CONFIDENCE MASTERCLASS: Level Up Your Social Skills
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- How to be confident in any situation... This live demonstration will show you how to boost your confidence fast.
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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CONFIDENCE MASTERCLASS: Level Up Your Social Skills
How to become more confident and how to improve your social skills! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions!
Discover how to develop your social skills in this social skills training.
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You're the cherry on the cream my dude thank you for that
You scammer he short loset its about looks wake up he alwasy be loser because you cant change nature and people mind inctinct
Generating fun, carefree, and passion from within will make one invincible.
nice grift
Just when I think I have problems I see people like this. My heart goes out to him, it's so easy for us to look at someone like this and see exactly what steps they would need to take to unlock their true potential. The grand joke of life is how much harder that is to do for ourselves.
What’s most personal is most universal… He did great thought! Takes a lot of courage and willingness to challenge yourself like that! 🔥👊
@@JulienHimself “what’s most personal is most universal” this is an interesting comment, but I’m not sure what you mean by it.
@@TheTempleman seems like he's saying what most people are insecure about is usually a general topic of insecurity, most of what we feel is our own battle to conquer is what most around us are also personally going through 🤷🏼♂️
@@ohmy1947 Owen talks about this in BluePrint. What they mean with that phrase is that whatever you think in your head that is your problem only that defines who you are, thousands of people have the exact same problem.
That was my takeaway from this as well. It still surprises me that some men have zero animation, vocal control or improvisation in social situations and have to work on those basic things while here I am thinking over some minor detail I thought went wrong in my interactions.
It was pain watching him try, but that's literally most of us in that situation, getting throught that awkward pain makes you much better in your social skills
“Stop waiting for someone to give you permission.” So many powerful lessons for charisma. Amazing video !!! 🔥🔥🔥
Oh, yeah! Thanks man! 👊
yah tis was crezy
Says the man that gives you permission not to ask permission 😅
Its crazy how obvious this was to me is but fear completely covers it up.
yeah it's a pretty good grift
I used to be so carefree in college. I was an asshole, and I mercilessly beat myself mentally for the past 7 years because of some mistakes I made back then. I've made myself feel worthless. I compare this anxious quiet guy I've become to who I used to be and it's wild... I'm more accomplished, more moral, physically stronger than I've ever been, but I can barely speak sometimes, and I get so tongue-tied for stupid reasons. The other day though I had my first free day in a long time. I went to urgent care to deal with a foot injury, chatted with some of the ladies behind the counter all normal, got wait listed so i went and talked to an acquaintance who lived in the area who I've always had awkward convos with and it was fluid and kind of fun, then i went back to UC and I rizzed up my nurse, she was smiling and laughing the whole time, then i rizzed up my doc as well, she was more serious, but she still smiled a lot, laughed at some of my jokes. It was a really good day. I want that more often.
Wow that guy was really trying and he managed to make the room laugh at the end, that’s what it’s all about trying even when it’s uncomfortable. Hats off to that guy and to Julian for being such a good teacher
Yes, massive respect to him! Takes a lot of courage and willingness!
Man I can totally relate to this guy as it’s pretty much the same way I act in social situations..... When I’m at home with my misses I am confident, charismatic and carefree. Always making jokes and clowning around.
But as soon as I’m around anyone else I feel like the real me disappears and I suddenly become verbally and emotionally constipated to the point where I can’t express any kind of emotion.
Everything just becomes awkward and I feel like I’m rehearsing things in my head to say before I speak - and when I do speak it always comes out stifled and rushed with no emotion...
It’s like I suddenly turn into a really rigid actor that can’t move, emote or speak properly.
I wish people could see the real me but so far only my misses and a couple of people extremely close to me have met that guy.
You’re not the only one. Think I’m about to lose my job because of this
People that don't know me think iam serious and boring, but when I take confidence, they say you make me laugh so hard, you are so funny you say the most random and crazy things . Definitely can relate
Its because you care about others’ opinions too much to point where you get stuck. Imagine them taking a shit in the morning or al of them being naked. It freakin works :)))
It happens because you’re perceiving a threat. There is one or more people in the group that you feel can say something negative or judge you or put you down. And because you’re sensitive, you wouldn’t be able to handle that kind of rejection. So your mind protects you by keeping you quiet, this way you don’t have to risk being put down or alienated or judged.
@@nickp6498 thanks for your input man… do you have any suggestions on how I can work on breaking out of this ? It literally feels like the real me vanished and an actor takes over
That guy is actually good, I wouldn't be able to do anything in that amount of pressure.
he was not good at all . (he was doing he's best though)
he was to passive, waiting for Julien magically crack up or begging him to do it himself
Jullien wanted to see a lion not a pussy cat.
It is important that there are people teaching what Julien teaches, because nowadays we are taught to be more and more repressed, and many try to take advantage of the weak.
Props to that shy guy for pushing through, his energy is so internally challenged and conflicted. If he could see the light in what Julien is saying (he can’t just take Juliens word for it, or that too would just be an unauthentic act, he could find it inside if he inquired more intensely to himself). I imagine he would have a lot better time in this world and people would reciprocate it back.
I can tell you why he’s not confident. He’s not 6” tall and his whole life he had been hearing from people and mainly women that they desire everything he is not. My absolute empathy to you man! You’ve got this!!!
I disagree, I'm under 6ft and I'm not that shy, and I know people who are weirdly short and half of them are the most charismatic people I know. It's probably a contributing factor and effects self-esteem to a degree, sure. But I also think that not being encouraged early on sets you up to become more rejected and socially anxious, which breeds more anxiety and rejection and so on the loop goes. All kids are charismatic and wild but many of us start to shelter ourselves somewhere along the way for protection, and we become disconnected to our loose selves. Often our parents don't want us being a noisy distraction and high school is often ruthless.
Just find a shorter smaller girl who dosnt like tall guys. Win
@@UNDERSTRICTOBSERVENCE That's your takeaway from what that guy said? What is the cognitive dissonance with you mindless NPC's. Do you think that guy wouldn't want a short girl?
its not his height, this guy is just a geek
It worries me how much american BOYS care about height nowadays. It's like they think height determines everything in life.
This guy is exactly what I need to finish my work to be a functional, mature and healed adult. I’ve done so much work but there’s still so much more. You can only go to therapy for so many years if you don’t have the money for it. I have a good foundation and all these videos just help me refine myself a little more.
Anyone out there in a dark place, you really can heal yourself with help and effort. So many of us are rushed through traumatic childhoods and that child stays with you. In a way my younger self has become my new best friend, my adopted child. And you know what? Kids fucking rock dude. I bet that kid inside of you is 10x cooler than the yo behind the mask of inhibitions.
your comment screams low vibration
@@eddiew2325 aww I hope things improve for you. Things can get better, I promise
@@eddiew2325 a good place for you to start is exploring why words of encouragement and positivity trigger you. Don’t just write a bitchy comment and move it aside, stay with that feeling, try not to childishly take it out on others, and dig down into it. You can do it I believe in you
I believe in God now and he has helped me more than anyone ever could. I HIGHLY reccommend reading that Bible. It's Beautiful, His Glory!🎉 Hosanna to the highest! (Save), all coming from PASSION and love for my neighbors who inhabit the Earth. ❤
I'm in a dark place and it feels like no matter how much effort I put in I never get anywhere!
The highest ROI 22 minutes of my week. Thanks Julien. Now I understand why I never find rapport with baristas. I’m trying too hard to make them smile when actually I should be focusing on what makes ME smile! Amazing
I used to be in a band and sometimes we'd play to a room of less than 10 people. I performed as if the room was full everytime, I loved the music and let that show regardless of who or how many were watching. This is how we should treat life, you need to love yourself and let that show through your energy and by being fun and passionate, regardless of your audience. Your vibe will be contagious.
When I direct films, I often show the actors what I want them to do by doing it myself rather than telling them what to do. For example, if this guy wanted you to celebrate a motorcycle race victory, he could have himself pretended like he was celebrating a motorcycle race victory. He could have been like, "Alright, Julien, I know you might feel nervous about this shoot, but we are going to do this together. I'm going to show you what I want to see in you." It takes a lot of the pressure off the subject, allows the director to be loose, and since we are creatures of imitation, it is much easier for the subject to learn what they are supposed to do.
Nice, yes! 👌
This guy had some balls to do this. I think he could have used the crowd to his advantage in this. He did once but he abandoned that early. He wrote a script in his head and stuck to it but couldn't change his enthusiasm or expression. Shyness really comes through your voice. I learned a lot from this.
Taking control of your state is such a game changer. Charisma is infectious, when you take possession of it, the world is your playground
Yes! Social SUPERPOWERS! 🔥🔥🔥
Love how you're interacting with your fans Julian! You've built something really incredible here. You helped me to get out of my shell, thanks for that
Thank you! Glad to hear you're gotten out of your shell! 🔥🔥🔥
@@JulienHimselfwhat's ur opinion on jordan peterson julien ?
@@noelrobin8674What’s your opinion on him? Thats all that matters!!! ❤️
I feel like it’s easy to say all these things when you are already comfortable in your own skin. Depression, anxiety, years of conditioning molds us into the person we are and affects all facets of our personality. So if you fix one thing, you still have another thing reminding you of what you are. Whether it’s your anxious sounding voice or nervous habits in an overall confident demeanor. We live life judging based on the smaller details expecting the entirety of a person must show absolute confidence and lack of uncertainty.
Hey man! I just wanted to thank you for saving my ass. Been so depressed for 1 year straight and had to go some things trough.. But I finally realised life is amazing!! Im not shy introvert guy anymore, now I LOVE LIFE! Thank you man and sending love to you all. U all are amazing. ❤️
How you do that
I recently found you and love your stuff. Something about this video really hit me and all of a sudden I felt very clear. I felt really happy and then burst into tears. This has NEVER happened to me before. I kept saying to myself, "what are you doing". I then grabbed my phone and started to write because I wanted to capture what I was feeling. This is what I wrote.
Its up to me to generate my own fun and vibration. You can stop now. Stop trying to do what you think you should do and start just being. For you. Start joking. For you. Carefree, fun passion. For you. Stop chasing something that is not there. Stop doing what you think you should be doing. For others. Do you. Really do you. Because you are amazing and funny and loving and passionate. Don't contain this any longer. It's you, so live it authentically, without covert contracts or caregiving. You are trying so hard to be the things that you naturally are, but looking for permission to do it on the outside. You don't need permission any more. Set yourself free. For the first time in your life. Set yourself free. For you. Just for you, and watch everyone around you enjoy this gift as they see the real authentic you. I love you. I really love you and I am proud of you. Very very proud of you. Now start living because you deserve it.
I used to be a funny energetic guy, but over time got wound so tight and don't know how to get out. I think I figured it our this morning and it hit me. Be me. That's it. So simple, just have to break the habit of making others approval the top priority. Thank you so much for doing what you do. I will carry this with me through my day and we will see what happens!
julien can articulate such complex dynamics that so subtle and so weirdly obvious at the same time and delivers it in a way that resonates at EVERY energy level !!!!!!!!!! love you brother, thanks for your work.
top 3 take away
1. Need to see Julian live
2. Have similarity : if im going out im having fun
3. Energy transference
Definitely try to make it out in person, you'll love it! 🔥
Your videos helped me a lot loosening up in public. I have a LONG way to go but taking the first step was really hard. You gave me the idea of letting go of all self conditioning and im starting to understand what that means slowly. I always wanted to look socially acceptable to people around me even when im feeling sad or down which always weighed me down in terms of expressing my true emotions. Even my family thinks im dead inside and nothing like the kid i was when young
This one is so enlightening. This is something Sadhguru (renowned guru) in India talks about. He says , once you know how to feel the feelings you want to feel at command. That's the ideal state , a bliss. It's like a self-starter engine. I always wondered how it could be done. And Julien here did an amazing job at explaining that so easily. Props to you my man!!! 👏
Amazing work Julien!! It’s been awesome to see the transformation through the whole exercise. Congrats to you and to the other guy on the stage!! 👏👏👏
When I am having some difficulty in me and searching for something similar in yt that might get me help and I find this what is genuinely exact answer I want to hear it's just pure gratitude 🙏🏻
Always have a blast no matter what
Improving everyday and this video showed me a different perspective that I’ve not considered. Bringing passion and good vibes without trying that much is precious
Thank you Julien for all your efforts to teach us powerful lessons. We're gonna have a good time no matter what!
Hats off and thumbs up to Julian for that intense and powerful message from the high thinking paradigm realm!
Thank you! 🙏
He was trying to get the guy into the mind-frame that would allow him to be loose and funny, and the way he went with was having him picture his most beloved family member had a gun to his head?!
I was really questioning myself and trying to figure out why I always get people to laugh when I connect some subject we talked about with a joke I am making. Your content is very on point in regards to where my life is headed right now and I love where you are going with it! One thing I would, like to point out : that would be to keep in mind to remind people that the process is gonna take a while and is not that easy so they don't feel pressured. Keep it up!
So true !! Step by step🤗👍
Everyone has their own spark within themselves and we just need to introspect so that we recognise those sparks and let those sparks, enlighten the whole surroundings !! Great work Julien and respect to that guy !!!!!❤
Another beautiful seminar, thanks to your videos im now loved by most and make most people laugh, to the point where people are telling me they love me and inviting me places, thank you for everything!
I come from a more self inquiry/philosophical/spiritual type of making sense of reality and I must say that a big game changer I stumbled on from thinking/contemplating was realizing that giving yourself permission is a milestone, you don’t need it from anyone else, the more I thought about about it, the more it made sense, don’t look to others for permission to be what you are or how the universe expresses itself through you, allow it to be. Of course it’s also wise to be aware of the social consensus, don’t get yourself into unnecessary trouble.
That was a great training session. Kudos to the guy who put himself out there. Takes guts.
This is my second time watching this & the first time I didn’t fully understand what you meant and hearing It in person is probably a lot at once. Now I completely understand what you were saying. I hope he watched this video back and got a new understanding.
julien is still the goat! I still find it so difficult when i meet new people to really bring the vibe or create it and turn them on like you said with that fun, carefree passion.. or not really know how then exactly to bring it . Many times i feel like it's my asperger that makes it more difficult it seems because yeah i get attention but they don't feel it or not feel that connection with me
What if you didn't believe the labels others have plan ed on you such as Aspergers? Who would Mr Jasper be?
This video may be over a year old, but this is such a great lesson to learn for going out on dates! You want it to be enjoyable, you want to have fun. You want to see your partner smile, and laugh, and crack jokes! That's creative, cracking up some jokes is creative and courageous!
Best content on YT mho. Thank you guys for sheering that knowledge for free.
I’m the nervous guy every time, like dude I want to dig a hole and disappear.
He nailed it at the end. Loosening up. Being a little more mentally agile and creative. It's fun!
I work with children and with them, I can be like Julien is with the crowd. But as soon as there's another adult in the room, I become frozen like the quy here. I have decided to start being less serious even with other adults around. A bit by bit. Life is much more fun when you don't take yourself so seriously.
wow is guy is genuine first time on youtube i’ve seen it. he’s actually trying to help people and is not some bs scam artist
experiencing this in person was a game changer your tips on law of state transference was needed, the part of do it to yourself opened my mind on it
Nice! Thanks for making it out to this event in person! 🔥🔥🔥
this was so awesome to watch and learned so much from it, w/e u feel they feel.
This isss brilliant! #1 takeaway is embodying the emotions yourself and doing it for YOU
Great takeaway! 🔥
I appreciate that he allows the man to embody his charismatic choice without ridiculing him. Letting him feel safe so he can develop.
Julien your content gets better and better everytime I watch! Keep up the great work🔥💯
Thank you! 🔥👊
These videos highlight the effectiveness of environment that supports a positive relationship with failure and attempts.
Our current punishment based system is outdated, we have new data.
We must work together to ensure everyone in our community is fed housed and educated because this is what is necessary to build anything meaningful long term.
May God bless u julien, u have helped me a lot.
I believe you are god send. You are answering many quests in every human being on this planet.
If I could add a fourth tip, it would be go out more with people you are comfortable around. Creativity, that loose spark requires being comfortable and it gets disconnected when worrying about how you are being perceived. So this is to tie into tip 2 he gave really, doing it for yourself and not to impress others. But best to practise in public with people you feel relaxed around, then start inviting strangers to your table or whatever to expand. Otherwise the mind kind of panics and goes blank under the pressure.. That's what's worked for me anyway. That and deliberately doing a silly body shake to loosen up a bit helps. Love your work!
Julien!! You are not only an elite speaker 🔇 but also an elite actor who knows human psychology with the essence of social skills 🤩💕🌹
Thank you! Glad this resonates! 🙏
Julien- how would you act around billionaires?
@@jasoncheshire6153 act like you don't give a shit about them being rich, and they glide into your frame if reality
Respect to this guy. Probably did better than I would have, considering the pressure
Best vidio ever on youtube that gives me direction to leave apart from anything else...
Hats of to you man..
Thank you! Glad this was so helpful!
Would a room full of Juliens get along, or would they all kind of hate each other? Of course I want more of his confidence, but it's just something to think about.
I think alot of child hood trauma still affects people today in ways they don't know until you watch Julien's videos. And getting a partner for a one night stand both for males or females only temporary solves the problem.
At least its a step in the right direction
20:50, this is one of the things I wanna talk about - might not help a lot of people. But it might help someone. Starting to get loud is hard, because you’re afraid of how people might respond. I have a tick, I meow. This used to be sometimes randomly, and sometimes when I did not know how to respond to a question of other people. When you find out when people don’t find it off-putting, it makes it easier every time to do so in public. They still might find it weird, yeah, but weird leaves an impression, and that is what open and loud people do - they leave an impression, rememberable. Having this tick helped me show slowly, it is not that scary.
I use it as an entertainment piece for people, nowadays (tick’s still there), but I throw it in cautiously. Job interviews, dates, friends (obviously) and trying to get the right timings for comedic effect makes people laugh that much more.
If you have made it this far down my comment, this is my advice, create a tick if you have non ( that you know of ;-) ), a short sound, parrot, dog, cat, small chirp, water droplet. Start when you’re alone at home, practice (I’m slight tic sensitive, so when I do stuff repeatedly at home - it will get out eventually).
If you already have something you do alone, make it known to your friends, not telling, doing it.
Sometime later you’ll start in public accidentally, and realize some people find it weird, some people find it funny, and it was not scary at all. It is such an easy way to get it started - you may take all the time you want, and you literally can’t do anything wrong. As soon as people discover it, you even have something to start talking about (I used to bark, not sure why, but somewhere during SpongeBob, Garry converted me I guess).
Nowadays, I love to make people uncomfortable in public, this sounds harsh, but you know what. With a good heart and the right intentions, they will love you for it.
People don't bite, not in my experience. Start small, grow to be your true inner self. Leave an impression and people will love you for it.
Weird people are fun ❣ and Julien, I've watched now many of your videos; I like pushing people, especially if they are stuck, human psychology is very interesting - but the occasions are rare that I realize at the moment that I should do something or what they are saying ( back to the talk I want to get into ;-) ). It's so clear with 9/10 people in the videos you know exactly which buttons to press at which moment - I admire your skill, thank you for being out there. I really mean that. I need to get some water again...
I'm proud of him! My man finally started to play. And play is UNIVERSAL.
At "I'm getting there" I fucking laughed myself to tears. It's been awhile since I have had a laughed myself to tears That dude is awesome. I'm gonna try to work on that stuff too. Thanks
I could see he is trying hard and did not give up! He keeps working he is ACTUALLY gonna get there! At the end when John said "...with lube" I bursted out in laughter. This guy is phenomenal, just needs to unlock his potential!
This reminds me of an experience I once had. So I used to do racing and went to a mental training coach to learn some techniques once. When he taught me visualization, he told me to imagine being on the starting grid. I had to imagine my position, my rivals, the weather, who was there, the smells, the touch of the steering wheel on my hand and the tension of waiting for the green light. It was like I was there, and I could feel my pulse go up amd I was ready to race while sitting in a chair in an office haha.
It's not easy to go up on stage like this, so props to the guy for doing it and trying. I think it would be better if the guy asked him how it would feel to win a race, making him imagine what that is like on his own, rather than tell him to feel like he won a race.
Which leads us to the idea I got and to the reason I am writing this comment:
You can not tell someone how to feel, you have to wiggle/tickle it out of them. The feeling is already there, it just needs to be released
WAO THIS IS LITRALLY SOME GENIUNE STUFF LOTS OF LOVE
Thanks for doing it man, love seeing the real you!!
Hey Julien love from India 🇮🇳 you are doing great service to humanity ❤
I don't care about good time. I am not stand up comedian nor clown. If happens it happens. You can't imagine how much energy it drains for introvert trying to be extrovert, socially. Even I don't know sometimes until I get home.
That's sad lol
thank u to the gentleman that participated. good lecture
When you mentioned his brother and did the gesture with the gun, he got so scared and panicked inside because he imagine the scene in his head, so the next words and action that he does it’s all to prevent Julian from pulling the trigger. From that point till the end he thinking about the scene and the gun and how he can prevent the shooting.
I love you Julien glad I found u again man
yeah dude i imagine putting a pressure to be happy in the moment isnt helping the shorty too much
I mean, one of the reasons why he may have little confidence is because of comments like "shorty." He's short, true. But if you only see someone for their height, weight, etc, it's you who is superficial.
@@user-md7uc5tx6b yeah dude coz tip-toeing around obvious traits is such a great confidence builder...
Big brother, a lot of respect and love for you ❤️, i have learnt a lot of things whivh i was doing wrong.... I learnt big bro , thank you ❤️🔥
This was really amazing 👏
loved it....great
Damn I really need this a lot. Been struggling with it without understanding why
I love this guy❤️
3:32 Sean Stephenson (RIP) had this simple yet brilliant insight about the best intention/mindset to have:
"Go out to have a good time with people."
Hatts of to the guy , he managed it good.⚡
Cool guy, he did his best and did better when he lasted role-played with Julien. Cheers!
I love the video! I sympathized whit the guy cuz I'm like him ( so much to learn!) But he nail it with "I'm getting there" 😂 good job!
Julien i literally cant youre crazy i love it
This is actually so helpful!
I really liked the guy and his courage
good insights, I feel though some people need to first overcome anxiety disorder before learning these things tho, one step at a time you can get to confidence
He did good!!!
I feel this guys pain man. If I could guess he’s probably an engineer or someone with a math/science background because that fierce trouble to come up with other ways to approach social situations is what I refer to as “math brain” in myself.
I’m curious if anyone else who has similar problems as this guy is/was also in a math/science field?
VERY COMMON! Check this video btw about breaking out of being "too logical" 👉 ruclips.net/video/AaiVQmYuO3o/видео.html
Too much left brain. Balance hemosphires
Probably make brain or aspergers which is a form of autisn
This is actually eye opening.
Thank you that was so interesting and useful for me . ❤
I like your videos, really helping me out
These guys need to go out and live life.
I was bound up like this until I started doing juijitsu and sky diving.
That can be part of it, yes... But INNER WORK + LETTING GO is what will product that permanent change he's after!
@@wonderingobserver2231 Yeah , I think inner work and this content prepares you for that, at last all of this will make sense once you get a life, not many will jump to that easely.
Something you also gotta consider..Julien is the star of the show, he’s the one on the spotlight. So when he pulls up these people they are obviously going to be less “carefree” than he is. It’s like doing an open mic in standup comedy. Afterwards your always more “in state” than you were before. Only thing I would recommend elaborating on is..explaining more on how you get to that point. Like the exercise was a good example.
That is true, however this dynamic actually makes these exercises even more valuable! Like adding extra weight at the gym… 🔥👊
Thank you
Love yourself, be the person you are when nobody’s around.
Thanks to my anxious chatter I definitely am that in group situations. I hate when there’s awkward silence but it seems like I’m always the only one willing to break it
Could someone please expand on the third takeaway point “use your whole instrument”. I think julien is referring to express yourself even with your body, but he didn’t mention this prior to the takeaway point.
My life is truly trash, but seeing people like him on shows like this, makes me feel like a human.
Omg can't stop laughing XD
Putting in the Work on Emotional Skills is so important!
Wowww mind explosioon
I thankfully don't have this guys issue, but It's certainly interesting reading his body language, mannerisms, micro expressions, and tone of voice.
I have a question.
If I am generating in myself let's say the feeling of fun.
And I feel that the other person is generating let's say a feeling of bordom.
What feeling wins?
In other words who will transfer his emotion on the ohter?
The one who feels his emotion stronger?
I've had that happen multiple times that I let a negative emotion trump my positive.
How would I get stronger to win this "battle"?
Or how can I defend from other emotions taking me over.
Perfect example:
Interviewer turning my positivity into some form of fear.