they get to know you a little and trust you a little they will allow you to help them in a more practical way and have outside help assist with the problem. If you really don’t want to be living next to hoarders,be kind,have some empathy and be a good neighbor. The outcome will be beneficial to all involved.
BBT MAC Wait a minute. First you infer that I am an example of something profoundly "sad" and then you say, "We agree with everything you said about property value & taxes, etc." Make up your mind before you respond to my posting. I feel terrible aboiut the situation this man has created for himself but he has also ceated it for his neighbors. This is a British program/video so I don't know if you can get a sense of the numbers here but I live in a small 2 bedroom condo and it was assessed at $550,000.00 last fall when we all got our tax notices. That's roughly $350,000.00 more than the purchase price 16 years ago. AND, it is estimated that its "value" (after all, this is all about the flakey cycles of economics ) will go up around 9-14% next year. My spouse has 6 years to go before she will be in a good position to retire and her great job is HERE. If we had Mr. Binhouse living next door to us that assessed value would suffer--perhaps as much as $150,000.00 if the smell and vermin problem were what I suspect it is on his block. We would not want to continue living next to that--period--no matter what unfortunate state his mental and emotional health. If we moved, we'd be unable to afford a different home of a similar size and comfort within a reasonable commute distant from her job. We are in our 60's right now and not in the mood or position to get another mortgage and I'm supposed to be somehow so utterly devoid of understanding of the human condition that I might feel it's OK to suffer such personal losses due to a "human" with a "condition" that's living in my neighborhood? Well, call me a cold, indifferent, clueless and heartless cow. But, tell that to the Humane Society, Wounded Warrior Project, St. Joseph's School, Doctors Without Borders and several other charities we support. Don't you judge me for a viewpoint that seems cold but, upon closer examination, has a specific validity.
Anna-Lisa Girling what hero do you recycle too?
Lmao 😂
My pity is for the poor souls whose house is attached to that horror
My dad is a hoarder and I and my mom are neat freaks. Living under the same roof was not easy. I moved out so I just hope my mom is able to continue keeping the inside of the house clean. I went over to visit and it was not as clean as before.
How is the situation now?
@@aprilsummers6447 They were evicted from their home of 17 years unfortunately 😔 because of the hoarding. They now live in a smaller house but my dad now keeps his junk strictly inside of the sheds in the backyard and is not allowed to bring anything else home that does not fit inside them.
@@erickvillegas8327 that's unfortunate. But at least your dad learnt. Have your parents, in particular your dad, gone to therapy/counselling? Also hard question but if your mum is such a neat freak, why did she stay with him?
When he spoke about the difficulty of asking for help and coming to term with realizing you can’t do something all by yourself, I really felt that
These ladies are doing wonderful work.
I mean, I can get why people hoard stuff and I get the psychology behind becoming an obsessive hoarder. But why in the hell are some of the hoarders' homes so freaking dirty and gross??
PotterheadGeeK7 I'd guess because hoarding is a symptom of other mental health issues like depression. In my experience as a diagnosed major depressive person your will to do anything is an issue. Especially cleaning.
It is very, very difficult to clean around severe clutter, especially as one gets older. My home is crowded with too much stuff, mostly too many books and magazines, and too much of a fabric stash, but I can still clean it without difficulty - mostly because my kitchen and bathrooms are not cluttered. I also have just one cat.
I've seen a clean hoarder. He had his place crammed with stuff but the place was still clean. I'm not as much a hoarder as I am a slob but I take the trash out once or twice per week, don't have dirty dishes, and the bathroom is clean. Like if my toilet got clogged and I couldn't unclog it myself I would call a plumber and if worst case scenario I found myself without a toilet from some reason, I wouldn't hoard the used toilet paper. I have no idea why some of them do.
SepherStar if people hoard dirt, garbage etc it's signs of deep trauma and multiple mental health issues. Many of these people might find it extremely difficult to even get out of bed, and it may be an achievement to do so. It's hard to compare yourself with someone with a disability
SepherStar Who cares about what u would do? You aren't a hoarder.
She retracted her statement! Wow! That's an amazingly brave thing to see in the internet age. I see people time and time again go down with the sinking ship when it comes to comments they make or things they believe. There seems to be a great fear of saying things like "I've changed my mind" "I no longer believe that" or (God forbid) "I was wrong". I know this doesn't really apply to the video as a whole, but it's something that stood out.
OH THANK GOD. HALLELUJAH Finally someone who knows what they are doing....fantastic girls!
“My name is Micheal Saunders, I play... the piano... at night.”
“Thanks, Micheal. Very cool.”
sad. I'm a hoarder of papers, books and boxes and it does consume my life but I'm so glad I do manage to keep my home clean lol. My hoarding is not out in the open well cept the books in a bookshelf lol. My hoarding stufff is packed neatly in bags and boxes which is hidden away. I do feel overwhelmed though when looking at so much stuff I have but I put meaning into things and putting meaning into things is what prevents me from throwing them away. I do believe hoarding IS a mental problem but for me I can't pinpoint what that mental problem may be. I hope one day I can gain the mentally that will help me get rid of those meanings I put into material things, that will be a miracle for me.
NatrulyVivaciousVegan Why not download or buy any ebooks so you don’t have to have the physical book? You can save thousands of books online. I love to read myself and go to the library every week. I also own more than a hundred books so I understand. I do have a 6 month check where I go through all my books and select a boxful that I donate to the library. Doing this twice a year keeps my book shelf fresh with new books while I can get a nice tax deduction from donating.
NatrulyVivaciousVegan - I encourage u to do just 10minutes a month. I have the same problem as u. All of it is stored in waterproof boxes & it's taken me over 4years to put a serious dent in it. If something is too special to donate or throw out, then don't till u are ready. However there will be some things u can gradually let go. I just took photos of about 30 items & then threw them in the bin. I still have the memory in a photo without taking up precious living space. Plus paperwork etc attracts all sorts of creepy crawlies! Be encouraged, you can do it!
My mother-n-law and her sister passed away, we inherited their house and everything in it. My husband couldn't go in the house for 6 months. He has a hard time letting go
NatrulyVivaciousVegan impressive that you are aware you have a problem. Start paying attention to yourself, test your limits. Understand that any thought or thing that angers you is a result of your brain feeling threatened. Figure out what threatens you and figure out if you need to be threatened by it or not,
Therapeutic relationship is key, as the two women mentioned. This takes patience and compassion for the person.
Any more videos of this??? I want to see how much further they get???
This man should better pay them BIG TIME. Look at all the troubles they had just to clear his porch and backyard.
So many homeless people and he has 2 houses full of junk ..... I'm glad he's getting help. I absolutely do agree with him. It is hard to ask for help. I'm glad he got help from the right type of people
he's such a nice hardworking man....i'm glad they helped him.
OneHappyAlien yes, he is. But just like all hoarders, he's looking to an external excuse as to why its become how it is, when actually it all comes from within himself.
This is how parents watch a slightly messy room
How is it hidden if you can see what the inside of his house looks like from the street?
Roy Thingamajig hidden in the society, not visually hidden
His houses and cars didn't got like that in six months. And they are not dilapidated.
He uses cancer as an excuse sure that nobody is going to call him out on it because cancer is of course very bad and most people wouldn't dare to contradict him after the C-word has been mentioned.
You ladies are so gentle, kind, understanding and patient. Bless you for the backbreaking work that you do and the emotional support you offer for those in distress. WELL DONE ❤️
You would think the fact that everybody could see all that crap piled up against every house window/car window would be enough to horrify the person to do something about it!!
When you mistake your house for a trashcan.
Kat E Underated comment
yeah, I hate when that happens
OneBizarreGuy Agreed
You must be very very young!🖤
theOFEE123 nah, just a bunch of people with common decency who know not to mock someone who is mentally ill.
"Pass it on" is what we say when we need to remove things we don't need. Great mental nudge to remind us that there are those who have little and can use good items. No junk though, that goes to trash man! 🙄 Hope this gentleman gets all the support he needs.
Every time I feel guilty about not cleaning up, I just watch one of these shows lol.
Same. And with the pandemic I've finished projects and become a minimalist. I have empty closets and empty cupboards.
Why does the voice over audio sound like it was recorded with a laptop webcam.
I bet you they are heroes
They are so kind
Much love for them
They made me fall in love with their job
I would pay to watch a transformation
Strange how some are excellent employees, can manage other people at work and manage a business, but can't manage their own houses and life. Also shocked that the neighbors didn't do more complaining about the state of his properties.
Daniya Chedekel i guess they can only manage one or the other
I could go without cleaning my house 10 years and my furniture would not stack itself in front of the door.
Two beautiful people. GOD BLESS you for your patience
I have no words for this. 😕😦😦
I always feel bad for those who are hoarders:/
I do too. I can't believe how cruel people are to them. They're clearly struggling with life and this is their way of coping.
I mean, if someone has a broken leg, you don't say "That's never happened to me, does it hurt." You can see that it's uncomfortable. You wouldn't throw away their cast, because they need that support while they are healing.
0:50 bruh you blind
He's talking about the narrator
Struwex 🤣
If i drove or walked by these houses i would say this hoard is not hidden in no way shape or form, probably could smell it before they see it, yuck
"Estimated to effect 6% ovf Americans"... this is a British show.?
I believe they stated 6% of Americans are hoarders.
I see a very lonely old man. I’m sure he wishes he had one person to care and to look through some of his bits and bobs and to remanence over some of them. I think all that crap somehow comforts him.
I lose my mind if I can’t see my countertops!! This would make me the most depressed person on earth living in squalor like this. I wish I could adopt him.
My heart just burst into a million pieces when these two ANGELS said they’d be back each month to visit. That would probably be his best therapy ever. I hope they get him out to meet someone special or introduce him to online dating!!
I wish I knew how he was doing now. I’m still willing to adopt a grandpa!! All mine have passed many years ago. 🤗
I am a level 3-4 hoarder, but I am hoping to get it down to a 2. I have never had it bad enough to damage any property that I was living it and I still had a kitchen and bathroom. But as I get older it is becoming more and more dangerous for me to have so much crap everywhere and on the floors.
If anyone reading this can offer professional help in the WV postcode area of England, please leave a comment. Thank you.
Google professional organizer in your area. Many are trained to work with hoaders.
How are you getting on? Please let us know. The ladies on the programme were also from your area. I hope you received the help you needed.
Watching them work in the garden is like watching Secret Garden...
What a great pity that there's homeless people all over the country and here are two lovely houses somewhere in the West Midlands which can't be used. Please somebody give this man some treatment so he can sort out all his (probably unwanted) stuff and get these houses back into use. I'd love to know whether this situation is being resolved.
It is a mental health problem which may originate with some trauma in life perhaps even in childhood. Also loneliness and lack of support can cause it. Everyone needs love and a bit of help.
these ladies are really lovely, they are doing an amazing service. he seems like a very lovely man too!
as a former therapist i know that it takes just as long to undo what was done as it did in the first place. no hoarder fills their house over 2 weeks, it takes years. the trauma needs to be addressed first or correspondingly with a slow process clean out.
my schizophrenic brother is a hoarder, it practically destroyed my father's house, it's so hard
I was gonna comment about how bad his habit he's doing but after i learn about his worries then it occur to me that we should listen 👂first because it is the most powerful thing you could do💕